I Will Not Compete For a Mans Attention

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    Keep Dreaming

    I dont see the point in competeing for a guys attention. If he truely likes you then you wouldnt have to compete for his attention in the first place. There are also plenty of other guys out there. It makes you look desperate when you compete as well. I refuse to ever compete for...
    angeliceyes11 angeliceyes11
    18-21, F
    Jun 22, 2011

    No More Settling For Less

    I am so sick of downgrading myself with losers. All I want is a man that with be a lover and a friend.....someone that will treat me with respect and by that I mean b faithful. Is it too much to ask for a man that is interested in more than wat color my...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 22, 2009

    Want Them To Come To Me

    I won't compete for a man's attention. If a man really wants me he will come to me I will not have to beg for his attention. Besides I think it is pathetic to have to do that anyway. I want a man to pursue me that way I know he is really interested. Once I am sure then I'll...
    howsab howsab
    31-35, F
    Jul 13, 2011

    Instead...

    I walk away because I think if he wants to be with someone else then he didn't love me to begin with.  I just will never compete against anyone for a man's attention.  She can have him if it comes to that.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    8 Responses Nov 14, 2009

    if I have to compete

    for someone's attention then I have news for them. they aren't worth my time
    Zurea Zurea
    26-30, T
    Sep 27, 2015

    Won't Do It

    The way I look at it.......if he really wants me...if he really desires my love and affection for him...he'll pursue me. And I won't have to compete with another woman, because a lady always knows when to leave.  
    lilyofthenile lilyofthenile
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Jun 11, 2008

    This is so me.. I feel like fighting

    for a mans attention is childish as ****. I'm not that desperate, and I know what I'm worth. Definitely never fighting for some lame *** that doesn't appreciate me.
    lunazteca lunazteca
    18-21, F
    Dec 28, 2014

    I Must Be First!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I have had two failed marriages, lived with a drug dealer who used me as a punching bag, and now live with a man I met on ep.....in every relationship, I have come second....sometimes the "other woman" was alcohol, sometimes "she" was irresponsibility, or even...
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor
    56-60, F
    5 Responses Jul 21, 2009

    I won't fight over a man.

    It's not my nature. I will fight for a relationship but won't ***** slap other women and get into cat fights over a man. Especially if he's the kind of a man who enjoys and expects this type of behaviour from women. I am an old fashioned gal and I want a man to make the first...
    Susana1985 Susana1985
    31-35, F
    4 Responses May 5, 2014
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