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I Wasn't Flirting I Was Being Friendly

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    Does Anyone Know The Meaning Anymore?

    serously, are ppl that pathetic and lonely ,,, or take advantage of the situation,,,, no wonder ppl stop being so friendly altogether, too many other sick ppl cant take a lil curtousey, they hav to b greedy and take wat they can get from friendly ppl.
    thsone thsone 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 4, 2011

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    I Was Just Being Nice...

    Last year I found out that one of my guy friends had a crush on me. I really wasn't trying to be flirty. I talked with him, took his side in an argument with someone because he was right, said I kinda liked his favorite genre of music, and sat with him on the bus. I really was...
    caitiebug1119 caitiebug1119 22-25, F 8 Responses Mar 4, 2012

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    So I've been friends with this dude

    for 3years and we hang quite a bit. Mid last year he met this chick and they began to date, so now I see her all the time along with my friend. After a month of them dating I had noticed she started staring at me ALOT which was creepy at first and I didn't think anything of it...
    bzok92 bzok92 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 3, 2015

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    I like when girls think I'm flirting with them

    when I'm just talking to them. Once they make it obvious that they think I like them by making a face or saying something snotty it helps me know to stay away from them and their giant egos
    Pmaguire13 Pmaguire13 18-21, M Jun 21, 2014

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    Sick if being judged

    for trying to help people and be friendly. Why do people have to think that there's an ulterior motive to being friends with someone if offering to help ??
    heretohelp1976 heretohelp1976 36-40, M 3 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    Jeez, I am just being friendly.

    I am not flirting.
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2014

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    Me Too.. So Back Off.. Okay?

    I'm a friendly person. I dislike when people read me wrong. I got it all the time in real life. I sick of it.
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    And That's How I Am

    I decided to create this group cause I found another one pretty close to this one but it was the opposite lol plus I will like to make something clear, I'm not the type of flirty lady, I always like to give compliments to people, men, woman, kids, and say something good...
    OoLunaoO OoLunaoO 26-30 8 Responses May 23, 2010

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    Exactly

    This has happened to me so many times, mostly online. Just because I'm single doesn't mean that I'm desperate and will flirt my pants off or something to get into a relationship. This dude asks for my number online after like 3 days of talking to him. I'm like, ''Um, no, I don...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 4 Responses May 24, 2010

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    Flirting

    Flirting,Not I,Wouldn’t do such thingMe,I was tryin’,To be friendly! 
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 1 Response Jun 13, 2012

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    I'm Usually Pretty Clear

    I am very cautious with how much affection I show to guys. For the most part I am rather successful with keeping a professional distance from them. But I am also a friendly person that will use endearments in my speech at times. Such as hun,  this is not to be misconstrued as...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    I don't tend to be nice

    or friendly, to all the people I meet... Most of the time, I'm shy, reserved and distant from people I barely know.. But when I'm trying to be nice to someone or friendly with them... sometimes, when they are guys... they tend to think I'm flirting with them... First, I can't...
    LittleUnicorn LittleUnicorn 18-21 Nov 16, 2015

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    I Hate Those Certain People...

    I hate when your being nice to someone and all of a sudden their all over you. It's like what are you doing?! 'Your the one that was flirting with me!' No! It's called being nice to someone, if you don't know what that is then you need to be around nicer people.
    JinxSilver JinxSilver 18-21, F Apr 27, 2013

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    My Friend (20) Was Flirting With Me.

    This happened last year at a hotel during an event held every year. I was 16 years old and she was 19 years old. This is how it started. It first started by her asking me to go into a parking garage because she wanted to light a smoke. She didn't have any great friends because...
    AnonIndian AnonIndian 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 2, 2013

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    Ground...you May Open Now!

    I am on a hospitality team at my youth group and i noticed someone new there. i went up, introduced myself, shhok hands and told him if he was ever stuck for company he could come and hang out with us. a very wrong thing to say and he must have thought i was flirting. ground...
    grapes305 grapes305 13-15, F Oct 1, 2010

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    Not On Purpose.

    I deliberately avoid saying anything untoward, but I'm aware my politeness and general friendly nature can be misinterpreted. *sigh* Trust me, you would know if I was flirting with you, I don't leave room for any doubt...
    MGoods MGoods 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 9, 2013

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    So I was helping someone out this lady today

    and she was with her daughter! The mom starts asking me so many questions and began to flirt with me soooo much! I told her what I wanted to do in life and she was astonished (still wondering why)! She then starts slowly introducing me to her daughter but her daughter was very...
    Kevin444 Kevin444 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 2, 2014

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    I Want You To Get This Straight

    I consider myself a loyal person. I have done things in the past I'm not proud of. I have played with fire and learned my lesson. But it stays in the past I'm a changed person. I'm in a new relationship and value it. I know I come here and make some good friends I have talk to...
    OoLunaoO OoLunaoO 26-30 10 Responses Sep 23, 2011

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    Why Can't He Tell The Difference?

    Over spring break I encountered a problem. I have an admirer. I should be happy right? Well I'm not. He is not the kind of guy I am looking for but, he sure thinks so. I met him in one of my classes this semester. He was the only one who would talk to me and so I became more...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    To all those online flirters.

    ..I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW SO QUIT ASKING U DON'T EVEN KNOW ME Please and thank you!
    WonderinginWV WonderinginWV 13-15, F Mar 30, 2014

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