I Will Never Fight Over a Man

I don't see the point really.
When I was 18, my friend and I liked the same guy. He was a free-thinking, energetic, poetic, artistic-type and I really liked him. But he was torn between the two of us. I didn't do anything to win him...

I feel ashamed when I see two women fighting over a man . It
actually humilates me and angers me. Never ever have I  fought over
any man and never ever will I . It is degrading and cheap and very
unnecessary there are too...

I'm not fond of using the word "never" because every time I do, somehow I wind up eating my words.  Even so, it is highly unlikely that I would fight over a man. 

If he wants to go, he can go.  I may be sad, I may cry...

either way - I would win. When in a relationship, I give my all - 100% and then some. I am a good wife, mother, helpmate and woman capable of making and keeping our home your castle - a warm, welcoming and inviting place with little...

I will ever fight over a man. That is the most lowest thing anyone can do. It not only shows that you have low self esteem but it also shows others that you have no respect for yourself. When you love someone and you like yourself you...

I think is pointless, and if someone does it is because she doesn't respect herself. We girls have to realize that if we fight for a guy the only thing we are doing is amuse them and we are wayy Better than that. 

I don't want to be with someone I have to fight over.  First of all, I don't think that love is a competition or game.  If it starts to get like that, it's not love (the way I want it, at least).  Secondly, or...

If you want a man, TAKE HIM.  Shit.  Even if he's mine and you're gonna steal him from me, fine. Go ahead.  I have only met one man in my life that I would EVER fight to keep.  One.
Now, if he's drawn to you...

I do love deeply.... I am loyal to the core and NEVER stray. But when I see shows like "Cheaters", or real displays on the streets, of two women fighting over a man... It seems so silly to me! The guy is always standing there...

Never will you see the day. You can have em'! None of that nonsense now.

its always so sad to see women stuck in that silent, catty competition with each other. if youre pretty, youre an outcast because everyone thinks you want their man. yuck.
men arent worth all that.
i wish that women would being to...

i was dating 2 guys
one wanted to get married
the other didn't
i let go the first didn't want to marry him
then i had the one who didn't wan t to marry
i did
7 years later that was it
grief
 

What would be the point in that, after all they're just men !  Don't get me wrong i don't hate them, it's the ones that lie, sneak round and don't tell you things and think your'e either plain thick or stupid, - or even better...

I will come back and write about this when I can...
But I was not raised to degrade myself in this manner.

peaceout
 

im a firm believer in if it wasnt meant to be it wasnt meant to be, i never understood why people cant let things go, i will never fight over a man, theres no point, obviously if youre in a situation where you have to fight for a man...

I made a promise to myself that I would never fight over a man.
If there is any question to the man's loyalty, or where the man needs to be - HE needs to decide that.
I don't think that makes me love him any less...

Sure, it used to bother me when a "friend" would move in on someone I was interested in, but I never once gave up a friendship over it.  I figured, hey, if he wants her, he can have her.  Men come & go, but a...