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I Wasted My Time On Someone

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    Ep Romance Rolercoaster. Ugh....

    i have wasted enough time with the people involved in fake Ep romance. This is different from the Ep romances that are real and work because the people connect and get together in real life. That is the way a real romance is suppose to work. i am talking about the most common...
    Tammykinz Tammykinz 22-25, F 9 Responses Aug 15, 2013

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    I still dream of him sometimes.

    I am having a hard time forgeting him. I know its really imposible to forget him despite of how much he had hurted me since he is the father of my baby. I hope when the baby come out i can totally remove him from my system.
    nobodyzgirl nobodyzgirl 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    There are numerous older men in the world

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    caraccaa caraccaa 26-30, F Apr 7

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    I've been in love with someone

    for two years . The last year was on and off. Then we got to a point where he told me he didn't want to be with me . But we still communicated and text everyday he'd come to see me and we'd have a great time and I allowed this because I loved him some days he'd ignore me then...
    kirstybarney kirstybarney 31-35, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    Don't ask someone to stay with you twice.

    If they want to leave, they going to leave no matter how hard trying to convince them to stay. They don't need you and you must not need them either.
    masmelo masmelo 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 12

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    As of today I'm finally removing this person

    out of my life and heart for good he has been nothing but toxic for me and I'm tired of him using me when he wants too and the hard part about it is that we have a child together but I must have no contact or dealings for at least 3 months I just can't accept to be a door mat...
    allofme26 allofme26 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    It's been over a year.

    We were both interested in one another (or so he said) but he wasn't ready for a relationship after his last one. And since then, nothing. Is it silly that I'm still waiting?
    Staarstruuck Staarstruuck 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 8

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    Unicornpeasant Unicornpeasant 18-21, F 11 Responses Mar 18

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    I wasted 6 years on this emotionally

    unavailable man ...stupid me
    funtabulous funtabulous 26-30, F 34 Responses Feb 28

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    I thought I could help him,

    in the end he used me and laughed in my face for having feelings. I opened my home to him, had many first with him, and tried my hardest to save him from himself, yet when I was in need of comfort and reassurance he told me he was in love with his ex and he couldn't help me. I...
    eunb eunb 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    Nothing begins and nothing ends

    that is not paid for with pain and tears. Curse the day and pray for light knowing that you have given all and found no limit to these sorrows. My glass was half full and you held it in your hand and crushed it; all that remains are the broken slivers of glass. Looking back, it...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 16 Responses Mar 1

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    R.I.P To The Feelings That I Had For You.

    Finally. It was gone. Completely gone. But it wasn't that easy. Killing that feeling is not a piece of cake. But now its not there anymore. It seems like the waves of time finally washed it away from the shores of my heart. It was amazing. Felt like a heavy load was finally...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    I will never understand how someone can just

    throw away everything you've built together after being in a relationship for years. "I want new love" is what she said. I don't trust people as much as I used to anymore.
    AugustAshes AugustAshes 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 23

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    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 12

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    Part three Necrophilia I eventually realised

    that I was just a delusional idiot who waisted their time ,money and passion on men who did not think of me more than a piece of trash ..I started looking at my reflection in a dark mirror and every time I saw a worn out faded face .my face got darkened from all the...
    restlessuk restlessuk 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    Live and learn. Life keeps on going forward

    never backwards. So don't reminisce on those past memories because you deserve better.
    whoscarlo5 whoscarlo5 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 23, 2014

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    I hate you. I hope i can forget all the pain to

    you give to me so i can forgive you. I hate you and I think i will hate you forever.
    nobodyzgirl nobodyzgirl 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 13

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    Learned from experience.

    I've become greedy other this experience. My heart comes first, second my mind, third is thought of being with someone. My first question to myself is, is he worth the pain in your heart again? You think he cares what he puts you thru while feeding lies to believe he's so great...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 10 Responses 4 days ago

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    I wasted my time not just one someone

    but on many people over the years. It has taken up the majority of my life & it seems i can't escape it. In relationships apparently there is no such thing as give and take & equality. There seems to be alot of take.. Apparently people only do things to get stuff back in...
    flyingblossom flyingblossom 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    I was loving/caring and he used me.

    Now I have a hard time not being towards anyone who's interested in me :(
    Hannaahhboo Hannaahhboo 18-21 2 Responses Apr 3

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    For the past 4 years I've been stock filled

    with hope, waiting, and hanging on to my ex boyfriend of 2 years. He has been the most special person in my life. I fell in love with him really hard. And we were supposed to get married. Today, we said we are moving on, after being together on and off. For the past 3 days, I've...
    Mcallaha86 Mcallaha86 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 17

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    Haven't we all, there's going to always be

    those time wasters and game players. *see group 'I believe in karma'* lol
    MyCircus MyCircus 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 16

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    I don't think anything is necessarily a waste

    of time. I think we learn something from everything we've done and been through. I spent a lot of years with a guy that was toxic for me, but even so, I don't consider it wasted time. I just reflect on what I went through, and learn from it in order to better myself.
    sheghost sheghost 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 19, 2014

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    It honestly sucks to give the best parts of you

    to someone you care about and then... everything just back fires and you realize that not even the best parts were good enough...
    LeeOmar88 LeeOmar88 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 2

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    Little did he know, him ignoring me taught me

    how to live without him. At the time, I was confused and distraught. I wanted to know why. I began to blame myself by dissecting my personality and finding new flaws. Maybe I wasn't pretty enough. Maybe I was boring. Maybe...SIGH!! Whatever. Now, looking back I thank him...
    UnaLOME UnaLOME 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 12

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    I was in this Friends With Benefits

    relationship with this guy and I accidentally fell for him. Telling myself not to but I knew that it was going to happen anyways.
    izzylark izzylark 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    Men give so many mixed messages you have to

    judge their intentions by their actions. The bottom line is that if he likes you, you won't be left questioning if he likes you. Period. If he wants you, he will damned well move heaven and earth and be with you. End of story. If not, do yourself a favour and move on. Now.
    Dotbar Dotbar 51-55, F 4 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    20 years i made myself available

    for all our activities. He out grew me
    pettypet pettypet 46-50, M 1 Response a week ago

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    i picked this guy off the streets,

    took him into my home,even lost my job over him. i loved him with all my heart and 2 weeks ago he was telling me how in love with me he was now today he says hes in love with someone else. he added me on fb and i see pictures of them kissing. why would he do that? i feel my...
    niellyn niellyn 22-25 4 Responses Apr 1

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    I wasted my time on someone

    for 2 years and all the times I tried to break up with him due to him telling me all my imperfections of myself. He would always make it seem like it was my fault in the relationship. Haven't talked to anyone about it and I wish I could.
    aliyahjonesss aliyahjonesss 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 28

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    You really messed me up,

    you know. I gave you everything I had and you just threw me away like a piece of trash. I really believed you loved me, but I'm pretty sure I was wrong. What makes it worse is the fact that you never told me why you left. I was just left on my own wondering what it was that I...
    ThatOneWeirdGirl ThatOneWeirdGirl 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I wasted my time on someone

    and now I am miserable. I am dead inside with out this person and I can't find my life anymore. I don't know who i am and I can't even remember who I was. I knew I should've left..but I didn't..now look where that got me...hoping from doctor to doctor, therapist from therapist...
    EleanorSmithson EleanorSmithson 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 28

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    my marriage was a waste of my time

    and effort beyond having my children. I realized on a big anniversary that he didnt really ever want to be there he just needed to get married have a boy- I ad arranged for a great seafood dinner wine beautiful location for a vacation to celebrate. I asked him if we could bring...
    blonde10 blonde10 36-40, F 8 Responses Apr 3

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    15 years on one had a break then 2 years on

    another then to top off 2 months on the last one.. so much time. il like it back
    teri266 teri266 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 16

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    That's the ****** about being the other woman,

    you don't get to have hurt feelings. The knowledge you aren't his only one...not even his only "other" one-is not supposed to bother you. You're a hypocrite if it does. Maybe I'm just acting paranoid, but I have a sneaky feeling that message wasn't for me. The choices: be...
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 26, 2014

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    alishnish alishnish 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 7, 2014

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    I can't stop thinking about him.

    Its been three months since I saw him and I can see, smell, and hear him like it was today. I am so in love with him. I know we weren't meant to be together, but that doesn't make it hurt any less.
    reedusgirl reedusgirl 41-45, F 9 Responses Jan 8

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    I dated a guy hmmm about 6 years ago

    for for over a year long distant relationship.... He lied to me through it all. He was seriously a pathological liar... He had me thinking he had a serious medical condition called ( Sickle Cell Anemia) had me thinking he was going to die .. One minute he was going to the...
    MsAnonymous1 MsAnonymous1 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 1, 2014

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    krmdr krmdr 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    I'm not sure if I wasted my time

    or it was a life lesson??????
    janiesemonae janiesemonae 26-30, F 8 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    So I fell for a guy and we slept together first

    night and after 8 days I was drunk having sex with him and I said I love you. In the morning I said whoops too soon. Then during the day I said oh yeah I'm nothing you..... I love you he said. I don't have tone drunk to say it.... I had major butterflies and I couldn't stop...
    piperweant piperweant 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I started dating a guy my junior year in high

    school. I stayed with him for almost 4 years. In that time I got pregnant and had my beautiful son which I would never regret. I had no idea how bad his problems were until we moved into an apartment together when I got pregnant. He was an alcoholic (at age 19) and very...
    tenderheart92 tenderheart92 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    Her name is Sarah and last semester I feel like

    she used me to pass a class. Now that it's over, she doesn't talk to me anymore although she's in my class this semester. This is nothing new, people have been doing this every semester to me and I look around with not a single best friend.
    IllusionaryGentleman39 IllusionaryGentleman39 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    reeessa reeessa 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2014

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    i tried getting her back with cute *** letters

    I apologized for **** she did , and yee i ended up getting played 😫😒
    xsmd xsmd 16-17, F Apr 4

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    7 Seven months wasted.

    What do I get in the end? I get accused of cheating, she tries turning my friends against me, tells everyone (even random people) that I used her and I'm made out to be a bad person. Keep in mind she was straight into another relationship three weeks after she broke up with me...
    xSundip xSundip 18-21, M 6 Responses Oct 19, 2014

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