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I Will Not Fall In Love So Easily Again

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    Dear Future Wife

    Dear Future Wife, I have to admit and it’s not easy saying this, but I have been a broken man and alone for quite some time. In the past I have given my heart out on a silver platter to those whom I felt I could trust and love, but only to have it handed back to me postage due...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M 2 Responses Sep 19, 2013

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    Walls Walls Walls

    yeah. i guess, after all the heartbreak, i have learned how to put those walls up again. not that i have not been hurt while having those walls around, i have, but it's  okay coz i got hurt by a truth that i have then learned to accept, and it's good. What i don't want to...
    mistyeyedlass mistyeyedlass 18-21, F 3 Responses May 1, 2009

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    Once Bitten Twice Shy

    i have been in love once in my life, at least i think i have, at the time it felt like love but now i question that, i wonder if i was deluded. I have love in my life but i do not fall in love its too painful and doesnt exactly bring out the best in me. I found when i was in love...
    thehippy thehippy 41-45, F 14 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    Words Bleh

    I'm trying to make a commitment to myself to never fall for simply words alone again. I don't want to put my heart on the line and hang it by a thread of promises. I feel it's best that we don't invest our hearts and time into words alone, because words/promises are...
    MiracleWhipTrickster MiracleWhipTrickster 18-21, M 6 Responses Oct 20, 2010

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    No...never Again!!!!!!

    My affair was sooooo devastating!!  It felt like more than love..I felt it in every fibre of my being. I was consumed by him...all in less than a month. And I just kept falling deeper and deeper every single day. Soon, there was nothing in my life but him.  In the...
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor 51-55, F 15 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    More Cautious...

    I have always fallen in love too easily in the past - I have given my heart away with no thought as to whether the other person was worthy - whether they would take care of my heart and protect it. And I have always been too rash in my decision. From now on I will treat my heart...
    Flugelblues Flugelblues 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 6, 2008

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    Never Again

    I can count on one hand the many times I have fallen in love only to have it end before I could enjoy it to it's fullest.  The one person that I am involved with right now will be the last one that I will love without looking long and hard at a relationship.  I look at...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 12, 2008

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    ....not With Him

    I am young.  And only with age does experience and knowledge come.  This I understand.  I did not want to get married...I did not want to have his baby...I just wanted to be with him then and there.  But when I got pregnant he asked me to marry him.  I...
    bellasmomma bellasmomma 18-21, F Mar 24, 2009

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    I don't want to Fall in Love anymore...

    I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve. I always give it away as soon as a woman show any sign of interest in me. Whether it's just friendship or not. I fall for a woman almost as soon as I talk to them and feel like I understand. I start day dreaming about what it would be like to...
    TwyztedDragon TwyztedDragon 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 12, 2011

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    “Distrust and Caution Are the Parents of Security.”

    Ben Franklin said that and I am inclined to agree. I know that's a radical contrast from my previous stances of both not giving a damn and almost wishing the worst would happen to me. But when the house of cards came crashing down, with it came my faith. Faith came to a grinding...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 9, 2009

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    Apollo

    There is a person a ghost to me in this world who I refer to as Apollo, and its because I have never loved anyone like I loved him, it was reckless, it was unconditional, it was full hearted unprotected, eyes closed arms opened love. And he decided that it wasn't for him, I...
    Starbuck82 Starbuck82 26-30, F Mar 17, 2009

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    Man Please

    i just read my last story and i am SO TOTALLY OVER THAT RIGHT NOW THAT IT'S SIMPLY NOT FUNNY. i don't even want a boyfriend. i just wanna be a free agent and do me. if i choose to hook up then i will but i tell ya, guys make wanting sex a challenge with all the dramatic games...
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F Sep 10, 2009

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    In the Beginning....

    When I was younger, I can say that I would fall in love at the drop of a hat.  Over time, I learned that it was only lust that start a relationship off and after some time it becomes love.  I learned that it takes work to find someone to love and when you find that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 27, 2008

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    My Grief

    I thought everything was going to be all right, I thought everything was perfect, I thought everybody was nice, I thought everybody would support me. Everything that I thought of was the complete opposite of the world. Everything that I expected was destroyed. Everything that I...
    Loeki Loeki 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2013

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    Big Talk, Chronimax!

    "Dude...Do I really think I can sit here and tell me that I have any control over the next time I fall in love, if I ever do again? Or who it's going to be for that matter? Aren't I cute with my little thoughts...Well me, guess what? I am doing a good job of controlling it so...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 18, 2011

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    Correction..

    I will not fall in lust so easily again.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2010

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    Broken

    We have been friends since high school. We went into the same college. I confessed he broke my heart, and now he's going to marry somebody else... Happily ever after for him! But me I'm just here sitting wishing for the best for my friend. It's a one sided love, it hurts to say...
    Loeki Loeki 18-21, F Apr 30, 2013

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    I Don't Think So

    I fell way too easily for someone once.  I got hurt worse than I could have ever imagined.  It was something I couldn't really avoid at the time... it was just overwhelming.  But the next time I will be much more cautious.
    EchoRain EchoRain 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2009

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    I Wonder At Times If I Am C...

    I wonder at times if I am capable of ever falling in love again,, I mean,, truly in love.  I have some issues going on in my life and have been feeling so incapable of real love, and it scares me to death.  Hopefully, it's only a temporary thing, and I will once again...
    justANNIE justANNIE 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 13, 2009

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    Falling In Love Shouldn't Be Hard... But

    It hurts when it's one sided. Twice now, I have wanted to be someone's everything. Stupidly I was just an "intense something" to them, a moment, a martyr, a saviour. No more pain for the cause. If my beloved, does not say they are in love with me...I won't utter it...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 18, 2009

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    Bleh

    And because you're such a snob. . . I just grew tired of you. . . You knew that I liked you. . . But you're just playing me, I guess. . . I don't want to get involved any longer with all the mental torture that you're inflicting on me. . . And so. . . I just want to say...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    ?????????

    how will i do if someone cheated my love?i always think that do i have the right to be love?...
    meme226 meme226 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 8, 2012

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    I Am Scared.

    I am scared to give someone else my heart.  I am afraid, because I feel love and compassion for this person.  I will never never fall in love again.  I will try hard not to fall in love and try to keep my heart to myself.  I wish no longer to share my heart with anyone...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 8, 2012

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    I Keep Hoping...

     It seems I stay away from woman for so long that as soon as I kiss the lips of some lady who gives half a **** about herself and me I'm in love again. I think maybe I'm some mental defective sometimes but then maybe an incurable romantic who just keeps hoping.....
    Bradalmy Bradalmy 51-55, M Sep 22, 2009

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    A Letter To My Future Bride And Wife To Be:

    I’ve been reading my bible, praying, and finding time to just sit in silence with God waiting patiently for your arrival. I don’t know who you are, what you look like or what you sound like. I do know you’re out there; I know you’re living life just as I am living mine...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M Aug 29, 2013

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    I MEAN IT TOO!!!

    SOMETIMES I THINK I'M IN LOVE WITH LOVE. THIS TIME I'M NOT FALLING SO EASILY... IT'S SECOND NATURE FOR ME TO BE WITH ONE MATE... ESPECIALLY IF HE'S SEEMINGLY PERFECT FOR ME, BUT I GOT MY HEAD ON STRAIGHT...  EVEN THOUGH I MAY LOVE EVERY SINGLE THING ABOUT U, I KNOW BEING...
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F Aug 5, 2009

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    I am finally living for myself. No longer scared of what others might think of me. It's the only way you can really get through your life the fullest. As I've gotten older I have...
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    Had you ever experienced when you were about to fall in love and that certain guy is gone with the wind?! Can't sleep here 2320 hours in Manila, Philippines... :(
    charmee26 charmee26 31-35, F 12 hrs ago

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    I hate it and I don't know why I fall so fast. I've never been in love but when I start talking to a guy and he makes me laugh it's when i start to fall. I think about him all the...
    tatortiz95 tatortiz95 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    It is inevitable. I know that depression is something I will always deal with. Depression has been a part of my life for as long as I can remember. I can usually get through the...
    couldbeheaven couldbeheaven 26-30, F Apr 1

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    moments in time pass so slow when you drive the mind the time apart wrapped in sorrow when space comes between one together suppose to be but not on this day conversations...
    fwatson0506 fwatson0506 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    was up till three am today not sleeping well. i have a mother who hates the fact her perfect little boy like's men. and uses my ptsd condition to degrade and make look like a...
    foxtrottango foxtrottango 31-35, M Mar 31

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    It always happens to me. I had loved somebody who didn't love me back... :(
    charmee26 charmee26 31-35, F Apr 9

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    In the end, only 3 things matter: how much you loved, how gently you lived, and how gracefully you let go of things not meant for you...
    charmee26 charmee26 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    PAIN! You want to talk about pain! I was not a perfect Mom but I did the best I could, I gave hugs and kisses every night, I helped with home work and planned birthday parties! I...
    itry itry 36-40 3 days ago

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    I feel like the one I love claims to love me just as much back but NEVER shows is and ignores me constantly I feel like.. I hate it and it's killing me😔😔😔
    katelynfoster1 katelynfoster1 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I'll always care about you, I'll care about you now, I'll care about you tomorrow, Even if you hurt me, Even if you **** me off, Even if we fight, Even when im angry, I'd still...
    Sharquita11 Sharquita11 18-21, F Apr 10

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    As long as you are in my life then I will love you for eternity. Xx <3
    AloraAraceli AloraAraceli 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I'm struggling with opening up..don't know who to trust...I don't know who's genuine at this point. I feel safe being alone..I been let down one to many times. I hate talking about...
    JustLaniece JustLaniece 26-30, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I just lost my best friend in a fight and she was really horrible to me over the internet. We used to carpool but i don't want to anymore. Her and my other friend ganged up on me...
    ellaoconnell ellaoconnell 13-15, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I learned my lesson after the first time
    whatnow73 whatnow73 36-40, M Apr 8

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    Michael Jackson is the besttt <3
    HamHere HamHere 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    My feelings never change. Well, they can get confused or complicated at times. But one look at you and they always find their way back. Yeah. You do that to me.
    shikambaw shikambaw 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I've always been a sucker for love and romance. When I was a little girl I would often day dream about meeting my special someone. I used to be all about writing love letters and...
    couldbeheaven couldbeheaven 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    There was that girl I have met long ago. Well, not that long... but before I have met her, I never believed that something like love on first sigh exist. I mean isn't it funny to...
    TsukiyoChan TsukiyoChan 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Defense of Total Depravity and Its Effects on the Human Will ~ Total Depravity means that sin has touched all of what a person is. In the unbeliever this means that his...
    PMEWhite PMEWhite 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Have you ever felt like this? Lol I feel that people fall for me very easily and it makes me feel awkward because I don't fall very easily at all lol
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I was not always like this. I loved him, I can't ever see him upset and I could never be angry over him, but right now I am. I though he was my best friend and I had fallen for...
    Alveira04 Alveira04 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    ooooohhh boy… i was at work today just doing my job when suddenly i just look at this woman passing me and she looked back at me. We had a moment. Then we stopped walking and...
    Mleader1 Mleader1 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My ex and I have been together two different times. The first time lasted 3 months and then 6 months later we ended up together again for a year. It's been a little over two months...
    LameyC LameyC 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I typed other stories before and deleted them as I keep trying to start fresh, to no avail. I sit here crying. I cry out of so much frustration; with God and myself. I don’t...
    myownproblem13 myownproblem13 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 21

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    proudly92 proudly92 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 25

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