I Was Used By Someone

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 377 People

    Taking Advantage

    Saying that someone used you is a strong statement and sometimes isn't taken as seriously as it is. When I was used, by the end of the relationship I literally felt drained of my energy and pride. She drove away any friends I had, giving me no choice but to talk to her. After the...
    ibstraange ibstraange
    18-21
    Nov 15, 2012

    Even though Im 19, most of my friends are

    either my age or much younger than me. In addition to that, most of my friends are female, even though I am male. after that quick set up here's my story. I met this girl about a year ago and she became one of my best friends within a few months. we talked constantly, hung out...
    ThunderST0RM1N ThunderST0RM1N
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jul 7, 2014

    But Hasn'T Been?

    I was used several times in the past few years. I think people tend to make me their band aid.  But it's not my job to fix you or your problems or make you feel better about your self or your situation. I can be a friend.  I want to be a good one.  But before I know it, I am...
    Ladybell Ladybell
    31-35, F
    Feb 4, 2013

    It happened over and over again .

    . it wasn't really anyone's fault but my own. It's a part of me to never say, No. The thing is I'm just afraid to loose people,but aren't we all to afraid to loose someone ? So what did I do that was so wrong... I never really admitted this to myself but it's been a few months...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 1, 2014

    My ex used me for car,

    room, and money. I haven't been able to trust many girls since then.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 10, 2015

    Accusation Of The Innocence

    This ain't really my experience but I hate it 'cause it hurts me a lot just hearing it. Why does people loves to manipulate the hearts' folly? Its always created by negative emotions like jealosy, no confidence, and stuff like that. I have a best friend in college and her name...
    askull23 askull23
    18-21, F
    Sep 6, 2013

    I Was Used

    I was used,Yes used,The lazy bastards,My last job,Wanted everything,Did nothin',Thank goodness,No more,I don't work there!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket
    46-50, M
    Dec 31, 2011

    Used & Wasted

    I was used once too many times! People uses us for all different reasons. They all have motives for doing it. They can pretend being on your side and it isn't the case.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    May 12, 2011

    My mom uses me as a weapon to destroy this

    family but here I am destroying myself so I won't destroy this family . When he strong wind come by I fall and when the sun light fill the place I still live in darkness. when the moon lights all the hidden unhides . After all the secrets I found out about my past and mom the...
    Silentsuffer Silentsuffer
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jun 18, 2014

    I really want to share my story

    but I am afraid. It is hard to talk about and already has token away from me friends and family and my dignity. I should have used my head and thought about things but I was intoxicated. I wish I could change it.
    onlyhuman1 onlyhuman1
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 22, 2015

    My First Girlfriend

    I was used in a lot of ways by her. I don't ever want to be around her again, but I don't really hold a grudge or anything. Basically, she was using me as a replacement father figure (her dad had separated and divorced from her mom not too long ago), and a placeholder, someone to...
    rowingineden rowingineden
    18-21, F
    Aug 22, 2010

    Hasn't Everyone

    At some point in our lives, hasn't everyone been used by someone.  There are all sorts of different reasons that we get used by different people.  Money, sex, emotionally, food (yes I know not one you would think about, but my nephew just comes over to eat at my house...
    yeaandso yeaandso
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Nov 11, 2010

    Prisoner Of My Room, Scarred For Life...

    Let me tell you a little bit more about me, since i'm not a western.. i'm a 30 year old girl from Egypt and i'm Muslim (a liberal one, not veiled). I met many guys in my life, they were very good guys and they were interested in me, but i hate to say that i was some sort of a...
    AgirlFromEgypt AgirlFromEgypt
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 21, 2012

    Funny because every time

    that someone is feeling sad, lonely or upset, they come at me. Then when they are feeling happy and loved again, they simply discard me like a piece of trash.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 8, 2015

    One of those moments

    where it seems too good to be true, only because it is, and then you look back and wonder how you could have been so dumb? Yeah one of those
    Matthew7211 Matthew7211
    16-17, M
    Mar 11, 2015

    Friend, My Behind!

    I met this girl C freshen year of high school. I didn't know anyone else, and she seemed nice. We hung out a lot, and we had a lot of fun. Then, she started fighting with her family and hanging out with people I didn't click with on the "cool activities" level. Her mom told...
    LadyMarie491 LadyMarie491
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 10, 2010

    You didn't really love me,

    you just used me to be your shield in your relationship...how dare you?!!! today is your time but tomorrow will be mine!!!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    8 Responses May 21, 2014

    Just got used once again.

    . Lol.. Thanks world.
    EnisLovesYou EnisLovesYou
    18-21, M
    1 Response Nov 12, 2014

    I was used by a girlfriend.

    I loved her and was given all the responsibilities of her boyfriend, but none of the privileges. Don't get me wrong, we had sex; but, to me, sex isn't a commodity. I mean, I was her chauffer, her cook, her mechanic, her plumber, etc - but she would never be seen with me in...
    4lornhope 4lornhope
    51-55, M
    Aug 28, 2015

    For My Ex!!!!!! F You..... With Love...

    Oh How 'bout a round of applause? Yeah Standin ovation Ohwoah Yeah Yeah yeah yeah yeah You look so dumb right now Standin' outside my house Tryin' to apologize You're so ugly when you cry Please Just cut it out Don't tell me you're sorry, Cause you're not, And baby when I know...
    mtvlm mtvlm
    41-45, M
    18 Responses Jul 8, 2010

    Used One Too Many Times

    I used to love to help people. People got to where they took advantage of me and expected me to do more and more for them. It hurts when they were not there for me when I needed them. I have been used one too many times. I am going to take some time to find my inner happiness.
    1woody 1woody
    41-45, M
    1 Response Sep 20, 2013

    Maybe it was finally time

    for me to have somebody to relate to, and it was great for about 2 months before I realized that it was just another selfish, heartless, unscrupulous person. Sorry I didn't give many details, if you actually want to find out what happened just message me and maybe I will.
    Matthew7211 Matthew7211
    16-17, M
    Feb 21, 2015

    When people are sad and lonely,

    they always come to me... they know that I'll always help them. But when they are feeling happy again, they always forget about me and erase me from their lives until they feel sad again. This is a vicious cycle that seems to not have an end, I just wanted to help someone and...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 7, 2015

    I started going to this academy in 2013 around

    September. I was in a relation and I was happy . I asked my teacher if I could come early one day and meet up with my boyfriend this happened in January 2014. He said okay he'll allow it. My teacher was really nice to me . That day I went early nobody was there he owned this...
    ashley132 ashley132
    18-21, F
    Feb 2, 2015

    They Used Me

    8th grade. I was only 13. The new kid in school. I had just moved halfway across the country. Left everything I knew behind. Lost somewhere strange and new. You'd think someone would've been nice to me. They weren't. I was ignored. Left out. Outcast. Mocked and laughed at. Used...
    lyingsmile15 lyingsmile15
    13-15, F
    Jul 24, 2012

    to love is a bond and trust

    and honesty make love more stronger understanding and not judging each other make our bonding stronger i am a loving man and im not gay im this soft hearted man that has been mentally abused in to this way. been married twice my first marriage i lost my Daughter in a cot death i...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 17, 2014

    I've been used by a few people.

    One person that stands out is an E-7 I worked for in the military. Totally promised me a supervisor position if I wrote a job qualification manual for the job I wanted—they didn't have one. I did it. Technically I was the only qualified supervisor because I wrote the manual...
    utahwriter utahwriter
    41-45, M
    May 22, 2014

    My girlfriend used me

    as an experiment to figure out her own sexuality, without letting me know. She said she just wanted to be friends and the next day told her friends she was straight.
    everythursday everythursday
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jun 8, 2015
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