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I Will Be There For Other Military Girlfriends and Wives

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 468 People

    If anyone needs support I will be here

    for you. I am currently going through a second deployment with my fiancé and I know that support is a huge factor for all of us at home. I don't care if you are a girlfriend, boyfriend, fiancé, husband, wife, or a friend of someone who is deployed or serving, i'll be here to...
    lifeisabeautifulstruggle19 lifeisabeautifulstruggle19 18-21, F Mar 31

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    Anybody Feel Like Talking?

    Seriously, you guys. I'm really missing my boyfriend right now. I really need someone who understands what I'm going through to talk to. I would seriously love you forever if one of you lovely ladies would leave a comment or just message me if you feel like listening to me whine...
    cerin1130 cerin1130 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 6, 2013

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    Hey

    Hey all!!My name is Amanda and I know a lot of girls on this site have gotten some support and advice from me!! I love being able to help you ladies when you are having a hard time with the military life. My friend and I have created a support site for all on facebook. We are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 16, 2012

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    Needing Support, New At Being A Military Girlfriend

    Hello everyone! I am very inexperienced at this whole being a military girlfriend thing. When I first met my love I told him it was alright because I'm a strong independent woman and I can handle it, HAHA!!! First he was gone out of the country and now he is back but in training...
    J4GB J4GB 31-35, F 2 Responses May 11, 2013

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    You Deserve Support Too

    http://www.experienceproject.com/groups/Need-Support-While-My-Soldier-Is-Deployed/376886 add this is you need support from other females who know what your going through we understand and want to help and listen
    princesskassie92 princesskassie92 18-21, F Sep 22, 2010

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    No Idea What I'm Doing- Trying To Plan My Trip To Parris Island!

    Yet another question.. hope I'm not annoying anyone! I'm having a hard time planning my trip to Parris Island, I've never traveled anyone before, been on a plane, and have no one to help me. I'm 21, and my plan was to arrive at whatever hotel I'll stay at on Tuesday October 30th...
    smallbutfierce smallbutfierce 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 24, 2012

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    Update

    I got a 15 minute phone call with my soldier yesterday. Needless to say, it hit the spot haha. Moreover, we discussed traveling plans to get to and from his bct graduation. And discussed when we plan on getting married. He will be back from a.i.t. around the end of June so that's...
    Alexiscnly Alexiscnly 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2013

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    Need Some Help Or Advice?

    Hey all!!My name is Amanda and I know a lot of girls on this site have gotten some support and advice from me!! I love being able to help you ladies when you are having a hard time with the military life. My friend and I have created a support site for all on facebook. We are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 23, 2012

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    Waiting For "the Day"

    Well I saw Alexander on June 17 of this month in charleston international airport. where my hometown of charleston is... When he hugged me fr behind my heart was singing.. it had been a month since i saw him last..when he surpised visited me in WI when i had  just arrived to...
    Ironmaiden22 Ironmaiden22 22-25, F Jun 27, 2011

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    Paradise

    I daydream about the day when we will go to the islands and visit our other homes. Where you will introduce me to your island. And I will introduce you to what I know in mines. Together we will be happy. Exploring the paradises we had known as children. And we will make memories...
    Alexiscnly Alexiscnly 18-21, F Apr 6, 2013

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    Mama'S Acceptance

    So I told my mom I'm getting married in June-July . She wants me to wait two more years. But I told her I'm ready and that I know that I love him. Then she suprised me by asking, " how big is your cake going to be?". I just laughed and said, "mom you can make me one of those...
    Alexiscnly Alexiscnly 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 27, 2013

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    I'm Confused.. =(

    So, I would really appreciate some advice on what is going through my Marine's head right now..I am so lost.We were in the middle of deciding if I should move out to California to be with him, before he deploys.  We are waiting to get married until he gets back next November. I...
    samlynnyar samlynnyar 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 30, 2011

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    Hi (: Just In Need Of Some Support

    My name is Paige, I am 17 years old from CT and I am new to this site. My boyfriend deploys to Afghanistan for 8 months, and I have been overly depressed and terrified. He is the love of my life and my absolute best friend, so having to go such long periods of time...
    paigedanielle11 paigedanielle11 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2010

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    Hey Girls

    Hello to all the strong military girls out there, im katie im from pennsylvania. My boyfriend and i met threw a close friend 2 years ago, we've been together ever since. He is currently at fort sill oklahoma for his basic training, and will be attending maryland for ait. He is...
    kaitey1029 kaitey1029 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2009

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    Growing Up Too Fast

    I have decided that I am ready for marriage. I am constantly told that I'm too young, I'm crazy, I'm not ready, I'm trying to grow up too fast...honestly I block all those things out. People are entitled to their opinions. Even though people doubt me and look down on my...
    Alexiscnly Alexiscnly 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 15, 2013

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    Recruits In Parris Island?

    Hi guys, Just wondering if anyone's recruit is at Parris Island? Mine just left aug 26th anyone else in the same boat?
    MochaChocolatte MochaChocolatte 18-21 2 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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    My first boyfriend, first love of my life,

    first relationship with anyone turned into me becoming a military girlfriend. But it wasn't always like this, before my boyfriend told me that he was going to the Merchant Marine Academy we dated for three years. He's Everything I wanted and then some wrapped in a little camo...
    aliyacharles aliyacharles 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    I Need Help From My Sisters...

    OK GUYS i joined this group to be an inspiration and help for my other military gf/wives... but it seems i may need it from yu all first. i know what im dealing with so far and i know the drill its just, i need some encouragement.. I FEEL LIKE I MIGHT DIE WITHOUT HIM. he's a...
    MzYaya2010 MzYaya2010 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 2, 2011

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    Please Help Me Win Ladies!!

    I am not trying to be annoying or spam a bunch of people but I entered a contest my husband made me join because he knows how badly I want to win! All you have to do is go on Facebook, go to the page Semper Fi Forever (she makes awesome military stuff) go to the photo contest...
    LoveMyMarineHenson143 LoveMyMarineHenson143 18-21, F Jun 8, 2011

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    A Comfort For Me, And Hopefully All Of You.

    Hey Everyone. So I just started reading The Time Traveler's Wife for the 3rd time and I am about 150 pages in. I had an incredible revelation while rereading my favorite book. I was never envious of Clare, being with Henry, always coming and going without notice. Forced to...
    MissMandi89 MissMandi89 22-25, F Jan 7, 2012

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    It Is Our Job To Support One Another

    My fiance is in the Air Force he has been through BMT and is now in tech. So I would just like to offer any one that has any questions or just needs someone to vent to, please feel free to message me. You can message me on here or if you would like to add me on facebook my name...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 1, 2012

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    Is It Realistic

    Hi so I would just like to get some ones opinion on this, because im a course skeptical and having some body who's in a similar situation would probably help, so my bf leaves for basic training in June and he wants us to be physically together again as soon as possible which...
    Cece57 Cece57 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 25, 2013

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    Dont Ever Give Up On Something You Want

    Hey everyone,as you all know,who ever knows my situation last couples day,i have a rough days with my fiance,and to the point of loosing him because of me being so selfish and couldn't understand his nature of his job.And me being selfish when it comes to his time,he is such a...
    angela101287 angela101287 22-25, F Apr 11, 2011

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    I just have to say that every one of you ladies

    that I have seen on here and read your stories, you are all incredible women. I say this because I know how hard it is on myself being away from my marine and many of you have been through this for years. No matter what branch your loved one is in, I have to say you're all very...
    MeAndMyMarine MeAndMyMarine 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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    Sure Will Be For You Girls!

    i love this. i will be here for you guys . i bet everyone can agree bein with someone who is in the military isnt easy but its worth it. thanks for all the support and advice !
    btequi btequi 22-25, F Mar 3, 2011

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    New

    Hey everyone. Im new to this group not new to the site though. My name is Jamie and my soldier is in AIT right now. he just went back to texas to finish up and he gets to come home for hopefully at least a year before he gets deployed. He is in the reserves so I am really lucky...
    btvs820 btvs820 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 3, 2010

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    Fiance's Family Starting Trouble :(

    I am so completely annoyed. My fiance's mom and I used to get along so well, and she absolutely hates me now. When I got his first letter asking me to marry him I was ecstatic. Last week I called his mom to talk to her about us- her son and I. On the phone she told me that she...
    smallbutfierce smallbutfierce 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31, 2012

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    How Can I Get My Mind Off Of My Fiance Leaving In August L

    I'm really new to this an don't know exactly how to get to know people on here. My fiance will be going to boot camp in August an will be gone for 3 months!!!:( what am I to do when hes away I love him with everything in me an the thought of not getting to talk to him is already...
    tiffanyfuturemarinewife tiffanyfuturemarinewife 16-17, F 2 Responses May 30, 2012

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    My Soldier

    I have been with my soldier since 2/12/10. He went to basic training this past summer, 2011 for four months to Fort Benning GA. After he graduated from basic he was suppose to go to UAlbany (we're from NY and he is in the Army National Guard) to do the ROTC college program, but...
    xturtlebabejem1x xturtlebabejem1x 18-21 Jan 23, 2012

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    Heyy

    Im Jaime i live in sarasota florida and my man is stationed in Japan he's been gone for almost a year :(  He might be coming home in April but they love changing the dates lol.  Its been rough but i've done my best at staying busy. But a 15 minute phone call a month or 2 is...
    ilovemysailor143 ilovemysailor143 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 16, 2011

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    Follow Them On Instagram!

    If you aren't sure what to send your loved ones but wanna be creative then you should defiantly follow @creativecarepackages on Instagram for amazing ideas. They post lots of pictures and you can send them pictures of your care packages for them to post for all to see!
    brennaaa8 brennaaa8 18-21, F Sep 11, 2013

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    Support Group On Facebook

    If you would like to be a part of a wonderful support group on facebook and have the chance to meet other amazing gfs/wives please message me on here. This page is drama free!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 4, 2012

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    Mig

    Hey girls! I'm already a part of www.militaryissuedgirlfriends.com, I've been on there for 2 years now. This isn't my first military relationship but will hopefully be my last! I am with a man in the National Guard, we're currently living together and have no plans of leaving...
    smalltownwestcoast smalltownwestcoast 18-21, F Mar 13, 2011

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    If anyone needs anything,

    I'm always here. Just add me and ask anything. I haven't been doing this forever, but a good long time.
    CaptureEverything CaptureEverything 26-30, F Mar 8

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    Im Here

    If you girls ever need anything I'm here! i love that we can have a place like this to vent and just talk. It makes the day go by so much faster and the days until we see our soldiers closer ! :)
    nm617ox nm617ox 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2011

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    Stupid Fight :(

    ok so i have a history about jumping to conclusions.. Ryan has gotten mad in the past but lately he has been getting into trouble on base .. so he was being good today and we didnt talk much .. so i texted him and said "Ry i got my camera :) 2000 dollars later <3 i love it...
    Ymilan01 Ymilan01 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 22, 2011

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    A Short Piece For All Military Wives, Fiances, And Girlfriends To Read.

    Her mind was lost in a time so far away, as she lay upon an empty bed. Creases remain on the empty pillow beside her. She didn’t dare touch what was once and still remains his. It was a reminder that she isn’t alone. Her glassy eyes meet with his picture, as memories of a...
    JMas91 JMas91 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    New Marine Girlfriend

    Josh and me just started dating about a week ago, he has been a Marine for 7 months and has been at this base for 3 months, he tells me that he will be here for about a year more because he is finishing schooling and training. I can't help but think what will happen after the...
    breezer2014 breezer2014 16-17, F Dec 24, 2011

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    New To This

    Hey ladies :) I hope everyone is doing well (: I am new to this group but not new to the site but figured I would share my story with everyone. My name is Kadie and my soldier and I are from Missouri. His name is Jeff Brown. I am 17 years old and he is 19 years old. He has...
    BrownsGirl BrownsGirl 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 20, 2010

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    Anyone?

    Does anyone have a boyfriend or husband who went to basic training in fort sill? On July 15th?
    christinaleeherrera christinaleeherrera 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    Marine Wifes, Gf, Fiances!

    I want to meet girls that are living on the base in 29Palms or Camp Pendelton Becaue i will be moving to idk which base yet. But it will be one of those! I would like to meet girls that are living on those bases. I will be moving in March Or April to be with my husband give me a...
    lovingmymarine22 lovingmymarine22 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 18, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I haven't heard from my boyfriend in weeks ever since he was shipped for BT in South Carolina. My friends don't know the pain or heartache so I hate talking to them about it... I...
    Harmonial Harmonial 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    This is me at 2 years and a half - my parents separated at age 3 or so - and was sent to stay at my grand mum , it was the first time I had suffered depression , missing my parents...
    stephenrko stephenrko 31-35, M Aug 30

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    The older brother of good friend of mine recently passed away. He had been in the same school as my friend and I, so I knew him. It was shocking, and utterly unexpected. He was 27...
    lifeisatest lifeisatest 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 20

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    9/11 It was a peaceful day before it happen The day was full of life But after the day was full with death There was laughter Then there was tears There was people The they...
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have never been able to work for others, especially people my own age. they blame you for the stupid things they do and often make you do crappy things that no one wants to do...
    Emprosium Emprosium 18-21 a week ago

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    -There was a school 3 blocks away from the twin towers -the president was at Florida at the time -on flight 77 184 people died -19 men high jack the planes -flight 11 2,753 people...
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    You may me insignificant in my life...by you were my friend. We may now be strangers...but I will remember every action of yours , every moment of ours......I will never forget you...
    ethanbackstryker ethanbackstryker 16-17, M Aug 18

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    We will never forget the tragedy that struck 13 years ago, today. Wish my firefighter was home with me tonight, I would surely hold him even closer. ❤️ Thank you to all the men...
    LittleTarheel14 LittleTarheel14 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I hold the door for others and them I don't know when to stop holding the door for people...
    Kperr14 Kperr14 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    Kind of funny that this is an experience, but I know a lot if people don't hold doors open for others and don't even say thanks when you do so for them, makes me wanna push them...
    jolley2k jolley2k 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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