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I Will Not Change For a Man

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    If a man won't like me for me, he isn't worth my time of day! I will never change to satisfy a mans standards! 
    ascs ascs 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 11, 2009

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    Don't Get Me Wrong

    I love men...love just about everything about a man,  even how he thinks sometime..but nothing ****** me off more than when a woman loses her soul to a man..who becomes someone she isnt'...if a man can't take me for my flaws and imperfections, for the good and bad, I don't want...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 13 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    I Ve Changed For A Man And Wont Do It Again

    I wont do it again never love me for me take me as i am i wont change for anyone iam going to be true to me
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2009

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    I Will Not Change For A Man

    I'm me. I have faults. You either accept my faults or you can leave me. Of course I don't have a boyfriend yet. I'm not looking for one either. I'm focus on work, school. So there Mother
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 2, 2011

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    Respect

    I remain true to myself.  What other choice is there?  I am who I am regardless of any relationship with a man. However, I cannot be aloof or separate.  It's inevitable that I blend and mould myself around a lover.  That's how I gel and how I love.  I don't change for a man...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 19 Responses Mar 2, 2011

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    Accept Me For Who I am

    I'm not going to change so either accept me or **** off. The days of trying to change to please a man just to get love and affection are over.
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 14, 2011

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    No Man Is Worth Lossing My Voice In This World

    I was once madly in love with a this guy,  (empahsis on the word madly!)  He was the kind of guy, who wanted to live the atypical America dream, nice home, nice car, travel, kids, and a sweet, complient wifey.  Don't get me wrong, I can be very sweet...when I want to be...
    JustBernieGirl JustBernieGirl 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 22, 2011

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    Myself Is Perfect For Me

    I will not change for a man. I am who i am, i will never change. I am perfectly happy with who i have become. I shouldnt have to change myself to make a man love me.
    SadEyedAngel126 SadEyedAngel126 18-21, F 5 Responses May 28, 2011

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    Why?

    I truly will compromise for a man however will not compromise who I am.  The reason being that I have in the past when younger and filled with self doubt and need.  I became a character based on what I believed would be attractive to a man and found out that I lost...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 13, 2008

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    I Will Not Change For A Man

    I'm me. I have faults. You either accept my faults or you can leave me. Of course I don't have a boyfriend yet. I'm not looking for  one   either. I'm focus on work, school.So thereI will  be alone forever because I'm attracted to loser guys. Frankly I'm sick and tired of it...
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 16, 2011

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    Take Me As I Am

    I'm loud, outgoing,talkitive, quirky, and most definitely a pain in the butt. But that's ME, and If a guy wants me to change that part of me, who's to say he won't want me to change even more of me? In that case..he does like me, just not me, he likes the appearance of me but not...
    Nutmeg2790 Nutmeg2790 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 16, 2009

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    Love Me For Me

    I will never change for anyone, I'm happy with the person I am, and if you can't love me for who I am and you want to change me I don't think that's love. I don't see why people want to change the person that's the person you fell inlove with isn't it? Loving someone is only true...
    Friendlybabe Friendlybabe 31-35, F 1 Response May 23, 2008

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    I will do a whole hell of a lot

    for someone. But this is one thing that I will not do. You can either like me or dont like me. I couldnt care any less what you choose as long as the lines of respect are there.
    SylenaEverlasting SylenaEverlasting 18-21, F Mar 8

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    I've Learnt My Lesson

    So an ex came into my life recently and wanted to get back together. And I'm grateful he did. I remember once after one of my breakups a married friend (a wonderful guy who truly adores his wife - he is the dream we aim for) told me that I should see these guys in lessons on...
    annathom annathom 26-30, F 2 Responses May 22, 2008

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    Real Men Love Real Women...

    When I meet one, he'll adore me, even when I mess something up. You know that will be true, because we'll both know that nothing is perfect. I am an intelligent, open and loving, free spirit. Why would a man want me to change if they truly loved me? I'll take them as they...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 25, 2009

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