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I Wish I Could Come Out Of The Crossdressing Closet

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    End The Secrecy

    I am a crossdresser and have had these feeling since I was four years old although at the moment I'm not practising. Until I was six I thought I was a girl and when I discovered being a boy I was disappointed. I thought I was the only one who felt this way until I saw a...
    meganb1 meganb1 36-40, T 5 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    Crossdressing

    I agree with your story nothing wrong with dressing up I do it a lot and makes me feel good
    mindygirllacey mindygirllacey 46-50, T Feb 11, 2013

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    I have to my wife so far.

    I don't know how the rest of either of our families would react. I think that she is more scared than I am if they did. Everyone has known me to be a man's man type of guy. I'm sure some will be supportive. I'm sure some wouldn't take it so well either.
    JosetteLaRoc JosetteLaRoc 36-40 1 Response May 5, 2014

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    To Just Be Me.

    I would love to be just me and be able to wear whatever I want and be the woman that my spirit is without society's silly limitations.
    Aiyana77 Aiyana77 36-40, T 2 Responses Mar 3, 2013

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    To Come Out Completely...Would Be Damn Nice/The World Owes Me This And Then Some

    So yeah I'm sick and tired of conforming to society's bullsh-it norms, and I have had it with human malice orchestrating my life to a point where if I had a gun I'd unload the clip into my head, so what do I do? Nothing. If I do or try to do anything I get into legal trouble...
    amytheinvalid amytheinvalid 26-30, T 3 Responses Mar 28, 2013

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    I Have A Bit

    told my wife and the doc dress most days in gender neutral womens cloths but not told anyone at work yet and havnt been out fully as a woman either am i just play acting?
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T 1 Response Feb 20, 2013

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    I can't live in the closet any more.

    Two people know that I dress, my wife and a very dear & close friend. As of today three people know. I came out to my eldest son today and he was fantastic, didn't freak out at all and was just "It's your life, do what makes you happy. Will have to tell my youngest son next...
    Monicatg Monicatg 51-55, T 3 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    minameis minameis 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 23, 2013

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    Coming Out

    I've been dressing as a girl for most my life on and off. The problem is I can't stop and I have no-one to come out to or talk to about it. I get lonely and get sad but don't know what to do.does someone have a suggestions?
    southernbellesarah southernbellesarah 36-40, T 23 Responses Mar 2, 2013

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    I am a man that has struggled all his life with

    the feeling that he should have been born a woman. I have been wearing womens clothing for most of my life but have never come out and showed it. I am now more interested in men as sexual partners than with women. Does that make me Gay? Any thoughts on my problem would be...
    Joanne55 Joanne55 61-65, M 3 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    Being Afraid Of What Might Happen..

    Hi there I am 14 and in high school I really love boys but I like girls as well I dated two girls and several guys I am afraid to come out and say I'm bi also I'm a girl
    xboxfreak1 xboxfreak1 22-25, F Sep 9, 2013

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    My Sort Of Coming Out

    My dearest reader, Perhaps you've read my previous stories about my experiences as a crossdresser. Until a few months ago I was perfectly happy inside my crossdressing closet. I never had the need to come out, until one faithfull day. It all started when I met a girl (like all...
    Azalkmaar072 Azalkmaar072 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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    So over last weekend I took a little step

    forward. I needed to go shopping for girly stuff, the urge was just too much. I've been dying over not having anything to wear, this urge has been going on for a month now (i have really never shopped for myself in public besides running into a store real quick, grabbing one...
    colie0701 colie0701 26-30, M 6 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    Related Experiences

    Anyone got any creative way to come out lol. I just want some really awesome funny ways. Private message me them x
    ParisMaisie ParisMaisie 13-15, F 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    i have close friends that i could go out with,i have money, i have a bike,i have time still im stayin home
    Camouflage Camouflage 22-25, M Mar 3

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    Well I've came out to my mom, and sister. But no one else in my family because I don't think they'd be okay with it :s I don't wanna risk that
    DevinaLockwood DevinaLockwood 16-17, F 4 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    All my life, I've felt different from everyone else. I used to be the quiet child in a group of kids and the one everyone always thinks is "too quiet". I was always picked on and...
    Jerry17 Jerry17 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 8

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    I am ftm and have been for at least a year. I have told everyone I know... Except my family. My dad has a shot gun in the garage for the boys I bring over... What if I'm the boy...
    Hunter239 Hunter239 13-15 Mar 7

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    It's Life Everybody experiences times when nothing seems to go right. It's life. The way it is. Usually you take it in stride. Knowing time will move on; things will get...
    abrokenlittlegirl abrokenlittlegirl 46-50, F 5 Responses Mar 14

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    If I could have my wishes If wishes did come true.. I would wish for happiness and long full life for you... I would wish for laughter And fill your life with songs Then ask for...
    rogi123 rogi123 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 18

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    I could've came out twice today, but didn't. My friends and I were sitting in our school hallway (pretty empty) and one of them asked, who are you going to marry? Us being girls...
    PotatoesRAwesome PotatoesRAwesome 41-45, F 5 days ago

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    I wish I could bring you back.. Time is flying by but I find myself still stuck at the same place. I can have the best day but still somewhere deep down I think about you. I think...
    endlesslyyyforever endlesslyyyforever 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    I know it's not for me, it'll never be for me and it's just one more dream that I need to just accept is dead and gone... But I opened up to a girl who I loved and it's like she...
    iamFrightened iamFrightened 18-21, M Mar 12

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    Still confused about my sexuality and I wanna come out so much but I don't know if I wanna come out as Pansexual it's a label I feel i feel is me, I feel like people will think I'm...
    PunsexualChris PunsexualChris 16-17, M Mar 22

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    I just can't get enough of these lately, especially the ones that have a happy ending. It's probably because I wish I'd been able to do the same at the age these boys/young men...
    steverick steverick 56-60, M 2 Responses Mar 19

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    Some days are harder than others... Today is one of them. Just keep fighting. Day by day, hour by hour, minute by minute. Just keep fighting. It's my choice for it to be like this...
    Kayceyy Kayceyy 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I've only come out to five people (all friends from school), and only two of them really know I'm gay (I told the other that I'm bi). I'm hoping that eventually I can tell all my...
    btd0ja btd0ja 13-15, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    it took me years to come out of the closert i was so scared thinking wot people would think of me .but one day i woke up 1 morning and deciced the time was right .so i told my...
    bran49 bran49 46-50, F 3 days ago

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    I struggle with the right things to say in almost any situation. I think I have lost a good part of my mind, and I'm trying to figure out how to get it back. Maybe writing...
    EpilepticOne EpilepticOne 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 4

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    To start this experience off, yes I did take sleeping pills because I hadn’t slept in 3 days straight and I was to the point of exhaustion and my stress levels from my occupation...
    paganknight72 paganknight72 41-45, M Mar 19

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    There's actually one thing I wish could change about myself. I am 40 years old with baby soft skin from head to toe. I wish I knew how to make it not so soft. This may sound like...
    CowboysAndAngels CowboysAndAngels 36-40, F 12 Responses Mar 8

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    I need opinions and advice. I don't feel like I'm a valued employee at the job I've had for 3 years. I work there one day a week on weekends and there's 2 full time girls. One of...
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 10 Responses Mar 8

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    my 'best friend' doesn't make the effort to hang out with me, and always makes plans I arrange awkward. Last time she put off coming over and came over when I'd given up and gone...
    CantYouHearMe CantYouHearMe 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    Being listened to seems hard to come by. Even when it is brought to light how badly it's effecting me, it still seems like a challenge to be listened to. It is hurtful when...
    St4rbright St4rbright 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    I feel like I am Bi... I've only had LDRs with girls... I don't know what to do... I've come out 3 times but none of them were successful...
    Lovelybaby18 Lovelybaby18 18-21, F Mar 19

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    At the end of January I had an experience that I will treasure for the rest of my life. Gilbert Gottfried has been my favorite stand up comic since the age of 5! My Dad and I...
    harryhoudinifan harryhoudinifan 26-30, F Mar 14

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    I just feel like I'm getting no where. Everyday I wake up and think oh great more work, oh great my parents to deal with and ive built it up inside me with out talking to anyone...
    ItsJakeKimber ItsJakeKimber 16-17, M Mar 6

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    This is not MY coming out story, even though i plan to come out VERY soon. It's my best friend'a story. This actually happened yesterday lol. I was at his house, in the living room...
    OmNimnom OmNimnom 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I have recently come out to my friends and husband as bisexual. The question is what the next step is. I have never had a romantic relationship with a woman but have always known...
    rmccoskery rmccoskery 36-40, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have learned I wait to express my feelings till I'm very hurt or angry and I come out as someone who is over reacting. I should say how I feel earlier but then I would definitely...
    josh221992 josh221992 22-25, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    h i kath i always look forward to our talks i hope these talks are making you feel at ease with rachel she and you nave a great journey of exploration/hope and fulfillment of the...
    lenagnes lenagnes 66-70 Mar 14

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    Last Sunday I took a drive to another city with the intent of dressing and shopping. Just a little me time. I got to the mall and totally freaked. I chickened out. As I was getting...
    shadowplt shadowplt 51-55, M 1 hr ago

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