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    Liars, Cheats, Losers, Users

    They hide behind the sanctity of marriage looking for their next cheap thrill...she doesn't understand me, he says...when a man tells me he has gone out on his wife, I slowly extricate myself from the arrangement...I start looking for the signs and they are always there. Fix your...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 9 Responses Jan 18, 2011

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    I went undercover at Ashley Madison

    as a married woman looking for a married man and in the first 24 hours I received 150 men wanting to hook up....
    95percentofmencheat1213 95percentofmencheat1213 46-50, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2015

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    Why They Cheat

    Usually if a man is cheating he is not getting everything he needs from the woman he is with.  Most men cheat because there is something in you they like but also something missing they want.  If everyone is straight up and say what they want and what they need and...
    missy1234 missy1234 31-35 6 Responses Oct 12, 2009

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    Same Reasons Females Do

    they do not care it is a i want world so al,l feel they have theright to cheat if if they cheatedonce they will keep doing it
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Oct 17, 2011

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    3 Times

    i've been cheated on 3 times, i still feel crushed by it. i just found out today that my ex was cheating on my. i'm crushed, that made me feel like everyone i get close to is going to do that to me. i didn't even know he was doing that, which scares me now. how can i trust anyone...
    gothicromantic gothicromantic 16-17, F Aug 7, 2009

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    I was cheated on but

    when the man confessed to it, it was during a proposal. I cried and cried and so did he. I asked him how he could do that to me when I treated him so well, he said he wants to marry me because I am the most incredible woman he has ever met and that I kept him so satisfied in...
    HopefulLovelyLioness HopefulLovelyLioness 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2014

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    Women Do It Just The Same!

    The question presupposes a fallacy. Women cheat about as often as men. End of story.
    lula69 lula69 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 14, 2011

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    The Same Reasons Girls Do

    the world has become a throw away place.................................................................................................
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Oct 4, 2011

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    Kdstwice

    I have know this man most of my adult life. We been together for a while. Then we broke up, when he see me he act like he doesn't know me. I found out that he now has a new baby and has been seeing two women at the same time. And he also been talking to other women in various...
    katJames katJames 46-50, F Aug 7, 2009

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    My fiancé and I have been discussing an open relationship. I really want to try this but am having some trust issues. He has cheated on me before and just a few weeks ago a female...
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    I always hear people saying: 'Digital art isn't real art. It's cheating! all you have to do is push a magic button and the computer does the rest...' Yeah, you know what? If you...
    TrippingKitty TrippingKitty 26-30 2 hrs ago

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    I am not a mentor, but I think I really need one, please message me so we can chat.
    joseph1652 joseph1652 16-17, M 3 hrs ago

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    To 'Love' yourself, may sound idiotically stuck up and stupid, especially as it reeks with a range of different implications. To love yourself can be ugly when you are treating...
    Trainedheart Trainedheart 31-35, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Idk.. But Ill tell you My story. I met her once after school, on the bus. I sat down beside her in the lack of other places to sit. And she apparently were the kinda person that...
    darkspiritwolf darkspiritwolf 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I think men and women can just be friends. Absolutely right, when I was in senior high I have more boy friends than girl friends. I was more comfortable being around my boy...
    Selftrue Selftrue 31-35, F 4 hrs ago

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    So what I like to date younger men. I enjoy their excitement it keeps me young.
    Ediblediane Ediblediane 36-40, F 16 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I think it's hilarious when my puppy sleeps with his tongue sticking out. It's usually late and I'm really tired. Maybe that's why I think it's so funny. I love him though
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    This is a true story of what happened to Greg Zaffuto. I have just experienced much the same and do not want this to happen to you, so I am sharing the following. I apologize for...
    Grace2U Grace2U 66-70, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    I'm just gonna start with a little bit about myself. I'm 17, I play softball, I have battled depression on and off for the past four years, I am in love with my best friend and...
    coloradoswat10 coloradoswat10 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I really do not understand cheating either as I have been happy with the same beautiful lady for the past 21 years. I have not had any urges to find another or have more than one...
    cpguy cpguy 46-50, M 2 days ago

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    If i dont remember wrong the percentage of women who cheated were higher Than men, atleast in america.
    darkspiritwolf darkspiritwolf 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    A big shoutout to all my women who are bigger than, taller than, weigh more than their boyfriends and feel self-conscious about it because our society put so much emphasis on girls...
    glassbonespaperskin glassbonespaperskin 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I agree with this your wife should be your everything your best friend and you bond with sex I have no idea why am one with cheat
    sirnatural sirnatural 36-40, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I have been with my husband since I was 16 .We have had our fights but everything always sorts itself out and we have a pretty good relationship although he is quite moody and...
    thinkb4uact thinkb4uact 22-25 3 days ago

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    Yeah I ******* hate them 😑. In my previous relationship, the guy lied and cheated with me. I don't understand why??? If you are losing interest in someone then tell them up...
    NatureLover16 NatureLover16 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    CORPORAL PUNISHMENT. By recalling what my mother went through when she was 6 years old I am not advocating corporal punishment on school children. I am just recalling the...
    LozzyFromRome LozzyFromRome 46-50, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    intamacy really dosnt exist anymore. nothing feels the same. he used to be the best lover ive ever had until i found out hes cheating. now sex feels like im just doing it just to...
    jbrose413 jbrose413 22-25 a week ago

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    A bit o background information, I'm 36 and have been married for 8years. In that time we have had 3 children and as far as I knew we were happy. The other night I was using his...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 29

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    I wrote a post about temptation. It got some men defensive and they felt compelled to say repeatedly that they'd never be tempted to cheat. First of all, my post was not indicating...
    Walkalone9000 Walkalone9000 51-55, F 4 Responses Jan 29

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    I grew up with a father who could not fathom how men cheated on their wives. I heard him say multiple times, "It's not that hard to be faithful." He set up boundaries for himself...
    MidnightLaughter MidnightLaughter 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 29

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    But often the partner is blamed.As if she or he tells him or her to cheat.Well,if you have issues with your current partner,you will have a different set of issues with a different...
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 51-55, F 3 Responses Jan 29

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    I Tend to think on very deep things. like why do I help people who don't deserve it. what if those I've lost we're still alive like what would become of my sister and my niece of...
    SladeTheLegend SladeTheLegend 18-21, M Jan 28

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    Examples: They are millions and millions of single mothers in the world why? Because when a girl gets pregnant most men can't mentally handle being a father so he runs away...
    Kornisone Kornisone 26-30, F 11 Responses Jan 28

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    I think that I'm a pretty normal guy. I'm definitely not bad looking, but I'm not ridiculously handsome either. I used to be really antisocial, but over the past few years I've...
    lliilliill lliilliill 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 27

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    (Sorry for the cross-posting.) I do not have a mentor now, but I have been mentored by a nice gentleman before. Here is my confession of what I have not done well when I receive...
    anthonyshorts anthonyshorts 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 27

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    I do not have a mentor now, but I have been mentored by a nice gentleman before. Here is my confession of what I have not done well when I receive my mentoring and hope this would...
    anthonyshorts anthonyshorts 36-40, M Jan 27

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    Help! I think he's cheating but I can't prove it. I just have to know because I can't do this anymore if he is. The latest thing that happened was we were texting and then he sent...
    JessygotaBooBoo JessygotaBooBoo 22-25, F 7 Responses Jan 27

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