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I Why Do Men Cheat and Think Nothing of It

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    i've been cheated on 3 times, i still feel crushed by it. i just found out today that my ex was cheating on my. i'm crushed, that made me feel like everyone i get close to is going to do that to me. i didn't even know he was doing that, which scares me now. how can i trust anyone...
    gothicromantic gothicromantic 16-17, F Aug 7, 2009

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    I was cheated on but

    when the man confessed to it, it was during a proposal. I cried and cried and so did he. I asked him how he could do that to me when I treated him so well, he said he wants to marry me because I am the most incredible woman he has ever met and that I kept him so satisfied in...
    HopefulLovelyLioness HopefulLovelyLioness 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2014

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    The Same Reasons Girls Do

    the world has become a throw away place.................................................................................................
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Oct 4, 2011

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    Same Reasons Females Do

    they do not care it is a i want world so al,l feel they have theright to cheat if if they cheatedonce they will keep doing it
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Oct 17, 2011

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    Kdstwice

    I have know this man most of my adult life. We been together for a while. Then we broke up, when he see me he act like he doesn't know me. I found out that he now has a new baby and has been seeing two women at the same time. And he also been talking to other women in various...
    katJames katJames 46-50, F Aug 7, 2009

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    I went undercover at Ashley Madison

    as a married woman looking for a married man and in the first 24 hours I received 150 men wanting to hook up....
    95percentofmencheat1213 95percentofmencheat1213 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    Liars, Cheats, Losers, Users

    They hide behind the sanctity of marriage looking for their next cheap thrill...she doesn't understand me, he says...when a man tells me he has gone out on his wife, I slowly extricate myself from the arrangement...I start looking for the signs and they are always there. Fix your...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 9 Responses Jan 18, 2011

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    Women Do It Just The Same!

    The question presupposes a fallacy. Women cheat about as often as men. End of story.
    lula69 lula69 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 14, 2011

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    Why They Cheat

    Usually if a man is cheating he is not getting everything he needs from the woman he is with.  Most men cheat because there is something in you they like but also something missing they want.  If everyone is straight up and say what they want and what they need and...
    missy1234 missy1234 31-35 6 Responses Oct 12, 2009

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    A female mentor or disciplinarian message me I need your help... NO MEN NO MEN
    Maggiepepper34 Maggiepepper34 22-25, F 28 mins ago

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    my dad told my mom he wanted a divorce 5 days ago and basically blamed her for everything. he said he wasn´t happy. today i found out that he has been cheating on her. i don´t...
    10055p 10055p 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    So why did you just let yourself in???
    Whinny00 Whinny00 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Don't cheat, break up. Why do people think this is okay? No one wants to get cheated on. Grow up.
    EvoKinevil EvoKinevil 26-30, M 3 hrs ago

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    this is a repeat post: There has to be a reason why im not finding a job. I make one mistake on one job, and it shouldnt cost me my life. My whole family doesnt even work, except...
    awesomeguy3125 awesomeguy3125 26-30, M 3 hrs ago

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    just want to scream at the sky. On the racetrack we called it controlled energy. you fed the horses well, kept them conditioned, healthy.. And stuck them in a stall... Which more...
    SvveetKiester SvveetKiester 41-45, F 3 hrs ago

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    I really wish my mind had an off button. I always have these deep thoughts about myself, the what, when, where, and why, I go through the process of simultaneously tearing myself...
    geminixleo geminixleo 18-21, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    To those other women/men who get butthurt when the person they are cheating with, cheats on them.... Newsflash!!! It's not called cheating on you bec. you were never the official...
    ComplicatedWounded ComplicatedWounded 26-30, F 9 hrs ago

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    Yeah, so... Some people cheat their way into becoming professional liars by manipulating others to get by... The setup of My life setting is a setup that is monumental, in...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    astrudcc11 astrudcc11 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    By two different people, actually. The manager and the assistant manager. They live together, work together, and both influence every decision the other makes. You can see how that...
    lovelywarpedlemon lovelywarpedlemon 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I found out my husband had been cheating on me for 5 months and then found out a couples weeks later I was pregnant. I love my husband so much and was beyond crushed when I found...
    momma2one momma2one 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Narrow-minded...you say...I would never spout that "****" out of my mouth. You have me confused from your past. You did so much to pull me in, protect me, do anything for me...now...
    sweetpeaches13 sweetpeaches13 41-45, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    When I was a kid I use to be afraid of characters in horror films, like Chucky, Freddy Krueger, etc. In high school the feeling of fear stayed with me, but instead of being scared...
    xoxobee xoxobee 22-25, F Jul 22

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    I have a complicated situation. The guy I cheated on my boyfriend with is my ex, who I'm still in love with. You see, it'd been forever since we'd talked, and we sat fown and...
    selfh8ter98 selfh8ter98 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I'm not actually sure where I should start with everything I would like to be open and honest about everything my my relationship in the past 11 years but it's a lot for any one...
    buttermonkey buttermonkey 26-30, F Jul 20

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    I'm not actually sure where I should start with everything I would like to be open and honest about everything my my relationship in the past 11 years but it's a lot for any one...
    buttermonkey buttermonkey 26-30, F Jul 20

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    so my best friends bf used to work with my bf and I guess whenever I would call my man my besties man over herd the convo and go back and tell my best friend what my man was...
    LuvLostSoul LuvLostSoul 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    My dad, who is a few years from 60, was complaining that guys today aren't real men. He thinks they've become feminized, with the way they dress and act. He commented that many of...
    anhonestgirl anhonestgirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    About 2 years ago my husband cheated on me with my best friend( no longer my best friend nor friend) but at the same time me and him were separated before the started doing...
    wnwkaw2015 wnwkaw2015 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    Nope I don't. We are all humans so why would I think I'm better than anyone? Irrespective of our race,gender or age we are still people. We are all equal.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 18

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    Mostly just wonder why the men look at me. I'd rather nobody stared at me. I think it has to do with men wanting to compare themselves and feel better about themselves. Gonna start...
    Nixed Nixed 31-35, M Jul 18

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    I was dating this guy I worked with... We started dating in April of this year. I finally said yes to being his girlfriend after I knew I was going to quit. I just did not want to...
    deniseee deniseee 22-25, F Jul 17

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    Lol don't you just love entitled men who think they can boss you around to get food, sex, and chores done?
    theartisttt theartisttt 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 16

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    I have no idea why people hurt me I'm a good girl and I do nice things I love anything and why do theses thing happened to me???
    winterblood winterblood 13-15, F Jul 16

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    Yes I was emotionally abused emotionally and physically when I was 8 until 19 by my mother and brother and emotionally by my ex husband. My mother had me write letters ( i have...
    meg2014 meg2014 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    ultacc11 ultacc11 26-30, F Jul 16

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    aylinacc11 aylinacc11 26-30, F Jul 16

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    Pondering my dating habits over time. People think it's weird that I'm not constantly dating, and just last night I realized I'm the only person in my friend group to have not...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    so many people think physical strength means ones more superior. its not if you ever had to endure physical pain vs emotional,the emotional is much worse. we tend to live in a...
    screechowl83 screechowl83 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    I don't put either sex as inferior. We all rock as individuals, in fact I strongly oppose gender stereotyping completely including the title of this group "I despise men who thing...
    loreto789 loreto789 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 15

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    I just read John Chapter 14 in the Bible. Jesus mentions that He will leave and come back to the ones that believe in Him. Why even leave in the first place? Why give us the...
    Fretboard225 Fretboard225 18-21, M Jul 15

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    Now, look. Don't judge me or what-not for what I am about to type. Yes it came directly from my mind, but you don't have to read it. This is going to be me rambling about a few...
    blueflareeyes blueflareeyes 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 14