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I Wasted My Time On Someone

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    Are there any men that don't think of

    themselves first? Who don't only worry about when their hurting? I think life would be easier if I were a lesbian
    vangogh7 vangogh7 31-35, F 6 Responses Nov 7, 2014

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    I was in this Friends With Benefits

    relationship with this guy and I accidentally fell for him. Telling myself not to but I knew that it was going to happen anyways.
    izzylark izzylark 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    You really messed me up,

    you know. I gave you everything I had and you just threw me away like a piece of trash. I really believed you loved me, but I'm pretty sure I was wrong. What makes it worse is the fact that you never told me why you left. I was just left on my own wondering what it was that I...
    ThatOneWeirdGirl ThatOneWeirdGirl 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    That's the ****** about being the other woman,

    you don't get to have hurt feelings. The knowledge you aren't his only one...not even his only "other" one-is not supposed to bother you. You're a hypocrite if it does. Maybe I'm just acting paranoid, but I have a sneaky feeling that message wasn't for me. The choices: be...
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 26, 2014

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    I once liked a guy, he liked me back

    but he was too shy to talk to me so we kept texting for months and with my friends he would always ignore me and act like I wasn't there .one day I got sick of what he was doing so I confronted he acted as a jerk and starting telling me im worthless and no one will ever love...
    watermelon16 watermelon16 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2014

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    I honestly think my mom treats me like a baby

    because I have self harm marks like wtf. You've never been sad enough to cut yourself so why are you treating like that?
    WorthlessXlove WorthlessXlove 13-15, M 2 Responses Jan 9

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    Ever Been There?

    Where your so in love with someone that you keep believing them, even when others that are your friends keep telling you you have to be crazy where if they loved you like they said they did they would not be doing what they do Still you believe them as your heart doesn't want to...
    BAPhoto BAPhoto 46-50, M 10 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    I don't think anything is necessarily a waste

    of time. I think we learn something from everything we've done and been through. I spent a lot of years with a guy that was toxic for me, but even so, I don't consider it wasted time. I just reflect on what I went through, and learn from it in order to better myself.
    sheghost sheghost 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 19, 2014

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    I think most people have this thought atleast

    once in their life time .-.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    I'm not sure if I wasted my time

    or it was a life lesson??????
    janiesemonae janiesemonae 26-30, F 8 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I can't stop thinking about him.

    Its been three months since I saw him and I can see, smell, and hear him like it was today. I am so in love with him. I know we weren't meant to be together, but that doesn't make it hurt any less.
    reedusgirl reedusgirl 41-45, F 9 Responses Jan 8

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    keliscc11 keliscc11 26-30, F Dec 30, 2014

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    My affair of 10 months has ended suddenly.

    I really loved the guy, but the problem is I am his boss and so is my husband. My marriage has been volatile for years and my lover brought me excitement and happiness. My affair was undiscovered when he ended it, but I have to see him every day. He says he's alwAys there for me...
    hearttornrose hearttornrose 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 12

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    Yeah. Time getting to know someone.

    Entrusting them with my hopes and fears. Historical facts about my life. And then she broke my heart!
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Jan 10

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    I've met my Twin Flame.

    It was amazing and electrifying and also went so quickly. I knew he was the one 2 minutes after we met. Always sparks like a magnet that pulls us together. Even now, when we fight and say we are gonna leave. Something just pulls us back together. I've become very spiritual again...
    Aspie1122 Aspie1122 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm station in Japan

    and my ex girl cheated on me with my friend and I get it and I'm fine during the day as long as I don't think about but it gets to me at night I can't sleep because when I close my eyes I think of her and him together and it gets me so angry that I just want to punch or take my...
    erickfernando erickfernando 18-21, M 6 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    Girl kept me hanging

    for three years... Wouldn't commit or let me go. Lost a lot of self esteem. I doubt I could trust anyone again
    mrigoo mrigoo 22-25, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    And I get so angry when I think about it.

    Of course I have moved on but THREE YEARS. THREE WHOLE YEARS out of my life that was wasted. God, I was so stupid.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    My husband is a work-a-hollic.

    He has a very successful business but with all the time he spends working and away from his family he doesn't want to share a dime. Baffling.
    StilettoEsquire StilettoEsquire 26-30, F 11 Responses Jan 9

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    I dated a guy hmmm about 6 years ago

    for for over a year long distant relationship.... He lied to me through it all. He was seriously a pathological liar... He had me thinking he had a serious medical condition called ( Sickle Cell Anemia) had me thinking he was going to die .. One minute he was going to the...
    MsAnonymous1 MsAnonymous1 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 1, 2014

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    All my life I thought I wanted to play it safe

    at love and relationships. I thought (very stupid) that if I picked the guy that loved me more and was not to good looking, I'd be safe and would not have to worry about heartbreak cause they'd love me forever. Well I was wrong first of all you can never know how much someone...
    patri1 patri1 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    If only was one lol I wasted my time in

    so many people I lost count.What can I say...I am hard headed and cant stop trying again,meeting new people,hoping someone would prove me wrong.It is worthy coz among many dissapointments you always find a glance of true values or good human beings. I am cursed with many...
    4biandu 4biandu 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 10, 2014

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    It's Amazing

    What you see when you step back, Take off the rose colored glasses Take a deep breath Watch the crap float to the top The water clears The real truth emerges And everything falls into place. Amazing the heartache you can avoid when your emotions are disengaged and not clouding...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 4 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    I'm a gay male. I have spent

    so much time helping others, giving to others, and trying to find my pack that I am done. I am empty. I can't give anymore. And there is no one to return the favor. So I am lost. It seems so easy for everyone else to find their group. I don't belong anywhere. I'm a lone wolf...
    talynrex talynrex 26-30, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I don't want to say wasted

    because it makes me sad to think a person is a waste. But I spent almost two and a half years on this guy who I recently found out cheated on me multiple times with his ex and like any foolish girl I forgave him every time... I don't know if I was in lust or love with him but...
    Melanie15 Melanie15 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    My life has value beyond being his support

    system. My feelings have validity beyond what he thinks of them.
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F Jan 7

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    It's a very strange feeling to be interested in

    someone and in the process of getting to know them when one of your best friends knowingly pulls them away from you to pursue their own interests.
    EmpireForever EmpireForever 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 7

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    it TRULY was a waste of my time

    and life...i'll never get it back smh ughhhh this was SO UNEXPECTED #ihatewomen lol
    heartbrokenfem heartbrokenfem 26-30, F Jan 15

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    A few years ago now I dated a woman

    for 2 years. The first 6 months was all good but then things went down hill. She was very self centred and only did things in the relationship that benefited her. And after a while I eventually found out that when everything was going down hill was the same time she had began...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 5 Responses Dec 13, 2014

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    Live and learn. Life keeps on going forward

    never backwards. So don't reminisce on those past memories because you deserve better.
    whoscarlo5 whoscarlo5 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 23, 2014

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    I got dumped with silence!

    I wish it was via text, email or post-it....as horrible as those ways of being dumped are too but at least the person has the balls to say "hey it's not working for me" than just ignoring u completely! I could never love someone then ignore them. Id have at least that little...
    lissbliss lissbliss 26-30, F 5 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Made me waste my ******* time.

    The audacity of some people. You don't even have your GED.
    Mojopins Mojopins 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    paulacc11 paulacc11 26-30, F Jan 3

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    Society has long become more open to the idea

    of older man - younger woman relationship and older woman - younger man relationship as well. Hollywood has brought in the practice of successful older men looking for younger women. With actresses such as Catherine Zeta Jones marrying Michael Douglas with an age gap of 25 years...
    adelecc11 adelecc11 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    There's nothing sadder in this life

    than realising you wasted your time on someone. Precious moments that you will never get back, lost down the black hole of hopelessness and being the means to an end for someone. Where they can turn their emotions on and off for you and decidedly off when you no longer fit the...
    Blueshard Blueshard 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 10

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    I wasted two years of my life on someone

    and I regret it so much ! I can't believe I had a relationship with that guy two years !! I just want to take these two years and forget them.
    leiloup leiloup 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    alishnish alishnish 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 7, 2014

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    R.I.P To The Feelings That I Had For You.

    Finally. It was gone. Completely gone. But it wasn't that easy. Killing that feeling is not a piece of cake. But now its not there anymore. It seems like the waves of time finally washed it away from the shores of my heart. It was amazing. Felt like a heavy load was finally...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    reeessa reeessa 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    I feel so much for someone not love

    but care. But in return they could care less I'm just another girl. I cry about it constantly.
    stacyjean99 stacyjean99 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 3

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    no matter what, all good things come to an end

    no matter how much we don't want them to. I've just been a gullible person and reality is, I'm stupid. growing up I didn't have any girlfriends. when I moved to Colorado at the beginning of 6th grade, I was picked on. a few months earlier my mom died of lung cancer so I was in a...
    jarae jarae 26-30 Jan 10

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    7 Seven months wasted.

    What do I get in the end? I get accused of cheating, she tries turning my friends against me, tells everyone (even random people) that I used her and I'm made out to be a bad person. Keep in mind she was straight into another relationship three weeks after she broke up with me...
    xSundip xSundip 18-21, M 6 Responses Oct 19, 2014

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    I started dating a guy my junior year in high

    school. I stayed with him for almost 4 years. In that time I got pregnant and had my beautiful son which I would never regret. I had no idea how bad his problems were until we moved into an apartment together when I got pregnant. He was an alcoholic (at age 19) and very...
    tenderheart92 tenderheart92 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    BloodRedDarkness BloodRedDarkness 16-17, F Jan 11

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    To begin with I want to say

    that I feel I wasted my time only because of the last 5/6 months. For the record I have social anxieties and I worry I'm going to come across as stupid so I don't say a lot. I'm also a bit grumpy sometimes and can freeze people out until I'm ready to talk. I get both of these...
    BlueZeo BlueZeo 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    I just lost the love of my life yesterday

    and I think I'm beginning to lose myself as well
    tashainkakisty tashainkakisty 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 18, 2014

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    As of today I'm finally removing this person

    out of my life and heart for good he has been nothing but toxic for me and I'm tired of him using me when he wants too and the hard part about it is that we have a child together but I must have no contact or dealings for at least 3 months I just can't accept to be a door mat...
    allofme26 allofme26 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    You used me lied to me

    and ruined your own life now you sit in prison where you belong you destroyed my heart twice never again!!
    lilnurse lilnurse 31-35, F Dec 31, 2014

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    vanessacc11 vanessacc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    My so called best friend!

    She was my best friend for 3 years but she threw me away for her new friends at college! She lives only 45 minutes away but can't pick up the phone and ask me how I'm doing! (There's more to the story that I can not tell)
    AvaDay AvaDay 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Ep Romance Rolercoaster. Ugh....

    i have wasted enough time with the people involved in fake Ep romance. This is different from the Ep romances that are real and work because the people connect and get together in real life. That is the way a real romance is suppose to work. i am talking about the most common...
    Tammykinz Tammykinz 22-25, F 9 Responses Aug 15, 2013

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    Been played for a fool .

    Was always one step ahead though . Think i am finally learning who the players are and how they play their games . X