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I Wasted My Time On Someone

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    It took me 4 days to find this site to express

    my feelings that burdens me for two weeks now...why is it so painful to be dumped by the person you used to loved....in a matter of second he turned to be a stranger... pushing you away like he never knew you... hope to surpass this soon
    trustnoone13 trustnoone13 22-25, F 22 Responses Mar 3

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    alishnish alishnish 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 7, 2014

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    I was in this Friends With Benefits

    relationship with this guy and I accidentally fell for him. Telling myself not to but I knew that it was going to happen anyways.
    izzylark izzylark 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    You really messed me up,

    you know. I gave you everything I had and you just threw me away like a piece of trash. I really believed you loved me, but I'm pretty sure I was wrong. What makes it worse is the fact that you never told me why you left. I was just left on my own wondering what it was that I...
    ThatOneWeirdGirl ThatOneWeirdGirl 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    loin123 loin123 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 14

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    So there's this girl I went to high school with.

    We were super good friends. But then she found out I lied about myself. (I did it because I was sick of rejection). Anyway that fight lasted a year and then I started trying to become friends with her again. It's to the point I know I should delete her from my life. But I cant...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 1

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    He left. Didn't call me.

    Didn't say goodbye. Ignored my call and texts. Sent me to voicemail and is now unavailable for two months minimum for basic training. Right after he told me he wanted to be exclusive. I can't be his safety net anymore, it is destroying me to not know if or when I will hear from...
    aquakimy aquakimy 26-30, F 7 Responses Mar 4

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    That's the ****** about being the other woman,

    you don't get to have hurt feelings. The knowledge you aren't his only one...not even his only "other" one-is not supposed to bother you. You're a hypocrite if it does. Maybe I'm just acting paranoid, but I have a sneaky feeling that message wasn't for me. The choices: be...
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 26, 2014

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    For the past 4 years I've been stock filled

    with hope, waiting, and hanging on to my ex boyfriend of 2 years. He has been the most special person in my life. I fell in love with him really hard. And we were supposed to get married. Today, we said we are moving on, after being together on and off. For the past 3 days, I've...
    Mcallaha86 Mcallaha86 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 17

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    Little did he know, him ignoring me taught me

    how to live without him. At the time, I was confused and distraught. I wanted to know why. I began to blame myself by dissecting my personality and finding new flaws. Maybe I wasn't pretty enough. Maybe I was boring. Maybe...SIGH!! Whatever. Now, looking back I thank him...
    UnaLOME UnaLOME 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 12

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    R.I.P To The Feelings That I Had For You.

    Finally. It was gone. Completely gone. But it wasn't that easy. Killing that feeling is not a piece of cake. But now its not there anymore. It seems like the waves of time finally washed it away from the shores of my heart. It was amazing. Felt like a heavy load was finally...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    Unicornpeasant Unicornpeasant 18-21, F 11 Responses Mar 18

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    Ep Romance Rolercoaster. Ugh....

    i have wasted enough time with the people involved in fake Ep romance. This is different from the Ep romances that are real and work because the people connect and get together in real life. That is the way a real romance is suppose to work. i am talking about the most common...
    Tammykinz Tammykinz 22-25, F 9 Responses Aug 15, 2013

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    Live and learn. Life keeps on going forward

    never backwards. So don't reminisce on those past memories because you deserve better.
    whoscarlo5 whoscarlo5 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 23, 2014

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    Nothing begins and nothing ends

    that is not paid for with pain and tears. Curse the day and pray for light knowing that you have given all and found no limit to these sorrows. My glass was half full and you held it in your hand and crushed it; all that remains are the broken slivers of glass. Looking back, it...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 18 Responses Mar 1

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    I've only known this guy

    for a month and I want him to ask me out already 😭
    dykyd dykyd 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 23

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    I really feel nutz now,

    really. I use to write on here a lot about 4 years ago. I remember I found this place while I was going through a tough break up. I wrote and wrote and wrote about how the pain felt and what had happened. What i felt she was doing to me and wondering why. I finally stopped...
    Laperson4 Laperson4 36-40, M 3 Responses Mar 8

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    I wasted my time on someone

    and now I am miserable. I am dead inside with out this person and I can't find my life anymore. I don't know who i am and I can't even remember who I was. I knew I should've left..but I didn't..now look where that got me...hoping from doctor to doctor, therapist from therapist...
    EleanorSmithson EleanorSmithson 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 28

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    I was with someone for 2 years.

    We broke up 9 months ago- some days are harder than others. We broke up because I couldn't handle it anymore, my breaking point was when we had presentations my senior year of hs (he and I went to different schools) and we needed to dress up. Dressing up was a part of our grade...
    movingahead movingahead 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    Part three Necrophilia I eventually realised

    that I was just a delusional idiot who waisted their time ,money and passion on men who did not think of me more than a piece of trash ..I started looking at my reflection in a dark mirror and every time I saw a worn out faded face .my face got darkened from all the...
    restlessuk restlessuk 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    People will never see what's right in front of

    them, no matter how much you try. You can be the best thing anyone has ever had and they'd still do you dirty.
    jeneciesmesa jeneciesmesa 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 13

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    megamalik76 megamalik76 36-40, M 3 Responses Feb 16

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    As of today I'm finally removing this person

    out of my life and heart for good he has been nothing but toxic for me and I'm tired of him using me when he wants too and the hard part about it is that we have a child together but I must have no contact or dealings for at least 3 months I just can't accept to be a door mat...
    allofme26 allofme26 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    I dated a guy hmmm about 6 years ago

    for for over a year long distant relationship.... He lied to me through it all. He was seriously a pathological liar... He had me thinking he had a serious medical condition called ( Sickle Cell Anemia) had me thinking he was going to die .. One minute he was going to the...
    MsAnonymous1 MsAnonymous1 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 1, 2014

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    7 months of lies and cheating,

    it was a long distance relationship so I shouldn't have expected anything less
    steve393 steve393 41-45, M 2 Responses Feb 26

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    It's Amazing

    What you see when you step back, Take off the rose colored glasses Take a deep breath Watch the crap float to the top The water clears The real truth emerges And everything falls into place. Amazing the heartache you can avoid when your emotions are disengaged and not clouding...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 5 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    I'm not sure if I wasted my time

    or it was a life lesson??????
    janiesemonae janiesemonae 26-30, F 8 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    Good morning everyone.

    Has anybody out there had experience with online dating and romance. My experience has been absolutely horrible I have found it to many girls wanting to play games either wanting money or something from you. And gently leaving you a wreck. Emotionally rack I am in counseling now...
    Miguel55 Miguel55 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 2

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    Men give so many mixed messages you have to

    judge their intentions by their actions. The bottom line is that if he likes you, you won't be left questioning if he likes you. Period. If he wants you, he will damned well move heaven and earth and be with you. End of story. If not, do yourself a favour and move on. Now.
    Dotbar Dotbar 51-55, F 4 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    and i get angry at me

    for doing so...i think of how i destroyed so much of myself and others because i didnt take the time to stop and realize exactly what i was getting into...and i'm usually one to say that its not time wasted, it was lesson learnt...but, i dont know...i just know, never again will...
    ThePastIsDead ThePastIsDead 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 7

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    reeessa reeessa 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    It honestly sucks to give the best parts of you

    to someone you care about and then... everything just back fires and you realize that not even the best parts were good enough...
    LeeOmar88 LeeOmar88 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 2

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    I started dating a guy my junior year in high

    school. I stayed with him for almost 4 years. In that time I got pregnant and had my beautiful son which I would never regret. I had no idea how bad his problems were until we moved into an apartment together when I got pregnant. He was an alcoholic (at age 19) and very...
    tenderheart92 tenderheart92 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    I wasted my life on someone

    for a year and just realized it
    memoguyo1000 memoguyo1000 13-15, M 6 Responses Feb 28

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    Made me waste my ******* time.

    The audacity of some people. You don't even have your GED.
    Dreambrother Dreambrother 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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    I just lost the love of my life yesterday

    and I think I'm beginning to lose myself as well
    tashainkakisty tashainkakisty 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 18, 2014

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    Dear my cheated ex! I hate every stupid

    seconds I spent obsessing over u...
    Phyllispurple Phyllispurple 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 16

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    I don't think anything is necessarily a waste

    of time. I think we learn something from everything we've done and been through. I spent a lot of years with a guy that was toxic for me, but even so, I don't consider it wasted time. I just reflect on what I went through, and learn from it in order to better myself.
    sheghost sheghost 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 19, 2014

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    This also happens to be my first post here.

    I recently got out from a relationship of four years and I'm still angry.The deceit, being manipulated...made to feel like all the problems we ever had was my fault.I found myself constantly being the one to compromise on things.He was broke, unemployed during those years but two...
    sirba sirba 26-30, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    sheryfacc11 sheryfacc11 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    I don't want to say wasted

    because it makes me sad to think a person is a waste. But I spent almost two and a half years on this guy who I recently found out cheated on me multiple times with his ex and like any foolish girl I forgave him every time... I don't know if I was in lust or love with him but...
    Melanie15 Melanie15 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    Do you ever just think how you could've not

    seen it? Even though it was obvious for a great period of time? I regret even "befriending" (exaggerated because it wasn't friendship) someone who used me all along. I just wonder how I could've been so needy for friendship I didn't dump her earlier. I guess that was "using" her...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 5 Responses Mar 14

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    This may not be the typical story

    but I still believe that it is relevant. Last year, I was in a relationship with this guy who was everything a stereotypical teenage suburban girl could want. He was funny, nice, considerate, a gentleman, cute, and so many other things. I found the perfect boyfriend, and he...
    Deedle81 Deedle81 18-21, F Mar 3

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    I will never understand how someone can just

    throw away everything you've built together after being in a relationship for years. "I want new love" is what she said. I don't trust people as much as I used to anymore.
    AugustAshes AugustAshes 18-21, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    This starts a little over a year ago.

    At that time I started seeing escorts. I was and am in a marriage without any passion or affection. I saw a few different girls never seeing one more then twice. Until I met Lauren. At once it was different. I felt something more then physical. I would see her weekly and fell...
    penn2 penn2 56-60, M 2 Responses Feb 28

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    KenzieKenzBoo KenzieKenzBoo 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 19, 2014

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    But do we really waste our time in relationships

    when we learn from one another. Perhaps even fall in love/lust/like and then something insignificant happens and we get our feelings hurt or some such thing and we move on. I take full responsibility for hurting you. Isn't it odd how one or even each other would fall for the...
    PiercedBeast PiercedBeast 56-60, M