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I Will Never Be Good Enough For Anything

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    Never

    I have never been good enough for anyone, or anything. I have never been someone who can do anything, and no matter what I do, its never good enough for anyone, or anything. Its not that I am not good for anything, its more like, I won't be good for anyone more than...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 8, 2009

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    For My Dad...and Everyone

    I mean i have my flaws and all that imperfections but i work so hard. I try to get all A's in school but i dont even think that is good enough.... i need to be better.... i try finding aproving boyfriends.... but he finds a flaw. he may say a few complements but rarely do i...
    theshortloud1 theshortloud1 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 20, 2009

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    Waiting In The Distance

    I'm still waiting. Waiting for someone to be okay with me just being me. Waiting for someone to not care that I'm not perfect. Whenever someone's feeling down about a lack of friendship, a relationship, or the fact that life isn't going exactly as planned, the response is always...
    JustCantUnderstand JustCantUnderstand 18-21 Dec 7, 2011

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    Derealization:Gift And Curse

    Hey guy's first story bear with me. I'm 32 and had an extremely difficult life because of my mothers choices as well as my own. I got started in drugs at 15 and by 17 I lost my mind and identity completely from doing too much acid. Then,since it was very hard to cope with my...
    existential45 existential45 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 14, 2013

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    My mother literally just told me how much I

    suck at everything. She told me how ugly I am. She told me how dumb I am. She told me how unathletic I am. She told me how much of a loser I am. She thinks anyone who isn't in the popular group is weird, so me and my (few) friends are weird. She thinks I have adhd because im so...
    hayhayitskatayy hayhayitskatayy 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 12, 2014

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    Family Betrayl Was A Sucker Punch

    Found out a few days ago that my grandma was talking crap about me to my brother's girlfriend when they were visiting with her last month. Not only did I find out that she's been thinking all of these things since I was just a little kid, but I found out from someone my grandma...
    JustCantUnderstand JustCantUnderstand 18-21 Jul 26, 2011

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    How did I let myself get this low

    why did I let myself fall inlove with someone that's destroyed every bit of self esteem I have at only seventeen I'm broken I'm lost I'm scared I wish I could be someone else one of those girls that are so skinny and pretty perfection I hate the way I look I hate myself so much...
    Mad1996 Mad1996 18-21, F Mar 20, 2014

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    Nope

    i criticize myself. im too fat, even though i dont weigh much. sometimes just because a person looks like they have it good doesnt always mean that they do. I hate hiding, but most of the time you have to since nobody really even cares about you meaning me. Nobody ever really...
    oreo20 oreo20 18-21 Jul 2, 2013

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    More Like....

    Its not that I am not good for anything, its more like, I won't be good for anyone more than anything. I mean, I do things well sometimes and everything, however, I feel like its never going to be good enough for anyone. BroknWings
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 25, 2009

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    Truth

    The truth always hurts no matter how much you hide it. It always shows in your eyes. All the chill runs through your heart. You complain it's a lie but deep down you know that their right. Deep down your afraid it's the truth. Your afraid that they know something you don't.
    Anto815 Anto815 46-50, F Oct 13, 2010

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    I Am My Own Worst Enemy

    Sure, there's all this pressure from peers, magazines, the media in general. But what are you supposed to do if you're harshest critic is yourself? No, I don't think I will ever be good enough for anyone else, that's been made obvious for the last 18 years. But it's even harder...
    JustCantUnderstand JustCantUnderstand 18-21 1 Response Jan 21, 2011

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    I'm just tired of living right now.

    I don't have anything to live for. Everything is my fault
    SilentScream0327 SilentScream0327 18-21, F Feb 25

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    You know the feeling and never be good enough. Yes, the feeling is so annoying. You have the voices in your head that constantly tells you how bad you are. I am so angry. all the...
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    I honestly don't know what else I can do and say to get the same attention that everybody else gets when they text or call or anything at all. I try to do what I can and I try to...
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    it's so frustrating to know that he'll never want me bc he deserves someone better than me, prettier. it's not than I am not good or pretty... it's that I am not good enough.
    faithtobehappy faithtobehappy 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 21

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    I'll never be good enough. No matter how hard I try
    ConfusedandOutofControl ConfusedandOutofControl 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    They never said that I am great, the never said 'I love you', they never showered me with affection like I saw other parents do, they are harsh, stubborn and extremely strict. They...
    AtashinoSunflower AtashinoSunflower 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    God I felt this way for so long. Thought surely there must be something wrong with me. Bent and swayed this way and that like a willow in the wind, just trying to accommodate, be...
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 3

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    the only thing i'm good at is smelling good
    tattedariel tattedariel 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    In High School I was told by many people that all the girls wanted me.Even recently a former female friend who I ran into on facebook told me that. When I told her I wished I knew...
    bornfem bornfem 56-60 1 Response Mar 3

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    I feel like my boyfriend doesn't love me anymore. He's starting to lie about stuff, he doesn't text me or tell me loves me that much anymore. We still have a very active sex life...
    nclo8907 nclo8907 26-30, F Mar 4

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    I study a lot but whenever I see my course mates' grades I feel defeated and inadequate. There are times I cry myself to sleep because I can't fulfill my parent's expectations and...
    llamaiana llamaiana 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I just want to be appreciated. Thats all I want.
    Spencer024 Spencer024 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    I never thought I was good enough for anything. I beat myself up worser than anybody ever had. My mother always told me how beautiful I was. But what happen? It seemed as though...
    NaomiSoulJourney NaomiSoulJourney 31-35, F Mar 22

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    This year will be our tenth wedding anniversary, fourteenth year together. My husband recently told me that he wants to see other people, that he's unhappy with his life, and that...
    Baralinel Baralinel 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    I stayed home today because I was sick. I'm aunt (she takes care of me) was in the kitchen making food. I tried making Conversation which is hard because she is a *****. Anyway in...
    cutekittycat cutekittycat 13-15, F Mar 3

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    I always feel like I am never good enough. People will tell me i am a nice and kind person and that they enjoy talking to me but then they go and completely blank me or they will...
    oceaneyes97 oceaneyes97 18-21, F a week ago

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    I honestly feel sometimes that I'll never be enough for someone. My past relationships have all ended in them cheating. I guess the grass really was greener. I battle depression...
    Sully871 Sully871 26-30, M Mar 19

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    I have always felt like I am not good enough at anything I do. Even if I gave it my all and did well at it I still feel like I should have done better.
    kayakgirl08 kayakgirl08 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    My son is with his father every other weekend, and we recently agreed that he should have him a couple of hours every wedensday as well. That's great. It really is. I'm thankfull...
    Thisisnotwhatiwanted Thisisnotwhatiwanted 22-25, F Mar 13

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    I used to try and think of ways to make him like me, but now I am just going to work on coming to terms with reality, I will never be good enough. Now I just hope he can find...
    naptaker naptaker 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    No matter how many things I do, or accomplish, I still feel not good enough.
    converselypurple converselypurple 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 13

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    Pffff....whatever. I definitely good enough...just say
    Josh1978 Josh1978 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 13

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    dont get me wrong im sure with that special someone you know who you are and being withmy niece and nephew i will have good times but im just not one of those happy go lucky people...
    Beutifulman1970 Beutifulman1970 41-45, M Mar 6

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    I will never take it back I will never wish we had not met I will never choose to miss the chance To be caught inside your net I will never want to skip this I will not even lose...
    BexAddiction BexAddiction 36-40, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I will never settle for less than what I want. I will never settle for less than what is the best for me. Sure, they'll all tell me "she's too hot for you" or "there's no way you...
    Xamad Xamad 22-25, M Mar 5

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    Yeah ... surely I can say that I will never find any love. My parents gave me birth so that I can support them in their old age, but when I think that who will support me in my...
    tytydf45 tytydf45 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 14

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    Hello everyone. I am writing today because I have to let out about how I feel inside. I have this tremendous feeling of hopelessness and sorrow that just keeps getting worse. I am...
    EternalLoneliness EternalLoneliness 31-35, M Mar 23

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    I just feel I have nothing to offer in terms of excitement sure I'm doing good in school and going to college and I'm making money but with my looks and how boring I am not like...
    RedDog123321 RedDog123321 18-21, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    This is sad!!!!! There are only 4people in this group????WOW!!! I will never cheat on someone who is loyal to me. My husband is loyal, and so am I. I have cheated once before not...
    lemonadestreet lemonadestreet 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    Will Never Grow Out Of Disney
    goodnites25 goodnites25 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    Dont Want You To Promise Me Things You Will Never Fulfil
    goodnites25 goodnites25 22-25, M 5 days ago