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    Women Do It Just The Same!

    The question presupposes a fallacy. Women cheat about as often as men. End of story.
    lula69 lula69 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 14, 2011

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    The Same Reasons Girls Do

    the world has become a throw away place.................................................................................................
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Oct 4, 2011

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    Same Reasons Females Do

    they do not care it is a i want world so al,l feel they have theright to cheat if if they cheatedonce they will keep doing it
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Oct 17, 2011

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    3 Times

    i've been cheated on 3 times, i still feel crushed by it. i just found out today that my ex was cheating on my. i'm crushed, that made me feel like everyone i get close to is going to do that to me. i didn't even know he was doing that, which scares me now. how can i trust anyone...
    gothicromantic gothicromantic 16-17, F Aug 7, 2009

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    Liars, Cheats, Losers, Users

    They hide behind the sanctity of marriage looking for their next cheap thrill...she doesn't understand me, he says...when a man tells me he has gone out on his wife, I slowly extricate myself from the arrangement...I start looking for the signs and they are always there. Fix your...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 9 Responses Jan 18, 2011

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    Why They Cheat

    Usually if a man is cheating he is not getting everything he needs from the woman he is with.  Most men cheat because there is something in you they like but also something missing they want.  If everyone is straight up and say what they want and what they need and...
    missy1234 missy1234 31-35 7 Responses Oct 12, 2009

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    I was cheated on but

    when the man confessed to it, it was during a proposal. I cried and cried and so did he. I asked him how he could do that to me when I treated him so well, he said he wants to marry me because I am the most incredible woman he has ever met and that I kept him so satisfied in...
    HopefulLovelyLioness HopefulLovelyLioness 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2014

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    Kdstwice

    I have know this man most of my adult life. We been together for a while. Then we broke up, when he see me he act like he doesn't know me. I found out that he now has a new baby and has been seeing two women at the same time. And he also been talking to other women in various...
    katJames katJames 46-50, F Aug 7, 2009

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    You have a golden chicken meant for you in front of your ******* face yet you still search for other foods placed on the table.
    SweeterThanToblerone SweeterThanToblerone 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    They're cheaters along the line somewhere!!! Men should not Marry!!
    sweetjones38 sweetjones38 36-40, F Jan 2

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    I can't believe that people would ever begin to think that women are inferior to men. Different, of course, but then so is one man different from another, one woman different to...
    naturesboy naturesboy 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 5

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    What about the men who hit and verbally abuse a woman just because she spurned their advances? Women have a say too! I just read a story about a woman who was hit in the face with...
    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86 26-30, F 8 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    Years ago I met Les, a man who always cheats. He thinks he's entitled. He cannot really commit because he is so emotionally immature. Because of this major moral defect, he goes on...
    winnhasmyheart winnhasmyheart 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 9

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    Sometime I think why people cheat on there partner, they say I love you more than this more than that and the same time they are cheating on you .. If you really love someone than...
    Goldenfairy Goldenfairy 26-30, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    You're 5'11 I'm 5'4 you call yourself a man but you just hit me in the face for saying nothing but the truth. You run from your problems just like you're doing now. You called...
    LivviyLove LivviyLove 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    I can't stop thinking...about almost every single thing. Even if they're just random thoughts, I suddenly engulf myself with vivid images of fictional situations. I think it's...
    NA379 NA379 13-15, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    Naw, really? It's one of those things that is just normal to me but looks weird to everyone else. I take meds four times a day, and if I happen to be in the presence of...
    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    Men are like blenders: you need one but you're not sure why.... Men are like lava lamps: fun to look at, but not too bright.
    Ashthewolf7601 Ashthewolf7601 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm not sure why but I think I attract older guys a lot
    ecglassemma ecglassemma 70+, F 10 Responses Jan 6

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    I think too much to a point i cant sleep like right now...its 3.40am and i cant sleep...i think about the past alot and all the negative things ive done and what i couldve done...
    LegendBattles LegendBattles 26-30, M Jan 19

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    it's been a couple of weeks since I last decided to upload something ,I guess I was just trying to figure out and organize everything that was going on in my life at the momment...
    BushMaster243 BushMaster243 16-17, M Jan 17

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    Feeling independent and self assured that day, Jessie, a girl of four years that time, strutted with spine rigid at the living room upon arriving from school. Trying to challenge...
    bloodempress bloodempress 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 13

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    People look at professional help as if it was the secret ingredient to make things better. I've been getting this so called help for a while and nothing seems to make things better...
    nuttyduck nuttyduck 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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    I have considered cheating on my husband. we have been married for 22 years and together for 26 years. We did not live together before marriage. We have not had sex in 11 years...
    Mukwah Mukwah 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 2

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    I am just ME. It's been slightly more than a year since I joined this site. My initial aim was to find out about Scorpios... that's another story... But I wanted to know what they...
    Piscesrose Piscesrose 46-50, F 4 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Hello, I am new here. I had something happen to me that I have never seen before and just wanted to talk about. I was beginning to heal from it because of reading other people's...
    Fresh1414 Fresh1414 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    She cheated in january 2014 and finally told me a year later. The cheating occured three months into the relationship. The only reason it was brought up was she seen a friend last...
    RockinTTS RockinTTS 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 11

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    I have ADHD but most of the time it isnt things around me that distract me, its my thoughts. I have these thoughts that lead to others and others creating this weird web of kind of...
    LandonS LandonS 16-17, M 1 Response 48 mins ago

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    I think my husband hates me.....My childhood was REALLY bad. My current husband also had a childhood similar to mine but was not as lucky as me and his life took a different path...
    Lsngthsbttle Lsngthsbttle 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    That's how it happens. Some version of that story is true for almost every homeless person out there. It happens because of not being loved. Because of not having supportive...
    Ajushi Ajushi 36-40, M Jan 10

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    Why am I the lucky one? Why is my life so much better than the others I know? Am I deserving? Will it always be this way? Why can't others I know live in the same happiness? Is...
    Mendmyheart Mendmyheart 46-50, F 6 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Nope. Not a mental hospital. That's what they told me. It's not a mental hospital. I was 15 years old. They told me (2 psychologists in a room with me, and I think maybe my parents...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response Jan 10

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    Im thinkin bout cheating my bf . Well the problem is that he doesnt let me do nothing , im living with him for like 3 years already , i wanna be single and enjoy life with other...
    paola93 paola93 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    Is the expression of desire, want, lust from a woman that isn't overtly flaunting herself surprising? A woman having set standards, high intelligence, and knowing what she desires...
    Nyx1978 Nyx1978 36-40, F 14 Responses Jan 11

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    Society is filled with selfish men who abuse women. Good guys often get neglected by women. Women cause this too. They say they want good men but settle for the bad ones. Women...
    lovelinessbathes lovelinessbathes 31-35, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Yesterday was the worst day of my life. I found out that my boyfriend - the love of my life and my whole world - cheated on me. How did it happen? Long story short, I asked him to...
    snorre snorre 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    I'm tired of doing right by my husband... I'm tired of him not wanting to do his duties around the house without expecting something in return... I'm tired of him not showing me...
    August28 August28 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 6

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    So yesterday I was waiting all day to hear what time to be ready to go to the casino for my cousins bday. She had invited me around Christmas time and then my other cousins girl...
    NRF25 NRF25 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 11

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    I'm very upset and offended by the early intervention in psychosis services in Middlesbrough .i think because I'm a weak and naive person I got fooled and betrayed easily and I got...
    Anonymous79ea Anonymous79ea 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I'm very upset and offended by the early intervention in psychosis services in Middlesbrough .i think because I'm a weak and naive person I got fooled and betrayed easily and I got...
    lostsouluk lostsouluk 31-35, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    God and me (Nothing but the truth) Every time I find evidence, I end up doubting if its true evidence. But theres always someone telling me its true, I was made this was. I...
    HandyMannyWanny HandyMannyWanny 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    God and me (Nothing but the truth) Every time I find evidence, I end up doubting if its true evidence. But theres always someone telling me its true, I was made this was. I...
    HandyMannyWanny HandyMannyWanny 16-17, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am married and recently very dissatisfied in my marriage. I have 3 children and I feel that if I divorced my husband - it would be selfish. My husband absolutely does not...
    DrivenLady DrivenLady 31-35, F 11 Responses Jan 5

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    Short version I married my high school sweetheart(more like sweet-tart). We have been married for 10 years and the parents of two. In the beginning of our marriage he wasn't...
    HeartbrokenATL HeartbrokenATL 31-35, F Jan 13

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    my crazy messed up thought of the day u know ppl would prob stop cheating if they knew it cost them their ****.... a Lil crazy yes....but really think about it say u got a few ppl...
    lil1ontheway lil1ontheway 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 17

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