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I Will Not Fall In Love So Easily Again

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 242 People

    A Letter To My Future Bride And Wife To Be:

    I’ve been reading my bible, praying, and finding time to just sit in silence with God waiting patiently for your arrival. I don’t know who you are, what you look like or what you sound like. I do know you’re out there; I know you’re living life just as I am living mine...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M Aug 29, 2013

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    No...never Again!!!!!!

    My affair was sooooo devastating!!  It felt like more than love..I felt it in every fibre of my being. I was consumed by him...all in less than a month. And I just kept falling deeper and deeper every single day. Soon, there was nothing in my life but him.  In the...
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor 51-55, F 15 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    ?????????

    how will i do if someone cheated my love?i always think that do i have the right to be love?...
    meme226 meme226 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 8, 2012

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    Falling In Love Shouldn't Be Hard... But

    It hurts when it's one sided. Twice now, I have wanted to be someone's everything. Stupidly I was just an "intense something" to them, a moment, a martyr, a saviour. No more pain for the cause. If my beloved, does not say they are in love with me...I won't utter it...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 18, 2009

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    Never Again

    I can count on one hand the many times I have fallen in love only to have it end before I could enjoy it to it's fullest.  The one person that I am involved with right now will be the last one that I will love without looking long and hard at a relationship.  I look at...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 12, 2008

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    Once Bitten Twice Shy

    i have been in love once in my life, at least i think i have, at the time it felt like love but now i question that, i wonder if i was deluded. I have love in my life but i do not fall in love its too painful and doesnt exactly bring out the best in me. I found when i was in love...
    thehippy thehippy 41-45, F 14 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    My Grief

    I thought everything was going to be all right, I thought everything was perfect, I thought everybody was nice, I thought everybody would support me. Everything that I thought of was the complete opposite of the world. Everything that I expected was destroyed. Everything that I...
    Loeki Loeki 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2013

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    I Keep Hoping...

     It seems I stay away from woman for so long that as soon as I kiss the lips of some lady who gives half a **** about herself and me I'm in love again. I think maybe I'm some mental defective sometimes but then maybe an incurable romantic who just keeps hoping.....
    Bradalmy Bradalmy 51-55, M Sep 22, 2009

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    Big Talk, Chronimax!

    "Dude...Do I really think I can sit here and tell me that I have any control over the next time I fall in love, if I ever do again? Or who it's going to be for that matter? Aren't I cute with my little thoughts...Well me, guess what? I am doing a good job of controlling it so...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 18, 2011

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    “Distrust and Caution Are the Parents of Security.”

    Ben Franklin said that and I am inclined to agree. I know that's a radical contrast from my previous stances of both not giving a damn and almost wishing the worst would happen to me. But when the house of cards came crashing down, with it came my faith. Faith came to a grinding...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 9, 2009

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    I Am Scared.

    I am scared to give someone else my heart.  I am afraid, because I feel love and compassion for this person.  I will never never fall in love again.  I will try hard not to fall in love and try to keep my heart to myself.  I wish no longer to share my heart with anyone...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 8, 2012

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    I don't want to Fall in Love anymore...

    I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve. I always give it away as soon as a woman show any sign of interest in me. Whether it's just friendship or not. I fall for a woman almost as soon as I talk to them and feel like I understand. I start day dreaming about what it would be like to...
    TwyztedDragon TwyztedDragon 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 12, 2011

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    I Don't Think So

    I fell way too easily for someone once.  I got hurt worse than I could have ever imagined.  It was something I couldn't really avoid at the time... it was just overwhelming.  But the next time I will be much more cautious.
    EchoRain EchoRain 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2009

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    Words Bleh

    I'm trying to make a commitment to myself to never fall for simply words alone again. I don't want to put my heart on the line and hang it by a thread of promises. I feel it's best that we don't invest our hearts and time into words alone, because words/promises are...
    MiracleWhipTrickster MiracleWhipTrickster 18-21, M 6 Responses Oct 20, 2010

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    Please Come Back Please come back to me.

    I have missed you so much. Wherever you are just know that you are on my mind and in my heart, but most of all I love you. I have waited for a woman just like you all of my life and I need you in my life. I want to see you smile again and hear your soft angelic voice, but most...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M Feb 3, 2014

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    Walls Walls Walls

    yeah. i guess, after all the heartbreak, i have learned how to put those walls up again. not that i have not been hurt while having those walls around, i have, but it's  okay coz i got hurt by a truth that i have then learned to accept, and it's good. What i don't want to...
    mistyeyedlass mistyeyedlass 18-21, F 3 Responses May 1, 2009

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    More Cautious...

    I have always fallen in love too easily in the past - I have given my heart away with no thought as to whether the other person was worthy - whether they would take care of my heart and protect it. And I have always been too rash in my decision. From now on I will treat my heart...
    Flugelblues Flugelblues 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 6, 2008

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    In the Beginning....

    When I was younger, I can say that I would fall in love at the drop of a hat.  Over time, I learned that it was only lust that start a relationship off and after some time it becomes love.  I learned that it takes work to find someone to love and when you find that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 27, 2008

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    Broken

    We have been friends since high school. We went into the same college. I confessed he broke my heart, and now he's going to marry somebody else... Happily ever after for him! But me I'm just here sitting wishing for the best for my friend. It's a one sided love, it hurts to say...
    Loeki Loeki 18-21, F Apr 30, 2013

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    I fell in love once and it's been pretty bad.

    The worst feeling in the entire world is hating someone that I once loved so much. That is worse than having everything fall apart.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2014

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    I Wonder At Times If I Am C...

    I wonder at times if I am capable of ever falling in love again,, I mean,, truly in love.  I have some issues going on in my life and have been feeling so incapable of real love, and it scares me to death.  Hopefully, it's only a temporary thing, and I will once again...
    justANNIE justANNIE 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 13, 2009

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    ....not With Him

    I am young.  And only with age does experience and knowledge come.  This I understand.  I did not want to get married...I did not want to have his baby...I just wanted to be with him then and there.  But when I got pregnant he asked me to marry him.  I...
    bellasmomma bellasmomma 18-21, F Mar 24, 2009

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    Bleh

    And because you're such a snob. . . I just grew tired of you. . . You knew that I liked you. . . But you're just playing me, I guess. . . I don't want to get involved any longer with all the mental torture that you're inflicting on me. . . And so. . . I just want to say...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 21, 2013

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    Correction..

    I will not fall in lust so easily again.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25 1 Response Oct 20, 2010

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    Apollo

    There is a person a ghost to me in this world who I refer to as Apollo, and its because I have never loved anyone like I loved him, it was reckless, it was unconditional, it was full hearted unprotected, eyes closed arms opened love. And he decided that it wasn't for him, I...
    Starbuck82 Starbuck82 26-30, F Mar 17, 2009

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    yeah .. well there is this girl... she is soooo pretty like really ! the problem is she will never love me like that i love her ... okay thats not the problem ... the problem that...
    yuush yuush 13-15, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    As of last night I am single and utterly heartbroken. This woman I loved with all of my being wants nothing to do with me. I will start from the beginning. About 5 months ago or so...
    Billythe2 Billythe2 18-21, M 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I have felt pain and betrayal and I'm so afraid to feel it again.. It's like once you been hurt, you're so scared to get attached again. Like I have this fear that this person I...
    Pinaybarbie Pinaybarbie 31-35, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    Love can be a very scary thing, at least in my eyes. The thought of being so infatuated with someone that you can't even think straight. You can't even go a minute without thinking...
    kait52 kait52 18-21, F 22 hrs ago

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    *Very, Very Long Post* A few days ago, I was talking with my Mom and sister about marriage and relationships. It was actually a very sad conversation because the relationships...
    MyEpochStory MyEpochStory 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Ahaha this is one my friend and I came up with one day while watching tv, & eating craft dinner. Lmao it's racist, don't take it seriously. Why don't black people go on cruises...
    Jackway Jackway 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Love will tear us apart again
    Infiniteblue Infiniteblue 36-40, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My attic is usually full of critter crawlers and those bugs are potentially my next victims that will fall under my feet. I wear my 3 inched black wedge boots because it feels...
    LittleMissBoots295 LittleMissBoots295 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    i dont want to love again, it hurts too much when it falls apart...never again
    shatteredglass378 shatteredglass378 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    When you can say that you love your best friend, you know the friendship will last. When two people can continue to make each other survive the boredom of their day and still smile...
    Kkgunny Kkgunny 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Like the winds of change flowing through the trees I can no longer feel your love for me.. your beautiful heart that would beat so strong Every time we would meet, is now heard...
    StolenKisses StolenKisses 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    My divorce has been official for a little short of two months, although we've been emotionally separated for several years. I've had this terrible crush on a co worker who is 25...
    wantadoover wantadoover 56-60, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm not worthy of love. I never have been and I never will
    mollielollipop mollielollipop 31-35, F 30 Responses 6 days ago

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    it's not that I just want to hear the words from just anyone. I want to hear "I love you" and feel it. i want to feel the emotions, the kindness, the caring thoughtful honest truth...
    ForgetableMe ForgetableMe 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Yes he is 19 and I am 16 which doesn't matter to me but everyone else always says "all he wants is sex" and all that crap... I've dated him before and he never made me feel...
    ShatteredMemory ShatteredMemory 16-17, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    And I do love you. Never doubt it. I love you enough to know that I need to give you space, and back off from you. You need to take care of yourself and heal. I am not good for you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 a week ago

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    Today is another day that I begin alone. I haven't had a love in my life since 2007, the end of a 5 year abusive relationship. The years that followed brought me an image of love...
    takieaa takieaa 41-45, F Jun 21

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    My two sisters and I woke up early this morning to make my dad a huge breakfast feast. He walks into the kitchen all cool and says "Wow is this for me?" Like no it's for mom! Haha...
    anonamanda001 anonamanda001 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    The shape of my heart .... I wish I could reach up and take a star from the sky for you As a symbolic gesture of my love for you ... Or place the moon in the palm of your hand...
    mintybear2 mintybear2 46-50, F 1 Response Jun 21

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