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I Was Told I Was Fat

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    My friend and I went out to eat last night.

    I had ordered a large dinner and was ordering dessert, while my friend had ordered a smaller dinner and dessert. The older couple sitting next to us stared at me while I ate. My friend didn't finish his food, so I did for him. As we were eating dessert, I decided that I wanted...
    tRueInSAnItY tRueInSAnItY 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    boredandlonly boredandlonly 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 5, 2014

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    I'll Never Forget..

    My mom told me once a man would never want to be with me if I was fat.
    GreenBooks GreenBooks 26-30, F Aug 25, 2012

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    Since I Can Remember..

    Since i can remember my parents HAVE ALWAYS told me i was fat, i have never naver heard them say, you look good. they have been so focused on weight they made my sister go anorexic, now she isnt but she's still skinny. im just that fat ugly kid in the family... and im not even...
    UmbraEyes UmbraEyes 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 21, 2011

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    My Girlfriend Did!

    But it's all good! She loves me this way!
    CleveBHM CleveBHM 51-55, M 3 Responses Dec 10, 2010

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    I love being called names!

    I love being called fatty, chubby, porker, anything that symbolizes my weight. Some people see it as an insult, but I see it as honesty and playfulness.
    GrowingGirl98 GrowingGirl98 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    My boyfriend is thin.

    Although, now that I think about it he has gained a little weight too! He now has a little pudgy belly that you can pinch. But I don't say anything about it! Last night was a first for me. My boyfriend pointed out my weight gain. I thought it was a one time thing, but then he...
    AprilShowersCatherine AprilShowersCatherine 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 29, 2014

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    Eh.

    Too fat, too skinny, just right. I've heard all three while I was the same weight. Most recently, I overheard a guy asking his friend, "How hot is she? Is she fat? Is she as fat as kleisse?" I dunno. Sometimes it doesn't bother me, sometimes it does...
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 10 Responses Feb 2, 2009

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    Even Though I Wasn't

    When I was a size 5 I was called fat told I was too big. Same thing when I was a size 7 even though I had 26" waist. This had a negative effect on my mind emotions and self image. All of these people were males.
    GoldMishra GoldMishra 22-25, F Jul 9, 2012

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    It Did Happened

    we live in a world where the overweighted people get hurt a lot , personly I was told I was fat by a guy few month ago , and what hurts me the most is that I was really nice to him, I  didn't do anything for him to treat with that way, what's wrong with teenagers these days...
    annabella91 annabella91 16-17, F 7 Responses Jun 21, 2009

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    Wierd Gym Coach

    i am a gymnast, and i was trialing for the mixed pairs acro state champion ship. Me and my partner, Ben, finished our routine and awaiting our comments and results. the lady came out and said: "nope, sorry, you are simply too large amy. look around you, all the other girls...
    amz10101 amz10101 16-17, F 8 Responses Jan 26, 2009

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    He Was Wrong

    I fit nicely into a size 3 jeans at the time. I measured 42-22-35.5 and worked out 2 hours a day, 6 days a week, I was 14 at the time. Then this boy at school said I was fat and floppy so I started being bulimic when I did eat, but I only ate once every couple days and then I...
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F 12 Responses Jul 30, 2011

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    That's An Obvious Statement.

    I've probably been called fat over a thousand times in my life, but I never really gave a damn, even when I was a kid. I'm fine with my current size, even if I am bigger than some people. However, I don't see why other people get so upset by being called fat. It seems like these...
    delirium delirium 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 11, 2010

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    I Am Fat

    I am 13 and i weigh 378 pounds and its somtimes embarasing but i like who i am and i love my belly! I broke a chair at school and got teased alot.
    hummingstill hummingstill 13-15, T 3 Responses Sep 19, 2012

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    It Hurts.

    Being called fat hurts, it really does, especially when you realise that the person who has called you fat has also decided that you're lazy, ugly, and worthless. My Grandma has called me fat since I can remember, actually, until the last time I saw her, at which time she asked...
    TheBlimey TheBlimey 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 3, 2009

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    Yes I am

    People have been telling me that I am fat since I can remember. I dont hear it much as an adult, but as a child I heard it all the time mostly by kids at school, my dad a few times until he must have realized I didnt care, and of course doctors some have hinted at it while others...
    fatlvr fatlvr 36-40, M 3 Responses Feb 6, 2013

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    I’ve always put so much of my anger onto my dad and how he treated me, but sometimes I think that is misplaced. First, I don’t have a pity party for myself most of the time...
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    Well, I basically did! I had a family party to go to and last time I saw my family, I was told that I needed to get bigger. At 270 pounds then, and 275 pounds now, I am still...
    fatjigglebelly fatjigglebelly 18-21, F 1 Response May 6

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    KatieLynn13 KatieLynn13 18-21, F Apr 30

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    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 1 Response May 13

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    Extant1 Extant1 51-55, M 10 Responses 6 days ago

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    PLEASE STOP HATING THE PERSON THAT YOU ARE BECAUSE OF YOUR BODY WEIGHT.Body weight has many factors involved and sometimes it comes from illness. I got as heavy as 335 pounds on my...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M 3 days ago

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    Cadiaaya Cadiaaya 26-30, F 8 Responses Apr 29

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    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 1 day ago

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    PurpleRose95 PurpleRose95 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I was 11 when my friends and i got spanked. My friends and i were outside playing in the front yard my dad was sitting on the front porch reading a magazine. I went towards the...
    footballgal56 footballgal56 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Kellyfoster2000 Kellyfoster2000 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    My ex cheated on me with one of my friends. But I was told by his roommate that he ate her out while she was on her period. now I can't stop laughing.
    lauradowns lauradowns 16-17, F 1 Response May 12

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    As some of you don't know, I have an older cousin and she was crazy and violent. I know why she hated me so much that I think she wanted me dead. Because the family doesn't...
    FreakingLlamas FreakingLlamas 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I think I was 16 when it happened. I was tired, grabbed a bottle of unopened tylonel and told my parents goodnight while they were watching depressing **** on the news. I'm gay...
    jtm3343 jtm3343 22-25, M 21 hrs ago

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    i am really happy because there is a pill that disables fat related diseases so now everyone is getting fat and i am getting fat and i mean super fat. the new trend is if your...
    revross revross 16-17, M 8 hrs ago

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    Today I wore a tight shirt. It was great! It showed off my belly, moobs and when I sat my fat roll! Also it had stripes so it made me look really round and because off the size it...
    Fatty111WantsToBattle Fatty111WantsToBattle 13-15, M 5 hrs ago

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    My name is luke and I recently did a obstacle race.I was the by far the fattest one there and I made it last due to my slowness and unhealthyness.Also alot if people were staring...
    Lukeboy14 Lukeboy14 16-17, M 53 mins ago

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    Sent my piggy off to his mums for a few days... He didn't want to go as he always feels embarrassed and ashamed of the fat pig he is becoming. Even tho each comment made drives him...
    ownafatty2015 ownafatty2015 26-30, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I actually am fat though as you can see :P not all that tall so it gives me a round stomach and i hate it :(. I don't want to be fat though :P having moobs and stuff is awful xD...
    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M 8 hrs ago

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    TheXProblematique TheXProblematique 18-21, M 6 hrs ago

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