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I Wish I Could Come Out Of The Crossdressing Closet

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    I've never told anyone about my crossdressing

    nor have i ever been caught by someone. when i think about it, part of me wishes that i had been caught by someone in the past, just to get it out there. but now i am conflicted and dont know what to do. im not embarrased by it, but dont want people to get the wrong inpression...
    quirkysquirt9 quirkysquirt9 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 20

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    Coming Out

    I've been dressing as a girl for most my life on and off. The problem is I can't stop and I have no-one to come out to or talk to about it. I get lonely and get sad but don't know what to do.does someone have a suggestions?
    southernbellesarah southernbellesarah 36-40, T 23 Responses Mar 2, 2013

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    I am a man that has struggled all his life with

    the feeling that he should have been born a woman. I have been wearing womens clothing for most of my life but have never come out and showed it. I am now more interested in men as sexual partners than with women. Does that make me Gay? Any thoughts on my problem would be...
    Joanne55 Joanne55 61-65, M 3 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    Crossdressing

    I agree with your story nothing wrong with dressing up I do it a lot and makes me feel good
    mindygirllacey mindygirllacey 46-50, T Feb 11, 2013

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    End The Secrecy

    I am a crossdresser and have had these feeling since I was four years old although at the moment I'm not practising. Until I was six I thought I was a girl and when I discovered being a boy I was disappointed. I thought I was the only one who felt this way until I saw a...
    meganb1 meganb1 36-40, T 5 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    I have to my wife so far.

    I don't know how the rest of either of our families would react. I think that she is more scared than I am if they did. Everyone has known me to be a man's man type of guy. I'm sure some will be supportive. I'm sure some wouldn't take it so well either.
    JosetteLaRoc JosetteLaRoc 36-40 1 Response May 5, 2014

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    So over last weekend I took a little step

    forward. I needed to go shopping for girly stuff, the urge was just too much. I've been dying over not having anything to wear, this urge has been going on for a month now (i have really never shopped for myself in public besides running into a store real quick, grabbing one...
    colie0701 colie0701 26-30, M 6 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    Not only do I wish this.

    ....I feel that I have to! drives me crazy!
    jessilynn2015 jessilynn2015 41-45, T 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I can't live in the closet any more.

    Two people know that I dress, my wife and a very dear & close friend. As of today three people know. I came out to my eldest son today and he was fantastic, didn't freak out at all and was just "It's your life, do what makes you happy. Will have to tell my youngest son next...
    Monicatg Monicatg 51-55, T 3 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    Being Afraid Of What Might Happen..

    Hi there I am 14 and in high school I really love boys but I like girls as well I dated two girls and several guys I am afraid to come out and say I'm bi also I'm a girl
    xboxfreak1 xboxfreak1 22-25, F Sep 9, 2013

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    To Come Out Completely...Would Be Damn Nice/The World Owes Me This And Then Some

    So yeah I'm sick and tired of conforming to society's bullsh-it norms, and I have had it with human malice orchestrating my life to a point where if I had a gun I'd unload the clip into my head, so what do I do? Nothing. If I do or try to do anything I get into legal trouble...
    amytheinvalid amytheinvalid 26-30, T 3 Responses Mar 28, 2013

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    To Just Be Me.

    I would love to be just me and be able to wear whatever I want and be the woman that my spirit is without society's silly limitations.
    Aiyana77 Aiyana77 36-40, T 2 Responses Mar 3, 2013

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    minameis minameis 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 23, 2013

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    My Sort Of Coming Out

    My dearest reader, Perhaps you've read my previous stories about my experiences as a crossdresser. Until a few months ago I was perfectly happy inside my crossdressing closet. I never had the need to come out, until one faithfull day. It all started when I met a girl (like all...
    Azalkmaar072 Azalkmaar072 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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    I Have A Bit

    told my wife and the doc dress most days in gender neutral womens cloths but not told anyone at work yet and havnt been out fully as a woman either am i just play acting?
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T 1 Response Feb 20, 2013

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    Anyone got any creative way to come out lol. I just want some really awesome funny ways. Private message me them x
    ParisMaisie ParisMaisie 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 30

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    Well I've came out to my mom, and sister. But no one else in my family because I don't think they'd be okay with it :s I don't wanna risk that
    DevinaLockwood DevinaLockwood 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 30

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    So, you want a forum. I've seen numerous requests thus far for a place outside of this page where we can have more in-depth discussions and explorations of our experiences. So, I...
    BlackholeEP BlackholeEP 18-21, M Apr 8

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    I'm tired of acting like someone I'm not.
    super563 super563 13-15, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Ever try to be with a gender you do not find even the slightest interest for just because your family will disown you if you don't. That you will be hurt physically and verbally...
    octoberlovely octoberlovely 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Denise. 6 beautiful letters that make me shudder with memories. Denise. A name that makes me remember every kiss on my cheeks, collarbones, and neck. Denise. The person that...
    octoberlovely octoberlovely 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I think my mom kinda suspected that I am gay because she never ask me things like "do you have a girlfriend", like she never use the world "girl" But with my dad is different I'm...
    alek42 alek42 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 19

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    Is making an effort to come out for the 4th time even worth it? Ugh I wish I could be accepted. :(
    Lovelybaby18 Lovelybaby18 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    I'm not completely closeted i have come out to my parents some years back. They are a mixture of confused and accepting. I think they believe its a phase so they don't have to deal...
    DriftingLeaf DriftingLeaf 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 19

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    When I was in grade 6 I found out there was a thing called lgbt then that summer I thought what if I was trans then I took into deep thought about it I had tons of dreams but then...
    20tatumt 20tatumt 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    would love to get to know others who are in a similar situation, preferably similar in age too (im 22). ive known since I was really young that I was different and that I was into...
    Char16 Char16 22-25 1 Response Apr 6

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    Okay, I'm going to come out on here now, I've already told my family so I'm proud to say I'm a lesbian have been for a while but I didn't label myself. My friends and my close...
    ThisIsLife13 ThisIsLife13 13-15, F 5 Responses Apr 7

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    I have been in the closet for a while now and don't know how to come out
    missmads12 missmads12 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    Why is it so difficult for us? Why does the term "Come out" even exist? I always have this wretched feeling that unstraight people are always seen as "different" or "special" or...
    ZealInspireX ZealInspireX 16-17, F Apr 7

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    I've come out to my boyfriend as nonbinary and ace panromantic and he's very supportive and loving. He always makes me feel validated and real. And I've come out to my best-friend...
    qrdaedei qrdaedei 16-17 Apr 3

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    *PLEASE READ* I've already accepted my bisexuality and I just wanted to share my story to all of you here who are scared or confused or even ashamed of your mental and sexual...
    SonyaHazel SonyaHazel 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    I am currently writing a play about coming out stories that I hope will educate and remind people of the difficulties faced by people coming out every day and how people react but...
    Kayceyy Kayceyy 16-17, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    I do it comes out during Halloween!
    Lezsoccermom75 Lezsoccermom75 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I'm scared to come out.. my mother said she'll disown us if we're gay!! :o ohhnoo!!
    xeno113 xeno113 13-15, M 4 Responses Apr 19

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    I have told my bff and her sister, and of course the people here on ep--but it's kind of anonymous here so nobody really knows--and I'm wondering how to come out.
    EmoGirl286 EmoGirl286 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 19

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    I'm planning to come out to my friends at school that I'm gay this week.
    Zieman Zieman 13-15, M Apr 19

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    Confession of a Love Sick Fool #2 I'm still in love with my ex boyfriend. Its almost 2 months since we broke up. He broke up with me. He says he don't feel the spark anymore...
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    I was 36 weeks pregnant with our second child . I locked myself and my toddler out of the house. I had a bit of battery left on phone called my husband and asked if he could come...
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