I Wasnt Flirting I Was Being Friendly

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    Curse of the industry.

    I run a grande historic restaurant in a very prominent city in Texas. I'll keep details to myself for the sake of remaining anonymous. I love my job. It comes with fits of rage, tears in the bathroom, and total controlled chaos. My job is to keep the monster at bay. It's a rush...
    InsanelyMe08 InsanelyMe08
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 12, 2015

    I'm often friendly ..

    sometimes girls take it further and seem flirtatious with me ..which is fine :) ..if we have that kind of connection ..do we?
    MissNexp MissNexp
    31-35, F
    Feb 27, 2014

    Being Friendly Doesn't Mean I'm Flirting....

    I hate it when I'm just being friendly or polite and some guy sees it as an invitation to ask me out.  You don't even know me, you nothing about me.  I find it so hard to say no in a kind way, and usually end up making a fool of myself.  And why don't they just...
    CoracaoQuebrado CoracaoQuebrado
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 15, 2010

    I Am Addictive - Don't Waste Your Time On Me

      Don’t get me wrong I love to flirt and to have a good time but I draw the line in granite stone.  There is nothing beyond that with me.  I am not looking to replace my guy.  I also know from others that I am very addicting so I will warn you now...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    9 Responses Mar 16, 2010

    Okay, At Least It's Not Just Me!

    Scanning your stories has shown me that some of us are simply trusting enough in our friendliness to assume the recipient of our smile would just appreciate a smile and some friendly words and that could be that.  I don't think we are the ones at fault here!  Shouldn't...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 3, 2010

    As What The Title Suggests

    I know every person has a naughty side. I do too. I cannot flirt in person because I am afraid of any feedback that would endanger my vulnerability. True, I am just being friendly. I know when to draw the line and say the "off-limits".
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest
    36-40, F
    Apr 24, 2011

    I cant tell wether my boss is flirting with me

    or just being friendly. I've caught him checking me out, and he tells me i look hot/good/beautiful/sexy/gorgeous when he sees me. One time he even hugged me from behind and grabbed my waist. He calls me his girl/hottie and he says that he would marry me if he was younger. Im 19...
    princessxenawarrior princessxenawarrior
    18-21, F
    Apr 13, 2015

    Ive Been Accused Of Being A Flirt.

    Yes, I try to be friendly and smily to people of both sexes. I was talking to a sort of friend, someone who I now realised is a two faced fool. I have trouble with eye contact and try to maintain relatively good eye contact to show that I am listening to what they are saying...
    bubblegum84 bubblegum84
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 20, 2010

    I suck at flirting. I've never had any "game"

    whatsoever. It just doesn't click with my brain. And my social anxiety doesn't help. If I see anyone even remotely cute, I'll just stand there, gawk and not say a ******* word.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 29, 2014
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