I Will Not Have Sex With Just Anyone Or Anybody

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 471 People

    Im Just Not Like That

    I need to know the person, care for the person and feel a connection. I need to feel comfortable and wanted. I want to be able to give that in return.
    FromTheHeartOfaWoman FromTheHeartOfaWoman
    22-25, F
    Apr 7, 2012

    Not Anymore

    I had to learn the hard way about guys. I had to learn that if I like them I can't just sleep with them & they'll like me back. I had to learn that guys wasn't as emotionally attached as girls. I learned if I didn't have respect for myself no one would.
    joycub joycub
    18-21, F
    Aug 10, 2012

    That's not to say that the brain-contolling,

    raging testosterone pumping urge isn't constantly there, its just that sex doesn't really satisfy me without an intense emotional connection to springboard off of.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 24, 2015

    Was a time When a Come Hither look was all I

    needed.As I grew older I came to understand just how complicated things could become with casual sex.How easy it is even now at my age to confuse lust with love. I would rather wait and be sure its a 2 way love from now on.
    The1960texan The1960texan
    51-55, M
    4 Responses Jan 15

    I might not be the type of girl

    who has sex with u, but I WILL let you borrow my panties for an hour so you can tell ur friends u got laid. ;)
    ERMAHGERD1 ERMAHGERD1
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Apr 4

    Defiled Cherry *P♥P*!

    I have never had sex before. For me, sex cannot be done with anybody I become sexually attracted to. My body might say 'yes' but my mind, my heart, and my v♥gina say 'no'. It's important that I keep myself "pure" for the right person whom I deem "worthy" enough to acquire my...
    MadamSinwell MadamSinwell
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 15, 2013

    But I just want to ****

    and not fall in love
    beautyisds beautyisds
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Dec 10, 2013

    I love sex but won't just sleep with anyone.

    I have to know the person and feel a connection. Things take time for me.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jun 8, 2014

    My last day on this site will be next Tuesday.

    ..... I haven't been able to find love....:( I did meet some really nice people..... But didn't find love.....or love didn't find me...... Perhaps .....things could change by next Tuesday?.....who knows?
    lookingforlove2067 lookingforlove2067
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Apr 15

    Nope

    Nada, Kein, Nani, Not................... No!
    CreativeClassy CreativeClassy
    46-50, F
    Mar 19, 2013

    Picky Me

    Why is it that people tend to think, that because I'm a fat girl, I'm in desperate need of a ****? r Yes my **** are massive, and they jiggly when I walk... But random strangers shoving their face between them, just doesn't rock my boat. And yes my bottom is expansive and I...
    Fattibottigirl Fattibottigirl
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Aug 5, 2013

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