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I Why Do Men Cheat and Think Nothing of It

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    The Same Reasons Girls Do

    the world has become a throw away place.................................................................................................
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Oct 4, 2011

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    Women Do It Just The Same!

    The question presupposes a fallacy. Women cheat about as often as men. End of story.
    lula69 lula69 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 14, 2011

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    Same Reasons Females Do

    they do not care it is a i want world so al,l feel they have theright to cheat if if they cheatedonce they will keep doing it
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Oct 17, 2011

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    I was cheated on but

    when the man confessed to it, it was during a proposal. I cried and cried and so did he. I asked him how he could do that to me when I treated him so well, he said he wants to marry me because I am the most incredible woman he has ever met and that I kept him so satisfied in...
    HopefulLovelyLioness HopefulLovelyLioness 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    3 Times

    i've been cheated on 3 times, i still feel crushed by it. i just found out today that my ex was cheating on my. i'm crushed, that made me feel like everyone i get close to is going to do that to me. i didn't even know he was doing that, which scares me now. how can i trust anyone...
    gothicromantic gothicromantic 16-17, F Aug 7, 2009

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    Kdstwice

    I have know this man most of my adult life. We been together for a while. Then we broke up, when he see me he act like he doesn't know me. I found out that he now has a new baby and has been seeing two women at the same time. And he also been talking to other women in various...
    katJames katJames 46-50, F Aug 7, 2009

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    Why They Cheat

    Usually if a man is cheating he is not getting everything he needs from the woman he is with.  Most men cheat because there is something in you they like but also something missing they want.  If everyone is straight up and say what they want and what they need and...
    missy1234 missy1234 31-35 7 Responses Oct 12, 2009

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    Liars, Cheats, Losers, Users

    They hide behind the sanctity of marriage looking for their next cheap thrill...she doesn't understand me, he says...when a man tells me he has gone out on his wife, I slowly extricate myself from the arrangement...I start looking for the signs and they are always there. Fix your...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 9 Responses Jan 18, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I would never cheat on any girl. Fact
    Daveokay Daveokay 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 16

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    One of my biggest pet peeves, probably why I'm so bitchy lol
    staysecret staysecret 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    It gets to a point where you don't care how anyone feels or what anyone thinks Where nothing matters anymore
    Xnow Xnow 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    Well I haven't in 20 years. We've been through some rough times, and have thought about giving in. But in the end we figured it wasn't worth it
    DaveCoop DaveCoop 41-45, M Aug 16

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    it's simply a stupid thing....
    Enjoyyourlife Enjoyyourlife 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    sure thing its such a stupid thing to say when women have proven their mettle in all fields ///
    romell romell 36-40, M Aug 22

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    Seriously, WTF?? I don't even know what to say. I know more than enough women who can knock out the average jock.
    FallenPride FallenPride 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 26

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    You are not my knight and I am not your maid.
    goodwillhunting goodwillhunting 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 5

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    From my experience only, not saying at all that this always happens to every single men... It's funny how women get the reputation of "gossiping" with others. I never figured out...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 3 hrs ago

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    Why you cheat men mhm!! Real men don't cheat ..truly i tell you... Be men if you love, then love for REAL.
    abuishaan abuishaan 18-21, M Aug 26

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    Being a female, I'd like to know when men cheat, do they do it because they've found someone more appealing to them? Or do they do it because they can't commit to just one woman...
    lm1993 lm1993 18-21, F 10 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I'll never understand why people cheat. My wife cheated because I talked to an ex. Clearly her cheating was more hurtful than me talking to an ex. Yet I do not feel an urge to...
    Dartanian Dartanian 36-40, M 2 Responses Sep 5

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    If you can't stay in a relationship, leave. A relationship isn't a test so why to cheat?
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 31

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    I think everyone (Men and Women ) wishes to have a lover and to be a beloved. But why men still flirt? Why they can't just love one woman?
    Heart39 Heart39 26-30, F 32 Responses Sep 3

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    I really don't understand why men are so pushy. When a woman or anyone says no, respect that. I'm not talking about sex, but in everything. It is as if your words go in one ear and...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    This is a song by Dido which I LOVE, I think nothing describes how I feel about my life better than this. "Life For Rent" I haven't ever really found a place that I call home I...
    daeneryss daeneryss 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Idk why but I think it's sexy when a guy is possessive
    ashesluvsu ashesluvsu 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I can never understand it. Why do I think this way and why do I act this way? Sometimes I forget why do things and look back thinking "why did I do that?" There's no way of...
    Owlshirt Owlshirt 16-17, F Aug 27

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    What's wrong with me? Why do I think about my life so wrong. Why do I deep cornered into life. I feel like I'm forced to go to school forced to learn forced to get a job and make...
    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    Lol why not why do you think
    jakeyd125 jakeyd125 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 28

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    PROTECT YOURSELF. Even if a woman says that she is on birth control, put on a darn rubber. And provide your own because some malicious crazy girls like to poke holes in them to get...
    GottaGoo GottaGoo 22-25, M 3 Responses Sep 5

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    I have been thinking about suicide but I'm so in depth about it I have soo many questions about the pros & cons. Why do one think about commiting suicide? How to they feel about...
    djdwtw17 djdwtw17 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 31

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    I has been long before my boyfriend told me this he will never do anything wrong ever to broke my heart when I used to ask him about his gal pals and especially about One coz I had...
    Blackangel4u Blackangel4u 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    It had never crossed my mind until I picked up this book called "The Sociopath Next Door." It talked a lot about how sociopaths lie, cheat, steal, etc. to get what they want...
    smokingweedwithparishilton smokingweedwithparishilton 18-21 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Yet again reading an internet article about cheating via Yahoo and this time. It was about why middle aged women cheat. Badically they are bored, this comes from research done...
    FrolickingFemale FrolickingFemale 36-40, F 9 Responses Aug 18

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    My husband and I have been together for almost 30yrs and married for about 18yrs with 5 beautiful children. He venture to Philipine for business and love to settle there. He's got...
    angelsmile67 angelsmile67 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    Here are the 25 Traits of an Alpha male: 1. An Alpha male is very comfortable with himself. He always radiates confidence. He does not fear anyone, he does not really care how...
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    im too young for any of the mature "feelings." ... I want to get married at 28 years old or later.. Marry a guy who knows where he will be in life when he goes after a real career...
    SubmissiveSecrets SubmissiveSecrets 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    You start thinking that things are getting better when something happens in your life that makes you think that nothing -joys or sorrows can be permanent in life.
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 4 hrs ago

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    A few years ago a friend helped me to get out of a bad relationship, then we started hooking up and I developed very strong feelings for him. We both expressed how much we cared...
    pa901104 pa901104 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    It's not okay, no matter the circumstance. By cheating you betray the person who you supposedly "love" and throw away their trust. It is a horrible and despicable thing to do...
    VoraciousTurtles VoraciousTurtles 16-17, F Aug 20

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    I don't know how I did it but I somehow managed to not write any stories over the summer. It was hard to fight the urge because I'm a bit of writer and when ideas come I just want...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    I sit here unable to sleep at the moment, rather anxious about the first official step towards freedom. Every time I mention divorce, I get the "I love you" speech. It always...
    greeneyedlady72 greeneyedlady72 41-45, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    This channel is for all of you who are happy with your bodies and enjoy piling on the fat rather than building muscle. Its a tongue in cheek look at the unfitness world and...
    steveluvsboots steveluvsboots 46-50, M 8 hrs ago

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    My "boyfriend" and i have been in and off for about 4 years.I dont even know what to call him to be honest. We havent had sex since Novemeber last year. I told him that i feel...
    lessonlearn3d lessonlearn3d 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    I use to get mad at people who would say something "s3xual" must've happened between me and my brother. after reading one of my questions / experiences on how he treats me or after...
    veronica4ever veronica4ever 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    Just let you know this may be a long story ( cos I keep locked a way and some the stuff I going to say the girl don't know about and the pic you see is her ) I try keep as short as...
    scottishbigguy scottishbigguy 22-25, M Sep 5

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    So I got married in June. I've known my husband for 7-8 years (lost track), been living with him for around 7 months, and dating for a year. We have a baby together. Last month he...
    Ealasme Ealasme 16-17, F Aug 19

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    Thats the type of mentality i have i suppose. I feel like if your going to do something, then completely just for it! All the way 100% no matter what is. Or go to the other extreme...
    oxzymoron oxzymoron 18-21, M Aug 29

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    I was scanning through my mom's phone and read text messages from this guy named "jerome" i know this guy but his texts can be misleading and first thought that my mom was cheating...
    xiumin xiumin 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 3