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I Will Not Change For a Man

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    Don't Get Me Wrong

    I love men...love just about everything about a man,  even how he thinks sometime..but nothing ****** me off more than when a woman loses her soul to a man..who becomes someone she isnt'...if a man can't take me for my flaws and imperfections, for the good and bad, I don't want...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 13 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    I Will Not Change For A Man

    I'm me. I have faults. You either accept my faults or you can leave me. Of course I don't have a boyfriend yet. I'm not looking for one either. I'm focus on work, school. So there Mother
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 2, 2011

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    Accept Me For Who I am

    I'm not going to change so either accept me or **** off. The days of trying to change to please a man just to get love and affection are over.
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 14, 2011

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    Take Me As I Am

    I'm loud, outgoing,talkitive, quirky, and most definitely a pain in the butt. But that's ME, and If a guy wants me to change that part of me, who's to say he won't want me to change even more of me? In that case..he does like me, just not me, he likes the appearance of me but not...
    Nutmeg2790 Nutmeg2790 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 16, 2009

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    I Ve Changed For A Man And Wont Do It Again

    I wont do it again never love me for me take me as i am i wont change for anyone iam going to be true to me
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2009

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    I will do a whole hell of a lot

    for someone. But this is one thing that I will not do. You can either like me or dont like me. I couldnt care any less what you choose as long as the lines of respect are there.
    SylenaEverlasting SylenaEverlasting 16-17, F Mar 8, 2014

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    I Will Not Change For A Man

    I'm me. I have faults. You either accept my faults or you can leave me. Of course I don't have a boyfriend yet. I'm not looking for  one   either. I'm focus on work, school.So thereI will  be alone forever because I'm attracted to loser guys. Frankly I'm sick and tired of it...
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 16, 2011

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    Myself Is Perfect For Me

    I will not change for a man. I am who i am, i will never change. I am perfectly happy with who i have become. I shouldnt have to change myself to make a man love me.
    SadEyedAngel126 SadEyedAngel126 18-21, F 5 Responses May 28, 2011

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    No Man Is Worth Lossing My Voice In This World

    I was once madly in love with a this guy,  (empahsis on the word madly!)  He was the kind of guy, who wanted to live the atypical America dream, nice home, nice car, travel, kids, and a sweet, complient wifey.  Don't get me wrong, I can be very sweet...when I want to be...
    JustBernieGirl JustBernieGirl 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 22, 2011

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    Love Me For Me

    I will never change for anyone, I'm happy with the person I am, and if you can't love me for who I am and you want to change me I don't think that's love. I don't see why people want to change the person that's the person you fell inlove with isn't it? Loving someone is only true...
    Friendlybabe Friendlybabe 31-35, F 1 Response May 23, 2008

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    Why?

    I truly will compromise for a man however will not compromise who I am.  The reason being that I have in the past when younger and filled with self doubt and need.  I became a character based on what I believed would be attractive to a man and found out that I lost...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 13, 2008

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    Never

    If a man won't like me for me, he isn't worth my time of day! I will never change to satisfy a mans standards! 
    ascs ascs 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 11, 2009

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    Real Men Love Real Women...

    When I meet one, he'll adore me, even when I mess something up. You know that will be true, because we'll both know that nothing is perfect. I am an intelligent, open and loving, free spirit. Why would a man want me to change if they truly loved me? I'll take them as they...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 25, 2009

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    Respect

    I remain true to myself.  What other choice is there?  I am who I am regardless of any relationship with a man. However, I cannot be aloof or separate.  It's inevitable that I blend and mould myself around a lover.  That's how I gel and how I love.  I don't change for a man...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 19 Responses Mar 2, 2011

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    I've Learnt My Lesson

    So an ex came into my life recently and wanted to get back together. And I'm grateful he did. I remember once after one of my breakups a married friend (a wonderful guy who truly adores his wife - he is the dream we aim for) told me that I should see these guys in lessons on...
    annathom annathom 26-30, F 2 Responses May 22, 2008

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    If you **** me off, I will always remember what you said and did, seriously, I'm still pissed at my dog for something he did 6 yrs ago
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    i will never change my self for someone. i will change if i see something wrong in me. i dont want you to tell me, you just accept me or reject me.
    mkdpk mkdpk 41-45, M 3 days ago

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    We've established that through enough of my postings so there's nothing more to say on the subject.
    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M 3 days ago

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    Well, if u read my previous history, you'll see what I mean. My mom passed a week ago..she refused to see me and died without ever seeing me, her first born again. Then there was a...
    luv4mygirls luv4mygirls 36-40, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    met him on line 3yrs ago just hook up sex only time putast I was feeling it was time maybe to end it move on he was having family probs home .so my thoughts got put aside he said...
    lemonsorbet51 lemonsorbet51 46-50, F 4 days ago

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    I am not competitive. I am a peer. I believe people can be friends with whoever they want to be friends with. I won't make them choose between me and so-and-so. I won't tell them...
    loveismyfriend loveismyfriend 36-40, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    To within an inch of his life. I can't stand chumps who beat up on women your the scum of the earth.. I will protect the woman in my heart with my life.
    itsintheeyes1 itsintheeyes1 26-30, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I am with the love of my life. In 2002 we were good friends, then dated each other for a while, fell in love, only for us to get into a huge argument, part and go our separate...
    MartiniMagic MartiniMagic 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    But it seems like expecting something that will never happen to me.
    Ravenbe Ravenbe 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    I'm so stubborn I won't even change for me.
    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M Feb 3

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    for me not for anyone else just me and quite frankly if you can accept me for who I am then you don't need to be in my life because I have set goals and I know what's best for me...
    cieloissky cieloissky 16-17, F Feb 2

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    We are who we are, sometimes it's just best to embrace that.
    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M Feb 1

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    I've finally reached that point in life where I'm through explaining myself to anyone.
    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 1

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    And I don't expect you to change for me.
    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M Jan 31

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    So, what happened was that I was at my high school and I saw a friend and she wave me and I wave her back, but behind her was my crush so, idk something happened that make my...
    lucy1010 lucy1010 16-17, F Jan 30

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    Our time of existence is feeble, but not because time is, but because our (individual) life is, there's no certainty, that's dealing with life: dealing with uncertainty, because...
    oneiric13 oneiric13 26-30, M Jan 29

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    I know one has already. It didn't work out but I'm thankful that it happened and I wait with increasing impatience to find the next person who will be that great change for me.
    Steelquill Steelquill 22-25, M Jan 28

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    It's the hardest thing to live with a person with Paranoid personality disorder. The nights when you think all is okay and suddenly you are rudely awakened with vicious accusations...
    Witsend21 Witsend21 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    It seems we are too easily distracted. We are all to ready to pounce on the first red herring waved in front of our noses. We talk about race when the real issue is class. There...
    Radrat Radrat 66-70, M 1 Response Jan 28

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    *I WILL NEVER FORGET YOU*Remember when I was young and so were youand time stood still and love was all we knewYou were the first, so was IWe made love and then you criedRemember...
    NyxInvictus NyxInvictus 41-45 1 Response Jan 27

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    I am a father of not one daughter but 2 daughters and a son. When I first found EP, I was researching a topic for a book that I was writing. The topic was loosely based on my...
    Fatherofthedaughter Fatherofthedaughter 51-55, M 9 Responses Jan 27

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    Indeed Failed Relations , Change a Person. .. We get to know our selves more , A person can change for Good or bad We learn something about ourselves, We Grow as a Person...
    Amnik Amnik 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    All these years i let myself haunted by my own insecurities, i let myself absorbed all the negativities i don't even deserve. I settled for less, fear change. Avoiding anything...
    blitzkrieg7 blitzkrieg7 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    We live, we learn and hopefully we grow. As for me personally, I know that I have experienced tremendous growth in the past 2+ years that I've been on EP alone. And change? Yes...
    Reflectionsinred Reflectionsinred 46-50, F 5 Responses Jan 25

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    I go online and I see SO MANY questions about relationships such as "does a girl's weight matter to be attractive?", "how to get someone to like you back?" or "what do guys find...
    SkyouInSpace SkyouInSpace 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    Apparently some people have had an issue with the fact that I post off-color comments on friends stories. Yes, I like to flirt and tease, I don't get graphic though. Some people...
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F