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I Will No Longer Pursue A Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 23 People

    I Just Don't See The Point

    As Weezer said in their song 'Why Bother', "why bother, its gonna hurt me, its gonna kill when you desert me"....................... Whats the point of getting rejected and hurt time and time again?
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 22-25, M 6 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    Tired Of It

    I'm tired of the inevitable pain that accompanies any relationship i am involved with, its obviously me that is the problem not them because every single relationship i've ever had ended in pain. so no more! no more pain, no more relationships, no more dating. i will remain alone...
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick 46-50, M 18 Responses Dec 6, 2009

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    Definition

    Main Entry: asex·u·al Pronunciation: (ˌ)ā-ˈsek-sh(ə-)wəl, -shü-əl, -ˈsek-shəl Function: adjective Date: 1830 1 : lacking sex or functional sex organs <asexual plants> 2 a : involving or reproducing by reproductive processes (as cell division...
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick 46-50, M 5 Responses Dec 23, 2009

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    Chasing A Dream...

    What's the point of chasing somebody that doesn't want to stop and be in your presence? There is none. Here's a hot working class analogy- I want to be chased around the table and fall into their arms and lap.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 11, 2009

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    I'm tired once again. I'm finding I am better off by myself. I hate this merry go round relationships send you in. I can guarantee one thing now days, relationships will end. There...
    ptsdlady ptsdlady 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 26

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    I think maybe this might be the answer I am truly looking for in my relationship. I know I have interest in other men and my BF has interest in other women and I am tired of...
    herathena herathena 31-35, F 4 hrs ago

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    This is for all the lady's out there. Boys can comment too if want......my boyfriend works with his ex girlfriend but they don't say a lot to each other but he as emailed her...
    Shellster69 Shellster69 31-35, F 5 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    guys if you like a woman pursue her. It will get you points
    bgirl24 bgirl24 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    ag00dwife ag00dwife 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 25

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    Conversations is important in a relationship... After the passion faded away, you just want to be with someone that can connect with you emotionally and that is usually...
    mayayayaya mayayayaya 31-35, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    lonestallion153 lonestallion153 31-35, M 1 day ago

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    aurismith aurismith 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 19

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    WandererJay WandererJay 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    TheNewOldMe TheNewOldMe 36-40, F Apr 21

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    my dream job is to open my own clinic but my ultimate dream job is to run my own clinical center that specialise in mental health prevention for adolescents n young adults free of...
    candles700 candles700 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    Skeptical is putting it mildly. I'm not sure that I trust them at all anymore... Not just the dating aspect either but even the platonic ones. Every relationship I've ever had has...
    NihilSineNefas NihilSineNefas 22-25, M Apr 16

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    Love isn't about the way someone looks. It's about the way they are. True love that is. There's a connection that you feel. It's a chemistry. It's a chemistry of a part of us...
    DeIuxedEdition DeIuxedEdition 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 20

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    Not really on that "relationship" level yet, but I (25) have been dating an older woman (40) I met at a concert. We found out later that a guy who bought a round for the table had...
    Johnny7909 Johnny7909 22-25, M Apr 17

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    I've been out for a month and a half. I got through feeling confused and heartbroken after the first break up with him. I was naive enough to think the second time would be any...
    merrywings merrywings 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 20

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    I have recently taken a break from my boyfriend. The fight we had days ago, still makes me feel numb; we haven't talked since. And here I am, looking at my phone, wondering if we...
    Realitymeetsbliss Realitymeetsbliss 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 21

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    neverendingfairytale neverendingfairytale 18-21, F Apr 23

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    destinyandlife destinyandlife 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    MistressPasaya MistressPasaya 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    I have been in relationship for the past 6 months. I am 24 and my bf is 36 years old. Despite the 12 year age gap we have a lot in common. I was really apprehensive to date him at...
    amoamao amoamao 22-25 3 Responses Apr 8

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    It has been quite the journey throughout my life. I have always kept my mind opened to the idea that someday I will meet the girl that will truly make me happy. there have been a...
    Angeldark87 Angeldark87 26-30, M 15 hrs ago

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    marcdavid20 marcdavid20 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 5

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    musiclive8 musiclive8 46-50, M 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    After going to a conference about gender violence and prostitution, i realized that my ex was trying to pimp me out. text book boyfriend pimp. He belittled me, tried to control me...
    modestmuslimah modestmuslimah 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I know i'm kina young, but I fear that I will never get a boyfriend or be loved. I mean I have been in relationships and all but they have been pathetic middle school relationships...
    alice4114 alice4114 16-17, F Apr 25

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    daydreamer27 daydreamer27 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 26

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