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I Wasted My Energy On a Friendship That Meant Nothing

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    This happened to me. Was loyal,

    kind, great listener, selfless. Ended up that she used me, lied to me, never ever liked me, parents and sister hated me, never stuck up for me and kept things from me. It was so many years ago now. But it hurts me still how she moved on in a day and I never existed to her...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 70+, F 1 Response May 15

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    Like All My Life...

     Still haven't found a true friend... but there's no where else to try to find anyone... Oh god, why do I waste my time with them?
    BrownEyedMystery BrownEyedMystery 18-21 Dec 3, 2009

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    Most Of The Time...

    even a sucky friendship yields some knowledge, something to learn. But I have had one or two where I was betrayed and I have'nt ever been able to find anything I was supposed to learn from it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 18, 2009

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    My "Friendships"

    Ever had friends who claim to be there when you're down? See when my friends are down I would be there to help them back up because I feel like I care too much. No one is there when I down or when I like to have a conversation with someone...im ignored or they reply with a hi and...
    dreamwithinareality dreamwithinareality 18-21, M Jul 11, 2013

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    Can Friendships Really Mean Nothing?

    I believe you can learn something from every experience you've had. Everyone has something you can learn from them. I don't feel there is a friendship that is truely a waste of time. There could be friendships that end badly, but you did end up learning something from them...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 3, 2009

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    Two Faced

    My so called best friend since 5th grade (im in 9th) is a total *****. i had no idea how easy she could just turn on me! i told her everything about me, and everything i had ever done as all best friends do. little did i know that one day she would use it against me, and all...
    cheesemcfoodlepants cheesemcfoodlepants 18-21, F Nov 15, 2011

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    Love Is Never Wasted

    I used to think the love I invested into some peoples' lives, who ended up rejecting me, had been wasted. But then I heard a wise person, (can't recall who it was), who said: "Love is never wasted. The love you spend on others is recorded in your "Karma Account" whether the...
    kulshady kulshady 41-45, M Jul 30, 2013

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    I feel like some people just use me in

    friendship! and say sorry, then I forgive, then still do it, say sorry, and I'm just like never again *****! XD
    tiashepherdx tiashepherdx 13-15, F Aug 2

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    What A Crock...

    Now I won't go into great detail about what transpired but I had a friend, who I thought was my best friend, who practically stabbed me in the back when I needed her the most.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 15, 2011

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    I'm Confused

    Yeah, it seems I've been fooled and that's completely normal nowadays. So, next time when someone will try to do it again by acting like a friend and saying things only a best friend can say, I'm gonna stop wondering if that's true or not, I'm gonna whoop their ***! I mean, I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 3, 2009

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    All My Life

    it seem as if I give out more than I get back. People walk into my life and then walk out. Is it that freaking easy??? Am I not worth enough in your eyes to stay a part of your life for the rest of mine???? I call myself a "life'r" once I care about you, I will care...
    Loopylu Loopylu 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 25, 2009

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    Crazy and Nuerotic

    What can you do when you give a person chance after chance only to realize they are neurotic and completely undeserving of your friendship?  Well in real life you have a long talk and hope you don't have to get a restraining order to keep her away from you and on EP you use...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 8 Responses Oct 5, 2009

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    So I brought my friend a 5SOS ticket

    and overall it was $587 (and she hasn't paid me pack yet) which where I'm from it's EXPENSIVE and at class she told me that she might sell her ticket because she might not like them next year. W T F That really hurt me My mum isn't the richest person but she spent that much so...
    jesscax jesscax 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 27

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    Kind Of Still Am...

    I am kind of still wasting my energy on a friendship that means nothing. I keep waiting and waiting and waiting, for hopes that she will come around and start talking to me again, for I don't even know the reason why we are not even friends anymore! i keep hoping she will contact...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    Im Sorry

    I created this group out of anger and frustration. I had been let down by someone I thought that would never let me down. But maybe in having expectations about that person was letting them down in the first place. If I count all the friendships that ended up in nothing, I...
    MrsLalaninjacakes MrsLalaninjacakes 26-30, F 12 Responses Nov 24, 2009

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    Say Farewell to Your Fairweather Friends...

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    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 5, 2009

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