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I Will Not Accept Random Friend Requests

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    I've been doing this for quite some time, accepting a friend request then delete them after no interaction at all, I don't add friend collectors either. I'm keeping a small circle.
    OoLunaoO OoLunaoO 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 4, 2012

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    Although I'm a very friendly person,

    unless I've interacted with someone and I feel like we share things in common, I generally do not accept random friend requests. In fact, for the most part, I don't even check to see who's sent me a request. My friend request button just remains lit up.
    lagatta lagatta 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    Men let me make one thing clear I am not here

    looking for an affair partner ,So stay away from me if you want one.
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 2

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