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I Wasted My Time On Someone

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    And I get so angry when I think about it.

    Of course I have moved on but THREE YEARS. THREE WHOLE YEARS out of my life that was wasted. God, I was so stupid.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    I started dating a guy my junior year in high

    school. I stayed with him for almost 4 years. In that time I got pregnant and had my beautiful son which I would never regret. I had no idea how bad his problems were until we moved into an apartment together when I got pregnant. He was an alcoholic (at age 19) and very...
    tenderheart92 tenderheart92 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    7 Seven months wasted.

    What do I get in the end? I get accused of cheating, she tries turning my friends against me, tells everyone (even random people) that I used her and I'm made out to be a bad person. Keep in mind she was straight into another relationship three weeks after she broke up with me...
    xSundip xSundip 18-21, M 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    We have been together on

    and off for almost 2 years , he have failed me many times and I have forgive him many times , I did few mistakes 2 but none compared to his , he forgave me 2 .. lately we have been together for a while , and then he broke up with me because I confronted him with anything bad or...
    denial1 denial1 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm a treasure and anybody would be lucky to

    have my love. I can't believed I wasted so much time, effort, money, and love on him. He didn't deserve my affection. He led me on, took advantage, and ultimately destroyed my life (no exaggeration.) Now I can't trust anyone. This is one of the most difficult things to overcome...
    SC27 SC27 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 16

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    Ever Been There?

    Where your so in love with someone that you keep believing them, even when others that are your friends keep telling you you have to be crazy where if they loved you like they said they did they would not be doing what they do Still you believe them as your heart doesn't want to...
    BAPhoto BAPhoto 46-50, M 10 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    I think I wasted my time on someone,

    I spent four years with this amazing guy well I thought! We were lovers and best friends and out of the blue he broke it with me with no explanation, it has only been two weeks but having no contact and being strangers hurts!! He went from wanting to be together forever to the...
    Leaha7 Leaha7 16-17 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    So perfect that pink is on the picture!

    I wasted 2 years trying to be there for someone whenever he needed and he couldn't return the favor. I hope he likes his pictures facing down!
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F 6 days ago

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    I think of him and I get chills down my spine.

    Not because I love him so much, But because I get shivers from the cold from with in his heart radiating onto me:
    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    Sometimes you just have to let go

    and let God. Some people are only in your life for a season. The person I loved was an outstanding person but then again you have to be very careful who you love because the person you fell in love with May not be the same person. Why? There personality may change.
    imblessed2014 imblessed2014 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    It always had to be on your terms.

    Always. There was never any compromise with you. Your time seemed more important than mine. You tell me it's probably not a good time, I said fine, you call me when it is. End of that. I'm not going to chase you, and you didn't want me to. You don't want to chase me, you've made...
    designbycassandra designbycassandra 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    That's the ****** about being the other woman,

    you don't get to have hurt feelings. The knowledge you aren't his only one...not even his only "other" one-is not supposed to bother you. You're a hypocrite if it does. Maybe I'm just acting paranoid, but I have a sneaky feeling that message wasn't for me. The choices: be...
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 26

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    I am such a sweet, innocent girl.

    I got dropped for some hoes 😩 Why can't I get over this, I was cut off so wrong.
    johnsonj68 johnsonj68 18-21, F 22 hrs ago

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    Still wasting my time.

    He does not even express any interest or feelings towards me anymore. It's been a while and I still cannot shake this person from my brain. I know it's stupid. I feel stupid. Oh well guess I will get over it/him eventually.
    spaceylibra spaceylibra 31-35, F 10 Responses 6 days ago

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    Over two years I wasted😑

    and I was over it in a week!
    papercastles papercastles 22-25, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    reeessa reeessa 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I refuse to waste so much time caring about

    what other people think of me. I know how Golden I am and shouldn't let anyone change that not even for a moment. Each moment wasted says you aren't grateful for the many blessings you receive.... So Ive been thinking lol
    Lucky1217 Lucky1217 18-21, F Jan 28

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    I guess my crush doesnt have feelings

    for me and iam just gonna forgive about her πŸ’”πŸ˜”πŸ˜«
    kingibarra kingibarra 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    Me and this guy have talked

    for a year on and off. Out of the blue he stops talking to me. And talks to everyother girl!!! He's a player indeed.I wasn't too clingy, I kept it cool with not many strings attached. We made out and just did fun stuff. We both didn't want a relationship.What can go wrong w...
    johnsonj68 johnsonj68 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    R.I.P To The Feelings That I Had For You.

    Finally. It was gone. Completely gone. But it wasn't that easy. Killing that feeling is not a piece of cake. But now its not there anymore. It seems like the waves of time finally washed it away from the shores of my heart. It was amazing. Felt like a heavy load was finally...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    xallisaa xallisaa 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Well this is a long story.

    So beware. I was on a site called Wattpad which is a site you can write up stories and novels. Anyway, i posted a story and i had heaps of positive feedback and i got a comment from someone who loved my book and we messaged heaps and added each other on Facebook and Skyped lots...
    bluebird96 bluebird96 16-17, F 3 Responses May 15

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    If only was one lol I wasted my time in

    so many people I lost count.What can I say...I am hard headed and cant stop trying again,meeting new people,hoping someone would prove me wrong.It is worthy coz among many dissapointments you always find a glance of true values or good human beings. I am cursed with many...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I wasted 6 years of my life trying to save my

    husband from meth addiction. I feel like I failed. He put me through hell. I finally learned after 6 years I couldn't help him. I divorced him and walked away. He continues to use. So happy to be away from him!
    AmyG40 AmyG40 41-45, F 5 Responses Feb 15

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    An Ex Husband And His Daughter...

    I WASTED time on a man who was abusive to me. I thought I married a "good christian, loving, family man and father" to his daughter. He lied, stole, cheated, betrayed and back stabbed me for years before I ever suspected him or realized that he had been doing it the prior 10...
    Missalaineyeus Missalaineyeus 46-50, F 5 Responses Apr 18, 2012

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    Definitely, time wasted.

    This is why I just feel like ditching people. Never again.
    dashuria dashuria 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    The1infinity The1infinity 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I don't think anything is necessarily a waste

    of time. I think we learn something from everything we've done and been through. I spent a lot of years with a guy that was toxic for me, but even so, I don't consider it wasted time. I just reflect on what I went through, and learn from it in order to better myself.
    sheghost sheghost 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Can You Waste You're Time On Someone?

    No matter how terrible a relationship is, if you learned something, or gained something beautiful (like a child)... it doesn't matter if the relationship ended. It was not a waste. Even if you had fun when you were with them, or just realized that you wouldn't work out in the...
    amsthegreat amsthegreat 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 14, 2010

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    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45, T 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Ep Romance Rolercoaster. Ugh....

    i have wasted enough time with the people involved in fake Ep romance. This is different from the Ep romances that are real and work because the people connect and get together in real life. That is the way a real romance is suppose to work. i am talking about the most common...
    Tammykinz Tammykinz 22-25, F 9 Responses Aug 15, 2013

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    It's suck that I wasted 1 week on a guy

    who just wasting my money I paid everything for him in that week even I need to pay metro for him.
    Chinrussian Chinrussian 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    4 years of my life and we were never together.

    I missed out on so much because of it but thank god my new girlfriend truly loves me or I'll still be trying to get with that *****.
    Deuz Deuz 18-21, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Guess it wasn't really wasting my time

    because it taught me a valuable lesson!
    FallenAngel0 FallenAngel0 31-35, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I just lost the love of my life yesterday

    and I think I'm beginning to lose myself as well
    tashainkakisty tashainkakisty 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Posh girl. She meant the world to me.

    She was the first girl I'd ever properly got involved with. Turns out she was quite superficial and led me on for ages. I hated her for a while, but I tried viewing the situation from her perspective. I never forgave her for screwing with my life for 2 years, but at least I...
    JacobStark JacobStark 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    KenzieKenzBoo KenzieKenzBoo 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    18 Year Old Virgin Meets 31 Year Old Don Juan. Result: Disaster!

    So I met Everett when I was 18, virginal, and hopelessly naive. He was 31, devilishly handsome, smart, charming, yada yada yada. He had a girlfriend, but I was in love with him, so as much as I'm not proud of it now, I was "the other woman" for several years because he kept...
    LeonsMathilda LeonsMathilda 22-25, F 9 Responses Jul 3, 2010

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    euphorian euphorian 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I use to but not anymore,

    I got my feet firmly rooted to the fair. I learn quickly to spot the run around and games I use to text and call a lot, bought presents and wanted to be with you a lot. Now I text when only you text, if you don't call I never will. and whenever you don't wanna go out tonight I...
    Crywolf9 Crywolf9 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    All my life I thought I wanted to play it safe

    at love and relationships. I thought (very stupid) that if I picked the guy that loved me more and was not to good looking, I'd be safe and would not have to worry about heartbreak cause they'd love me forever. Well I was wrong first of all you can never know how much someone...
    patri1 patri1 36-40, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    You Wrecked Me...

    The story is a long one, and I've told it so much that I'm sick of doing it. I'll just say that I really liked someone 5 years ago who pretended to care about me when in reality, he didn't give a **** at all. I obsessed over him for 3 years. In the end, he told me, "You're...
    heatherlee70 heatherlee70 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 10, 2013

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    ForeverAutumnsLove ForeverAutumnsLove 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    It's Amazing

    What you see when you step back, Take off the rose colored glasses Take a deep breath Watch the crap float to the top The water clears The real truth emerges And everything falls into place. Amazing the heartache you can avoid when your emotions are disengaged and not clouding...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 4 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    That sad moment when the girl u like doesnt

    reply and she is online :(
    kingibarra kingibarra 26-30, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Sigh....so to try to see them

    as experiences and reasons instead of wasted time is always hard :/
    patri1 patri1 36-40, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    You Knocked Me Up And Tied Me Down, You Dirty Bum

    Several years after my first divorce I wrote a little country music ditty for my ex.  Here it is: YOU KNOCKED ME UP AND TIED ME DOWN, YOU DIRTY BUM I THOUGHT YOU WANTED ME, BUT YOU JUST WANTED 'SOME' I THOUGHT THAT WHAT WE HAD WAS REAL BUT ALL YOU WANTED WAS A HOME COOKED...
    honeybit honeybit 56-60, F 14 Responses Oct 23, 2010

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