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I Wish I Had a Better Relationship With My Mom

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    my mom had a rough upbringing.

    rape, abuse, etc with about 13 other brothers and sisters. she had 3 kids. I'm the baby. as kids, we had a horrible childhood as well. she made sure to give us the beatings she got as a kid. I got the lighter end of things but it was still horrible. even so, I had a great...
    niafiend niafiend 18-21, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    Not Living It Up

    My relationship was good with my mom when i was little. We did everything together and I was the baby at that time. 3rd grade came along and my sister was born and that's when my life went from all smiles to all tears. I became the middle child and i had the " middle child...
    Middlechildprobs Middlechildprobs 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2013

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    The Good, the Bad and the I Yi Yi ...

    Today while walking, I had a sort of flashback to one night when my mom and I sat in my room listening to a bunch of Depeche Mode songs (still my favorite band). I think I was 15 or a bit younger. She was curious - not the kind of curious in a mom way but the musician in her was...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 15, 2007

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    I Am Not Talking to My Mother

    My mom had a terrible childhood growing up.  She was the 3rd daughter and felt unwanted her entire life.  I am her only child and she abused me my entire life.  If things weren't her way, she would get nasty and very angry. My dad and I ignored her for so many...
    siennasmom siennasmom 31-35 1 Response Oct 28, 2008

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    It bothers me that the fact

    that my mom puts me on blast at times and she doesn't treat me fair like she does to me other siblings. One of my sibling ranaway to be with a guy she met. But she like gives them money so they can come around bribing them. If they don't come down she talks all this stuff about...
    vallerinaballerina vallerinaballerina 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2014

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    My Mom and Her Battle

    I miss my mother terribly. She tried as hard as she could to raise us but it was extremely hard for her to get over her past. (she had a horrible child hood) She took allot of it out on us. She hasn't seen any of her grandchildren in months and we live in the same town. She is...
    MiseducatedChik MiseducatedChik 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 8, 2008

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    Adivce On A Corrupted Mother-daughter Relationship

    I love and respect my mother with everything in me but there's no denying we have a rocky relationship. I'm almost 16 and our relationship started going downhill about 4 years ago. She was diagnosed with cancer then and I completely blamed myself and took it upon my self to start...
    Vic1824 Vic1824 16-17, F Jun 11, 2012

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    The Mom Who Cried Wolf

    I can't count the times I have tried to have a better relationship with my mother but no matter what it's just not worked. I want her to love me,care for me and want me and not just speak to me when she needs something. I've realized recently when I got to my early 20's that the...
    kittley21 kittley21 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 3, 2011

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    I Wish I Too, Had A Better Relationship With My Mother

    I could go on and on about my growing up with an abuse parent. I was born five years after my sister died. My mother gave me the same name…so every time she said my name she was always refereeing to her dead child. Five years later my brother was born. Needless to say, he...
    judyc3880 judyc3880 61-65, F Oct 14, 2009

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    Work In Progress

    I am really trying to make our relationship work, I recently moved home and living under the same roof again really reminds me how much alike we really are. So I wake up and try to do one thing better for her than I did the day before. I always complain about having to do dishes...
    CaseyGwynn CaseyGwynn 22-25, F Dec 2, 2007

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    I Wish I Had A Relationship With My Mom

    Ever since I was a child I feel like my mother has been waiting for me to mess up. For me to make a mistake so she can yell and scream. My mom had me when she was 16 and had my brother four years later. From then on I always felt like the black sheep. She forced me to do things...
    Shianne33 Shianne33 22-25 Nov 1, 2012

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    I Wish I Could Have An Actual Relationship With My Mom

    I wish that my mom would accept me for who I am. I'm not a bad person, and other people seem to like me, but she never has. I'm never what she wanted me to be I guess . my whole life she has always pointed out my flaws any chance she gets and has told me multiple times that she's...
    Lala365 Lala365 18-21, F Sep 28, 2013

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    It's Too Late Now

    I never really knew who my mom was. We lived in a fairly nice house with a big yard in virginia, and when it snowed, we could go skiing down the hill in my yard. When i was little, my mom and dad had pretty intense fights all the time that got violent sometimes. my dad was the...
    rainstardrops rainstardrops 19-21, M 2 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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    Roller Coaster Mother Daughter Relationship

    I absolutely adore my mother to death and i most definitely would never be able to live without her. She is the person i admire the most and i will be the luckiest girl in the world if i were ever to grow to be half the amazing, strong, independent woman and mother she is...
    anonymousreality anonymousreality 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2012

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    Excuses For My Out-of-control Temper

    I guess for me, mom will always be there. So I tend to blow up at her for no good reason ....Simply because I can do it, and she will still love me, regardless. I feel it is an awful thing that I do, but sometimes I can't control it. (Deep inside, I know this is an excuse...
    m8gnolia m8gnolia 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 10, 2007

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