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I Will Not Accept Random Friend Requests

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 30 People

    I learned early on, here on EP,

    to check two things. 1. The profile of the requester How many friends do they have And what Stories, if any, do they have posted. 2. Did they actually take the time to message me first, speak with me, or did they just click on my name due to my own experiences? So, if your...
    Quesaw Quesaw 41-45, F 1 Response May 18

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    Men let me make one thing clear I am not here

    looking for an affair partner ,So stay away from me if you want one.
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2014

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    Not At The Moment

    I've been doing this for quite some time, accepting a friend request then delete them after no interaction at all, I don't add friend collectors either. I'm keeping a small circle.
    OoLunaoO OoLunaoO 26-30 1 Response Sep 4, 2012

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    Although I'm a very friendly person,

    unless I've interacted with someone and I feel like we share things in common, I generally do not accept random friend requests. In fact, for the most part, I don't even check to see who's sent me a request. My friend request button just remains lit up.
    lagatta lagatta 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    I want a friend who's a girl that would remind my friend for the next 10 years.... That mean no trying to f**** my man Or disrespect me In anyway, I would do the same as her. My...
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    Honestly I have lost my best friend. She's disrespectful... She tries to make me jealous my calling other people her best friend that she hates. I mean if I really was her best...
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    Not often. And not five years from now. But me does wonder who will stay.
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    Here is my idea of a best friend. Someone you can tell everything to and will not judge you. Someone who will accept you with all of your flaws. Someone you can be your true self...
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