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I Was The Victim Of A Bridezilla

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    Bridesmaid To Ellie

    When I was in college I became very close friends with Ellie, who I am still good friends with to this day. Our friendship isn't as strong anymore... because of how she acted during her wedding.The relationship she was in was not a good one from the beginning. She started dating...
    charbakes charbakes 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 12, 2013

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    I Survived A 7 Month Long Bridezilla Attack

    I recently experienced a horrific Bridezilla encounter and I am now in desperate need of a vacation to unwind from the abuse. I had just started a new job and didn’t know my “friend” very long before she asked me to be a Bridesmaid. Only 2 months to be exact. In a...
    survived7months survived7months 31-35 2 Responses Jul 31, 2012

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    The "gift" That Keeps On Giving

    Gee, guess who took the repast after my mothers funeral as an oportunity to distribute photos of and brag about her new baby.   Yep, the same cousin.   I can't even be the center of attention at my mothers funeral.     If I could get my hands around my cousins throat just...
    lovingone lovingone 36-40, F Jul 21, 2011

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    Even I can't believe this one.

    .. Ok I know I said I had resolved my issue with my bridezilla cousin but one word has brought me back here to do one more experience story on this subject... EBOLA! Yes, apparently a nurse who was treating the American ebola patient decided to get on a plane a couple of days...
    lovingone lovingone 36-40, F Oct 15

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    Who Invited Them ? (Part 2)

    (from my journal, June 2013) Back in 2003, I remember taking a look at my cousin's wedding ceremony venue on the day of the wedding. In my head I was remembering what I overheard someone say that my cousin said regarding her choice of venue as I looked at it. "She said...
    lovingone lovingone 36-40, F Aug 24, 2013

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    Asking People To Be In Your Wedding To Make Amends To Them

    Look brides I hate to break it to you but your wedding is NOT the biggest deal ever.   If you think you are bestowing the biggest honor on someone to have them join your wedding party (especially late) as a way of making amends for something you did.... stop just stop...
    lovingone lovingone 36-40, F May 14, 2010

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    A Truce When I started this experience project

    I tried to stress the theory that bridezilla's needed to be aware that it's not cool to treat family and friends badly because marriages don't always work out. But the truth is, I never really believed in that kind of scenario concerning my run in's with hurtful people...
    lovingone lovingone 36-40, F Jul 4

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    My 1st Experience As A Bridesmaid Was Less Then Joyful

    I was psyched to be a bridesmaid for my cousin's marriage, but it turned out to be a pain in the backside. I was never close to my cousin, so I didn't really expect her to really share anything and that was the case. She picked out shoes (******** heel shoes). I went along and...
    Russianclomooogirl Russianclomooogirl 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 12, 2013

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    Who Invited Them? (Part 1)

    ( from my journal, June 2013) Would you believe that in a few days it will be 10 years since my cousin's dreaded wedding? And where did I find myself today? Downtown, near the harbor, practically across the street from where my cousin got married. I honestly...
    lovingone lovingone 36-40, F Aug 23, 2013

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    The Linch Pin

    I was a few days late in finding out about this really odd story, and a few weeks late in finally having the time to read about it on the internet.    A female doctor in her late 40's from California sufficated to death after being traped in her boyfriend's chimney...
    lovingone lovingone 36-40, F Feb 11, 2011

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    My Bridezilla= Classless Trash!

    I was the Maid of Honor and husband was best man for his cousins wedding. Now the bride was my closest friend who had always been a sweet giving person who had stood with me in my wedding as a bridesmaid. She went out of her way to make sure my wedding was amazing. So I was...
    Lele27 Lele27 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 12, 2013

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    The Power Of An Apology

    I'd like to take a break from the usual stories in this experieince, but definatly not from the heart of it's subject to honor someone who deserves it. This week national headlines were made when MLB umpire Jim Joyce's blown call cost Detroit Tigers pitcher Armando...
    lovingone lovingone 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 4, 2010

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    Maid Of Honor For The “not Bride” At Her “not Wedding”

    Fun title isn’t it? Ok, for this story, I need to jump back to Christmas Eve 2011 when my then-boyfriend proposed to me. Of course, I’m up at 6 am the next morning calling people with the good news. One of those phone calls was to one of my only female friends. Even...
    Natesbabydoll Natesbabydoll 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 14, 2012

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    The Bridesmaids' Dresses Only Come In Junior Sizes

    Simply put, I am supposed to be in a vow renewal ceremony in June. The ‘bride’ finally decided on the bridesmaids dresses. At first glance, it’s very pretty. My only problem at first was that it was twice the cost of the one she had to purchase for my actual wedding and...
    Natesbabydoll Natesbabydoll 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 16, 2013

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    Medieval Beast-bride

    A girl I had been friends with since grade school asked me to be her MOH. Her behavior started spiraling downward as soon as she met her husband to be. We had a serious argument over how she was treating me and her rude behavior toward my boyfriend. At her shower she blew off my...
    keyt keyt 31-35 2 Responses Jun 24, 2013

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    Who Invited Them ? (Part 3)

    ( from my journal, June 2013) I can't believe it took me 10 years to comeback out to the harbor, and it's all because of a coupon. Yes, a coupon for the aquarium I got from my doctor's office of all places. I had gone there for a check up recently. Why he had them I do...
    lovingone lovingone 36-40, F Aug 25, 2013

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    I Was The Victim Of A Bridezilla

    And when I make this statement I 'm not talking about temper tantrums and tiaras or declarations of "it's my day!".   Would it suprise you if I told you that the "blushing bride" was 41 at the time of the wedding?  Would it suprise you if I told you the bride was...
    lovingone lovingone 36-40, F 4 Responses May 5, 2010

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    Who Invited Them ? (Part 4)

    (from my journal, June 2013) When I poked my head out of the tent as the wedding was underway I looked behind me and straight up towards the hotel itself. To my surprise there were 3-4 people looking out of various windows on various floors of the hotel. Waving and...
    lovingone lovingone 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 26, 2013

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    Fake Prices

    Bridezilla S.A, have prices of dresses on their website, then turn and quote one higher prices...! They do not even have it explained on their website, terms and conditions....!
    Dee28 Dee28 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 11, 2013

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    What I Love/Hate About Weddings

    The other day I was talking with a friend and somehow the conversation evolved into one about the things we love and hate about weddings. We laughed so hard we ended up rolling on the floor and in tears! But it gave me the idea to start a "sub" experience under my bridezilla...
    lovingone lovingone 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 6, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I am a 41 year old male whom has been a victim of emotional abuse to a sometimes extreme and severe level for almost 23 years with the slow but effective transition up until today...
    emotionally114 emotionally114 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 10

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    I hate this. I hope I get completely over his dumbass soon. I wish I could speed up the healling process. I hope he can read this to see whatta jacckass he really is.. he...
    amtired amtired 22-25 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I searched everywhere online to find a place to vent my story. I hope I finally found it. I am a victim of domestic violence. I wish I could could replace the word "victim" with...
    imsolost14 imsolost14 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 8

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    I've probably said this to 20 people on here. But its worth repeating: The source of all unhappiness is having expectation. Expectations exist solely in your mind. They are a...
    hmmhmmhmm hmmhmmhmm 26-30 4 days ago

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    It is an awful thing to see on the outside a child that has been abused. The problem is that there are so many varying degrees of abuse and dysfunctional families especially from...
    teekitten teekitten 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    With my being in love with a loser has caused a lot of agony. Being cheated on over and over. Being told that he didn't like what I had on and that I was crazy. Yea i was damn...
    SentimentalMood SentimentalMood 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 12

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    I have no idea why this says I was a victim but this is the closest I could find. I still live with my ex husband we just live in different sections of the house. My biggest...
    VBLOVE1106 VBLOVE1106 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 12

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    Hell no. I never been a victim. But if a guy wants to hurt and touches me. He is getting slapped.
    RebeccaMontero RebeccaMontero 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 7

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    I'm like a sore thumb in my family. I stick out, I don't belong and I definitely didn't feel welcome when I used to live with them.. I was the child that was nagged and pushed...
    christismyguide christismyguide 22-25, F 7 Responses Oct 25

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    Here is my experience.. still experiencing.. My 21 year old daughter met a man on Christian Mingle. 2 weeks later she was asking us to meet him and gave some details about him that...
    mrdesoto918 mrdesoto918 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 30

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    It Haunts Me Still The thing I remember most about Jr. High is feeling so alone. I was a smallish guy. Smart, too. Never a good combination. I wasn't fat, but I was no athlete...
    JesseLeeJames JesseLeeJames 46-50, M Nov 10

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    8th post. I almost decided yesterday not to continue my story, and then I thought it would not be fair to myself. It just seems a huge task, and then my mind started playing those...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    Have any of your stories on EP ever been plagiarized? It’s happened to me, believe it or not. In my case, it was one of my earliest stories, which I deleted from my account a...
    Rutterman Rutterman 36-40, M 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am having a difficult time deciding if my situation is as serious as everyone tells me it is. I keep going back and forth, almost on a daily basis. I've been with my husband for...
    htb1025 htb1025 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    So basically, when I got pregnant for my boyfriend, yes I was young. We were stupid, but we were in love. When we told his mother, she flipped out and started asking for a DNA test...
    SincerelyRae SincerelyRae 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I was molested by a women repeatedly . I am confused. My body was exploited and the ******* was intense. I feel ashamed that I like her rubbing me between my legs??
    thesecrettearkeeper thesecrettearkeeper 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 25

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    And it was awful. My ex wife used to go crazy when she had pmt. she would cause and create all manner of situations that would have me cowering in a corner or doing anything to...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Nov 7

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    I wonder if I will ever forget him. I'm sure the answer is no. It's unfortunate but it's how it is. I wonder if he ever thinks of me and if so what he thinks. I want to know how...
    Jeradactyl Jeradactyl 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 10

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    My childhood was dysfunctional, a fact I didn't really figure out until I was about 15. Since then, I can't say my life has improved much. I went away for college but immediately...
    ediskrad ediskrad 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 13

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    I won a judge, several teachers, multiple officials, and an uncountable amount of peers. I feel horrible about it, now. After it was glorified by a therapist, guidance counselor...
    marilynandcupcakes marilynandcupcakes 13-15, F Nov 14

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    I was the only kid in a wheelchair that I knew growing up and I was bullied all through school. I had all the verbal abuse. But I also was put in my chair on a picnic table so I...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M Nov 16

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    the guy who was my first kiss, ended up raping me because i refused to have sex with him. he said that he accepted that i believe sex is for marriage but apparently not :/ it...
    chevonsmith chevonsmith 18-21, F 8 Responses 5 days ago

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    Just got back from a three day biz trip. W was at the computer as usual "working" on her gym's marketing that she is so utterly devoted to. She managed a low "hi" without turning...
    deepbreathneeded deepbreathneeded 36-40, M 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    I was molested at 11-12 I been having flashbacks of it I see one of the boys who molested me everyday I go to school I'm a victim of Getting molested When it happen I was afraid...
    Singing13 Singing13 13-15, F 5 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I grew up with a lot of abuse in general, and there are so many consequences that I had to work through in order to come out above the ‘programming’ of the mind, which often...
    phoenix66 phoenix66 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 24

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    "How was the day?" "Fine" "How are the girls?" "Fine" "Did they have a good day at school?" "Yep, normal Monday?" "Can you share anything interesting about their day?" "Not right...
    deepbreathneeded deepbreathneeded 36-40, M 3 Responses Oct 27

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    I been emotional abused by my mother since long ago.. It was a long story.. She been addicted to gambling since long ago.. I and 4 of my siblings were having problem to live...
    tarachoo tarachoo 26-30, F Oct 29

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    He says that he is stressed. So that gives him te right to treat and talk to me like I am a no good junk yard dog. Then he has the gall to send me an sms asking me what my problem...