I Where Are The Good Men

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 22 People

    I Will Tell You Where

    Good men are all around but sometimes us ladies are too impatient to wait and jump for the first zero that comes along pretending to be our hero. Good men (and women) are worth the wait.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    7 Responses Mar 2, 2010

    Truth Be Told....

    They're rare. And I mean the attractive ones. You can throw a stone and find a guy with a great personality willing to treat you right. But, 9 times out of 10, he doesn't rev your engine. At least, this tends to be my outcome. My standard isn't high either. I know what kind of...
    RationalCutie RationalCutie
    22-25, F
    11 Responses Sep 19, 2013

    There seems to be a MASS confusion from guys

    about this "group". A lot of hot-blooded males with penises jump onto a woman's story and demean her about saying that there aren't any "good" men. How about I lessen their ignorance? Any rational woman will know that there are, obviously, GOOD men out there in the world...
    RationalCutie RationalCutie
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Oct 5, 2014

    Where Are They?

    Simple, they are in the places that your often unwilling to look.
    ashleyphotog ashleyphotog
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Apr 12, 2012

    Well Im Not Looking For A Good Guy....

    im a guy who wants women! but this subject got my attnetion, because i hear it all the time! "where are all the good guys? they are all taken or gay!" i think its more simple than that. most women seem to think a "good guy" is one who is well built, well hung, got more...
    iluvbigboobs iluvbigboobs
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Nov 9, 2010

    Where are the good looking men at?

    seem all I get are the ones who look like they never shower, put on clean clothes, I want a man that is white good looking smells fresh and clean and looks like he washed his clothes. I hope I can find him in or around rock county wisconsin.
    eyeamalive eyeamalive
    46-50, F
    Dec 24, 2015

    There Are!

    I am actually here to say that there are good men! Yes, I know it is weird to have this coming from me! I have met some and I have met one particularly.. He has such an innocent heart, very kind, loving and responsible. With such a person you are not afraid of getting hurt, you...
    MissGaga MissGaga
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 1, 2013

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