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I Will Never Be Used Again

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    Nothing Wrong In Being Useful...

    I enjoy being useful and find I generally enjoy keeping company that are useful to me... I find no issue when a relationship is mutually beneficial and when there is equity between giving and taking.
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    Its Made Me Ill...

    I am sick of being used for others and getting nothing back myself... It has made me a very ill person both physically and mentally... I dont really know how to protect myself other than I do not mix with many people any more... I have been used by so many people. in jobs...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Jul 4, 2011

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    Victim

    I will not be used again, I will not be a victim and if I suspect that someone is trying to ensure I become one - you can bet there will be retaliation. There will be mass retaliation and vengeance. For the longest time, I was a victim because I thought it was noble to sit and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 12, 2010

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    I Became Stronger From My Mistakes

    I will no longer allow people to walk all over me.  In the past, I was too desperate for friends to believe that they were really only pretending to be my friend.  I saw right through their greed.  I was too nice and giving.  They took advantage of me...
    BBUDS BBUDS 18-21, F Mar 21, 2010

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    Once Is Enough

         There was only one time in my life where I felt someone took advantage of me.  I began taking a self-help group for women.  It was a small group of women who were there to face some of their most difficult challenges of letting go of their...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 2 Responses Mar 21, 2010

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    trust is something to be earn, for some it takes an instant for others, weeks and some months.... I sadly am in the first category, I tend to trust to easily. I fell in the trap...
    womanonly womanonly 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 6

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    Going to sleep alone and waking up alone could may just be one of the hardest things to get over. It's been a long time since I've shared my bed with someone that I'm starting to...
    GivenToFly182 GivenToFly182 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 12

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    Back in high school when I was in grade ten, my best friend introduced me to this guy that she went to semi formal with, just as friends, and ever since that day we became really...
    jenniferolise jenniferolise 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    There was a time I felt that our love was pure and real. I say that with all confidence...even if I was only 16 then. The moment I felt sure I loved you, I knew I could never un...
    takaw takaw 22-25, F Jul 19

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    Finding the One person who has shown me who I truely am has been an AMAZING experience! I know, that no matter how O/our situation turns out, I will never be the same...and for...
    snwnglmkr snwnglmkr 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    When I was 18 years old I got my 1st DUI, following that when I was 19 I came across my 2nd. I served My time, completed counseling, outpatient therapy, group classes, had an...
    BarteringJoe BarteringJoe 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    I haven't given myself to someone 100 percent because I haven't ever felt that comfort, that 'I really really like you" feeling, where I'm happy to be open and not forcing anything...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F a week ago

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    The Vietnam war was at its peak in 1968. The Tet offensive started on January 30 and the Pueblo incident with North Korea occurred on January 23. The USAF began operation Port Bow...
    a42g11 a42g11 66-70, M Jul 9

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    I can try to play the smart sweet girl or the sexy mysterious girl but in the end there is nothing about me anyone can seem to love. I try to just be myself but that seems to never...
    babybop12 babybop12 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Sorry ...but I will never compromise my integrity for anything or anybody. My soul means a lot to me. Although I feel we all swerve from our true path sometimes, we are guided by a...
    johnny048 johnny048 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    These days nearly everyone follows media and sadly believe in everything they find in them. And majority od those people will think im talking jibberish but it only shows how deep...
    kat8507 kat8507 26-30 Jul 9

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    No matter how you look at it racism will never go away not now not then not ever. Even with all the mixing there trying to do many people will still have something racist to say...
    Crazybunny101 Crazybunny101 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    My life has been wasted...and theres nothing I can do about it. I will never be an artist, author or even an actoršŸ’” Why is my life screwed up and full of catastrophešŸ˜« WHY...
    Miserablechildhood Miserablechildhood 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 16

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    Will Never Lie About Anything I Say On This Site
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    That feeling that never goes away , the one where you feel like you cant even look her in the face for any reason anymore. That feeling where it is the most challenging thing to...
    Workoutguy720 Workoutguy720 26-30, M 2 hrs ago

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    My husband and I have been married for 10 years but we've been together for 15. During our marriage, he cheated on me twice with two different women. The first woman he actually...
    futureexwife14 futureexwife14 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    Love doesn't hurt, but a lack of it does. I recently had feelings for 2 guys at the same time. I touched base on them about each other, cos that's the sort of person I am. If...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jul 8

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    Lately I have noticed this hatred feeling towards my husband. He even tells me he notice that I have a hatred feeling towards him. I just flat out can't stand him! He plays too...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 22

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    As children, we don't know what life really is. There is perfect happiness. Without any doubt of it not lasting for more than a brief period. We enjoy the happiness, as though it's...
    TheAverageIdiot TheAverageIdiot 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    I've never been to a tanning salon either and don't think I ever will. I guess I'm dark enough..lol. I have a tan, caramel complexion like Halle Berry. I'm surprised how I got...
    texaschic35 texaschic35 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Not used to any tanning bed/salon or animal skin too. Not fond of them, and a plain strong wood bed is more comfy to me. Do not wish cruelty towards animals for the purpose of...
    elitevenkat elitevenkat 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 23

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    All my life I've had that weighted feeling in me and never really felt happiness. Bad relationships meant I never achieved my personal goals. Now at 40 I am in the 3rd yr of...
    genevieve34 genevieve34 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 6

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    No one really ever cares about me. I dunno how to react when someone shows interest in me, so I kind of just shut down when that happens. I'm used to being alone, or me being...
    dinorap1 dinorap1 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Should've never tried it. Hurt me so badly
    Yerbamate Yerbamate 18-21, M Jul 11

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    I think about you all the time, your smile comes across my memories. The crinkle of your eyes, the light in your eyes the way you made me feel, the love I had for you. My wish for...
    onelastgdbye onelastgdbye 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    I have done some things that I am not proud of. A lot the stuff I can't even believe to this day that I did it. I did these things back when I was in high school. I did these...
    beachboy14u beachboy14u 18-21, T 2 Responses Jul 13

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    I first started thinking about starting a business early on in my life. I would have lemonade stands. I would bike up and down my block, ringing my bell on my bike and sell ice...
    TrailrunnerMN TrailrunnerMN 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 2

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    I love this women so much I could never and never will hurt her x
    AndyBommer AndyBommer 31-35, M Jul 18

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    It started when I was younger and all of my friends were just discovering relationships.. I always told them how pointless it was. I would say, "I'm fine alone. I'm going to wait...
    amberooo amberooo 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    I understand that everything we do or feel is a result of our thought process. nothing is real. we can make it real in our own minds but even then it is only real in our heads. but...
    motherearth227 motherearth227 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I feel this way everyday. It makes me sad when I see everyone around me so happy and in love. I am 23 and have never had a serious boyfriend. Never been loved romantically, or been...
    livingmemory livingmemory 22-25, F 12 Responses Jul 17

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    Never Ever will I give up on anybody!
    MtnDewForever MtnDewForever 16-17, M Jul 23

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    I look up at the moon. I look up at the stars. And I think of you. I wonder if I ever cross your mind. What I felt for you is beyond compare. My mother would never let me be with...
    honestyreality honestyreality 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    And for anyone that says they are over their past is lying, you never get over anything you just learn to move around it, it makes you the person you are today, your past is always...
    maddieXxx maddieXxx 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I'm never going to find someone that truly loves me
    iluvgirls282726 iluvgirls282726 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 18

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    There are two types of people who will tell you that you cannot make a difference in this world: those who are afraid to try and those who are afraid you will succeed
    mariacutte mariacutte 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    i haven't been feeling my best/happiest lately, with my family fighting on and off and the gum disease problem I just don't know what to do anymore.. BUT! even though I'm scared...
    gypsykk gypsykk 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    No point calling yourself a friend, a best friend even, if people can't trust you to keep their secrets. I wouldn't want anybody telling my secrets to strangers, but I can't expect...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    There has never been a time in my life where i ever felt good enough or worthy enough..
    sweetirrific sweetirrific 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    You will always be in my heart even though there is no more you and me.
    Togepi07 Togepi07 18-21, F Jul 6

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    i just haven't had any luck with men. idk why. i just feel like I will end up alone when i'm older...
    lss0807 lss0807 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 12

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