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I Wasted My Energy On a Friendship That Meant Nothing

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    Crazy and Nuerotic

    What can you do when you give a person chance after chance only to realize they are neurotic and completely undeserving of your friendship?  Well in real life you have a long talk and hope you don't have to get a restraining order to keep her away from you and on EP you use...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 8 Responses Oct 5, 2009

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    Love Is Never Wasted

    I used to think the love I invested into some peoples' lives, who ended up rejecting me, had been wasted. But then I heard a wise person, (can't recall who it was), who said: "Love is never wasted. The love you spend on others is recorded in your "Karma Account" whether the...
    kulshady kulshady 41-45, M Jul 30, 2013

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    I'm Confused

    Yeah, it seems I've been fooled and that's completely normal nowadays. So, next time when someone will try to do it again by acting like a friend and saying things only a best friend can say, I'm gonna stop wondering if that's true or not, I'm gonna whoop their ***! I mean, I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 3, 2009

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    What A Crock...

    Now I won't go into great detail about what transpired but I had a friend, who I thought was my best friend, who practically stabbed me in the back when I needed her the most.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 15, 2011

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    Two Faced

    My so called best friend since 5th grade (im in 9th) is a total *****. i had no idea how easy she could just turn on me! i told her everything about me, and everything i had ever done as all best friends do. little did i know that one day she would use it against me, and all...
    cheesemcfoodlepants cheesemcfoodlepants 18-21, F Nov 15, 2011

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    Most Of The Time...

    even a sucky friendship yields some knowledge, something to learn. But I have had one or two where I was betrayed and I have'nt ever been able to find anything I was supposed to learn from it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 18, 2009

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    Can Friendships Really Mean Nothing?

    I believe you can learn something from every experience you've had. Everyone has something you can learn from them. I don't feel there is a friendship that is truely a waste of time. There could be friendships that end badly, but you did end up learning something from them...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 3, 2009

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    Like All My Life...

     Still haven't found a true friend... but there's no where else to try to find anyone... Oh god, why do I waste my time with them?
    BrownEyedMystery BrownEyedMystery 18-21 Dec 3, 2009

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    Kind Of Still Am...

    I am kind of still wasting my energy on a friendship that means nothing. I keep waiting and waiting and waiting, for hopes that she will come around and start talking to me again, for I don't even know the reason why we are not even friends anymore! i keep hoping she will contact...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    All My Life

    it seem as if I give out more than I get back. People walk into my life and then walk out. Is it that freaking easy??? Am I not worth enough in your eyes to stay a part of your life for the rest of mine???? I call myself a "life'r" once I care about you, I will care...
    Loopylu Loopylu 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 25, 2009

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    Say Farewell to Your Fairweather Friends...

    ... And not a second too soon. RAYMONDE- "No One Can Hold A Candle To You" That song above is actually a tribute to vocalist, James Maker's good friend. Those opening two lines are inspiring and the song's chorus is: "No one can hold a candle to you When it...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 5, 2009

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    Im Sorry

    I created this group out of anger and frustration. I had been let down by someone I thought that would never let me down. But maybe in having expectations about that person was letting them down in the first place. If I count all the friendships that ended up in nothing, I...
    MrsLalaninjacakes MrsLalaninjacakes 26-30, F 12 Responses Nov 24, 2009

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    My "Friendships"

    Ever had friends who claim to be there when you're down? See when my friends are down I would be there to help them back up because I feel like I care too much. No one is there when I down or when I like to have a conversation with someone...im ignored or they reply with a hi and...
    dreamwithinareality dreamwithinareality 18-21, M Jul 11, 2013

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    This happened to me. Was loyal,

    kind, great listener, selfless. Ended up that she used me, lied to me, never ever liked me, parents and sister hated me, never stuck up for me and kept things from me. It was so many years ago now. But it hurts me still how she moved on in a day and I never existed to her...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 70+, F May 15

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    Related Experiences

    i have done few friendships online and for a person like me for whom attachments meant to be really important wether it be a simple friendship...it sucks when others are unable to...
    happyhuman1 happyhuman1 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 26

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    But friendship always gone too soon.. As much as it feels somehow rather.. Bad that you no longer meant that much/important to whom you thought, they could be your best friend.. Or...
    JonDanny JonDanny 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    🎼I like us better when we're wasted It makes it easier to fake it The only time we really talk Is when our clothes are coming off💏 I like us better when we're wasted It makes...
    Feelinthebeat Feelinthebeat 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I have always been the type that can have few friends at a time. I have surrounded myself with people that I thought were friends before and the outcome was never good. There was...
    MelMel68 MelMel68 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I once had friend whose name was Sam. He and I got along great and our friendship at one point turned into a "thing". The thing faded after a while though making us just friends...
    goats4lyfe goats4lyfe 13-15, F Jun 30

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    Are there any other 17/18 year olds on summer break right now with NOTHING to do?! I always said, the summer before university would be full of partying and going out and just...
    RWxo RWxo 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    My life has been wasted...and theres nothing I can do about it. I will never be an artist, author or even an actor💔 Why is my life screwed up and full of catastrophe😫 WHY...
    Miserablechildhood Miserablechildhood 13-15, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    It was the month of October 2006 I was in year 10 on work placement in a local high school within the physical education department. This is where she and I first met; I remember...
    Osah Osah 22-25, M Jun 22

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    I have maybe three TRUE friendships and a few more good friendships. I think people often confuse friendships and acquaintanceships. They are quite different. I also believe...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jun 26

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    If only was one lol I wasted my time in so many people I lost count.What can I say...I am hard headed and cant stop trying again,meeting new people,hoping someone would prove me...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Yeah I do value friendships.. But I don't think many of my real life friends see friendships the way I do. I'm the type of friend that's always there for you no matter what, I'm...
    LittleKandi LittleKandi 16-17, F Jun 27

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    I had a friend with African roots who grew up with her single mother in the capital. She had huge insecurities about her skin-color, was incredibly pessimistic and generally just...
    13qk 13qk 16-17, F Jul 4

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    I cherish true Friendships, I have friends for many years and that is what True Cherished Friendship is all about, Would Like to have the same thing on here, so let's gets...
    sunnyday55 sunnyday55 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I do believe in True friendship ,I don't have lots of friends in my real life too, but i'm happy in my circle.Here, in ep i met many good people ( with few i have bad experience...
    mayank1012 mayank1012 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm having friendship problems... Like things are not working out between me and my girls. Lately we barely eat lunch together during our break . Plus, we are different classes...
    Nicoletqw Nicoletqw 13-15, F Jun 29

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    I would love a good bunch of people around me. I have moved a lot and experienced somethings which may not be believed if written down. Everyone disappears when the going gets...
    imunky imunky 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    Hey who here could use more energy during the day But is sick of the energy drink options In Stores or just likes to try some thing new if so message me I will tell you more :)
    rosiebloom rosiebloom 22-25, F Jul 6

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    "Friendship... is not something you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything." ~Muhammad Ali
    intrigued4life intrigued4life 36-40, F Jul 8

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    I am sincere in my friendship and I am looking for people like me who would be sincere with me and wont play with my feelings. I am looking for life-long friendships.
    nixf1 nixf1 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Friendship is an important thing... I got tested with my friend ship with my best friend, cause he told somebody a secret that happend to me in 2013, and I over reacted... After I...
    MagnusOystryk MagnusOystryk 13-15, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Yea I toltaly agree with this because I know Of a energy drink that is acutely good for your health,and when I see people drinking all the bad ones it's upsetting if you are...
    rosiebloom rosiebloom 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    Sorry this is ridiculously long. But thank you for taking the time to have a look. I was going to go do some work experience at some really cool company that I might want to get...
    randomrandom15 randomrandom15 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    Well something reminded me of him and im in a sour mood so talking about him might make me feel better On my birthday my granddad asked what did I want more than anything in the...
    Citygirl06 Citygirl06 13-15, F Jun 24

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    Been there since day one 💕 my ride or die chick ! Nothing comes close 💋💜
    kaaigee kaaigee 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    I am just recently coming to understand unique events that occur in my life. For example; when I touch a radio or TV it gets better reception, why my hands and feet tingle and get...
    QuietlyQuesting QuietlyQuesting 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    Everybody's like he's no item. Please don't like him. He don't wife 'em, he one nights 'em. I never listen though, I should've figured though. All that **** you were spittin' so...
    chloejune chloejune 18-21, F Jun 27

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    What makes sense to me is that Albert Einstein was incredibly insightful when he made two observations.... (loosly requoted here for consideration) --- Energy is neither Created...
    CelticWmn7 CelticWmn7 56-60, F Jun 28

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    If you have got time and ar committed to creating the foremost Gold, the most effective thanks to try this is via crafting. Late within the game, crafted things are often among the...
    mmogoogle mmogoogle 22-25, M Jul 1

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    Hey. Don't you guys know monster is really bad for you n I don't even think it teased good but I do know of a energy drink that I like and is actually good for you if you wanna try...
    rosiebloom rosiebloom 22-25, F Jul 6

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    Hey Don't you guys know monster is really bad for you n I don't even think it teased good but I do know of a energy drink that I like and is actually good for you if you wanna try...
    rosiebloom rosiebloom 22-25, F Jul 6

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    Hey Don't you guys know monster is really bad for you n I don't even think it taste good but I do know of a energy drink that I like and is actually good for you if you wanna try...
    rosiebloom rosiebloom 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    Are any of you getting payed to be promoting theses drinks if not then why do the advertisement for them For free I know of an energy drink that is way better for you n I...
    rosiebloom rosiebloom 22-25, F Jul 6

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    Yes most energy drink you can buy in stores I don't like But I actually have found one that's not In stores but I love it and it is good for you and really teased yummy so if any...
    rosiebloom rosiebloom 22-25, F Jul 6

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    Dragonfly...................... I'm not overly inclined toward insects. Bugs just don't do it for me. It's one of the reasons I don't garden.Lately, though, dragonflies have...
    WindSylph WindSylph 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 7

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