I Will Be There For Other Military Girlfriends and Wives

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    if anyone ever need to talk

    or vent I'm just a message away! :)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 7

    Stupid Fight :(

    ok so i have a history about jumping to conclusions.. Ryan has gotten mad in the past but lately he has been getting into trouble on base .. so he was being good today and we didnt talk much .. so i texted him and said "Ry i got my camera :) 2000 dollars later <3 i love it...
    Ymilan01 Ymilan01
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Sep 22, 2011

    Hi I was wondering how you all coped

    while your s/o's were away at MCT. It's been two days and not hearing his voice or talking to him is killing me. I feel empty and will do anything to make the time pass faster.
    careuhambur careuhambur
    18-21, F
    Apr 15, 2015

    A Short Piece For All Military Wives, Fiances, And Girlfriends To Read.

    Her mind was lost in a time so far away, as she lay upon an empty bed. Creases remain on the empty pillow beside her. She didn’t dare touch what was once and still remains his. It was a reminder that she isn’t alone. Her glassy eyes meet with his picture, as memories of a...
    JMas91 JMas91
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 11, 2012

    Any one who comes across a user named Lana2022

    she a troll shes stalking military pages and all she will write is how your man will cheat i strongly suggest you all block and report her
    shotgunrider2012 shotgunrider2012
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Oct 18, 2015

    Anyone had to be away from your love ones 2

    years straight or longer ? I hate him being station over seas but i miss him .
    kellner27 kellner27
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 7, 2015

    hi my real name is Chelsea

    and I am a military wife. me and my husband dated 5 years before we got married. we are high school sweethearts and we always got along pretty well. when I found out he was during the Air Force I was really sad and scared I was worried that I might lose him. but this was his...
    notthestereotype notthestereotype
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 29, 2015

    http://www.gofundme.com/ovr1os If someone can

    help us by either donating or spreading the word we will appreciated it thank you.
    val8788 val8788
    26-30, F
    Mar 20, 2015

    I can officially say my recruit is

    now a marine :) 4 more days until I see him djxhskcksjskxhsjks
    elliecrow elliecrow
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 4, 2014

    My boyfriend is away at basic.

    We planned on getting married after he reaches his permanent station but a lot of what I'm reading says its best to get married during tech school because the process will be faster and I will get to go to his station with him. I wish I knew this before he left. I don't know...
    Stutterdoll Stutterdoll
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 23, 2015

    If anyone needs support I will be here

    for you. I am currently going through a second deployment with my fiancé and I know that support is a huge factor for all of us at home. I don't care if you are a girlfriend, boyfriend, fiancé, husband, wife, or a friend of someone who is deployed or serving, i'll be here to...
    lifeisabeautifulstruggle19 lifeisabeautifulstruggle19
    22-25, F
    Mar 31, 2014

    He blew my mind when he told me he wants to try

    for a baby now. Then he broke my heart when he said he wanted to join the army. He wanted to have a baby before he leaves so that he can experience fatherhood in the event he doesn't return. I want to be supportive, but I'm afraid for him. If this is what he wants to do, I'll be...
    aroseforleah aroseforleah
    18-21, F
    Aug 14, 2015

    I'm curious to what military balls are really

    like. Anyone have stories to share?
    FHart3 FHart3
    18-21, F
    Sep 17, 2015

    GOT A PHONE CALL TODAY.

    first time hearing his voice in 3 months, such an amazing feeling :)
    elliecrow elliecrow
    18-21, F
    Oct 5, 2014

    So my so got sent overseas

    for 2 weeks. He came back To his base and he seemed normal and good. He was excited to back on base and all that. About a week earlier we had a phone call and he was upset and crying saying he missed home, me and his family. Friday comes along and everything is normal and then...
    madreemiaa madreemiaa
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 5, 2015

    My boyfriend leaves for deployment in a few

    months and I am SO nervous. I am trying not to talk about it as much because I don't want him to get upset or worried. What are some good things to help get us through this deployment and what are some good things to send in care packages to make him more comfortable?
    emmi3 emmi3
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Nov 5, 2015

    I just have to say that every one of you ladies

    that I have seen on here and read your stories, you are all incredible women. I say this because I know how hard it is on myself being away from my marine and many of you have been through this for years. No matter what branch your loved one is in, I have to say you're all very...
    zombiebeauty48 zombiebeauty48
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 21, 2014

    I have not posted in awhile.

    ..but I am ready for December already and not because of the holidays! I am glad I found this app in the beginning of my journey ...I have met a few from here and we still talk :) I still try to help others because I was just the girlfriend in the beginning but I was not going...
    Amrs2TB Amrs2TB
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 11, 2015

    Needing Support, New At Being A Military Girlfriend

    Hello everyone! I am very inexperienced at this whole being a military girlfriend thing. When I first met my love I told him it was alright because I'm a strong independent woman and I can handle it, HAHA!!! First he was gone out of the country and now he is back but in training...
    J4GB J4GB
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 11, 2013

    Choose to be joyful today,

    think of all the good you have in your life. The negative is so easy to focus on. The way I get out of those thoughts is to think someone always has it worse than you and I pray for them. Choose joy you cannot regret it.
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Mar 9

    Hi I'm a marine girlfriend

    and I was wondering what was your experience when your significant other went to MCT & MOS? Also which base were they?
    careuhambur careuhambur
    18-21, F
    Apr 14, 2015

    Mama'S Acceptance

    So I told my mom I'm getting married in June-July . She wants me to wait two more years. But I told her I'm ready and that I know that I love him. Then she suprised me by asking, " how big is your cake going to be?". I just laughed and said, "mom you can make me one of those...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Mar 27, 2013

    "So far you have survived 100% of your worst

    days. Keep going. You're doing great."
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Mar 18

    Heyy

    Im Jaime i live in sarasota florida and my man is stationed in Japan he's been gone for almost a year :(  He might be coming home in April but they love changing the dates lol.  Its been rough but i've done my best at staying busy. But a 15 minute phone call a month or 2 is...
    ilovemysailor143 ilovemysailor143
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 16, 2011

    Hello everyone, I wanted to share my story.

    So my boyfriend and I met throught mutual friends when he was on leave on September and clicked instantly. You know when we're growing up and our moms tell us that when we meet the right person you'll just know. Well that's how it was. We never had an awkward stage, we were...
    neverforgetthemoonandstars neverforgetthemoonandstars
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 27, 2015

    my boyfriend will be leaving

    for deployment soon, and I've never been with a military guy before. we're still a relatively new couple, but I want to do all I can in this relationship. Please message me with wisdom on what to expect and tips for mentally preparing myself for this.
    Littlelambxx Littlelambxx
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 20, 2015

    My boyfriend and I have had a lot of issues

    over the past year and it was hard to pinpoint exactly why, through great communication yesterday he was able to open up to me and said there are times where everything can be 100% wonderful in our relationship and I (meaning me) could do nothing wrong but something in his brain...
    kat115nk kat115nk
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 10, 2015

    A Comfort For Me, And Hopefully All Of You.

    Hey Everyone. So I just started reading The Time Traveler's Wife for the 3rd time and I am about 150 pages in. I had an incredible revelation while rereading my favorite book. I was never envious of Clare, being with Henry, always coming and going without notice. Forced to...
    MissMandi89 MissMandi89
    22-25, F
    Jan 7, 2012

    Hey guys! So ive been engaged

    for about 2 months now trying to pick a date and plan a wedding has not been the best experience for me... not becuase my fiance is joining the airforce but that does change things lol .. so i cant really pick a date bc we have no real idea of a timeline. So heres my question...
    Antoniarenee23 Antoniarenee23
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 20, 2015

    Need Some Help Or Advice?

    Hey all!!My name is Amanda and I know a lot of girls on this site have gotten some support and advice from me!! I love being able to help you ladies when you are having a hard time with the military life. My friend and I have created a support site for all on facebook. We are...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 23, 2012

    If anyone needs anything,

    I'm always here. Just add me and ask anything. I haven't been doing this forever, but a good long time.
    CaptureEverything CaptureEverything
    26-30, F
    Mar 8, 2014

    I just want to say thank you to everyone

    for being so friendly and sticking together!
    chelssae chelssae
    18-21, F
    Mar 25, 2015

    I just had one of the best nights of my life

    yet on my way home I couldn't help but wishing that he was there with me. My heart aches, it's his first weekend away at MCT and I'm terrified he won't get a phone call tomorrow.
    careuhambur careuhambur
    18-21, F
    Apr 19, 2015

    Love Jo's blog! This entry- things you say to a

    military spouse/girlfriend other than "you knew what you were getting into." Encourage :) http://jomygosh.com/2016/02/things-to-say-to-a-milspouse-instead-of-you-knew-what-you-were-getting-into/
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Mar 9

    My boyfriend leaves for basic in 12 days

    and my mom just told me 2 days ago that she is moving three states away on Sunday. I just moved here in November to be closer to my man so I don't know very many people and I'm going to be all by myself. I have such bad anxiety and I cry pretty much everyday. I'm so lost and I...
    foreverhis14 foreverhis14
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 22, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 14, 2015

    Me and my man are a day away from seeing each

    other but I'm going to bed crying. I hate fighting with him...
    MM32015 MM32015
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 3, 2015

    I am a proud Navy girlfriend.

    I'm so excited to say that my boyfriend, Brandon, is here in Pensacola with me, yay! Although I am ecstatic that we are in the same place (finally), I know that we won't be for long. After his training he is most likely facing orders to go overseas. We've done the long distance...
    JennyLeigh916 JennyLeigh916
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 10, 2015

    Has anyone used Space A flights?

    I'm trying to get my boyfriend home for Christmas and don't have enough money for tickets.
    allietread allietread
    22-25, F
    Nov 9, 2015

    So my boyfriend who is a marine came to visit

    on leave so we got reacquainted and I'm on birth control but I've been throwing up for the past few mornings. He says it's not a big deal and it's probably just the flu but I think I might be pregnant. I took a 2 tests on was positive one was negative. I scheduled a doctors...
    jackiee0924 jackiee0924
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 27, 2015

    I miss my boyfriend so much.

    He left for basic training to Fort Benning 3 days ago & will be there for 5 months. Anyone willing to talk every once & a while?
    nicolezimmerr nicolezimmerr
    16-17, F
    7 Responses Jan 27, 2015

    I am having a tough time today.

    Although I get to talk to him, and FaceTime him constantly. I'm still missing him like crazy. I get to see him again in 7 weeks. and then we will be facing our first deployment. During which he may miss our first child's birth, and all of the wedding planning. Since we are...
    mirandab3 mirandab3
    22-25, F
    Mar 31, 2015

    Thinking of all of you today.

    I hope everyone has a delightful day! Be encouraged and be enlightened!
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Mar 6

    Stay busy and thrive in this deployment!

    I'm doing yard work tomorrow, base housing planted rose bushes in the front of the house.. It's time for a trim!
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Mar 7
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