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I Was Told I Was Fat

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    My boyfriend is thin.

    Although, now that I think about it he has gained a little weight too! He now has a little pudgy belly that you can pinch. But I don't say anything about it! Last night was a first for me. My boyfriend pointed out my weight gain. I thought it was a one time thing, but then he...
    AprilShowersCatherine AprilShowersCatherine 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    I Am Fat

    I am 13 and i weigh 378 pounds and its somtimes embarasing but i like who i am and i love my belly! I broke a chair at school and got teased alot.
    hummingstill hummingstill 13-15, T 4 Responses Sep 19, 2012

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    Yes I am

    People have been telling me that I am fat since I can remember. I dont hear it much as an adult, but as a child I heard it all the time mostly by kids at school, my dad a few times until he must have realized I didnt care, and of course doctors some have hinted at it while others...
    fatlvr fatlvr 36-40, M 3 Responses Feb 6, 2013

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    boredandlonly boredandlonly 13-15, F 6 Responses Jul 5

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    That's An Obvious Statement.

    I've probably been called fat over a thousand times in my life, but I never really gave a damn, even when I was a kid. I'm fine with my current size, even if I am bigger than some people. However, I don't see why other people get so upset by being called fat. It seems like these...
    delirium delirium 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 11, 2010

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    It Did Happened

    we live in a world where the overweighted people get hurt a lot , personly I was told I was fat by a guy few month ago , and what hurts me the most is that I was really nice to him, I  didn't do anything for him to treat with that way, what's wrong with teenagers these days...
    annabella91 annabella91 16-17, F 8 Responses Jun 21, 2009

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    My Girlfriend Did!

    But it's all good! She loves me this way!
    CleveBHM CleveBHM 51-55, M 3 Responses Dec 10, 2010

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    He Was Wrong

    I fit nicely into a size 3 jeans at the time. I measured 42-22-35.5 and worked out 2 hours a day, 6 days a week, I was 14 at the time. Then this boy at school said I was fat and floppy so I started being bulimic when I did eat, but I only ate once every couple days and then I...
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F 12 Responses Jul 30, 2011

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    Even Though I Wasn't

    When I was a size 5 I was called fat told I was too big. Same thing when I was a size 7 even though I had 26" waist. This had a negative effect on my mind emotions and self image. All of these people were males.
    GoldMishra GoldMishra 22-25, F Jul 9, 2012

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    Since I Can Remember..

    Since i can remember my parents HAVE ALWAYS told me i was fat, i have never naver heard them say, you look good. they have been so focused on weight they made my sister go anorexic, now she isnt but she's still skinny. im just that fat ugly kid in the family... and im not even...
    UmbraEyes UmbraEyes 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 21, 2011

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    Eh.

    Too fat, too skinny, just right. I've heard all three while I was the same weight. Most recently, I overheard a guy asking his friend, "How hot is she? Is she fat? Is she as fat as kleisse?" I dunno. Sometimes it doesn't bother me, sometimes it does...
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F 10 Responses Feb 2, 2009

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    Wierd Gym Coach

    i am a gymnast, and i was trialing for the mixed pairs acro state champion ship. Me and my partner, Ben, finished our routine and awaiting our comments and results. the lady came out and said: "nope, sorry, you are simply too large amy. look around you, all the other girls...
    amz10101 amz10101 16-17, F 7 Responses Jan 26, 2009

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    I'll Never Forget..

    My mom told me once a man would never want to be with me if I was fat.
    GreenBooks GreenBooks 26-30, F Aug 25, 2012

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    It Hurts.

    Being called fat hurts, it really does, especially when you realise that the person who has called you fat has also decided that you're lazy, ugly, and worthless. My Grandma has called me fat since I can remember, actually, until the last time I saw her, at which time she asked...
    TheBlimey TheBlimey 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 3, 2009

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