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I Will Not Fall In Love So Easily Again

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    Please Come Back Please come back to me.

    I have missed you so much. Wherever you are just know that you are on my mind and in my heart, but most of all I love you. I have waited for a woman just like you all of my life and I need you in my life. I want to see you smile again and hear your soft angelic voice, but most...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M Feb 3, 2014

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    Big Talk, Chronimax!

    "Dude...Do I really think I can sit here and tell me that I have any control over the next time I fall in love, if I ever do again? Or who it's going to be for that matter? Aren't I cute with my little thoughts...Well me, guess what? I am doing a good job of controlling it so...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 18, 2011

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    I Wonder At Times If I Am C...

    I wonder at times if I am capable of ever falling in love again,, I mean,, truly in love.  I have some issues going on in my life and have been feeling so incapable of real love, and it scares me to death.  Hopefully, it's only a temporary thing, and I will once again...
    justANNIE justANNIE 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 13, 2009

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    After my last breakup I don't think I'll love

    the same again. I know It won't be the same. But at least the experience was nice to learn from. Thanks ex babe for showing me the way around the brick wall that was holding me back. I've finally went passed it on my own.
    steve0629 steve0629 18-21, M Mar 22, 2014

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    ....not With Him

    I am young.  And only with age does experience and knowledge come.  This I understand.  I did not want to get married...I did not want to have his baby...I just wanted to be with him then and there.  But when I got pregnant he asked me to marry him.  I...
    bellasmomma bellasmomma 18-21, F Mar 24, 2009

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    I Don't Think So

    I fell way too easily for someone once.  I got hurt worse than I could have ever imagined.  It was something I couldn't really avoid at the time... it was just overwhelming.  But the next time I will be much more cautious.
    EchoRain EchoRain 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2009

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    My Grief

    I thought everything was going to be all right, I thought everything was perfect, I thought everybody was nice, I thought everybody would support me. Everything that I thought of was the complete opposite of the world. Everything that I expected was destroyed. Everything that I...
    Loeki Loeki 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2013

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    chocolatecurlz chocolatecurlz 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2014

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    I don't want to Fall in Love anymore...

    I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve. I always give it away as soon as a woman show any sign of interest in me. Whether it's just friendship or not. I fall for a woman almost as soon as I talk to them and feel like I understand. I start day dreaming about what it would be like to...
    TwyztedDragon TwyztedDragon 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 12, 2011

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    No...never Again!!!!!!

    My affair was sooooo devastating!!  It felt like more than love..I felt it in every fibre of my being. I was consumed by him...all in less than a month. And I just kept falling deeper and deeper every single day. Soon, there was nothing in my life but him.  In the...
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor 51-55, F 15 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    I MEAN IT TOO!!!

    SOMETIMES I THINK I'M IN LOVE WITH LOVE. THIS TIME I'M NOT FALLING SO EASILY... IT'S SECOND NATURE FOR ME TO BE WITH ONE MATE... ESPECIALLY IF HE'S SEEMINGLY PERFECT FOR ME, BUT I GOT MY HEAD ON STRAIGHT...  EVEN THOUGH I MAY LOVE EVERY SINGLE THING ABOUT U, I KNOW BEING...
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F Aug 5, 2009

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    Never Again

    I can count on one hand the many times I have fallen in love only to have it end before I could enjoy it to it's fullest.  The one person that I am involved with right now will be the last one that I will love without looking long and hard at a relationship.  I look at...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 12, 2008

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    Walls Walls Walls

    yeah. i guess, after all the heartbreak, i have learned how to put those walls up again. not that i have not been hurt while having those walls around, i have, but it's  okay coz i got hurt by a truth that i have then learned to accept, and it's good. What i don't want to...
    mistyeyedlass mistyeyedlass 18-21, F 3 Responses May 1, 2009

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    ?????????

    how will i do if someone cheated my love?i always think that do i have the right to be love?...
    meme226 meme226 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 8, 2012

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    Apollo

    There is a person a ghost to me in this world who I refer to as Apollo, and its because I have never loved anyone like I loved him, it was reckless, it was unconditional, it was full hearted unprotected, eyes closed arms opened love. And he decided that it wasn't for him, I...
    Starbuck82 Starbuck82 26-30, F Mar 17, 2009

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    Broken

    We have been friends since high school. We went into the same college. I confessed he broke my heart, and now he's going to marry somebody else... Happily ever after for him! But me I'm just here sitting wishing for the best for my friend. It's a one sided love, it hurts to say...
    Loeki Loeki 18-21, F Apr 30, 2013

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    A Letter To My Future Bride And Wife To Be:

    I’ve been reading my bible, praying, and finding time to just sit in silence with God waiting patiently for your arrival. I don’t know who you are, what you look like or what you sound like. I do know you’re out there; I know you’re living life just as I am living mine...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M Aug 29, 2013

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    Bleh

    And because you're such a snob. . . I just grew tired of you. . . You knew that I liked you. . . But you're just playing me, I guess. . . I don't want to get involved any longer with all the mental torture that you're inflicting on me. . . And so. . . I just want to say...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 21, 2013

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    Correction..

    I will not fall in lust so easily again.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2010

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    “Distrust and Caution Are the Parents of Security.”

    Ben Franklin said that and I am inclined to agree. I know that's a radical contrast from my previous stances of both not giving a damn and almost wishing the worst would happen to me. But when the house of cards came crashing down, with it came my faith. Faith came to a grinding...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 9, 2009

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    Once Bitten Twice Shy

    i have been in love once in my life, at least i think i have, at the time it felt like love but now i question that, i wonder if i was deluded. I have love in my life but i do not fall in love its too painful and doesnt exactly bring out the best in me. I found when i was in love...
    thehippy thehippy 41-45, F 14 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    I Keep Hoping...

     It seems I stay away from woman for so long that as soon as I kiss the lips of some lady who gives half a **** about herself and me I'm in love again. I think maybe I'm some mental defective sometimes but then maybe an incurable romantic who just keeps hoping.....
    Bradalmy Bradalmy 51-55, M Sep 22, 2009

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    More Cautious...

    I have always fallen in love too easily in the past - I have given my heart away with no thought as to whether the other person was worthy - whether they would take care of my heart and protect it. And I have always been too rash in my decision. From now on I will treat my heart...
    Flugelblues Flugelblues 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 6, 2008

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    In the Beginning....

    When I was younger, I can say that I would fall in love at the drop of a hat.  Over time, I learned that it was only lust that start a relationship off and after some time it becomes love.  I learned that it takes work to find someone to love and when you find that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 27, 2008

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    Falling In Love Shouldn't Be Hard... But

    It hurts when it's one sided. Twice now, I have wanted to be someone's everything. Stupidly I was just an "intense something" to them, a moment, a martyr, a saviour. No more pain for the cause. If my beloved, does not say they are in love with me...I won't utter it...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 18, 2009

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    I fell in love once and it's been pretty bad.

    The worst feeling in the entire world is hating someone that I once loved so much. That is worse than having everything fall apart.
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2014

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    Words Bleh

    I'm trying to make a commitment to myself to never fall for simply words alone again. I don't want to put my heart on the line and hang it by a thread of promises. I feel it's best that we don't invest our hearts and time into words alone, because words/promises are...
    MiracleWhipTrickster MiracleWhipTrickster 18-21, M 6 Responses Oct 20, 2010

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    Man Please

    i just read my last story and i am SO TOTALLY OVER THAT RIGHT NOW THAT IT'S SIMPLY NOT FUNNY. i don't even want a boyfriend. i just wanna be a free agent and do me. if i choose to hook up then i will but i tell ya, guys make wanting sex a challenge with all the dramatic games...
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F Sep 10, 2009

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    I Am Scared.

    I am scared to give someone else my heart.  I am afraid, because I feel love and compassion for this person.  I will never never fall in love again.  I will try hard not to fall in love and try to keep my heart to myself.  I wish no longer to share my heart with anyone...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 8, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Maybe if i were to count the guys i fell for, they're maybe more than 10. And i always go for guys who aren't totally guys like real kind of men.. I fall in love to those soft kind...
    itcheru itcheru 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    Today I asked if you'd consider dating me. You said yes. I'm starting to really like you. But I'm afraid it'll happen again and I've already had too many bad experiences. I don...
    WeighMeDown WeighMeDown 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2014

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    Whatever you did to me was very painful.I loved you more than anything else in the world... i spent chatting with you till late night...did not study even for exam.All this things...
    misstensed misstensed 18-21, F Dec 29, 2014

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    There is one phrase that will always stick in my mind: You always give up so easy. I need to show that girl that I will try till I die. Any advice to help me with fitness?
    Ashthewolf7601 Ashthewolf7601 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    Last year was a game changer for me..i left my boyfriend of five years last February. It was difficult to do but I don't regret it. It took me over a year to work up the courage...
    lambkin lambkin 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 6

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    Those of you who hate your parents because the punish you or dot allow you to do things. Don't take that for granted...you will all experience being parents someday and you will be...
    BustyMistake BustyMistake 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 12

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    so this special person has been on my mind for along time now. she was a friend of my family and she lived next door to us. I don't really like talking about it, but she was 14...
    ThatOneBlackGurrl ThatOneBlackGurrl 13-15, F Jan 2

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    You're always going to be a part of me. If I ever start to break, you'll fix me. I thought I needed you completely out of my life. All I really needed? I needed you. I know that no...
    jiayong jiayong 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Finding the right person, a person you want to spend your life with, is the greatest accomplishment one can achieve. Yet, the unfortunate truth is that the right person doesn’t...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    The Chain- Fleetwood Mac Listen to the wind blow, watch the sun rise Running in the shadows Damn your love, damn your lies And if you don't love me now You will never love me...
    ohglob ohglob 18-21, M Jan 6

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    I guess this is karma for someone like me. I don't know. When I start to like someone, it always starts with an attraction. Crushes don't really last long in my case, and sometimes...
    ZeraSummers ZeraSummers 16-17, F Dec 29, 2014

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    I miss that more than anything...to be able to just lay my head on a guy's chest, with his arm around me, maybe playing with my hair while we talk. I fall asleep easily like that...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    This is a open letter to my amazing girlfriend to read if she ever wonders why I truly love her. If you ever wonder why I love you here is why. The first time I ever really saw...
    ECrierie ECrierie 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 11

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    I thought you'd always be here. Even when you were gone I believed that you'd one day come back through my door once more. I waited for you in hopes that you were waiting for me...
    Cherish1991 Cherish1991 22-25, F Dec 28, 2014

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    Uncle Adam There are a lot of alcoholics in my family, including my father, now sober. But the first in our family to be recognised for this disease was my uncle, Adam. He was...
    PersonalGenesis PersonalGenesis 22-25, F Jan 7

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    I admit that. She's not mine, I don't even know if she will be mine. but one thing is for sure that I know... SHE LOVED ME,SHE LOVES ME ... AND ... I LOVED HER, I LOVE HER AND...
    Achelle07 Achelle07 22-25, F 23 mins ago

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    I have felt love and expressed it before. Went through the hurt but I am ready to fall all over again. One problem though, haven't found the one that's willing it free fall...
    time2enjoyJC time2enjoyJC 26-30, M Dec 31, 2014

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    I think it's going to be a good year when he told me to listen to this and sent the sweetest message. I think we are finally finding love right where we are.:) When your legs don...
    endlesschapters endlesschapters 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 1

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    Ok I'm not in love but i really like her and the worst part is shes almost 17 and I'm turning 15 in March but she's funny and sweet and she's been with me through everything and...
    EpicBrotato EpicBrotato 13-15, M 2 Responses Jan 4