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I Wasted My Time On Someone

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    It took me 4 days to find this site to express

    my feelings that burdens me for two weeks now...why is it so painful to be dumped by the person you used to loved....in a matter of second he turned to be a stranger... pushing you away like he never knew you... hope to surpass this soon
    trustnoone13 trustnoone13 22-25, F 23 Responses Mar 3

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    So much energy and love wasted on someone

    who never really cared. Never settle for second best, because you'll be left behind.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jun 27

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    Just want to run and hide

    and put my heart away on the shelf. How can you be so cruel and I have given you my heart. How can men listen to a woman express her feelings and look for comfort and they take her through more changes than the person before. If I could go back I wouldn't! It is too pain and if...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    There is no place like home.

    There is no place like home.. There is no place like home...
    HappyGirlJenny HappyGirlJenny 36-40, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I wasted my time on men.

    that wanted nothing serious and I got my heart broken many times.I also waste my,time on people who like turning on me.
    punkpixie13 punkpixie13 22-25, F 3 Responses 36 mins ago

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    I'm sick of feeling like nothing will get

    better. 8 years worth of counselling and no change; my heads still as ****** up as it was years ago
    maysonkieran maysonkieran 16-17, M 39 mins ago

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    I believe before you open your heart

    and mind to something you must open your eyes to see if its worth believing in.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 21

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    You really messed me up,

    you know. I gave you everything I had and you just threw me away like a piece of trash. I really believed you loved me, but I'm pretty sure I was wrong. What makes it worse is the fact that you never told me why you left. I was just left on my own wondering what it was that I...
    ThatOneWeirdGirl ThatOneWeirdGirl 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    When you Been with someone

    for 7 years and they still don't know you it makes you feel worthless. it made me feel like I gave my love to a stranger. you told me you loved me countless times but saying something versus showing it, showing it beats that every time I was about actions and you was about words...
    corruptking corruptking 22-25, M Aug 6

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    so a couple months back i was in school

    and i had to sit next to this one kid he was the most annoying stupid at the school he would say your name just to annoy you i'm like "damn" boy shut up
    Heavensummers Heavensummers 13-15, M Aug 13

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    Ep Romance Rolercoaster. Ugh....

    i have wasted enough time with the people involved in fake Ep romance. This is different from the Ep romances that are real and work because the people connect and get together in real life. That is the way a real romance is suppose to work. i am talking about the most common...
    Tammykinz Tammykinz 22-25, F 9 Responses Aug 15, 2013

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    I wasted 2 years of my teenage years with a guy

    I thought I liked. I realized that I started getting tierd of his attitude and the way he treated me. I realized that I liked him only because he was the only person that would talk to me. I was afraid of leaving him because I was afraid he was going to hurt me. So I had to wait...
    whenyourinmyshoes whenyourinmyshoes 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    alishnish alishnish 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 7, 2014

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    Here's your knife back,

    I finally got it out of my back. I'm sure you'll be needing it again soon.
    teddybear420 teddybear420 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 30

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    I think this can apply to any relationship with

    someone, where I emotionally invested in but it doesn't feel like the person didn't really give anything back. Would this be a selfish way of looking at things?
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe 41-45, F 26 Responses May 20

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    When I think of all the time I wasted,

    all the empty promises, all the tears, all the forgiving, all my love it makes me sick to my stomach. Never again will I trust!
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 6

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    Nothing begins and nothing ends

    that is not paid for with pain and tears. Curse the day and pray for light knowing that you have given all and found no limit to these sorrows. My glass was half full and you held it in your hand and crushed it; all that remains are the broken slivers of glass. Looking back, it...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 16 Responses Mar 1

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    chavacc11 chavacc11 26-30, F Jul 28

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    Nothing is worst that wasting your time on

    someone who isn't worth it...time is the one thing you cannot get back...
    Mvrcus Mvrcus 22-25, M 5 Responses Jul 14

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    my marriage was a waste of my time

    and effort beyond having my children. I realized on a big anniversary that he didnt really ever want to be there he just needed to get married have a boy- I ad arranged for a great seafood dinner wine beautiful location for a vacation to celebrate. I asked him if we could bring...
    blonde10 blonde10 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 3

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    Six doesn't seem like a big number Until you

    add the word years I'd have been better off alone in slumber It's a long time to shed tears I wasted my time on you I thought always Only of you I wasn't as happy as I should've been I should've left before this happened I should've made you kiss my feet Your promises were...
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 16 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    I wish I had never gotten married.

    I'm still hung up on a ex from SIX years ago, pathetic right?? My husband is a good man but somehow is also hyper critical and I don't respond well to it. I hate what 25+ yrs feels like and can't imagine feeling this empty for 79 years more. I can't imagine divorce it doesn't...
    Littleone07 Littleone07 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    I met a guy on this site

    and he claimed he was head over heels in love (which I really didn't believe because I'm not that gullible. Lol). He was actually upset because I wasn't buying it. He said he was a widower, had his own business, and he was overseas finishing up some work. All this time I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Jul 1

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    2 years and 8 months to be exact,

    and all I got left with is a heartbreak and utter frustration. Had I put the time and money into a business, I would've made myself a mini fortune. sigh
    TehAkkiBoy TehAkkiBoy 18-21, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I feel like that I have been married 22 years

    and counting and once in awhile I see my high school sweetheart and wonder what if we would have Been married
    piledriver3900 piledriver3900 46-50, M 3 Responses Aug 9

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    I feel like I've wasted 15 years of my life!

    ! Just finished with my partner of 15 years, feel so angry and frustrated that I didn't end things sooner :( 15 years gone!! Wish I could go back in time. feeling sad, I know it's the right thing to do, but so many mixed emotions and thoughts in my head, I can't stand it!! Need...
    xsenoritax xsenoritax 31-35, F 9 Responses a week ago

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    Perhaps the worst part was how she made it look

    so easy... As if I wasn't that important to her.
    JuanJohnJ3rry JuanJohnJ3rry 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 29

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    Stupid SOB and I fell

    for it. Under the guise of offering assistance for my problem, I reopened the lines of a communication with a manipulative ex. I want to believe the best about people. I shouldn't! It's screwed me before and it has screwed me again. Thankfully I know his stupid shenanigans...
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F 3 Responses May 20

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    Don't ask someone to stay with you twice.

    If they want to leave, they going to leave no matter how hard trying to convince them to stay. They don't need you and you must not need them either.
    masmelo masmelo 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 12

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    I'm probably wasting my time on the person I'm

    with now. but that's why I don't like dating people younger than me. I like guys old then me but not super old. highest I'll go is 26 maybe 27 if I known then for a while
    RavenRena17 RavenRena17 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 6

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    Haven't we all, there's going to always be

    those time wasters and game players. *see group 'I believe in karma'* lol
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 16

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    I gave you 6 precious yrs of my life.

    I loved you but you took advantage of me. I trusted you with my life... My daughter's life but you did not give any importance. You continously spend my money for yourself and on your friends... You consistently lied to me from the time we met till the time I broke up with you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 28

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    I'm 21 and last week I met this 18 year old

    girl on Tinder. We had a match so we started chatting. Me being the nice guy that I am, I asked her out for drinks and she said yes. I was pretty happy that she accepted. Before I started using Tinder, I couldn't even really get a girl to spend time with me, let alone invite her...
    TarikP TarikP 18-21, M 4 Responses Aug 11

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    245Beautifuldisaster 245Beautifuldisaster 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 21

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    eioncc11 eioncc11 26-30, F Aug 12

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    I wasted 6 years on this emotionally

    unavailable man ...stupid me
    funtabulous funtabulous 26-30, F 29 Responses Feb 28

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    trashspice trashspice 16-17, F 5 Responses Apr 28

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    As of today I'm finally removing this person

    out of my life and heart for good he has been nothing but toxic for me and I'm tired of him using me when he wants too and the hard part about it is that we have a child together but I must have no contact or dealings for at least 3 months I just can't accept to be a door mat...
    allofme26 allofme26 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    it was my decision to spend time

    but in positive way I had invested my time on someone without thinking about profit & loss.
    lonelyboy91 lonelyboy91 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 29

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    I wasted so much time on one person that

    now I only have a few friends
    LeighAd1 LeighAd1 46-50, F 8 Responses Jul 29

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    "Wasting your time" on someone is just part of

    the experience of being human. If you haven't fallen for someone who didn't care for you, or hang out with a lousy group of friends then you haven't been living. The most important thing is you learn from the experience, recognize that certain people are just wasting your time...
    HatedandFeared HatedandFeared 26-30, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    So this happened today

    and I find it kind of funny. My high school sweetheart contacted me like three months ago(We remained friends mind you.) we texted for like two weeks and he says he was sorry and looking for real friends again to make. mends. So after blowing me off(and me sending a very "nicely...
    Sassychick06 Sassychick06 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    allisoncc11 allisoncc11 26-30, F Aug 13

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    And it hurt like hell

    when he told me it was my choice to have him in my life. I'm not even worth fighting for
    aterribleneed aterribleneed 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    I was emotionally invested in my friend not a

    very long time ago. I spent every single day trying to talk with her, trying to connect with her, sharing stories and experiences, but only received short, brief responses. I felt like I was receiving nothing in compensation. Almost as if I was talking to a robot. I was always...
    Xiuxieujar Xiuxieujar 16-17, F 4 Responses May 30

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    reeessa reeessa 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2014

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