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I Will No Longer Pursue A Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 23 People

    Tired Of It

    I'm tired of the inevitable pain that accompanies any relationship i am involved with, its obviously me that is the problem not them because every single relationship i've ever had ended in pain. so no more! no more pain, no more relationships, no more dating. i will remain alone...
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick 46-50, M 18 Responses Dec 6, 2009

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    Chasing A Dream...

    What's the point of chasing somebody that doesn't want to stop and be in your presence? There is none. Here's a hot working class analogy- I want to be chased around the table and fall into their arms and lap.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 11, 2009

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    I Just Don't See The Point

    As Weezer said in their song 'Why Bother', "why bother, its gonna hurt me, its gonna kill when you desert me"....................... Whats the point of getting rejected and hurt time and time again?
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 22-25, M 6 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    Definition

    Main Entry: asex·u·al Pronunciation: (ˌ)ā-ˈsek-sh(ə-)wəl, -shü-əl, -ˈsek-shəl Function: adjective Date: 1830 1 : lacking sex or functional sex organs <asexual plants> 2 a : involving or reproducing by reproductive processes (as cell division...
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick 46-50, M 5 Responses Dec 23, 2009

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    Interracial relationships rock! My two strongest crushes have been on the gorgeous results of an interracial relationship! :P
    Starrkya Starrkya 18-21, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I need your help everyone. I know I may sound so dumb with this post but I promise you I need you guys. I've only been with this boy for 6 months. He does so much for me. When my...
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    Time difference sucks! You have to stay all night waiting for notifications to show up with his name in it either with skype or viber. Unnecessary stress especially when you aren...
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    isahruth isahruth 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I want to ask him if I he actually still cares, or is he just scared to be alone. I'm not sure anymore. Whenever something is wrong or there's an argument, he's quick to buy...
    SadZweibel SadZweibel 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 4

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    ephemeralise ephemeralise 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 9

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    MomOfFour78 MomOfFour78 36-40, F 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    online relationship really work if your have the strong love nothing can break
    AngieM12 AngieM12 13-15, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    I began talking to a guy a month ago. I haven't had feelings for men in a long time so it came off as quite a shock to me when I saw myself feeling attracted to this young man. He...
    Zari93 Zari93 18-21 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    I been in a relationship for 10 years and sex has become none existent once in 6 months and its driving me mad to be far she has never really had a high sex drive but throught this...
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    delicatelover2u delicatelover2u 26-30, F 5 hrs ago

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    Any girls 17-19 want to try an online relationship?
    tldl tldl 18-21, M 4 hrs ago

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    I've been in a long distance relationship for six months now...and I feel like we're slowly slipping apart and I really love him but I just don't feel the connection we once had...
    teenagegirl1 teenagegirl1 13-15, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Kitty and I are totally poly, but we just don't have time to pursue anything beyond each other :(
    jojokarel jojokarel 26-30, F Oct 30

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    Life is so short for me to find the love of my life. I have never been married and never ever thought to find a partner as I've been so caught up in living a hermit like life...
    kipross44 kipross44 46-50, M Nov 14

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    Hi there, I am in a relationship with a lovely man but I am a bit wary, here are the reasons: 1) he lives with his partner who has been telling him for a long time she no longer...
    delphinia46 delphinia46 46-50, F 4 Responses Nov 11

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    Not certain if being in a relationship has a particular mode for that. But I'm positive that every couples surely have their own mode of relationship. Not that we ve to tell each...
    JonDanny JonDanny 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    After my last one ... I can not even bear the thought of falling in love As soon as someone lovely comes along or someone i could potentially be with my stomach aches from the...
    generationlover generationlover 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 3

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    I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 1 year and 2 months. We have a 1 month old together and I am no longer sure if I want to be with him anymore. It first hit me...
    UnicornHannah UnicornHannah 18-21, F Nov 7

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    I have a huge fear that I will end up alone and I really have no clue as how to get rid of it... I am in my twenties and got out of a really bad relationship about 4 years ago. My...
    mikimi mikimi 22-25, F Nov 11

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    There are many things in this life, the searing apocalyptic fantasy, I can no longer endure. I am no longer able to sustain their disgusting looks when I do something they find...
    sadsunset sadsunset 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I just love too much. I lose myself in the person until I no longer matter. Towards the end of my last relationship I realised that I could have me or I could have him but I couldn...
    TheGirlFromJupiter TheGirlFromJupiter 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 5

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    I've been married for 13 years. My wife has put on weight since our last child (he is 11). Because of her weight and fitness we can not make love successfully. It's been probably...
    crossvilledavis crossvilledavis 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 10

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    Hi, I'm chey (nickname) I am lonely. I have no one to love, kiss, talk all night to, or even hold hands with. I don't understand why no one likes me. I have a fun and crazy...
    cutemonkey cutemonkey 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    So I’ve been hanging out with my older cousins’ friend that they no longer hang out with and haven’t in years. They threatened violence if they caught us together because of...
    lizzy1127 lizzy1127 16-17, F Nov 4

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    Ever noticed when you/re single and you mention that you hate being single or that u want to be in a relationship/the people who say sh*t like "you will find someone, just be...
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 27

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    Why is being in love frowned upon? Why can't two people in love be something that is encouraged and celebrated? Before you go on and say how I should stop being a kid and that I...
    fernweh126 fernweh126 22-25, F Nov 1

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    Ok, so now when I start really pulling away. Really checking out of this relationship, really looking physically and mentally depressed as I have to keep up this act of wanting to...
    Galaxystar25 Galaxystar25 22-25, F Nov 11

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    I love the beginning stages of a relationship where you've just met someone, you don't know if they like you like that yet and so you get to flirt with them meanwhile until one of...
    EngulfingBreeze EngulfingBreeze 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    crisseth crisseth 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 29

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    Scarlett13 Scarlett13 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 5

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    brimc7 brimc7 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 9

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    Douglas2275 Douglas2275 18-21, M Nov 14

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    chickiebos chickiebos 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 23

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    I met my boyfriend 7 months ago. I'm live in asia and he lives in europe. You can imagine the differences and the hardships because of the distance. Moreover, I am four years older...
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