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I Wish I Could Come Out Of The Crossdressing Closet

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 655 People

    minameis minameis 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 23, 2013

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    Coming Out

    I've been dressing as a girl for most my life on and off. The problem is I can't stop and I have no-one to come out to or talk to about it. I get lonely and get sad but don't know what to do.does someone have a suggestions?
    southernbellesarah southernbellesarah 36-40, T 23 Responses Mar 2, 2013

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    To Just Be Me.

    I would love to be just me and be able to wear whatever I want and be the woman that my spirit is without society's silly limitations.
    Aiyana77 Aiyana77 36-40, T 2 Responses Mar 3, 2013

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    I am a man that has struggled all his life with

    the feeling that he should have been born a woman. I have been wearing womens clothing for most of my life but have never come out and showed it. I am now more interested in men as sexual partners than with women. Does that make me Gay? Any thoughts on my problem would be...
    Joanne55 Joanne55 61-65, M 2 Responses Aug 12

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    Being Afraid Of What Might Happen..

    Hi there I am 14 and in high school I really love boys but I like girls as well I dated two girls and several guys I am afraid to come out and say I'm bi also I'm a girl
    xboxfreak1 xboxfreak1 22-25, F Sep 9, 2013

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    My Sort Of Coming Out

    My dearest reader, Perhaps you've read my previous stories about my experiences as a crossdresser. Until a few months ago I was perfectly happy inside my crossdressing closet. I never had the need to come out, until one faithfull day. It all started when I met a girl (like all...
    Azalkmaar072 Azalkmaar072 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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    To Come Out Completely...Would Be Damn Nice/The World Owes Me This And Then Some

    So yeah I'm sick and tired of conforming to society's bullsh-it norms, and I have had it with human malice orchestrating my life to a point where if I had a gun I'd unload the clip into my head, so what do I do? Nothing. If I do or try to do anything I get into legal trouble...
    amytheinvalid amytheinvalid 26-30, T 3 Responses Mar 28, 2013

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    So over last weekend I took a little step

    forward. I needed to go shopping for girly stuff, the urge was just too much. I've been dying over not having anything to wear, this urge has been going on for a month now (i have really never shopped for myself in public besides running into a store real quick, grabbing one...
    colie0701 colie0701 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 6

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    I Have A Bit

    told my wife and the doc dress most days in gender neutral womens cloths but not told anyone at work yet and havnt been out fully as a woman either am i just play acting?
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T 1 Response Feb 20, 2013

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    I have to my wife so far.

    I don't know how the rest of either of our families would react. I think that she is more scared than I am if they did. Everyone has known me to be a man's man type of guy. I'm sure some will be supportive. I'm sure some wouldn't take it so well either.
    JosetteLaRoc JosetteLaRoc 36-40 1 Response May 5

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    End The Secrecy

    I am a crossdresser and have had these feeling since I was four years old although at the moment I'm not practising. Until I was six I thought I was a girl and when I discovered being a boy I was disappointed. I thought I was the only one who felt this way until I saw a...
    meganb1 meganb1 36-40, T 5 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    Crossdressing

    I agree with your story nothing wrong with dressing up I do it a lot and makes me feel good
    mindygirllacey mindygirllacey 46-50, T Feb 11, 2013

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    I "peek out the door" at times.

    It's fun, but scary at the same time. I'm getting more comfortable over time. I can shop for women's clothing and meet the few looks that come my way- no problem. I wish I could crash through the closet doors.
    CinimonGypsy CinimonGypsy 41-45 2 Responses Nov 28

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    beingbrye beingbrye 22-25, T Nov 25

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    Im 13 , a girl and bisexual . I've came out to a fee friends at school and i would come out to anyone at school that asked . Im only having troubles coming out to my family. I...
    Fallenangel220 Fallenangel220 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 24

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    I really do. It's nothing personal but I can't stay much longer. I love all of you and you know who you are. I only wish that we all lived close together. From Ireland to Australia...
    delilah5 delilah5 56-60, F 3 Responses Nov 29

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    I would love to invite each and every ep friend to my house for a Thanksgiving dinner. That would be such a blessing to my heart!! I would love to be able to cook all sorts of...
    vaylorie vaylorie 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    This is one I came up with today; Unhealthy junk food is cheaper than healthy food, even water is more expensive (seriously, wtf is with that?) as part of a sinister population...
    IdleFox IdleFox 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    I have always been more comfotable nude than clothed. I hang out nude with nude friends at nude beachs and swimming holes. I never wear clothes at home except when other friends...
    georgiokr georgiokr 56-60, M 1 Response Nov 28

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    I always end up saying stuff without thinking. I was sharing anecdotes from the time when I started working. Now in our work place there are two people who arent fond of each other...
    bujji14 bujji14 22-25, F Nov 23

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    Today, I did it for the first time in the day time.I went for a drive and stayed in the car.I've gone for drives very late at night a few times.Today I went through a drive through...
    JosetteLaRoc JosetteLaRoc 36-40 Dec 9

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    But some is wise. Tesla. What you give. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9vwHuCC6nP8&sns=em
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Nov 25

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    I had to go through Christmas trees to get to Halloween decorations. how is that right?
    regalshewolf regalshewolf 41-45, F Nov 26

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    Its weird and i dont know if its normal but at night, i can run faster, think better, i am stronger, im better at everything. I also have this voice in my head that wont go away...
    samthekiller samthekiller 13-15, F Nov 30

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    A lot of people in my family are psychic. My sister thinks she is, I think I am too. I can see the future, it's not controlled though so it's random and not as great. It's latent.
    TransmutedHeart TransmutedHeart 18-21, F Dec 1

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    I started smoking in Spring at age 18 to calm my nerves. I was going to have a serious operation and I pretended not to be scared, but I was scared shitless (pardon the French!) I...
    PennyLaneXXX PennyLaneXXX 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    my dad is the reason of y i am who i am he left me b4 i was even born and my mom told me my stepdad wasnt my dad he was my stepdad and i cryed and locked myself in my room for...
    bvbarmy4lif33 bvbarmy4lif33 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 9

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    Sooo.. How did it happen? well so far I have only come out of the closet with my wife. But that began about 4 years ago. It should be noted that i have dresses off and on in...
    MsMarcy MsMarcy 41-45 4 Responses Nov 30

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    I'm in my late twenties and still (uncomfortably) tucked away in the far back of the closet. I've known I was gay since I was 9 but it was always very difficult for me to accept...
    Michele87 Michele87 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 3

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    I came out a just this past summer. It was really nerve racking honestly, I was fine telling my friends, even the girl I liked(tho I didn't tell her I liked her then), but it was...
    Rachlm214 Rachlm214 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 23

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    26th post. So here is another blast from the past. This probably happened about 2 years ago, at the height of my anxiety, and when my mental illness was developing into much more...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F Nov 30

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    help me grow up. I wish I wasn't wishing for someone else to be my guide. I wish someone would care enough to want to hold my hand. I wish someone was firm enough to lay me...
    Theworldisminenow Theworldisminenow 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 4

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    I'm going to come out, even though I'm afraid my family and friends won't be able to accept it. I've been keeping this secret from them for as long as I can remember. I've been...
    Eristocrat Eristocrat 22-25, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    60th post. I hope everyone takes the time to read this post. This happened about half an hour ago, but let me start at the beginning. It's Sunday 2.20am when I started writing this...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    If I want to be who I choose to be then I have no choice but to come out no matter what happens. My dreams are to be an inspiration and find my true love again but how can I say I...
    Kevin2017 Kevin2017 16-17, M 4 Responses Nov 25

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    I'm 16 years old and I know I'm a lesbian I have for years I've never kissed a girl but I have kissed a guy and I didn't like it but it's hard because I can't come out because I...
    mish6 mish6 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 26

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    I've been dating my boyfriend for about 3 years now. He knows/thinks I'm bisexual, but the truth is I'm gay. Very, very gay. I know that I need to come out to him and tell him the...
    persemad persemad 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 8

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    I've known I wasn't straight for a few years now, I just recently (year or so) figured out I'm pansexual (was really questioning for a while). I'm not really close at all with my...
    likesugarandcyanide likesugarandcyanide 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Even though I have come out to quite a lot of my friends, I'm still hidden in the closest! As much as they all accept me for who I am, I'm still scared to tell family and the rest...
    secretsinmylife secretsinmylife 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 22

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    I have the average online friends, of which I talk to almost every day, and then maybe one or two friends in the real world. But even at that, those "real life" friends, I only...
    dollhouseblues dollhouseblues 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    i wish death come to me when i sleep, so i won't never wake up.... the wrong choices in my life that gives me so much pain, they say learn from your mistakes but guess what...
    betteporter betteporter 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 23

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    I finally trusted my mother again.. five years later, after she let me get raped, and threw me in a mental hospital then ran away. I stepped up as the bigger person and decided...
    babyjane96 babyjane96 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 13

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    It would be awesome to meet someone in real life not on EP who like to wear full body spandex suits. We could hang out in our spandex suits, do things with our spandex suits on...
    RedBlueandBlack RedBlueandBlack 18-21, M Nov 28

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    Like a lot of adolescents, I spent most of those uncomfortable years of change agonising over my own orientation, trying to work out from others around me (without making it too...
    morea morea 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 13

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    Guardians of the Galaxy - this is my ninth time watching this movie. its so funny and Chris Pratt plays a perfect peter quill in my opinion. i loved him on parks&recreation too...
    snelletrail snelletrail 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    If you come out of the blue trying to "help me" I am going to shut you out and try to get off the topic depending on your profile and what I think of you. I don't like pity and...
    Cheshirecupacat Cheshirecupacat 13-15, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I know I'm gay and I love being gay but... I don't know how to come out to my friends and family!!! I've known for 4 years now and I've holded it in to long. I just think of come...
    zoeylove145 zoeylove145 13-15, F 4 days ago