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I Will Hang In There For My Boyfriend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 206 People

    MY U.s. Soldier

    Hi im new to this experience. My U.S. Army soldier and I are just dating at the moment for the fact that he has been cheated and dumped by his 2 former gfs while he was in Iraq. He's afraid that I will do the same to him but we agreed to continue dating even while he's in Germany...
    Ivette0932 Ivette0932 22-25 1 Response Jul 9, 2009

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    Urgh!

    Hi, I'm Lauren! I just started dating my firefighter, Scott, a month ago! I feel extremely lucky to have this brave and caring man in my life. Problem is that he always seems to be gone. When we first started dating our area flooded and he was called away for two weeks. I can...
    ljhood ljhood 22-25, F May 16, 2013

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    OMG What to Do...

    I have no idea what to do....first off my bf is the type of person where he is scared of falling for someone so he pushes them away.  Well before he went to Washington he told me he didn't wand to be with me bc he didn't want to have a gf while he was away but when he...
    ILoveMySoldier1 ILoveMySoldier1 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 12, 2009

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    New Beginnings

    A relationship with a deadlock A time limit A stop watch Feelings gained Short Time Shifted thoughts of him being mine College New beginning New friends Old feelings must come to an end Left behind Not forgotten But the relationship turns cold and rotten Tears will...
    Sincerelynia Sincerelynia 18-21, F Aug 24, 2013

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    Moving Advice

    So my husband and I just got married and he is in Iraq. Well Im staying with my mother until he comes back home. Well recently my mother has been asking me to go look at places, and I told her thats something David would like to do with me. Its like she does not understand that...
    yungmilitarywifey yungmilitarywifey 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    So today my boyfriend checked into rehab

    for alcohol abuse. I am so happy for him attempting to try to get sober. At the same time I don't want us to break up because I love him so much. So advice on how to be supportive for him would be wonderful.
    findingbeauty2468 findingbeauty2468 26-30, F Sep 16, 2014

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    I had a panic attack a night ago in front of my

    three best friends. I couldn't breath right and I almost fainted, but I worked through it. Today my boyfriend saw my cuts on my arm and asked me to show him my arm. I freaked out again and had another panic attack. He kept telling me how sorry he was and how he wasn't going to...
    Invisiblegirl07 Invisiblegirl07 16-17, F Nov 10, 2014

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    To All Girls Who Are Army Wifes Or Girlfriends....

    so i have been reading alot of these Army wifes & girlfriends storys, blogs and what not and i have alot of the same feelings but then again some of these girls arnt looking at things the right way... being an army wife or girlfriend is not easy wheather you new your man...
    hispeanut hispeanut 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13, 2009

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    So I have been dating my boyfriend,

    Reagan for a year and half. Though, a year and half might seem short but I can honestly say I love him. We met in high school and started dating my senior year and his junior year (yes! I'm a year older!) Things were great until I turned 18. Once I turned 18, his parents...
    everathena everathena 18-21, F Oct 17, 2014

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    I Love Him

    My name is Tiffany. I am 18. my boyfriend is a marine and is 21. He is currently serving his last deployment. He is in Afganistan. I miss him more and more everyday. We have known each other for 9 years but have been dating for almost 6 months. He is my world and its...
    Imissmymarine09 Imissmymarine09 18-21, F 2 Responses May 27, 2009

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    He Signed the Dotted Line, and I Signed For Him

    "If you think being a soldier is tough, trying loving one." This to me rings true. We all know that from experience. Some days you wanna hop out of bed and get going, other days you just want to close the curtains and sat "to hell with it." All military...
    YellowRibbon101 YellowRibbon101 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 18, 2009

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    Long Day..

     Me and Cody have barely spoken this week since his breakdown where he told me how much he doubted us, then took it all back. I'm starting to give up, i shouldn't.    He went from telling me he doubted us to apologizing then telling me in front of god and...
    CaitlynBec CaitlynBec 16-17, F Oct 4, 2009

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    Parental Control.

    Ok. so the LOVE of my life is in the Army. Its really hard with him being gone. I miss him so much. But what makes it even harder is that my parents do not want me with him. We have been together for 3 yrs. The are trying to make me doubt him and his faithfulness to me. I ...
    ashleysvr ashleysvr 18-21, F 5 Responses May 7, 2009

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    Worst words you could ever hear from your

    boyfriend is I'm just not happy anymore or we need to break up.....I swear this is the last thing I need right now especially with us making it this far and things finally starting to changing in my life in a good way sorta. I guess only time and love will tell :/
    xBlossomx xBlossomx 16-17, F Mar 5

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    Me and my boyfriend are in a long distant

    relationship. We've been together for 7 months and 8 days and we've had our ups and downs but we're holding on:,( but it's getting so hard now. Like he always just hangs out with his friends and that's okay but he comes home and we don't get to talk cause he's too tired so he...
    gracey3397 gracey3397 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 21, 2014

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    My Hero Wears Combat Boots and Dog Tags

     Hello my name is Stacey I am in las vegas. My boyfriend is at fort Leonard Wood Basic right now. We met in high school I was always the over achiever. My Sophomore year I was a student aide in his Freshmen AP Biology class. I was a cheerleader the whole bit he was a...
    queentoasoldier queentoasoldier 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20, 2009

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    I Did

    The summer before last, I met a guy named Justin James Campbell while I was away at a church camp in Georgia and we became friends.  He was 13 years old and lived in Beech Island, South Carolina which is a little over two hours away from where I live by car and he worked on...
    HRyannT11 HRyannT11 16-17, F Dec 28, 2010

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    I'm with a player even tho I know he can break

    me at any point. I hate his kids mom, but I do love him.. so Ima hang in there
    LovingTheNewMe LovingTheNewMe 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    He's Battling Depression...

    I know what it's like, been there, done that. At first I thought it was just a low self-esteem but my boyfriend has depression. I won't leave his side for anything. It's rough and sometimes I just want to to yell and scream at him to stop putting him and our relationship down but...
    Val3ntine Val3ntine 18-21, F Dec 7, 2010

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    I Stand By My Bf For Ever And Always

    I have been with him for almost two and a half years. When we got together he told me his deepest and darkest secret that he had a hard time telling me for the fear of running me off. But as you can see im still with him and love him even more then before for trusting me with...
    BreAnnaHammons BreAnnaHammons 26-30, F Feb 10, 2011

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    Question!

    this might be weird, i know.. but does anyone else find comfort in watching and reading vidoes about what our men do? I find myself on youtube a lot watching tributes and videos dedicated to the military and it makes me feel close to my boy when I miss him because I'm watching...
    Kelliiiii Kelliiiii 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 16, 2009

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    I Will Stay Strong.

    I found out something about him joining the Military though a rumor right after school started. People were talking and when I thought about it, everything that was happening suddenly made a lot more sense. Well, that night, I confronted him about it and he had gotten very...
    cheekers13 cheekers13 18-21, F Nov 30, 2010

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    I know this is cliché

    but I feel like I need to take a minute to appreciate the man I love. We are both going through a lot and he is crumbling under the pressure. He always listens when I have a problem and tries his best. In about a month he will be doing the hardest thing of his life...and I hope...
    taytertot66 taytertot66 22-25, F Jun 27, 2014

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    I Have To...

    ...because otherwise...I wouldn't know what to do. He's cocky. He thinks he's the best thing since sliced bread and a toaster. He's a handy-man and a reckless idiot. His body is the most functionably broken thing I've ever seen. He's so brilliant it goes to his head some days...
    Valeriance Valeriance 18-21, F May 3, 2011

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    I am 13, and I'm looking for a best friend with whom I can share anything with. A great friend who I can get to know and will be there for me. Preferably with Pacific Mountain...
    justanotherles justanotherles 13-15, F 18 hrs ago

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    Seems to be a big part of my story. Sometimes I wish I didn't need anyone.
    MsInvis MsInvis 46-50, F 3 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Sometimes I wonder if this is a vicious cycle?
    Free247 Free247 36-40, F 23 hrs ago

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    Somehow wishing I'd find you again Amongst the piles of clutter Assuming you probably never want to be found. I have a flame inside just for you It just burns into me, and it...
    yeahtimesahundred yeahtimesahundred 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Unfortunately that's what i got most of the time
    FallenOptimist22 FallenOptimist22 22-25 1 Response 1 day ago

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    If anyone, and I mean anyone, friend, foe, enemy, hater, Lover, anyone, if you need anything, feel free to PM me, gesture me, write on my whiteboard, anything, and I will be there...
    BroknGirl89 BroknGirl89 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Not Anymore.... I am not going to wear myself thin, and go out of my way to be there for my friends in their time of need, when, it comes that I need them for one reason or...
    BroknGirl89 BroknGirl89 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and he's leaving for baisc at the end of the summer. All I wanna do is sit in bed in one of his shirts and cry, I wanna be with him...
    CassidyEldridge CassidyEldridge 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Me and my boyfriend have been togethor for 2 years now. We have a blended famity, me with my 4 kids to a previous marriage and him to a previous relationship. The mother to his...
    Bevynn11 Bevynn11 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    Hi I'm looking for a bf between 12 to 14 year old a boy that love me who I'm am and who will hang out with me and say I love u or kiss me and hug and live in west Bloomfield...
    babyboo1231 babyboo1231 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    so my boyfriend is older than me by 3 years but we have been bestfriends for like ever and yes he made it out of the friend zone lol but i have yet to tll my mom about him because...
    meredithjames62815 meredithjames62815 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm a very sadistic person, but should I apologize for morals and such? I'm not sure.
    0emma0 0emma0 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I have never admitted this to anyone ever, but I am lonely. Ever since the start of ninth grade, I've wanted a boyfriend. I see so many other girls (and a few guys too) with...
    eminemlover123 eminemlover123 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Sorry for my broken english So I've had a long-term relationship like 4 years.. i don't know if you could call it long-term but for me this is the longest relationship i've ever...
    Escc Escc 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I know that I will not find someone like you again, so happy, so motivating, in good times and in bad times always drawing a smile, thank you for your tender hugs...I will always...
    l1skub4n l1skub4n 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I love my boyfriend; he's really sweet, thoughtful, and respectful of me. Even when we disagree on opinions/beliefs, we still respect one another. Anyway, he's got two dogs: one is...
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