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I What Would I Say to Anorexia If It Were Sitting Next to Me

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    This Is A Great Idea For A Group!

    I'd say: Damn, you're ugly!!
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 18, 2010

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    Dear Anny ..

      "YOU ARE MY BEST FRIEND AND WORST ENEMY" WITH LOVE, DOLL    
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 7, 2009

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    Dear Ana

    You entered my life at a time in which I had no control and you took advantage.  You inhabited my life and left me rendered silent, tied up and gagged in the back seat, helplessly watching as I developed a personality and way of acting that was alien to me and those around...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jun 15, 2008

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    When I was a kid of 7,

    I was a chubby kid. Whatever the reason, I weighed more than I should. I'd never been called fat by my peers (yet), but I went to the doctor for some illness or another and he pointed out that I was overweight. He told me it wasn't my fault, that my parents were to blame for...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jul 4

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    The Fight to Be Skinny

    Anorexia! You made me so skinny. For a moment I loved you so much. You were my friend.My skinny friend. The one that made me look fat! I looked in the mirror at 106 pounds and all I saw was fat! You said ,"Stop eating you'll be even skinnier,you can never be too thin...
    NaynaLovesMike NaynaLovesMike 18-21, F 2 Responses May 12, 2008

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    I Never Thought I Could Hate Something So Much...

     If Anorexia was sitting next to me I would first slap it across the face, and then proceed with this: I hate you, more than I ever thought I could hate something. You took over my life for years, you almost killed my loved ones. You set a standard over me that I was never...
    InsanelyMe08 InsanelyMe08 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 10, 2009

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    'Thankyou'

    I would thank her, because I am convinced that anorexia helped me to get through some very difficult times. She gave me something to concentrate and fixate on, gave me an element of control when everything else was chaotic.  I can't know for sure now, but I think without her...
    amelia90 amelia90 18-21, F Aug 31, 2009

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    What I Would Say?

    get the hell away from me or go get me a burger! and to those of you who are struggling with this...please do not think i take this lightly...i am 5'6" and once weighed in at 90 pounds...i feel your pain...my issue was not quite the same but close enough to understand...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 7, 2009

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    Please Eat

    You are beautiful even you have a litte but of fat. Not worth it to starve yourself. Food is wonderful to eat. Just eat in moderate. Work out to burn fat. We are human. We can't survive without food or water.
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F Mar 9, 2011

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    My Message To Anorexia (i'm Rather A Gourmet)

    Hi, anorexia!   I'd like to tell you just two things: -Better obese than obsess  -And now, a traditional Polish compliment I was once flattered with: "There is never too much of a body you love"   -The fact, dear anorexia, is that I'm BIG, outside as...
    H2O2 H2O2 41-45 1 Response Feb 15, 2010

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    Thank You.

    thanks for not making me a victim of your s***. thanks for not letting me be with you. ;)
    LoveLindseyMusic420 LoveLindseyMusic420 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 1, 2009

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    Mirror, Mirror

    Have We Met? Do I Know You? Why are you sitting so close? :-)paco35
    paco35 paco35 56-60, M 3 Responses Sep 1, 2009

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    ....

            stop it !!!!!!!
    amysangels amysangels 22-25, F 10 Responses Mar 9, 2011

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    What Would I Say? . . .

    Love yourself from the inside out.  Stop staring at the mirror and believing something that just isn't true.  You have bought into an painful obsession that wasn't yours to purchase. You are holding yourself back from the freedom of being a well, strong person.  Love yourself...
    iwritebiographies iwritebiographies 41-45, F Sep 20, 2011

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    Hm

    i just said this in a comment in another story and i really mean it.. i would say ''u r not me ,im glad u r leaving ,bye and dont come back! '' never never come back..i can have the mixed thoughts ,i can remember but i wont let u come back.i ll do my best to not see u back...
    amysangels amysangels 22-25, F 8 Responses Mar 15, 2010

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    Hello Anorexia

    At one point in my life, I thought I had Anorexia. I was obsessed with losing weight and couldn't eat for a month because anything I ate, even an apple, later made me feel really guilty. Thinking of food just made me want to vomit. I was, and still am, very much overweight and I...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F Mar 15, 2011

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    Im Sorry.....

    I drifted so far these last two days......... I gorged myself on biscuits last night...... all the carbs in that bread...... today I ate all those vegtables..... youghurt...... custard....... hot chocolate....... so much I had to go back to Mia.....   Im sorry I betrayed...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 21, 2008

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    From 305 To 210 In 90 Days

    Since early 1996 i was getting bigger and bigger. Step by step I was going from 205 to 210 and in short time at 2000 from 220 to 300, and even 310. Since I am well build and fit , even when i was 305 I was fat but in decent shape. When i hit 50 and accidentally I do stay in Asia...
    Leptinpete Leptinpete 61-65, M Jun 19, 2010

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    I'd Say...

    I'm sorry I can't be as good as you want me to be.
    blatantnarcisism blatantnarcisism 18-21, F Feb 13, 2009

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    I'd Sucker Punch Her And Say...

    YOU ******* KILLED MY BEST FRIEND DON'T YOU DARE TAKE MORE OF THEM -__- okay, angry moment over..
    peanlo peanlo 18-21, F 13 Responses Mar 9, 2011

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    What Would You Say to Anorexia?

    What would you say to anorexia if it were sitting next to you?  Would you scream, cry, whisper, yell?  If anorexia has touched the life of you, your sister, mother, daughter....what would you say?
    sarahclimber sarahclimber 21-25, F 6 Responses Nov 6, 2007

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    No hidden meaning or manipulation! I dislike it when people deliberately test your mind to see what they can mess with and say one thing but mean another... As well a lot of...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    This is a fun question. Hmm. I think mine would say: don't waist your time trying to bring me down. It will not workk. Besides, sounds like cleaning up time takes a lot of towels...
    Marktastic Marktastic 13-15, M Aug 9

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    I swear I never know what to say to this woman. *amn, I just feel like a screw up.
    Novemberman Novemberman 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I've had this exact problem before, well at least ones really close to it. If you look at my profile you will see the exact same thing. I make friends and make really strong...
    Tlex85 Tlex85 18-21, M Aug 15

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    Think before you speak, I hold on to every word you say to me. Everything that spills out of your mouth means something and I analyze it for hours and try to figure you out but it...
    aliensexist12 aliensexist12 22-25, F Aug 20

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    If I were me (and believe me, I've considered it) I would do things my way.
    wpb211 wpb211 41-45, M Aug 18

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    Tbh 'I love you' is over used these days, and I don't see the point of giving people false hopes and hurting them in the end soo I don't say it unless I mean it
    ChillVibes2 ChillVibes2 16-17, F Aug 1

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    THIS INFURIATES ME!! The freedom to write & share whatever I felt ~ the acceptance~ the TOLERANCE~ is why I fell in love with this site. Sadly, these things are vanishing, as...
    HisWetWife HisWetWife 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    I'm straightforward and I like people be as straightforward as they can, not just saying things for the sake of politeness 'cause....THAT IS ANNOYING! I don't want to spend my time...
    Naturalsimple Naturalsimple 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    her top was draping open and she was wearing a lacy bra. I could see her complete t*t including her pink n*pple. she kept her head turned away from me mostly so I was able to stare...
    XmedicNow XmedicNow 46-50, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    "I think I know why you think you are talking to a brick wall all the time."
    Unification Unification 16-17, F Aug 2

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    Walls : Why the **** are we painted this color. Me: Idk ask my mother i wanted red! :/
    TeddyOrTeddie TeddyOrTeddie 13-15, M Aug 2

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    Please forgive people and do good !!
    billyaldo billyaldo 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 2

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    Walls: really, a justin Bieber poster Me: I took it down, I liked him before Walls: ... @love_thechase follow me Instagram
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F Aug 2

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    I'm never going to BELIVE in love NEVER AGAIN
    killerinstinke killerinstinke 13-15, F Aug 3

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    I have a hard time opening up and talking about myself. I'm not sure why that is, because I want to connect with people it's just hard sometimes.
    gentlemanjack71 gentlemanjack71 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 12

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    Love this one: "I'm Sofa King Cool". With a picture of a sofa and a king ;P
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    "You are not special. You're not a beautiful and unique snowflake. You're the same decaying organic matter as everything else. We're all part of the same compost heap. We're all...
    havokitten havokitten 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 9

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    'There are the way things are, and the way things should be'
    LeoLioness8 LeoLioness8 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 9

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    **** it. Catsticks. (And because I need more words. Blahh)
    Nihnox Nihnox 18-21, F Aug 9

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    Love yourself, only God can do it better. Or **** Happens !
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    Omg I'm so random aren't lava lamps cool
    Dinosaurfanatic Dinosaurfanatic 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    It was the 60th birthday of my mother in law Maria. On this occasion, we celebrated with her ​​and her husband in their home. Maria had made much trouble with lunch for her...
    Michael91142 Michael91142 70+, M 3 Responses Aug 12

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    Last week I was in the mountains hiking with my best friend. After five days of fab weather and nice views we were returning to base camp. On the way down we passed through the...
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    I feel like I'm in the middle all the time. Its a terrible feeling. I've been in a relationship for years now and I still love him like the day I met him. Don't ask me why...
    LStacey LStacey 36-40, F Jul 30

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    After my parents got divorced when I was ten, I was living with my Dad. He was bisexual and had a boyfriend that stayed with us. On some weekends I would stay at his boyfriends...
    Michelle1976 Michelle1976 36-40, T 4 Responses Aug 16

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    Alright, wow. So I've been gone for two years and I come back to see all this 'crap'. I would like to say: PLEASE make way for the serious people. And to those who 'want to be a...
    SisteroftheNight SisteroftheNight 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 19