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I Wish I Could Come Out Of The Crossdressing Closet

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    I am a man that has struggled all his life with

    the feeling that he should have been born a woman. I have been wearing womens clothing for most of my life but have never come out and showed it. I am now more interested in men as sexual partners than with women. Does that make me Gay? Any thoughts on my problem would be...
    Joanne55 Joanne55 61-65, M 3 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    I can't live in the closet any more.

    Two people know that I dress, my wife and a very dear & close friend. As of today three people know. I came out to my eldest son today and he was fantastic, didn't freak out at all and was just "It's your life, do what makes you happy. Will have to tell my youngest son next...
    Monicatg Monicatg 51-55, T 3 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    I've never told anyone about my crossdressing

    nor have i ever been caught by someone. when i think about it, part of me wishes that i had been caught by someone in the past, just to get it out there. but now i am conflicted and dont know what to do. im not embarrased by it, but dont want people to get the wrong inpression...
    quirkysquirt9 quirkysquirt9 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 20

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    To Come Out Completely...Would Be Damn Nice/The World Owes Me This And Then Some

    So yeah I'm sick and tired of conforming to society's bullsh-it norms, and I have had it with human malice orchestrating my life to a point where if I had a gun I'd unload the clip into my head, so what do I do? Nothing. If I do or try to do anything I get into legal trouble...
    amytheinvalid amytheinvalid 26-30, T 3 Responses Mar 28, 2013

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    Not only do I wish this.

    ....I feel that I have to! drives me crazy!
    jessilynn2015 jessilynn2015 41-45, T 2 Responses Apr 9

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    End The Secrecy

    I am a crossdresser and have had these feeling since I was four years old although at the moment I'm not practising. Until I was six I thought I was a girl and when I discovered being a boy I was disappointed. I thought I was the only one who felt this way until I saw a...
    meganb1 meganb1 36-40, T 5 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    I have to my wife so far.

    I don't know how the rest of either of our families would react. I think that she is more scared than I am if they did. Everyone has known me to be a man's man type of guy. I'm sure some will be supportive. I'm sure some wouldn't take it so well either.
    JosetteLaRoc JosetteLaRoc 36-40 1 Response May 5, 2014

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    Crossdressing

    I agree with your story nothing wrong with dressing up I do it a lot and makes me feel good
    mindygirllacey mindygirllacey 46-50, T Feb 11, 2013

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    I had no choice but to confess to my family

    that I wear thongs. I was not ready at that time and wanted to keep it secret for a little longer. But my hand was forced by the publication on the internet of pictures of me in a thong. I did not want my family or friends to find out this way so a few days after my photos...
    ryanwearsthongs ryanwearsthongs 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 18

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    I want to come out and crossdress fulltime.

    My girl already knows but no one else :(
    pantyboiCD pantyboiCD 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 5

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    Coming Out

    I've been dressing as a girl for most my life on and off. The problem is I can't stop and I have no-one to come out to or talk to about it. I get lonely and get sad but don't know what to do.does someone have a suggestions?
    southernbellesarah southernbellesarah 36-40, T 23 Responses Mar 2, 2013

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    minameis minameis 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 23, 2013

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    I Have A Bit

    told my wife and the doc dress most days in gender neutral womens cloths but not told anyone at work yet and havnt been out fully as a woman either am i just play acting?
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T 1 Response Feb 20, 2013

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    Why wish?....it's fun

    and you love it!
    jessilynn2015 jessilynn2015 41-45, T Jun 22

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    So over last weekend I took a little step

    forward. I needed to go shopping for girly stuff, the urge was just too much. I've been dying over not having anything to wear, this urge has been going on for a month now (i have really never shopped for myself in public besides running into a store real quick, grabbing one...
    colie0701 colie0701 26-30, M 6 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    Being Afraid Of What Might Happen..

    Hi there I am 14 and in high school I really love boys but I like girls as well I dated two girls and several guys I am afraid to come out and say I'm bi also I'm a girl
    xboxfreak1 xboxfreak1 22-25, F Sep 9, 2013

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    Had some me time, so decided to go with a more

    bold blue bra. I needed to do some grocery shopping, but figured a sweatshirt would cover the evidence of my bra. At the store did the usual - reaching for this and bending that while roaming up and down the aisles. There was an older woman, who I ran across in several of the...
    julia09 julia09 56-60, M 6 Responses May 22

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    My Sort Of Coming Out

    My dearest reader, Perhaps you've read my previous stories about my experiences as a crossdresser. Until a few months ago I was perfectly happy inside my crossdressing closet. I never had the need to come out, until one faithfull day. It all started when I met a girl (like all...
    Azalkmaar072 Azalkmaar072 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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    To Just Be Me.

    I would love to be just me and be able to wear whatever I want and be the woman that my spirit is without society's silly limitations.
    Aiyana77 Aiyana77 36-40, T 2 Responses Mar 3, 2013

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    well i wouldnt say im a closeted gay idk.. sorry for any future typos lol im on my cell well i never really was interested in guys at all until i guess i had a urge and went online...
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    Yesterday . it was a gokd day for m . when ma parents were not present in home . i rushed to ma sis room and .started to wear ma fav clothes . i was enjoyin the moment of the...
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    Even if people came with warning labels, I doubt I'd read them. I would plunge right in hoping that they would not shrink down to their real size, small and ill-fitting, cutting...
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