Post

I Will Let My Needs Come First More Often

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 44 People

    What Are My Needs

    HI i was a herion addict for 30 yrs , and have been clean for 5 yrs totaly ,not even drinking , so the only thing i need before was drugs , now i help people to get and stay clean , which i love doing, but i fall into depression and get told i am not getting my needs met , so...
    mefoss mefoss 36-40 1 Response Sep 27, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Had to Tell Him to Tone Down the Complaining

    So my husband is not happy in his job... boo effin' HOOOOO!!!!  His salary is over the top, there's nobody looking over his shoulder, and hell-OH... he HAD a job.  That alone he should be grateful for.  But someone was promoted over him, and now he has to report to...
    2Quirky 2Quirky 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 5, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Feel Guilty

    There are days I just want to scream...... WHAT ABOUT ME!!   And then, when I do take time for myself and let my needs or wants come first...I feel guilty.
    PeedeeDog PeedeeDog 12919 2 Responses Oct 19, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    To My Ex

    Sorry hon, it's not all about you, I have needs too and I'm gonna do them by myself because I was raised by all females and that's what I was taught to do. plus you just sat around being depressed and that doesn't take care of me.
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 19, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It's Okay to Be Selfish Sometimes

    Sometimes the person you need to take care of first is you, believe me I learned the hard way.
    vanessa34 vanessa34 26-30, F 1 Response May 28, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Because No One Else Does.

    I mean, if you're not putting yourself first, and no one else is either, who is making YOU a priority?? 
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 3 Responses May 28, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Learning to Let Me Come First

    One of the hardest things for me to do is to let myself and my needs come before thoes in my family.  I am working on this in my life and my goal is to become the strong woman I know I am. I will also work on looking at myself and the changes I need to make in my life to...
    Grits4life Grits4life 46-50, F Jul 27, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    Spent another 20min earlier today on the gym. I went for a run but got down to the end of the block before I called it quits. It is just far to hot here today. 29 degrees Celsius...
    NuuIdeas NuuIdeas 18-21, M Aug 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm mostly at my home. I don't have any friends too but it's not that i don't like to go out cause i don't have friends, it's just that i don't like anything out there.
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M Aug 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    You put so much work into some answers. Thought, heart, concern, and compassion. But you say 'boobs' one time and its like all of a sudden you are an obssessed lunatic. Annoying...
    quitalready quitalready 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    .....Jonathan Davis shout ARE YOU READY!?
    reelman4372 reelman4372 31-35, M Aug 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Quickly at exactly the same-named "Anse Severe Beach" are the villas While using the very best critiques on La Digue. They provide friends heaps convenience and luxurious for an...
    Rileyrr1962 Rileyrr1962 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I moved back to my hometown a couple of months ago. I wasn't happy about it but I had to. There was a family get together and it was awkward since I didn't have much to talk about...
    TiffJb TiffJb 22-25, F Aug 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    If you would like plead responsible then you must purpose to have the minimum penalty doable.  We will let you to achieve that.two. We now need to talk to you some questions on...
    Noelict Noelict 31-35, M 1 Response 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Update Your Profile We've gained your profile info. Thanks for distributing a alter for your profile facts to Attorneys.com. Should We now have questions, we will Speak to you...
    Kit1739qm Kit1739qm 31-35, M 1 Response 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Jacuzzi Water Villa Accommodations: Fabulous Drinking water Villas on wooden columns in The gorgeous south lagoon with intimate sights within the secluded furnished, partly roofed...
    Wendigmn Wendigmn 31-35, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Should you be bothered by misaligned teeth and have delay undertaking anything about this simply because you thought metallic braces ended up your only option, Invisalign's...
    Meljbr26d Meljbr26d 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Just returned from 2 weeks all inclusive, had an incredible time and beloved resort. Friendly employees, wonderful meals which is the same whichever group of accommodation and...
    Wendolynce106 Wendolynce106 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Today I said goodbye to a friend then I said goodbye to my best friend. The first has shut me out. The second I just happened to be in love with. Do you know how free I feel now...
    lonesojourner lonesojourner 46-50, M Aug 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I just realized how ridiculous this experience is. Because surely people who need a "talk" or "advice" will probably never come here. The people who are actually depressed and...
    LightlySaltedSalmon LightlySaltedSalmon 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Martians Remember Mork By Paul Dale Roberts, HPI Esoteric Detective Haunted and Paranormal Investigations - HPI International https://www.facebook.com/#!/groups/HPIinternational...
    PaulDaleRoberts PaulDaleRoberts 51-55, M Aug 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Online I have learned that is easier to let me come into my life. Maybe it's because I can lay all my cards on the table and you can take me or leave me. I think in person I worry...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Elite Window Cleaning is a company that is focused on top quality get the job done. We have been the ideal and ensure our function demonstrates this. We've been committed to y...
    Lestermg94 Lestermg94 31-35, M 1 Response 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Thank you for bringing laughter to when one really needs it. you've given us mrs.doubtfire,good will hunting and so much more.. RIP 1951-2014
    lemurianstar lemurianstar 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Provider at Conrad is known as a 6 star expertise. The many staffs are pleasant and seem to be to know everything well, through the people at the airport lounge,...At sunset or...
    Rileyrr1962 Rileyrr1962 31-35, M 1 Response a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    We predict for a few of you back holes within the world, as a result of terribly shortly comes The Elder Scrolls on-line and consider the design that we've got received, and...
    mmogoogle mmogoogle 22-25, M Jul 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I Just find it funny how years ago, women were wearing baggy jeans, basketball shoes, basketball shorts & even boxers at one point. now we have grown men lying to sales clerks...
    TheVisualist TheVisualist 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So...I heard about Robin Williams Let me just start out that he was the biggest inspiration to me, a role model even And when I heard about his suicide I was shocked Robin was in...
    prettynewflower prettynewflower 18-21, F Aug 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    One of the hardest parts of life has to be losing friends. I'm definitely not used to it and I doubt I ever will be. It's hard to understand why two people who shared a connection...
    darksaber9999 darksaber9999 26-30, M 1 Response 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    By burning lists that hold all my petty characteristics and just burning things in general, while listening to music as I think about my life and how to be a better person. All I...
    Owlshirt Owlshirt 16-17, F 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Dis my 1st poem, prolly didn't make it too well, but I tried ya know, read n leave your feedback below pls :Dn ty for reading, ily <3Hidden TreasureUm, hello I have some sh-t to...
    YellowBrightLight YellowBrightLight 18-21 10 Responses Jul 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I know I've held so many memories with emotions, and people that are dear to me in my heart. I loved someone dearly and in return I have fet loved before. It's really hard to let...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Ensure that trees are trimmed. For those who don’t you could return to operate and learn that A part of that majestic oak tree out front has become a decoration within your...
    Carriele83 Carriele83 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Starting a business and selling your product or service is a frightening prospect in itself. Though the intermediate measures of […]Search engines like google and yahoo are...
    William162d6ol9 William162d6ol9 31-35, M 1 Response 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm horrible at committing to anything or anyone. I need my space more often than not and not a lot of people understand it... So no one wants to be with me.
    MarissaDreams MarissaDreams 18-21, F 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm feeling totally and utterly blank right now. But I want to write this speech, come first in the Oratory Competition and go onto Nationals. My mental illness will not override...
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F Aug 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    (Compelled Part 4) My Dragon.. He's 48 I'm 32, he's the oldest man I've ever dated. He's very intelligent, business savvy and who am I kidding rich... He own 64 acres in Hawaii he...
    Yourdeepwishsir Yourdeepwishsir 31-35, F Aug 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Getting real tired of it taking so long to meet minds like my own. Endlessly scrolling through experiences and profiles, scrutinizing every detail that a person shows of their self...
    MohnJarston86 MohnJarston86 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    check my pictures lol, i am fat but have the sense to start going the gym and trying to do something about it. I need to go more often though if i'm lucki i make it at least once...
    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Electricians will be answerable for electrical maintenance through the army bases like mend and refurbishment in addition to preventative servicing....Franklin Bell are certified...
    Lillafyq Lillafyq 31-35, M 1 Response 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    •       forty three states plus the District of Columbia have laws that call for most insurance strategies to go over drug and alcohol rehabilitation options?Alcohol...
    Matthew937i7gu1 Matthew937i7gu1 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I remember it like was yesterday the first day I saw him it was freshman year orientation and we were put into groups to tour the school he was looking at me "Joseph" and we locked...
    dassays dassays 22-25, F a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    yes any girls who will let me control their need to pee message me im around
    keeleysupremeawesumness keeleysupremeawesumness 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Im willing to have an honest conversation, just please don't ask me about what i am wearing....that leads to dangerous other things like my underwear, which is none of your...
    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F 9 Responses Aug 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The pool is eighty m of out of doors free of charge-flowing freshwater delight which has a Jacuzzi and children pool. Sunlight-loungers (there are also sun-loungers submerged while...
    Jenipe Jenipe 31-35, M 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I came across this article on Elite Daily... To The Girl Who Replaced Me, Please Take Care Of Him Dear Replacement, There are a few things I think you should know, as you are...
    shanaiya24 shanaiya24 22-25, F 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I suddenly get it. something inside me has healed today. People come and people go. Time spent repenting, hating, missing, being emotional is eventually time wasted. One could do...
    Unlearn Unlearn 31-35, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel