I Will Never Get Married

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 83 People

    I'm Just Not Wired For Marriage.

    My views on marriage are complicated, but ultimately if other people want to get married, I say more power to 'em. Do what makes you happy. Just don't look down on me because something different makes me happy. I know myself well enough to know I wouldn't enjoy that lifestyle. It...
    CleverScreenName CleverScreenName
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Jul 28, 2012

    I don't trust guys who say this.

    Some may have legitimate reasons as to not wanting to get married, but I think a lot of them just want to have the opportunity to cut and run whenever they feel like. When you're getting divorced, it's a lengthy process. Not getting married at all just means you can move your...
    RationalCutie RationalCutie
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jan 12, 2015

    i am 100% sure that i will never get married.

    even when i make it through the year 2020.
    Knickster24 Knickster24
    22-25, M
    1 Response Dec 11, 2015

    Not Required

    I see it this way, if she is into me for me and not something else a piece of paper or contract in is not required. If you own a car and you meet someone do you put the car in their name or both of yours? NO!!! Not till you are married do you do dumb things like that. So why do...
    Nitehowl Nitehowl
    56-60, M
    16 Responses Apr 2, 2011

    This is just for me personally,

    but I don't want to get married. I don't see the point. I realize that financially there are some benefits... But as a whole, it's not for me. I would rather be in a serious and happy relationship then get married. It's expensive, and I always think of divorce. Those are...
    ElvenQueenKayla ElvenQueenKayla
    18-21, F
    Jan 27, 2015

    Like To Explain Myself A Bit Though

    To me now, Marriage is trying to be more legal with Culture and the Government.  Or perhaps to form monogamy relationships and family.  And I have past that age to wanting children and family ties and restrict marriage to its financial institute as it is...
    ChakraSolipsismMGP ChakraSolipsismMGP
    56-60, M
    7 Responses Aug 6, 2010


    I'm very happy being married to my husband and I wouldn't change anything about it...I love being married + I love my man with all of my heart and soul .If anything would happen to us (knock on wood), I wouldn't get remarried again even if I meet another person.  I have been...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 9, 2011

    I Cannot Love Someone

      I could never get married to someone I didn't love, and that would be no one since I've never loved anyone, not really...I can't even love myself so how could I expect to love anyone else? Its not that I don't care for people, their well-being etc...of course I do but as...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Dec 20, 2009

    Nope Not For Me

    I have no intention of getting married. I do not see the use when you can live co-dependently. A wedding is totally overblown these days. I would rather put the energy and resources into something else. I suffer from a mental illness so I know I would be unbearable to live with...
    Technikchik Technikchik
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Apr 25, 2011


    never again too much chance of being hurt and i will never trust anyone that much again
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Dec 11, 2009

    I'm 16 year old boy and I will never get

    married. For a couple reason. One reason is I'm a virgin and modern day girls don't want a virgin guy. Second reason is most modern girls are having sex before they even enter high school. Now I'm not saying I wouldn't be with a girl that wasn't a virgin but she would have to...
    superabe11 superabe11
    18-21, M
    4 Responses May 15, 2014

    Just Not Fo Meh!

     nooppppeeee :D i dont plan on dating anyone either ;] wait... thats kind of obvious D:
    kittycat101303 kittycat101303
    18-21, F
    16 Responses Dec 18, 2009

    I Just Don't Believe In It, Unless You Have Children Or Plan To

    It's not for me. I love who I love regardless of what the state says. I don't want to have children so there is no need to get married. I've been with my man almost 14 years & we are great. It's when people get married that things go downhill.
    bdmthrfkr bdmthrfkr
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 9, 2011

    A Wolf-human's Reaction

    *Glares full of hate at the very thought, growls*
    TheArcticWolf TheArcticWolf
    13-15, M
    1 Response Feb 22, 2010
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