I Will Not Fall In Love So Easily Again

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 231 People

    More Cautious...

    I have always fallen in love too easily in the past - I have given my heart away with no thought as to whether the other person was worthy - whether they would take care of my heart and protect it. And I have always been too rash in my decision. From now on I will treat my heart...
    Flugelblues Flugelblues
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Sep 6, 2008


    how will i do if someone cheated my love?i always think that do i have the right to be love?...
    meme226 meme226
    22-25, F
    Sep 8, 2012

    I Wonder At Times If I Am C...

    I wonder at times if I am capable of ever falling in love again,, I mean,, truly in love.  I have some issues going on in my life and have been feeling so incapable of real love, and it scares me to death.  Hopefully, it's only a temporary thing, and I will once again...
    justANNIE justANNIE
    46-50, F
    1 Response Mar 13, 2009

    Once Bitten Twice Shy

    i have been in love once in my life, at least i think i have, at the time it felt like love but now i question that, i wonder if i was deluded. I have love in my life but i do not fall in love its too painful and doesnt exactly bring out the best in me. I found when i was in love...
    thehippy thehippy
    41-45, F
    14 Responses Jun 17, 2009

    Words Bleh

    I'm trying to make a commitment to myself to never fall for simply words alone again. I don't want to put my heart on the line and hang it by a thread of promises. I feel it's best that we don't invest our hearts and time into words alone, because words/promises are...
    MiracleWhipTrickster MiracleWhipTrickster
    18-21, M
    6 Responses Oct 20, 2010

    Walls Walls Walls

    yeah. i guess, after all the heartbreak, i have learned how to put those walls up again. not that i have not been hurt while having those walls around, i have, but it's  okay coz i got hurt by a truth that i have then learned to accept, and it's good. What i don't want to...
    mistyeyedlass mistyeyedlass
    18-21, F
    3 Responses May 1, 2009


    We have been friends since high school. We went into the same college. I confessed he broke my heart, and now he's going to marry somebody else... Happily ever after for him! But me I'm just here sitting wishing for the best for my friend. It's a one sided love, it hurts to say...
    Loeki Loeki
    22-25, F
    Apr 30, 2013

    In the Beginning....

    When I was younger, I can say that I would fall in love at the drop of a hat.  Over time, I learned that it was only lust that start a relationship off and after some time it becomes love.  I learned that it takes work to find someone to love and when you find that...
    deleted deleted
    Sep 27, 2008

    My Grief

    I thought everything was going to be all right, I thought everything was perfect, I thought everybody was nice, I thought everybody would support me. Everything that I thought of was the complete opposite of the world. Everything that I expected was destroyed. Everything that I...
    Loeki Loeki
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 30, 2013

    I Don't Think So

    I fell way too easily for someone once.  I got hurt worse than I could have ever imagined.  It was something I couldn't really avoid at the time... it was just overwhelming.  But the next time I will be much more cautious.
    EchoRain EchoRain
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 10, 2009

    Falling In Love Shouldn't Be Hard... But

    It hurts when it's one sided. Twice now, I have wanted to be someone's everything. Stupidly I was just an "intense something" to them, a moment, a martyr, a saviour. No more pain for the cause. If my beloved, does not say they are in love with me...I won't utter it...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jun 18, 2009

    Never Again

    I can count on one hand the many times I have fallen in love only to have it end before I could enjoy it to it's fullest.  The one person that I am involved with right now will be the last one that I will love without looking long and hard at a relationship.  I look at...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 12, 2008

    I Am Scared.

    I am scared to give someone else my heart.  I am afraid, because I feel love and compassion for this person.  I will never never fall in love again.  I will try hard not to fall in love and try to keep my heart to myself.  I wish no longer to share my heart with anyone...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Mar 8, 2012


    There is a person a ghost to me in this world who I refer to as Apollo, and its because I have never loved anyone like I loved him, it was reckless, it was unconditional, it was full hearted unprotected, eyes closed arms opened love. And he decided that it wasn't for him, I...
    Starbuck82 Starbuck82
    31-35, F
    Mar 17, 2009


    I will not fall in lust so easily again.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    Oct 20, 2010

    ....not With Him

    I am young.  And only with age does experience and knowledge come.  This I understand.  I did not want to get married...I did not want to have his baby...I just wanted to be with him then and there.  But when I got pregnant he asked me to marry him.  I...
    bellasmomma bellasmomma
    18-21, F
    Mar 24, 2009

    Big Talk, Chronimax!

    "Dude...Do I really think I can sit here and tell me that I have any control over the next time I fall in love, if I ever do again? Or who it's going to be for that matter? Aren't I cute with my little thoughts...Well me, guess what? I am doing a good job of controlling it so...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Feb 18, 2011

    “Distrust and Caution Are the Parents of Security.”

    Ben Franklin said that and I am inclined to agree. I know that's a radical contrast from my previous stances of both not giving a damn and almost wishing the worst would happen to me. But when the house of cards came crashing down, with it came my faith. Faith came to a grinding...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 9, 2009

    I Keep Hoping...

     It seems I stay away from woman for so long that as soon as I kiss the lips of some lady who gives half a **** about herself and me I'm in love again. I think maybe I'm some mental defective sometimes but then maybe an incurable romantic who just keeps hoping.....
    Bradalmy Bradalmy
    51-55, M
    Sep 22, 2009

    I fell in love once and it's been pretty bad.

    The worst feeling in the entire world is hating someone that I once loved so much. That is worse than having everything fall apart.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 22, 2014

    No...never Again!!!!!!

    My affair was sooooo devastating!!  It felt like more than love..I felt it in every fibre of my being. I was consumed by him...all in less than a month. And I just kept falling deeper and deeper every single day. Soon, there was nothing in my life but him.  In the...
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor
    56-60, F
    15 Responses Sep 23, 2009

    I don't want to Fall in Love anymore...

    I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve. I always give it away as soon as a woman show any sign of interest in me. Whether it's just friendship or not. I fall for a woman almost as soon as I talk to them and feel like I understand. I start day dreaming about what it would be like to...
    TwyztedDragon TwyztedDragon
    31-35, M
    1 Response Apr 12, 2011


    And because you're such a snob. . . I just grew tired of you. . . You knew that I liked you. . . But you're just playing me, I guess. . . I don't want to get involved any longer with all the mental torture that you're inflicting on me. . . And so. . . I just want to say...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 21, 2013
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