I Wish I Had Been a Better Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 512 People

    Maybe If I Did Better... He Wouldn't Have Drank

    I am still a mess about this, I haven't figured out how to cope. R my exboyfriend whom I still consider my friend was out drinking last night, he drunk dialed me. I said "hello" and he said "hello" but there was too much business going on in the background I could barely...
    BrokenWinged BrokenWinged
    18-21, F
    Sep 29, 2010

    Over and Over

    for as long as i can remember, i've always had really great, close friends. these are/were the type of friends that would do anything for you. they're more like siblings then anything else. i could count on them. i wanted to be around them every moment of my life. but at some...
    gypsysoul gypsysoul
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 1, 2007

    I literally don't know

    if I'm a really good friend sometimes I talk behind my best friends back but sometimes she really annoys mee
    hopiingforbetter hopiingforbetter
    18-21, F
    Mar 15, 2014

    Maybe I Would Have More Friends

    Maybe if I had been a better friend Iwould have more friends.  I don't know what I could have done to be a better friend, but I also don't know why none of my old friends put forth the same effort I do to stay in touch.  I know their lives are busy, but I feel left...
    institches1981 institches1981
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 21, 2008


    My friends are my world... Or at least that used to be the case. In the past year or so I have lost the 4 most nearest and dearest friends I ever had. At first it wasn't me, wasn't my doing. My best friend of 5 odd years completely annihilated me on Facebook because she was too...
    dannabell dannabell
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 15, 2013

    I Always Think I Could Have Do...

    i always think i could have done better at certain things, but i dont regret anything that i have done.
    luvbugg77 luvbugg77
    26-30, F
    Apr 3, 2007

    To Myself.......

    ~ I'm trying now, but goodness a lot of damage has already been done & it could take me the rest of my natural life to fix it, if I even can. There is so much fear, anger, & pain inside & I don't even know where to begin half the time. I know that my first order of...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 26, 2009

    To Her.................

    She was with out a friend for so long and I was not there for her so many times due to trying to keep a job and keep the things that we have.   When I came home I would get upset cause she would not want to be here with me, my fears are coming to reality in that she now...
    mtvlm mtvlm
    41-45, M
    5 Responses May 26, 2009

    This Is Supposed to Be Therapeutic

     I've decided to compile a list of all of the amazing people in my life that I've lost touch with over the years.  Most of these friendships dissolved because I fell off the face of the earth (I go into hiding a lot).  I would like to reconnect with all of these...
    apencilfornow apencilfornow
    26-30, F
    Sep 25, 2008

    So when I was like in the 2nd grade,

    I lived with my bestfriend Hailey, and all I can really remember was that I made her cry alot. I don't know why I did it or how I made her cry, I just did and I regret it so much. After I matured, I started to feel really guilty and now I can't do anything about it, she moved...
    leonelarocks leonelarocks
    16-17, F
    Aug 4, 2014

    I Wish I Had Been A Better Friend

    pheneithado pheneithado
    18-21, M
    Jan 23, 2010

    My Inspiration

    in all my other sories you'll hear me whine and complane about how every friend i have leaves me in the end and never wants to hear from me again. well there was one person who was different. she and i were inseperable. we both were self manipulators and suicidal and we helped...
    maiaxxstar maiaxxstar
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 28, 2007

    I Got Really Strung Out and Al...

    i got really strung out and all my friends came over to do their form of an intervention and my ex was there along with my more recent ex that was my current.......and it just went downhill and i pushed them all away and miss them greatly......
    dragel dragel
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Apr 3, 2007

    Always Rather Too Late to Do Anything About It.

    Friendships - the making of them, the enjoying of them, the nuturing of them and the maintaining of them - are quite a complicated skill to learn. Some people are just good at it, but I had to learn how to. It's a shame, because I could have learned from some of the best, but...
    TheTardyDodo TheTardyDodo
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Jun 23, 2007

    Maaaaan. I hurt my friend bad.

    Damaged the whole friendship. I wish I could have her back but, the damage is done and she's happy without me. I do wish her all the best though.
    pinkkcotton pinkkcotton
    31-35, F
    Mar 20, 2014

    I'm Here To Help You! :)

    Hello friends! :) I know sometimes you can have it going on in your life! Believe me I've been there! Well my mission is really just to help people! Do you need some advice? Need to vent? Someone to trust? A new friend maybe? Or just someone to talk to? Well I can help you...
    ImHereToHelpYou ImHereToHelpYou
    22-25, F
    Oct 18, 2011

    Oh I Wish

    It was this one day that my friend told me that she was physic and I don’t believe her because she pissed me off one day because she sent me a message talking bout this is ur mother I got pissed off and I told her why r u messing with my head and I told her that I don’t...
    tiara1992 tiara1992
    18-21, F
    Sep 11, 2011

    I've Always Done Whatever ...

    I've always done whatever I could for my friends. 
    Heavenly79 Heavenly79
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 3, 2007

    I Will Miss Her But I Am Not Agonizing Over It

    I lost my friend C today. She called me a month ago and I never called her back until today. Then she hung up on me. I feel bad but not too bad. I think our friendship had just about run its course. I apologized to her but I'm not going to beg for her forgiveness. If she wants to...
    nicoleal20 nicoleal20
    46-50, F
    Sep 17, 2008

    If I Had Been A Better Friend Maybe We'd Still Be As Close.

    I started being a crappy friend last summer, I pretty much ignored her because I go caught up with a boyfriend and the friend that was a ***** but more exciting to be around. I didn't realize that it hurt her because I didn't invite her or anything. but the worst thing was when...
    MisfitToys MisfitToys
    18-21, F
    Mar 27, 2011

    When It Counts

    For a long time I have wanted a job where I could help people out with their lives by chatting with them. I thought that if i did some voluntary work with the Samaritans (a phoneline) it would help my CV (AKA resume). After the introductory session I was given a lift to my flat...
    neuronice neuronice
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 16, 2007

    All the Time! i...

    all the time! i have been such a ***** to alot of my friends but i don't think about it at the time! i just think back n remember now!!! I have been the bestest ever friend at the moment I'm trying to make up for my other failures! i know its not the same but it proves I'm...
    sazead sazead
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 3, 2007

    I Don't Really Have a Frie...

    I don't really have a friend. I would like to in the future but it seems that I don't have time right now to be a good enough friend myself.
    Wizzard Wizzard
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Apr 3, 2007

    Rowan, I'm Sorry

    i wrote my best friend from all of middle school a note saying i didn't want to be her friend anymore. granted, she was a horrible friend to me, but what i did was HARSH. way too harsh.
    chelswildflower chelswildflower
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jan 24, 2009

    ...many Times Over, I Had But ...

    ...many times over, I had but one chance to be a better friend, to family, acquaintances, strangers, but let the opportunities slip by. Now, a make it a point- it cost nothing to be kind person. You may be lucky enough to come about one more time - to make things...
    Hikrow Hikrow
    66-70, M
    Jun 29, 2007
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