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I Wish I Could Trust People

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    "I Wish I Could Trust People"

    I wish I was able to trust people, but so many people have hurt me, and broke that trust, even family, so It is really hard for me to trust anyone these days, I am learning to trust people more and more, but it is still something that I struggle with. I hope one day to be able to...
    DyinToBeLoved DyinToBeLoved 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 27, 2008

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    Someone Taught Me Not to Trust....

     I am dealing with life one day at a time and enjoying it.  Life is hard with out my kids everyday but they are in good hands with Emmet and I know he is a great dad. I know that he is not strong enough to live without them.... he would die otherwise. I love my...
    ericalee4 ericalee4 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 30, 2009

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    Be Nice

    I wish I was able to trust people, but so many people have hurt me, and broke that trust, even family, so It is really hard for me to trust anyone these days, I am learning to trust people more and more, but it is still something that I struggle with. I hope one day to be able to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 26, 2013

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    Painful Prevention

    ...When i was younger...i used to trust in people...no one seemed to need me and i was insignificant to them...but i still believed that there were people out there who understands and will stay by ure side...that was until i was betrayed by the only person that i had begun to...
    PorcelainChinaDoll PorcelainChinaDoll 16-17, F Aug 21, 2009

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    Live Life In Fear

    I trusted people quite easily when I was younger, before I learned you can trust nobody. Not even yourself. I want to trust people like I could back then, but I can't. I learned from my mistakes, from my whole life. Why is it that people who work there ******* *** off, get...
    XxLoneFoxxX XxLoneFoxxX 13-15, F Sep 2, 2011

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    Internet People

    Of course i wish i could trust real people in my life as well but it seems like more and more i just should not trust anyone online or off.   I shouldn't condemn everyone for a few idiots.... but its hard. I just don't get how some people's minds work. Apparently if you...
    Tacit Tacit 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 8, 2008

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    yeah i m done with trusting people,each n every single person in my life gave me back only a hit in reply of my sincerity...i m just making sure myself now that i should stop...
    happyhuman1 happyhuman1 22-25, F Jun 26

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    It's weird because I don't trust people, but I'm an open book to them so there has to be trust there..right?...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I used to be really gullible and I trusted people way to easily . I went through things that were difficult and now I can't trust anyone without being paranoid that they're lying...
    EssSmith EssSmith 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I have been through allot lately and in the past, the past I got beat up ( by girls and boys ) ever sense then I have been scared of people, I don't trust people very well. And...
    100BlackRoses 100BlackRoses 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Why are people so selfish I can't really trust people because at point they will hurt you but there's nothing you can do about it I try to make sure others are happy but every time...
    Waqasauce01 Waqasauce01 16-17, M Jul 17

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    I feel I trust people too much. I've been used and lied to so much but I never learn. Maybe I have faith in people's humanity? Maybe I'm a dumba$$?
    YLIhououin YLIhououin 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I trust people way to quickly and get attached to talking to them it's so sad really...
    fashionanxiety fashionanxiety 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 26

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    I'm kind of terrified to tell anyone my secrets even if it's one of my best friends.. You never know if they backstab you and tell the whole world and then you feel bad because of...
    foreverisabella foreverisabella 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    This is true all around. But with my best friend, it isn't an issue of trust as much as an issue of judging. We were both Christian in high school. We stopped being friends for a...
    vlrjspn vlrjspn 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    The people I thought were my family made me a slave and talked about whether to sell me or keep me for themselves. I don't trust them. I moved out last year and my mom wants me to...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Am i the only one who have trusting issues?! :( It seriously sucks who ever i trust just let me down and they dont worth to be trusted am i fool and dump? Am really tired if...
    sollloo sollloo 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I have a habit of letting people break down my walls too quickly, I get too sucked in to people and forget to look out for the warning signals until it's too late but by then I am...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    I give my trust and my heart to people who don't deserve it, and it always comes back to haunt me.
    ashleyynp ashleyynp 18-21, F Jul 15

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    I just looked at her Facebook for the first time in a long time and see how beautiful she looks and how happy she is with her boyfriend, and my other old best friend. She has all...
    spac3cadet spac3cadet 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I don't know why but nowadays I just feel like I can't trust anyone...
    fantaIsatou fantaIsatou 16-17, F Jul 8

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    Some people say the meanest **** to others because they can't get to them behind there screen. They are all cowards
    LightningRid3r LightningRid3r 16-17, M Jul 13

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    Espacially people with influence like teachers or therapists... Bad, bad encounters with the two And also - what do you do when you know your problems but don't find the power OR...
    bat118 bat118 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    I'm pretty optimistic when it comes to my opinions of people,and I like to see the good in everybody. I tend to expect everyone to be honest, good and keep promises, but...
    almaera almaera 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    Reason why is I started talking to someone here, and told them that id help them out, but they'd end up leaving me behind. They said they wouldn't, so I went into great detail...
    TheAmazingSpiderJoe TheAmazingSpiderJoe 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    Well not a whole change, I want my testicles put inside my body and have a vagina added while I keep my penis... I know this isn't possible but I sure wish it was. And maybe size...
    str8CD str8CD 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 15

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    LISTEN TO ME AND HEAR ME GOOD I DONT LIKE PENIS!!!!!! DO U UNDERSTAND THAT!? I HAD A BAD EXPERIENCE GROWING UP AND THATS IT SO JUST STOP TRYING TO HELP ME YOU IGNORANT MEN THAT...
    RebelStar24 RebelStar24 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I would never get tired of that ability lol
    rmindeed rmindeed 22-25, M Jul 16

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    Boys are so freaking cruel like seriously. I'm so done rn. Thanks for ruining my day and making me hate myself even more :)
    osnapitzama osnapitzama 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Through the phone too! Those dang telemarketers!
    QuiltedBathwater QuiltedBathwater 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I should be in jail. Those damn girls (*******!) are just so stupid... If I had a gun it wouldnt be the boys they call Players, Nope they are nice. But those damn girls... I would...
    2wrp 2wrp 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I may not be inclined to go out of my way to do so, however, this does not mean I would feel guilty about killing a human. I do not value human life. Besides, as they often say...
    macabrEnigma macabrEnigma 18-21, T 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I want to trust people. I really do! I've been backstabbed by my closest and bestest friends during high school. I stood up for them, I would have fought for them( was about to too...
    ReachingSoul ReachingSoul 22-25, F Jul 12

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    I don't know, all my life i have found it hard to trust anyone , the first time i tell someone a secret i made sure it was the smallest one i could possibly think of , and next...
    Theworldismyhell Theworldismyhell 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't trust people at all, and the few people who have earned my trust know better than to break it. I have been backstabbed more times than I thought possible to withstand. Out...
    BloodMoonWolfbane BloodMoonWolfbane 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    trust is something to be earn, for some it takes an instant for others, weeks and some months.... I sadly am in the first category, I tend to trust to easily. I fell in the trap...
    womanonly womanonly 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 6

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    In your life you meet people who bring much joy to your life and also people who bring much misery to it. I am very unfortunate because I've had more people who bring me misery in...
    morgan18365 morgan18365 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I don't really fit in with other who treat me like I'm a retard because I don't open up to people and have a social skill that I need to chat with them. I have hate when they treat...
    sham17 sham17 26-30, F Jun 28

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    I don't know what to do anymore. I have two older sisters that are so much better than me. They're major Christians and they're pretty... They're what my family wants them to be...
    justagirl11893 justagirl11893 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Sometimes I literally think my soul is exhausted from the experience of trusting people. Meaning when you first meet someone everything is new rather it's a friendship or a...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I just feel scared that if I let anyone see the real me... They might leave me. I don't trust people easily so when I trust someone, it's serious for me.
    MadzG MadzG 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am done with trusting people , every time I trusted someone with all my heart I got backstabbed.
    LostCauseMe LostCauseMe 26-30, M 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have trust issues, and when I feel like I'm being lied to, or feel as if I'm being taken for granted or frustrated for whatever reason, i block people out.. It's kind of just my...
    Linkson Linkson 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 28

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    I don't like to trust people to quickly I have been used to many times. I like getting to know people quicker.
    samdavis3 samdavis3 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 6

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    It's really hard to trust people when you've been let down time after time again
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I find it extremely difficult to trust people because of past experiences. I keep myself very guarded and I struggle to let anyone in.
    curiousgirl1214 curiousgirl1214 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I don't trust people, it doesn't really need any explanation.
    HannibalQ HannibalQ 16-17, F 3 days ago

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