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I Wish I Could Come Out Of The Crossdressing Closet

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 689 People

    Being Afraid Of What Might Happen..

    Hi there I am 14 and in high school I really love boys but I like girls as well I dated two girls and several guys I am afraid to come out and say I'm bi also I'm a girl
    xboxfreak1 xboxfreak1 22-25, F Sep 9, 2013

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    Not only do I wish this.

    ....I feel that I have to! drives me crazy!
    jessilynn2015 jessilynn2015 41-45, T 2 Responses Apr 9

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    Crossdressing

    I agree with your story nothing wrong with dressing up I do it a lot and makes me feel good
    mindygirllacey mindygirllacey 46-50, T Feb 11, 2013

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    To Just Be Me.

    I would love to be just me and be able to wear whatever I want and be the woman that my spirit is without society's silly limitations.
    Aiyana77 Aiyana77 36-40, T 2 Responses Mar 3, 2013

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    My Sort Of Coming Out

    My dearest reader, Perhaps you've read my previous stories about my experiences as a crossdresser. Until a few months ago I was perfectly happy inside my crossdressing closet. I never had the need to come out, until one faithfull day. It all started when I met a girl (like all...
    Azalkmaar072 Azalkmaar072 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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    I've never told anyone about my crossdressing

    nor have i ever been caught by someone. when i think about it, part of me wishes that i had been caught by someone in the past, just to get it out there. but now i am conflicted and dont know what to do. im not embarrased by it, but dont want people to get the wrong inpression...
    quirkysquirt9 quirkysquirt9 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 20

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    End The Secrecy

    I am a crossdresser and have had these feeling since I was four years old although at the moment I'm not practising. Until I was six I thought I was a girl and when I discovered being a boy I was disappointed. I thought I was the only one who felt this way until I saw a...
    meganb1 meganb1 36-40, T 5 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    So over last weekend I took a little step

    forward. I needed to go shopping for girly stuff, the urge was just too much. I've been dying over not having anything to wear, this urge has been going on for a month now (i have really never shopped for myself in public besides running into a store real quick, grabbing one...
    colie0701 colie0701 26-30, M 6 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    I am a man that has struggled all his life with

    the feeling that he should have been born a woman. I have been wearing womens clothing for most of my life but have never come out and showed it. I am now more interested in men as sexual partners than with women. Does that make me Gay? Any thoughts on my problem would be...
    Joanne55 Joanne55 61-65, M 3 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    I can't live in the closet any more.

    Two people know that I dress, my wife and a very dear & close friend. As of today three people know. I came out to my eldest son today and he was fantastic, didn't freak out at all and was just "It's your life, do what makes you happy. Will have to tell my youngest son next...
    Monicatg Monicatg 51-55, T 3 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    minameis minameis 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 23, 2013

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    Coming Out

    I've been dressing as a girl for most my life on and off. The problem is I can't stop and I have no-one to come out to or talk to about it. I get lonely and get sad but don't know what to do.does someone have a suggestions?
    southernbellesarah southernbellesarah 36-40, T 23 Responses Mar 2, 2013

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    I have to my wife so far.

    I don't know how the rest of either of our families would react. I think that she is more scared than I am if they did. Everyone has known me to be a man's man type of guy. I'm sure some will be supportive. I'm sure some wouldn't take it so well either.
    JosetteLaRoc JosetteLaRoc 36-40 1 Response May 5, 2014

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    To Come Out Completely...Would Be Damn Nice/The World Owes Me This And Then Some

    So yeah I'm sick and tired of conforming to society's bullsh-it norms, and I have had it with human malice orchestrating my life to a point where if I had a gun I'd unload the clip into my head, so what do I do? Nothing. If I do or try to do anything I get into legal trouble...
    amytheinvalid amytheinvalid 26-30, T 3 Responses Mar 28, 2013

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    I Have A Bit

    told my wife and the doc dress most days in gender neutral womens cloths but not told anyone at work yet and havnt been out fully as a woman either am i just play acting?
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T 1 Response Feb 20, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    ... the freaks come out at night... the freaks come out at... THE FREAKS COME OUT!
    yourdaddyrick yourdaddyrick 36-40, M 1 Response May 11

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    I'm Carson. I'm a sixteen year old ftm. I'm scared to come out to my parents. Two weeks ago I got my hair cut off like a scene boy. My mom yelled at me in the car afterwards and...
    kloudkat kloudkat 16-17, T May 10

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    I'm gonna do it. Today. Wish me luck.
    super563 super563 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I want to wish the best of luck to my lovely lady Gangstress for the removal of her stitches today yayyyy 😊 You have been so brave over the last few weeks with everything you...
    Princessgemmy Princessgemmy 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Ever try to be with a gender you do not find even the slightest interest for just because your family will disown you if you don't. That you will be hurt physically and verbally...
    octoberlovely octoberlovely 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 26

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    Denise. 6 beautiful letters that make me shudder with memories. Denise. A name that makes me remember every kiss on my cheeks, collarbones, and neck. Denise. The person that...
    octoberlovely octoberlovely 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 26

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    I just want to be myself. It's not much to ask. I don't want to have to hide myself anymore. But the reactions my family has towards lgbt characters in media (like the movie I...
    Inigoshadow92 Inigoshadow92 22-25, F 1 Response May 8

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    I can't wait to make sweet love to my princess I can't wait to hold her properly and give her cuddles Ahhhh, I am soo excited :D
    Gangstress Gangstress 31-35, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    of all the things that lack meaning in my life that darken all of the positivity...only one rises above...that is the hope that everything will eventually work out..and if it...
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 1 hr ago

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    So I haven't come out yet to my parents or anyone else except for two people. Yes I know it's important to do this, but it's so stupid. My parents already suspect me of being...
    Madamoiselle1 Madamoiselle1 16-17, F 5 Responses Apr 30

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    I'm just stressing out about coming out of the closet to someone close to me. I want to tell my brother first since we are really close, and I had originally made plans to tell...
    buddytori buddytori 18-21, F 4 Responses May 9

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    I don't know what to say. I have been in the closet most of my life and I'm still in. I don't know how to come out. I am scared that my family and IRL friends, my URL friends...
    TheMadHatterWasHere TheMadHatterWasHere 18-21, F 1 Response May 14

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    I just deleted an experience which identified me as a 'closeted crossdresser.' I don't think either of those describe me anymore, nor did they ever. I'm just me, a woman who's...
    PennySterling PennySterling 51-55, T 3 Responses May 5

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    My dad died in June of 2012, we were never really close I guess you could say. I was diagnosed (as teen) with severe asthma, my dad had smoked since he was 15 and he always smoked...
    Lori8151970 Lori8151970 41-45, F 1 day ago

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    I just can't come out of the small contraption they call the closet for me being bisexual
    chaoticscars chaoticscars 13-15, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Growing up, everyone knew I was different.. I loved to play with my sister's Barbie doll and I played with the girls back in school. It was so obvious I was different and I got...
    knightw10 knightw10 26-30, M Apr 29

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    It was a Saturday afternoon. I could still remember what had happened. It was raining. My friend and I went to take the train together. We were not close friends, but he's a nice...
    Lonely90s Lonely90s 22-25, M 2 Responses May 7

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    I come from a RELIGIOUS background. I got a good reputation and have a lot of good friends and love to hangout with people. My family and friends loves me and i obviously love them...
    L4Love L4Love 18-21, F 2 Responses May 11

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    I treat everyone with respect because anyone could be in the closet. I am. What about them?
    Runner8 Runner8 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    I am currently writing a play about coming out stories that I hope will educate and remind people of the difficulties faced by people coming out every day and how people react but...
    Kayceyy Kayceyy 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    I wish I had a dad that I could talk to, not one I am scared of, I wish someone would listen, I wish people wouldnt judge, I wish I was normal, I wish I had a better life, but my...
    ImNoAngel99 ImNoAngel99 13-15 a week ago

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    I have been trying to explorer ways of coming out, I thought that by confessing here to other EP users that I am gay, and I actually have an online boyfriend, mischief, and I...
    mizmaid mizmaid 36-40, M 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    I want to come out because im not fully lesbian, im bi but I feel like people and my family will look at my differently and not accept me. Can anyone relate? How can we overcome...
    sexysoutherngirl24 sexysoutherngirl24 22-25, F 2 Responses May 6

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    so a few people know about me but im terrified to come out. the thought shakes my whole world up.
    comeonoutgirls comeonoutgirls 18-21, F 1 Response May 8

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    I have a girlfriend right now and i'm so scared to death if I come out to my parents. They're ******* religious and our religion is pretty different among the others like they dont...
    poqari poqari 18-21, F 2 Responses May 11

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    I do believe they come into your life for a reason, I just wish I could figure out the reason. You are an enigma to me. I can not figure out your life, your priorities, your...
    SunAgain SunAgain 31-35, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    wishing that I was able to have a ton of cash so I can use it to buy myself a iPhone 7 when it comes out w/ the most highest gb,a bmw w/ everything all tuned out & upgraded to make...
    RodrigoGalindo730 RodrigoGalindo730 18-21, M 2 Responses May 11

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    I didn't have the greatest childhood growing up. My parents divorced when I was 2. My father was an alcoholic and verbally and physically abused my mother. Me and my older sister...
    EvoKinevil EvoKinevil 22-25, M 12 Responses 3 days ago