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I Wasted A Long Time Liking You

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    Now He Has No One

    I wasted three years of my life also being with this guy. In the end, we broke up. In the end, he was busted for talking to teen girls on the internet. Now he's in prison. Now, I'm moving on.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 15, 2010

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    Really.... A Year...

    Oh my freaking goodness. Why the hell did I like you Knox Martin? (naming this person will probably come back ti hunt me). I spent a wasteful year having special feeling for you.... WHAT THE F&%#???!!!!... 365 days.. 8760 hours; 525,600 minutes liking you. I thought you were...
    HopelessinGA HopelessinGA 13-15 Dec 13, 2011

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    Ugh

    Don't you hate it when you spend years on someone and its pretty obvious that you do, and yet the guy is just darn frickin retarded to do anything about it? I mean seriously let a girl down easy. Im just so glad that he is ugly now. Ugh honestly what did i see in him?? Oh gosh...
    sixbillionflames sixbillionflames 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 23, 2011

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    After 3 Years, I Still Feel The Same

    I pressure myself and try so hard to convince myself that I don't have feelings for him. I think, maybe if I tell myself I'm over him I might start to actually believe it. I've been trying that for 3 years and I'm right back where I started. Over this Summer I was doing a great...
    lalaleeanne lalaleeanne 13-15, F Sep 10, 2012

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    See, I Won't Forget. Never.

    I'm not sure how long it was that I loved you. A few years definitely. It was... interesting. You were the first person that I loved. You know, I always thought that you would come around eventually, but you didn't. And you changed, that's what made me... saddest. It was true...
    HukuSiStar HukuSiStar 13-15 Mar 1, 2012

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    I hate Likeing people

    because most of the time none of them feel the same about you there's always something they don't like about you
    Missmiamedina Missmiamedina 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2013

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    Faux

    I wanted to believed you were special, but it was who and what I thought you were. You are actually not at all the man I believed you to be. Too bad and yes, very sad.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 27, 2011

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    Thank Goodness Its Over

    I cant believed I liked you I cant believed I gave you a chance in my mind Yipee I heard you are now getting wed and Im like yipee Thank goodness its over!
    Coconutpalm Coconutpalm 31-35, F Apr 22, 2013

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    Oisín.....you.....sexy....boy

    Oisín Mc Hugh is a boy I wa sobbsesd with (I still like him) for almost a year. A year in September. I know almost everything about him. He is so.....................MEGA MEGA YUMMYYUYYY! I'm hoping to show Harry this group. Hepent so LONG liking brad!
    britzagrimesgleek britzagrimesgleek 18-21, F Jul 25, 2011

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    Just About Done With Him

    We know each other from work.  When he started paying lots of attention to me I was outwardly flattered but inside was a bit suspicious.  I eventually found out his motives but I still liked him.  He'd do something that would get me angry but I always forgave him...
    Morgause Morgause 41-45, F May 28, 2010

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    Kim

    i spent a long time liking you . i liked you for over a year. you went to my eagle cermony . i took you to the military ball , i took you to my prom .  i  let the feeling  of being like **** wash away . when you wouldn't let me hug you or kiss you not even on the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 16, 2010

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    You Say Its Bad Timing..

    For 3+ years I have been in love with her. I even got her name tattooed on me. Stupid you say, right? I still have no regrets. She is married, was my boss and is 13yrs my senior. There was obvious chemistry not long after I started working there. We would catch each others eye...
    AdamFTM AdamFTM 22-25, T 1 Response May 5, 2010

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    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 10, 2011

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    Him :(

    Me and this one boy were dating for 2 years. I honestly thought I loved him. At school dances we slow danced and kissed a couple times. Next thing I new he was dating another girl. I was so heart broken! That was a year ago and he is trying to get me back but I just ignore him. I...
    Doveflight Doveflight 13-15, F May 23, 2012

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    To Much Time To H.i.m.!!!

    i thought he had the same real feelings for me too but he didn't. he took me on dates bought me teddy bears and gift and i did the same back. we were together 3 years and i figured out when he broke up with me he was cheating on me for the last year. :( i went into a deep...
    foreverstrong1 foreverstrong1 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2012

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    It Was Way Past Our Time Right??...

    met him in middle school, dated for 8 years later, technically 6 years. in that time he broke up with me for a month in highschool, and then a 2nd time for 2 years at bout 10th or 11th grade, and we got back together, while he was going to college bout 3 hours from me...
    thsone thsone 22-25, F Apr 17, 2010

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    Story Of My Life...

    3 long years I wasted on you and you didn't even feel the same.  Wow, the things I could've done in that time.  You weren't even there when I needed you the most; nowhere to be found.  You wanted the best, it wasn't me. Three long years of you stringing me around...
    TrulyMadlyDeeplyDo TrulyMadlyDeeplyDo 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 15, 2010

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    I Am A Moron

    I realize now how stupid I have been. We are opposites, truly, in every sense of the word. You never led me on, never lied to me. But I was hopeful for a future that was never there. And you said you loved me. I don't know why you said it, maybe in a way you did....like you...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F Aug 2, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    To begin with I want to say that I feel I wasted my time only because of the last 5/6 months. For the record I have social anxieties and I worry I'm going to come across as stupid...
    BlueZeo BlueZeo 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 5

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    Me and my man just broke up I been waiting for days he cursed me out and I cursed him out and I let him know .. He don't have to worry about me no more he went on Instagram and...
    ryelle19 ryelle19 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 6

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    Indecisive people are easy to come by and hard to get over. Does he want me? Is he annoyed by me? I wasted my time hoping a guy would come around. He gave me signs of interest but...
    alexandr4 alexandr4 18-21, F Nov 6

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    I completely wasted my time on someone. I wish I had never met them. They almost cost me my marriage to the best man I know. I will never endanger that again.
    antisocialrainbow antisocialrainbow 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 13

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    I wouldn't say I wasted my time per se, but I pursued a relationship that was never going to work. I was young, though.. and it wasn't like I was using valuable dating time. After...
    astrokitty4341 astrokitty4341 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm letting go of some people that have been in my life for a long time and the people I'm trying to hold on tto are letting go of me, because they think I'll always be there so it...
    toobztheguru toobztheguru 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Not a long time per say but you Guys have probably noticed I've been terrible at replying to messages I just haven't had the time and I just need to focus on school and recovery.
    Br0KenWhisper Br0KenWhisper 13-15, F Nov 11

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    Yuri Aikawa I will drag you to hell because I rule it. You never liked me all you wanted was to be with that stylish boy. I am done waiting for you all you are is a ***** pig
    JohannesKrauser JohannesKrauser 22-25, M 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I dated a guy hmmm about 6 years ago for for over a year long distant relationship.... He lied to me through it all. He was seriously a pathological liar... He had me thinking he...
    MsAnonymous1 MsAnonymous1 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 1

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    I don't want to say wasted because it makes me sad to think a person is a waste. But I spent almost two and a half years on this guy who I recently found out cheated on me multiple...
    Melanie15 Melanie15 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Sigh....so to try to see them as experiences and reasons instead of wasted time is always hard :/
    patri1 patri1 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 21

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    I started dating a guy my junior year in high school. I stayed with him for almost 4 years. In that time I got pregnant and had my beautiful son which I would never regret. I had...
    tenderheart92 tenderheart92 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 22

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    Not wasted. Ill say it was my heaven ..and now am in hell.
    diepu diepu 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 28

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. At the beggining of the year we got back into contact and basically fell in love over phone and...
    sarahc11 sarahc11 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    How long should you wait after a breakup to date again??
    MadeforOne09 MadeforOne09 31-35, F 9 Responses a week ago

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    As of today I'm finally removing this person out of my life and heart for good he has been nothing but toxic for me and I'm tired of him using me when he wants too and the hard...
    allofme26 allofme26 26-30, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Around 13-14 or so, hit puberty, start seeing childhood friend from church in a different way. She only got prettier as time went on, and I tried on more than one occasion to go...
    fgcujames fgcujames 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 31

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    I have live for 8 years with a girl. She was my first relationship and I love her very much but she left me. We also have two kids. I had problems with my health with my hart. I...
    AngelMladenov AngelMladenov 26-30, M 4 Responses Nov 3

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    Av recently felt like this with numerous people tbh,it always comes at once..everyone seems to turn at the same time!! Putting in all my time and effort to be with these people who...
    queencxnt queencxnt 16-17, F Nov 10

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    I'm Wasting Time Now Even Thinking About Him. :/ I Think It's Time To Quit And Move On.
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Not everyone you lose is a loss .
    reeessa reeessa 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 21

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    All my life I thought I wanted to play it safe at love and relationships. I thought (very stupid) that if I picked the guy that loved me more and was not to good looking, I'd be...
    patri1 patri1 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 22

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    Guess it wasn't really wasting my time because it taught me a valuable lesson!
    FallenAngel0 FallenAngel0 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 23

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    I was in the worst relationship ever for four years, and it changed the way I view soooo many things and made me so much more cautious about the guys I date, but now that I have a...
    biancanicolee biancanicolee 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 1

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    How to be ok w/ being lonely. How to love your self like no one else will? How to go w/ out affection? How to ignore things and continue to smile. Ik it's all a mind thing. It's...
    johnsonj68 johnsonj68 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 2

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    Yup... Lots of someone's! READ my profile before you message me pls?
    XXburnttoastXX XXburnttoastXX 13-15, F Nov 3

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    I have been having a fling with A for 2 years . We talked about if we ever got pregnant.. He would ask if I would go away with him and be with him. The last time we had sex was a...
    mixedchick435 mixedchick435 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 5

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    Is it bad to know what you want or be put together?? I raise my son 100% solo, have a career, my own home, a nice car, I know how to take care of the man above and beyond... If I...
    MadeforOne09 MadeforOne09 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 6

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    Don't act all high and mighty thinking you beat me at the game. You might be the ******* best player, But I'm the damn game, *******.
    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 10

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