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I Will No Longer Pursue A Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 24 People

    Tired Of It

    I'm tired of the inevitable pain that accompanies any relationship i am involved with, its obviously me that is the problem not them because every single relationship i've ever had ended in pain. so no more! no more pain, no more relationships, no more dating. i will remain alone...
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick 46-50, M 18 Responses Dec 6, 2009

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    Definition

    Main Entry: asex·u·al Pronunciation: (ˌ)ā-ˈsek-sh(ə-)wəl, -shü-əl, -ˈsek-shəl Function: adjective Date: 1830 1 : lacking sex or functional sex organs <asexual plants> 2 a : involving or reproducing by reproductive processes (as cell division...
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick 46-50, M 5 Responses Dec 23, 2009

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    Chasing A Dream...

    What's the point of chasing somebody that doesn't want to stop and be in your presence? There is none. Here's a hot working class analogy- I want to be chased around the table and fall into their arms and lap.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 6 Responses Dec 11, 2009

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    I Just Don't See The Point

    As Weezer said in their song 'Why Bother', "why bother, its gonna hurt me, its gonna kill when you desert me"....................... Whats the point of getting rejected and hurt time and time again?
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 26-30, M 6 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    I had a relationship with someone almost 20 years older than me. And even if it didn't end well, i wouldn't mind being with someone much older than me again.
    northernwoman83 northernwoman83 31-35 6 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Let's go people, ask me some questions! I'm stuck at work and need some entertainment! Fire away I make them good! I will answer anything! I am not shy!
    grasshopper3 grasshopper3 31-35, M 2 hrs ago

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    "How is he? I miss him." After 2 weeks away, he has finally decided to ask about his son. After two weeks...I was already doubting if he ever loved his son at all. And now those...
    majesticsea majesticsea 26-30, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Hanging around a fat girl like me, the pounds will start to creep up on you. I'll make sure it happens too!
    AmandaBanks AmandaBanks 31-35, F 4 hrs ago

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    I have finished up with therapy sessions for now, which is good. For a while I was seeing a psychologist for anxiety and seeing her helped me a lot. She taught me a lot about...
    Sapphire14 Sapphire14 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    To you... I don't know if you'll see this but I wanted to say it anyway. Thank you for last year, thank you for making me feel like I was worth something to someone, thank you for...
    Jenezebel Jenezebel 26-30, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    It's difficult to leave the person behind, especially when you care for them. But if the relationship is toxic, it needs to be done. I'm having a hard time with this.
    Salamander2 Salamander2 22-25, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I'm in an interracial relationship - I'm white and my girlfriend is Latina. It's kinda funny because I grew up in a highly majority-white town, and I never really thought about...
    Tezh Tezh 22-25, M 4 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Here's to you. There is nothing harder than being miles from the one person you wish you were an arms reach from. There's nothing harder than squeezing your pillow when you want...
    MissQueenB MissQueenB 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    This is most likely my final and last post on EP. My body burns and aches because all the pain I'm holding in. I feel like if i don't let it out somewhere, I'm going to crumble...
    Krchan2 Krchan2 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I've made the mistake twice now going into a relationship and they are from a different country, and we're not born in the UK like me. Both I found on pof a dating website. I am a...
    AliChan25 AliChan25 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    Recently, one of the women that I used to date made false accusations towards me and tried to “bait” me to engage in an argument. To be honest, I was reckless with the way I...
    mikeeshoe mikeeshoe 36-40, M 4 days ago

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    Yesterday the team went out of town for a meeting and an ocular inspection of a provincial branch. After which, the branch operator brought us to a nearby bar, we wanted to go home...
    prettierinpink prettierinpink 36-40, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    After being diagnosed with bi-polar disorder, my life has been slowly getting worse. My manic episodes are a mix between psychopathy and sociopathy, I become extremely sadistic, I...
    darkshadow556 darkshadow556 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    here is my experience: I was in relationship with a person with NPD, fortunately i realized that he was a narcist in an early phase of oir relationship, when I was trying to break...
    nataliawww nataliawww 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    No matter how far apart we are, no matter where life takes us, or how long we have to be apart. My love will NEVER waiver, NEVER falter, NEVER lessen. I WILL be with you. I WILL...
    HerTrueKing HerTrueKing 22-25, M a week ago

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    I would rather know a person from the inside out. I believe that understanding the person deeply can result to longer lasting relationships. Long distance relationships may help...
    orangeattic orangeattic 36-40, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Chains and Change Our relationship is a chain. It's a series of links, each one separate and unique, but joined together for a common cause. Every link of that chain is formed in...
    Ourjourneyoftrust Ourjourneyoftrust 70+ 1 Response Feb 5

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    I mean I would love to be in a relationship. I want to know what it's like to be in a relationship. But for as long as I can remember, I was one to never be able to keep a long...
    MrIppikodoku MrIppikodoku 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 4

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    So I'm a 19th old queer person and I've been dating this lovely Transgirl for a little over a year. I met her in community college and she's just perfect, you know? The terrible...
    brittaE brittaE 18-21 Feb 2

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    so...this is what I thought back before I met my boyfriend, it was strange I never thought he would want to do that, he told me he loved me and called me beautiful but after we...
    PoetryApocolypse PoetryApocolypse 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 2

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    SO, Ive met this amazing girl, we used to work with each other and at first i didn't even know she was into girls until she finally told me how she felt about me. I no longer work...
    Pals2424 Pals2424 18-21, F Feb 1

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    It hurts mostly everyday I still get emotional I can still picture everything that happened I can still feel her hands banging against my head. How the first month's it was just...
    Introvertedchild18 Introvertedchild18 18-21 2 Responses Feb 1

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    continuation… She was unhappy with the relationship that they have with her boyfriend, I told her that I will not let her love me more than him, what I just want is let me love...
    stunnedprincess stunnedprincess 22-25, F Feb 1

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    i was 28 at the time and he was 48. We dated roughly 9 months... May have been longer if it weren't for unforseen circumstances.
    shecanonlydream shecanonlydream 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 31

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    I think the longer a misunderstanding is left unresolved, the greater the distance grows. Eventually two people who couldn't go a day without talking will soon become strangers who...
    ExquisiteMind ExquisiteMind 70+, F 5 Responses Jan 31

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    I want to be in a real relationship, and when I say real, I mean a relationship where I can be COMPLETELY honest with the person, not a hide a single thing from him; about my past...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 30

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    I'm really scared of relationships, but I'm desperate for one. Just to feel that love and have someone to focus on. I hope one day it can happen, if I were religious I'd pray for...
    AlphaGoat AlphaGoat 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 29

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    Here's how to spot it!1. You feel on-edge around this person, but you still want them to like you. You find yourself writing off most of their questionable behavior as accidental...
    Grace2U Grace2U 66-70, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    Where does a person start to describe a narcissist? I had a gal friend for over forty years start to change in her personality. Ever time we went out together she started saying...
    Haunted5 Haunted5 61-65, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    Past few months i broke up with my fiancee all that white dress dream vanished , he changed on me he was verbally abusing me , call me fat * which I'm not * , ... Etc ,. Until i...
    rooodii rooodii 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 27

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    I've never really talked about it except to people I'm closest to, so here goes nothin. When we started dating he treated me like I was precious and gave me attention i had never...
    SnowWhite87 SnowWhite87 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 27

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    I just had a dream where I met someone beautiful, intelligent and awesome. We got on so well, probably because they were a reflection of me. I love these kind of dreams because it...
    sancarn sancarn 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 27

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    yes I do believe ldr can work. only if both partners in the relationship are willing to make an effort. when the connection between you and your partner is so strong distance doesn...
    verronicat verronicat 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 27

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    Today, I had another conversation with my mom. Yes, I love her. Yes, she was there and saw (all of the abuse of me and my siblings.) Hard for her. She spends her days trying to...
    frspch frspch 51-55, F 6 Responses Jan 25

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    I am writing here because i dont know how other way to vent. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I am living at his house because i was kicked out of mine. I have been here...
    neonslug neonslug 18-21, F Jan 25

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