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I Will Not Fall In Love So Easily Again

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 242 People

    Never Again

    I can count on one hand the many times I have fallen in love only to have it end before I could enjoy it to it's fullest.  The one person that I am involved with right now will be the last one that I will love without looking long and hard at a relationship.  I look at...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 12, 2008

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    Correction..

    I will not fall in lust so easily again.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25 1 Response Oct 20, 2010

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    In the Beginning....

    When I was younger, I can say that I would fall in love at the drop of a hat.  Over time, I learned that it was only lust that start a relationship off and after some time it becomes love.  I learned that it takes work to find someone to love and when you find that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 27, 2008

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    I Don't Think So

    I fell way too easily for someone once.  I got hurt worse than I could have ever imagined.  It was something I couldn't really avoid at the time... it was just overwhelming.  But the next time I will be much more cautious.
    EchoRain EchoRain 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2009

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    “Distrust and Caution Are the Parents of Security.”

    Ben Franklin said that and I am inclined to agree. I know that's a radical contrast from my previous stances of both not giving a damn and almost wishing the worst would happen to me. But when the house of cards came crashing down, with it came my faith. Faith came to a grinding...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 9, 2009

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    I fell in love once and it's been pretty bad.

    The worst feeling in the entire world is hating someone that I once loved so much. That is worse than having everything fall apart.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2014

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    ?????????

    how will i do if someone cheated my love?i always think that do i have the right to be love?...
    meme226 meme226 22-25, F Sep 8, 2012

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    ....not With Him

    I am young.  And only with age does experience and knowledge come.  This I understand.  I did not want to get married...I did not want to have his baby...I just wanted to be with him then and there.  But when I got pregnant he asked me to marry him.  I...
    bellasmomma bellasmomma 18-21, F Mar 24, 2009

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    Bleh

    And because you're such a snob. . . I just grew tired of you. . . You knew that I liked you. . . But you're just playing me, I guess. . . I don't want to get involved any longer with all the mental torture that you're inflicting on me. . . And so. . . I just want to say...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 21, 2013

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    I Wonder At Times If I Am C...

    I wonder at times if I am capable of ever falling in love again,, I mean,, truly in love.  I have some issues going on in my life and have been feeling so incapable of real love, and it scares me to death.  Hopefully, it's only a temporary thing, and I will once again...
    justANNIE justANNIE 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 13, 2009

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    My Grief

    I thought everything was going to be all right, I thought everything was perfect, I thought everybody was nice, I thought everybody would support me. Everything that I thought of was the complete opposite of the world. Everything that I expected was destroyed. Everything that I...
    Loeki Loeki 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2013

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    A Letter To My Future Bride And Wife To Be:

    I’ve been reading my bible, praying, and finding time to just sit in silence with God waiting patiently for your arrival. I don’t know who you are, what you look like or what you sound like. I do know you’re out there; I know you’re living life just as I am living mine...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M Aug 29, 2013

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    I don't want to Fall in Love anymore...

    I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve. I always give it away as soon as a woman show any sign of interest in me. Whether it's just friendship or not. I fall for a woman almost as soon as I talk to them and feel like I understand. I start day dreaming about what it would be like to...
    TwyztedDragon TwyztedDragon 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 12, 2011

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    More Cautious...

    I have always fallen in love too easily in the past - I have given my heart away with no thought as to whether the other person was worthy - whether they would take care of my heart and protect it. And I have always been too rash in my decision. From now on I will treat my heart...
    Flugelblues Flugelblues 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 6, 2008

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    Words Bleh

    I'm trying to make a commitment to myself to never fall for simply words alone again. I don't want to put my heart on the line and hang it by a thread of promises. I feel it's best that we don't invest our hearts and time into words alone, because words/promises are...
    MiracleWhipTrickster MiracleWhipTrickster 18-21, M 6 Responses Oct 20, 2010

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    Walls Walls Walls

    yeah. i guess, after all the heartbreak, i have learned how to put those walls up again. not that i have not been hurt while having those walls around, i have, but it's  okay coz i got hurt by a truth that i have then learned to accept, and it's good. What i don't want to...
    mistyeyedlass mistyeyedlass 18-21, F 3 Responses May 1, 2009

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    I Am Scared.

    I am scared to give someone else my heart.  I am afraid, because I feel love and compassion for this person.  I will never never fall in love again.  I will try hard not to fall in love and try to keep my heart to myself.  I wish no longer to share my heart with anyone...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 8, 2012

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    Broken

    We have been friends since high school. We went into the same college. I confessed he broke my heart, and now he's going to marry somebody else... Happily ever after for him! But me I'm just here sitting wishing for the best for my friend. It's a one sided love, it hurts to say...
    Loeki Loeki 18-21, F Apr 30, 2013

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    No...never Again!!!!!!

    My affair was sooooo devastating!!  It felt like more than love..I felt it in every fibre of my being. I was consumed by him...all in less than a month. And I just kept falling deeper and deeper every single day. Soon, there was nothing in my life but him.  In the...
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor 56-60, F 15 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    Apollo

    There is a person a ghost to me in this world who I refer to as Apollo, and its because I have never loved anyone like I loved him, it was reckless, it was unconditional, it was full hearted unprotected, eyes closed arms opened love. And he decided that it wasn't for him, I...
    Starbuck82 Starbuck82 31-35, F Mar 17, 2009

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    Please Come Back Please come back to me.

    I have missed you so much. Wherever you are just know that you are on my mind and in my heart, but most of all I love you. I have waited for a woman just like you all of my life and I need you in my life. I want to see you smile again and hear your soft angelic voice, but most...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M Feb 3, 2014

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    Big Talk, Chronimax!

    "Dude...Do I really think I can sit here and tell me that I have any control over the next time I fall in love, if I ever do again? Or who it's going to be for that matter? Aren't I cute with my little thoughts...Well me, guess what? I am doing a good job of controlling it so...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 18, 2011

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    I Keep Hoping...

     It seems I stay away from woman for so long that as soon as I kiss the lips of some lady who gives half a **** about herself and me I'm in love again. I think maybe I'm some mental defective sometimes but then maybe an incurable romantic who just keeps hoping.....
    Bradalmy Bradalmy 51-55, M Sep 22, 2009

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    Falling In Love Shouldn't Be Hard... But

    It hurts when it's one sided. Twice now, I have wanted to be someone's everything. Stupidly I was just an "intense something" to them, a moment, a martyr, a saviour. No more pain for the cause. If my beloved, does not say they are in love with me...I won't utter it...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 18, 2009

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    Once Bitten Twice Shy

    i have been in love once in my life, at least i think i have, at the time it felt like love but now i question that, i wonder if i was deluded. I have love in my life but i do not fall in love its too painful and doesnt exactly bring out the best in me. I found when i was in love...
    thehippy thehippy 41-45, F 14 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    I have love at first sight syndrome.
    kayla459 kayla459 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Last week it rained so i went outside in my light gray socks. i stepped into the cold squishy mud and felt it soak into the bottoms of my socks. when i looked at the bottoms of my...
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    alwaayyss always i will love you
    bipolar87418 bipolar87418 56-60, M 3 days ago

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    Everyone has their own definitive principles for what they consider a true emotion, a philosophical concept, or a an aspiration. When it comes to the idea of falling love, I've...
    Lentocrates778 Lentocrates778 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    We all know somebody who knows somebody who's doing great, I know some people who know people who are flying straight, But I'll kindly enter into rooms of depression, While ceiling...
    calumnious calumnious 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I definitely do! I have experienced it and like an idiot I allowed life and stress to get to me and my anger to consume me and I hurt the one and only absolutely true love of my...
    Broken31 Broken31 31-35, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Ok this statement couldn't be more true. My post is going to be a confusing one.. As some of you have read my past posts I seem to still love someone who clearly doesn't want me...
    Beanbella Beanbella 31-35, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    well me i will fall in love with someone but i am so afraid of rejection i dont ask them out so i find different people to ask out but i never do any way
    genericusername23 genericusername23 13-15, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    But I am a little weird about it.. I think I enjoy the cooking of someone based on my feelings towards them, not based on the taste! I noticed it, it is not even just that I don...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    Imagine: loving everyone about someone. Head to toe, loving their hair and their eyes, their nose, mouth ears. Their neck and shoulders. Arms, hands, fingers. Back and stomach...
    Thelostsoulslasthope Thelostsoulslasthope 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    If you start at the moment when I got pregnant with my first daughter I have been a mother for 30 years. I got pregnant at the ages of 18, and 20. I gave birth to my dear daughters...
    Samara333 Samara333 46-50, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Well not love but like. I get my hopes up every time to end up laughed at or ignored. I'm just never good enough when I like someone, that's why I wonder why I even like someone in...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F a week ago

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    I keep hoping that I can get thru to him, that the tunnel of darkness will somehow go back to light. Some days I just don't want to even try to get him to understand, other days I...
    NolaHollywood NolaHollywood 26-30, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Of course I will go skinny dipping again. I really miss swimming nude. It is winter and I have to wait for summer. The local public pool doesn't have nude hrs, pity. Swimming naked...
    niceskip niceskip 46-50, M Jan 29

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    I was madly in love with a man who broke my heart. He was so handsome and loving and charming. We would talk about our future together and so many other things for hours. Our...
    NurseChapel NurseChapel 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    Is there any point? Do you really need to get married? If you really love someone do you really need to put on a show to prove it? I don't think I'd ever get married again...
    Jenezebel Jenezebel 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 26

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    is name is (initials) Z.T, my first love/boyfriend ..we met when i was 14? (young silly love, didn't get really serious until i reached my Sophmore year) and dated until after i...
    anonymouskiwi anonymouskiwi 22-25, T Jan 26