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I Wasted My Time On Someone

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    I wasted whole 2013 behind a girl..... Chasing her... Getting a glance of her.. Then we became ver very good friend( I thought so) But she was using me.. She asked me to do her...
    caithmac caithmac 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    And I get so angry when I think about it. Of course I have moved on but THREE YEARS. THREE WHOLE YEARS out of my life that was wasted. God, I was so stupid.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    Take a breath and walk away.
    maplegirl maplegirl 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 5

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    Hello, Are You There? - I wasted my time on an older, we will call him Boy, since man doesn't sum it up. He wasAbsolutely adorable: green eyes, dark hair, and the cutest oblong...
    CrissyLee CrissyLee 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 21, 2011

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    It always had to be on your terms. Always. There was never any compromise with you. Your time seemed more important than mine. You tell me it's probably not a good time, I said...
    designbycassandra designbycassandra 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    And he cheated. And then I cried for 24hrs, and he left his family for her. She's slept with 86 people. I'm in such a bad spot in life as is. I've already cut. I see no hope. My...
    Stargasm Stargasm 22-25, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    On many people actually but people can be disappointing but they can also be amazing. I try to give everyone a chance and that is just stupid. Because most people are not what they...
    richierich22 richierich22 16-17, M Jan 7

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    I Spent 4 Years With Someone That Was "fixed" - I don't know why I even got with him let alone stay with him for 4 years. I knew that he couldn't have kids. I also knew...
    CarrieBeth CarrieBeth 26-30, F 4 Responses May 26, 2010

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    Lost In Translation - I spend a good 5yrs of my life with someone (on and off), which I believed was my true love in this life. We were high school sweethearts and life was good...
    PrincessLulu PrincessLulu 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 19, 2010

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    Fishing Is More Important Than Me - So I was seeing a guy, trying to figure him out. He scheduled a date with me, because my fish died, and I was feeling down. Day before our date...
    eskimogurl8806 eskimogurl8806 22-25, F Jul 16, 2011

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    I know the feeling..I dated a lost cause and it sucked good thing it was only for a few months than years
    deven38 deven38 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2013

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    Well... - I would'nt say wasted,cause you always learn things so you dont repeat waisting you time with someone else.
    frostbittensoul frostbittensoul 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 27, 2010

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    this is what I got: I'm seeing someone but I don't want you to disappear from my life. I just have this fear that you're going to go away. Maybe we date someday or maybe we don't...
    quintana123 quintana123 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    I use to waste time on a lot of friends just to keep the relationship I use to put up with them even when they have done me wrong countless of times, but not anymore an now when I...
    ShaddFreshboiii ShaddFreshboiii 18-21, M Feb 15

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    Am feeling dumbstruck that I did not see it coming... I'm a smart man... But I just don't know how this pretty young person blinded me from obvious red flags... Sure there were...
    teddybearhug teddybearhug 26-30, M Jan 9

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    R.I.P To The Feelings That I Had For You. - Finally. It was gone. Completely gone. But it wasn't that easy. Killing that feeling is not a piece of cake. But now its not there...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    I wasted my time on many someone's (I guess I made some poor choices) but as much as it hurt at the time, I wasn't the first and I won't be the last. Plus it's how you deal with...
    darkasmidnight darkasmidnight 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    I just did this, actually. Only for a little bit, but it still hurt. I felt like I was doing what I could to make someone happy, but they just lied and said they liked me when in...
    caylee092 caylee092 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    I spent a year and three months only dating one guy. At first I loved him more than anything.. But it seemed like he hated me. Like nothing I ever did was good enough to make him...
    sarahhh17 sarahhh17 13-15, F Jan 20

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    Ten years down the drain. Now I'm 37 and "used" up. So lonely.
    Andromeday Andromeday 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    "People that does not belong in your life, no matter how hard you love them, tried to care for them and hold them back, they will eventually walk away..." I've learned it the hard...
    anonymousme517 anonymousme517 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    Can You Waste You're Time On Someone? - No matter how terrible a relationship is, if you learned something, or gained something beautiful (like a child)... it doesn't matter if the...
    amsthegreat amsthegreat 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 14, 2010

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    I think I'm wasting my life. Been with her for over two years, money blood sweat tears... She's a heroin addict trying to help her. Sometimes it's good and she says the right...
    becks2378 becks2378 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    Ever Been There? - Where your so in love with someone that you keep believing them, even when others that are your friends keep telling you you have to be crazy where if they loved...
    BAPhoto BAPhoto 46-50, M 10 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    I Am Still Wasting My Time - My story is not long.... Same story since 6 years... I am wasting my time with the one I am married but cant make a move because all the things are not...
    haveadrink haveadrink 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 23, 2013

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    I wasted my time on someone who I thought wanted to be friends with me. Turns out they didn't, they just wanted stuff from me. Now I'm all for the casual flirting and such but don...
    Rainyaviel Rainyaviel 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 10

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    I refuse to waste so much time caring about what other people think of me. I know how Golden I am and shouldn't let anyone change that not even for a moment. Each moment wasted...
    Lucky1217 Lucky1217 18-21, F Jan 28

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    I feel so alone and it's terrible feeling this way 😂
    Desireen Desireen 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I can't help but feel misled. I'm mature enough to know the possible consequences, that doesn't mean I can't try. I have to. I can't stand regrets in my life.
    LifeIsCereal LifeIsCereal 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 31, 2013

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    Fool me once, shame on you.... Fool me twice, shame on me.
    prsunshine prsunshine 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 7

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    About M.c. - He was a pretty good online friend I had, and we got to know one another fairly well over the course of about 2 years. We never met in person, but had plans to...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Dec 3, 2010

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    Wasted Time - You said you'll return after you serve as a soldier. I waited for you for so long. I thought you'll be the one and only. I suppose i was wrong. Such a shame!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 19, 2012

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    You Wrecked Me... - The story is a long one, and I've told it so much that I'm sick of doing it. I'll just say that I really liked someone 5 years ago who pretended to care about...
    heatherlee70 heatherlee70 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 10, 2013

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    A time for everything - For more than half a year, I let myself be deluded by the idea that I was in love with someone, only to find out that it was never really love and that I...
    papervoices papervoices 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 9, 2010

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    Live And Learn - Boy did i ever,,,,,,,, oh well life goes on
    GORAL GORAL 41-45, M Jul 23, 2013

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    Never a good idea to have feelings for someone and be the other woman. 18 months it took for me to realize that.
    zestymeatballs zestymeatballs 18-21, F Jan 18

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    My Little Share Of The World - it wasn't too long that I knew him, but he left me with a pain inside that will never end.I was taking a break from my course work and getting a bite...
    strangerinacrowd strangerinacrowd 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 10, 2012

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    I'm a treasure and anybody would be lucky to have my love. I can't believed I wasted so much time, effort, money, and love on him. He didn't deserve my affection. He led me on...
    SC27 SC27 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 16

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    I wasted 6 years of my life trying to save my husband from meth addiction. I feel like I failed. He put me through hell. I finally learned after 6 years I couldn't help him. I...
    AmyG40 AmyG40 36-40, F 7 Responses Feb 15

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 4

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    You Never Touched Me That Way Before - So I have to say that I do miss you, how you feel when your arms are wrapped around me at night, the smell of your skin, laughing with you...
    Survivingthestorm Survivingthestorm 36-40 1 Response Jan 10, 2011

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    The college hook-up scene is rarely, if ever, worth the time for anyone looking for an emotional connection. I learned that the hard way, haha.
    brightstack brightstack 18-21, F Jan 11

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    I wasted my time on you, I was so hooked on you & all you did was betray me.
    ellavalencia ellavalencia 18-21, F Mar 30

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    It makes me so mad I just realized this now. There was this guy I liked so much, and I thought of him all the time, and he knew I liked him too. All he did was take advantage of me...
    CSCE720 CSCE720 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 30

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    An Ex Husband And His Daughter... - I WASTED time on a man who was abusive to me. I thought I married a "good christian, loving, family man and father" to his daughter. He lied...
    Missalaineyeus Missalaineyeus 46-50, F 4 Responses Apr 18, 2012

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    18 Year Old Virgin Meets 31 Year Old Don Juan. Result: Disaster! - So I met Everett when I was 18, virginal, and hopelessly naive. He was 31, devilishly handsome, smart, charming...
    LeonsMathilda LeonsMathilda 22-25, F 9 Responses Jul 3, 2010

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    You Knocked Me Up And Tied Me Down, You Dirty Bum - Several years after my first divorce I wrote a little country music ditty for my ex.  Here it is: YOU KNOCKED ME UP AND...
    honeybit honeybit 56-60, F 14 Responses Oct 23, 2010

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    Wanna get it on, but the crabby fool went to bed alrwady
    TheCunylinguist TheCunylinguist 41-45, F Mar 17

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    this cute guy I know started showing me attention coming over hanging out, eventually he seduced me. I sensed early on that I wasn't the only one, but we got along well, we were...
    iNEED2talkAlot iNEED2talkAlot 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 25

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