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I Wish For Real Friends Who Would Understand Me

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    Wish You Could Understand

    In 2009, I decided to take more risks, take chances, and live my life to the fullest. I decided to let go of fear and release the person I desired to be, not who everyone else told me to be. The process has been quite interesting. I regret no experience since they have made me a...
    BellaFairy BellaFairy 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 7, 2012

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    I want a friend that will text me all day.

    Always have something to talk about. Not just hey,lol,yepp, etcc.. I want someone that understands my relationship that wont judge me & has time for me.
    DestructionAmistOthers DestructionAmistOthers 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    Wish For Real Friends Who Would Understand Me"

    I have known some of my friends through out my entire life and they still don't understand me... they are always bringing me down...telling me that i'm stupid...and if i tell them a secret they blab it out for the world to hear...it's just not fair that the treat me like...
    lifelover777 lifelover777 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 10, 2008

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    I Think I Found Some

    They don't laugh at me for who I am. They don't ridicule or chastise me for who I am. They talk to me like I was any other person in the world. They don't laugh or snicker sat me when I tell some of deepest thought. Even the ones they probably don't want to hear when I can't...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 2 Responses Nov 28, 2008

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    My "friends"

    I have two friends that always seem to get rid of people whenever they get tired of them. I did that with them once but I realized how hurtful it was when it happened to me. I wouldn't necessarily call myself nice however. Any way we were friends again until about Halloween when...
    HmzkDp HmzkDp 13-15, F Dec 4, 2010

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    Hard to Find People That Can Understand Me At All

    granted i'm not very easy to understand. i'm not even sure i understand me
    AngelaDark AngelaDark 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 19, 2007

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    It's Hard...

    ...but just to have someone in your life that you can express what you need to to them without judgement or ridicule is such a rare commodity these days. I am a very closed book type of a person, but that doesn't mean that I don't need at least one friend that I can be myself...
    Tuva Tuva 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 8, 2011

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    Nobody Seems to Understand

    I don't feel as though anyone truly understands me. I am very different from my family so we don't communicate much. My Mom and me talk the most out of the family, but she doesn't understand. Also, i have like 2-3 friends that live in the same area and i wouldn't consider them...
    alwaysalone alwaysalone 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 19, 2008

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    Sometimes I Wish

    Sometimes I do wish for real friends who would understand me.....I have one friend who truelly understands me and everything about me, and she has since day one. I can be complicated, I have alot of issues to deal with and sometimes it can be hard to be my friend.
    keyna keyna 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 21, 2008

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    Ive had friends at a point in my life

    and i thought i could always rely on them but these past few years have taught me a lesson. A lesson i learned the hard way, i now spend days without talking to anyone. Apart from my family, to whom i talk to once or twice in 2 weeks. Its not that i dont have friends but no one...
    Loer Loer 26-30, M Apr 17

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    I Do Have Something to Offer Why Don't People See It

    I have had some friends over the years but not enough of close supportive friends. I have read hundreds of books, gone on course tried various things but can't seem to connect. I look okay, speak and act normally, have a good job and reasonable income, know how to consider other...
    zillion zillion 51-55 Sep 20, 2008

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    Am I Allone In This World ?

    Hi there I don't know were to start, I have been described by others as a deep thinker, a talented man with a heart bigger than my brain, I find it very hard to find people who treat me right or that I can relate to, sometimes I think I am the only one anything like me...
    zzzen zzzen 36-40, M 7 Responses Jun 21, 2009

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    What I Need Most

    I wish all the time I had just one real friend who could understand me. One real friend who I could talk with and really open up to. Therapy is not the same thing. It's nice having someone to talk to, but I would much rather have a real friend, someone who could talk to me for...
    Melody08 Melody08 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 2, 2008

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    Something I've Always Wanted...

    For a long time now I've wished I had a small group of good friends I could chat to about anything. It's something I've been missing all my life. I've always felt alone and rarely had people to hang out with. Just having one or two good friends I could meet regularly, go places...
    taloden taloden 26-30, M 3 Responses Apr 30, 2010

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    If Only...

    I've always had friends, but never the ones I could tell everything I really want to say to them.. Having friends is nice I guess, but having someone who actually understands you and not just say yeah I know how you feel, when they don't know how I feel. No one does, not even my...
    Storyofmylife12 Storyofmylife12 13-15 2 Responses May 2, 2012

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     I Have a Few, But I W...

     I have a few, but I wish for more and I wish I could always have those I have. 
    mandarose524 mandarose524 26-30, F Apr 11, 2008

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    Aloneness

    When I was growing up, I was the type of kid who'd have a best friend and then perhaps a small group of friends. Guess we have less expectations of friends when we're kids, it's more about doing stuff together, playing games, sleeping over, etc. But as my life progressed...
    schmatto schmatto 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 8, 2008

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    I Want to Spread Joy

    I want someone, anyone to understand exactly how trippy-ditzy-crazy I actually am. My life goal is to cash in $100 at the bank for pennies and other small coins, keep them in a pretty little velvet bag and walk around my city handing people coins, hugging them, and wishing them...
    shamelesswilde shamelesswilde 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 16, 2008

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    I wish I had someone to really understand me.

    .Tbh my family has run into.. Some money.. I have never really had a lot of friends, but now everyone wants to be my best friend and ask me to get things for them.. I can't trust or get close to anyone because I just know that they will use me.. Even people I didn't tell found...
    GabriellaFae GabriellaFae 13-15, F 5 Responses Jan 23

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    Thankfully

    I have a very close circle of friends who understand me sometimes better than I do myself. I love them and wouldn't trade them for anything. Though, I would like for that group to grow.
    GoddessNakiBean GoddessNakiBean 36-40, F Jun 13, 2008

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    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 Aug 18

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    That saying Life's a ***** then you die, is so true. I have gone through the ***** part now I'm just waiting for death. I feel like I have nothing to live for anyways. I see...
    feelinglost84 feelinglost84 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    Hi guys. im happy to discover this site. this is my first post. I always wish for death to come for everything to be finished. Im 18 and depressed for as long as I can remember...
    KianZzy KianZzy 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Growing up, I was surrounded by a steady group of friends that loved each other and loved me for who I was. I never felt excluded or judged, or that I had to act as someone I wasn...
    snowflake11114 snowflake11114 22-25, F Aug 15

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    I have my two brothers and my mum. I really really want real friends.... I'm so lonely and am a poor excuse for a human. I always end up getting used and hated... People only like...
    Dreamprojector Dreamprojector 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    I might feel that I've lost some, or might thought that I don't have one, but over and over again, God showed me that I have them by my side... Yesterday was a tremendous laugh...
    PsychjiLL PsychjiLL 22-25 Aug 3

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    I have recently moved and I am attending a new school. I made two great friends who I trust very much.but as soon as summer came they started ignoring me.they don't answer any of...
    reg212 reg212 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    I'm looking for new friends because this past year I've lost a couple. I am very afraid that it will happen again but I am willing to take that risk. I'm willing to feel the pain...
    lvcr lvcr 13-15, F Aug 12

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    Looking for more friends to add to my collection haha :)
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F Aug 17

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    Am a single mature guy looking for Indian females who want to get real and explore a nice time or NSA relationship
    sinofjoy sinofjoy 36-40, M 6 days ago

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    Since I started ep I have only had 1 true friend my first real friend no epalli but my friend lilag. Her real name is Judith and I always tell her stories. Though I have been...
    CRizma7 CRizma7 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    I went through a lot in my life I just wish I can talk to someone about it and understand me. I feel so alone and I have to keep it to myself
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    When I think about it. I really have no one to talk to..I don't even have anyone to send a text too who I know would listen & not judge me. Growing up sucks.
    Jackiebh Jackiebh 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Twenty years old, and I still don't know who I am. I know of myself, but not myself fully. Studies in psychology suggest a human's 20's are about discovering one's self, but I...
    SereneSolidarity SereneSolidarity 18-21, M Aug 12

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    I had to recreate my account and need friends lol anybody interested feel free to add me lol I like video games, drawing, i don't judge anyone, and i have a thing for tickling lol
    KonekaiReangashi5666 KonekaiReangashi5666 16-17, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I am looking for someone interesting. Someone : Who can speak english and write correctly. Who is NOT ANNOYING! Who is NOT JUDGEMENTAL! Who is OPEN MINDED... Who IS NOT PERVERTED...
    DoItLikeADude DoItLikeADude 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 8

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    so im 17 years old and just graduated high school in June. throughout high school i changed my group of friends periodically. ive always kept to a small group of friends since i...
    justagirl18 justagirl18 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    WARNING: LONG POST AHEAD I dont really have any friends and i havent had any for many years except my wife and kids. I have a few people i talk to online but other than that no...
    shinjorai shinjorai 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 10

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    There is a solution to this dilemma. Build a new family! Most would call this just making friends, but I'm suggesting an organization to help. Twelve Step groups can be a...
    icDavey icDavey 56-60, M 1 Response Aug 11

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    Is there a friend left for me? Someone that needs to have a friend as much as I do? Is there a gentle soul willing to share some time?
    toehold toehold 26-30, M 10 hrs ago

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    A friend is a push when you have stopped, a chat when u r lonely, a guide when u r searching, a smile when u r sad, a song when u r glad...I won't promise to be ur friend forever...
    Skpan80 Skpan80 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    Yes I like to have inteeligent conversation with people.But I would like to know more about you to be more comfortable with you? Is that wrong on my part?I like to be totally...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 14

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    I think people try too hard to understand others who go through depression, so they end up saying and doing the wrong things.
    xXAriannaXx xXAriannaXx 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    You probably do it's justbthatbyou have so many trust issues and paranoia that when you have a real friend you think their ale or using, while in conjunction pushing away new...
    iamonamission iamonamission 16-17, M Aug 4

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    I wouldnt mind skype chatting with my Ep friends, shoot me a message and ill add you
    TwisterTy TwisterTy 22-25, M Aug 10

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    wish a young girl from england would txt me
    kirtstevens kirtstevens 41-45, M Aug 5

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    We were really close a while back but now it seems like we're just drifting away. Well. It seems like I'm drifting away from them. I hate being alone so knowing this makes me...
    musicislifeandlove musicislifeandlove 13-15, F Aug 23

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    Hello, I'm looking for some pen friends :) I'm just a crazy girl with many dreams. And my biggest dream is visit the USA - especially New York (I live in Europe). If anyone would...
    EnyBlack EnyBlack 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    anyone who is creative, passionate and would like to travel :)
    Songbirdxofxpassage Songbirdxofxpassage 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 9

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