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I Wish I Had Friends

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    I really do wish this cos every time I think I

    have one it turns out I don't have they was useing me or some thin I just want to have some one I can there for as they will be for me and we could talk about every thin and any thin and maybe I can for the first time in a long time be my self again
    scottishbigguy scottishbigguy 22-25, M Jul 7

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    All My Friends Moved.. How Do I Make New Ones?

    I am 30 years old, married, no kids yet. A few years ago my best friend moved half way across the country and since then two of my other close friends moved as well. Since then it seems like the rest of my friends don't call or want to hang out. The only friend I have is my...
    Goldelocks Goldelocks 31-35 1 Response Aug 17, 2013

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    Loner

    Every since I was in highschool I was a loner, my mom said that I was this was way every since I was little. But now I am 19 years old and I still don't have any friends. Everybody always leave me out for some reason . . .idk. I just want some one who I can talk to about anything...
    laaRoyalle laaRoyalle 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 2, 2013

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    I wish I had a best friend!

    She would have to be honest , around my age, and live in California!:) I hate the fact that I'm always feeling alone with no one to talk to or vent to it's actually quite depressing
    Jazzylilys Jazzylilys 18-21, F Jun 9

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    I Think It's Too Late To Make Friends Now

    This REALLY snuck up on me. I started to realize as I was getting older that I had less and less friends, but I didn't have to face the brutal reality until just recently. I realized that my former best friend, the one who had kept me sane for most of my life, wasn't really...
    Aarne Aarne 41-45 4 Responses May 31, 2012

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    Lonely

    Dont get me wrong, i have friends, Good friends. However i live with my boyfriend and its great we do everything together. but i just wish that i had some girlfriends that would pop over for a cuppa and a chat, or ring me to go shopping or something. Im quite lonely without being...
    VectorQueen VectorQueen 19-21, F 2 Responses Dec 4, 2007

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    Miss My Old Friends And Feeling Left Out,

    I've always had friends but over the past year it seems like they've all forgotten about me. We all went to school together, but since i moved away no one contacts me or talks to me at all. I feel so lonely and left out of everything. This year we all turned 21, recently...
    MissPops MissPops 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 30, 2011

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    I've Pushed Everyone Away

    I have a mental disorder which causes me to push everyone away so I have no friends except on the internet.  I don't trust people either, so making friends is hard.  I also have a Paranoia disorder so that makes it hard too.  I'm extremely new to this site so I...
    Licorice Licorice 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 21, 2007

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    One time I defecated myself

    so the nurse would talk to me
    McMusty McMusty 16-17, M Mar 10

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    Sad But True

    I am a freshman in college now, and really have few friends. I used too have so many friends but then I got a girl friend and still had some but not nearly as many as before. I hardly noticed for 2 years that we dated because my girl friend became my best friend but now she's...
    aufan0218 aufan0218 18-21 1 Response Mar 3, 2012

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    I Wish I Had Friends

    I don't know how else to put this: I am lonely. I have no one to talk to about anything. I feel depressed all the time. I am great at hiding my emotions and have been so good at it for so many years I don't know how to act "myself" anymore. This might be the reason I don't have...
    misstiffkitten misstiffkitten 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 11, 2013

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    Ever since I had my first son I lost all my

    friends, and I feel lonely. Even to I have my babdy ddy with me I can't talk to him because he say I'm stupid or doesn't understand. Then if he finds out I tell something to my mom he says that, that's what he is there for so I can tell him everything, but when I do he judges me...
    ashley2109 ashley2109 18-21, F Dec 17, 2013

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    Only A Wish

    Everyone needs someone they can trust. We all need someone we can tell our secerts too. We all need someone who is there for us. We all need a friend. I wish I had friends. I wish there was someone I could tell my deep dark secerts too, and know they won't judge me, or blab them...
    suffocating suffocating 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 14, 2010

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    This Year I Feel So Lonely Then The Other Year

    this year i am soo lonely beacause some of my friend dont care about me so much..they live me alone like a trash...i dont know why...mybe im not smart,mybe im not good in anthing..i cant make them happy..i know i am a shy girl...i try to make them happy..and they still live me...
    nadiah99 nadiah99 13-15, F Jul 25, 2012

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    Bff Jill Where Are You??

    I feel alone most of the time, i have very few friends and no one text me or call me or even want to hang out with me.  Im pretty much a normal guy shy yes i am but i would like to have someone to text or just talk you know.  Do simple things like go for a walk , or just sit...
    treto treto 22-25, M 1 Response May 15, 2011

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    When Did I Go Wrong?

    I was wildly popular in high school. I wasn't popular with boys, but I had more friends than I can possibly list. I got a degree in theatre from a good school, but my parents lack of support filled me with self doubt and I settled for a mundane job in retail after graduation. I...
    glinda521 glinda521 46-50 1 Response Apr 4, 2013

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    I Was Popular.

    I used to have lots of friends. I was the loud, out-going, happy-go-lucky kid. I was on the student council, I never really went to parties but I was always hanging out with other kids and just having fun... Then school got serious and not as many people wanted to know anymore...
    elpatitofeo elpatitofeo 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2011

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    I hate that i have no one in real life.

    Dont get me wrong i love my online friends, if it werent for them i wouldnt be here, i just wish that i had someone to hang out with. Go to the cinema. Stuff like that. I have no one. Im tired of feeling alone.
    Wi5huponastar Wi5huponastar 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    Whats My Deal

    i dunno what my deal is. and its funny whenever i say, outloud, i dont have friends, or none of my old friends talk to me, theres always SOMEone there to say, what do ya mean?> im your friend, i still talk to u" these people confuse me. i think they honestly believe that...
    Genabi Genabi 22-25 2 Responses Aug 26, 2009

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    I Used To Have A Lot Of Friends And I'm Not Sure What Happened...

    When I was younger, I had a TON of friends. I had people to call when I wanted to go out, people that would help me move, people that I could call to bail me out (not that I ever needed it), and people to just hang out with. They were all the same group. Little by little, they...
    TrulyRoxie TrulyRoxie 41-45 3 Responses Aug 14, 2012

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    What Am I Doing Wrong? What Do I Do Next. I'm Lost And Alone

    My first year in highschool I moved to a new town with lots of new people, everyone was so friendly and inviting I made plenty of friends. My grade 9 year I moved away to another new town, I lost my friends but I made new ones  and also met a two girls who became very special in...
    username96 username96 13-15 2 Responses Mar 7, 2012

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    Making Friends, They Make It Look So Easy..

    I always had a good amount of friends but one day I stopped making new ones. While I love the friends (though they are ever dwindling) I have now, we just don't have anything in common anymore. They want to go drink when I would rather chill at a coffee spot or they surround...
    waterlilyj89 waterlilyj89 22-25 3 Responses May 20, 2011

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    I literally have no friends.

    I suck at making friends and never really leave the house.
    Sniffly Sniffly 18-21, F Apr 19

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    Oops?

    I had friends about 2days ago. They were pretty close. But one of them kept ditching me, so I broke friends with her, and everyone else discreetly chose her. I hate being alone, and I never have been. But now I'm spending all day alone, I'm miserable and wondering what I did so...
    FibreglassWings FibreglassWings 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 1, 2012

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    Everyday Is An Opportunity For You to Make a Connection

    I have a mixture of feelings on this matter.  I have had times in my life where I felt I had alot of friends, through work and school and uni. And I have had times where I felt very alone, when I had my son, when my family could no longer talk to eachother,when I suffered...
    swoozie swoozie 36-40, F 3 Responses May 21, 2009

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    Disappointments

    I lost all my friends when I got bullied. They were just people who knew me; shallow-level friends. I kept with two of my friends, and in high school, made friends with a few other people who would talk to me and not be worried about their social status plummeting. But now, they...
    FibreglassWings FibreglassWings 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 27, 2012

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    There Are a Lot of Times Wh...

    There are a lot of times when I  feel like no one understands me or listens to me.
    evilkittymew evilkittymew 36-40, F 4 Responses May 20, 2009

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    I use to have alot of friends

    when i lived in Delaware. I miss it. I feel so lonely now. Everyone i work with goes out with there friends and all i do is sit at home. I cant find anyone i fit in with. It sucks :(
    melissalucy melissalucy 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 18, 2013

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    I really do wish I had friends.

    Not just more friends; but friends in general. When I'm not with my boyfriend I literally have nobody to talk to. I see all these pictures on instagram and fb of people with friends and I feel alone. Throughout highschool I wasnt outgoing I kept to myself and I feel like I got...
    sierraambb sierraambb 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 21, 2013

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    Wishing my EP friends!! 
    illusionlife illusionlife 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    Here's what I'm afraid of, though: 1. I'll probably end up either makign friends with people that are SO NORMAL that I can't be more like my actual self, or... 2. I'll end up...
    HappyBlushCalayapie HappyBlushCalayapie 22-25 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I think the reason I don't have many close friends is because my boyfriend is my best friend. And when I have had friends over the years it's always messed up because the other...
    CasualSuperwoman CasualSuperwoman 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 6

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    When I had friends I didn't feel like I was alone. But I felt like they were never with me or on my side cuz they were always chilling with other people. Now that I have no friends...
    Justadarkhole Justadarkhole 18-21, M 4 Responses Aug 17

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    Locally. Around my own age. Male or Female. The problem is that I hardly have time these days. I take care of my grandmother 24/7, occasionally going to work at a nursing home 2...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M Aug 18

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    I used to think having "internet friends" was a joke. Then I came here and made some good friends. In fact, I don't even refer to them as internet friends. Friends are friends...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 9 Responses Aug 10

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    I wish I had friends to laugh and to talk to
    Mamiproud Mamiproud 26-30, F Aug 15

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    I don't want people to feel pity for me, but I just really wish I had friends right now. Being alone is usually an okay thing for me, but right now I actually feel like socializing...
    josay23 josay23 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 22

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    i wish i had friends. :(.................
    unlovednbroken unlovednbroken 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 24

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    That I would of gotten some on my birthday yesterday. We had friends over and my wife wasn't feeling up to it. Any ladies wanna help and provide inspiration (pics) as a belated...
    WigginsEP WigginsEP 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    So I hooked up with a guy I met at a Korean spa. We texted about what we were looking for. We both said friends with benefits. We got together and it was good. Yesterday i took a...
    AndroTaylor AndroTaylor 18-21 1 Response Aug 18

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    I'm so sick of everything already, everything I life is just pointless. Please, I don't want to hear how "God will help me" or how "it all gets better" it never does. There's just...
    Shawnmil Shawnmil 56-60, M Aug 14

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    I am a kindhearted person. I consider myself an old soul and never had friends my age growing up. The older I get the more I long for true friendships. Someone I can talk to about...
    Rebecca3lynn Rebecca3lynn 26-30, F 28 Responses Aug 22

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    I just need a close friend who is a girl. I see all these other girls hanging out with their best friends who they can joke around with and go to their house whenever, I've never...
    dorkyalien dorkyalien 16-17, F 5 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I here just day dreaming, thinking, imaging How things would of been. Waking up to her, kissing her forehead as she sleeps, holding her in my arms, cuddling with her, lay with her...
    allencam05 allencam05 22-25, M 12 hrs ago

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    My friends and I had a group chat so we are able to talk all together we've been in the chat for a long time. After school ended and we still had the chat. But as days go by no one...
    hollywood1170 hollywood1170 13-15, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    It's very annoying that blocking a spammer, troll, hater or whomever we may block really means nothing except their questions are hidden from your view. And they can't interact...
    TheMightyAphrodite TheMightyAphrodite 41-45, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Last night my hubby had a bunch of his friends over. I spent most of my time inside. But turns out they wanted my company. Haha. I finally got to meet the gf of one of them. She...
    NothinginmyWAY NothinginmyWAY 31-35, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Back in march I was taken to a youth group type meeting at someone's house through Xenos Christian fellowship. I have been a believer for a long time but right now I'm really...
    tennisgirl19 tennisgirl19 16-17, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    LIE to my husband. I love and care about him deeply and I know he truly loves me too, but I feel like I can't be honest with him about certain things in my life (especially about...
    cjfkdg518 cjfkdg518 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    only a certain person. because i have become so close to them. but i do realize that at one point or another they will eventually leave my life. all things come to an end at some...
    000SadisticBitch000 000SadisticBitch000 31-35, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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