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I Wish I Could Come Out Of The Crossdressing Closet

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    Being Afraid Of What Might Happen..

    Hi there I am 14 and in high school I really love boys but I like girls as well I dated two girls and several guys I am afraid to come out and say I'm bi also I'm a girl
    xboxfreak1 xboxfreak1 22-25, F Sep 9, 2013

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    My Sort Of Coming Out

    My dearest reader, Perhaps you've read my previous stories about my experiences as a crossdresser. Until a few months ago I was perfectly happy inside my crossdressing closet. I never had the need to come out, until one faithfull day. It all started when I met a girl (like all...
    Azalkmaar072 Azalkmaar072 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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    To Come Out Completely...Would Be Damn Nice/The World Owes Me This And Then Some

    So yeah I'm sick and tired of conforming to society's bullsh-it norms, and I have had it with human malice orchestrating my life to a point where if I had a gun I'd unload the clip into my head, so what do I do? Nothing. If I do or try to do anything I get into legal trouble...
    amytheinvalid amytheinvalid 26-30, T 3 Responses Mar 28, 2013

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    To Just Be Me.

    I would love to be just me and be able to wear whatever I want and be the woman that my spirit is without society's silly limitations.
    Aiyana77 Aiyana77 36-40, T 2 Responses Mar 3, 2013

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    I have to my wife so far.

    I don't know how the rest of either of our families would react. I think that she is more scared than I am if they did. Everyone has known me to be a man's man type of guy. I'm sure some will be supportive. I'm sure some wouldn't take it so well either.
    JosetteLaRoc JosetteLaRoc 36-40 1 Response May 5

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    I Have A Bit

    told my wife and the doc dress most days in gender neutral womens cloths but not told anyone at work yet and havnt been out fully as a woman either am i just play acting?
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T 1 Response Feb 20, 2013

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    Crossdressing

    I agree with your story nothing wrong with dressing up I do it a lot and makes me feel good
    mindygirllacey mindygirllacey 46-50, M Feb 11, 2013

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    minameis minameis 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 23, 2013

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    End The Secrecy

    I am a crossdresser and have had these feeling since I was four years old although at the moment I'm not practising. Until I was six I thought I was a girl and when I discovered being a boy I was disappointed. I thought I was the only one who felt this way until I saw a...
    meganb1 meganb1 36-40, T 5 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    Coming Out

    I've been dressing as a girl for most my life on and off. The problem is I can't stop and I have no-one to come out to or talk to about it. I get lonely and get sad but don't know what to do.does someone have a suggestions?
    southernbellesarah southernbellesarah 36-40, T 23 Responses Mar 2, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    In my last 'experience', I spoke about how I came out to my friends and I stressed at that point, I had NOT come out to my parents. Yet, as I write this, 5 months on from when it...
    QWERTYDAVIS QWERTYDAVIS 13-15 Jul 4

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    I am so very nervous to come out to my parents as bisexual. I have a note written already for them, but it is just a matter of time before I give it to them. I am going to college...
    thecellist thecellist 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    Ok, so I guess I'm just a bit scared, and I don't know how as well. My mum is a Christian, and I'm not sure how that'll affect her reaction and thoughts on me being bi...(like 75...
    loveyourselfalwaysxx loveyourselfalwaysxx 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    Right basically I'm bisexual. And yes thought about it for more than half a year now. I came out at my old school. And in case your wondering yes, my parents & sister know. I'm...
    LivingLikeClara LivingLikeClara 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    So I'm a trans guy, female to male, and only one who knows this my psychologist. I still don't know how they haven't discovered it... My friends, family, almost everyone knew that...
    LeoThePandaHero LeoThePandaHero 16-17, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I came out as bisexual to only some people in my family; if my mom or grandparents find out I'll be disowned. :/ I haven't come out as Agender to anyone yet...
    SomethingGrimm SomethingGrimm 16-17, F Jul 23

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    I'm scared to come out because of my mum she hates lgbt she says why should they its digusting plus shes christian and my dads atheist but i dont what are his views on lgbt people...
    DarrenKasanga DarrenKasanga 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    yeah!would be gratifying to help people out with the fruits of my toil in any manner so that could get the much needed succor int their lives...
    romell romell 36-40, M 4 days ago

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    Well not a whole change, I want my testicles put inside my body and have a vagina added while I keep my penis... I know this isn't possible but I sure wish it was. And maybe size...
    str8CD str8CD 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I've had bad experiences with self harm. i usually can go to my sister or something with the little things in life. but how can I stare at my baby pictures and think what happened...
    internationalinspire internationalinspire 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    When I'm cold I can control my nerves or something like that I can make myself warm, vice versa when I'm hot! I found out recently I can do the same in a room. Someone will say...
    mrmagnium mrmagnium 13-15, M Jul 22

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    I will tell people who ask that I am bisexual with no preference for one gender over the other. But I've never told my family. It's not out of being afraid of their response...
    Avotica Avotica 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    OMFG ....... and only $9.95 a month.
    peza peza 46-50, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    The power, it's something more. I have a theory, and I need every one of you, my brothers and sisters, help to solve it. Please message me.
    Cwins165 Cwins165 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    I don't really know where to begin. It's so uncomfortable and depressing that I'm not even sure I feel like talking about it. I grew up in a traditional Christian family where...
    canttakeitin canttakeitin 22-25, M 5 Responses Jul 6

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    Not really......after all there isn't enough room for the two of us in my closet anyway. I guess I could get a bigger closet or just be out like I'm starting to be. Okay so long...
    ClaudNine ClaudNine 18-21, F 10 Responses Jul 17

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    I feel like the universe does not want me to come out... I've been trying to come out to my cousin that I'm really close to (which I talked about in my last post that was forever...
    Gayguy22 Gayguy22 16-17, M 7 Responses Jul 8

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    Hi! I would really like to have a relationship leading to marriage and 2.4 kids with a closet Lesbian. Not everyone is comfortable about coming out and that is perfectly fine. I...
    thesignet thesignet 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    COMING OUT - A Story by Jay. Hello, everyone. It's Jay from the "Jay and Corey Show." For those of you who have been around EP for a while, you probably know us. For those of you...
    cumminatcha cumminatcha 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    I am bisexual and im more into girls. But I'm still in the closet. I'm afraid to come out because I dont want people to judge me especially my family. I wish I was straight so that...
    nevershoutmyname nevershoutmyname 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I just can't believe that at 35 I'm still in the closet. How much more numb can my limbs be from being squeezed into this area? Just one person knows that I am gay, or I should...
    brady120378 brady120378 31-35, M 6 Responses Jul 2

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    I have been in the closet for all of my life (which is probably 48 years). Just after I discovered the joy of ************ I had my first mutual ************ session with a friend...
    wantonwanker wantonwanker 61-65, M 5 Responses Jul 4

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    In my society still havent changed, despite our laws and all the medias efforts. People here still hate gays- strangers are not to approach you and bully you for being gay. They...
    dywmtgo dywmtgo 18-21 6 days ago

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    Lately I've been going through a lot I've been battling depression ontop with an old problem with drinking and being home with a family who I has trouble with supporting me My...
    Vaughn37 Vaughn37 18-21, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hello, I am a closeted gay guy, from Nigeria. It's really lonely and dark in here but I fear that if I come out, I might get killed by the greatly populated homophobes in my...
    amosswaye amosswaye 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 2

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    (Warning: read my earlier post to understand what I'm talking about) My heart is pounding right now it's about a hour away from when I plan on face timing my cousin to come out to...
    Gayguy22 Gayguy22 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    I'm a closet pansexual. Even if I did come out, nobody even knows what that means. But it doesn't matter, I will love who I love and be attracted to what I'm attracted to.
    puppy85899 puppy85899 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Every time my parents bring up a conversation of someone being gay I get nervous. I know for a fact that I am a lesbian and I also know that my parents aren't against any LGBT...
    aurorad19 aurorad19 13-15, F 8 Responses Jul 1

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    A year ago I found out I was a lesbian. I had feelings for women way before but never actually thought I would be gay. No one else thinks I'm gay either because I look straight...
    irisjuuu irisjuuu 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I cae out to someone the otherday and they were totally fine with it so i think im going to slowly come out to my friends and immediate family thanks to evrone who helped and...
    Smileyface15 Smileyface15 13-15 Jul 10

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    I talk to myself a lot. Like a lot, and in great detail. Like I'm talking to other people but I'm the only one there. In my head I could be in a group of people making them all...
    OneHowlToTheMoon OneHowlToTheMoon 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    I have no idea where I can go from here. I know I like girls, that's not the problem. I joined this site because on here I can be myself. I can tell the truth about who I am, no...
    ae47 ae47 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 13

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    Im trying to work the courage to come out and say im bi and maybe that im a crossdresser
    Blueclaw Blueclaw 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 17

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    People have started to get the hint that I might be gay, most likely to how I act. I am nervous whether I should come out and tell people or not. I am unsure whether I should tell...
    DamoiseauDynavolt DamoiseauDynavolt 16-17, M 5 Responses Jul 4

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    Help? I've known since I was little and I need advice on how to come out
    abandonedgay abandonedgay 16-17, M Jul 8

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    I'm scared, I don't know what to do. I hide from my family and can't come out. I have a long distance relationship with a girl and she loves me, but no one knows because they think...
    BlackPaint0000 BlackPaint0000 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    I've known I like girls since I was little but I like boys too. It's still quite confusing to me if I actually 'like' boys I mean I'm physically attracted to men and women at the...
    msmika msmika 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 21

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    Hi everyone, so I know since a few years I'm gay. I'm not ashamed of it and I want to come out to my family but I really don't what and how to say it. Can someone help me?
    Rhaegal Rhaegal 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 22

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