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I Will Be There For Other Military Girlfriends and Wives

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    Anyone?

    Does anyone have a boyfriend or husband who went to basic training in fort sill? On July 15th?
    christinaleeherrera christinaleeherrera 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    You Deserve Support Too

    http://www.experienceproject.com/groups/Need-Support-While-My-Soldier-Is-Deployed/376886 add this is you need support from other females who know what your going through we understand and want to help and listen
    princesskassie92 princesskassie92 18-21, F Sep 22, 2010

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    Hello everyone, I wanted to share my story.

    So my boyfriend and I met throught mutual friends when he was on leave on September and clicked instantly. You know when we're growing up and our moms tell us that when we meet the right person you'll just know. Well that's how it was. We never had an awkward stage, we were...
    neverforgetthemoonandstars neverforgetthemoonandstars 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 27

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    Hey guys! So ive been engaged

    for about 2 months now trying to pick a date and plan a wedding has not been the best experience for me... not becuase my fiance is joining the airforce but that does change things lol .. so i cant really pick a date bc we have no real idea of a timeline. So heres my question...
    Antoniarenee23 Antoniarenee23 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    Growing Up Too Fast

    I have decided that I am ready for marriage. I am constantly told that I'm too young, I'm crazy, I'm not ready, I'm trying to grow up too fast...honestly I block all those things out. People are entitled to their opinions. Even though people doubt me and look down on my...
    Alexiscnly Alexiscnly 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 15, 2013

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    New

    Hey everyone. Im new to this group not new to the site though. My name is Jamie and my soldier is in AIT right now. he just went back to texas to finish up and he gets to come home for hopefully at least a year before he gets deployed. He is in the reserves so I am really lucky...
    btvs820 btvs820 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 3, 2010

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    http://www.gofundme.com/ovr1os If someone can

    help us by either donating or spreading the word we will appreciated it thank you.
    val8788 val8788 26-30, F Mar 20

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    I just had one of the best nights of my life

    yet on my way home I couldn't help but wishing that he was there with me. My heart aches, it's his first weekend away at MCT and I'm terrified he won't get a phone call tomorrow.
    careuhambur careuhambur 16-17, F Apr 19

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    I can officially say my recruit is

    now a marine :) 4 more days until I see him djxhskcksjskxhsjks
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 4, 2014

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    I am having a tough time today.

    Although I get to talk to him, and FaceTime him constantly. I'm still missing him like crazy. I get to see him again in 7 weeks. and then we will be facing our first deployment. During which he may miss our first child's birth, and all of the wedding planning. Since we are...
    mirandab3 mirandab3 22-25, F Mar 31

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    Recruits In Parris Island?

    Hi guys, Just wondering if anyone's recruit is at Parris Island? Mine just left aug 26th anyone else in the same boat?
    MochaChocolatte MochaChocolatte 22-25 2 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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    Anybody Feel Like Talking?

    Seriously, you guys. I'm really missing my boyfriend right now. I really need someone who understands what I'm going through to talk to. I would seriously love you forever if one of you lovely ladies would leave a comment or just message me if you feel like listening to me whine...
    cerin1130 cerin1130 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 6, 2013

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    Hi I'm a marine girlfriend

    and I was wondering what was your experience when your significant other went to MCT & MOS? Also which base were they?
    careuhambur careuhambur 16-17, F Apr 14

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    A Short Piece For All Military Wives, Fiances, And Girlfriends To Read.

    Her mind was lost in a time so far away, as she lay upon an empty bed. Creases remain on the empty pillow beside her. She didn’t dare touch what was once and still remains his. It was a reminder that she isn’t alone. Her glassy eyes meet with his picture, as memories of a...
    JMas91 JMas91 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    Stupid Fight :(

    ok so i have a history about jumping to conclusions.. Ryan has gotten mad in the past but lately he has been getting into trouble on base .. so he was being good today and we didnt talk much .. so i texted him and said "Ry i got my camera :) 2000 dollars later <3 i love it...
    Ymilan01 Ymilan01 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 22, 2011

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    Heyy

    Im Jaime i live in sarasota florida and my man is stationed in Japan he's been gone for almost a year :(  He might be coming home in April but they love changing the dates lol.  Its been rough but i've done my best at staying busy. But a 15 minute phone call a month or 2 is...
    ilovemysailor143 ilovemysailor143 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 16, 2011

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    So my boyfriend who is a marine came to visit

    on leave so we got reacquainted and I'm on birth control but I've been throwing up for the past few mornings. He says it's not a big deal and it's probably just the flu but I think I might be pregnant. I took a 2 tests on was positive one was negative. I scheduled a doctors...
    jackiee0924 jackiee0924 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 27

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    I just have to say that every one of you ladies

    that I have seen on here and read your stories, you are all incredible women. I say this because I know how hard it is on myself being away from my marine and many of you have been through this for years. No matter what branch your loved one is in, I have to say you're all very...
    zombiebeauty48 zombiebeauty48 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2014

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    New To This

    Hey ladies :) I hope everyone is doing well (: I am new to this group but not new to the site but figured I would share my story with everyone. My name is Kadie and my soldier and I are from Missouri. His name is Jeff Brown. I am 17 years old and he is 19 years old. He has...
    BrownsGirl BrownsGirl 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 20, 2010

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    I need opinions or advice from other marine

    girlfriends. I'm sorry if this is long but I'm desperate. I've been dating my boyfriend for over three years now and planning on getting married around two. I recently found out I was pregnant a few months ago and my boyfriend started changing. A week after we found out he...
    chey1121 chey1121 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 14, 2014

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    My first boyfriend, first love of my life,

    first relationship with anyone turned into me becoming a military girlfriend. But it wasn't always like this, before my boyfriend told me that he was going to the Merchant Marine Academy we dated for three years. He's Everything I wanted and then some wrapped in a little camo...
    aliyacharles aliyacharles 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    Hi (: Just In Need Of Some Support

    My name is Paige, I am 17 years old from CT and I am new to this site. My boyfriend deploys to Afghanistan for 8 months, and I have been overly depressed and terrified. He is the love of my life and my absolute best friend, so having to go such long periods of time...
    paigedanielle11 paigedanielle11 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2010

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    my boyfriend will be leaving

    for deployment soon, and I've never been with a military guy before. we're still a relatively new couple, but I want to do all I can in this relationship. Please message me with wisdom on what to expect and tips for mentally preparing myself for this.
    Littlelambxx Littlelambxx 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    If anyone needs anything,

    I'm always here. Just add me and ask anything. I haven't been doing this forever, but a good long time.
    CaptureEverything CaptureEverything 26-30, F Mar 8, 2014

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    So my so got sent overseas

    for 2 weeks. He came back To his base and he seemed normal and good. He was excited to back on base and all that. About a week earlier we had a phone call and he was upset and crying saying he missed home, me and his family. Friday comes along and everything is normal and then...
    madreemiaa madreemiaa 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Hey Girls

    Hello to all the strong military girls out there, im katie im from pennsylvania. My boyfriend and i met threw a close friend 2 years ago, we've been together ever since. He is currently at fort sill oklahoma for his basic training, and will be attending maryland for ait. He is...
    kaitey1029 kaitey1029 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2009

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    Need Some Help Or Advice?

    Hey all!!My name is Amanda and I know a lot of girls on this site have gotten some support and advice from me!! I love being able to help you ladies when you are having a hard time with the military life. My friend and I have created a support site for all on facebook. We are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 23, 2012

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    Update

    I got a 15 minute phone call with my soldier yesterday. Needless to say, it hit the spot haha. Moreover, we discussed traveling plans to get to and from his bct graduation. And discussed when we plan on getting married. He will be back from a.i.t. around the end of June so that's...
    Alexiscnly Alexiscnly 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2013

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    If anyone needs support I will be here

    for you. I am currently going through a second deployment with my fiancé and I know that support is a huge factor for all of us at home. I don't care if you are a girlfriend, boyfriend, fiancé, husband, wife, or a friend of someone who is deployed or serving, i'll be here to...
    lifeisabeautifulstruggle19 lifeisabeautifulstruggle19 18-21, F Mar 31, 2014

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    Hi I was wondering how you all coped

    while your s/o's were away at MCT. It's been two days and not hearing his voice or talking to him is killing me. I feel empty and will do anything to make the time pass faster.
    careuhambur careuhambur 16-17, F Apr 15

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    I just want to say thank you to everyone

    for being so friendly and sticking together!
    chelssae chelssae 18-21, F Mar 25

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    My boyfriend is away at basic.

    We planned on getting married after he reaches his permanent station but a lot of what I'm reading says its best to get married during tech school because the process will be faster and I will get to go to his station with him. I wish I knew this before he left. I don't know...
    Stutterdoll Stutterdoll 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    A Comfort For Me, And Hopefully All Of You.

    Hey Everyone. So I just started reading The Time Traveler's Wife for the 3rd time and I am about 150 pages in. I had an incredible revelation while rereading my favorite book. I was never envious of Clare, being with Henry, always coming and going without notice. Forced to...
    MissMandi89 MissMandi89 22-25, F Jan 7, 2012

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    Mama'S Acceptance

    So I told my mom I'm getting married in June-July . She wants me to wait two more years. But I told her I'm ready and that I know that I love him. Then she suprised me by asking, " how big is your cake going to be?". I just laughed and said, "mom you can make me one of those...
    Alexiscnly Alexiscnly 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 27, 2013

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    Dont Ever Give Up On Something You Want

    Hey everyone,as you all know,who ever knows my situation last couples day,i have a rough days with my fiance,and to the point of loosing him because of me being so selfish and couldn't understand his nature of his job.And me being selfish when it comes to his time,he is such a...
    angela101287 angela101287 22-25, F Apr 11, 2011

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    Is It Realistic

    Hi so I would just like to get some ones opinion on this, because im a course skeptical and having some body who's in a similar situation would probably help, so my bf leaves for basic training in June and he wants us to be physically together again as soon as possible which...
    Cece57 Cece57 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 25, 2013

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    I Need Help From My Sisters...

    OK GUYS i joined this group to be an inspiration and help for my other military gf/wives... but it seems i may need it from yu all first. i know what im dealing with so far and i know the drill its just, i need some encouragement.. I FEEL LIKE I MIGHT DIE WITHOUT HIM. he's a...
    MzYaya2010 MzYaya2010 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 2, 2011

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    My boyfriend leaves for basic in 12 days

    and my mom just told me 2 days ago that she is moving three states away on Sunday. I just moved here in November to be closer to my man so I don't know very many people and I'm going to be all by myself. I have such bad anxiety and I cry pretty much everyday. I'm so lost and I...
    foreverhis14 foreverhis14 18-21, F Jul 22

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    GOT A PHONE CALL TODAY.

    first time hearing his voice in 3 months, such an amazing feeling :)
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F Oct 5, 2014

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    Marine Wifes, Gf, Fiances!

    I want to meet girls that are living on the base in 29Palms or Camp Pendelton Becaue i will be moving to idk which base yet. But it will be one of those! I would like to meet girls that are living on those bases. I will be moving in March Or April to be with my husband give me a...
    lovingmymarine22 lovingmymarine22 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 18, 2011

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    I miss my boyfriend so much.

    He left for basic training to Fort Benning 3 days ago & will be there for 5 months. Anyone willing to talk every once & a while?
    nicolezimmerr nicolezimmerr 16-17, F 7 Responses Jan 27

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    Paradise

    I daydream about the day when we will go to the islands and visit our other homes. Where you will introduce me to your island. And I will introduce you to what I know in mines. Together we will be happy. Exploring the paradises we had known as children. And we will make memories...
    Alexiscnly Alexiscnly 18-21, F Apr 6, 2013

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    Mig

    Hey girls! I'm already a part of www.militaryissuedgirlfriends.com, I've been on there for 2 years now. This isn't my first military relationship but will hopefully be my last! I am with a man in the National Guard, we're currently living together and have no plans of leaving...
    smalltownwestcoast smalltownwestcoast 18-21, F Mar 13, 2011

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    Needing Support, New At Being A Military Girlfriend

    Hello everyone! I am very inexperienced at this whole being a military girlfriend thing. When I first met my love I told him it was alright because I'm a strong independent woman and I can handle it, HAHA!!! First he was gone out of the country and now he is back but in training...
    J4GB J4GB 31-35, F 2 Responses May 11, 2013

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    Follow Them On Instagram!

    If you aren't sure what to send your loved ones but wanna be creative then you should defiantly follow @creativecarepackages on Instagram for amazing ideas. They post lots of pictures and you can send them pictures of your care packages for them to post for all to see!
    brennaaa8 brennaaa8 18-21, F Sep 11, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    yes especially elderly or disabled person or pregnant for giving them respect and priorities
    gloryglory1984 gloryglory1984 31-35, F 20 hrs ago

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