I Will Hang In There For My Boyfriend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 203 People

    I Have To...

    ...because otherwise...I wouldn't know what to do. He's cocky. He thinks he's the best thing since sliced bread and a toaster. He's a handy-man and a reckless idiot. His body is the most functionably broken thing I've ever seen. He's so brilliant it goes to his head some days...
    Valeriance Valeriance
    18-21, F
    May 3, 2011

    I Did

    The summer before last, I met a guy named Justin James Campbell while I was away at a church camp in Georgia and we became friends.  He was 13 years old and lived in Beech Island, South Carolina which is a little over two hours away from where I live by car and he worked on...
    HRyannT11 HRyannT11
    16-17, F
    Dec 28, 2010

    Worst words you could ever hear from your

    boyfriend is I'm just not happy anymore or we need to break up.....I swear this is the last thing I need right now especially with us making it this far and things finally starting to changing in my life in a good way sorta. I guess only time and love will tell :/
    BlueMoonx BlueMoonx
    18-21, F
    Mar 5, 2015

    I Will Stay Strong.

    I found out something about him joining the Military though a rumor right after school started. People were talking and when I thought about it, everything that was happening suddenly made a lot more sense. Well, that night, I confronted him about it and he had gotten very...
    cheekers13 cheekers13
    18-21, F
    Nov 30, 2010

    So I have been dating my boyfriend,

    Reagan for a year and half. Though, a year and half might seem short but I can honestly say I love him. We met in high school and started dating my senior year and his junior year (yes! I'm a year older!) Things were great until I turned 18. Once I turned 18, his parents...
    everathena everathena
    18-21, F
    Oct 17, 2014

    I know this is cliché

    but I feel like I need to take a minute to appreciate the man I love. We are both going through a lot and he is crumbling under the pressure. He always listens when I have a problem and tries his best. In about a month he will be doing the hardest thing of his life...and I hope...
    taytertot66 taytertot66
    22-25, F
    Jun 27, 2014

    I Stand By My Bf For Ever And Always

    I have been with him for almost two and a half years. When we got together he told me his deepest and darkest secret that he had a hard time telling me for the fear of running me off. But as you can see im still with him and love him even more then before for trusting me with...
    BreAnnaHammons BreAnnaHammons
    26-30, F
    Feb 10, 2011

    OMG What to Do...

    I have no idea what to do....first off my bf is the type of person where he is scared of falling for someone so he pushes them away.  Well before he went to Washington he told me he didn't wand to be with me bc he didn't want to have a gf while he was away but when he...
    ILoveMySoldier1 ILoveMySoldier1
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Apr 12, 2009

    MY U.s. Soldier

    Hi im new to this experience. My U.S. Army soldier and I are just dating at the moment for the fact that he has been cheated and dumped by his 2 former gfs while he was in Iraq. He's afraid that I will do the same to him but we agreed to continue dating even while he's in Germany...
    Ivette0932 Ivette0932
    1 Response Jul 9, 2009

    Long Day..

     Me and Cody have barely spoken this week since his breakdown where he told me how much he doubted us, then took it all back. I'm starting to give up, i shouldn't.    He went from telling me he doubted us to apologizing then telling me in front of god and...
    CaitlynBec CaitlynBec
    16-17, F
    Oct 4, 2009

    I had a panic attack a night ago in front of my

    three best friends. I couldn't breath right and I almost fainted, but I worked through it. Today my boyfriend saw my cuts on my arm and asked me to show him my arm. I freaked out again and had another panic attack. He kept telling me how sorry he was and how he wasn't going to...
    Invisiblegirl07 Invisiblegirl07
    18-21, F
    Nov 10, 2014

    My Hero Wears Combat Boots and Dog Tags

     Hello my name is Stacey I am in las vegas. My boyfriend is at fort Leonard Wood Basic right now. We met in high school I was always the over achiever. My Sophomore year I was a student aide in his Freshmen AP Biology class. I was a cheerleader the whole bit he was a...
    queentoasoldier queentoasoldier
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 20, 2009

    He Signed the Dotted Line, and I Signed For Him

    "If you think being a soldier is tough, trying loving one." This to me rings true. We all know that from experience. Some days you wanna hop out of bed and get going, other days you just want to close the curtains and sat "to hell with it." All military...
    YellowRibbon101 YellowRibbon101
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Aug 18, 2009

    New Beginnings

    A relationship with a deadlock A time limit A stop watch Feelings gained Short Time Shifted thoughts of him being mine College New beginning New friends Old feelings must come to an end Left behind Not forgotten But the relationship turns cold and rotten Tears will...
    Sincerelynia Sincerelynia
    18-21, F
    Aug 24, 2013

    So today my boyfriend checked into rehab

    for alcohol abuse. I am so happy for him attempting to try to get sober. At the same time I don't want us to break up because I love him so much. So advice on how to be supportive for him would be wonderful.
    findingbeauty2468 findingbeauty2468
    26-30, F
    Sep 16, 2014

    I Love Him

    My name is Tiffany. I am 18. my boyfriend is a marine and is 21. He is currently serving his last deployment. He is in Afganistan. I miss him more and more everyday. We have known each other for 9 years but have been dating for almost 6 months. He is my world and its...
    Imissmymarine09 Imissmymarine09
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 27, 2009

    Me and my boyfriend are in a long distant

    relationship. We've been together for 7 months and 8 days and we've had our ups and downs but we're holding on:,( but it's getting so hard now. Like he always just hangs out with his friends and that's okay but he comes home and we don't get to talk cause he's too tired so he...
    gracey3397 gracey3397
    18-21, F
    Sep 21, 2014

    Moving Advice

    So my husband and I just got married and he is in Iraq. Well Im staying with my mother until he comes back home. Well recently my mother has been asking me to go look at places, and I told her thats something David would like to do with me. Its like she does not understand that...
    yungmilitarywifey yungmilitarywifey
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Jul 10, 2009


    this might be weird, i know.. but does anyone else find comfort in watching and reading vidoes about what our men do? I find myself on youtube a lot watching tributes and videos dedicated to the military and it makes me feel close to my boy when I miss him because I'm watching...
    Kelliiiii Kelliiiii
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Oct 16, 2009

    He's Battling Depression...

    I know what it's like, been there, done that. At first I thought it was just a low self-esteem but my boyfriend has depression. I won't leave his side for anything. It's rough and sometimes I just want to to yell and scream at him to stop putting him and our relationship down but...
    Val3ntine Val3ntine
    18-21, F
    Dec 7, 2010

    I'm with a player even tho I know he can break

    me at any point. I hate his kids mom, but I do love him.. so Ima hang in there
    LovingTheNewMe LovingTheNewMe
    18-21, F
    Jan 25, 2015

    To All Girls Who Are Army Wifes Or Girlfriends....

    so i have been reading alot of these Army wifes & girlfriends storys, blogs and what not and i have alot of the same feelings but then again some of these girls arnt looking at things the right way... being an army wife or girlfriend is not easy wheather you new your man...
    hispeanut hispeanut
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 13, 2009


    Hi, I'm Lauren! I just started dating my firefighter, Scott, a month ago! I feel extremely lucky to have this brave and caring man in my life. Problem is that he always seems to be gone. When we first started dating our area flooded and he was called away for two weeks. I can...
    ljhood ljhood
    26-30, F
    May 16, 2013

    Parental Control.

    Ok. so the LOVE of my life is in the Army. Its really hard with him being gone. I miss him so much. But what makes it even harder is that my parents do not want me with him. We have been together for 3 yrs. The are trying to make me doubt him and his faithfulness to me. I ...
    ashleysvr ashleysvr
    18-21, F
    5 Responses May 7, 2009

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