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I Will Be Alone For Life

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    I Dunno...

    Obviously I don't know what the future holds for me, but can't seem to shake the feeling that this is my fate. On some days I embrace it. I cherish my solitude. On others I despise and I curse it. Luckily these days are becoming a little more infrequent. It's not so bad I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 13, 2008

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    I Just Can't Picture It.

    I have a feeling that I will be alone. I just can't picutre myself falling in love with someone and they fall in love with me. I can't picture myself getting married or even having a boyfriend. I put myself out there it just hasn't happened. I am confident in myself and I'm not...
    kayhar kayhar 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2010

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    Invisible Even With People Around

    I have been sad for some time and think I am numb now. I don't even care anymore or do I. I have been in a relationship for 6 years and it was great at the beginning. I would see him every weekend and we would do a lot of things together. We only had the two days but we made the...
    Iccu Iccu 36-40 3 Responses Jan 21, 2012

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    Well, I Don't Know That For Sure

    I know I'm too young to think this way.  But as it is, I'm alone right now, even though I am married.  Even if I wasn't married, I'd still be alone I think because I'm not a very lovable person.  I'm just not.  And I isolate myself from others; I'm scared of...
    eromreven eromreven 26-30 3 Responses Aug 5, 2008

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    One Man Band..

    I guess for the rest of my life I am going to be alone as well. No one understands how I feel or even wants to hear me out. Why do I even try...
    BloodyTale BloodyTale 22-25, F Jul 9, 2013

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    Acceptance

    Denial Anger Bargaining Depression Acceptance.... The finally stage is within my sight and how bittersweet it is. Having almost no real relationships in my life and knowing that there are people in their fifties who have never found anyone has finally given me the ability to...
    Person07 Person07 26-30, M Sep 3, 2012

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    I Did Want Children And A Life But No One Wanted Me To Have It

    I know I will have a lonely old age... I don't want to know my sister in law and my brother - they are evil people... Bugsy and Louise and Joyce got to them too.... I only pray that god makes them pay....
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 4, 2011

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    Will I?

    People think I'm very independent. "She will be fine, because she can do it herself." "She's got it figured out" "She'll be fine." Everyone thinks this about me. Apparently I'm a perfectly adjusted, perfectly adequate teenager, the type many parents are envious of. But I feel so...
    JustLazyLittleMe JustLazyLittleMe 16-17, F Mar 2, 2013

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    I Understand That Being Alone Is Ok

    Im slowly starting to learn that it is ok that I will be alone forever. Im 18 and Im glad I have learned it early on. I really used to hate the fact that no will love me but I have started to be ok with it. sometimes it hurts when i see couples but I'm ok when I'm back home alone...
    roboticsummer roboticsummer 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 23, 2011

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    "You Must Be Strong If You're to Go It Alone..."

    BETTER OFF WITHOUT A WIFE (Tom Waits) all my friends are married every Tom and **** and Harry you must be strong if you're to go it alone here's to the bachelors and the bowery bums and those who feel that they're the ones who are better off without a...
    ready2shrug ready2shrug 26-30, M 6 Responses Dec 7, 2008

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    Am I Going To Be Alone For Life????

    i can hear from deepest part of my heart shouting NOOOOOOOOOOOOO!... i don't want to!!! But who really know's whats gonna happen?...somehow i'd like to think that there is someone outthere for me....i have to admit it sucks!!!being lonely...having this feeling that nobody bothers...
    kissbykarma kissbykarma 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 8, 2010

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    Too Broken. Too Lost.

    It's not that I haven't tried to be social or looked for someone share time with. I have been on a few 'dates'. Gone to some social events. I have tried to resume living a normal life. But I'm broken, even dead inside and I just don't want to involve anyone else in my mess. What...
    BohemianTragedy BohemianTragedy 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 29, 2012

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    I Feel Like A Freak...

    I am 25 and it seems like everyone around me has a thriving social life, loads of friends and a partner. I have neither. I worry all the time that things will stay like this. Yes I can increase the chances of meeting someone and making friends but I can't force people to bond...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 19, 2011

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    I Will

    For some reason I just have the feeling I will...I meet great people and it ends up never working out for some reason....oh well.
    dancer2011 dancer2011 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 5, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I have read many many posts about lonliness here. many that just fail to make sense to me, why ? because of age and most likely because theres a sense of beauty from those that...
    Jad88 Jad88 56-60 1 Response Apr 5

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    I've been living alone for 4 months now after me and my wife separated. The past week has been busy and keeping me occupied. But today has been a hard day. I very much miss seeing...
    jxsingle67 jxsingle67 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    I am finally living for myself. No longer scared of what others might think of me. It's the only way you can really get through your life the fullest. As I've gotten older I have...
    SylenaEverlasting SylenaEverlasting 13-15, F Apr 7

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    Even if I disagree with you I will fight for your right to express your opinion. Once we lose this freedom of expression we are lost as a society.
    johnny048 johnny048 46-50, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    But I think it takes a strong person to remain alone when they feel like they haven't met the right one yet. It would be easier to settle. Don't do this because in the long run you...
    mrvitous26 mrvitous26 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I do think i will always be alone because i tend to get overlookd for girls who are more outgoing and flirt
    Sparkles4Soul Sparkles4Soul 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I feel so alone right now... 😔😭
    01sparkly 01sparkly 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I am 26 and never had emotional or romantic relation wiyh anyone. I kept myself alone. I even do not understand if somebody flirts with me.
    tubix tubix 26-30, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    I forged new ground today, making it a point to indulge in meaningless Facebook drama for upwards of a quarter hour...many faces did I gaze up, stopping at those most fair and...
    windynight54321 windynight54321 31-35, M Apr 1

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    I just know it EVERYONE that I work with is with someone I'm the odd one out I'm not using online dating because of bad experiences anyone who do takes an intrest I find out there...
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I feel like I'm supposed to be alone. I don't get upset or depressed over it, I just don't think I could possibly get along with other members of the human race. At a young age, I...
    BrickTheWolf BrickTheWolf 13-15, F Apr 1

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    Seven years. Does relationship length mean much? A twisted person in a lonely world is all I am. Everything I do is an act out of jealousy. I always screw up everything to a...
    Ecarie Ecarie 22-25, M Apr 5

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    I woke up this morning feeling sorry for myself. I wanted to cry endlessly and the thoughts of suicide continued to torment me. It feels that humans are like zombies. On autopilot...
    phufrog phufrog 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    I can't see myself happy in the future. I like to imagine that I get married and have 2.5 kids and a cat. But in reality, I'm not lovable. Most likely I'm going to be married to my...
    shafaz shafaz 18-21 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I do not want to own a pet. I hate taking pictures, having my picture taken, being in pictures in general. I'm a Christian so my relationship with Jesus guides how I live my life...
    PoetofSlumberland PoetofSlumberland 26-30, M 7 hrs ago

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    I've loved and I've lost ... Wonder if I'll be able to find somebody for me
    ChrisMackin ChrisMackin 16-17, M Apr 5

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    So there was a girl many Years back that I fell in love with ower love grew due to the distance one day I made a great move I moved all the way from my home land drop every thing I...
    haru45g haru45g 22-25, M Mar 24

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    I have a list for my life. It's my life plan. First- finish high school with great grades and a job. Second- get into a good collage and get good grades and a degree in...
    VioletCarroll VioletCarroll 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I am picking up my ex's kids on Saturday to go to a movie and ice cream. I am going to pour my heart out to her in hopes that we can get back together. I miss her and the kids...
    domsdad domsdad 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    I will never change who I am just to make me look better or to fit in with the crowd. We should all try to stand out
    Skykillers7 Skykillers7 13-15, M Mar 28

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    Ppl say its wrong to love who I do but Idc I love this person and will always fight their corner
    lifecansuckmydick lifecansuckmydick 13-15, F Apr 3

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    Life is too short. Live it with gusto. Nothing better than making those you love enjoy wonderful moments.
    AlwaysGood AlwaysGood 51-55, M Apr 8

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    I hate lairs, I yes I do. But I may forgive you if you lied with good intentions. For a reason that may benefit me or will make me happy at the end, But if its about your personal...
    isayfreedom isayfreedom 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Fight for what you believe in, I was once told. There's no shame in fighting for what you believe in. In fact, fighting for something just goes to show how much you want it. I...
    awkwardnessbeginshere awkwardnessbeginshere 18-21, F Mar 29

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    I fought and I lost. We weren't meant to be. Now I'm ready and of course I will fight again!!!! For some one new!!!
    ser3garcia ser3garcia 31-35, M Mar 29

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    From my first love. I realized you don't have to be happy with how someone makes you feel, Being in love with someone who won't compromise , is a living hell. I wish the person...
    bgupta766 bgupta766 31-35, M Mar 25

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    True love isn't easy. But it must be fought for. Because once you find it. It can never be replaced. 💔🌹 But can it be repaired?
    Missjayne1 Missjayne1 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    My parents were fine , for the most part . My dad was an alcoholic ... But when he started to get angry.. I started to tattle.. Even at 16 years old . Now they're divorced from...
    Alleyahnevaeh Alleyahnevaeh 13-15, F Apr 5

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    My brother needed me and I forced him to deal with this ONE situation on his own... Now he has social anxiety, trust issues and emotional instability... He doesn't blame me and...
    SurpriseMeToday SurpriseMeToday 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    It is hard just to open up to someone, especially when the only grown up with small brothers, but our father weren't the one. I believe whenever I'm in love with a person, I'm only...
    toufie1 toufie1 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    In high school I had bad depression. I had no idea what to do with myself or how i really felt. There were 2 guys. Guy 1: i ended up dating for a couple weeks and i knew it...
    emmysauraus emmysauraus 16-17, F Apr 3

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    There is so much to say to you, for I'm just an observer just like you. When I look at you, an eternal thought kicks in, automatically without my permission, in my head, based on a...
    MyLady9 MyLady9 46-50, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I don't know where I stand religiously and I don't have anyone to talk to about it
    tesdahl tesdahl 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    She used to talk to me always, now I'm lucky if she cares enough to even let me know that she remembers I exist....
    Ecarie Ecarie 22-25, M Apr 5

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    Oh .............................
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 5

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    I feel like I'm always going to be single, I waisted so much time on a boy who treated me like ****, I'm 15 he was 19. He was so abusive, physically, emotionally, I just want...
    koolsox koolsox 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Warrior name- Silverfeather of ShadowClan Favorite warrior(s)- Living: Jayfeather of ThunderClan; Dead: Lionheart of ThunderClan Favorite book- The Darkest Hour
    Silverfeather1993 Silverfeather1993 18-21, F Apr 8

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    The day my parents had an argument, and my dad hit my mom.
    Rosieeeee Rosieeeee 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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