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I Will Never Be Good Enough For Anything

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    Its not that I am not good for anything, its more like, I won't be good for anyone more than anything. I mean, I do things well sometimes and everything, however, I feel like its never going to be good enough for anyone. BroknWings
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 25, 2009

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    For My Dad...and Everyone

    I mean i have my flaws and all that imperfections but i work so hard. I try to get all A's in school but i dont even think that is good enough.... i need to be better.... i try finding aproving boyfriends.... but he finds a flaw. he may say a few complements but rarely do i...
    theshortloud1 theshortloud1 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 20, 2009

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    I Am My Own Worst Enemy

    Sure, there's all this pressure from peers, magazines, the media in general. But what are you supposed to do if you're harshest critic is yourself? No, I don't think I will ever be good enough for anyone else, that's been made obvious for the last 18 years. But it's even harder...
    JustCantUnderstand JustCantUnderstand 18-21 1 Response Jan 21, 2011

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    How did I let myself get this low

    why did I let myself fall inlove with someone that's destroyed every bit of self esteem I have at only seventeen I'm broken I'm lost I'm scared I wish I could be someone else one of those girls that are so skinny and pretty perfection I hate the way I look I hate myself so much...
    Mad1996 Mad1996 16-17, F Mar 20

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    Waiting In The Distance

    I'm still waiting. Waiting for someone to be okay with me just being me. Waiting for someone to not care that I'm not perfect. Whenever someone's feeling down about a lack of friendship, a relationship, or the fact that life isn't going exactly as planned, the response is always...
    JustCantUnderstand JustCantUnderstand 18-21 1 Response Dec 7, 2011

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    Nope

    i criticize myself. im too fat, even though i dont weigh much. sometimes just because a person looks like they have it good doesnt always mean that they do. I hate hiding, but most of the time you have to since nobody really even cares about you meaning me. Nobody ever really...
    oreo20 oreo20 18-21 Jul 2, 2013

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    Derealization:Gift And Curse

    Hey guy's first story bear with me. I'm 32 and had an extremely difficult life because of my mothers choices as well as my own. I got started in drugs at 15 and by 17 I lost my mind and identity completely from doing too much acid. Then,since it was very hard to cope with my...
    existential45 existential45 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 14, 2013

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    Never

    I have never been good enough for anyone, or anything. I have never been someone who can do anything, and no matter what I do, its never good enough for anyone, or anything. Its not that I am not good for anything, its more like, I won't be good for anyone more than...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 8, 2009

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    Family Betrayl Was A Sucker Punch

    Found out a few days ago that my grandma was talking crap about me to my brother's girlfriend when they were visiting with her last month. Not only did I find out that she's been thinking all of these things since I was just a little kid, but I found out from someone my grandma...
    JustCantUnderstand JustCantUnderstand 18-21 Jul 26, 2011

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    My mother literally just told me how much I

    suck at everything. She told me how ugly I am. She told me how dumb I am. She told me how unathletic I am. She told me how much of a loser I am. She thinks anyone who isn't in the popular group is weird, so me and my (few) friends are weird. She thinks I have adhd because im so...
    hayhayitskatayy hayhayitskatayy 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Never good enough For myself I honestly try so hard And kick myself back down I can't impress myself Too much imperfection in my way Too many scars and pain All these memories...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    Never. I never am. Whether it's being a good enough sibling, son, student, friend, or anything. I'm never good enough. No matter how hard I try I fail. Everyone else is better...
    seasalticecream seasalticecream 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 9

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    7 Things to Remember When You Think You’re Not Good Enough β€œWe can’t hate ourselves into a version of ourselves we can love.” ~Lori Deschene Sometimes I am really...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M Apr 3

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    im scared to talk to boys because im afraid i won't be good enough or im not pretty enough πŸ˜” what's wrong with me, my sister was never like that in high school.. in fact she was...
    addictedtoashx3 addictedtoashx3 16-17, F Apr 3

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    I know I'm not good enough.... My dad does a great job of reminding me everyday:)
    ShatteredWingz ShatteredWingz 13-15, F Mar 25

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    It's ok. You don't have to love me back, after all I'm not really your type. Even though we are best friends, I've always felt like we were more. I know someone out there will be...
    emilesfault emilesfault 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    I have no talents. My GPA is really high, but I feel like a faker. I don't really belong. I'm not actually that smart. I'm not any good, not really. I just happen to get good...
    mysteryhatcat mysteryhatcat 16-17, F Mar 25

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    I'm starting to think I will not find someone that wants just me. I am not enough
    dixiecrystal1 dixiecrystal1 18-21, F Apr 3

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    no matter what I don't feel like I deserve him. He is a beautiful amazing person. I'm scared he'll be fed up of my imperfections and leave me one day. I feel like a jerk girlfriend...
    GenineFilS GenineFilS 18-21, F Apr 5

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    I have been Married for almost a year now and been with my husband for almost 3 years. In the last six months to a year I feel like he hates looking at me and being married to me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 28

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    You never initiate with me. Eight hours of straight conversation with a friend, it must be nice. We barely talk for five minutes straight. I miss it. I miss a lot of things...
    Ecarie Ecarie 22-25, M Apr 8

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    He walks past me never looks at me and thinks in invisible πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ’”πŸ’”
    ashleybeach0803 ashleybeach0803 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I'm a 24 year old married, full time student and full time employee. I'm going to school to become a music teacher and am fortunate enough to have a job that works around my school...
    birdyhouse birdyhouse 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I AM Sorry, For not able to completely forget you, It's not something that is easy to do for me, Maybe it will be, One day in the future, When i'm done picking up the missing...
    jessycarcher jessycarcher 22-25, F Mar 28

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    Sometimes when I am sad I feel like cutting myself to get rid of tensions. I know it's bad. I really want to cut today, but I know I shouldn't because I'm a professional and I don...
    GenineFilS GenineFilS 18-21, F Mar 29

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    Ever since I was a little girl, I always pictured myself having this wonderful life and being with the perfect guy and being that girl that people thought was beautiful...but I'm...
    Ktompkins17 Ktompkins17 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    i always feel like im doing something wrong or that i always do something wrong and it hurts so bad. im so sorry. i love you.
    babybree527 babybree527 18-21, F Mar 24

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    I always have to change the way I do my work in addition to appease people who keep questioning it but yet I feel like it's not the right thing. I am happy with who I am and...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13 22-25, M Apr 4

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    I was always told that after your heart was broken a boy would pick up the pieces. "Youre close to breaking, i dont want to be the one who breaks you". I think I was mislead.
    MyMonstersHideUnderMySkin MyMonstersHideUnderMySkin 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I walk out the room and I hear my mom talking about me. Later ,she denies it. Am I really that bad of I daughter because I always want her approval and aim to make her proud.
    teenprobs66 teenprobs66 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    No matter how hard I try I'm never good enough for anyone. It honestly hurts to know that no matter what that's what I'll never be. It truly hurts to know when people in my family...
    WeekndOVOXO WeekndOVOXO 16-17, F Mar 20

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    Sometimes I feel like I'm not good enough, even when I'm trying my best. Today I finished my 5th term of college and my over all grade came out to a B (mostly cause I forgot to...
    secretlyfelix secretlyfelix 18-21, F Mar 26

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    I'm not good enough I'll just never understand why I'm not good enough, I try my hardest at everything but it's never good enough.
    charlie4edwards charlie4edwards 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I'm tired of feeling alone. and never good enough. I try so hard and it's never enough. I want to give up and throw everything away
    haleymarie11598 haleymarie11598 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    When will I ever be enough? I don't understand. I want to be good enough for somebody, even myself.
    kristinaloo kristinaloo 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    For years I have always wondered, "Why am I not good enough for them?" But now I finally realize that they were not good enough for me. Anyone who makes you feel like you aren't...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I've had three unsuccessful suicide attempts, I have borderline personality disorder, depression and anxiety. I suffer with bulimia and anorexia. I have also abused laxatives in...
    kristinaloo kristinaloo 18-21, F Apr 2

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    I hate that this is a topic. Nobody should ever have to feel like this. And I know it's easy to just say, "oh well you're good enough don't worry," but it's another thing to...
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    So I guess this is it... This is where it ends.. I wish.. I deeply wish I could've been there when you needed someone. I wanted to so bad, you never even knew. And now I guess.. I...
    hazellmo0n hazellmo0n 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    Do you ever feel like everything you do isn't sufficient? Like you will never be perfect, or even close to it. You will never make someone happy at all times, never be pretty...
    enbarlev enbarlev 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I feel like I'm just stupid. I make mistakes and people don't want to be my friend. I feel like I'm just doing things wrong in life and I'll never get anywhere because I'm not good...
    CaptainBenza CaptainBenza 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 8

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    You said I was the most important person in your life. You said you loved me. You said you didn't know what you would do without me. You said when I came into your life, you became...
    MysticalBlade MysticalBlade 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    Every one always tells me "nobody is perfect" well that's a lie. I have crushes on boys that I will never have because I am not that pretty blonde girl with blue eyes a clean face...
    Inlovewithtecher Inlovewithtecher 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I just got done reading a few stories, and the things don't add up, than I look at the age 13-15, and it just makes me shake my head. I wasn't even allowed to be on the internet...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    People say there is no such thing as middle child syndrome but sometimes I can't help think that maybe it could be true. I am middle to two brothers and the only girl. I have...
    Clagerag Clagerag 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I will never be good enough . Not matter what I do. I hate myself for it
    ithzelhernandez ithzelhernandez 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I've always struggled with this. I always feel like I'm not a good enough friend, not a good enough spouse, not a good sister, not a good enough student, not a good enough person...
    MadameMM MadameMM 26-30, F 11 Responses Mar 27

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    Just one time in my life, I wish I was good enough. I wish I was skinny enough. I wish I was pretty enough. I wish I was kinky enough. I wish I was sexy enough. I wish I was...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I am 16 and the youngest in the family, I will never be as good as my brothers everything I do. They have done something better. Everyone thinks im happy 24/7 but Im not im just an...
    kieranwfc kieranwfc 16-17, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm a junior in High School. I go to prestigious all boys private prep in a big US city and I'm surrounded by people who say they love and support me but I don't feel it. I'm of...
    tvantes1 tvantes1 16-17, M Mar 23

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    I started smoking late 2013, with my friend for no particular reason. Occasionally after school, we'd chill, buy a cigarette each, and go smoke behind the store we'd buy them from...
    funkybones funkybones 16-17, F Apr 1