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I Wish I Could Come Out Of The Crossdressing Closet

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    Being Afraid Of What Might Happen..

    Hi there I am 14 and in high school I really love boys but I like girls as well I dated two girls and several guys I am afraid to come out and say I'm bi also I'm a girl
    xboxfreak1 xboxfreak1 22-25, F Sep 9, 2013

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    To Come Out Completely...Would Be Damn Nice/The World Owes Me This And Then Some

    So yeah I'm sick and tired of conforming to society's bullsh-it norms, and I have had it with human malice orchestrating my life to a point where if I had a gun I'd unload the clip into my head, so what do I do? Nothing. If I do or try to do anything I get into legal trouble...
    amytheinvalid amytheinvalid 26-30, T 3 Responses Mar 28, 2013

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    Holy crap I think its finally going to happen.

    My wife just said something that threw me for a loop. Holy crap. Holy crap. More to come.
    NaughtyBecky NaughtyBecky 41-45, T 4 Responses Aug 21

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    I Have A Bit

    told my wife and the doc dress most days in gender neutral womens cloths but not told anyone at work yet and havnt been out fully as a woman either am i just play acting?
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T 1 Response Feb 20, 2013

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    I have to my wife so far.

    I don't know how the rest of either of our families would react. I think that she is more scared than I am if they did. Everyone has known me to be a man's man type of guy. I'm sure some will be supportive. I'm sure some wouldn't take it so well either.
    JosetteLaRoc JosetteLaRoc 36-40 1 Response May 5

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    End The Secrecy

    I am a crossdresser and have had these feeling since I was four years old although at the moment I'm not practising. Until I was six I thought I was a girl and when I discovered being a boy I was disappointed. I thought I was the only one who felt this way until I saw a...
    meganb1 meganb1 36-40, T 5 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    Crossdressing

    I agree with your story nothing wrong with dressing up I do it a lot and makes me feel good
    mindygirllacey mindygirllacey 46-50, M Feb 11, 2013

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    minameis minameis 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 23, 2013

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    I am a man that has struggled all his life with

    the feeling that he should have been born a woman. I have been wearing womens clothing for most of my life but have never come out and showed it. I am now more interested in men as sexual partners than with women. Does that make me Gay? Any thoughts on my problem would be...
    Joanne55 Joanne55 61-65, M 3 Responses Aug 12

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    Coming Out

    I've been dressing as a girl for most my life on and off. The problem is I can't stop and I have no-one to come out to or talk to about it. I get lonely and get sad but don't know what to do.does someone have a suggestions?
    southernbellesarah southernbellesarah 36-40, T 23 Responses Mar 2, 2013

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    My Sort Of Coming Out

    My dearest reader, Perhaps you've read my previous stories about my experiences as a crossdresser. Until a few months ago I was perfectly happy inside my crossdressing closet. I never had the need to come out, until one faithfull day. It all started when I met a girl (like all...
    Azalkmaar072 Azalkmaar072 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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    To Just Be Me.

    I would love to be just me and be able to wear whatever I want and be the woman that my spirit is without society's silly limitations.
    Aiyana77 Aiyana77 36-40, T 2 Responses Mar 3, 2013

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    I don't want people to think I'm more of a freak than I feel already and have almost all my life. I'm just so drained all the time. I try to not care what people think but I still...
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    I don't know if this is true so don't freak. But if you really are one of us, we may currently be hunted down by either a government group who know what we are or something. But...
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    On very rare occasions do I think. I want to experience being a girl. Even though life would be harder. Its just those times and afterwards I'm usually shake the feeling off.
    MrFluFFYL0rd MrFluFFYL0rd 13-15, M Aug 3

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    I just want to tell my mom how I feel :/
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    Yeah.. I wish. But wishes never come true for me..
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    I came out publicly and I feel relieved..However; Afterwards, I really don't remember why it mattered in the first place... if I replay the whole timeline- I do recall it all...
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    I really need to come out but I'm scared . But I'm such a freak 😏
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