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I Will Never Be Used Again

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    Its Made Me Ill...

    I am sick of being used for others and getting nothing back myself... It has made me a very ill person both physically and mentally... I dont really know how to protect myself other than I do not mix with many people any more... I have been used by so many people. in jobs...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Jul 4, 2011

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    Nothing Wrong In Being Useful...

    I enjoy being useful and find I generally enjoy keeping company that are useful to me... I find no issue when a relationship is mutually beneficial and when there is equity between giving and taking.
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    Victim

    I will not be used again, I will not be a victim and if I suspect that someone is trying to ensure I become one - you can bet there will be retaliation. There will be mass retaliation and vengeance. For the longest time, I was a victim because I thought it was noble to sit and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 12, 2010

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    I Became Stronger From My Mistakes

    I will no longer allow people to walk all over me.  In the past, I was too desperate for friends to believe that they were really only pretending to be my friend.  I saw right through their greed.  I was too nice and giving.  They took advantage of me...
    BBUDS BBUDS 18-21, F Mar 21, 2010

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    Once Is Enough

         There was only one time in my life where I felt someone took advantage of me.  I began taking a self-help group for women.  It was a small group of women who were there to face some of their most difficult challenges of letting go of their...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 2 Responses Mar 21, 2010

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