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I Wish I Could Discipline Other Peoples Kids

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    "they're Just Kids..."

    Never will I say my own kids are perfect. With that being said, the whole attitude of a "friend" of mine about children drives me nuts. Maybe she is a better person, more patient, understanding, or just a frickin SAINT-but the way she lets kids get away with their CRAP just...
    bseed bseed 31-35 Apr 18, 2012

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    Smack!

    I seriously hate kids potty mouths and no respect! When they talk out of line I wish I could just smack them across their face.
    fprrtp6 fprrtp6 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 16, 2012

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    My Parents House

    next door to my parents house there is a little boy age 7 and he screams and screams and acreams all day for no reason whatsoever when u are trying to talk to anyone like another nieghbour he comes runing up just to scream and then runs off again there is a park just down the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 22, 2012

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    I love the thought of tickling

    as discipline. It can be a very effective method without causing any harm to little ones.
    FootTicklingPrincess FootTicklingPrincess 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My Friend'S Brother.

    There are some children in the world where you have to wonder, who are your parents? how the heck did you learn to act like that?. My friend's brother is such an obnoxious and immature child. Whenever we come over he never says "Hi". Which I don't know if you guys feel this way...
    sklav93 sklav93 18-21, F 1 Response May 16, 2013

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    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 2, 2014

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    Grandma Had Me Spank Her Naughty Grandson

    A late friend on mine had a little daughter whom she asked me to babysit this eventually led me into babysitting four kids. One parent in particular was an elderly grandmother who was watching her grandkids while her own kids were incarcerated. Poor ol' thing couldn't put up...
    krsisgonnarockyou krsisgonnarockyou 36-40, M Mar 14, 2013

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    Seriously like wild little kids

    who run around the stores screaming or parents who don't at least attempt to make their kid stop crying in public. And I hate when people say "they're just kids they don't know any better" WRONG my mom was a great parent and never did me or my siblings act out in public.
    kaylalexi kaylalexi 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 20, 2014

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    Today, I was holding my nephew(12weeks old)

    and one of his cousins(2 years old) walked up and threw a toy at his head. Thankfully it was a rubber duck and not the matchbox cars he had been holding. My sister calmly took the 2 year old and set him on the couch in time out for doing that. The boys mother was not in the...
    Ab262632 Ab262632 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 22, 2014

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    Many spanking moms have complex feelings of

    love, discipline, and sexual arousal associated with spanking. I explore these ideas with them.
    MissAbiFirm MissAbiFirm 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Bratty children get on my nerves.

    Like seriously, we know who's in charge and it's not the parents. I will be able to go anywhere with my kids and they will know not to misbehave.
    1forHIM 1forHIM 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 18

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    PetertheTherapist PetertheTherapist 56-60, M 4 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    Bring Back the Switch

    I wish I could discipline other peoples kids.  I like the way things used to be.  Children were so much more respectful and considerate of people, especially adults.  We were taught that when you enter into someone's presence, you speak.  We were taught to...
    Insomniac Insomniac 51-55, F 6 Responses May 12, 2008

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    Other peoples kids...

    The other night I took my girls to church for family night. Generally the kids are a little excited, but I thought they behaved respectfully... Last night I was asked to help out as 1 worker did not show up, and boy were my eyes opened. I must say, my girls 7 & 5 were very...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 23, 2014

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    One Time Teacher In The 1960's

    I left Teacher Training College in 1960 and taught at a primary school for ages 5 - 8 years old. In those days CP was allowed and teachers were allowed to smack or send a child to the school head. In my case I chose to deal with things myself as I was unhappy with the use of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 25, 2012

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    I Do It At My Childminding Job

    I know what people in this group mean, it would be good if all parents gave a smacked bottom but some just don't bother. I was really lucky and I mean that, because my parents did do. I think they should have a system like a neighbourhood watch with somebody appointed to keep...
    rachaelhughesuk rachaelhughesuk 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 11, 2011

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    I that my kids to school I whot spanka lot of

    then the need a spanking long and hard one
    geoff47 geoff47 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 30, 2014

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    Spanking A Professor'S Kid

    I was in graduate school. One of my favorite professors asked me to babysit his 8 year old son. I'm not too crazy about kids and I didn't want to, but was afraid to turn him down. I think he noticed my reluctance, which is when he admitted that the kid was a bit of a handful and...
    newman1833 newman1833 51-55, M 4 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    Hmm, maybe I should not

    even be in this experience, as I actually have disciplined other people´s kids a few time. That is if my sister´s kids count in that respect. But anyway, now I am here as I sympathize with the title!
    Susanna3 Susanna3 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 16, 2014

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    Kind of the Opposite

    Not really a rant about people who don't disipline their kids, I've seen plenty of that from working at Walmart, drove me nuts... About 5 years ago, I was pregnant with my 2nd child...my oldest was 3 1/2.  I took the greyhound to Idaho for my grandmother's funeral...I had a...
    tigerdancer77 tigerdancer77 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 6, 2008

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    There are so many times I would like to grab

    the putrid flesh being by the head and smash it into the ground. But people are too sensitive nowadays and deem that as unacceptable.
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 18

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    Aggravation

    I can not stand it when parents don't keep an eye on their kids or they just don't give a crap of what they are doing. I hate going to parks and playground 'cause there are some kids that are alot more obnoxious and rude than my nephew. Yes, my nephew is obnoxious but he loves...
    AuntTammy AuntTammy 26-30, F 3 Responses May 26, 2008

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    The Way Kids Treat Their Parents!

    When parents pick their kids up at school, they are out of control.The child is in charge! Children hitting their mom, running thru the school and mom has to chase them down.Kristian told his mom, " I don't like you". Why? Because he wanted play doh..Mom lets him stay...
    wiseowl wiseowl 61-65, F 10 Responses May 31, 2008

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    Hell Yeah

    Oh boy, do I. First of all, I am aware of the fact that I'm only 19 and I don't have kids, so technically I don't know what I'm talking about. But... really, people? It didn't even occur to me to start whining about candy and scream like crazy in public when I was a kid. My...
    TheRealJade TheRealJade 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 29, 2011

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    OMG

    My sister has two boys and one has grown out of it but the youngest goes around begging for a spanking. He will not mind at all. He will yell and say NO!!! Even take a swing at you if he doesn't get his way. I'm sure he will be ok eventually, but OMG......  
    BlueGeorgia BlueGeorgia 41-45, M 26 Responses May 11, 2008

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    Only when they allow them to screech

    uninterrupted in public places like restaurants and shops while pretending not to notice. Why must we suffer lazy parents?!
    TheLampLighter TheLampLighter 31-35, M Jan 18

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    Brat At Church

    There is a little 7 year old girl who this morning at church would just NOT stop talking out loud all morning. Her mother clearly told her to be quiet several times. I wanted to so badly to take the girl by her ear, out of the church, downstairs, and warm her bare little...
    MichelleAnneWaters MichelleAnneWaters 41-45, F 9 Responses Dec 9, 2012

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    I work in a restaurant

    and I see kids act up all the time and I've got to control myself not to say anything
    swimr77 swimr77 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    And Why Not?

    I don't have to wish, I have spanked other people's children - at least one boy and three girls
    Jadlad Jadlad 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 21, 2013

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    Neighboors

    I dont know why but the girl that lives across the streethas three kids, oh yeah she likes to play, but she sure don't know how to raise them. I can not tell you how many times i want to walk over and ask her to sign them over to me i can promise they would be raised correctly...
    thenewestdaughter thenewestdaughter 36-40, F 2 Responses May 31, 2012

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    NO Respect For God's House

    Kids today run free in churches today...When I was going with my parents...you didn't get up and run the the bathroom to get water or anything while church was going on...you better go between Sunday School and before Preaching started...Kids get up in the middle of a song ...a...
    bquick bquick 51-55, M 10 Responses May 12, 2008

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    My Cousin Was Spanked

    When i was 16 my cousin was 9. It was friday night and as usual it was a family get together and i was in the back with everyone else who was young and didnt drink. We were all watching a movie and playing with toy cars. My cousin however was hanging out the window and throwing...
    dadswithboys dadswithboys 31-35 2 Responses Oct 5, 2012

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    Disciplining The Step Daughter

    So often I wish I could discipline my SD. She is 8, pushing her boundaries, lying, sneaking, rough with my 9 month old daughter. And all I can do is send her to a corner for a time out. Her daddy is afraid to do much either since SD has already lied to the cops about him hitting...
    wafirebelly wafirebelly 36-40, F 7 Responses Aug 19, 2012

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    Yup

    My neighbor... I'm not sure whether he has too much or too little discipline. Sometimes, in the backyard, her daughter screams and annoys other people. What I've noticed though is that he also yells at his daughter constantly and seems to go overboard.
    FlyingHigh20003 FlyingHigh20003 13-15 Aug 5, 2012

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    Uh Huh..

    People are too preocupied by making money and being politically correct to discipline their children. A 3 yr old only understands so much hence tantrums in the floor. So, before you try and 'reason' with said 3 yr old (after he's bloodied the back of my ankles by pushing your...
    FeelingCrazy FeelingCrazy 46-50 1 Response Oct 17, 2011

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    I mean, some kids are

    so disrespectful today! They get away with way too much. Especially when I'm at church, and see kids screaming and running and laughing while the preacher is preaching... My kids know they better NOT even think about acting up in God's house. That is where we definitely draw the...
    BlessedAndThankful BlessedAndThankful 46-50, F 8 Responses Jun 3, 2014

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    Some kids carry on like a baby,

    just about every time I go to a shop there seems to be a kid screaming and yelling and I'm getting sick of it, I feel liked going up to the parent and say: "Control your child!" But it's really annoying but I know I can't do anything to the kid. Arrrr just so god dam annoying.
    ReadorNot ReadorNot 18-21, F 10 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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