I Will Be Myself,and Not What Others Want Me to Be

true To who you are, your individuality makes you unique, and as they say "variety is the spice of life" 16,311 People

    Some may not approve of me,

    but Zi am the one who has to live with my choices and personality.
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch
    31-35, F
    Sep 7, 2015

    I will be myself ,not what others want me to be,

    take me,as I am or not at all
    swimmingswan swimmingswan
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jan 9, 2016

    i am not afraid of being

    who i am. Some people think that i am very intense in a negative or positive way depending on who you ask. What i know? Is that i can not stand for people to be weak and push their responsibilties off on others but still i stand and i accept. People have hurt,let me down,abused...
    Bumblehbee Bumblehbee
    26-30, F
    Jun 22, 2014
    jeankachew jeankachew
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Jan 15, 2014

    Ever feel like your best just isn't enough?

    Like your Barely passing life because it's tough The society now looks upon us Like we are all competing to be the strongest People look at you and say you need to do better? Look at them back and say I am better When people say to you why did you do that? Yell back at them...
    princessxk96 princessxk96
    18-21, F
    Dec 13, 2013

    I have come to the conclusion

    that I cannot date anyone while I'm separated... every time I start talking to them or go on a date I start to feel like I'm doing wrong. I talked to my wife, and she was confused about why. I told her it's because I am me and if I did anything different I wouldn't be me :)
    joker364 joker364
    26-30, M
    Nov 6, 2015

    i've been through a lot

    so far.i'm not ashamed of who i am i'm even proud of myself.. but i'm so scared to seeing myself in the mirror sometimes today,i was stearing at my face and eyes that have seen so many things words are useless and garbage,i can't even discribe my feelings atm just know my...
    noteyetoeye1 noteyetoeye1
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 18, 2015

    I used to be so insecure,

    but I don't have energy for that anymore. How all these girls my age can keep it up is beyond me. It's so much easier to be positive and confident. Yes girls, you in the back listen up, it's OKAY and EASIER and HAPPIER to be confident.
    deleted deleted
    Oct 12, 2015

    I was told by both of my parents

    that being a writer isn't a real job but it's what I want to do and they told me that I shouldn't. Who are they to tell me what I can and can't do when my mom doesn't even like me and my dad has barely been in my life
    canutomj canutomj
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 9, 2015

    It is tormenting when one is,

    after struggling to the utmost, ready to head up for a new journey and then out of the blue, some thoughtless, mean-spirited beings come in the way just to act as a barrier that depicts the ruthless nature of someone, one hardly knows.
    hiddentears hiddentears
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 21, 2015

    I'm a country boy with traditional values.

    if you don't like then don't hit your *** on the way out the door.
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1
    18-21, M
    Oct 26, 2015

    Everyone Thinks I Should Do What They Want

    Its so hard waking up everyday and finding the motivation to venture into a world where people everywhere just wants to suck the life out of you and dictate who you are. I am strong I know this because I have been to hell and back and endured things in my life a normal person...
    LoneAlpha LoneAlpha
    31-35, M
    11 Responses Apr 28, 2013

    Everyone is unique and everyone is important.

    Do not act like anyone but you and do not try to be someone your not. You are best when you be yourself. The world is big enough for everyone. Do not hold back because the world sees you as weird. Instead, wear your weirdness with pride and wear it the way only you can.
    AmandaCroft AmandaCroft
    18-21, F
    May 18, 2015

    While manifesting your individuality you may

    find those around you questioning your liberation and expression. It is never your responsibility to please them. Not your family, not your friends. Don't cage yourself for them. Be free even if it's in solitude. You are doing the best you can and its beautiful.
    MissQueenB MissQueenB
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jan 5, 2016

    Letting go of the impossible.

    I can only be me... :)
    Shoutittotheworld23 Shoutittotheworld23
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Jul 18, 2014

    The Life Child

    In my mind , I see a child crying and screaming for help . People pass by not noticing that the child’s in pain the problem is the child is silent . All her emotions hidden . She silently cries trying to keep her tears inside everyday . Every time someone asks she says she’s...
    TheJakeBlack TheJakeBlack
    22-25, M
    7 Responses Nov 17, 2012

    Hi this I can really relate to I will be myself

    I have been hated for it but my online friends like me for it and so I will do it
    lor44 lor44
    18-21, F
    Oct 12, 2015

    Live in such a way that

    if someone spoke badly about you,no one would believe it.
    colleenzeddy colleenzeddy
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 25, 2014

    How to develop real breast tissue

    as a male legitimately?
    Strivexwolf Strivexwolf
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 27, 2016

    Look around you.. Appreciate the little things,

    the colors of everything around you.. Imagine if life was in black n white or think of the poor.. your bed, it's soft and comfy some people are homeless, think about water you drink, it's tasteless but yet people are lacking water in Syria.. When you think of these things, you...
    chillzzzxx chillzzzxx
    56-60, M
    1 Response Oct 4, 2015

    call me what u like .

    . deem me unfit ..but in the end I'm still going to be me
    Msxspraypaint Msxspraypaint
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Oct 4, 2015
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 12, 2015

    That has one downside only ,

    if I want to be more accurate, that has one big downside, it is risk of being judged badly by the others, so be careful in practising this right please!!!, i tell that to myself because I suffered from bad experiences in terms of that
    umayyad umayyad
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jan 17, 2016

    I don't find it all that difficult

    because I don't care about the opinion of people who I don't know or respect. People I don't know can't know enough about me to form a valid opinion, and people I don't respect are basically cognizant diarrhea. If I don't like you then why would I care what you think? I only...
    Tinwqce Tinwqce
    31-35, T
    Aug 27, 2015

    I don´t write about sensual experiences I´ve

    never had...or crave to live... I only post about own sensual or erotic experiences which I permanently live. It must be sad having to be content with just throwing mind images to get some attention......I pity those mature ladies who would be much better off not pretending to...
    LadyHeartnMind LadyHeartnMind
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Sep 3, 2015

    painted my nails black again yesterday.

    it feels so good to express my individuality.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 3, 2015

    Taking My Life Back

    I've spent far too long being the person other people wanted me to be and doing things that other people wanted me to do. My parents opinions and approval have always mattered strongly to me and I'd never want to lose my parent's respect but I can see that I need to be my own...
    FallenAngelWOOT FallenAngelWOOT
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Jan 15, 2012

    I have never been myself around most people.

    They tell me who to be and that me being me is not okay around them. Thank you very much.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 24, 2015

    It's not complicated okay.

    I won't change who I am for others. You can call me a *****, ****, whatever the **** you want to call me. But being me is the real deal. I'm official and will not be copied, nor copy others. Done, deal, settled.
    Leilani19 Leilani19
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Dec 28, 2013

    Person: you should act more like a lady.

    . Me: oh I'm sorry SIR. I didn't realize that my vagina came with Terms & Conditions 5hrs later.... Me: Dammit.. This is why I'm single.😐
    Chiro98 Chiro98
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 14, 2015

    The Helpful Stranger...

    I noticed a man when I was out today. He was older, maybe 78, and sat by himself on a bench reading the paper, completely oblivious to the hustle and bustle going on around him. As I sat down for a moment on the other side of the bench, he looked up just marginally from his paper...
    deleted deleted
    8 Responses Aug 4, 2013

    no one and nothing can not change me.

    DEATH of parents ..loosing friends hearing BAD THINGS from others about your personality. i am exactly who i should be. but it makes me alone. i have no friend to can talk to him and i feel like everyone in this world hates me. i would like to be like others but i just can do...
    18-21, F
    Jan 28, 2016

    Dont Tell Me What To Be

    all my friends try and say i need to be a bad girl around school when i all ready am but not as much of them they say i need to be girly girl, they say i need to be bad man, they say i need to be tomboy hod on a minute im my own person i will be who i wont and how i wont if you...
    angelwolf18 angelwolf18
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 19, 2013

    First Rate...

    "Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else."- Judy Garland I wrote a little while ago about being unedited...and being the person you are. A number of things brought about this turn of mindset for me, the majority being people...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Mar 7, 2013

    Unedited Me...

    I have spent a lot of my life trying to please others. Be the dutiful daughter, loving girlfriend, supportive sister. A good friend, helpful colleague...the list could go on forever. There comes a point though where you have to say enough is enough.You could spend your life...
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Feb 2, 2013

    I desire to be just myself

    for once. I am a positive person and believe if things don't go as I wish then it isn't the end and takes different route to reach my dreams then another and another but I always ended up at starting line just because I sacrifice my opportunity for people I love and care for...
    BlueFairy09 BlueFairy09
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 12, 2015

    No matter what they want me to be I don't care

    I'm past caring I'm me a beautiful, quirky, messy individual who loves just as hard as she cries and will be a free spirit and there for her loved ones until the day she dies. I'm sorry if I'm a disappointment but I'm me. And I always will be.(I'm a poet I rhyme sue me...)
    silent62 silent62
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Nov 28, 2015

    Good To Be Myself

    im same with other people that encounter with many problems. i know people always make fun of me.i don't care about it but im still a human being who not perfect.i lied if i'm don't care about what the rumours that people would say behind me.some how i left the feelings of being...
    rom4 rom4
    31-35, M
    1 Response Apr 21, 2011

    People need to make the most of what they have

    and quit complaining about what they don't have.
    arabella1108 arabella1108
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 27, 2014

    We are trained to be like everyone else.

    A typical person who should do the practical things in life. Someone who must finish college. Someone who should have a high paying job. To build a career and start a traditional family of your own, and Raise children etc. I’m lost in this kind of system that everyone should...
    EcstaticAgony EcstaticAgony
    22-25, F
    Jan 1, 2016

    Only Me

    I spent a long time trying to make other people happy at the expense of myself. Parents, boss, (now ex) wife. One day, as I was going through my divorce, my brother sat me down over a couple of beers and asked me "Who are you?". I couldn't answer with anything of value so he...
    AlanCozmuel AlanCozmuel
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jan 20, 2013

    I Am Me

    For many years I was just what everyone wanted and expected me to be...I was very miserable and very unhappy! Well...finally a little over a year ago I decided I had to make myself happy..so I changed! Of course it was a very slow change..didn't want to make the whole family...
    theheartofmemphis theheartofmemphis
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Dec 20, 2011

    I made myself this EP account

    and have remained anonymous because that's what I want. I want to speak my mind and vent without being judged. Now, that being said, if someone doesn't like what I say or think, please do not comment or message me. I am on here to connect with people that are /might be going...
    Mystery08 Mystery08
    22-25, F
    Sep 7, 2015

    Don't mix between my personality

    and my attitude because my personality is ME and my attitude depends on how you treat me
    bizzarebandcutie bizzarebandcutie
    18-21, F
    Jun 21, 2014

    Well folks let me just tell ya I know this is

    gonna sou d abit weird ,cause that's been the reaction to the story I'm about to share with u ok,well I moved into this apt. And I noticed almost right away that the upstairs neighbor directly above me is following me around from room to room. No matter where I go in my apt. He...
    Fedup7117 Fedup7117
    1 Response Oct 14, 2015

    I used to think that a BLT was a person

    who was Bi, lesbian and transgender Turns out it's a sandwich or tortilla that contains bacon, lettuce and tomato
    EnchantedHopes EnchantedHopes
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Oct 14, 2015
    moonii moonii
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 17, 2014

    My boyfriend left at the worst time in my life.

    ..My mother is in hospice and she is dying. I was crying last night, because I can't stand the thought of losing someone that loves me unconditionally. She is my world. The most beautiful person inside and out. I feel so alone and so lost. I'm selfish because I don't want to let...
    SoyAmantea SoyAmantea
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Jan 25, 2016

    My Life

    I'm gonna be very honest with u people of EP my life was ******* **** my sisters and dad walked out on me I started to get in **** with my mam and school went I was 12yrs old I would give my teacher and other students hell if they annoyed me or question who I was ect I got...
    lucy2014 lucy2014
    22-25, F
    19 Responses Nov 9, 2013

    Something I hate is when people pretend to be

    someone they're not. That is not living life. You are imprisoned. Don't be someone just for someone else. Be yourself unless you really don't like yourself. If you have a weakness, a bad habit, or anything else, work on it. Improve yourself. But don't put on a mask.
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Nov 19, 2015

    Being Yourself.

    I will always be myself and I will never change the way I am because I know that being yourself can lead to many amazing things I would rather be hated for being myself than loved for being fake. I welcome any person in my life who likes to be my friend and I would love it if...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Feb 8, 2013
    Camerynjewell Camerynjewell
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Oct 29, 2015

    I had bad relationships in the past,

    they wanted to change me , they wanted me to act a certain way, do what tell me do, the guy got abusive, so i pick up my self up and got out of that relationship and went to abuse course for women, it changed my life, i learn to be strong and i need to just be me.. I am very...
    supermom1972 supermom1972
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Oct 26, 2015
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