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I Was Used By a Guy

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    I Should Have Known Better.....from STRAY DOGS & REAL MEN

    Okay so its been awhile since my last relationship and this whole dating thing is new to me again.  I had recently relocated to Hawaii to start a new a life over.  Finally, I was settled in with a job & a new apartment all that was lacking was some new friends and...
    chamoritta03 chamoritta03 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 6, 2008

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    Used Me For Love & Finances

    I was doing fine- 21 year old college student, taking 21 hours, making good grades, supportive friends, great family background. But I had a weakness- helping...wearing my heart on my sleeve. I have so much compassion until I guess that makes me a fool. Anyways, a friend told me...
    nvogue nvogue 22-25 5 Responses Apr 24, 2012

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    I Was Used For Pics And Vids

    So, I met this guy online, and he was the sweetest thing. He made me feel special and beautiful. I would tell him how I don't see myself as any of these and he would just tell me I was wrong and describe how beautiful I was.  A long time went by and we were always talking to...
    lexer705 lexer705 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 4, 2010

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    For The Next Time That I Miss Him....

    Just talked to my ex again. You know, when you don't talk to your ex for a while, and you still love him/her, it's easy to glorify them, to think of the good times, to wonder how it might be if you two started all over again, but did it right this time. Well he got a cell phone...
    VfangzV VfangzV 18-21, F Oct 4, 2012

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    First guy: I filled a void you were lacking

    but you were never over your ex. I could see that but the only one that couldn't was you. You constantly bringing her up was hurting me but you only worried about yourself. I thought you were my friend and now we don't even know each other which is for the best. Second guy...
    cklein245 cklein245 26-30, F Apr 24

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    The Result Of Loyalty

    When I was 16 I met this wonderful guy, he was everything I wanted in a man. We went to the sophmore dance together, kissed and held hands. Oh it was magical! I liked him for 2 years and I never felt the same way about another guy since... Well, he disappeared and for 3 years I...
    Moofey Moofey 18-21 3 Responses Mar 2, 2011

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    Not Even An Explanation

    I don't know... About 5 months into the relationship, we became more intimate. Then all of a sudden he was literally begging for it. All he would do, whenever I came to his house, was to ask for sex. We'd always end up in his bed somehow and he'd just beg me for it, over and over...
    fallDownFallDown fallDownFallDown 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2013

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    Even to this day whether it's people from my

    school I guys I meet online they all find a way to use me and I end up hurt in the end and i kno it won't stop
    JadenLangVageta JadenLangVageta 13-15, F 6 Responses Jul 3

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    Used Once And Then I Went Back..

    I was set up with the "nice guy" by some mutual friends.  Everything was great in the beginning.  He wasnt my type when it came to his physical appearance but he had everything else.  A career, his house, he was smart, funny, great with kids.  We had a lot in common too, not...
    redlipstick13 redlipstick13 22-25 3 Responses Aug 24, 2011

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    I was at competition in disney.

    I was hanging out in one of my male teamates room. We were talking and then everything became silent. He told me to get on the bed. I liked him but I was so innocent and clean. He told me to kiss him and I said I know you don't like me. He claimed he did. I was on top of him. I...
    jessicakingg jessicakingg 13-15, F 2 Responses May 10

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    What Shouldn't Have Been ): <3

    It all started when I met my best friend who lived across the street from me about 6 years ago when I was 12 years old I met my best friends brother who was 13 at the time he was always messing with me in little ways that I hardly noticed until one day he took me to a room and...
    Yalex Yalex 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 25, 2012

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    Let me start by saying

    that you should read my other post on my entire experience with the man who broke my heart. I just do not understand how a person can claim to be so western, having received his masters degree here in the states, emphatically state that he and his family are not into arranged...
    ilovetravel ilovetravel 31-35 May 11

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    I am who I am because I was used by a guy when I was just 14 years old, and he was 21. Because he pressured me into sending him pictures, it makes it easier to do things I am not supposed to do. IDGAF I have been there done that. IDC!

    Pissed at the world was what I was. My parents sent to my room for the billionth time - not wanting to hear my voice, or see my face. I wouldn't blame them I guess. I was confused, and angry. I found the smallest flaw in everything. I pressed my hand against the door, and my...
    NotTheAmericanAveragexx NotTheAmericanAveragexx 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    Maybe I'M Wrong

    Months ago, in June, I met a guy and we talked. We both had bf/gf but we were both unhappy in our relationships. We talked for about a month and we decided that we could breakup with our bf/gf and start dating each other. At first it was a great relationship, we went on a...
    AliceMontgomery AliceMontgomery 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8, 2013

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    I Let Him

    When I was a mere 14 year old, my outgoing cousin convinced me to sneak out of the house and go to a party with her. She had even arranged for someone to pick us up. Eventually, I agreed. A random guy that she met at Walmart came to pick us up. He had a friend with him. All 4 of...
    silencedsilver silencedsilver 22-25, F 9 Responses Feb 9, 2008

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    Dear Me I Was A Fool

    a sucker as they say... I have been used by guys in a number of ways... they have been friends and then they have made it sound to others as if they were in love with me and I broke their hearts and they never were in love with me at all, they used it as an excuse... because if...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 12, 2011

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    Beware

    I dont understand why someone would claim to be in love with an individual if their really not. I was with this guy that I thought cared about me but he doesnt I dont believe he ever did. Just wanted sex and once he got what he wanted he just completely left me in the cold. I...
    traceyobi37 traceyobi37 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 26, 2012

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    I Thought He Loved Me...

    I've had issues with wrestlers in the past, well, just one, but this would be the second wrestler who used me... He's a year younger than me, and I met him through some friends and I thought he was cute, funny, strong and nice. It turns out we both had a Facebook so he friended...
    rockchick1681 rockchick1681 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 26, 2012

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    How To Get Over Being Used By A Married Man?

    I am deeply hurt. I am a beautiful woman, with good job, good income, good friends, and lots of admirers. Everything seems good until I changed my job and met my new supervisor. He's married,16 yrs older than me. He bombarded me with emails, sweet lies, and fake promises. On my...
    Sadlady30 Sadlady30 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    So many times. Last year,

    when I was 14, I was used for sex repeatedly. Then, in a different 'relationship', I was used for my 'image'. He showed me off and told me to 'dress emo'. Like wtf is 'dressing emo'? So basically, dressing a genre of music? Yeah, that makes sense. then recently I was used again...
    reversi reversi 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    Used And Then Replaced And Betrayed

    My story is kinda typical actually. I never had a boyfriend in my entire life. So naturally, I feel very lonely. I mean I have friends but they're not the same. Most of the time I long for the feeling of butterflies and excitement and love and happiness of having a lover. One day...
    Emina154 Emina154 18-21 3 Responses May 18, 2013

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    This Was Written 5 Days After It Happened. Sorry Its Kind Of Long. I Needed To Let It Out..

    Ever since the beginning of this school year, I started liking this guy. We talked a lot. He was so sweet to me. I've heard lots of things about him. Girls said he was a player. I didn't believe it.One day, he finally invited me over to his house. When we got there, we held hands...
    Angela9955 Angela9955 13-15 3 Responses May 13, 2012

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    Ah, Love!

    Our story begins with a poor but smart, beautiful young girl of 23, engaged to be married to an older multimillionaire in 3 months time. She's on vacation in Nova Scotia when she's approached by a very attractive, roguish young Marine who professes true love after three...
    sitheag sitheag 36-40 2 Responses Jun 17, 2012

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    I Was Lonely

    I used to think I deserved nothing, no respect, and I took what I got. I just now noticed guys want nothing more from me than sex and I was sick of watching other girls being loved while i'm not.. No guys wanted a relationship. I used to give it up, as much as...
    FakeAyLoveSong FakeAyLoveSong 16-17 4 Responses Aug 28, 2009

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    I Need to Heal This Pain

    the only saving grace in this is that it could have been so much worse i suppose. but i really need to deal with it so i can move on without all these haunting regrets and feelings of stupidity that i believed him. because i believed what he said i sold my house and spent a lot...
    fremantle fremantle 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 21, 2007

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    I Was Used For Sex For 2 Years

    I started dating this guy, told me he was free, we used to work together. he convinced me to leave my job in order to work with him on a new project, started living together in his friend's house for free...made me totally dependable, i couldnt go n find a job and he also coz he...
    dreamlovegirl dreamlovegirl 22-25 2 Responses May 23, 2011

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    During high school, boys would use me.

    They'd get close to me, and flirt, and become my friend. Only to find out that they wanted to date my best friend. I guess it's like that bad Paris Hilton film, I'm the ugly friend.
    Xeniabolton Xeniabolton 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 14

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    Too Good To Be True...because It"s A Lie

    I STARTED TALKING TO THIS MAN. I THOUGHT HE WAS A NICE GUY. HE CALLED ME ALL THE TIME..I TEXT HIM - HE TEXT ME BACK. NO MATTER WHAT...HE ANSWERED HIS PHONE. HE BEGGED ME NOT TO LEAVE OR HURT HE...HE TOLD ME I WAS BEAUTIFUL AND THAT I COMPLETED HIM...HE ACTED LIKE A COMPLETE...
    yougotlucky77 yougotlucky77 36-40 May 28, 2012

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    abused</3

    I WAS A NORMAL TEENAGER, HAPPY, OUTGOING GIRL, UNTIL..... ONE DAY I WAS IN NEED OF MONEY, I NEEDEDTHE MONEY SO BAD I WAS WILLING 2 DO ANYTHING, I SHOULD HAVE SET MY BOUNDARIES BUT I GOT CARRIED AWAY, I STARTED TALKING TO SOME GUY NAMED PETER, I TOLD HIM ABOUT MY MONEY SITUATION...
    mentallybruised mentallybruised 16-17 Sep 27, 2012

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    Used

    I was used by two different guys. They told me what I wanted to hear, made me believe we were something more. They made me believe I was the only one. I feel victim to their lies. I.... I was used for money, sex.... I feel stupid. I finally found the right guy, one I...
    cpetshks cpetshks 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 12, 2007

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    Made Me Believe In A Relationship For Nothing

    So i knew this guy years ago and I always felt something for him. When I met him 3 years ago I had a boyfriend and I couldn't stop thinking about him but because I respected my ex boyfriend I didn't persue that or had anything with him.Years later we met again and I was dating...
    ForeignPrincess ForeignPrincess 22-25 Jun 10, 2012

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    Used Then Tossed Aside

    I am 18 and never had a boyfriend or have done anything before. This boy from school acted like he liked me for months. Finally he asked me to hang out at his house. Eventually I ended up giving him a hand job after he kept asking for things from me. After that he never spoke to...
    lilfella8 lilfella8 18-21 2 Responses Jun 7, 2013

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    It was only a few weeks ago

    and the guy I got a crush on was coming on my bus for two days. He was sitting with me because he didn't want the kids to stare at him, then on the second day on the way home he wanted to sit on the inside so I let him. The next thing I knew was he has me pulled against him with...
    CodeGeassR2 CodeGeassR2 13-15, F 1 Response May 23

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    Too Good To Be True...because It"s A Lie

    I STARTED TALKING TO THIS MAN. I THOUGHT HE WAS A NICE GUY. HE CALLED ME ALL THE TIME..I TEXT HIM - HE TEXT ME BACK. NO MATTER WHAT...HE ANSWERED HIS PHONE. HE BEGGED ME NOT TO LEAVE OR HURT HE...HE TOLD ME I WAS BEAUTIFUL AND THAT I COMPLETED HIM...HE ACTED LIKE A COMPLETE...
    yougotlucky77 yougotlucky77 36-40 May 28, 2012

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    I Look Like The Girl He Loves

    I felt guilty for months. funny how the tables have turned and that I just learnt he was using me all along. a little competition even 18 year old boys like to play called 'how many fishies can you catch from the sea?'. I used to listen to Decoy by Paramore singing along to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 3, 2010

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    I've Just Found My Birth Father....and I'm Very Confused

    I found my birth father after 40 years of never having seen him...its been wonderful getting to know. him...hes a wonderful man...but I.feel all.these feelings that are confusing me
    rolivia25 rolivia25 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 29, 2012

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    My best friend sent me a text today asking

    if I was dating my now ex bf and I said yeah why and she said because he told me you two broke up a week ago and we've been dating and I'm still crying. Not becuz of him cheating on me but because it was my friend who's pretty,smart, and basically a model Aka everything I'm not...
    AyeItsGraceeee101 AyeItsGraceeee101 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    On the experience project the website

    or app that you are currently using I was chatting with the man no a boy .He was very sweet and we chatted for several weeks. I thought things are going pretty well so I decided to take it to the next level. By Next level I mean asking more personal questions like where you...
    SkullSweetHeart SkullSweetHeart 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 6

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    He Used Me To Get Over His Ex

    I knew who i thought was a really good guy. He acted so religous and saintly but it was just to get me to trust him. I did , despited hearing from others that he was a nasty freak. I thought people were just mean abt him because he always acted like a victtim. I have similar...
    blackbelle blackbelle 22-25 2 Responses Dec 6, 2011

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    Stop putting me on a shelf

    for when you decide you want me again 😭👎😞
    Imfearlessbae Imfearlessbae 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 9

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    Into The Wild

    I met him July of this past year. Everything happened super fast. The first thing he said to me when we met was "Pretty girl. Pretty pretty girl."I was taken aback. I had dated guys, but never a guy like this. He was beautiful. Older. And always up to something. Reading...
    Bunnielight Bunnielight 22-25, F 7 Responses Feb 6, 2011

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    Where Do I Go From Here?

    Before college, I was never the girl to throw myself into unknown territory. Never the one to jump first. Never the one to do anything I wasn't sure of. Before college, my relationships consisted of awkward IM conversations and making out in the dark. I was self-conscious, self...
    xcrunski44 xcrunski44 18-21 3 Responses Nov 18, 2012

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    I wasn't really used

    but he hurt my feelings. Today I told him I would give him another chance And I'm afraid of getting hurt again. I guess I just have to see what happens
    nallylovespizza nallylovespizza 13-15, F Feb 10

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    I'm not the type of girl

    who has sex with anyone outside of a relationship but I did. I met him on vacation and I was incredibly intoxicated to the point where I barely remember it, but it happened. He came back for more before we both went our separate ways back to our separate states, and he continued...
    tasharose tasharose 18-21, F Mar 23

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