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I Wish For Real Friends Who Would Understand Me

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    I want a friend that will text me all day.

    Always have something to talk about. Not just hey,lol,yepp, etcc.. I want someone that understands my relationship that wont judge me & has time for me.
    DestructionAmistOthers DestructionAmistOthers 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    Aloneness

    When I was growing up, I was the type of kid who'd have a best friend and then perhaps a small group of friends. Guess we have less expectations of friends when we're kids, it's more about doing stuff together, playing games, sleeping over, etc. But as my life progressed...
    schmatto schmatto 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 8, 2008

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    I Think I Found Some

    They don't laugh at me for who I am. They don't ridicule or chastise me for who I am. They talk to me like I was any other person in the world. They don't laugh or snicker sat me when I tell some of deepest thought. Even the ones they probably don't want to hear when I can't...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 2 Responses Nov 28, 2008

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    Hard to Find People That Can Understand Me At All

    granted i'm not very easy to understand. i'm not even sure i understand me
    AngelaDark AngelaDark 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 19, 2007

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    What I Need Most

    I wish all the time I had just one real friend who could understand me. One real friend who I could talk with and really open up to. Therapy is not the same thing. It's nice having someone to talk to, but I would much rather have a real friend, someone who could talk to me for...
    Melody08 Melody08 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 2, 2008

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    Ive had friends at a point in my life

    and i thought i could always rely on them but these past few years have taught me a lesson. A lesson i learned the hard way, i now spend days without talking to anyone. Apart from my family, to whom i talk to once or twice in 2 weeks. Its not that i dont have friends but no one...
    Loer Loer 26-30, M Apr 17

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    My "friends"

    I have two friends that always seem to get rid of people whenever they get tired of them. I did that with them once but I realized how hurtful it was when it happened to me. I wouldn't necessarily call myself nice however. Any way we were friends again until about Halloween when...
    HmzkDp HmzkDp 13-15, F Dec 4, 2010

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    Am I Allone In This World ?

    Hi there I don't know were to start, I have been described by others as a deep thinker, a talented man with a heart bigger than my brain, I find it very hard to find people who treat me right or that I can relate to, sometimes I think I am the only one anything like me...
    zzzen zzzen 36-40, M 7 Responses Jun 21, 2009

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    I wish I had someone to really understand me.

    .Tbh my family has run into.. Some money.. I have never really had a lot of friends, but now everyone wants to be my best friend and ask me to get things for them.. I can't trust or get close to anyone because I just know that they will use me.. Even people I didn't tell found...
    GabriellaFae GabriellaFae 13-15, F 5 Responses Jan 23

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    Thankfully

    I have a very close circle of friends who understand me sometimes better than I do myself. I love them and wouldn't trade them for anything. Though, I would like for that group to grow.
    GoddessNakiBean GoddessNakiBean 36-40, F Jun 13, 2008

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    If Only...

    I've always had friends, but never the ones I could tell everything I really want to say to them.. Having friends is nice I guess, but having someone who actually understands you and not just say yeah I know how you feel, when they don't know how I feel. No one does, not even my...
    Storyofmylife12 Storyofmylife12 13-15 2 Responses May 2, 2012

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    I Do Have Something to Offer Why Don't People See It

    I have had some friends over the years but not enough of close supportive friends. I have read hundreds of books, gone on course tried various things but can't seem to connect. I look okay, speak and act normally, have a good job and reasonable income, know how to consider other...
    zillion zillion 51-55 Sep 20, 2008

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    Wish For Real Friends Who Would Understand Me"

    I have known some of my friends through out my entire life and they still don't understand me... they are always bringing me down...telling me that i'm stupid...and if i tell them a secret they blab it out for the world to hear...it's just not fair that the treat me like...
    lifelover777 lifelover777 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 10, 2008

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    Sometimes I Wish

    Sometimes I do wish for real friends who would understand me.....I have one friend who truelly understands me and everything about me, and she has since day one. I can be complicated, I have alot of issues to deal with and sometimes it can be hard to be my friend.
    keyna keyna 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 21, 2008

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    Something I've Always Wanted...

    For a long time now I've wished I had a small group of good friends I could chat to about anything. It's something I've been missing all my life. I've always felt alone and rarely had people to hang out with. Just having one or two good friends I could meet regularly, go places...
    taloden taloden 26-30, M 3 Responses Apr 30, 2010

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    It's Hard...

    ...but just to have someone in your life that you can express what you need to to them without judgement or ridicule is such a rare commodity these days. I am a very closed book type of a person, but that doesn't mean that I don't need at least one friend that I can be myself...
    Tuva Tuva 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 8, 2011

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    Wish You Could Understand

    In 2009, I decided to take more risks, take chances, and live my life to the fullest. I decided to let go of fear and release the person I desired to be, not who everyone else told me to be. The process has been quite interesting. I regret no experience since they have made me a...
    BellaFairy BellaFairy 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 7, 2012

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     I Have a Few, But I W...

     I have a few, but I wish for more and I wish I could always have those I have. 
    mandarose524 mandarose524 26-30, F Apr 11, 2008

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    Nobody Seems to Understand

    I don't feel as though anyone truly understands me. I am very different from my family so we don't communicate much. My Mom and me talk the most out of the family, but she doesn't understand. Also, i have like 2-3 friends that live in the same area and i wouldn't consider them...
    alwaysalone alwaysalone 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 19, 2008

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    I Want to Spread Joy

    I want someone, anyone to understand exactly how trippy-ditzy-crazy I actually am. My life goal is to cash in $100 at the bank for pennies and other small coins, keep them in a pretty little velvet bag and walk around my city handing people coins, hugging them, and wishing them...
    shamelesswilde shamelesswilde 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 16, 2008

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    DOESN'T EVERYONE WANT THAT? :0
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    In A Wheelchair Already) Just look at her. She's been sitting all by herself at the edge of the dance floor for five songs now, but no one seems to care. She must be so lonely...
    WarShip WarShip 18-21 2 days ago

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    I met my best friend when I was a junior in high school so about 3.5 years ago. Her an I had been through so much and she was honestly someone I thought of as my family. Well...
    callmebreezy callmebreezy 18-21, F Nov 19

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    is there any ''real friends'' in the world someone who listens, someone who cares, someone who has the same problems, someone who is different like me.
    columbus38 columbus38 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    I sometimes feel really protective that I would take a bullet for anyone, friends, family or stranger, even if they walked away I'd be proud to die for them but I would fight to...
    Auricor Auricor 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    I'll be moving to London this Christmas with my Dad, Mom n my younger sis. We'll be moving to Southall. I've never gone abroad before so I want some friends who live in the area...
    callmeLys callmeLys 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am a college student from Michigan and I am gaining weight and it is causing me to lose some of my older skinny friends who don't agree with my weight gains. I am trying to get...
    coolsean1 coolsean1 18-21, M Dec 3

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    Hi I'm looking for new friends. People message me!!! I accept everyone :-)
    ZaquoyaTinsley ZaquoyaTinsley 13-15, F Nov 20

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    That are kindhearted easygoing,and looking for true friendship.
    lakoda07 lakoda07 66-70, M Nov 30

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    Call me crazy but if I could be invisible for a day I would rob every bank in town xD hopefully it's like the dude in misfits who the things he holds becomes invisible too ;-)
    Ownedforaprice Ownedforaprice 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    I would love to invite each and every ep friend to my house for a Thanksgiving dinner. That would be such a blessing to my heart!! I would love to be able to cook all sorts of...
    vaylorie vaylorie 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 27

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     I wanted to Rip her to pieces and then build her up to make strong in all those places she was weak. I put aside my sword and pick up the shield. She taught me how to love...
    Orchards Orchards 22-25, M Dec 5

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    I have one best friend. I honestly don't know what I would ever do without her! No one else really cares enough to try to know me or understand me. I guess that's alright I like...
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    It's hard for me to show the real me around everyone except certain people. I know I hide behind a '***** facade' so that I won't be judged but I'm getting tired of it, I wish we...
    Living2Heights Living2Heights 16-17, F 15 hrs ago

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    It would be awesome to meet someone in real life not on EP who like to wear full body spandex suits. We could hang out in our spandex suits, do things with our spandex suits on...
    RedBlueandBlack RedBlueandBlack 18-21, M Nov 28

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    I wish I had more family than I do. I have no grandparents and all of my uncles and aunts never want to spend time with us. Every holiday is boring and it's depressing because I...
    Justadarkhole Justadarkhole 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 22

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    and I don't understand the unfair perception that lesbians don't get along with men.... We've always found plenty of common interests, from books to sports, and music to cooking...
    Harmonium1923 Harmonium1923 41-45, M Nov 30

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    If you're a skeptic, disbeliever, or just wave this off as silly, let's be nice and stop reading. Do you have an animal spirit? Are you a vampire? Have you been possessed? Are you...
    KizunaXIII KizunaXIII 18-21, F Dec 2

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    I have like one good friend but, she isn't even a friend. I talk to her occasionally from high school but yea. I call her my one good friend because then it'll be really pathetic...
    RaindropsOnRoses22 RaindropsOnRoses22 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    For the longest time I've just felt this great disconnect between the people in my life, even my friends. I'm just sick of it. I'm very interested in meeting new people and...
    John992 John992 22-25, M Dec 3

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    I would prefer a guy around my age, as I personally think most girls at my age are crappy people (I know not all of them are though:p). I'm just getting out of a tough time in my...
    Theycallherelly Theycallherelly 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 29

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    My friends accept me as I am. That's how I know they are my friends. They don't try to change me, fix me, or judge me. When I'm being stupid, they tell me I'm being stupid, but...
    MyChemicalBreakup MyChemicalBreakup 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    Hey, I stumbled across this site and this is only my first day here but I think this a great way to get to know random people and who knows in time, establish something deeper...
    staphylococcus staphylococcus 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    Just looking for some new friends, and a friend that I can trust to talk about personal things with and just talk about fun and stupid stuff as well. And even a friend who's a...
    awallac5 awallac5 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 22

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    i wish death come to me when i sleep, so i won't never wake up.... the wrong choices in my life that gives me so much pain, they say learn from your mistakes but guess what...
    betteporter betteporter 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 23

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