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I Will Not Change For a Man

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    No Man Is Worth Lossing My Voice In This World

    I was once madly in love with a this guy,  (empahsis on the word madly!)  He was the kind of guy, who wanted to live the atypical America dream, nice home, nice car, travel, kids, and a sweet, complient wifey.  Don't get me wrong, I can be very sweet...when I want to be...
    JustBernieGirl JustBernieGirl 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 22, 2011

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    Real Men Love Real Women...

    When I meet one, he'll adore me, even when I mess something up. You know that will be true, because we'll both know that nothing is perfect. I am an intelligent, open and loving, free spirit. Why would a man want me to change if they truly loved me? I'll take them as they...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 25, 2009

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    Why?

    I truly will compromise for a man however will not compromise who I am.  The reason being that I have in the past when younger and filled with self doubt and need.  I became a character based on what I believed would be attractive to a man and found out that I lost...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 13, 2008

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    Respect

    I remain true to myself.  What other choice is there?  I am who I am regardless of any relationship with a man. However, I cannot be aloof or separate.  It's inevitable that I blend and mould myself around a lover.  That's how I gel and how I love.  I don't change for a man...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 19 Responses Mar 2, 2011

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    I will do a whole hell of a lot

    for someone. But this is one thing that I will not do. You can either like me or dont like me. I couldnt care any less what you choose as long as the lines of respect are there.
    SylenaEverlasting SylenaEverlasting 18-21, F Mar 8

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    I Will Not Change For A Man

    I'm me. I have faults. You either accept my faults or you can leave me. Of course I don't have a boyfriend yet. I'm not looking for one either. I'm focus on work, school. So there Mother
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 2, 2011

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    Take Me As I Am

    I'm loud, outgoing,talkitive, quirky, and most definitely a pain in the butt. But that's ME, and If a guy wants me to change that part of me, who's to say he won't want me to change even more of me? In that case..he does like me, just not me, he likes the appearance of me but not...
    Nutmeg2790 Nutmeg2790 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 16, 2009

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    Myself Is Perfect For Me

    I will not change for a man. I am who i am, i will never change. I am perfectly happy with who i have become. I shouldnt have to change myself to make a man love me.
    SadEyedAngel126 SadEyedAngel126 18-21, F 5 Responses May 28, 2011

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    Don't Get Me Wrong

    I love men...love just about everything about a man,  even how he thinks sometime..but nothing ****** me off more than when a woman loses her soul to a man..who becomes someone she isnt'...if a man can't take me for my flaws and imperfections, for the good and bad, I don't want...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 13 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    Love Me For Me

    I will never change for anyone, I'm happy with the person I am, and if you can't love me for who I am and you want to change me I don't think that's love. I don't see why people want to change the person that's the person you fell inlove with isn't it? Loving someone is only true...
    Friendlybabe Friendlybabe 31-35, F 1 Response May 23, 2008

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    I've Learnt My Lesson

    So an ex came into my life recently and wanted to get back together. And I'm grateful he did. I remember once after one of my breakups a married friend (a wonderful guy who truly adores his wife - he is the dream we aim for) told me that I should see these guys in lessons on...
    annathom annathom 26-30, F 2 Responses May 22, 2008

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    I Will Not Change For A Man

    I'm me. I have faults. You either accept my faults or you can leave me. Of course I don't have a boyfriend yet. I'm not looking for  one   either. I'm focus on work, school.So thereI will  be alone forever because I'm attracted to loser guys. Frankly I'm sick and tired of it...
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 16, 2011

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    Accept Me For Who I am

    I'm not going to change so either accept me or **** off. The days of trying to change to please a man just to get love and affection are over.
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 14, 2011

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    Never

    If a man won't like me for me, he isn't worth my time of day! I will never change to satisfy a mans standards! 
    ascs ascs 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 11, 2009

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    I Ve Changed For A Man And Wont Do It Again

    I wont do it again never love me for me take me as i am i wont change for anyone iam going to be true to me
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2009

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    I wonder what would you WANT to change, if you would go back.
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    Friday. Changed interior light. Ate. Drank. Smoked. Redirected self. Survived symptoms. Survived boredom. Asked for help. Planned to help. Did budget...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 26

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    Told family i love them Forgave Prayed Cooked a good meal Cleaned Walked several blocks Took pic of our sugar maple Dealt with a procrastinated problem Cleaned Rolled with the...
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    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 7 hrs ago

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    Sunday. Ate well. Survived symptoms and causes. Made some new ep chats. Had fun driving for treats and a need. Found some funny ep posts. Went over my advice...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Tuesday. Drove. Took my own advice when ill. Soda. Sauce for flavored meals. Survived symptoms.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Sep 23

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    Monday. Victory list. Havent erased me. Or others. Am free. Got pals. Got overpriced smartphone. Got ep. Got trailer. Hunting gold with mentor...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Sep 29

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    WindSylph WindSylph 46-50, F 2 Responses Oct 9

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    Tuesday. Survived a fall. Survived a summer. Got over a year here. Told mentor more about me which Didnt wreck mentoring much. Got shopping done. Used two real...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    Real friends trust you and will never leave
    mjtinker mjtinker 13-15, F Sep 28

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    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M Oct 2

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    Isn't there a song like this a love song I will fight or something like that
    mrloweco mrloweco 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I don't know who you are, where you'll be from,or what you'll do, but one day I will find you and marry you
    Dani3lJD Dani3lJD 13-15, M 19 hrs ago

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    But I love everyone so I'll fight for you all :) my standard approach is from the usual direction..
    Drwho1963 Drwho1963 51-55, M 3 days ago

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    This is for you my life, my Federico. Every single moment I want to feel like the universe isn't about to crush me and my heart isn't about to explode. I would kiss...
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Saturday. Freedom. Food. Trailer. Clothes. Mobility truck. Mobility body. Senses. Brain. The good part. Compassion. Won. Pals. All of them.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Sep 21

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    Every type of interacting with living things that a broke miner has in america.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Sep 22

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    Typical survival of disabled in america.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Sep 22

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    Wednessday. Root beer. Cookies. Driving. Eye candy. Chicken. Limited sadness. Limited rage. Limited cramps. Limited negatives. Good future plans.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Sep 24

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    Thursday. Salami. Tea. Tater chips. Juice. Driving. Recycling. Shopping. Distraction. Walking. Talking. Perving. Smartphone. Credit card...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Sep 25

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    Saturday. Drove. Got fed. Worked. Did well. Tolerated grumpy mentor. Got rewarded. Got body works. Impaired but works. Got shelter. Got clothes. Got...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Sep 27

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    Sunday. Awesome list. Caring. Helpful. Devoted Thoughtful. Guiding. Defensive. Supportive. Educational. Amusing. Flattering. Truthful...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Sep 28

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    Tuesday. Survived lows. Enjoyed highs. Aint erased nobody yet.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 30

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    Wednessday. A repeat of tuesday. Plus one ep member helped.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Oct 1

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    Thursday. Pizza. Drywashing dirt. Tea. Smokes by marlboro. Eye candy. Laughs. Compliment on shave. Less than a day to disability pay. Survived symptoms.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 2

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    Friday. Got pay. Got motel gift. Got sub from subway. Got truck weighed. Got motel shower. Got motel cable. Got pizza. Got barqs root beer. Bought book...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Oct 4

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    Saturday. Carls jr. Gasoline. No ticket. Truck still runs. Still got pals. Still got freedom. Got food. Got shelter. Got clothing. Am almost healthy.