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I Will Never Be Someone's Back Up Plan

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 191 People

    I Shouldn't Be Here

    I don't mind being your backup plan, baby.I've got your back.;)
    sumnerkagan sumnerkagan 46-50, M Jul 17, 2012

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    Thing is...you often don't realize until

    after the fact that you are somebody's backup plan. Red flags should not ignored. Don't wait around for someone to make up their mind what they want to do or until they can get their **** together. I had a lot more to say about this but I will exercise restraint at this...
    theSusanQ theSusanQ 51-55, F Dec 1, 2014

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    Hi everyone. I'm Shruthi, 21 from India. Well I was born in southern India to my beautiful parents. They loved each other and even a stranger could tell that. I also have an elder...
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    I liked someone but he never liked me back so I stopped. What's the point of torturing myself if he doesn't like Me at all, not even as a friend? In this life and age, finding love...
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    He is perfect, and has his pick of any girl in the school. Everyone loves him. I've been in love with him for close to four years now, and only this year have I been able to hold...
    lillyforever4 lillyforever4 16-17, F 1 Response May 12

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    listen, im already a giant putrid pile of ****, alright. whatever makes people even come to the conclusion that i would ever feel the need to add even more putrid piles of **** to...
    idiotoftheyear37 idiotoftheyear37 18-21, M May 18

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    You'd be surprised at how often I have thought and do think about my prospects of becoming the President of the United States of America. While I realize that this is, I won't say...
    shannonymous shannonymous 18-21, F 2 Responses May 12

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    I hate to disappoint all of my adoring fans. But, I will never look like a VS model. Yes. I know. I'm adorable. And what really counts is what's on the inside. Those...
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    So I always see people begging. In the city it used to be they would sit on a corner, or get in your face. But I moved to a new place, and I see people at highways holding signs...
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    what do you do with somebody you still like but doesn't realize that you've moved on and have feelings for other people like crazy and just want your friendship with them back even...
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    All I seem to do lately is cry. I've cried for 16 days straight cause I missed my boyfriend who was in America and then the day he came back I found out he's been on here messaging...
    PrettyPrincess23 PrettyPrincess23 18-21, F 4 Responses May 8

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    Someone on here asked a question, "what does the love of your life look like, describe her ?" I've tried responding and it wouldn't work so I've decided to post it here. Absolutely...
    iamlovepeople iamlovepeople 31-35, M May 16

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    What's the point of loving someone if you love them for how they look instead of how they act? You don't love them for them in that case. Looks are temporary. You never loved them...
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    I'm a hopeless romantic, always have been, always will be. I read books, watch movies, and even dream up the perfect scenario for myself. I grew up in a family without love. My...
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    Looks change, a person's personality can change somewhat. Even what they like to do and don't like to do, even their favorite things and hated things haha but what I rather fall in...
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    I really want to be someones everything I really want someone who will understand me I really want someone to make me laugh I really want someone to chase me for a change instead...
    gainergirl98 gainergirl98 16-17, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    True Story: There was this guy name Josh I went to school with, he was really quite, nobody liked him, everybody picked on him or bullied him. He was the nerd, the geek, the...
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    my friend and i use to play online games in a computer rental shop. and this particular guy we saw was very intriguing since he has no friends and he's cousins never talked to him...
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    people spend so much time worried about looks that they forget to work on there inner beauty and it's sad because one day there looks will fade away with age and they will realize...
    broken8888 broken8888 26-30, M 6 Responses May 9

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    "Been there, done that." How did it work? Failed. Yet, it wasn't love. It was, as one could imagine, attraction to their looks. Never doing that again. It was a huge waste of my...
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    woundedbutterfly22 woundedbutterfly22 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses May 2

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    Yesss! I approve of this 100% I remember this one time when I confessed to my cousin that I was crushing on this guy she said "Eeeew! He's ugly!" I told her that his looks didn't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 15

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