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I Will No Longer Pursue A Relationship

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    I Just Don't See The Point

    As Weezer said in their song 'Why Bother', "why bother, its gonna hurt me, its gonna kill when you desert me"....................... Whats the point of getting rejected and hurt time and time again?
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 22-25, M 6 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    Tired Of It

    I'm tired of the inevitable pain that accompanies any relationship i am involved with, its obviously me that is the problem not them because every single relationship i've ever had ended in pain. so no more! no more pain, no more relationships, no more dating. i will remain alone...
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick 46-50, M 18 Responses Dec 6, 2009

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    Chasing A Dream...

    What's the point of chasing somebody that doesn't want to stop and be in your presence? There is none. Here's a hot working class analogy- I want to be chased around the table and fall into their arms and lap.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 11, 2009

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    Definition

    Main Entry: asex·u·al Pronunciation: (ˌ)ā-ˈsek-sh(ə-)wəl, -shü-əl, -ˈsek-shəl Function: adjective Date: 1830 1 : lacking sex or functional sex organs <asexual plants> 2 a : involving or reproducing by reproductive processes (as cell division...
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick 46-50, M 5 Responses Dec 23, 2009

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