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I Wish I Could Come Out Of The Crossdressing Closet

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    Coming Out

    I've been dressing as a girl for most my life on and off. The problem is I can't stop and I have no-one to come out to or talk to about it. I get lonely and get sad but don't know what to do.does someone have a suggestions?
    southernbellesarah southernbellesarah 36-40, T 23 Responses Mar 2, 2013

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    End The Secrecy

    I am a crossdresser and have had these feeling since I was four years old although at the moment I'm not practising. Until I was six I thought I was a girl and when I discovered being a boy I was disappointed. I thought I was the only one who felt this way until I saw a...
    meganb1 meganb1 36-40, T 5 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    Being Afraid Of What Might Happen..

    Hi there I am 14 and in high school I really love boys but I like girls as well I dated two girls and several guys I am afraid to come out and say I'm bi also I'm a girl
    xboxfreak1 xboxfreak1 22-25, F Sep 9, 2013

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    I am a man that has struggled all his life with

    the feeling that he should have been born a woman. I have been wearing womens clothing for most of my life but have never come out and showed it. I am now more interested in men as sexual partners than with women. Does that make me Gay? Any thoughts on my problem would be...
    Joanne55 Joanne55 61-65, M 3 Responses Aug 12

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    To Just Be Me.

    I would love to be just me and be able to wear whatever I want and be the woman that my spirit is without society's silly limitations.
    Aiyana77 Aiyana77 36-40, T 2 Responses Mar 3, 2013

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    To Come Out Completely...Would Be Damn Nice/The World Owes Me This And Then Some

    So yeah I'm sick and tired of conforming to society's bullsh-it norms, and I have had it with human malice orchestrating my life to a point where if I had a gun I'd unload the clip into my head, so what do I do? Nothing. If I do or try to do anything I get into legal trouble...
    amytheinvalid amytheinvalid 26-30, T 3 Responses Mar 28, 2013

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    Holy crap I think its finally going to happen.

    My wife just said something that threw me for a loop. Holy crap. Holy crap. More to come.
    NaughtyBecky NaughtyBecky 41-45, T 4 Responses Aug 21

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    I have to my wife so far.

    I don't know how the rest of either of our families would react. I think that she is more scared than I am if they did. Everyone has known me to be a man's man type of guy. I'm sure some will be supportive. I'm sure some wouldn't take it so well either.
    JosetteLaRoc JosetteLaRoc 36-40 1 Response May 5

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    minameis minameis 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 23, 2013

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    I Have A Bit

    told my wife and the doc dress most days in gender neutral womens cloths but not told anyone at work yet and havnt been out fully as a woman either am i just play acting?
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T 1 Response Feb 20, 2013

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    Crossdressing

    I agree with your story nothing wrong with dressing up I do it a lot and makes me feel good
    mindygirllacey mindygirllacey 46-50, M Feb 11, 2013

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    My Sort Of Coming Out

    My dearest reader, Perhaps you've read my previous stories about my experiences as a crossdresser. Until a few months ago I was perfectly happy inside my crossdressing closet. I never had the need to come out, until one faithfull day. It all started when I met a girl (like all...
    Azalkmaar072 Azalkmaar072 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    In these past few years, I realized that I like girls. But deep in my heart, I have known this since forever. I can't even imagine being brave enough to come out of the closet, yet...
    Periwinkle0 Periwinkle0 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 10

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    I am bisexual. I know its not a phase because I've been this way for a few years now and I've even been in a relationship with a girl, which was great. I'm scared to come out to my...
    Knockoffheart Knockoffheart 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I came out to my mom and stepdad but now my friends...advice???
    nata1013 nata1013 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    I've had this feeling for a couple years now. And reading all these comments and the things that I might be able to do, I hope that anyone who knows how to help me control this...
    Onelovezz Onelovezz 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    A ball of energy ready to explode
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    That awkward moment you are sad you don't have a lot of gay friends then you realize oh ya that's cuz your not outa the closet rrrrrright....... Sadface :(((
    Adamisbamfin Adamisbamfin 22-25, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I sometimes wish I could just yell it out to world, or tell my parents, or more friends. My secret has me feeling scared or nervous. I wanna come out to be more happy with my self...
    idkgabby idkgabby 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    I'm a 21 year old Muslim lesbian. I've accepted my sexuality from quite a while now but I'm still in the closet because my family and friends will never support me for being...
    Zari93 Zari93 18-21 1 Response Sep 5

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    Today I am going to come out and tell my best friend about it. I trust that he will understand. He's always been understanding and has friends with all kinds of preferences. I'm...
    Lydia93 Lydia93 18-21, T 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    The Guiding Sickle I must admit, this current stretch of time is not going well for me. I've come to understand something serious though: if I wished to leave any kind of note to...
    SourPennies SourPennies 18-21, T 2 Responses Aug 28

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    Call me CJ. It's short for Christopher John. I'm 15 years old. I'm in 10th grade. I'm from the great state of Alabama, my sweet home. In public, I'm totally straight. I have a...
    cjfrombama cjfrombama 13-15, M 3 Responses Sep 7

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    I don't understand why I have to "come out" like straight people don't come out or anything they just date the person they like and that's all. But I also really want a boyfriend...
    alek42 alek42 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 9

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    I want to come out. And I am no way ashamed that I am bisexual. I just don't want to be remotely like my mother, who is a lesbian. I've fought from a young age to be exactly the...
    BeYourOwnSavior BeYourOwnSavior 13-15, F Aug 23

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    I'm thinking about coming out now. I want to come out. I'm just not sure about how to go about coming out.
    SeaOfMonsters SeaOfMonsters 26-30, F a week ago

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    I'm thinking about coming out now. I want to come out. I'm just not sure about how to go about coming out.
    SeaOfMonsters SeaOfMonsters 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I am a closeted lesbian who is 16 and is terrified to come out to anyone, even the people I trust the most...
    HappyLittleLemons HappyLittleLemons 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    Someone asked me today to write what I would wish for if I had only one single wish. That is an almost impossible decision. One wish when I have so many thoughts in my head. I...
    desirabledreams desirabledreams 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    My name is Gabriel. I shall start from my first friend. His name was Alex. Unlike the other kids in kinder he didn't judge me based on how I dressed or even on how I refused to let...
    GARLITH GARLITH 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 4

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    Ok so I have finally decided to come out to my best friends, any tips on how to tell them? All tips are welcome!!!
    irisjuuu irisjuuu 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    when you come out may I help you find a girl friend?
    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    It sucks, it sucks being a bi-sexual. Sometimes I wish I was normal, when I say normal I mean " Straight " . I wish I could share out everything that I'm feeling deep inside to...
    HopelesslyLove HopelesslyLove 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Yeah.. I wish. But wishes never come true for me..
    WhySufferxx WhySufferxx 13-15, M 2 Responses Sep 1

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    Back in march I was taken to a youth group type meeting at someone's house through Xenos Christian fellowship. I have been a believer for a long time but right now I'm really...
    tennisgirl19 tennisgirl19 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    Lol and thought is scarry and the very words that come out of my mouth " I hope not" not because m a narcissist but the fact i dont want anyone, anyone to suffer like me or what i...
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 11

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    I have so much going on at the minute, and it feels like this is the only way I can get it out so I don't blame anyone for seeing the length of this and not reading it haha...
    cmdoran cmdoran 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    So I really want to come out to my parents but I have no idea how! I don't want to just say "I'm gay", I was wondering if people could message me (private or on here) about how...
    ParisMaisie ParisMaisie 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    I do. If you really want to tell your story then I would like to hear it, but that is not why I'm writing this. And I'm not even writing this to tell my story. I have one but it's...
    KenzieluvsRupert KenzieluvsRupert 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Freddieqk2494 Freddieqk2494 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 2

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    I didn't really have a choice to come out it all started when I was sling to someone on FB and he told me he was bi and I thought it would be a nice moment to say I was gay; the...
    chocolatemuffin6969 chocolatemuffin6969 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 24

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    So I've been going through people's experiences about being or figuring out their bisexuality. The reoccurring theme is that they were around 12 years old when they figured it out...
    c0nfus3d22 c0nfus3d22 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 1

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    Day after day, I go on with my life as I would, but as time goes on I feel more and more like I don't belong where I'm supposed to belong most: My family. My other siblings don't...
    UnFairytale UnFairytale 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    On EP at night.. the bitter mean drunk men and women come out and attack you for it. For the record.. I still got respect for you drunk MILF's and appreciate your importance in...
    HeFeedee HeFeedee 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 29

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    aight listen up, cuz now iv had enough, ya goin round spredin lies tellin people that babys mine bu yu no tha truth who ate all the pies? ask the father cuz that baby it ain mine...
    dragonninja dragonninja 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    If I had known you were going to pass away so soon, I would have treated you so much better. I wish I could see you again just one more time…
    EnlightenedSupport EnlightenedSupport 16-17, M 2 hrs ago

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    About me: 24 year old closeted lesbian from Amman -Jordan. I am good looking, feminine, well-educated, financially independent and have a professional job. I studied abroad and...
    ammanmoc ammanmoc 22-25, F Sep 2

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    I met a beautiful, smart girl online 3 years ago. She told me she loved me, and we had a long distance relationship for 8 months. Many changes were happening, especially me getting...
    sjyul sjyul 26-30, F 5 Responses 2 hrs ago

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