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I Wasted My Time On Someone

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    krmdr krmdr 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    i was talking to a guy in this website he was

    damn boring after chatting with him for 3 days i got to know he is waste
    shetalpriyapout shetalpriyapout 18-21, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    It took me 4 days to find this site to express

    my feelings that burdens me for two weeks now...why is it so painful to be dumped by the person you used to loved....in a matter of second he turned to be a stranger... pushing you away like he never knew you... hope to surpass this soon
    trustnoone13 trustnoone13 22-25, F 22 Responses Mar 3

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    What do you do when you spend 3 years of your

    life loving and caring for someone only to have them throw it back in your face and leave without a word? She was my best friend, my lover, my confidante. I am at a loss... I'm caught between anger, frustration, hysteria and tears. 3 years gone because she was too proud and...
    Kay06 Kay06 18-21, T 5 Responses Apr 27

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    I thought I could help him,

    in the end he used me and laughed in my face for having feelings. I opened my home to him, had many first with him, and tried my hardest to save him from himself, yet when I was in need of comfort and reassurance he told me he was in love with his ex and he couldn't help me. I...
    eunb eunb 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I've been in love with someone

    for two years . The last year was on and off. Then we got to a point where he told me he didn't want to be with me . But we still communicated and text everyday he'd come to see me and we'd have a great time and I allowed this because I loved him some days he'd ignore me then...
    kirstybarney kirstybarney 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 18

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    I don't think anything is necessarily a waste

    of time. I think we learn something from everything we've done and been through. I spent a lot of years with a guy that was toxic for me, but even so, I don't consider it wasted time. I just reflect on what I went through, and learn from it in order to better myself.
    sheghost sheghost 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 19, 2014

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    KenzieKenzBoo KenzieKenzBoo 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 19, 2014

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    Learned from experience.

    I've become greedy other this experience. My heart comes first, second my mind, third is thought of being with someone. My first question to myself is, is he worth the pain in your heart again? You think he cares what he puts you thru while feeding lies to believe he's so great...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 10 Responses Apr 21

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    Here's your knife back,

    I finally got it out of my back. I'm sure you'll be needing it again soon.
    teddybear420 teddybear420 26-30, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I was in this Friends With Benefits

    relationship with this guy and I accidentally fell for him. Telling myself not to but I knew that it was going to happen anyways.
    izzylark izzylark 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    I hate you. I hope i can forget all the pain to

    you give to me so i can forgive you. I hate you and I think i will hate you forever.
    nobodyzgirl nobodyzgirl 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 13

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    Nothing begins and nothing ends

    that is not paid for with pain and tears. Curse the day and pray for light knowing that you have given all and found no limit to these sorrows. My glass was half full and you held it in your hand and crushed it; all that remains are the broken slivers of glass. Looking back, it...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 17 Responses Mar 1

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    Don't ask someone to stay with you twice.

    If they want to leave, they going to leave no matter how hard trying to convince them to stay. They don't need you and you must not need them either.
    masmelo masmelo 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 12

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    I wasted my time on someone

    and now I am miserable. I am dead inside with out this person and I can't find my life anymore. I don't know who i am and I can't even remember who I was. I knew I should've left..but I didn't..now look where that got me...hoping from doctor to doctor, therapist from therapist...
    EleanorSmithson EleanorSmithson 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 28

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    Is it really wasted time

    if you learned something from the experience? We learn the most from our mistakes, even if the mistakes are other people.
    grumpykittie13 grumpykittie13 31-35, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I was loving/caring and he used me.

    Now I have a hard time not being towards anyone who's interested in me :(
    Hannaahhboo Hannaahhboo 18-21 2 Responses Apr 3

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    It honestly sucks to give the best parts of you

    to someone you care about and then... everything just back fires and you realize that not even the best parts were good enough...
    LeeOmar88 LeeOmar88 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 2

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    Ep Romance Rolercoaster. Ugh....

    i have wasted enough time with the people involved in fake Ep romance. This is different from the Ep romances that are real and work because the people connect and get together in real life. That is the way a real romance is suppose to work. i am talking about the most common...
    Tammykinz Tammykinz 22-25, F 9 Responses Aug 15, 2013

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    20 years i made myself available

    for all our activities. He out grew me
    pettypet pettypet 51-55, M 2 Responses Apr 19

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    I wasted my time on some one,

    too.... or was it truly wasted? I have learned that there is life and love after love and heartache. Maybe that was the breather I needed after my ex... maybe we are just taking a breather... maybe my best has yet to come. Ether way, I won't stop living, loving, helping, and...
    Terrain12 Terrain12 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 27

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    I tried my best to give time to this girl

    that I knew so well and later only to find myself thrown out of her life like thrash.. i feel so wasted.. ??
    krmehta krmehta 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 6

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    trashspice trashspice 16-17, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    I wasted 6 years on this emotionally

    unavailable man ...stupid me
    funtabulous funtabulous 26-30, F 34 Responses Feb 28

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    Many times actually. I felt

    that the people i helped took advantage of my kindness. Now i am cautious of who i want to assist or help.
    ab2x2 ab2x2 41-45, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    my marriage was a waste of my time

    and effort beyond having my children. I realized on a big anniversary that he didnt really ever want to be there he just needed to get married have a boy- I ad arranged for a great seafood dinner wine beautiful location for a vacation to celebrate. I asked him if we could bring...
    blonde10 blonde10 36-40, F 8 Responses Apr 3

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    i tried getting her back with cute *** letters

    I apologized for **** she did , and yee i ended up getting played 😫😒
    xsmd xsmd 16-17, F Apr 4

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    7 Seven months wasted.

    What do I get in the end? I get accused of cheating, she tries turning my friends against me, tells everyone (even random people) that I used her and I'm made out to be a bad person. Keep in mind she was straight into another relationship three weeks after she broke up with me...
    xSundip xSundip 18-21, M 6 Responses Oct 19, 2014

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    Two years. I was with this guy

    for two whole years. Two years before he told me that he needed to leave because he... How do I put this... He likes guys. He wasted two years of my time and led me on, all the while knowing we were never going to happen. He kept saying that he did genuinely have feelings for me...
    musicalityy musicalityy 16-17, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    alishnish alishnish 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 7, 2014

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    It's Amazing

    What you see when you step back, Take off the rose colored glasses Take a deep breath Watch the crap float to the top The water clears The real truth emerges And everything falls into place. Amazing the heartache you can avoid when your emotions are disengaged and not clouding...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 5 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    Haven't we all, there's going to always be

    those time wasters and game players. *see group 'I believe in karma'* lol
    MyCircus MyCircus 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 16

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    Unicornpeasant Unicornpeasant 18-21, F 11 Responses Mar 18

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    Off and on for 7 years with my "soul mate"

    and ended it over two years ago because he wouldn't grow up, but still not over it?? I find myself continuing to beat myself up over it in subtle ways with this reoccurring theme: wasted time. Ironically I'm still wasting time by not moving on. I'm scared of rejection, whether...
    GayManInTexas GayManInTexas 26-30, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    When most people talk about wasting their time,

    they talk about someone else. In my case, I wasted my own time due to fear. I had so many opportunities to fall in love, and yet I rejected all those women because of fear. Fear is the enemy of love and it seems to destroy everything is the beautiful in life. Someone once told...
    spyder3311 spyder3311 36-40, M 4 Responses Apr 26

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    You really messed me up,

    you know. I gave you everything I had and you just threw me away like a piece of trash. I really believed you loved me, but I'm pretty sure I was wrong. What makes it worse is the fact that you never told me why you left. I was just left on my own wondering what it was that I...
    ThatOneWeirdGirl ThatOneWeirdGirl 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    Difference between girlfriend

    and girl friend....
    Pallav786 Pallav786 22-25, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm not sure if I wasted my time

    or it was a life lesson??????
    janiesemonae janiesemonae 26-30, F 8 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    reeessa reeessa 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2014

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    justsomeguy29 justsomeguy29 26-30, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Wasted time, wasted hopes,

    wasted dreams, and wasted words from the pieces of my heart that have never been seen....
    NewBeginnings77 NewBeginnings77 31-35, F 12 Responses Mar 31

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    It's been over a year.

    We were both interested in one another (or so he said) but he wasn't ready for a relationship after his last one. And since then, nothing. Is it silly that I'm still waiting?
    Staarstruuck Staarstruuck 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 8

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    R.I.P To The Feelings That I Had For You.

    Finally. It was gone. Completely gone. But it wasn't that easy. Killing that feeling is not a piece of cake. But now its not there anymore. It seems like the waves of time finally washed it away from the shores of my heart. It was amazing. Felt like a heavy load was finally...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    As of today I'm finally removing this person

    out of my life and heart for good he has been nothing but toxic for me and I'm tired of him using me when he wants too and the hard part about it is that we have a child together but I must have no contact or dealings for at least 3 months I just can't accept to be a door mat...
    allofme26 allofme26 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    So I fell for a guy and we slept together first

    night and after 8 days I was drunk having sex with him and I said I love you. In the morning I said whoops too soon. Then during the day I said oh yeah I'm nothing you..... I love you he said. I don't have tone drunk to say it.... I had major butterflies and I couldn't stop...
    piperweant piperweant 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    Nine years on my ex-wife.

    She still doesn't realize she's the one with the problem. She forced me to visit a counselor for our son and then got mad when I didn't want to go any more when the counselor said she was the one who needed help.
    karlmartink karlmartink 36-40, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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