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I Will Not Change For a Man

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    Myself Is Perfect For Me

    I will not change for a man. I am who i am, i will never change. I am perfectly happy with who i have become. I shouldnt have to change myself to make a man love me.
    SadEyedAngel126 SadEyedAngel126 18-21, F 5 Responses May 28, 2011

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    Take Me As I Am

    I'm loud, outgoing,talkitive, quirky, and most definitely a pain in the butt. But that's ME, and If a guy wants me to change that part of me, who's to say he won't want me to change even more of me? In that case..he does like me, just not me, he likes the appearance of me but not...
    Nutmeg2790 Nutmeg2790 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 16, 2009

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    I Will Not Change For A Man

    I'm me. I have faults. You either accept my faults or you can leave me. Of course I don't have a boyfriend yet. I'm not looking for one either. I'm focus on work, school. So there Mother
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 2, 2011

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    I Ve Changed For A Man And Wont Do It Again

    I wont do it again never love me for me take me as i am i wont change for anyone iam going to be true to me
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2009

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    Never

    If a man won't like me for me, he isn't worth my time of day! I will never change to satisfy a mans standards! 
    ascs ascs 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 11, 2009

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    I Will Not Change For A Man

    I'm me. I have faults. You either accept my faults or you can leave me. Of course I don't have a boyfriend yet. I'm not looking for  one   either. I'm focus on work, school.So thereI will  be alone forever because I'm attracted to loser guys. Frankly I'm sick and tired of it...
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 16, 2011

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    Accept Me For Who I am

    I'm not going to change so either accept me or **** off. The days of trying to change to please a man just to get love and affection are over.
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 14, 2011

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    Love Me For Me

    I will never change for anyone, I'm happy with the person I am, and if you can't love me for who I am and you want to change me I don't think that's love. I don't see why people want to change the person that's the person you fell inlove with isn't it? Loving someone is only true...
    Friendlybabe Friendlybabe 31-35, F 1 Response May 23, 2008

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    I've Learnt My Lesson

    So an ex came into my life recently and wanted to get back together. And I'm grateful he did. I remember once after one of my breakups a married friend (a wonderful guy who truly adores his wife - he is the dream we aim for) told me that I should see these guys in lessons on...
    annathom annathom 26-30, F 2 Responses May 22, 2008

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    I will do a whole hell of a lot

    for someone. But this is one thing that I will not do. You can either like me or dont like me. I couldnt care any less what you choose as long as the lines of respect are there.
    SylenaEverlasting SylenaEverlasting 16-17, F Mar 8, 2014

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    Why?

    I truly will compromise for a man however will not compromise who I am.  The reason being that I have in the past when younger and filled with self doubt and need.  I became a character based on what I believed would be attractive to a man and found out that I lost...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 13, 2008

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    Respect

    I remain true to myself.  What other choice is there?  I am who I am regardless of any relationship with a man. However, I cannot be aloof or separate.  It's inevitable that I blend and mould myself around a lover.  That's how I gel and how I love.  I don't change for a man...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 19 Responses Mar 2, 2011

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    Real Men Love Real Women...

    When I meet one, he'll adore me, even when I mess something up. You know that will be true, because we'll both know that nothing is perfect. I am an intelligent, open and loving, free spirit. Why would a man want me to change if they truly loved me? I'll take them as they...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 25, 2009

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    No Man Is Worth Lossing My Voice In This World

    I was once madly in love with a this guy,  (empahsis on the word madly!)  He was the kind of guy, who wanted to live the atypical America dream, nice home, nice car, travel, kids, and a sweet, complient wifey.  Don't get me wrong, I can be very sweet...when I want to be...
    JustBernieGirl JustBernieGirl 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 22, 2011

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    Don't Get Me Wrong

    I love men...love just about everything about a man,  even how he thinks sometime..but nothing ****** me off more than when a woman loses her soul to a man..who becomes someone she isnt'...if a man can't take me for my flaws and imperfections, for the good and bad, I don't want...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 13 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    A giver and a nurturer. I always end up with guys who take advantage of me. I'm just looking for a guy who will appreciate me and make me a priority in his life instead of...
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    I didn't want it to be true. I didn't want to fall out of love with my ex. He is one of the funniest, sweetest men I've ever met. He promised me the world, marriage, a place to...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Mirages Mirages 41-45, F 8 Responses 2 days ago

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    Wow. Sad enough to quit this But back today. Walking. Talking. Loving. Thinking. Lusting. Caring. Defensive. Disgusted. Hungry. Horny. Amused. Bipolar...
    Converted Converted 46-50, M 3 days ago

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    I think it's time. Along the path of life, there are many forks and side paths, and every once and a while you can see one of them coming. My life will be changing, again, in the...
    bcvegas4u2 bcvegas4u2 66-70, M 3 days ago

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    I am exhausted at all the people who settle into a life and are not happy saying they give up and will never be happy. Only YOU are in control of your life! It is the decisions YOU...
    wesleyjones wesleyjones 31-35, M 3 days ago

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    Someday, you will forget my name, my voice, my laugh and who I am to you. But even if you forget everything about me, just want you to know that I will never forget how much you...
    redDya91 redDya91 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    my plan is to become more modest. more cultural. stress free. I want to find my inner self and spend more time sorting my life out and planning for the future. I'm going to look...
    candlejack21 candlejack21 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    (Weird yeah I'm writing this in the shower, it's where I do deep thinking) 15 is the epicenter of change for me 14 I experienced so much Long term relationship Abuse Dark very...
    LeahLoveee LeahLoveee 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    HsJ3 HsJ3 31-35, M a week ago

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    Elandra77 Elandra77 56-60 1 Response Jun 25

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    She moves gracefully toward the ocean. The cooling moisture in the air awakens her senses. The warm sand under her feet massages her step by step. She moves gracefully into the...
    Treasure7 Treasure7 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 25

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    I will never forgot the day I kissed a boy in 4th grade... or the time I got kicked out the house.. or my first time meeting my nieces and nephews... or the day I met Danielle
    missdramaqueen missdramaqueen 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    She sits on the floor right next to the balcony door she is thinking, twirls her hair as the breeze blows across her body. She is unsure. She doesn't want anyone to give her...
    Treasure7 Treasure7 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    She was almost complete, willing to open the door but the disappointment challenged her thoughts so she decided it was best to close the door for the meantime.
    Treasure7 Treasure7 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    i try to count my blessings and not complain..because i know theres people that have it a lot worse. but i really just feel like..MY LIFE SUCKS! i go to a stressful job everyday...
    welcome2myworld welcome2myworld 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 24

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    Have extremely high standards but I don't think I m that good to keep the type of man I want. That's not low self confidence - more like high self awareness
    thousandcuts thousandcuts 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 24

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    We met online and many, many times since in person. He's the most loving, kind, darling man I've ever met in my life. He calls me his wife and we can't wait to make that real and...
    Snuggzz412 Snuggzz412 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    Being yourself is awesome, and I'm proud to be a femmelesbian. i don't care what people say. #beyourself #beproud
    loverNikz loverNikz 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    That day is today and I think it has been the best day of my life. I spent it with my girlfriend the entire day in the city and at night it was incredible. The sky was perfect she...
    8Alex8 8Alex8 13-15, M Jun 21

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    You know what they say, forgiveness doesn't mean that you are giving a free pass to the people who hurt you. Rather, we forgive people because we deserve to be free from the pain...
    Alyyeska Alyyeska 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 21