I Will Never Fight Over a Man

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    Hmmm...Tough Question

    Would I fight over a man? No. Would I fight for a man that I loved? I'd like to think so.
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Sep 23, 2008

    Hell No. . .

    What would be the point in that, after all they're just men !  Don't get me wrong i don't hate them, it's the ones that lie, sneak round and don't tell you things and think your'e either plain thick or stupid, - or even better than that they think you won't find stuff...
    wishwing wishwing
    41-45, F
    Jun 16, 2010

    RIDICULOUS

    I feel ashamed when I see two women fighting over a man . It actually humilates me and angers me. Never ever have I  fought over any man and never ever will I . It is degrading and cheap and very unnecessary there are too many men in the world to fight over one.
    softkitti softkitti
    22-25, F
    13 Responses Oct 6, 2009

    Shows Your Immaturity Level

    If you feel the need to fight a girl over your boyfriend because she's trying to get with him it could mean one of two things. He's unfaithful (shouldn't be with him in the first place) or you don't trust him enough for him to deal with. I understand that some girls do not...
    thebookaholic thebookaholic
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 7, 2013

    Oh, Please! Lol!

    I do love deeply.... I am loyal to the core and NEVER stray. But when I see shows like "Cheaters", or real displays on the streets, of two women fighting over a man... It seems so silly to me! The guy is always standing there, his chest puffed out, as two women make...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 3, 2009

    No Need.

    I don't see the point really. When I was 18, my friend and I liked the same guy. He was a free-thinking, energetic, poetic, artistic-type and I really liked him. But he was torn between the two of us. I didn't do anything to win him over but be myself, and he chose me. (Me and...
    Cinderelly Cinderelly
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 15, 2008

    ...though I Do Not Like That Word.

    I'm not fond of using the word "never" because every time I do, somehow I wind up eating my words.  Even so, it is highly unlikely that I would fight over a man.  If he wants to go, he can go.  I may be sad, I may cry...but if he feels he needs to go on, that's...
    MossAgate MossAgate
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jul 13, 2010

    What Are You Fighting For?

    There should be no fight to keep someone who is sure you are everything he could ever want in a woman, and I am not interested in trying to have a relationship with anyone who has any doubts that I am "the one and only" for him...  and I mean that in every sense...
    HeavenBesideYou HeavenBesideYou
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Sep 26, 2008

    Sad

    its always so sad to see women stuck in that silent, catty competition with each other. if youre pretty, youre an outcast because everyone thinks you want their man. yuck. men arent worth all that. i wish that women would being to realize the strength in the sisterhood that...
    kittten kittten
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jan 4, 2008
    elle2122 elle2122
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 27, 2014

    OH Hell No!!!

    I will come back and write about this when I can... But I was not raised to degrade myself in this manner. peaceout  
    PeaceOnEarth PeaceOnEarth
    46-50, F
    19 Responses Sep 23, 2008

    He Has a Choice

    If a guy wants to be with me then I wouldn't need to fight over him. If he wants to be with someone else then fine, I want someone who wants me. He has a choice me or someone else, if he chooses her then she can have him, he's not good enough for me anyway.
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08
    26-30
    2 Responses Sep 23, 2008

    I Will Never Accept Second Place

    Life is too short to be with a man that is not totally dedicated to me. If he wants to be with someone else then I will walk away.  I don't see the point in fighting to be second place.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    Nov 22, 2009

    I Am a Man

    I am a man. I am a heterosexual. I will never fight over a man. Enough said.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 14, 2008

    If I Have to Fight Over Him He's Not Worth It.

    I don't want to be with someone I have to fight over.  First of all, I don't think that love is a competition or game.  If it starts to get like that, it's not love (the way I want it, at least).  Secondly, or because of this, I do not want to be with a guy...
    solarxmoon solarxmoon
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jan 4, 2008

    I Used to Think That

     But last week,while partying with my close friend and my infamous Jose, she asked if we wanted to have a *********...At first I was all for it...for about one second... Then I looked at him and knew I would never be willing to share him.Even though we are not a couple. Its...
    blackcat blackcat
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 23, 2008

    I Want One ... But I'll Not Fight Over Him

    To begin with a good man is a precious commodity and when you find one he'll standout, head and shoulders above the rest. I will work my wiles and do my best to catch him but I will not fight someone else for him, nor will I steal him from someone else. If he's the right one...
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    Aug 1, 2008

    Hey, If You Want Him

    If you want a man, TAKE HIM.  ****.  Even if he's mine and you're gonna steal him from me, fine. Go ahead.  I have only met one man in my life that I would EVER fight to keep.  One. Now, if he's drawn to you and he's with me, and he's starting to wander...
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech
    22-25, F
    May 10, 2009

    No

    If the man is taken..he is taken...I will not fight for him...it's not the right thing to do...I will find another..if I have the chance...
    mother1983 mother1983
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Sep 23, 2008

    Fight Over a Man? Lmao!

    Number one: It degrades the women. Number two: If he isn't man enough to communicate who he wants, why risk injury?? Screw that!
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Sep 23, 2008

    A Promise to Myself

    I made a promise to myself that I would never fight over a man. If there is any question to the man's loyalty, or where the man needs to be - HE needs to decide that. I don't think that makes me love him any less - but it makes me respect him more. I...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Aug 7, 2009

    Will Never...

     I think is pointless, and if someone does it is because she doesn't respect herself. We girls have to realize that if we fight for a guy the only thing we are doing is amuse them and we are wayy Better than that. 
    amixita amixita
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 5, 2009

    NO Way

    I will ever fight over a man. That is the most lowest thing anyone can do. It not only shows that you have low self esteem but it also shows others that you have no respect for yourself. When you love someone and you like yourself you are never afraid of losing them because you...
    RESCUE RESCUE
    61-65, F
    1 Response Sep 26, 2008

    No Fukkin Way

    Never will you see the day. You can have em'! None of that nonsense now.
    UnderTheBridge UnderTheBridge
    22-25, F
    Apr 28, 2011

    Whats The Point

    im a firm believer in if it wasnt meant to be it wasnt meant to be, i never understood why people cant let things go, i will never fight over a man, theres no point, obviously if youre in a situation where you have to fight for a man something is wrong,just be you and live .
    agonyblue agonyblue
    18-21
    Sep 2, 2011

    Never Felt the Need to

    Sure, it used to bother me when a "friend" would move in on someone I was interested in, but I never once gave up a friendship over it.  I figured, hey, if he wants her, he can have her.  Men come & go, but a friend can stay around a long time.  It...
    darlene darlene
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jan 8, 2008

    Fighting Over Love

    i was dating 2 guys one wanted to get married the other didn't i let go the first didn't want to marry him then i had the one who didn't wan t to marry i did 7 years later that was it grief  
    Segaaa Segaaa
    51-55, T
    Sep 27, 2008
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