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    Liars, Cheats, Losers, Users

    They hide behind the sanctity of marriage looking for their next cheap thrill...she doesn't understand me, he says...when a man tells me he has gone out on his wife, I slowly extricate myself from the arrangement...I start looking for the signs and they are always there. Fix your...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 9 Responses Jan 18, 2011

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    Same Reasons Females Do

    they do not care it is a i want world so al,l feel they have theright to cheat if if they cheatedonce they will keep doing it
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Oct 17, 2011

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    Why They Cheat

    Usually if a man is cheating he is not getting everything he needs from the woman he is with.  Most men cheat because there is something in you they like but also something missing they want.  If everyone is straight up and say what they want and what they need and...
    missy1234 missy1234 31-35 7 Responses Oct 12, 2009

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    I was cheated on but

    when the man confessed to it, it was during a proposal. I cried and cried and so did he. I asked him how he could do that to me when I treated him so well, he said he wants to marry me because I am the most incredible woman he has ever met and that I kept him so satisfied in...
    HopefulLovelyLioness HopefulLovelyLioness 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2014

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    3 Times

    i've been cheated on 3 times, i still feel crushed by it. i just found out today that my ex was cheating on my. i'm crushed, that made me feel like everyone i get close to is going to do that to me. i didn't even know he was doing that, which scares me now. how can i trust anyone...
    gothicromantic gothicromantic 16-17, F Aug 7, 2009

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    Women Do It Just The Same!

    The question presupposes a fallacy. Women cheat about as often as men. End of story.
    lula69 lula69 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 14, 2011

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    The Same Reasons Girls Do

    the world has become a throw away place.................................................................................................
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Oct 4, 2011

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    Kdstwice

    I have know this man most of my adult life. We been together for a while. Then we broke up, when he see me he act like he doesn't know me. I found out that he now has a new baby and has been seeing two women at the same time. And he also been talking to other women in various...
    katJames katJames 46-50, F Aug 7, 2009

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    Riddle me this, why do men cheat with a lesser version of you. That's what I don't understand about men. Strippers, *******, hoes, these are always the type of women they will...
    Zeita75 Zeita75 36-40, F Mar 13

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    I hate posting anything because all I get are men non-stop! It's crazy! You can see my profile look at it before contacting me!
    xfunxgirlx xfunxgirlx 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 7

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    I come from a long line of women who have given birth. In fact, all the great men in history have come from these same group of women without which there would be no great man...
    ProgressivelyCurious ProgressivelyCurious 61-65, M Mar 17

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    Everybody is aware of the physiological differences. Men have the muscle and women have the brains! Lol! Men and women should compliment each other, not fight for dominance and...
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    I'm talking to every man who looks at a women an only wants to screw her. You know what, if you loved your mother you know where I'm coming from. Women don't get respect in this...
    IllusionaryGentleman39 IllusionaryGentleman39 18-21, M Mar 15

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    Why do we cheat? It's NOT a male or female problem. It's a human problem. I HATE reading "all men cheat" or "its just about the sex"... Painting men as out of control sex maniacs...
    MommysGotTats420 MommysGotTats420 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 21

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    I should not say that all men have hurt me. I do not think that all men are evil or blame everyone in my life but I have been hurt by a lot of men. I don't want to be bitter and I...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    After you are cheated on nothing will ever be the same in your relationship. **** love.
    sydneymarie sydneymarie 18-21, F Mar 19

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    I don't understand why people cheat. If you love the person you're with, you'd find a way to make things work. If you're with someone but were in love with someone else, leave the...
    GreenEyess GreenEyess 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    why men need women only?? ;) ;)
    raviraj242 raviraj242 22-25, M Mar 16

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    Don't know why men seem to think that they are what every girl is looking for, especially when you post that you don't want to talk to them.
    lilmissdynamite lilmissdynamite 18-21, F Mar 23

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    Since today was Friday the 13th, I was thinking nothing bad won't happen. I was wrong. I went to see an old acquaintance of mine at her house because she wanted me to see her new...
    NeoxExor NeoxExor 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 13

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    Why do we think that someone else can complete us? Why do poets perpetuate that thought? I’ve done it before and I will probably do it again. There is something wonderful about...
    MzPhoenix MzPhoenix 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 23

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    I wonder if men ever think "i had a good girl, and messed up on her"
    Dsoto1015 Dsoto1015 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    But i have to ask your guys this, Why do you think it is ok to send a lady a messages about your fanntasies. I don't understand you people. Guys, i'm the wrong lady for your...
    Zelaleme Zelaleme 46-50, F Mar 9

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    I've started catching myself analyzing more unrealistic scenarios than the ones that are ACTUALLY HAPPENING. I know it's not just a woman thing to think too much, because there are...
    katiebeth91 katiebeth91 22-25, F 11 Responses Mar 15

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    One Minute Up,Next Minute Down Like breathing in and out Life can change in an instant The way you feel can turn Emotions are like tornadoes Dark clouds can become evil When the...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M Mar 16

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    I totally agree with Ali (an egyptian man from port said)who I met in Brighton many years ago when life was a little better and he told me that all white people hate us and if the...
    restlessuk restlessuk 31-35, F 10 hrs ago

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    I totally agree with Ali (an egyptian man from port said)who I met in Brighton many years ago when life was a little better and he told me that all white people hate us and if the...
    restlessuk restlessuk 31-35, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I totally agree with Ali (an egyptian man from port said)who I met in Brighton many years ago when life was a little better and he told me that all white people hate us and if the...
    restlessuk restlessuk 31-35, F 10 hrs ago

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    I am a 24 years old guy and I absolutely hate the way I look. I find myself ugly and repulsive and I don't know how to deal with it.The way you view yourself can have an impact on...
    Fruktklyftan Fruktklyftan 22-25, M 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Iam 16 years old and I have been going out with my girlfriend for 10 months and I completely fell in love with her she means everything to me and I know I mean the world to her too...
    Qewwz Qewwz 22-25, M Mar 15

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    I wish I could give what's left of my life source, to someone in need of more of it, to make them fully complete. Someone sick dying of Cancer.Someone poor down and out just...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M 11 hrs ago

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    I've not written a post in a while, as there have been some significant changes going on in my life some of which I am still trying to digest... but I received a call this evening...
    lilygeorge12 lilygeorge12 22-25, F 7 hrs ago

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    Before I actually begin, I just want to say that this wasn't literal cheating. It was basically just tons of thoughts and emotions I couldn't mentally or physically handle. I still...
    Peytonvannseal Peytonvannseal 26-30, M Mar 16

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    today I got in a Fight with a girl named Kimberly. I hit her first, and as I hit her... I had something kind of like an adrenalin rush and everything that happed was...just a blur...
    Nanette34613 Nanette34613 16-17, F 4 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Pink is my hero. I am a transvaginal bladder mesh sling victim. The federal government basically in a nut shell turned there heads and allow companies to make mesh slings and they...
    2Greatfriends 2Greatfriends 46-50, F 9 hrs ago

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    She deserves a cheater like you She deserves it
    Davyxx21 Davyxx21 16-17, F 17 hrs ago

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    I just got transferred from one community mental health center to another, and today the new psychiatrist asked me what I was diagnosed with during my last hospital stay. I said...
    sarahk85 sarahk85 26-30, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    honestly girls love me and my girlfriends cheating, I have. a lot of close girl friends I could talk into doing a little something with me but I don't. I try not to until were...
    skythuss skythuss 18-21, M 9 hrs ago

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    I personally love older men because they are much more experienced and they know what they are doing And they know what to expect when it comes to getting intimate
    BabyKitten14 BabyKitten14 13-15, F 8 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I put trust into my last marriage and i don't think I could ever trust again .I really do think I am just meant to be alone I started talking to Tim and I started to trust again...
    monica0215 monica0215 51-55, F 4 Responses 1 hr ago

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    i have been with my current bf for only a month. he has literally cheated on me at least 10 or 15 times already. and its not just me think he is cheating on me i have a close...
    lovermaker21 lovermaker21 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 3

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    I am beginning to think there is something wrong with me that my boyfriend has to cheat on me. Although he has not physically cheated on me, I have caught him on a dating website...
    creepinbeauty creepinbeauty 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 8