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I Will Never Be Someone's Back Up Plan

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 182 People

    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Nov 17

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    I Shouldn't Be Here

    I don't mind being your backup plan, baby.I've got your back.;)
    sumnerkagan sumnerkagan 41-45, M Jul 17, 2012

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    Been there, done that!

    Got the t-shirt! Well, lessons learned and learned well! All I can say is...for those she's fooled, and I'm sure there are many, don't worry, she's good at it. Most narcissists are :/
    jusBec jusBec 51-55, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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