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I Will Never Be Someone's Back Up Plan

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 192 People

    I Shouldn't Be Here

    I don't mind being your backup plan, baby.I've got your back.;)
    sumnerkagan sumnerkagan 46-50, M Jul 17, 2012

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    Thing is...you often don't realize until

    after the fact that you are somebody's backup plan. Red flags should not ignored. Don't wait around for someone to make up their mind what they want to do or until they can get their **** together. I had a lot more to say about this but I will exercise restraint at this...
    theSusanQ theSusanQ 51-55, F Dec 1, 2014

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    FightingTillTheEnd FightingTillTheEnd 31-35, M Feb 17

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    Nope, N.E.V.E.R NEVER!!!!!!!!! there are somethings in life that we never grow up from, and my things is Disney. I could not live a life without Minnie Mouse in my life. I LOVE...
    ThatOneSomaliGirl ThatOneSomaliGirl 13-15, F 5 Responses Feb 22

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    I always knew it had a suspicion that Shane wasn't a good person from the start. I got with him no bc I really wanted to be with him but more bc I wanted someone to want me even if...
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    I'm stubborn, What can I say. It puts me through Pain I cannot describe to you, Well I can give you an idea.. Imagine setting your insides on fire, there's an example(joke). Really...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm not what I'm suppose to be. They want a girl who's happy. That's not me. The girl who can talk forever about anything. The girl who isn't insecure and shy. They want someone...
    alyssakayart alyssakayart 18-21, F Feb 13

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    goodatnothing goodatnothing 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    iTetra iTetra 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 11

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    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 9

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    I have a lot of messages and I like talking to people don't get me wrong, it's just there's way too many and I can't get back to all of you. So I locked my inbox, if you would like...
    kaylasaurus kaylasaurus 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    As usual, I'm not handling Valentine's day too well. I was doing great by focusing on work, but then I ended up on the web tonight and that all went to hell. If I'm really being...
    GoldingFlies GoldingFlies 18-21 Feb 15

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    This is something that has plagued me since as far back as I can remember. I have always had low self-esteem, and growing up with a narcissistic mother didn't help. I got teased...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 15

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    Tabithaaa Tabithaaa 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    Yeah I do too, I don't like for example, when I text, I don't like when I'm texting someone and they take like 2 hours just to text back. But then you know people get busy. I hate...
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 18

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    Everything I like is either expensive, illegal, or doesn't text back :(
    ChattingIsNiceToo ChattingIsNiceToo 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    It's true!!!.......I don't know why but I don't usually find them very attractive at first but once I get to know them and once I realize that I like their personality there's like...
    lonewolf2323 lonewolf2323 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 13

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    Erin29 Erin29 26-30, F 8 Responses Feb 17

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    I hate when you're having an awsome conversation with someone and then they just stop and take forever to respond. And its like I thought we were enjoying ourselves...guess not.
    plasticfaces plasticfaces 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    I get bored easily so when people take long I get bored and irritated fast. then I either block or delete them and find someone else who responds quicker lol
    jenniebaez1992 jenniebaez1992 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 18

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    Today. Valentine's Day 2015. I had a sexy dream this morning. You were in it. This is crazy. We don't talk since December 2011. But I've seen you almost everyday on my way to...
    crazysoul24 crazysoul24 22-25 1 Response Feb 14

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    I would like to agree with this but I feel like it would be kinda hypocritical of me even though I do believe that if you fall in love with someone I wouldn't choose the super cute...
    DreamOnBeautiful DreamOnBeautiful 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 21

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    I really like that's co i m not getting bored and its good
    chikamac94 chikamac94 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 21

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    quietgirl36 quietgirl36 36-40, F Feb 3

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    Looks is a bonus but i will always fall for personality. Even though i have stumbled across physical attraction over personality before.
    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 12

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    spell22 spell22 22-25 1 Response Feb 18

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    Difference between looks and personality? You can feel warmth in personality :) I mean, it's not like your looks are so radiant that it can warm someone up..........can it?
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    Personality will last forever. Looks won't!
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    Just like the Facebook feed. It's just impossible to go through it all :(
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    jessicalaureng jessicalaureng 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    Sweetheart16 Sweetheart16 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I won't lie on EP as well as I won't lie in real life. It's that simple. :-)
    BiNiceBoy BiNiceBoy 22-25, M 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    what's there when you're old and no longer beautiful..?
    goodatnothing goodatnothing 18-21, F 9 Responses Feb 6

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    no matter how much it upsets me to see people love beautiful faces so much, I can't blame them. I know it's human nature and kind of inevitable.
    goodatnothing goodatnothing 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 11

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