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I Why Do Men Cheat and Think Nothing of It

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    Kdstwice

    I have know this man most of my adult life. We been together for a while. Then we broke up, when he see me he act like he doesn't know me. I found out that he now has a new baby and has been seeing two women at the same time. And he also been talking to other women in various...
    katJames katJames 46-50, F Aug 7, 2009

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    The Same Reasons Girls Do

    the world has become a throw away place.................................................................................................
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Oct 4, 2011

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    3 Times

    i've been cheated on 3 times, i still feel crushed by it. i just found out today that my ex was cheating on my. i'm crushed, that made me feel like everyone i get close to is going to do that to me. i didn't even know he was doing that, which scares me now. how can i trust anyone...
    gothicromantic gothicromantic 16-17, F Aug 7, 2009

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    Why They Cheat

    Usually if a man is cheating he is not getting everything he needs from the woman he is with.  Most men cheat because there is something in you they like but also something missing they want.  If everyone is straight up and say what they want and what they need and...
    missy1234 missy1234 31-35 7 Responses Oct 12, 2009

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    Same Reasons Females Do

    they do not care it is a i want world so al,l feel they have theright to cheat if if they cheatedonce they will keep doing it
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Oct 17, 2011

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    Women Do It Just The Same!

    The question presupposes a fallacy. Women cheat about as often as men. End of story.
    lula69 lula69 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 14, 2011

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    Liars, Cheats, Losers, Users

    They hide behind the sanctity of marriage looking for their next cheap thrill...she doesn't understand me, he says...when a man tells me he has gone out on his wife, I slowly extricate myself from the arrangement...I start looking for the signs and they are always there. Fix your...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 9 Responses Jan 18, 2011

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    I was cheated on but

    when the man confessed to it, it was during a proposal. I cried and cried and so did he. I asked him how he could do that to me when I treated him so well, he said he wants to marry me because I am the most incredible woman he has ever met and that I kept him so satisfied in...
    HopefulLovelyLioness HopefulLovelyLioness 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    Men who think women are inferior are usually insecure themselves. I thank God for a husband who treats me as an equal. Of course, we know one is better at certain things than the...
    Jilly53 Jilly53 56-60, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Advice to all men and boys. Not all women and girls like a conversation that starts with I might be the one for you. Anyone with good sense knows it's not how anything real begins...
    annpharos21 annpharos21 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Neither sex is superior. But I do think we are both better at certain things.
    lonesojourner lonesojourner 46-50, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Today is our 2nd anniversary and my hubby is at his brother's house. I reminded him last sunday of this date, but he still forgot! Doghouse or forgive?
    alexdupare alexdupare 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    Me and my boyfriend have known eachother for years. We have been dating for 2. A few months ago we signed a lease and moved to a new town. A week after moving in together we get...
    angrynhyrt angrynhyrt 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    My ex-boyfriend cheated on me. I was 16 at that time and he was 20 years old and in college. He cheated on me with a girl who was a grade above me in high school. I’ve never felt...
    chloeforever chloeforever 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    I don't understand why people cheat. I can't stand it. Do they even care that their hurting the person their cheating on. I just think cheating is so stupid and selfish!
    Jaymerz97 Jaymerz97 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I'm not actually a cheater. I just want to know why you cheat? Ladies only please.
    Blake00048 Blake00048 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Well I do think I was born the wrong gender. Or at least sort of. I was born in a male body, but my mind is much more female , I think so much more like a woman. I am much more...
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T 1 Response Jul 21

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    I thought I let my fiancé tell this in a guy's perspective. We had this conversation after witnessing young girls, probably only 16 years old, walking around our neighbourhood...
    EllaAfter EllaAfter 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    when I see some men in shorts I often wonder why men that have beautiful leg's do not shave them and ware pantyhose to show them off
    dantodawn dantodawn 51-55, T 1 Response Jul 3

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    Me and my best friend who is male, have just been friends for 12-13 years. We are both 19 years old, but I'm older then him by 8 months. We sort of act like a couple but we're...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    This is my final warning!!!To all the black women who praise white men, you guys are all ignorant. You should reconsider interracial relationships. Don't forget your history...
    theslyfox theslyfox 31-35 6 Responses Jul 18

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    RP Only No Ki*k/Pics I want to be a dominate mans sl*ut . I love worshiping men. I think all women should worship men. I love sucking/licking/playing with c*ock. I even got my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 10

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    Why do i think too much? Answers.
    cheffAri cheffAri 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 14

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    eople say "i see the way jay looks at you" and "i think he likes you". jay follows me around on a sly, plays about with me, breaks the touch barrier (his feet next to mine, playful...
    Begoodandbad Begoodandbad 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

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    Why is it that Christians always get so affected when an atheist says something against their religion. And yes I know they will say that atheists are the angry ones. Well if...
    skydancer24 skydancer24 22-25, F 13 hrs ago

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    I didn't think it would ever be me. You hear stories about other people being cheated on, but you don't think it'll ever be you. 8 months ago my first relationship ended, of over a...
    ForBetterOrForWorse ForBetterOrForWorse 16-17, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Why are a lot of white gay men so hot?!?! And they seem a lot more affectionate towards each other.Too bad they don't like vagina. But because their still men, I can't help but...
    MysteriousRose MysteriousRose 18-21, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    My friend is really mean to me and could care less about how I feel. She lies to me A LOT! Why do I put up with her? Because she's suicidal and no one cares about her feelings...
    joseey joseey 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    We had been discussing the possibility of separating for about 4 months. Things were becoming strained between us. We were growing distant and I kept trying so hard to bridge the...
    Navylove19 Navylove19 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Why wouldn't I ? My mind is always thinking, why this or why that?It's how it seems to be,why are some men blessed with a big unit and others not enough to speak about.Why are some...
    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M Jul 1

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    I have a lot of internal conflicts. I am constantly blaming myself as to why certain things have happened to me in my life. I have secretly dealt with depression and self harm my...
    ImAWorkInProgress ImAWorkInProgress 16-17, F Jul 22

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    My husband and I have been married for 10 years but we've been together for 15. During our marriage, he cheated on me twice with two different women. The first woman he actually...
    futureexwife14 futureexwife14 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    I have a deep down fear, but I think part of it is a mix of respect and not knowing. I'm very good at "reading peoples mind" and knowing what they want, but I never know if I'm a...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 7 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Everyone is free here to block whoever they want. The abuse takes place whenever someone decides to evade important questions or simply a painful truth. To call adultery by its...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M Jul 14

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    I have a 20 year old son that is bi-polar 1. He sucks the energy and life out of us. I love him but resent him and what this illness has taken from our marriage. I exercise...
    debbiedee623 debbiedee623 51-55, F 3 hrs ago

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    It's more I have a problem with cheating thoughts. I am married and have a child on the way. I am so deeply in love with my wife, and even still to this day, being 9 months...
    anonnimus anonnimus 22-25 1 Response Jul 4

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    Wanted to share some memorable comments I have received when I shared I wanted to open my marriage. -You do not deserve to be married -You should be happy you're a wife that...
    FrolickingFemale FrolickingFemale 36-40, F 20 Responses Jul 8

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    ~I have been cheated on several times in my life. By different people. The first time it happened, the guy I was with was a **** head and sleazy, and I didn't really care but I did...
    Starliteyes24 Starliteyes24 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    This message is to all the radical man hating feminists who go on the Internet to trash and mock the male gender. It is obvious from what you're writing to your 100% blind to what...
    Ajushi Ajushi 31-35, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I am honestly terrified of men. I know that not all of them are awful people but they just scare me. Being raped and abused probably has something to do with it but I HATE it. I...
    teenagetragedy teenagetragedy 16-17, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    My ex boyfriends best friend Kevin is such douche he told my ex andy that i cheated on him when we were dating with this guy Craig and if you know me then you would know that there...
    WendyDarlin WendyDarlin 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    This was the closest "experience" I could find that I could relate to in a way. Now, I'm not pointing any fingers or accusing him of cheating...I just feel like something has...
    supernovaChic supernovaChic 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    My boyfriend is going away to Amsterdam, he's been before and I didn't really have an issue with it as we wasn't serious! but since then I've found out that one of the friend he is...
    SoryaB SoryaB 26-30, F Jul 10

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    My husband constantly accuses me of cheating and I never have! I work long strenuous hours and when I am not at work, I am home. He knows this! I put on ALOT of weight when I had...
    ziggybaby86 ziggybaby86 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 11

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    So. I met this guy. He told me I could trust him. He was the first person I fell in love with. About a month after we dated he told me he wanted to be friends with his ex. I didn...
    brittdorn brittdorn 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    Am I the only one who feels like someone should be able to do whatever they want to? Why can men not wear make up, dresses, pink etc without being told they are gay? Which makes...
    AnomalousEarthling AnomalousEarthling 22-25, F 13 Responses