I Wish I Could Come Out Of The Crossdressing Closet

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 820 People

    End The Secrecy

    I am a crossdresser and have had these feeling since I was four years old although at the moment I'm not practising. Until I was six I thought I was a girl and when I discovered being a boy I was disappointed. I thought I was the only one who felt this way until I saw a...
    meganb1 meganb1
    36-40, T
    5 Responses Feb 20, 2013

    I want to come out and crossdress fulltime.

    My girl already knows but no one else :(
    pantyboiCD pantyboiCD
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Aug 5, 2015

    To Come Out Completely...Would Be Damn Nice/The World Owes Me This And Then Some

    So yeah I'm sick and tired of conforming to society's bullsh-it norms, and I have had it with human malice orchestrating my life to a point where if I had a gun I'd unload the clip into my head, so what do I do? Nothing. If I do or try to do anything I get into legal trouble...
    amytheinvalid amytheinvalid
    26-30, T
    3 Responses Mar 28, 2013

    I hate hiding things from my parents.

    I have an open relationship with both of them and yet I feel that I could never tell them I like cross dressing. I feel like I can't tell the rest of my family either because one half is Southern and the other half is from the Midwest. I just hate hiding this so much. Why can't...
    Spinner98 Spinner98
    18-21, M
    Sep 30, 2015

    My Sort Of Coming Out

    My dearest reader, Perhaps you've read my previous stories about my experiences as a crossdresser. Until a few months ago I was perfectly happy inside my crossdressing closet. I never had the need to come out, until one faithfull day. It all started when I met a girl (like all...
    Azalkmaar072 Azalkmaar072
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Sep 3, 2013

    So over last weekend I took a little step

    forward. I needed to go shopping for girly stuff, the urge was just too much. I've been dying over not having anything to wear, this urge has been going on for a month now (i have really never shopped for myself in public besides running into a store real quick, grabbing one...
    colie0701 colie0701
    31-35, M
    5 Responses Nov 6, 2014


    I agree with your story nothing wrong with dressing up I do it a lot and makes me feel good
    mindygirllacey mindygirllacey
    46-50, T
    Feb 11, 2013
    minameis minameis
    22-25, M
    1 Response Dec 23, 2013

    To Just Be Me.

    I would love to be just me and be able to wear whatever I want and be the woman that my spirit is without society's silly limitations.
    Aiyana77 Aiyana77
    36-40, T
    2 Responses Mar 3, 2013

    I feel stuck within the closet,

    but only for cross dressing, not being gay. I'm fifteen and live with my parents and really want to tell them about it but I don't know how. I was caught a few times before but denied wanting to do this because I didn't know what they would think of me as they were freaking out...
    deleted deleted
    Jan 4, 2016

    I had no choice but to confess to my family

    that I wear thongs. I was not ready at that time and wanted to keep it secret for a little longer. But my hand was forced by the publication on the internet of pictures of me in a thong. I did not want my family or friends to find out this way so a few days after my photos...
    ryanwearsthongs ryanwearsthongs
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jun 18, 2015

    I am a man that has struggled all his life with

    the feeling that he should have been born a woman. I have been wearing womens clothing for most of my life but have never come out and showed it. I am now more interested in men as sexual partners than with women. Does that make me Gay? Any thoughts on my problem would be...
    Joanne55 Joanne55
    66-70, M
    4 Responses Aug 12, 2014

    Coming Out

    I've been dressing as a girl for most my life on and off. The problem is I can't stop and I have no-one to come out to or talk to about it. I get lonely and get sad but don't know what to do.does someone have a suggestions?
    sarahgirlelizabeth sarahgirlelizabeth
    36-40, T
    22 Responses Mar 2, 2013

    I can't live in the closet any more.

    Two people know that I dress, my wife and a very dear & close friend. As of today three people know. I came out to my eldest son today and he was fantastic, didn't freak out at all and was just "It's your life, do what makes you happy. Will have to tell my youngest son next...
    Monicatg Monicatg
    51-55, T
    2 Responses Dec 26, 2014

    I Have A Bit

    told my wife and the doc dress most days in gender neutral womens cloths but not told anyone at work yet and havnt been out fully as a woman either am i just play acting?
    christinemelody christinemelody
    56-60, T
    1 Response Feb 20, 2013

    Why wish?....it's fun

    and you love it!
    jessilynn2015 jessilynn2015
    46-50, T
    1 Response Jun 22, 2015

    I have to my wife so far.

    I don't know how the rest of either of our families would react. I think that she is more scared than I am if they did. Everyone has known me to be a man's man type of guy. I'm sure some will be supportive. I'm sure some wouldn't take it so well either.
    JosetteLaRoc JosetteLaRoc
    1 Response May 5, 2014

    Being Afraid Of What Might Happen..

    Hi there I am 14 and in high school I really love boys but I like girls as well I dated two girls and several guys I am afraid to come out and say I'm bi also I'm a girl
    xboxfreak1 xboxfreak1
    26-30, F
    Sep 9, 2013

    I've never told anyone about my crossdressing

    nor have i ever been caught by someone. when i think about it, part of me wishes that i had been caught by someone in the past, just to get it out there. but now i am conflicted and dont know what to do. im not embarrased by it, but dont want people to get the wrong inpression...
    quirkysquirt9 quirkysquirt9
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Apr 20, 2015

    Not only do I wish this.

    ....I feel that I have to! drives me crazy!
    jessilynn2015 jessilynn2015
    46-50, T
    2 Responses Apr 9, 2015
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