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    I was cheated on but

    when the man confessed to it, it was during a proposal. I cried and cried and so did he. I asked him how he could do that to me when I treated him so well, he said he wants to marry me because I am the most incredible woman he has ever met and that I kept him so satisfied in...
    HopefulLovelyLioness HopefulLovelyLioness 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    Why They Cheat

    Usually if a man is cheating he is not getting everything he needs from the woman he is with.  Most men cheat because there is something in you they like but also something missing they want.  If everyone is straight up and say what they want and what they need and...
    missy1234 missy1234 31-35 7 Responses Oct 12, 2009

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    Same Reasons Females Do

    they do not care it is a i want world so al,l feel they have theright to cheat if if they cheatedonce they will keep doing it
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Oct 17, 2011

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    The Same Reasons Girls Do

    the world has become a throw away place.................................................................................................
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Oct 4, 2011

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    Liars, Cheats, Losers, Users

    They hide behind the sanctity of marriage looking for their next cheap thrill...she doesn't understand me, he says...when a man tells me he has gone out on his wife, I slowly extricate myself from the arrangement...I start looking for the signs and they are always there. Fix your...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 9 Responses Jan 18, 2011

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    3 Times

    i've been cheated on 3 times, i still feel crushed by it. i just found out today that my ex was cheating on my. i'm crushed, that made me feel like everyone i get close to is going to do that to me. i didn't even know he was doing that, which scares me now. how can i trust anyone...
    gothicromantic gothicromantic 16-17, F Aug 7, 2009

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    Women Do It Just The Same!

    The question presupposes a fallacy. Women cheat about as often as men. End of story.
    lula69 lula69 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 14, 2011

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    Kdstwice

    I have know this man most of my adult life. We been together for a while. Then we broke up, when he see me he act like he doesn't know me. I found out that he now has a new baby and has been seeing two women at the same time. And he also been talking to other women in various...
    katJames katJames 46-50, F Aug 7, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    i used to do every thing just to make him happy but still i caught him cheating me. i wonder why he did that to me. Where should we get faithful men?
    Amsinglle Amsinglle 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 2

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    i never knew that he will cheat on me according to the ways how he was behaving. he used to be smart in every thing he does, i consider him now as a chamilion that keeps on...
    Amsinglle Amsinglle 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 2

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    I don't see how they think such things. They don't have the ability to create a human being inside them! Without us they are literally NOTHING. They'd be gay! (Nothing against...
    NotMuchGoingOnHere NotMuchGoingOnHere 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    We are all created equal. In my book, it should be 50/50. It's a shame that people still have beliefs that are outdated and frowned upon by hopefully most of society!!
    jonbz17 jonbz17 22-25, M Oct 5

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    I am sharing this article because I agree with what he is saying http://realnewspaper.wordpress.com/2014/03/13/why-men-cheat-on-loyal-women/
    sapphire601 sapphire601 31-35, F Sep 23

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    To make a long story short I was talking to a guy in the summer and you know we were jus talking and talking so much for a good two weeks and the next thing you know it We were...
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 23

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    Something I need to see: I feel sorry for any of these women or men who get cheated on. I see people on here talking about how they had several affairs and they don't regret...
    ChanelLove12 ChanelLove12 70+, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Why do all men cheat (and in this case I mean emotionally) He can say it wasn't cheating all day long (because physically it wasn't) but his heart still strayed, he still needed...
    hyperstrange hyperstrange 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Married 11 years,been with her for 15, never set eyes on another girl since marriage.I loved her, adored her,never had any problems between us.Just found out that she has been...
    vinnew vinnew 36-40, M 20 Responses Oct 6

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    im a filipina and im attractive to white men., idk why but i think they are the most beautiful creature in the planet...
    posh02 posh02 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 1

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    I always have been as far back as I can remember... I've always been thinking about things way out of the box I remember so many times my grandparents and teachers would get mad...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 24

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    I love white men I think they are so much more career oriented than other men and they know how to have fun
    leelee1988 leelee1988 46-50, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I love older men.. I think the max age for me would have to be 50. I need someone to take me away.. To be my lover. Take me into your home. Into your heart.. I won't ever let you...
    TakeMeAway15 TakeMeAway15 13-15, F 8 Responses Sep 24

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    R. Do you ever think of yourself as actually dead lying in a box with a lid on it? No. R. Nor do I really. It's silly to be depressed by it. I mean, one thinks of it...
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M Sep 23

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    Just when I was feeling better and making people laugh, I got some taste of racism. You don't have to listen to it, sometimes it is the ignorance after you said where you from. I...
    yesilovethis yesilovethis 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 5

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    I get so overwhelmed by the littlest things. They plague me with this undying feeling of just hurt. Why do I think everyone wants to just use and hurt me? Is it because I have been...
    littlebird97 littlebird97 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 21

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    If something didn't work the first 20 times why do you think it's gonna work the 21st? Try it a different way.
    Favoritejohnny Favoritejohnny 13-15, M Sep 28

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    Why do I think that? I don't know. Life is so complex that I wouldn't say it's only life. Life is a bunch of lives in the sack of death, in which all things in Earth fall down...
    Peace1000 Peace1000 16-17, F Sep 30

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    Who hasn't been caught by the deception of another's selfish acts. I am not a cheater, never have and never would. Its not for the lack of interest either. Many women have asked...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I am nearly 18, iv been with my boyfriend since i was 14 and i have never had feelings for someone the way i have him, i love him. Recently i found out he cheated on me, with my...
    hurtseveryday hurtseveryday 16-17, F 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    I love my boyfriend more than anything, but I don't know if I'd walk away from a situation that would lead to cheating, and that scares me.
    Odessa0310 Odessa0310 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Whilst I was busy working my *** off in the office starting a new business to come back from a financial catastrophe in 2005, I returned home unexpectedly one afternoon to catch my...
    TrentT TrentT 41-45, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Oh boy do I have a story.....Let's just start by saying, I do not need anyone telling me how stupid I am....no one can tell me anything I haven't already said to myself....I have...
    chitownfool chitownfool 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 24

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    This is the first time I'm telling this story. I don't want sympathy and I'm sure a lot of you will think I'm stupid. I have a boyfriend. His name is, let's call him, Stephen. I've...
    thatgirl0926 thatgirl0926 18-21, F Oct 11

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    Pondering Thought: Cure Or EndureThe paradox of our time in history is that :We have taller buildings but SHORTER TEMPERS,wider freeways, but NARROW VIEWPOINTS,We spend more, but...
    kuveeraa kuveeraa 36-40 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I was Seeing my girlfriend for over 3years, she was my first love and I always have her what ever she wanted, she fell out with her family and moved into my house, for 5months we...
    nathanunited94 nathanunited94 18-21, M 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Today I went for coffee with a guy who I have fancied for TWO whole years. He is much older than I am but I prefer it that way. He asked me for coffee and didn't follow through...
    SomeoneOneDay SomeoneOneDay 18-21 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    The thought of taking my own life has crossed my mind for years. There isn't a day that goes by that it doesn't. Of course I'm writing this so I haven't, and there are several...
    garfield82 garfield82 31-35, M 4 hrs ago

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    I have GOT to get this out... I cant keep it bottled in any longer. I may only be rambling to myself here, but I dont care, at least it will be out of my system. ( I'm going to...
    ashuriiNikooru ashuriiNikooru 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 26

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    When it comes to my mental illnesses which are schizophrenia anxiety disorder depression and intrusive disturbed images thoughts and feelings sometimes even random words pop in my...
    Janisoneluv Janisoneluv 26-30, F Oct 5

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    I have learned so much fro my past two experiences. I always stayed away from younger men because of the misconception that they were less mature and more prone to cheat. I have...
    Morenita79 Morenita79 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I don't HATE them. I don't hate anyone. But if their penis is cut off and put in the garbage disposal then used as a dog's chew toy....I don't feel bad for them. I'm not only...
    VainGoddess VainGoddess 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I am a wife, and I have cheated. Don't get me wrong I LOVE my husband, and never want to be with anyone else, but I still really enjoy getting attention from other males, and if an...
    Coco181225 Coco181225 26-30, F 12 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Living with my sister and brother in law since 2009. My sister invited me to stay at her house. I have lost everything I owed to bankruptcy, due to an accident at work. As I...
    justmepat1954 justmepat1954 56-60 Oct 6

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    So last week my fiance left his tablet open and I discovered a conversation he was having with an old friend of his from high school who lives in NY and we live in the south...
    stephanieleg stephanieleg 31-35, F Sep 23

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    My wife cheated on me and lied about it for years. I used to ask her all the time and she denied it. I found out by calling her bluff years later she did do it (she admitted it...
    RealColonelMustard RealColonelMustard 31-35, M 5 Responses Sep 24

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    I don’t know why I knocked on the door of my only friend when I hit rock bottom and was afraid to being alone. I don’t know why he took advantage of me, I was 17, and I didn...
    starchild3 starchild3 31-35, F Sep 25

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    My ex and I were together for 7 years. The last year was extremely tough on our relationship, we have 2 very young children together. At the time, my husband was working two jobs...
    MsUnderstanding MsUnderstanding 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 6

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    Never had myself diagnosed but... I may have it.. the symptoms seemed to be there... living inside me, crawling aching withdrawing. i read about its promiscuity... i am one...
    lovetilyouhate lovetilyouhate 22-25, F 16 hrs ago

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    Controversial question: what's wrong with cheating? Isn't it possible to love your partner but not to want to possess them? Why should I deny my boyfriend the thrill of physical...
    Syngr23 Syngr23 22-25, F 18 Responses Sep 28