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I Will Never Be Good Enough For Anything

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    Waiting In The Distance

    I'm still waiting. Waiting for someone to be okay with me just being me. Waiting for someone to not care that I'm not perfect. Whenever someone's feeling down about a lack of friendship, a relationship, or the fact that life isn't going exactly as planned, the response is always...
    JustCantUnderstand JustCantUnderstand 18-21 Dec 7, 2011

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    Derealization:Gift And Curse

    Hey guy's first story bear with me. I'm 32 and had an extremely difficult life because of my mothers choices as well as my own. I got started in drugs at 15 and by 17 I lost my mind and identity completely from doing too much acid. Then,since it was very hard to cope with my...
    existential45 existential45 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 14, 2013

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    How did I let myself get this low

    why did I let myself fall inlove with someone that's destroyed every bit of self esteem I have at only seventeen I'm broken I'm lost I'm scared I wish I could be someone else one of those girls that are so skinny and pretty perfection I hate the way I look I hate myself so much...
    Mad1996 Mad1996 18-21, F Mar 20

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    Truth

    The truth always hurts no matter how much you hide it. It always shows in your eyes. All the chill runs through your heart. You complain it's a lie but deep down you know that their right. Deep down your afraid it's the truth. Your afraid that they know something you don't.
    Anto815 Anto815 46-50, F Oct 13, 2010

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    I Am My Own Worst Enemy

    Sure, there's all this pressure from peers, magazines, the media in general. But what are you supposed to do if you're harshest critic is yourself? No, I don't think I will ever be good enough for anyone else, that's been made obvious for the last 18 years. But it's even harder...
    JustCantUnderstand JustCantUnderstand 18-21 1 Response Jan 21, 2011

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    Family Betrayl Was A Sucker Punch

    Found out a few days ago that my grandma was talking crap about me to my brother's girlfriend when they were visiting with her last month. Not only did I find out that she's been thinking all of these things since I was just a little kid, but I found out from someone my grandma...
    JustCantUnderstand JustCantUnderstand 18-21 Jul 26, 2011

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    Nope

    i criticize myself. im too fat, even though i dont weigh much. sometimes just because a person looks like they have it good doesnt always mean that they do. I hate hiding, but most of the time you have to since nobody really even cares about you meaning me. Nobody ever really...
    oreo20 oreo20 18-21 Jul 2, 2013

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    Never

    I have never been good enough for anyone, or anything. I have never been someone who can do anything, and no matter what I do, its never good enough for anyone, or anything. Its not that I am not good for anything, its more like, I won't be good for anyone more than...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 8, 2009

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    For My Dad...and Everyone

    I mean i have my flaws and all that imperfections but i work so hard. I try to get all A's in school but i dont even think that is good enough.... i need to be better.... i try finding aproving boyfriends.... but he finds a flaw. he may say a few complements but rarely do i...
    theshortloud1 theshortloud1 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 20, 2009

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    My mother literally just told me how much I

    suck at everything. She told me how ugly I am. She told me how dumb I am. She told me how unathletic I am. She told me how much of a loser I am. She thinks anyone who isn't in the popular group is weird, so me and my (few) friends are weird. She thinks I have adhd because im so...
    hayhayitskatayy hayhayitskatayy 26-30, F Apr 12

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    More Like....

    Its not that I am not good for anything, its more like, I won't be good for anyone more than anything. I mean, I do things well sometimes and everything, however, I feel like its never going to be good enough for anyone. BroknWings
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 25, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Time after time I'm left without an explanation. One minute they're keen as anything to get to know me and the minute they do I'm suddenly just not good enough. I wish more than...
    RebeccaLouise9541 RebeccaLouise9541 16-17, F Jul 30

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    Okai where to start basically I have this cousin I love so much she Is also my best friend which makes me and her so close. But every single guy I like ends up liking her. I always...
    PhoebeIsMe PhoebeIsMe 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    When he looked at me, what did he see? Did he think to himself, what am i doing? When his lips touched mine, did he think of someone else? Did he look at me and think to himself...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    It seems like the harder I Try to do a good job there is always Some one who nits and picks at the stuff I miss and ever notice the extra effort I put in. Some times I really want...
    mdrhodes mdrhodes 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 12

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    A girl is always prettier than me, smarter than me, skinnier than me, just a better choice then me. I dont know why i even try if i always end up in last place..:(😖
    olsonn322 olsonn322 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    Seems to me that alot of men I am around want it all A wife , a mistress , a freak , a mommy , a nurse I can only be ten things at one time I'm afraid I will never find a man...
    applesnbananas applesnbananas 51-55, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I feel like I can't ever get anyone because of the way I look or act. I'm self conscious about myself at times. I feel like I am overweight (170 lbs) and I feel ugly on the outside...
    KenKitty KenKitty 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I'm new at this but I have a lot on my mind and need other people to hear what I have to say. Do you ever think you're not good enough? You fall in love and get your heart broken...
    notg00denough notg00denough 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I feel as if I'm not good enough for anyone and never will be and it's a **** feeling.
    abbie90 abbie90 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Sometimes I wonder why my 'friends' talk bad about me, but then I remember I'm not good enough for any of them.
    therealsydster therealsydster 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    There is this really funny, really understanding, really incredibly beautiful girl that lives down the street from me in the same neighborhood. We have had on and off crushes on...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    There is this really funny, really understanding, really incredibly beautiful girl that lives down the street from me in the same neighborhood. We have had on and off crushes on...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M Aug 10

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    ok, pull a log up to the campfire.... it was a misty gray morning in Michigan, 11 years ago, when I went into work..... I walked in and saw a handsome man talking to one of my...
    DreamChristine DreamChristine 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    This a major problem for me, all the time. I feel like crap over this. Imagine me, living in a small town with a school of maybe 200 people K-12 grades. And always having this...
    lportra24 lportra24 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    There has never been a time in my life where i ever felt good enough or worthy enough..
    sweetirrific sweetirrific 22-25, F Jul 30

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    Have you ever worked on something so hard and didn't get it? People say " Try you're best and you'll be good enough" but that doesn't apply to me. My best isn't good enough. No...
    beatriz117 beatriz117 13-15, F Jul 31

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    I wish i was good enough, but i'm not. Never was and never will be
    BleedingAngel BleedingAngel 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    I know ill never be enough... Never be pretty enough,smart enough,athletic enough,just not enough....
    jaynick15 jaynick15 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    really i wish i could turn back time . i am not making excuses, but i grew up deep in a city with a strong drug culture (Miami). a week before my 13th birthday, i smoked my first...
    Chulazon Chulazon 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    You may retain the services of an inexperienced higher education grad with fifty Twitter followers. You could potentially use someone who’s just likely to Increase your...
    Carriele83 Carriele83 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    Just got the cast list, I didn't make it. I made it to callbacks, guess I wasn't good enough. I'm trying to continue thinking that there will always be other productions, and I...
    lillylolz lillylolz 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Growing into life , proceeding each day to come and it's like I'm not good enough . Every time I have an idea I'm scared to tell because then is when I get the questions : why do...
    insanebeauty insanebeauty 22-25, F Aug 7

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    Yep, I usually wish I were good enough. Then again, it would remove the purpose of fancying someone - it's life's way of telling you exactly who you're not good enough to have. I'd...
    Nexile90 Nexile90 22-25, M Aug 8

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    I wish I was good enough so I wouldn't wake up every morning feeling disgusted, and I wish I was good enough so he wouldn't talk to other girls...
    hebrokemyheart99 hebrokemyheart99 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    And you wonder why I don't think I'm good enough. You say all these nice thins like "you're drop dead gorgeous and I'm glad I got to you first and even though we're an hour away...
    notg00denough notg00denough 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 21

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    Cristyayv Cristyayv 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 21

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    okay, im thirteen and in about 5th to 7th grade ive had really bad pimples and right now, their gone but i have black spots. my friends say they make me look cute but i cant help...
    swavvy123 swavvy123 13-15, F 3 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    When I was 18 years old I got my 1st DUI, following that when I was 19 I came across my 2nd. I served My time, completed counseling, outpatient therapy, group classes, had an...
    BarteringJoe BarteringJoe 26-30, M Jul 30

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    I was in a relationship for four months. A few weeks ago, it all ended. My ex-boyfriend just gave-up on me, lied about being happy with me the last two months, and bitched about a...
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I feel that people don't care about what I do, and that nothing I do is ever good enough.
    mhLILRED mhLILRED 18-21, F Aug 8

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    I've spent most of my life being a strong independent person, overcoming all the crap thrown my way.... But there's always been this devil on my shoulder saying I'm not good enough...
    Ladybuddha1 Ladybuddha1 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    So i've been in a relationship with this guy for 9 months & yesterday, he broke up with me because i was bisexual. Being bisexual may or may not be a phase for me, but then he told...
    xxbangbangxx xxbangbangxx 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    Since a very young age I've known that I am precisely what the other girls with their average faces and silky hair full of potential whispered about to their carbon copy friends...
    pretendingagain pretendingagain 13-15, F Aug 21

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    I can't articulate my feelings better than Warsan Shire in her poem titled 'for women who are 'difficult' to love' you are a horse running alone and he tries to tame you compares...
    sonarlove sonarlove 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    not becasue i dont want to. but because im not attractive feminine enough for guys these days. i get made fun of rather than attract guys.
    godisabigassholetome godisabigassholetome 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Noelict Noelict 31-35, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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