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I Wish Being a Slob Was Socially Acceptable

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    Oh My Goodness, Not Company!

    I had an out-of-town guest for a week, and it took me over a month to get my house straight enough to not be mortified when she arrived.  Three trips to Goodwill and two trips to the dump, and it was presentable, but still not great.  I'm not aiming at Better Homes and...
    judibeads judibeads 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2008

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    Come On Down

    you can be a slob at my house.Get in your sloppy suit,fuzzy socks .That's what I do and nothing wrong with it.I love cozy clothes.
    wiseowl wiseowl 61-65, F 1 Response Feb 27, 2008

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    But I Really Don't Care

    I guess it would be cool if it was socially acceptable, but I really don't care what's socially acceptable.  Nothing I do is socially acceptable, so I've learned just not to give a frick.  I'm sloppy and that's the way it's always going to be, so "society"...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 26, 2008

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