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I Will Not Fall In Love So Easily Again

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 207 People

    Never Again

    I can count on one hand the many times I have fallen in love only to have it end before I could enjoy it to it's fullest.  The one person that I am involved with right now will be the last one that I will love without looking long and hard at a relationship.  I look at...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 12, 2008

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    My Grief

    I thought everything was going to be all right, I thought everything was perfect, I thought everybody was nice, I thought everybody would support me. Everything that I thought of was the complete opposite of the world. Everything that I expected was destroyed. Everything that I...
    Loeki Loeki 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2013

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    I Am Scared.

    I am scared to give someone else my heart.  I am afraid, because I feel love and compassion for this person.  I will never never fall in love again.  I will try hard not to fall in love and try to keep my heart to myself.  I wish no longer to share my heart with anyone...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 8, 2012

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    “Distrust and Caution Are the Parents of Security.”

    Ben Franklin said that and I am inclined to agree. I know that's a radical contrast from my previous stances of both not giving a damn and almost wishing the worst would happen to me. But when the house of cards came crashing down, with it came my faith. Faith came to a grinding...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 9, 2009

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    No...never Again!!!!!!

    My affair was sooooo devastating!!  It felt like more than love..I felt it in every fibre of my being. I was consumed by him...all in less than a month. And I just kept falling deeper and deeper every single day. Soon, there was nothing in my life but him.  In the...
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor 51-55, F 15 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    More Cautious...

    I have always fallen in love too easily in the past - I have given my heart away with no thought as to whether the other person was worthy - whether they would take care of my heart and protect it. And I have always been too rash in my decision. From now on I will treat my heart...
    Flugelblues Flugelblues 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 6, 2008

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    In the Beginning....

    When I was younger, I can say that I would fall in love at the drop of a hat.  Over time, I learned that it was only lust that start a relationship off and after some time it becomes love.  I learned that it takes work to find someone to love and when you find that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 27, 2008

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    Please Come Back Please come back to me.

    I have missed you so much. Wherever you are just know that you are on my mind and in my heart, but most of all I love you. I have waited for a woman just like you all of my life and I need you in my life. I want to see you smile again and hear your soft angelic voice, but most...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M Feb 3

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    I don't want to Fall in Love anymore...

    I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve. I always give it away as soon as a woman show any sign of interest in me. Whether it's just friendship or not. I fall for a woman almost as soon as I talk to them and feel like I understand. I start day dreaming about what it would be like to...
    TwyztedDragon TwyztedDragon 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 12, 2011

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    I MEAN IT TOO!!!

    SOMETIMES I THINK I'M IN LOVE WITH LOVE. THIS TIME I'M NOT FALLING SO EASILY... IT'S SECOND NATURE FOR ME TO BE WITH ONE MATE... ESPECIALLY IF HE'S SEEMINGLY PERFECT FOR ME, BUT I GOT MY HEAD ON STRAIGHT...  EVEN THOUGH I MAY LOVE EVERY SINGLE THING ABOUT U, I KNOW BEING...
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F Aug 5, 2009

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    Correction..

    I will not fall in lust so easily again.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2010

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    ?????????

    how will i do if someone cheated my love?i always think that do i have the right to be love?...
    meme226 meme226 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 8, 2012

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    Apollo

    There is a person a ghost to me in this world who I refer to as Apollo, and its because I have never loved anyone like I loved him, it was reckless, it was unconditional, it was full hearted unprotected, eyes closed arms opened love. And he decided that it wasn't for him, I...
    Starbuck82 Starbuck82 26-30, F Mar 17, 2009

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    I Keep Hoping...

     It seems I stay away from woman for so long that as soon as I kiss the lips of some lady who gives half a **** about herself and me I'm in love again. I think maybe I'm some mental defective sometimes but then maybe an incurable romantic who just keeps hoping.....
    Bradalmy Bradalmy 51-55, M Sep 22, 2009

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    ....not With Him

    I am young.  And only with age does experience and knowledge come.  This I understand.  I did not want to get married...I did not want to have his baby...I just wanted to be with him then and there.  But when I got pregnant he asked me to marry him.  I...
    bellasmomma bellasmomma 18-21, F Mar 24, 2009

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    Once Bitten Twice Shy

    i have been in love once in my life, at least i think i have, at the time it felt like love but now i question that, i wonder if i was deluded. I have love in my life but i do not fall in love its too painful and doesnt exactly bring out the best in me. I found when i was in love...
    thehippy thehippy 41-45, F 14 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    Bleh

    And because you're such a snob. . . I just grew tired of you. . . You knew that I liked you. . . But you're just playing me, I guess. . . I don't want to get involved any longer with all the mental torture that you're inflicting on me. . . And so. . . I just want to say...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 21, 2013

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    I Wonder At Times If I Am C...

    I wonder at times if I am capable of ever falling in love again,, I mean,, truly in love.  I have some issues going on in my life and have been feeling so incapable of real love, and it scares me to death.  Hopefully, it's only a temporary thing, and I will once again...
    justANNIE justANNIE 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 13, 2009

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    After my last breakup I don't think I'll love

    the same again. I know It won't be the same. But at least the experience was nice to learn from. Thanks ex babe for showing me the way around the brick wall that was holding me back. I've finally went passed it on my own.
    steve0629 steve0629 18-21, M Mar 22

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    Words Bleh

    I'm trying to make a commitment to myself to never fall for simply words alone again. I don't want to put my heart on the line and hang it by a thread of promises. I feel it's best that we don't invest our hearts and time into words alone, because words/promises are...
    MiracleWhipTrickster MiracleWhipTrickster 18-21, M 6 Responses Oct 20, 2010

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    Broken

    We have been friends since high school. We went into the same college. I confessed he broke my heart, and now he's going to marry somebody else... Happily ever after for him! But me I'm just here sitting wishing for the best for my friend. It's a one sided love, it hurts to say...
    Loeki Loeki 18-21, F Apr 30, 2013

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    I Don't Think So

    I fell way too easily for someone once.  I got hurt worse than I could have ever imagined.  It was something I couldn't really avoid at the time... it was just overwhelming.  But the next time I will be much more cautious.
    EchoRain EchoRain 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2009

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    Big Talk, Chronimax!

    "Dude...Do I really think I can sit here and tell me that I have any control over the next time I fall in love, if I ever do again? Or who it's going to be for that matter? Aren't I cute with my little thoughts...Well me, guess what? I am doing a good job of controlling it so...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 18, 2011

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    Walls Walls Walls

    yeah. i guess, after all the heartbreak, i have learned how to put those walls up again. not that i have not been hurt while having those walls around, i have, but it's  okay coz i got hurt by a truth that i have then learned to accept, and it's good. What i don't want to...
    mistyeyedlass mistyeyedlass 18-21, F 3 Responses May 1, 2009

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    A Letter To My Future Bride And Wife To Be:

    I’ve been reading my bible, praying, and finding time to just sit in silence with God waiting patiently for your arrival. I don’t know who you are, what you look like or what you sound like. I do know you’re out there; I know you’re living life just as I am living mine...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M Aug 29, 2013

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    Man Please

    i just read my last story and i am SO TOTALLY OVER THAT RIGHT NOW THAT IT'S SIMPLY NOT FUNNY. i don't even want a boyfriend. i just wanna be a free agent and do me. if i choose to hook up then i will but i tell ya, guys make wanting sex a challenge with all the dramatic games...
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F Sep 10, 2009

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    Falling In Love Shouldn't Be Hard... But

    It hurts when it's one sided. Twice now, I have wanted to be someone's everything. Stupidly I was just an "intense something" to them, a moment, a martyr, a saviour. No more pain for the cause. If my beloved, does not say they are in love with me...I won't utter it...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 18, 2009

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    Dear Future Wife

    Dear Future Wife, I have to admit and it’s not easy saying this, but I have been a broken man and alone for quite some time. In the past I have given my heart out on a silver platter to those whom I felt I could trust and love, but only to have it handed back to me postage due...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M 2 Responses Sep 19, 2013

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