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I Will Never Look Back

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    Learned My Lesson

    Last time I tried that I fell over tripping on something ahead while looking back.  The back is over with, past, never to be returned to but it still beckons, doesn't it?
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 4 Responses Nov 6, 2008

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    Look Back

    Look back, not I,When I’m in a race,I always look ahead,‘Cos when you look back,You’re losing time,You could lose the lead,As someone overtakes in style!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Nov 9, 2011

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    From Lion King

    "you have to leave your past behind you" I am looking forward because that's the direction I am going.  I am not wasting time worrying about my past, because I can't change it, all I can do is learn from it.
    loopnscc loopnscc 46-50, M 2 Responses Apr 27, 2009

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    Moving Forward

    It's okay to look back---but you don't have to stay in the past. We all can choose to move on with our lives. The past is there for a reason---we're supposed to learn from it & know more about ourselves because of it. Past is Past. All we can do is live our lives NOW and do...
    mistyeyedlass mistyeyedlass 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 28, 2009

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    My Life

    was a living hell for 36 years, I was a drug addict for 32 of them. I am writing my story, or part of it in the "I grew up in the streets" experience group. I am all about the here and now, remembering my past, and looking back are not the same thing to me. It gives me...
    sbenson sbenson 46-50, M 2 Responses Nov 29, 2008

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    I Like This and I Cant Change What I Am

    i am someone who can not change i am some one who dose not hold a grudge im some one who see's women as future wives because if you hurt them now how will they fill with the next person they spend there time with i am some one who never say's go im a person who needs to move...
    reesethebeast reesethebeast 22-25, M Apr 28, 2009

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