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I Will Not Fall In Love So Easily Again

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 241 People

    ....not With Him

    I am young.  And only with age does experience and knowledge come.  This I understand.  I did not want to get married...I did not want to have his baby...I just wanted to be with him then and there.  But when I got pregnant he asked me to marry him.  I...
    bellasmomma bellasmomma 18-21, F Mar 24, 2009

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    I don't want to Fall in Love anymore...

    I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve. I always give it away as soon as a woman show any sign of interest in me. Whether it's just friendship or not. I fall for a woman almost as soon as I talk to them and feel like I understand. I start day dreaming about what it would be like to...
    TwyztedDragon TwyztedDragon 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 12, 2011

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    I Wonder At Times If I Am C...

    I wonder at times if I am capable of ever falling in love again,, I mean,, truly in love.  I have some issues going on in my life and have been feeling so incapable of real love, and it scares me to death.  Hopefully, it's only a temporary thing, and I will once again...
    justANNIE justANNIE 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 13, 2009

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    No...never Again!!!!!!

    My affair was sooooo devastating!!  It felt like more than love..I felt it in every fibre of my being. I was consumed by him...all in less than a month. And I just kept falling deeper and deeper every single day. Soon, there was nothing in my life but him.  In the...
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor 56-60, F 15 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    In the Beginning....

    When I was younger, I can say that I would fall in love at the drop of a hat.  Over time, I learned that it was only lust that start a relationship off and after some time it becomes love.  I learned that it takes work to find someone to love and when you find that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 27, 2008

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    Apollo

    There is a person a ghost to me in this world who I refer to as Apollo, and its because I have never loved anyone like I loved him, it was reckless, it was unconditional, it was full hearted unprotected, eyes closed arms opened love. And he decided that it wasn't for him, I...
    Starbuck82 Starbuck82 31-35, F Mar 17, 2009

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    I Am Scared.

    I am scared to give someone else my heart.  I am afraid, because I feel love and compassion for this person.  I will never never fall in love again.  I will try hard not to fall in love and try to keep my heart to myself.  I wish no longer to share my heart with anyone...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 8, 2012

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    I Don't Think So

    I fell way too easily for someone once.  I got hurt worse than I could have ever imagined.  It was something I couldn't really avoid at the time... it was just overwhelming.  But the next time I will be much more cautious.
    EchoRain EchoRain 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2009

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    Correction..

    I will not fall in lust so easily again.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25 1 Response Oct 20, 2010

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    A Letter To My Future Bride And Wife To Be:

    I’ve been reading my bible, praying, and finding time to just sit in silence with God waiting patiently for your arrival. I don’t know who you are, what you look like or what you sound like. I do know you’re out there; I know you’re living life just as I am living mine...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M Aug 29, 2013

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    I Keep Hoping...

     It seems I stay away from woman for so long that as soon as I kiss the lips of some lady who gives half a **** about herself and me I'm in love again. I think maybe I'm some mental defective sometimes but then maybe an incurable romantic who just keeps hoping.....
    Bradalmy Bradalmy 51-55, M Sep 22, 2009

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    I fell in love once and it's been pretty bad.

    The worst feeling in the entire world is hating someone that I once loved so much. That is worse than having everything fall apart.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2014

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    Bleh

    And because you're such a snob. . . I just grew tired of you. . . You knew that I liked you. . . But you're just playing me, I guess. . . I don't want to get involved any longer with all the mental torture that you're inflicting on me. . . And so. . . I just want to say...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 21, 2013

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    Words Bleh

    I'm trying to make a commitment to myself to never fall for simply words alone again. I don't want to put my heart on the line and hang it by a thread of promises. I feel it's best that we don't invest our hearts and time into words alone, because words/promises are...
    MiracleWhipTrickster MiracleWhipTrickster 18-21, M 6 Responses Oct 20, 2010

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    ?????????

    how will i do if someone cheated my love?i always think that do i have the right to be love?...
    meme226 meme226 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 8, 2012

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    Big Talk, Chronimax!

    "Dude...Do I really think I can sit here and tell me that I have any control over the next time I fall in love, if I ever do again? Or who it's going to be for that matter? Aren't I cute with my little thoughts...Well me, guess what? I am doing a good job of controlling it so...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 18, 2011

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    More Cautious...

    I have always fallen in love too easily in the past - I have given my heart away with no thought as to whether the other person was worthy - whether they would take care of my heart and protect it. And I have always been too rash in my decision. From now on I will treat my heart...
    Flugelblues Flugelblues 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 6, 2008

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    Broken

    We have been friends since high school. We went into the same college. I confessed he broke my heart, and now he's going to marry somebody else... Happily ever after for him! But me I'm just here sitting wishing for the best for my friend. It's a one sided love, it hurts to say...
    Loeki Loeki 18-21, F Apr 30, 2013

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    Please Come Back Please come back to me.

    I have missed you so much. Wherever you are just know that you are on my mind and in my heart, but most of all I love you. I have waited for a woman just like you all of my life and I need you in my life. I want to see you smile again and hear your soft angelic voice, but most...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M Feb 3, 2014

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    Never Again

    I can count on one hand the many times I have fallen in love only to have it end before I could enjoy it to it's fullest.  The one person that I am involved with right now will be the last one that I will love without looking long and hard at a relationship.  I look at...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 12, 2008

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    Walls Walls Walls

    yeah. i guess, after all the heartbreak, i have learned how to put those walls up again. not that i have not been hurt while having those walls around, i have, but it's  okay coz i got hurt by a truth that i have then learned to accept, and it's good. What i don't want to...
    mistyeyedlass mistyeyedlass 18-21, F 3 Responses May 1, 2009

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    Falling In Love Shouldn't Be Hard... But

    It hurts when it's one sided. Twice now, I have wanted to be someone's everything. Stupidly I was just an "intense something" to them, a moment, a martyr, a saviour. No more pain for the cause. If my beloved, does not say they are in love with me...I won't utter it...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 18, 2009

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    “Distrust and Caution Are the Parents of Security.”

    Ben Franklin said that and I am inclined to agree. I know that's a radical contrast from my previous stances of both not giving a damn and almost wishing the worst would happen to me. But when the house of cards came crashing down, with it came my faith. Faith came to a grinding...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 9, 2009

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    Once Bitten Twice Shy

    i have been in love once in my life, at least i think i have, at the time it felt like love but now i question that, i wonder if i was deluded. I have love in my life but i do not fall in love its too painful and doesnt exactly bring out the best in me. I found when i was in love...
    thehippy thehippy 41-45, F 14 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    My Grief

    I thought everything was going to be all right, I thought everything was perfect, I thought everybody was nice, I thought everybody would support me. Everything that I thought of was the complete opposite of the world. Everything that I expected was destroyed. Everything that I...
    Loeki Loeki 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2013

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    And it made me never want to love someone like that ever again. I'd actually met this guy when we were both in first grade. He and I attended the same elementary school for a while...
    Curlatte3845 Curlatte3845 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    28.8.15 I recently moved out of home...it was day before yesterday..I am trying to adjust in this new environment..not being angry and stuff..having a roommate to live with..some...
    sb3007 sb3007 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I want to give up right now
    JoshuaAyala121 JoshuaAyala121 13-15, M 2 days ago

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    I really want to text him right now, but I know that would be stupid so I'm writing this instead. I've been constantly distracting myself, here goes another one. It stings a little...
    captivating23 captivating23 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    Maroon 5 - She Will Be Loved Beauty queen of only eighteen She had some trouble with herself He was always there to help her She always belonged to someone else I drove for miles...
    Dafhunter Dafhunter 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    So I just got Fallout New Vegas again with all the dlc and extras and I mistakenly did one of the DLC quests as a super low level.... I learned my lesson quick lol. I was supposed...
    GoldenHeart69 GoldenHeart69 22-25, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    Love Drunk - By Boys Like Girls Love this song. Mainly because I used to fall in love easily. But now I don't. "I used to be love drunk But now I'm hungover.."
    HollywoodKitty23 HollywoodKitty23 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    Ed Sheeran-thinking out loud When your legs don't work like they used to before And I can't sweep you off of your feet Will your mouth still remember the taste of my love? Will...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 days ago

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    It seems that I have a chronic case of this. I put to much faith in what people might do for me and how people might heal me. In the end, though I never reveal my problems, they...
    Person123x Person123x 18-21 4 days ago

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    Ever since I am not particular in appreciating parent's Love until I became a mother of Samantha,my daughter whom i cared and love too much. Everytime my daughter touches my face...
    annieIn21 annieIn21 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Despite what I am and the monster that's a part of me, God loves me. He knows me, all of me and he still loves me. I think part of the reason I follow such a strict moral code...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I dreamt last night that we were together again; that you forgave me and wanted to be a family again. We were becoming friends again. I'm so sorry I hurt you, but I wasn't in my...
    TracyLynnT TracyLynnT 36-40, F 6 days ago

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    I am 17 and I plan to marry outside of my race either man or woman! It's not self hate trust me , just an attraction to other people. My parents let me know they won't come to my...
    spirtstream spirtstream 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    You know what I love most about my family?! They aren't my real family, but they are my adopted family, and I love them so much cause they love me. They took me in when I had...
    ToSexyForYou ToSexyForYou 22-25, F a week ago

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    "Lead Me Out Of The Dark" It's not quite a mystery. I'm the one who's insecure, you're the one that makes believe, that we're all okay, we're doing fine, when we're both fighting...
    jaseyrae22 jaseyrae22 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    my mum forbade me from listening to killing in the name when I was younger, but now whenever I listen to it I feel like the biggest badass and it's great
    emjagrace emjagrace 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    Reading is back. Lost it. For years. But love fiction again. Non fiction is difficult. But wealthy pill makers failed to take books away. Yaaaaaaayyy!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Converted Converted 46-50, M Aug 20

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    I'm afraid. I was cleaning up after my puppy this morning. Knowing how much I love him and how much he means to me, I knew he was having diarrhea, but had no means of taking him...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F Aug 20

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