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I Will Hang In There For My Boyfriend

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    Urgh!

    Hi, I'm Lauren! I just started dating my firefighter, Scott, a month ago! I feel extremely lucky to have this brave and caring man in my life. Problem is that he always seems to be gone. When we first started dating our area flooded and he was called away for two weeks. I can...
    ljhood ljhood 22-25, F May 16, 2013

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    He Signed the Dotted Line, and I Signed For Him

    "If you think being a soldier is tough, trying loving one." This to me rings true. We all know that from experience. Some days you wanna hop out of bed and get going, other days you just want to close the curtains and sat "to hell with it." All military...
    YellowRibbon101 YellowRibbon101 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 18, 2009

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    Parental Control.

    Ok. so the LOVE of my life is in the Army. Its really hard with him being gone. I miss him so much. But what makes it even harder is that my parents do not want me with him. We have been together for 3 yrs. The are trying to make me doubt him and his faithfulness to me. I ...
    ashleysvr ashleysvr 18-21, F 5 Responses May 7, 2009

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    MY U.s. Soldier

    Hi im new to this experience. My U.S. Army soldier and I are just dating at the moment for the fact that he has been cheated and dumped by his 2 former gfs while he was in Iraq. He's afraid that I will do the same to him but we agreed to continue dating even while he's in Germany...
    Ivette0932 Ivette0932 22-25 1 Response Jul 9, 2009

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    I Stand By My Bf For Ever And Always

    I have been with him for almost two and a half years. When we got together he told me his deepest and darkest secret that he had a hard time telling me for the fear of running me off. But as you can see im still with him and love him even more then before for trusting me with...
    BreAnnaHammons BreAnnaHammons 26-30, F Feb 10, 2011

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    Question!

    this might be weird, i know.. but does anyone else find comfort in watching and reading vidoes about what our men do? I find myself on youtube a lot watching tributes and videos dedicated to the military and it makes me feel close to my boy when I miss him because I'm watching...
    Kelliiiii Kelliiiii 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 16, 2009

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    OMG What to Do...

    I have no idea what to do....first off my bf is the type of person where he is scared of falling for someone so he pushes them away.  Well before he went to Washington he told me he didn't wand to be with me bc he didn't want to have a gf while he was away but when he...
    ILoveMySoldier1 ILoveMySoldier1 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 12, 2009

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    Long Day..

     Me and Cody have barely spoken this week since his breakdown where he told me how much he doubted us, then took it all back. I'm starting to give up, i shouldn't.    He went from telling me he doubted us to apologizing then telling me in front of god and...
    CaitlynBec CaitlynBec 16-17, F Oct 4, 2009

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    My Hero Wears Combat Boots and Dog Tags

     Hello my name is Stacey I am in las vegas. My boyfriend is at fort Leonard Wood Basic right now. We met in high school I was always the over achiever. My Sophomore year I was a student aide in his Freshmen AP Biology class. I was a cheerleader the whole bit he was a...
    queentoasoldier queentoasoldier 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20, 2009

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    Moving Advice

    So my husband and I just got married and he is in Iraq. Well Im staying with my mother until he comes back home. Well recently my mother has been asking me to go look at places, and I told her thats something David would like to do with me. Its like she does not understand that...
    yungmilitarywifey yungmilitarywifey 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    I Love Him

    My name is Tiffany. I am 18. my boyfriend is a marine and is 21. He is currently serving his last deployment. He is in Afganistan. I miss him more and more everyday. We have known each other for 9 years but have been dating for almost 6 months. He is my world and its...
    Imissmymarine09 Imissmymarine09 18-21, F 2 Responses May 27, 2009

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    I Have To...

    ...because otherwise...I wouldn't know what to do. He's cocky. He thinks he's the best thing since sliced bread and a toaster. He's a handy-man and a reckless idiot. His body is the most functionably broken thing I've ever seen. He's so brilliant it goes to his head some days...
    Valeriance Valeriance 18-21, F May 3, 2011

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    He's Battling Depression...

    I know what it's like, been there, done that. At first I thought it was just a low self-esteem but my boyfriend has depression. I won't leave his side for anything. It's rough and sometimes I just want to to yell and scream at him to stop putting him and our relationship down but...
    Val3ntine Val3ntine 18-21, F Dec 7, 2010

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    I Will Stay Strong.

    I found out something about him joining the Military though a rumor right after school started. People were talking and when I thought about it, everything that was happening suddenly made a lot more sense. Well, that night, I confronted him about it and he had gotten very...
    cheekers13 cheekers13 18-21, F Nov 30, 2010

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    To All Girls Who Are Army Wifes Or Girlfriends....

    so i have been reading alot of these Army wifes & girlfriends storys, blogs and what not and i have alot of the same feelings but then again some of these girls arnt looking at things the right way... being an army wife or girlfriend is not easy wheather you new your man...
    hispeanut hispeanut 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    If anyone needs support I will be here for you. I am currently going through a second deployment with my fiancΓ© and I know that support is a huge factor for all of us at home. I...
    lifeisabeautifulstruggle19 lifeisabeautifulstruggle19 18-21, F Mar 31

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    A lot of the time when someone says. I love you or care for you. I will be there for you. When it comes down to the real deal. There's normally an unspoken condition, only when its...
    Quanitta Quanitta 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I did something that was so hard for me to do a couple of weeks ago. I said Kaddish for both my father as well as my son together. It has been hard to say it for my dad for the...
    PerryGrosser PerryGrosser 51-55, M Apr 10

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    I love my family like crazy but sometimes it can make me go insane. I'm the oldest daughter and naturally, I'm just nurturing and jump to taking care of others like a mother. All...
    Optimistic34 Optimistic34 31-35, F Mar 24

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    I've been living alone for 4 months now after me and my wife separated. The past week has been busy and keeping me occupied. But today has been a hard day. I very much miss seeing...
    jxsingle67 jxsingle67 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    when you are sad and depressed, i will be here to put a smile on your face when you are angry and frustrated, i will be here to calm you down when you are hurt and in tears, i...
    LIZAMOONA LIZAMOONA 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 3

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    I think I fall in love with people, a little too much, just in the way they sound at 4am or how they look when they smile. and its so addicting when their eyes light up, because...
    NefelibataAggression NefelibataAggression 18-21, F Mar 30

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    You guys matter! I don't think I am worthy enough to judge people based on gender, age, ethnicity, sexual orientation, religious preferences etc. Feeling lonely? Inbox me and tell...
    AN1991 AN1991 22-25, M Apr 11

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    i love talking to people, yet i seem to push them away. i feel like all i need is one girl to keep me at bay, someone that i know i will be happy with, not even in a relationship...
    thegreenapple thegreenapple 18-21, M Mar 23

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    I occasionally have this daydream thing (I think about it at night, but I'm still conscious), where one of my friends get killed. There's never much of an explanation, but they...
    EponymousAnonymous EponymousAnonymous 13-15 Apr 7

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    I found someone that I truly want to be In a relationship with for as long as I live.
    Maxy112123235 Maxy112123235 16-17, M Apr 1

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    The world has gone mad. Its distressful when everything you have know is all bullshit. All lies, especially from our own government. Course I've not believed anything about...
    InvisibIe InvisibIe 51-55, F 2 Responses Apr 14

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    kind of a funny title... i mean i dont plan to be single for the rest of my life... dont want to either... but i do miss the connection and the everyday or every other day sex...
    ravman ravman 31-35, M Mar 24

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    Haha I like this one. Where to start?? Hmm. I'm not sorry for being loud. Who cares if I still like Pokemon? So what if I dye my hair? It's my hair and I'll do what I want with it...
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    Remember when I said forever? Well I meant it x
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F Apr 3

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    I've loved and I've lost ... Wonder if I'll be able to find somebody for me
    ChrisMackin ChrisMackin 16-17, M Apr 5

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    Seattle pizza sucks! But N.Y.'s pizza rulz!! Btw the pic is of cheese!!
    Awesome5790 Awesome5790 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    I am getting desperate. I'm starting to consider escorting.
    princesscakes princesscakes 18-21, F Apr 5

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    Oh .............................
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 5

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    I feel so alone right now... πŸ˜”πŸ˜­
    01sparkly 01sparkly 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Gotta eat them all!! Pizzamon!!! :3
    Oti91 Oti91 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    #COYG 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
    Sophiaa18 Sophiaa18 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I've known my bf for around two years now, we had a rough beginning to our relationship (this was around May 2013), but in December he asked me to officially be his girlfriend. We...
    juliead juliead 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    I won't because I know what it feels like to have no one around you who can relate to what your going through so they don't try, and while I may not be able to relate with them I...
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    I am feeling a bit disappointed because most of my friends did not greet me a happy birthday. Sounds petty, right? But it's a big thing for me because a little greeting can make me...
    huangzichen huangzichen 18-21, F 14 Responses Mar 31

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    i just want someone to listen to me and give me advice. i just broke up with my boyfriend ( 1 year & 5 months) and also a week before my birthday how nice right? i feel like im...
    kymx kymx 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    About a few years back I met two guys off online. I started talking on Facebook with one of them. He lived in a different state and he wanted to come meet me. We got along really...
    ButterflyPrincess876 ButterflyPrincess876 22-25, F Apr 3

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    So is it weird that I am friends with my ex? We had a crazy relationship but that was almost two years ago. We both have moved on but people think that because we hang out, we...
    CindyLovely CindyLovely 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    This is a story on how my world become undone. Sorry if it long. I met a guy name Nicky on a game call World of Warcraft. While some of you might say it was doom for failure, I...
    Angela0312 Angela0312 26-30 Apr 11

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    You promised me you won’t make me cry, but I cried my all of my mascara off. You promised you wouldn’t hurt me physically and try not to hurt me mentally, but I’m in so much...
    iridescentgurl iridescentgurl 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Never knew there was anyone like me out there. My boyfriend is a very hard worker. While he is at work he works very hard. Problem seems to be that he lets everything that others...
    geminigurl595 geminigurl595 41-45, F Apr 9

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    My story is super long I hope someone can Help me out wit my experience ? When I was in middles school I was overweight maybe even obese and I had a hard time getting guys...
    cyma2911 cyma2911 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I am in such a sad situatioin, i have a new boyfriend after a long time being single.He is a nice guy,full of potential but he drinks so much.He says football,beer and friends go...
    TINALI TINALI 31-35 1 Response Apr 8

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    You know it is funny when you realize that you will always be single Plenty of people insult me by telling me that I am just being... well whatever or that they are shocked or...
    ForgottenMale ForgottenMale 26-30, M Apr 10

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    My boyfriend of two years was recently incarcerated. He violated his probation when the police were called after the neighbors called saying they heard a violent argument and saw...
    psmunoz psmunoz 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    I miss my boyfriend so very much! It's been a month of madness. He's been gone before, but somehow this time is different. Maybe because he's in there for something he didn't do...
    PerfectlyImperfect13 PerfectlyImperfect13 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    In every relationship I have been in. It's been me who has made all the sacrifices. My friends. My family. My home. I've given up so much in the name of "love and commitment". And...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F Apr 1

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