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I Wish I Could Come Out Of The Crossdressing Closet

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 656 People

    To Come Out Completely...Would Be Damn Nice/The World Owes Me This And Then Some

    So yeah I'm sick and tired of conforming to society's bullsh-it norms, and I have had it with human malice orchestrating my life to a point where if I had a gun I'd unload the clip into my head, so what do I do? Nothing. If I do or try to do anything I get into legal trouble...
    amytheinvalid amytheinvalid 26-30, T 3 Responses Mar 28, 2013

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    So over last weekend I took a little step

    forward. I needed to go shopping for girly stuff, the urge was just too much. I've been dying over not having anything to wear, this urge has been going on for a month now (i have really never shopped for myself in public besides running into a store real quick, grabbing one...
    colie0701 colie0701 26-30, M 6 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    I have to my wife so far.

    I don't know how the rest of either of our families would react. I think that she is more scared than I am if they did. Everyone has known me to be a man's man type of guy. I'm sure some will be supportive. I'm sure some wouldn't take it so well either.
    JosetteLaRoc JosetteLaRoc 36-40 1 Response May 5, 2014

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    I Have A Bit

    told my wife and the doc dress most days in gender neutral womens cloths but not told anyone at work yet and havnt been out fully as a woman either am i just play acting?
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T 1 Response Feb 20, 2013

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    I can't live in the closet any more.

    Two people know that I dress, my wife and a very dear & close friend. As of today three people know. I came out to my eldest son today and he was fantastic, didn't freak out at all and was just "It's your life, do what makes you happy. Will have to tell my youngest son next...
    Monicatg Monicatg 51-55, T 2 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    End The Secrecy

    I am a crossdresser and have had these feeling since I was four years old although at the moment I'm not practising. Until I was six I thought I was a girl and when I discovered being a boy I was disappointed. I thought I was the only one who felt this way until I saw a...
    meganb1 meganb1 36-40, T 5 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    I am a man that has struggled all his life with

    the feeling that he should have been born a woman. I have been wearing womens clothing for most of my life but have never come out and showed it. I am now more interested in men as sexual partners than with women. Does that make me Gay? Any thoughts on my problem would be...
    Joanne55 Joanne55 61-65, M 2 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    Coming Out

    I've been dressing as a girl for most my life on and off. The problem is I can't stop and I have no-one to come out to or talk to about it. I get lonely and get sad but don't know what to do.does someone have a suggestions?
    southernbellesarah southernbellesarah 36-40, T 23 Responses Mar 2, 2013

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    My Sort Of Coming Out

    My dearest reader, Perhaps you've read my previous stories about my experiences as a crossdresser. Until a few months ago I was perfectly happy inside my crossdressing closet. I never had the need to come out, until one faithfull day. It all started when I met a girl (like all...
    Azalkmaar072 Azalkmaar072 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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    To Just Be Me.

    I would love to be just me and be able to wear whatever I want and be the woman that my spirit is without society's silly limitations.
    Aiyana77 Aiyana77 36-40, T 2 Responses Mar 3, 2013

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    Crossdressing

    I agree with your story nothing wrong with dressing up I do it a lot and makes me feel good
    mindygirllacey mindygirllacey 46-50, T Feb 11, 2013

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    minameis minameis 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 23, 2013

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    Being Afraid Of What Might Happen..

    Hi there I am 14 and in high school I really love boys but I like girls as well I dated two girls and several guys I am afraid to come out and say I'm bi also I'm a girl
    xboxfreak1 xboxfreak1 22-25, F Sep 9, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I'm already out to almost all of my friends. I think the only ones who don't know, it's simply bc I haven't talked to them in forever. One friend, I realized I had forgotten to...
    Rachlm214 Rachlm214 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    So...yeah. It's been like this for a while, and I'm so glad this is anonymous. I want to come out to my family, but I know they won't accept me. I have to keep all my relationships...
    xXxbrokenangelxXx xXxbrokenangelxXx 16-17, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I'm Bi and I've known since grade 4...and now I'm in yr 11 and in yr 8 i told my bff (well at least she was before hand) that i am bi and she promised to not tell anyone but of...
    Ashes27 Ashes27 13-15, F Jan 6

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    I'm transgender (FtM). I just recently discovered that, though I thought about it for years. I haven't told anyone yet. I do wish to tell my best friend since I think he'll be the...
    BleuInfinity BleuInfinity 16-17, T 1 Response a week ago

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    Many think that I am crazy and delusional. I was diagnosed with bipolar 1 quite a while ago. I've gone into manic phases with a bit of psychotic breakdowns but I really don't think...
    WarriorLEHP WarriorLEHP 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    I am in the closet , in the real world . But on the Internet im not , I feel like I can be free here , and I love it , it feels like home , but then it comes to the real world and...
    zoeylove145 zoeylove145 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    I'd absolutely love it if I could find a crossdressing friend in Illinois, someone to talk to about crossdressing, go shopping together and dress up together! Compliment each...
    need4speed28 need4speed28 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 4

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    some times it ****** me off!! i feel like i shouldnt feel the need to come out to people i love and who should love me because. they should already know like my parents...some...
    findingjoy12 findingjoy12 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    so... Im quite camp anyway and I think my friends have guessed I'm gay, and I'm almost ready to come out to the person I have been worried about the most... my dad. basically in...
    happygolfer97 happygolfer97 16-17, M 8 Responses Jan 10

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    Gay Seeking Closeted Lesbian. I am 31 year old, closeted gay man working in Malaysia, From India...very masculine, genuine, good looking, very open-minded, career-minded. I am...
    vmrosario vmrosario 31-35, M a week ago

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    I have been in the closet or I guess half way out of the closet for 3 years now. The longer I stay in, the more anxious I get to come out, but I don't want to deal with the drama...
    hedowmedow hedowmedow 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    Hey, this is the letter I am leaving for my parents in April- please tell me what you think of it Dear Mom and Dad, This letter is going to cover a lot, so be prepared...
    rainbowmuffin316 rainbowmuffin316 13-15, T Dec 28, 2014

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    It's been a while since i last wrote anything here, and it was mainly because i wasn't feeling like doing so. But a month ago i decided to come out to my parents and now i would...
    Theobrg Theobrg 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 1

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    Not sure if I should come out to my close friend when I meet her next week. She isn't homophobic, and I know she has friends who are gay but coming out is such a huge thing for me...
    whentostop whentostop 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 8

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    If I could have my wishes If wishes did come true.. I would wish for happiness and long full life for you... I would wish for laughter And fill your life with songs Then ask for...
    rogi4u rogi4u 36-40, M Jan 14

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    It finally happened. I guess I should say that it has been a long time coming but honesty, I had no clue. Let me start from the beginning. Did I always know I liked other women...
    EnticingPuddle EnticingPuddle 18-21, F Jan 5

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    I identify as pansexual but only recently have i started to want to come out. Everyone already thinks im gay but i want to come out to my best friend first but she wont react well...
    karasummit karasummit 18-21, M Jan 4

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    So I came out to my friend yesterday. It was the most nerve-wracking thing I have ever done. She took it so well and kept telling me "it's okay" when I started to cry (it was at...
    whentostop whentostop 22-25, F Jan 13

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    I've told my wife about my cross dressing and she accepts me, but my best friend since 6th grade doesn't know. He knows everything else about my life but I want to tell him but I...
    Camocrossing Camocrossing 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Along with the competency for understanding our staff are offered around the e-mail along with cellular phones, who can remain in contact along with you to your support desires...
    Ryan2693yly2 Ryan2693yly2 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 6

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    I feel like I've come out too early. I feel vulnerable and insecure. My family basically dragged me out and I gave up and just straight up came out. I feel so open I can't stand it...
    RunAK RunAK 16-17, F Jan 12

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    I think anybody who is or was secretly attracted to other women or man knows how lonely it can be. It is depressing and you feel like you are constantly alone know matter how hard...
    Kayceyy Kayceyy 16-17, F 5 Responses Jan 1

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    I'm 16 years old and my family are devout Catholics, I went to catholic school when I was younger heard the preachings and as I started to notice that I had attraction to men and...
    arirose43 arirose43 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    So I'm new here so I don't really know how this works...So here goes nothing! I live in a very religious country run by delusional Islam fanatics (not gonna mention the name of...
    Monst3rInTheClos3t Monst3rInTheClos3t 16-17, M 3 Responses Jan 10

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    I'm not fully sure I'm gay but I like guys only and feel lik it's a super sensitive subject and I get discouraged about being gay easily I told two people and I'm going to come out...
    anthonyslay anthonyslay 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 10

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    And is no fun here..but at least is somehow safe for now. I'm unable to come out as it's completely something out of Common and most probably a offense to many if you admit that...
    PiKaya PiKaya 18-21, F Jan 16

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    I am moving out when I turn 18, and I'm absolutely terrified. I'm... feeling really small right now, so I guess that's why I'm writing this. My story is long, but relevant. I...
    theydunnomyname theydunnomyname 16-17, F Jan 8

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    Hey there, So the year has come to an end, and I don't know about you but I'm beyond ready for 2015. New experiences, a fresh start, all the resolutions (that never get done) it's...
    oscaxr oscaxr 18-21, M Dec 30, 2014

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    Forward: I was afraid of regection from my family... That fear bottled inside me until I was a depressed wreck. I struggled with for a long time, but when I was ready, things just...
    TK13 TK13 22-25, M Jan 11

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    Man, so I came out as bisexual to my parents when I was 15. They didn't take it well and basically refused to listen to me regarding the matter. I was taken from my home shortly...
    KingFaen KingFaen 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    I told my friend I love him and he stopped talking to me. Most of the time I wish I was dead. It seems everybody else is able to hug their friends and tell them they love them, but...
    quorker quorker 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    Summer of 2013 was the summer before I become a senior student in high school. During that time, I was preparing myself for the college entrance exams I have to take a few months...
    AsukaKawashima AsukaKawashima 16-17, F Jan 14

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    Oh how I would love too, right now. I need the serenity...serenity now..,,serenity now....I should be happy, I am welcomed here. I feel trapped, it's hard to breathe around so many...
    OrchidsNuBlu OrchidsNuBlu 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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