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I Will No Longer Pursue A Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 23 People

    Chasing A Dream...

    What's the point of chasing somebody that doesn't want to stop and be in your presence? There is none. Here's a hot working class analogy- I want to be chased around the table and fall into their arms and lap.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 11, 2009

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    I Just Don't See The Point

    As Weezer said in their song 'Why Bother', "why bother, its gonna hurt me, its gonna kill when you desert me"....................... Whats the point of getting rejected and hurt time and time again?
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 22-25, M 6 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    Definition

    Main Entry: asex·u·al Pronunciation: (ˌ)ā-ˈsek-sh(ə-)wəl, -shü-əl, -ˈsek-shəl Function: adjective Date: 1830 1 : lacking sex or functional sex organs <asexual plants> 2 a : involving or reproducing by reproductive processes (as cell division...
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick 46-50, M 5 Responses Dec 23, 2009

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    Tired Of It

    I'm tired of the inevitable pain that accompanies any relationship i am involved with, its obviously me that is the problem not them because every single relationship i've ever had ended in pain. so no more! no more pain, no more relationships, no more dating. i will remain alone...
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick 46-50, M 18 Responses Dec 6, 2009

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    I am a fairly introverted, creative, intelligent, independent, and empathetic young woman. I take pride on being all of those things. I love art and music, and express myself...
    zsigginz zsigginz 18-21, F Oct 29

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    I had a boyfriend, were dating for 3 years. Then our relationship is no longer working. After a week of our 3rd anniversary, he just broke up with me in the chat. He didn't...
    isahruth isahruth 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 18

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    I want to ask him if I he actually still cares, or is he just scared to be alone. I'm not sure anymore. Whenever something is wrong or there's an argument, he's quick to buy...
    SadZweibel SadZweibel 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 4

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    I've never been in a relationship longer than the one I'm in currently, which is not long compared to the many years others have had. For the year that we have been together, we've...
    ephemeralise ephemeralise 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 9

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    I am black, and my husband is white. We have 4 children. We have never had issues with our own families with our relationship, and we are very fortunate that way. However, my son...
    MomOfFour78 MomOfFour78 36-40, F 9 Responses Nov 17

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    Kitty and I are totally poly, but we just don't have time to pursue anything beyond each other :(
    jojokarel jojokarel 26-30, F Oct 30

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    Life is so short for me to find the love of my life. I have never been married and never ever thought to find a partner as I've been so caught up in living a hermit like life...
    kipross44 kipross44 46-50, M Nov 14

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    Hi there, I am in a relationship with a lovely man but I am a bit wary, here are the reasons: 1) he lives with his partner who has been telling him for a long time she no longer...
    delphinia46 delphinia46 46-50, F 4 Responses Nov 11

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    Not certain if being in a relationship has a particular mode for that. But I'm positive that every couples surely have their own mode of relationship. Not that we ve to tell each...
    JonDanny JonDanny 18-21, F Nov 19

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    After my last one ... I can not even bear the thought of falling in love As soon as someone lovely comes along or someone i could potentially be with my stomach aches from the...
    generationlover generationlover 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 3

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    I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 1 year and 2 months. We have a 1 month old together and I am no longer sure if I want to be with him anymore. It first hit me...
    UnicornHannah UnicornHannah 18-21, F Nov 7

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    I have a huge fear that I will end up alone and I really have no clue as how to get rid of it... I am in my twenties and got out of a really bad relationship about 4 years ago. My...
    mikimi mikimi 22-25, F Nov 11

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    There are many things in this life, the searing apocalyptic fantasy, I can no longer endure. I am no longer able to sustain their disgusting looks when I do something they find...
    sadsunset sadsunset 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I just love too much. I lose myself in the person until I no longer matter. Towards the end of my last relationship I realised that I could have me or I could have him but I couldn...
    TheGirlFromJupiter TheGirlFromJupiter 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 5

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    I've been married for 13 years. My wife has put on weight since our last child (he is 11). Because of her weight and fitness we can not make love successfully. It's been probably...
    crossvilledavis crossvilledavis 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 10

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    Hi, I'm chey (nickname) I am lonely. I have no one to love, kiss, talk all night to, or even hold hands with. I don't understand why no one likes me. I have a fun and crazy...
    cutemonkey cutemonkey 13-15, F Nov 17

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    So I’ve been hanging out with my older cousins’ friend that they no longer hang out with and haven’t in years. They threatened violence if they caught us together because of...
    lizzy1127 lizzy1127 16-17, F Nov 4

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    In a deep enough relationship it shouldn't have to be about "what is important to me..." it should be about what is important to us/them. True that by the time I'm talking about...
    zmedleff1 zmedleff1 41-45 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Why is being in love frowned upon? Why can't two people in love be something that is encouraged and celebrated? Before you go on and say how I should stop being a kid and that I...
    fernweh126 fernweh126 22-25, F Nov 1

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    Ok, so now when I start really pulling away. Really checking out of this relationship, really looking physically and mentally depressed as I have to keep up this act of wanting to...
    Galaxystar25 Galaxystar25 22-25, F Nov 11

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    I love the beginning stages of a relationship where you've just met someone, you don't know if they like you like that yet and so you get to flirt with them meanwhile until one of...
    EngulfingBreeze EngulfingBreeze 22-25, F a week ago

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    When we started our relationship, it never occurred to me that we will last this long. I even doubted we will make it a month but then we did, then second, third.... I started...
    crisseth crisseth 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 29

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    I find myself over thinking new relationships, contemplating on if we are taking it to fast, getting to close. On how I can nurture this new fragile relationship so it could...
    Scarlett13 Scarlett13 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 5

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    I really want a relationship, but I'm not desperate for one. I think kids my age rush into a relationship way too fast. Like we're still figuring out who we are, and being with...
    brimc7 brimc7 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 9

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    Two broken lives, become one whole: A story of two troubled people just looking for love. Brittaney: How we met I don't remember the first time we met, it must have been a random...
    Douglas2275 Douglas2275 18-21, M Nov 14

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    So this is new... Something that a lot of people probably don't hear a lot and to be fair, I don't know why it is either... But here it goes... I have been in 4 relationships so...
    sancarn sancarn 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    December 28th of this year will mark 3 years for me and my boyfriend/father of my daughter... It's been ALONG 3 years too. Our relationship as any started off perfect, we were in...
    trustgod0713 trustgod0713 22-25 Oct 29

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    We aren't in a relationship right now but that may change... We recently learned that my ex has adhd and was undiagnosed until today. This..explains... a LOT. I googled how...
    Terrain12 Terrain12 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 5

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    over the past yr my view on "forever" has changed. i dont think there is such a thing as "forever" or "happily ever after". i see all the time how unfaithful ppl are. its just a...
    PsychoBitch69 PsychoBitch69 31-35, F Nov 16

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    I was for seven months in relationship with my boyfriend but because I aborted our baby at 10 weeks, he has felt betrayed and that I do not commit to him anymore in his opinion...
    nanaddict78 nanaddict78 18-21, F Nov 5

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    I'm beginning to see the choices I have made throughout my life come full circle. I tried desperately to outrun them, and now, only later am I about to reap the consequences of my...
    breannajust breannajust 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 5

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    “Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.” ~Unknown There was a time when I was quite...
    MzPhoenix MzPhoenix 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 7

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    I hate them but I'm in one,I love that you can "be with" the on you love but not physically. I just hate that,at time you start to wonder, start to over thinks, confused and then...
    BeyondForever BeyondForever 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    It is amazing to me the way we all change our points of view with time, and then we wonder, "What took us so long to see the beauty of it all." When I was a younger man, I was...
    drlesmoore drlesmoore 56-60, M Nov 11

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    I guess it depends on your outlook and experience! I think there are certain things that are true of each 'age'. For example: in your late teens all through your twenties, you are...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Nov 17

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    I have completed 26 years of my life and I never had any relationship with anyone. Also, I have never been in any sexual relationship with anyone either. I am happy for myself as...
    Deepak2J Deepak2J 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 17

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    No longer allowing myself to be used. If you truly respect and appreciate me like you pretend to, I wouldn't have been just another on your list. I tried to show you that I was...
    SittingIdle SittingIdle 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 20

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    So my sadness with my complicated relationship is now gone. I went on the dating site where we met. I didn't find his profile but there was a search where u can enter their...
    moonstruckdelight moonstruckdelight 41-45, F 6 days ago

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    I'm really sorry for the big rant, but I'm feeling pretty panicked at the moment and I need advice. Two weeks ago, everything was perfect. I was happy, and whenever I thought...
    LittleClouds LittleClouds 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    These last few days I've been the happiest because my bf came down. He does very much come down when he can. (We don't drive) we are at the end of high school. Last year in...
    vaashapenin vaashapenin 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    Hello, I am a 21 year old girl who can proudly say that one year and 7 days ago I made the decisions to finally be strong and leave my abusive boyfriend. This is not the easiest...
    brittany122 brittany122 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 6

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    It is by far the most important thing... In my opinion you literally can even have a relationship without honesty and trust it Is the foundation on which you build everything on...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 11 Responses