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I Why Do Men Cheat and Think Nothing of It

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    i've been cheated on 3 times, i still feel crushed by it. i just found out today that my ex was cheating on my. i'm crushed, that made me feel like everyone i get close to is going to do that to me. i didn't even know he was doing that, which scares me now. how can i trust anyone...
    gothicromantic gothicromantic 16-17, F Aug 7, 2009

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    Why They Cheat

    Usually if a man is cheating he is not getting everything he needs from the woman he is with.  Most men cheat because there is something in you they like but also something missing they want.  If everyone is straight up and say what they want and what they need and...
    missy1234 missy1234 31-35 6 Responses Oct 12, 2009

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    The Same Reasons Girls Do

    the world has become a throw away place.................................................................................................
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Oct 4, 2011

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    Women Do It Just The Same!

    The question presupposes a fallacy. Women cheat about as often as men. End of story.
    lula69 lula69 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 14, 2011

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    Liars, Cheats, Losers, Users

    They hide behind the sanctity of marriage looking for their next cheap thrill...she doesn't understand me, he says...when a man tells me he has gone out on his wife, I slowly extricate myself from the arrangement...I start looking for the signs and they are always there. Fix your...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 9 Responses Jan 18, 2011

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    I was cheated on but

    when the man confessed to it, it was during a proposal. I cried and cried and so did he. I asked him how he could do that to me when I treated him so well, he said he wants to marry me because I am the most incredible woman he has ever met and that I kept him so satisfied in...
    HopefulLovelyLioness HopefulLovelyLioness 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2014

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    Kdstwice

    I have know this man most of my adult life. We been together for a while. Then we broke up, when he see me he act like he doesn't know me. I found out that he now has a new baby and has been seeing two women at the same time. And he also been talking to other women in various...
    katJames katJames 46-50, F Aug 7, 2009

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    Same Reasons Females Do

    they do not care it is a i want world so al,l feel they have theright to cheat if if they cheatedonce they will keep doing it
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Oct 17, 2011

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    If you are unhappy and in a relationship or married, fix it or get the F out. Don't be a cheating *****, man or woman. If you are unhappy and single, have some morals and don't...
    kkkkgroupyo kkkkgroupyo 26-30, F May 4

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    I work with the elderly. It's a terrible job for a number of reasons, but the way a lot of the old guys treat the female staff like subservient beings really annoys me. For...
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    We are not stupid...... we have come a long way....we are intelligent, strong...we are not inferior...we do not belong in the kitchen garbage any more....we do not need to stay...
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    there isn't a good reason to answer them. They are stupid, they are weak and they are less than human beings
    Enjoyyourlife Enjoyyourlife 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Ugh. I just read a forum where a guy was posting about his cheating experiences and how he did not feel guilty at all because "men can separate sex from emotions hurr durr." He...
    crypticcrime crypticcrime 18-21, F 1 Response May 13

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    I will never for the life of me understand why ppl cheat. Why not just get your very own bf/gf instead of being a kick on the side. There's absolutely no reason on earth to cheat...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F May 3

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    As a child i had a severe perfectionist disorder that it used to lead me to all sorts of mental unwellbeing. I was obsessed with keeping my home neat not clean but neat everything...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 2

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    Hey you that boy anonymous one tell me why do you think that we the girls are the servants of your desires? tell me why you treat us as slaves? tell me why are we considered to be...
    Ahaanaa Ahaanaa 13-15, F 1 Response May 3

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    My friend and I are arguing. HELP Here is our conversation- Me: I don't mean to be rude, or ruin y'all's fun, but why am I always the last resort? You guys always send me...
    kittylova kittylova 18-21, F a week ago

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    Ok man stop acting like women and act like a man. Take care of the women like you're supposed to, as the way it used to be stop crying men, women cry women wanted men to be more in...
    thomwhite59 thomwhite59 51-55, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I don't like men over 38! Nothing appeals to me about someone older than this! I can't help the type I am attracted to!
    Centalcoastlady Centalcoastlady 46-50, F 3 Responses May 2

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    I don't know what it is about hairy men. I think they are so hot. The hairier the better. It is such a turn on.
    deeperfire deeperfire 56-60, M 1 Response May 7

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    Do men really think that divorced women are damaged goods?
    AllieLeigh AllieLeigh 26-30, F 7 Responses May 11

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    I love some UK men ! I think they are so sexy
    Piscesdreams Piscesdreams 26-30, F 17 hrs ago

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    I have been married for almost 2 years now. I unfortunately cheated on my husband a year ago due to lack of sex with him and a better lack of judgment. There are no excuses I know...
    BeccaBoo5 BeccaBoo5 26-30, F 14 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    What Feminists, White-knights, and females don't understand about MGTOW MGTOW, an acronym standing for “men going their own way” is in my honest opinion the largest (and...
    StarGazer88 StarGazer88 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    One thing that catches me now is that people, most probably influenced by the media, have started hating those who have diverse opinions about sexuality issues. Whenever I even...
    BloodEpiphone BloodEpiphone 13-15, F 5 hrs ago

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    This story is really pathetic and has turned my completely cold to the idea ever being with a guy. My brother passed away 2.5 months ago. He was 29 (suicide) and my best friend...
    finallyfree2fly finallyfree2fly 26-30, F 1 Response May 4

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    So today I've cheated on my test, got caught. but surprisingly, I wasn't scared to face the consequences, when I went to speak to my teacher, she told me what will happen and that...
    tantinaaaa tantinaaaa 16-17, F May 8

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    my husband and I have been together since I was 17 years old. we have been together for 13 years and have been married for 6 years, we have two beautiful children together. out of...
    eudoreswart eudoreswart 26-30, F 5 Responses May 13

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    I have been trying to connect on an emotionally intimate level with my wife after we went through a "rough phase" (her lying and cheating mainly). She will not open up to me and...
    Wingsuit Wingsuit 36-40, M 9 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    There is no shame that your woman cheated. There is no blame. It does not make you less of a man. The shame and blame belong with her. You are more of a man than the sneek she...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F May 6

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    I am a guy that loves younger women too between 13 - 16 idk why I just do
    moorejt84 moorejt84 26-30, M 1 hr ago

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    My boyfriend is tall, handsome, hot and a hunk and I was a lucky girl. We did it before but we only dated for 5 months (June - November 2012). At first it was great but then he...
    JoyJoy7 JoyJoy7 22-25, F 2 Responses May 9

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    Julieccaa Julieccaa 26-30, F 1 Response May 12

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    I'm starting to think, that saying "Age ain't nothing but a number" is really true. I always thought older men had it togethere, their minds were on a certain level, mature. I...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 8 Responses May 13

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    norahcc11 norahcc11 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
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    I am SUCH an over thinker.. about everything really, about my men, my health, what's gonna happen? Yesterday this boy who I'm so head over heels in LIKE with took the longest...
    KolorMePink KolorMePink 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Dear N, I am beyond angry and sad at the hurt and devastation you have caused not only to me and the girls, but dozens of friends and family. I don’t fully understand why you...
    CapricornDad CapricornDad 41-45, M 1 Response May 1

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