I Wish Bad Things Didnt Happen To Good People

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    To all the good people: At a constant war with

    life. It's ammunition makes us suffer. Until there's nothing left to defend ourselves with but faith. Faith that there's a reason for our constant battle. That there's something better waiting for us. There's nothing left. So it seems. when this is all designed to be a dream...
    Girlfromplanetearth Girlfromplanetearth
    22-25, F
    Dec 30, 2013

    Sometimes...

    But sometimes, if bad things didn't happen to a good person, they wouldn't be the good person that they are today.
    CrazyKid4 CrazyKid4
    18-21, F
    Dec 2, 2013

    Good Friends

    One of my best friends ever has been very unfortunate health-wise. Well, actually three have, but this is about one of them. She's one of the nicest and coolest people I've ever met; I've only heard her say bad things about people a total of 5 times ever. She really wouldn't hurt...
    nudgette nudgette
    22-25, F
    Dec 2, 2013

    Why?

    why the bad things happen to good people? my good friend is kinda not happy :( her dad died last year in 6 grade(begin of 6 grade)her little brother was 6,7 i think.and she lives with her mum and little brother,and they don't have lot of money,she can't wear makeup(because of...
    JustMeeeeee JustMeeeeee
    13-15, F
    Mar 5, 2012

    I know right? I've never done anything bad!

    I've donated my money to charity, I want to help the world..I'm kind and selfless and yet bad things happen to me... I might have to get knee surgery and now my right eye is all goofed up....eye...surgery sounds horrible. I'd rather die.
    AfterFall AfterFall
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 25, 2014

    It seems like I can wash

    and dry all the apples and get the most rotten one. Or sand all the sticks and get the shortest one. Or hunt the cow and receive no steak. Or work the hardest and get no break.
    teacup224 teacup224
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 23, 2015

    Generally, they don't deserve to have it!

    Although I guess that the law of probability and averages gas so special dispensation to allow this in the fine print!!
    PeterSp8 PeterSp8
    46-50, M
    May 26, 2015

    Are being punished by god?

    ...did he create the devil based off from our sins?...is it karma or is it a curse from above?....I wish I knew where all this bad luck came from:(
    PuppetMaster87 PuppetMaster87
    26-30, M
    Jan 9, 2014

    This entire thing should really be reversed

    or something, its very sad to hear about bad thing happening to such good people.
    Tagstar2000 Tagstar2000
    13-15, M
    3 Responses Dec 23, 2015

    I understand why bad things happen to good

    people but I don't like it. I believe bad things happen to good people so that they can over-come obstacles and become stronger people at the end of the day.
    2323keka 2323keka
    18-21
    Feb 26, 2015

    They don't deserve it!

    Why should good people suffer?!? It's painful to watch a good person being put down and almost destroyed because of the overloading overwhelming bad things! I don't get it... good people work their socks off and put in every effort they got and they don't get what they deserve...
    LittleMilwee LittleMilwee
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 28, 2014

    It really hurts when I see something terrible

    happening to a good person, its like I ask a question to GOD y did u do tht to them and y is it thm to suffer, wen they never did wrong for anyone. its sad.
    Blackangel4u Blackangel4u
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 28, 2014

    Sad News

    I work with several clients helping manage their claims. One very nice man recently lost his wife to cancer. It spread from her breasts to her brain and it was a painful, slow death but they seemed to be a very loving famiy and well prepared for the inevitable. Honestly, is...
    akindheart akindheart
    56-60, F
    4 Responses Aug 8, 2013

    Lean On Me..

    I always look at the people around me and see that all the good people is put thru hell, but the ones that deserve it doesnt ever seem to recieve the bullsh!t.. I look at some of my friends and wonder what did they do to deserve all this pain. I guess thats just a mystery.. I...
    hellontheheart hellontheheart
    18-21, F
    Apr 16, 2012

    When I hear these stories

    when bad things happen to such good people it’s hard to stay optimistic, I believe that when you do something bad it comes back to bite you in the ***….. But when I do something good it mostly puts me in an awkward situation or something nasty happens to me! When do good...
    SmartnDangerous SmartnDangerous
    22-25, F
    Feb 7, 2015

    I hate it when this happens :( like what

    happened to my EP friend Steve :( He is a genuine lovely fella who was mis-lead by a troll into sending pics of himself to , what he thought , was a girl that liked to see him wearing a thong. The 'girl' turned out to be a guy that posted his 'private' pics online causing Steve...
    LancsgirlKelly LancsgirlKelly
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 18, 2015

    The Truth

    i don't because you might be a good person but maybe you're much stronger than you think you are, so it's something called discipline that helps you get stronger: like wise, those who never fell, never learned anything new. 1 corinthians 10:13 "no temptation has overtaken you...
    DelilahAriah DelilahAriah
    13-15, F
    Sep 10, 2012

    The Perfect Example

    One of my best friends is probably the greatest guy I know. But for the last two years nothing but bad things happen to him. It seems like everyday, something new is going wrong. What I hate the most is there is nothing I can do. Nothing at all. Makes me feel like a terrible...
    wonderstruck77 wonderstruck77
    31-35, F
    Feb 24, 2013

    So there's this app called Uber.

    If you haven't heard of it, it an app where you can schedule a car to pick you up. Anyone can be an Uber taxi, you just need a car. So my friend called his Uber, it picked him up and they were on their way... On the highway my friend ( who is a male) was pulled out if the cab...
    dsasl dsasl
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 9, 2014

    But...

    Of course I wish that bad things didn't happen to good people. But they do and all the wishing in the world isn't likely to change that.So I choose to accept that it's a fact of life...and move forward.I choose to help people in the throes of bad things happening. I choose to...
    Plaid Plaid
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 28, 2012

    I Challenge This With A Question In Return:

    Why do good things happen to bad people?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 28, 2013

    Why?

    Why does it work this way? All the wonderful people I know always have something horrible happen to them. They don't deserve it. Meanwhile, all of the worthless, cruel people that do bad things & treat people like crap, have everything. I am still waiting for karma to catch up...
    GreenSkye84 GreenSkye84
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Mar 1, 2012

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