I Will Not Change For a Man

So an ex came into my life recently and wanted to get back together. And I'm grateful he did.
I remember once after one of my breakups a married friend (a wonderful guy who truly adores his wife - he is the dream we aim for) told me...

I will not change for a man. I am who i am, i will never change. I am perfectly happy with who i have become. I shouldnt have to change myself to make a man love me.

If a man won't like me for me, he isn't worth my time of day! I will never change to satisfy a mans standards! 

When I meet one, he'll adore me, even when I mess something up. You know that will be true, because we'll both know that nothing is perfect.
I am an intelligent, open and loving, free spirit. Why would a man want me to change if they...

I'm not going to change so either accept me or fuck off. The days of trying to change to please a man just to get love and affection are over.

I'm me. I have faults. You either accept my faults or you can leave me. Of course I don't have a boyfriend yet. I'm not looking for one either. I'm focus on work, school.
So there
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I truly will compromise for a man however will not compromise who I am.  The reason being that I have in the past when younger and filled with self doubt and need.  I became a character based on what I believed would be...

I'm loud, outgoing,talkitive, quirky, and most definitely a pain in the butt. But that's ME, and If a guy wants me to change that part of me, who's to say he won't want me to change even more of me? In that case..he does like me, just...

I'm me. I have faults. You either accept my faults or you can leave me. Of course I don't have a boyfriend yet. I'm not looking for  one   either. I'm focus on work, school.So thereI will  be alone forever because I'm attracted to...

I wont do it again never
love me for me take me as i am
i wont change for anyone iam going to be true to me

I will never change for anyone, I'm happy with the person I am, and if you can't love me for who I am and you want to change me I don't think that's love. I don't see why people want to change the person that's the person you fell...

I was once madly in love with a this guy,  (empahsis on the word madly!)  He was the kind of guy, who wanted to live the atypical America dream, nice home, nice car, travel, kids, and a sweet, complient wifey.  Don't get me wrong...