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I Wasted My Time On Someone

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    But I still love them

    and hope one day things might work out. Pathetic right.
    WishIWasForever WishIWasForever 18-21, F 7 Responses May 30

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    Learned from experience.

    I've become greedy other this experience. My heart comes first, second my mind, third is thought of being with someone. My first question to myself is, is he worth the pain in your heart again? You think he cares what he puts you thru while feeding lies to believe he's so great...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 10 Responses Apr 21

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    So much energy and love wasted on someone

    who never really cared. Never settle for second best, because you'll be left behind.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses a week ago

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    My history has made me the man I am today.

    I'm happy with who I am and where I am. But I do wonder where I could have been if I had taken different steps!?
    PeterSp8 PeterSp8 41-45, M 4 Responses May 19

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    I dated a girl on and off

    for a year she treated me like **** but she had me mesmerized by her beauty and how sweet she was when she wasn't being a flat out *****
    Joshboyd99 Joshboyd99 13-15 3 Responses Jun 1

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    I think I need to stop going

    for younger guys and go for guys my own age or older
    itslala840 itslala840 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 16

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    Aloc Aloc 26-30 1 Response Jun 7

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    Unicornpeasant Unicornpeasant 18-21, F 10 Responses Mar 18

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    When I was 21, I met a girl I just absolutely

    feel hard for; I played it cool, but I knew she was exactly my type when first I met her. She was beautiful like I cannot even describe... Not like physically beautiful like a model, but just like... Perfect, you know? Well, I managed to date her a while, and we made love a few...
    KingNidas KingNidas 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I met a guy on this site

    and he claimed he was head over heels in love (which I really didn't believe because I'm not that gullible. Lol). He was actually upset because I wasn't buying it. He said he was a widower, had his own business, and he was overseas finishing up some work. All this time I...
    irisia irisia 46-50, F 10 Responses 2 days ago

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    I never had a successful relationship all the

    girls I known either cheated on me or laid about how much they loved me , i always used to think that I have so much love to give but I always gived it to the wrong person .so I end up every time heart broken ,
    johne18 johne18 18-21, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    did it once all ready .

    ..and fell for it again...im a fool...
    flj3 flj3 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 25

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    leneccaa leneccaa 26-30, F Jun 5

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    My "best friend" is a lying,

    manipulative, psychopath. For the past fifteen years, I have listened to her blame everyone for her problems, but I don't believe she's ever taken a look at herself to see the kind of crazy she actually is. I've always known she's had a problem with lying. For example, she tells...
    VioletMerryweather VioletMerryweather 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 13

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    alishnish alishnish 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 7, 2014

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    Different day same mood being with someone

    who drains you emotionally hurts. The things i do for love smh some times i wonder is it worth holding on to? Patiently waiting by the phone for messages & call ill never get......I guess I'm stuck on who he use to be and not what he's becoming.
    FlowerChildXOXO FlowerChildXOXO 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I had to stop talking to this boy

    because we were just having meaningless sex. We didn't have any emotions for each other, so I had to end it. I'm kind of sad because he didn't see it coming. Am I wrong for just coming out of the blue at him like that??
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 7

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    Let me be frank I think people of all genders

    and sexualities should be accepted but I can't help that I had a bad experience. In every group I feel as though there is a few bad apples but sometimes when you are person like myself who wants to sound all accepting all the time it's difficult to voice your experience about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 days ago

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    I wasted 6 years on this emotionally

    unavailable man ...stupid me
    funtabulous funtabulous 26-30, F 30 Responses Feb 28

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    It took me 4 days to find this site to express

    my feelings that burdens me for two weeks now...why is it so painful to be dumped by the person you used to loved....in a matter of second he turned to be a stranger... pushing you away like he never knew you... hope to surpass this soon
    trustnoone13 trustnoone13 22-25, F 23 Responses Mar 3

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    Ever had someone you talked to

    for an infinite amount of time just to wake up to the fact that they'd already left you out for some fckng reason and finding out they're out in the open, not even giving a single fck about where you were last time you talked? I was offering my friendship. Sometimes I think I'm...
    alltimestrokes alltimestrokes 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 4

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    7 Seven months wasted.

    What do I get in the end? I get accused of cheating, she tries turning my friends against me, tells everyone (even random people) that I used her and I'm made out to be a bad person. Keep in mind she was straight into another relationship three weeks after she broke up with me...
    xSundip xSundip 18-21, M 6 Responses Oct 19, 2014

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    reeessa reeessa 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2014

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    I don't think anything is necessarily a waste

    of time. I think we learn something from everything we've done and been through. I spent a lot of years with a guy that was toxic for me, but even so, I don't consider it wasted time. I just reflect on what I went through, and learn from it in order to better myself.
    sheghost sheghost 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 19, 2014

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    Men give so many mixed messages you have to

    judge their intentions by their actions. The bottom line is that if he likes you, you won't be left questioning if he likes you. Period. If he wants you, he will damned well move heaven and earth and be with you. End of story. If not, do yourself a favour and move on. Now.
    Dotbar Dotbar 51-55, F 4 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    Many times actually. I felt

    that the people i helped took advantage of my kindness. Now i am cautious of who i want to assist or help.
    ab2x2 ab2x2 41-45, M 3 Responses Apr 28

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    I was emotionally invested in my friend not a

    very long time ago. I spent every single day trying to talk with her, trying to connect with her, sharing stories and experiences, but only received short, brief responses. I felt like I was receiving nothing in compensation. Almost as if I was talking to a robot. I was always...
    Xiuxieujar Xiuxieujar 16-17, F 5 Responses May 30

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    my marriage was a waste of my time

    and effort beyond having my children. I realized on a big anniversary that he didnt really ever want to be there he just needed to get married have a boy- I ad arranged for a great seafood dinner wine beautiful location for a vacation to celebrate. I asked him if we could bring...
    blonde10 blonde10 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 3

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    I dobt regret my past i just regret the time i

    have wasted with the wrong people .
    desistories desistories 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    As of today I'm finally removing this person

    out of my life and heart for good he has been nothing but toxic for me and I'm tired of him using me when he wants too and the hard part about it is that we have a child together but I must have no contact or dealings for at least 3 months I just can't accept to be a door mat...
    allofme26 allofme26 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    OK so the picture is from a pink video

    so that deserves a few words. i consider 90 percent of the people in my life a waste of time lol could be more could be less depending on how pissed off i am at the time.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 4

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    I see so many young people on here,

    according to what they put! Please be careful, people are not always what or who they say they are, and remember never put your self at risk by giving any one personal information, inappropriate photos be safe!!
    fallenstar2015 fallenstar2015 36-40, F Jun 4

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    SunshineH13 SunshineH13 22-25, F 1 Response May 30

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    I wasted my encouraging words

    because he wants to be a loser but didn't have the guts to me; instead, he actively rebelled against all my encouraging words, transformed and then blamed me. He used me as his muse just to prove to himself that he can't evolve; not even under the best case scenario. Be careful...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jun 4

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    Ep Romance Rolercoaster. Ugh....

    i have wasted enough time with the people involved in fake Ep romance. This is different from the Ep romances that are real and work because the people connect and get together in real life. That is the way a real romance is suppose to work. i am talking about the most common...
    Tammykinz Tammykinz 22-25, F 9 Responses Aug 15, 2013

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    Don't ask someone to stay with you twice.

    If they want to leave, they going to leave no matter how hard trying to convince them to stay. They don't need you and you must not need them either.
    masmelo masmelo 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 12

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    I think this can apply to any relationship with

    someone, where I emotionally invested in but it doesn't feel like the person didn't really give anything back. Would this be a selfish way of looking at things?
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe 41-45, F 28 Responses May 20

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    Nothing begins and nothing ends

    that is not paid for with pain and tears. Curse the day and pray for light knowing that you have given all and found no limit to these sorrows. My glass was half full and you held it in your hand and crushed it; all that remains are the broken slivers of glass. Looking back, it...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 16 Responses Mar 1

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    Just when I feel like I want to post something

    passive-aggressive and mean in the HOPE that the person it's meant for will see it; I stop myself and try to say something encouraging instead. It's not insincere, it's a good practice for my own mental health. There are several reasons for this: 1.) A mean, passive-aggressive...
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F 4 Responses May 21

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    6 months full of nothing

    but arguments and unloyalty . " sometimes you must make mistakes and waste your time " wait what ? NO !!!
    annoynousbob annoynousbob 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    http://jerrilyn-jeralyn.

    tumblr.com/post/122151040751/i-was-taking-you-in
    jbnichole jbnichole 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    I think I am crying over something I never

    really had. I refuse to crumble... I'll take the pieces of my heart, men's them and keep going. Pray for me
    onionskin22 onionskin22 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Stupid SOB and I fell

    for it. Under the guise of offering assistance for my problem, I reopened the lines of a communication with a manipulative ex. I want to believe the best about people. I shouldn't! It's screwed me before and it has screwed me again. Thankfully I know his stupid shenanigans...
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F 5 Responses May 20

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    Ah, how lovely...they proclaim they care

    for you. They text in caps how much affection and love they have for you. THEN THEY ASK YOU FOR MONEY! What in the world is wrong with some men! What a complete waste of my time!
    Danielle1011 Danielle1011 51-55, F 4 Responses Jun 18

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    It seems I am doomed to be ignored.

    I left my husband a year ago because he ignored me constantly (he would say maybe 5 sentences to me a month) now my boyfriend is doing the same thing...ugh! I'm tired of wasting my time.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 6

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    I'm 14 a girl and single

    so follow me on Instagram @sophia.asf
    sophiaasf sophiaasf 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 6

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