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I Wish I Could Have a Real Hug In Place of a Virtual Hug

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    Real Hug?

    if anyone is passing through my area, i'll give you a real hug.  no strings, fancy pants, or other motives.... just a hug!  :-)
    passionateactorxox passionateactorxox 31-35, M 8 Responses Nov 18, 2009

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    I Need A Real Hug

    My best (male) friend has some serious health issues and I am so frightend for him. I really need a big bear hug but he is the big bear that I get my hugs from. In the past year that I have known him all I have to do is ask and he is right there! Whether is be for a hug or to...
    1BrownEyedLady 1BrownEyedLady 56-60, F 5 Responses Feb 19, 2011

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    Cyh

     Consider yourself hugged.   It was a code between a special friend and I when we were in college.  When we parted and went our separate ways, we would put CYH on our correspondence just sort of a virtual hug in the days before the internet. I love getting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 13, 2009

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    Missing It

    i can barely recall the last time i had a real hug...i do get virtual hugs but they don't make much difference unfortunately..i do appreciate a lot the gesture from the person but i wish i could feel itsometimes i feel i would give everything just to be held in someone's arms..to...
    BlackDiamondFairy BlackDiamondFairy 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 3, 2011

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    Dear Deployment

    Well, just a few months ago, I fell in love with a deployed soldier in Iraq. He was the best guy in the world to me. I fell in love and got married to him when he came back home. So here we are a few months later now and he is going to SF training which is Special Forces training...
    annacbennett20 annacbennett20 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 27, 2011

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    However ...

    ... reality is what it is. This is why I 'embrace' so many of you with my wings. When I'm in that place where nothing else seems to help, I wrap my arms around myself, and visualize the one I wish to be holding me.
    angelwings626 angelwings626 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 2, 2010

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    1rarechick 1rarechick 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    It Would Be Nice

    Just to feel some human contact would be nice. For someone to hold me, let me know I am still alive..................
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 13, 2009

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    =/

                                  Not not a virtiual one, even though it would be better than not getting one at all, but I wish I could have a real hug....
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 13, 2009

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    Need A Real Hug!!!

    other than my pillow, the last time i had a hug was, in fact i cant even remember the last time i had a real hug,it must be at least 2 or 3 years since my last hug or anything, i mean i have had countless number of "hug" gestures on here, and people...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 9 Responses Nov 14, 2009

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    kojack2014 kojack2014 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    It's Only Make Believe

    I would so love to feel my sweetheart's arms around me.  We are in a long distance relationship and for a number of reasons, are rarely able to be together in person.  We make it a point to say gm and gn to each other, we take lunch at the same time so we can chat, and we IM...
    geminigirl1975 geminigirl1975 51-55, F 2 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    But I'll Take What I Can Get

    I have many friends online, most I talk with on MSN and we *hug* a lot. I rarely get physical connect like that. It is something I am missing a lot. I want to just be held for a few seconds.... I sound really pathetic now don't I?? Stuff it I don't care. I really want to be...
    Buffy19 Buffy19 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 25, 2011

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    Why Not

    This could be very entertaining indeed!
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 Apr 13, 2012

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    Starved I Guess.

    I have this "internet friend", his name is Nicholai. He's amazing and wonderful and says all of the right things to me, that's how it usually goes with internet friends right? Anyways, he's been there for me through some pretty terrible stuff lately, and even though I don't tell...
    cedaliya cedaliya 18-21, F Jun 23, 2011

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    Virtual Hugs Are Nice But ...

    yah, i enjoy a good virtual hug just as much as the next person, but they still cant replace the feeling of someones arms around you and the heat emanating off the other persons body pressed in close. It also cant replace the feeling of friendship and love put into a good hug...
    Dragon8370 Dragon8370 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 11, 2010

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    I Wish I Could.....

    I wish I could reach in and GIVE a real hug to my EP friends when they need one! Hugs say so much and a virtual one with a few words is good but there is nothing as comforting as someone's arms around you or yours around a friend saying, "I care".....so all of my friends out...
    SuzieA SuzieA 46-50, F 11 Responses May 19, 2010

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    As Much As

    The virtual hugs happen from me they should convey the comfort and the warmth that is associated with them. So when I gesture my friends with a hug of what ever variety that it is, know that it is meant to be done as a real hug and hope it comforts you...
    mtvlm mtvlm 41-45, M 1 Response May 20, 2010

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    Awww... This pains my heart!

    I wish these hugs were real.... I want everyone to feel my love transpire through my hug to them...I understand the hurt, sorrow, and pain oh so well.... I just want you to know that I love you and I'm here for you all! *BIG HUG* for everyone.., and a ☀️BRIGHT SMILE😊 for...
    Virtualhugger Virtualhugger 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    ...

    When my ep friends and people on here give me *hugs* it does mean a lot too me.. it shows that they care about me. They can never match up to really hugs though.. The feel of another persons around you holding you tight. I wish I could feel real hugs more often...
    BrokenAngelWishes BrokenAngelWishes 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 11, 2009

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    I Want A Bearhug

    Sometimes I just want a real, bearhug? Ya know? I'm not the kind of person who comes across as affectionate and willing for a hug. I'm not a big ball of sunshine and I don't show my emotions. But for once, I would love for somebody to walk up and hug me and hold me together. Then...
    Tryingtobepositive Tryingtobepositive 16-17, F Mar 22, 2012

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    Goddess Knows We Could All Use One.

    At least today. I am a hugger. I love to be held close....and the small gestures speak volumes over the huge ones. Like wild flowers pick on the road side mean so much more than roses bought at the store. And a home cooked meal by candle light means more than a fancy meal...
    luckypickle luckypickle 26-30 26 Responses Nov 12, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    On very rare occasions do I think. I want to experience being a girl. Even though life would be harder. Its just those times and afterwards I'm usually shake the feeling off.
    MrFluFFYL0rd MrFluFFYL0rd 13-15, M Aug 3

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    This girl I love is in terrible pain. She has lost someone close to her, but sadly I can't give her a real hug, kiss her tears and hold her tight in my arms. Right now I wished...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M Aug 1

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    I love to hug and be hugged from people even though I don't get hugs that often. I've been feeling kinda low and down during the last couple of days and could use some hug therapy...
    texaschic35 texaschic35 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 23

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    Ok, this is gonna be like, a novel. Warning you in advance. Heh. Let's begin. Anyway... So I have a huge crush on a guy. let's just call this guy Bob. Ok so recently, me and Bob...
    Impuritiii Impuritiii 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I am 13 and I have a huge crush on my 28 year old 7th grade science teacher. I am going into 8th. During the summer I really missed him and I still liked him. I made the mistake of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 23

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    I can't help myself. It's the what if, could have been, and over thinking that gets me into trouble.
    PeaceBatman PeaceBatman 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I have lost a lot of friends and in the back of my head a little voice always says: "You should have been a better friend, you could have been a better friend but you weren't an...
    Sky233 Sky233 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    have Really Bad Nightmares.............
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M Aug 3

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    I have realized. My calling in life is to make a difference. Impact people in positive ways! The problem with this realization is; what best facet can I do this? Every conclusion...
    Sometimesilence Sometimesilence 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Yes, I do. Giving and receiving. I would also be a good way to know if someone is really affectionate... or if they are "just words"...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Aug 1

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    When there are things that happened that you swear you never wanted...but your friends say you do. And did. And you beg them to trust your voice alone. But they refuse to believe...
    Levi1 Levi1 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 25

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    So I moved out of state. Months before my friend of ten years kept putting off hanging out with me. 7 months went by. Weeks before I moved, he planned a lunch. Then the day of...
    indigoK indigoK 36-40, F Aug 6

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    I thought he can stalk me no more. In reality, he can't but he was there in my sleep. Last night, I fell asleep with my right arm draped over my daughter. It was soo good that I...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    38C ...I'm kinda big..I wish I was a little bigger tho
    Rayven1997 Rayven1997 16-17, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Some people are just better at hiding it than others. Others wear their heart on their sleeves. Others wear a mask to show others they don't have any problems when in actuality...
    bbyislander bbyislander 22-25, F Jul 31

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    yeah!would be gratifying to help people out with the fruits of my toil in any manner so that could get the much needed succor int their lives...
    romell romell 36-40, M Jul 27

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    When my dad died a few days before we had a small fight and we were avoiding each other I just wish we were both happy with each other before he died since I'll never see him again...
    Battlescars1524 Battlescars1524 13-15, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I realised when I was having my fitting done "wow, that's 34gg cup" the fitter said. I was amazed, but the price of the bra brought the feeling down!
    mommygotboobs mommygotboobs 36-40, F 18 Responses Aug 7

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    I like women with huge cup sizes
    DaddyThomas4 DaddyThomas4 46-50, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I haven't had sex in forever and I can't stop thinking about how much I want it, it's actually driving me crazy...
    wayyfarer wayyfarer 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 26

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    "What if the one that got away came back" I've wished for that every day for nearly two months.
    xSundip xSundip 18-21, M 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    This is me sucking a **** and have a ***** to
    dich dich 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 22

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    Sometimes I do, it would be neat to make friends so quickly Hey let's battle! Wow you and your pokemon are so cool can I have your number? I would probably become a guy who...
    userabc123 userabc123 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 27

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    Personally I didn't think it was all that special but a lot of girls have commented on my load and been very suprised how big it is when I climax
    69morninglory69 69morninglory69 26-30, M Jul 29

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    she's always reminding me that her daughter... I had extremely rough childhood the kind you wouldn't wish on your worst enemy and it still has many ways of effecting me it's been...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F Aug 10

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    Yes, no doubt about it! I have a crush!
    lillylolz lillylolz 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I have 16 siblings. AND IM THE ONLY GIRL! There's my brother Junior 27, Jaiden 26, Jayson 25, Justin 23, Jack and Jackson 21, James 19, Jake 18, Jonah and Jordan 16, Jax 14, Jimmie...
    ashley12xoxo ashley12xoxo 18-21, F 5 days ago

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