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I Wish I Could Give Myself A Back Massage

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    It Would Be Great

    My back is constantly hurting. Especially after a long night of work. I am lucky my husband will give me a massage if he's home. But we work opposite shifts. If I could give myself one it would be awesome. But I would always be doing it. So instead I take a nice hot bath and...
    holehearted79 holehearted79 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 16, 2013

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    Back Massage

    I have just stumbled upon "Give myself a back massage" group. This got me thinking. When did I last have a real one. This now takes me back over 18 months. My ex used to kindly or gently place her foot on my back and move them gently. It had the required force to generate the...
    HardingP119 HardingP119 36-40, M Jul 16, 2012

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    Ugh So Tense

    Honestly I always have back pain. I don't know why though! I sit and stand straight and pick things up properly. I don't think I have fallen or done anything along those lines. But I always get told I have amazing hands and people always want me to rub their backs or arms. Its...
    Tatteredheart Tatteredheart 16-17, M Jun 8, 2012

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    Actually, Not Impossible

    I cannot recall the type of therapy this involves, but for certain types of back pain, you can use a small ball like a tennis ball (may be too hard) or a racket ball to get rid of pain. I remember a therapist that used her elbows on tender spots to fatigue the knots. She told me...
    NCConch NCConch 41-45, M Jun 10, 2012

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    Massage Back

    Seriously. I overworked myself yesterday I think and I lack sleep. At first I could handle the pains but I could FEEL all of the tension build up!! I need a REALLY good massage.=(
    CharleeLuv CharleeLuv 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 4, 2012

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    Would Be Nice

    Just like how I wish I could give myself a haircut, or check myself for ticks... it would be SOOOOOO nice to give myself a back massage. I wish my masseuse knew exactly how I want to be healed!!
    magikk magikk 31-35, F Jun 26, 2012

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    Not surprisingly, my initially suggestion is to essentially consider your cause of starting up university; therapeutic massage therapy is this kind of a private and strongly...
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    Obviously, my to start with suggestion is to actually take into consideration your cause for commencing faculty; massage therapy is this sort of a private and strongly...
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    Needless to say, my first suggestion is to essentially take into consideration your basis for starting off school; therapeutic massage therapy is this sort of a private and...
    Mica4014qgx7 Mica4014qgx7 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    Certainly, my first recommendation is to actually look at your basis for starting up school; therapeutic massage therapy is these types of a personal and strongly interpersonal...
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    Of course, my initial recommendation is to essentially consider your cause of starting up faculty; therapeutic massage therapy is these a personal and strongly interpersonal...
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    Certainly, my 1st recommendation is to essentially think about your reason for commencing university; therapeutic massage therapy is this sort of a private and strongly...
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