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I Wish I Could Come Out Of The Crossdressing Closet

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 729 People

    I can't live in the closet any more.

    Two people know that I dress, my wife and a very dear & close friend. As of today three people know. I came out to my eldest son today and he was fantastic, didn't freak out at all and was just "It's your life, do what makes you happy. Will have to tell my youngest son next...
    Monicatg Monicatg 51-55, T 3 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    Why wish?....it's fun

    and you love it!
    jessilynn2015 jessilynn2015 41-45, T Jun 22

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    End The Secrecy

    I am a crossdresser and have had these feeling since I was four years old although at the moment I'm not practising. Until I was six I thought I was a girl and when I discovered being a boy I was disappointed. I thought I was the only one who felt this way until I saw a...
    meganb1 meganb1 36-40, T 5 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    Being Afraid Of What Might Happen..

    Hi there I am 14 and in high school I really love boys but I like girls as well I dated two girls and several guys I am afraid to come out and say I'm bi also I'm a girl
    xboxfreak1 xboxfreak1 22-25, F Sep 9, 2013

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    I am a man that has struggled all his life with

    the feeling that he should have been born a woman. I have been wearing womens clothing for most of my life but have never come out and showed it. I am now more interested in men as sexual partners than with women. Does that make me Gay? Any thoughts on my problem would be...
    Joanne55 Joanne55 61-65, M 3 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    To Just Be Me.

    I would love to be just me and be able to wear whatever I want and be the woman that my spirit is without society's silly limitations.
    Aiyana77 Aiyana77 36-40, T 2 Responses Mar 3, 2013

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    I Have A Bit

    told my wife and the doc dress most days in gender neutral womens cloths but not told anyone at work yet and havnt been out fully as a woman either am i just play acting?
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T 1 Response Feb 20, 2013

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    I had no choice but to confess to my family

    that I wear thongs. I was not ready at that time and wanted to keep it secret for a little longer. But my hand was forced by the publication on the internet of pictures of me in a thong. I did not want my family or friends to find out this way so a few days after my photos...
    ryanwearsthongs ryanwearsthongs 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 18

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    Had some me time, so decided to go with a more

    bold blue bra. I needed to do some grocery shopping, but figured a sweatshirt would cover the evidence of my bra. At the store did the usual - reaching for this and bending that while roaming up and down the aisles. There was an older woman, who I ran across in several of the...
    julia09 julia09 56-60, M 6 Responses May 22

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    Coming Out

    I've been dressing as a girl for most my life on and off. The problem is I can't stop and I have no-one to come out to or talk to about it. I get lonely and get sad but don't know what to do.does someone have a suggestions?
    southernbellesarah southernbellesarah 36-40, T 23 Responses Mar 2, 2013

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    minameis minameis 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 23, 2013

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    I've never told anyone about my crossdressing

    nor have i ever been caught by someone. when i think about it, part of me wishes that i had been caught by someone in the past, just to get it out there. but now i am conflicted and dont know what to do. im not embarrased by it, but dont want people to get the wrong inpression...
    quirkysquirt9 quirkysquirt9 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 20

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    So over last weekend I took a little step

    forward. I needed to go shopping for girly stuff, the urge was just too much. I've been dying over not having anything to wear, this urge has been going on for a month now (i have really never shopped for myself in public besides running into a store real quick, grabbing one...
    colie0701 colie0701 26-30, M 6 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    To Come Out Completely...Would Be Damn Nice/The World Owes Me This And Then Some

    So yeah I'm sick and tired of conforming to society's bullsh-it norms, and I have had it with human malice orchestrating my life to a point where if I had a gun I'd unload the clip into my head, so what do I do? Nothing. If I do or try to do anything I get into legal trouble...
    amytheinvalid amytheinvalid 26-30, T 3 Responses Mar 28, 2013

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    My Sort Of Coming Out

    My dearest reader, Perhaps you've read my previous stories about my experiences as a crossdresser. Until a few months ago I was perfectly happy inside my crossdressing closet. I never had the need to come out, until one faithfull day. It all started when I met a girl (like all...
    Azalkmaar072 Azalkmaar072 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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    Not only do I wish this.

    ....I feel that I have to! drives me crazy!
    jessilynn2015 jessilynn2015 41-45, T 2 Responses Apr 9

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    Crossdressing

    I agree with your story nothing wrong with dressing up I do it a lot and makes me feel good
    mindygirllacey mindygirllacey 46-50, T Feb 11, 2013

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    I have to my wife so far.

    I don't know how the rest of either of our families would react. I think that she is more scared than I am if they did. Everyone has known me to be a man's man type of guy. I'm sure some will be supportive. I'm sure some wouldn't take it so well either.
    JosetteLaRoc JosetteLaRoc 36-40 1 Response May 5, 2014

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    Related Experiences

    Just a fellow crossdresser looking for more crossdressers. Chat about favorite panties, bras, well really anything related to crossdressing. If I could find a good loyal friend...
    pantyboiCD pantyboiCD 18-21, M 52 mins ago

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    Similar. Maybe not that I was never born - what a thing to wish for! Sure wish my life was different though. When I graduated from high school there was a school organized trip...
    1234NCW 1234NCW 46-50, F 2 hrs ago

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    Gosh today was hectic. I just can't to my work. There aren't enough hours in the day. Then to be shouted at by a customer thinking I should do her work for her is just ridiculous...
    cyndeerella cyndeerella 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I had moved into my first apartment. I was opining boxes and came across the ones with all my girl clothes and then the box with my bondage gear. I thought to my self its time to...
    misstinabondage3 misstinabondage3 18-21, T 3 hrs ago

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    I mainly underdress, bra and panties mostly depending on the time of year. Although summer is harder because of lighter weight shirts people could see the outline of my bra...
    sissymichelle26 sissymichelle26 46-50, T 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    CloverMermaid CloverMermaid 13-15, F 8 hrs ago

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    Become a member on my mermaid website where we talk about everything mermaids and this is for mermaid lovers, ACTUAL mermaids, and girls that are trying to be mermaids! Come join...
    CloverMermaid CloverMermaid 13-15, F 8 hrs ago

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    So I'm a 15 years old boy? and I live in a non religious family, and I'm still in the closet. The issue about coming out isn't that religion coincides with my sexuality but rather...
    ymmas777 ymmas777 22-25, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I want to tell people but I can't. Only a handful of people know I am gay but I can't tell my parents, it's too weird. Someone help, I need advice
    EqualityinAges EqualityinAges 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    Where are my naughty night girls ;)!?!?!
    MrPerfect90 MrPerfect90 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    I was at a meeting today and something i ate definitely did not agree i kept stepping outside to fart cuz i had some horrible gas i mean my yoga pants were absolutely tortured i...
    lonelydancergirl lonelydancergirl 22-25, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am 15, male and gay. I was not always closeted, I told two of my best friends that I was gay, however, I paniced a few months later and told them I was only joking - this ruined...
    casio747 casio747 13-15, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    It's a bit of a read. But it's a tiny part of the last 4 years: I was only 17 when I fell in love. It happened very unexpectedly and fast that I wasn't entirely sure what was...
    AlexR94 AlexR94 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I've been confused and gay for quite some time now. I'm now 17; I started attaining a sexual attraction for males during the 6th grade (around 12-13 years old?). Although my...
    Wep777 Wep777 16-17, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Hi, folks. My alias name, for obvious reasons, is Roselynne. I go by that for my alter-ego's identity as a pregnant crossdresser. However, my real name is Russell and my...
    Roselynne Roselynne 41-45, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    well I came out the end of this year on school I said to my friends I'm bisexual as a kid I was always looking at women's body beauty and I said it's nothing but I fall in love in...
    ronyida ronyida 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Memories of the future fading in.... Memories of what could come. Years of studies and knowledge awakening before me. It has become real again. The emotions... The memories. The...
    Destinyyy Destinyyy 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    http://m.bookemon.com/book-profile/the-shadows-arising/165803 If you click on this link, it will take you to a book I wrote a few years ago, "The Shadows Arising". It has become...
    novaftmpride novaftmpride 16-17, T Jul 26

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    I'd love to go back to the 50's. Things seemed simple. Everything now is so complicated and there's so many choices and options. I would have loved to raise my kids back then, we...
    reynanv reynanv 26-30, F 9 Responses Jul 26

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    There are some days that I just wish things were simpler! I wish my thoughts weren't so complicated- and that life could just slow down. I just wish I could figure out a way to...
    BeingT BeingT 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I posted this on FB hoping to start a conversation or something but it didn't quite turn out that way (1 comment, 8 likes). It was sort of upsetting bc this was the first time I...
    rycbar10 rycbar10 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 23

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    The challenge for cross-dressers, who are dual-gendered as most guys on here are, is to come out of the shadows and to start becoming more comfy with being out as their female self...
    jennylee911 jennylee911 41-45, F 5 Responses Jul 23

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    I saw my first shooting star last night. I was with the girl I loved more than anything and when I started to make the wish to have her as mine... I realized my wish was to late...
    octoberlovely octoberlovely 16-17, F Jul 23

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    I was with my grandma for weekend. I went there wearing my boy clothes and under I wore, garter belt, nylons, thong, girdle and a bra. All my girl clothes u couldn't see. So my...
    CaitlynJennerIsAQueen CaitlynJennerIsAQueen 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Hi, I'm new to this site, but am so grateful to have found it! I have been struggling with the 'step mum' role for 2.5 years, and have been so ground down by my partner, that he...
    RaceyGracey1974 RaceyGracey1974 41-45, F Jul 21

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