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I Wasted My Energy On a Friendship That Meant Nothing

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    Im Sorry

    I created this group out of anger and frustration. I had been let down by someone I thought that would never let me down. But maybe in having expectations about that person was letting them down in the first place. If I count all the friendships that ended up in nothing, I...
    MrsLalaninjacakes MrsLalaninjacakes 26-30, F 12 Responses Nov 24, 2009

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    Love Is Never Wasted

    I used to think the love I invested into some peoples' lives, who ended up rejecting me, had been wasted. But then I heard a wise person, (can't recall who it was), who said: "Love is never wasted. The love you spend on others is recorded in your "Karma Account" whether the...
    kulshady kulshady 41-45, M Jul 30, 2013

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    So I brought my friend a 5SOS ticket

    and overall it was $587 (and she hasn't paid me pack yet) which where I'm from it's EXPENSIVE and at class she told me that she might sell her ticket because she might not like them next year. W T F That really hurt me My mum isn't the richest person but she spent that much so...
    jesscax jesscax 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 27

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    What A Crock...

    Now I won't go into great detail about what transpired but I had a friend, who I thought was my best friend, who practically stabbed me in the back when I needed her the most.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 15, 2011

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    This happened to me. Was loyal,

    kind, great listener, selfless. Ended up that she used me, lied to me, never ever liked me, parents and sister hated me, never stuck up for me and kept things from me. It was so many years ago now. But it hurts me still how she moved on in a day and I never existed to her...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 70+, F May 15

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    I'm Confused

    Yeah, it seems I've been fooled and that's completely normal nowadays. So, next time when someone will try to do it again by acting like a friend and saying things only a best friend can say, I'm gonna stop wondering if that's true or not, I'm gonna whoop their ***! I mean, I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 3, 2009

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    I feel like some people just use me in

    friendship! and say sorry, then I forgive, then still do it, say sorry, and I'm just like never again *****! XD
    tiashepherdx tiashepherdx 13-15, F Aug 2

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    Kind Of Still Am...

    I am kind of still wasting my energy on a friendship that means nothing. I keep waiting and waiting and waiting, for hopes that she will come around and start talking to me again, for I don't even know the reason why we are not even friends anymore! i keep hoping she will contact...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    Say Farewell to Your Fairweather Friends...

    ... And not a second too soon. RAYMONDE- "No One Can Hold A Candle To You" That song above is actually a tribute to vocalist, James Maker's good friend. Those opening two lines are inspiring and the song's chorus is: "No one can hold a candle to you When it...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 5, 2009

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    All My Life

    it seem as if I give out more than I get back. People walk into my life and then walk out. Is it that freaking easy??? Am I not worth enough in your eyes to stay a part of your life for the rest of mine???? I call myself a "life'r" once I care about you, I will care...
    Loopylu Loopylu 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 25, 2009

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    My "Friendships"

    Ever had friends who claim to be there when you're down? See when my friends are down I would be there to help them back up because I feel like I care too much. No one is there when I down or when I like to have a conversation with someone...im ignored or they reply with a hi and...
    dreamwithinareality dreamwithinareality 18-21, M Jul 11, 2013

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    Crazy and Nuerotic

    What can you do when you give a person chance after chance only to realize they are neurotic and completely undeserving of your friendship?  Well in real life you have a long talk and hope you don't have to get a restraining order to keep her away from you and on EP you use...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 8 Responses Oct 5, 2009

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    Can Friendships Really Mean Nothing?

    I believe you can learn something from every experience you've had. Everyone has something you can learn from them. I don't feel there is a friendship that is truely a waste of time. There could be friendships that end badly, but you did end up learning something from them...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 3, 2009

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    Most Of The Time...

    even a sucky friendship yields some knowledge, something to learn. But I have had one or two where I was betrayed and I have'nt ever been able to find anything I was supposed to learn from it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 18, 2009

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    Like All My Life...

     Still haven't found a true friend... but there's no where else to try to find anyone... Oh god, why do I waste my time with them?
    BrownEyedMystery BrownEyedMystery 18-21 Dec 3, 2009

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    Two Faced

    My so called best friend since 5th grade (im in 9th) is a total *****. i had no idea how easy she could just turn on me! i told her everything about me, and everything i had ever done as all best friends do. little did i know that one day she would use it against me, and all...
    cheesemcfoodlepants cheesemcfoodlepants 18-21, F Nov 15, 2011

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    I was reading a Facebook post from one of my (I guess you can say) friends, and it sounded something like this: "My mom is always the one to spot a fake friend first". Was that for...
    TheAnonymousINFx TheAnonymousINFx 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    I won't fight for her. I had a friend, she was like a sister to me. She was with me when I battled depression, she was the one who stopped me from committing suicide, she was...
    EarlPhantomhive EarlPhantomhive 18-21, F 9 Responses Aug 4

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    My best friend. We were best friends ever since we were three years old. She did not wish to be my best friend anymore about a month ago. She questioned our friendship, lost the...
    DestinyChance DestinyChance 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    My illness led me to believe things said were about me, hurtful things. She may be the last genuine person in my life, even though she lives miles away. She told me if I keep...
    DevilDoll13 DevilDoll13 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    I know that one day our friendship will be put to challenge. I am afraid to face that day. But now I have no choice. I have to face it if I want to save us from crumbling down like...
    Monnuel Monnuel 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I was in love with my bestfriend for four years. Four very long years... Four years of being led on and manipulated and lied too. Four years of watching the person I loved go...
    LonerProject LonerProject 18-21, M Aug 12

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    Guys ... My BFF said ... Let's not go back to past anymore .. She said to start a new pages ..she said .. We are not meant to be best friend ... What do she really mean ... Or do...
    fish090912 fish090912 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 13

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    They have so much swag even though it was meant for small children I wach it cause it's awesome
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    This girl kinda backstabbed me for popularity. 5 yrs I knew her and then she started treatinng me like ****. I cry all night thinking about the memories and... Man! It hurts! To...
    vcaur143 vcaur143 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    I'm am making an all-out effort to eliminate the intermittent lack-of-energy problem that I've experienced for what has to be many years now, 15-20 or more. I've just tolerated it...
    SteppeStone SteppeStone 46-50, M Aug 18

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    I had a friend who I was and still am very fond of. She was one of my best friends. She and I spent a lot of time together. Recently, I told her something important and did...
    Broadwaygirl17 Broadwaygirl17 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    one of my friends from last year called me and left voicemail out of blue. I haven't seen him in a year almost. I feel bad that his father died, and he had to take care of wills...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I have a great idea of what friendships I want to have, but I have no idea where I'm gonna find them. Just trying to meet a lot of people and I'll let some inside my feces (not...
    ShootingStar7 ShootingStar7 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    Friends for Life Hi everyone, I'm Spencer! Some people are able to keep the same friends for several decades while some just move on every couple years. I'm both ways. A...
    spencerhaber spencerhaber 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Many people don't realize how selfish humans are, and that friendships are a joke. We are friends with ourselves only. There are many things a person could want from you...(We'll...
    Levi1 Levi1 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 27

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    I am no longer going to seek or maintain friendships with people who claim they adore you one day and than you never hear from them, unless you message first of course, or they...
    halloweenspice halloweenspice 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 28

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    I met her on twitter we got so close to each other we were more than best friends more like twins, she's amazing I truly love her and trusted her more than anything. She know how...
    Flowerydedo Flowerydedo 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    Yes I drink energy drinks. My main choice is monster. But I don't drink them for energy. They calm me. My mind works harder then it normal. Not thesame way ADD or ADHD does to a...
    fallenzero fallenzero 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 6

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    Or had it wasted. Studied why people do what they do. Got sad. Suwocydal Depressed. Vengeful. Disabled.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 18

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    Over the years I have learnt that true friendship is so hard to find and even if you did it's not good to expect things done in a specific way coz one is your friend. Even your...
    snee2 snee2 36-40, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    A true friend encourages us, comforts us, supports us like a big easy chair, offering us a safe refuge from the world.What sweetness is left in life, if you take away friendship...
    Sandy84b Sandy84b 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 27

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    So I have always been able to read people... their intentions energy and feelings. on top of other things. Everyone that knows and doesnt have these abilities think its amazing and...
    ymoren21 ymoren21 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    Friendship isnt abt whom u ve known d longest....its abt who came n never left ur side...plz tc of such frnds n value dem...Happy Friendship Day
    hbksindia hbksindia 22-25, M Aug 3

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    i)Painting Is Feeling, Never Spoil It,Face Is A Book, Try To Read It,Love Is Precious,Be Ready To Sacrifice For It,AndFriendship Is Like A Mirror,Never Break It.... ii) Age...
    Skpan80 Skpan80 13-15, F Aug 3

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    I had a best friend since I was in 4th grade, I am now 26 years old. We have had our times where we were so close and then life happened and we grew apart. That part I can...
    thelightbehindyoureyes thelightbehindyoureyes 26-30, F Aug 4

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    They make me feel amazing nothing is better than drinking a monster!
    BlueWings454 BlueWings454 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    The only energy drink I'll ever try and stick with is AdvoCare's Spark. It has 21 vitamins and minerals, it's sugar-free, and it has a mental focus component that gives 4-to-5...
    advocarelover1966 advocarelover1966 46-50, F Aug 15

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    I have a good idea of what I think of as friendships. I think they are a place to support, inspire, listen, share, cherish, care for each other. Help each other reach goals...
    ShootingStar7 ShootingStar7 13-15, F Aug 15

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