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I Wish I Had The Ability To Know How People Feel About Me

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    It Would Save A Lot Of Time!

    and effort... really... i hav wasted alot of time thinking someone really loved me... to end up knowing they did not!i also wonder if i walked by people who did love me indeed... but i couldn't know!i'd have saved my self the embarassment.. th disappointment... of thinking...
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F Jan 13, 2010

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    It'd Be Cool.

    Yeah it would be cool. I'd like to know, if I greet someone and say hi, what their thoughts are on me. I mean no matter what I would not change myself for the world, but it'd be nice to know. Or if I talk to a girl, using Vonnie for example, not that she'd say this, I'd...
    Strikerfreeze Strikerfreeze 18-21, M 13 Responses Jan 12, 2010

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    Would Be Helpful

    Then I'd know whether people actually like me or not and I would end up spending hours worrying about it... and I'd know whether I'm wasting my time talking to certain people still.
    BrokenAngelWishes BrokenAngelWishes 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 16, 2010

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    Wish I Could Read Your Mind

    I really wish I could really know what people really feel about me so I could know if pursuing a friendship with this person would be worth it. I'm always wondering in my head what does this person really feel. Do they really want to get to know me and be my friend or are they...
    howsab howsab 31-35, F Mar 2, 2012

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    Stop And Stare

    OK so I had to go to the doctors office for my little neice, who I have 98% of the time. They know that I take care of her so even though I am not her mother its okay for me to take her to the doctor(benifit of a small town). But when I got there this woman was stareing me and...
    maytaytay maytaytay 18-21, F Mar 1, 2010

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    If Only I Could Google It

    I like knowing. My imagination runs wild sometimes for the worst. I may over thing things sometimes.. it would just be a lot better if we could just google the way someone feels about us.
    ImmoralSophistication ImmoralSophistication 18-21, F Jul 2, 2013

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    Insecure

    I don't let myself do the things I love because I'm so scared of what people think of me. I love to sing, and act. I'm pretty good but I get so scared in front of people wondering what they think that I always psyche myself out... if I just knew they thought I was good, I could...
    sheababie sheababie 16-17, F Mar 7, 2012

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    If Only ...

    To know some ones true feelings about you ..regardless of the result, at least you would know where you stood with them..
    browchickabrowncow browchickabrowncow 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 17, 2010

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    But I Don't

    so I will just accept that things are the way they are and continue on as I have always done.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 16, 2010

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    Here's Your Sign

    I seriously wonder sometimes how many friendships with women I've ruined because I thought the innocent flirting was a sincere invitation to explore the romantic possibilities between us. On the other hand, how many times I have I passed up the opportunity to date a woman...
    FordPrefect42 FordPrefect42 36-40, M 6 Responses Apr 12, 2010

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    Robert Burns

    it was the scottish poet rbert burns who said.oh what a gift it would be to see ourselves as others see us
    whatyouseeiswhatyouget whatyouseeiswhatyouget 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 26, 2011

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    What Do Ppl Think About Me???

    if i could know i know that i'd fall in a deep depression, and stop talking to a lot of ppl. 
    siciliana88 siciliana88 18-21, F Apr 16, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    Having not spoken in person in 6 weeks, and not electronically in 4 weeks, I suppose it should not produce much of a reaction that my ex-ish-girlfriend did not contact me to say...
    HumanKnownAsVictor HumanKnownAsVictor 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    If i wake in the middle of the night a lot does this mean that someone is dreaming about me ? as i usually wakeup at night a lot and sometimes i can't get back to slee
    rocky1maged rocky1maged 16-17, F Apr 9

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    Knowing when to admit to your mistakes and forgiving a person no matter what,
    Kperr14 Kperr14 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    Can be unfair at times ; it's a deep internal connection?that not only connects the heart , but the body and soul. ..........love is simply" nothing" neither greater than god or...
    musicdance814 musicdance814 13-15, F Mar 24

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    There are always major gains as losses, just make sure it's worth it.
    kissthedeadly kissthedeadly 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Don't go above or below your expectations/standards unless you can reciprocate them.
    lexix0 lexix0 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I think Love is way over rated
    quintero86 quintero86 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    Oh god... what have i got myself into... Stupid me. I've met this guy, he's my friends friend.. And it's just so awkward... we started off as just two people who knew the same...
    emmatebby emmatebby 18-21, F Mar 20

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    My boyfriend and I ha e been together for 2 yeara now and ever aonce weve been together iI realize how much we changed.. I realized especialy how much he changed. He acts really...
    l0velygirrl l0velygirrl 18-21, F Mar 22

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    Love, love is a wonderful thing. Many people have this emotion for other people. I loved a girl before. But I found out she was a backstabbing jerk. I knew the day I finally found...
    69allnightlong 69allnightlong 36-40, M Apr 4

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    So about 6 years ago I nearly lost my mother to a horrible car crash, as a result she lost her right arm and has a huge skin graft on her right leg she also suffers from phantom...
    FabulousYetiMan FabulousYetiMan 18-21, M Mar 27

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    i hung out with this guy, me and him are really close.. we havent hung out in a while because hes from the next town with a family friend and his wife and kids (this family friend...
    DepressingKayla DepressingKayla 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    sometimes you are the only thing i can tolerate but other times you are the only thing i cant
    Descifrandolo Descifrandolo 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    When you contemplate life, & realize why you're here in the first place..
    ellavalencia ellavalencia 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I'm just confused My emotions are just crazy One minute I'm in love The next minute I wanna kill myself What to do ??
    iammee13 iammee13 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    My husband was never really a talker. I fell in love with him because i guess opposites attracts..He was serious in life..I was a dreamer. He thought reputation society was...
    Iamtryingmybest Iamtryingmybest 18-21, F Mar 19

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    I don't think he understand or will understand. Me and my boyfriend were talking for a while before we started dating. He stopped talking a little in between because before we met...
    Weeedisahellofadrug Weeedisahellofadrug 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 7

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 8

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    1. What's your favourite candle smell? >>>>Wild Orchid comes to mind, but I also enjoy Lavender scented candles as well. 2. What female celebrity do you wish was your sister...
    TheJoneses TheJoneses 22-25, F Apr 1

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    Sometimes I wonder how people really feel about me. I wonder about my friends, my family, and just people as a whole. I'm 16 years old I got pregnant when I was 14 had my baby when...
    TeenMomHannah TeenMomHannah 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I probably have some kind of abandonment issues. I’ve always put my worth in boys. I don’t know how to stop. They’ve always been something that I think has to be essential in...
    somethingorother585 somethingorother585 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    16 days ago I found out I was pregnant. A week later I finally told my parents. They shocked me and told me to get an abortion. I have never been one to not obey there advice...
    cowgirl4christ cowgirl4christ 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Not people that are actually poor of course. The ones that doesn't have any place to stay or find it difficult just to get a meal a day. Or the ones that are struggling hard on a...
    tooloaded tooloaded 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    It's been four months since I had undergone the procedure and I think about it more and more everyday. When I first discovered I was pregnant I was so lost, the only thing I could...
    angelbaby4 angelbaby4 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 4

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    I could use some criticism... Whenever I answer a question in class I get really intense inside. Is it arrogance is it pride? I dont know. I do answer questions with intensity and...
    Es777 Es777 26-30, M Mar 24

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    So, I'm in the friend zone. . Trying to claw my way out of quick sand. Wishing for a branch to cling to, I wonder how to endure preferably avoid being heartbroken. Escaping the...
    OneHowlToTheMoon OneHowlToTheMoon 22-25, M a week ago

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    All the time, I am wondering how people really feel about me, even my close friends. I don't know if its paranoia that everyone secretly hates me, I just don't know.
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I will never really know, if you don't tell me. I feel like I hardly know you because you keep it all to yourself. I hate when you don't tell me what's wrong, or how I feel. Why...
    Blissfulkissofdeath Blissfulkissofdeath 13-15, F Apr 1

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    I'm trying to make things work. I figured the best place to start with my relationship issues and my loneliness is with myself. I had so many wonderful readers comment and give...
    kinders92 kinders92 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    Most people I know cannot be honest with what they feel about me, and I hate it. It bugs me when they go drink alcohol so they can have the guts to tell me. Man up and say what you...
    Kaksy Kaksy 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I never really learned how, and the things I learned how to cook, people criticized. It wasn't just one person, but on different days various occasions, no matter who I cooked for...
    ChancellorLevi ChancellorLevi 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    I wish I could discipline other people
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I'm so shy and I hate it so much! It's seriously the most annoying thing in the world, that you can't think of anything to say to people you just meet. Like, I can talk to people...
    XdropintheoceanX XdropintheoceanX 13-15, F Apr 3

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    I truly want to tell others how I feel, but lack courage to do so. I know it's me and that I shouldn't care about what others think of me and yet I still do. Self-confidence is...
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M 5 days ago

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    (My daughter is a 20 year old college student living at home, her boyfriend is 22 or 23 living with his parents.) I don't know what it is about this guy, he is nice and even seems...
    sillyme89 sillyme89 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    i have lots of problems and got this app hoping tht people could relate but as usual i have this fear of being rejected and cant tell anyone how i feel i usually get embarassed...
    otakumapp otakumapp 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    I have been with him for over three years, and his near-constant nitpicking has just kept escalating. Now, I know I'm not perfect. I'm still hanging on to the baby fat after more...
    Lovelornmother Lovelornmother 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago