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I Wish I Hadn't Believed You, Because You Lied

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    Ten Years Later

    Its been nearly ten years since I discovered my first long term boyfriend cheated on me and he left me. It still affects me to this day, I can hardly believe I am saying that. This week I have been finding it really hard to deal with and have been having some severe flashbacks. I...
    tenyearsonstillhurting tenyearsonstillhurting 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 23, 2013

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    I Was A Fool.

    You lied and lied and lied and I believed everything you said. How could I have been so stupid to trust someone like you? But even when I can't forgive myself to have made this huge mistake, I am glad that I am not with you anymore. I wonder why did I even mourn your loss, even...
    bluie19 bluie19 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 28, 2011

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    hey all ! ... this is important

    and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i expected people will help me out from my heart broken stage and yes to maximum extend people helped, thanks a lot... then i began...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M Jul 22

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    What I Really Wish...

    Is that I'd listened to my intuition, because I always know in my gut what a person is thinking, and feeling... and really saying, or hiding... and I always get more angry at myself than the other person - because I knew what was true, but went along with their lies, and...
    rockyj rockyj 31-35, F Jul 21, 2011

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    My Husband Lied To Me

    A while ago, I found out some very significant parts of my husband's life were not true. He lied to me about finishing school and lied about having a job. Both of these lies have put us in a bad position financially. We have been working to get through these matters and he has...
    Married4years Married4years 26-30 4 Responses Mar 18, 2013

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    How Dare U

    u told me u loved me you **** u took everything from me my virginity my money you told me your my best friend while u eyed up my bank account u knew i was naive and u used me for your own benefits i hate u dear person in miami,,,,,,,,,,
    wotaloser wotaloser 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 28, 2011

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    Liar!!!!

    So He lied over and over and over again. And I ate the lies.... like they were candy. Wanted to believe that he really did love me. Wanted to believe that he really did care. Only to find out he had not one but two relationships on the side. Now the lies are all coming up...
    xgumbyz2 xgumbyz2 31-35 1 Response Apr 22, 2013

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    I Knew You Were Lying

    I know you lied. You didn't know I could see you or that I had to watch everything play out right before my eyes. You continued to swear you were mine, even when I knew you were loving someone else. You didn't stop to think for an instant, you would be caught in a lie. Of...
    rtm42 rtm42 46-50, M 5 Responses Nov 20, 2012

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    Last Word.

    Some day as you grow and stop living your life as others think you should I hope you can look back and understand what's actually happened here. When you realize the things you never thought of and finally see what I was saying, I hope you can find peace with yourself and me and...
    Donotpassgo Donotpassgo 36-40, M 3 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    I Could Tell You Did...

            But I choose to believe you, I still choose you........   IF you go........If you can never see me, again.......     IF you do and you probably will............     just know I still........  ...
    stigmafree stigmafree 31-35 3 Responses Apr 21, 2010

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    My Parents

    They said they would be there for me forever. They said that they would support any decision I made. They lied. They cast me out because I was no longer the daughter they expected. They turned their backs on me because I asked too many questions. They tried their best to...
    SeekingAmanda SeekingAmanda 22-25, F Apr 22, 2013

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    I got with this beautiful girl from my church,

    she was perfect in my eyes, beautiful, friendly, funny, kind and I assumed the best like honest, genuine etc. after months and months of passion I started unraveling the real truth...I saw her secrets, a strange obsession over people and a interest in talking to people on dating...
    MisfitToys MisfitToys 16-17, F Jun 20

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    Sigh...

    I suppose we've all been told something we thought was true but wasn't. As cliche as this will sound, I've been told "I love you" and "I'll always be your friend" by someone I thought was my best friend - she wasn't.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 23, 2011

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    One Of My Ex'S

    I have a lot of ex's but one I wish I had never believed. He lied about everything and honestly I can say I hate him for it. We're in a fight right now and he keeps telling people he's going to hit me(little does he know he's going to get knocked on his ***). I wish I'd never...
    Lilwolf12 Lilwolf12 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 8, 2013

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    And...

    I know you did... I am just waiting on you to admit it so we can get on with our friendship. 
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 21, 2010

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    You Have From The Beginning......

    You knew from the beginning that honesty is very important to me, and you still lied.  I trusted you and believed in you...I thought you were being honest with me...I swore that I would never fall in love and get hurt again and you LIED!  I fell deeply in love with...
    truetomyself truetomyself 46-50, F 4 Responses May 3, 2010

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    I had a friend a while ago

    when I was really young. She was terrible. She was mean and didn't care about me. She did a lot of things and I lost all my friends because of her. She lied to me a lot. When I didn't want the be friends with her anymore my mom made me be friends with her...
    mountainseal mountainseal 13-15, F Jun 20

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    I remember the exact moment that I knew i loved him. It was when I discovered he was moving away for six years to another country I couldn't possibly visit. Must when I was about...
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    I was horribly abused as a child, the verbal insults would have been enough. My step father liked to beat me he got a perverse pleasure out of it. When the mood hit I was the...
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    I am dating a recovering heroin/pill addict. I have only known him a little over a year, and I knew about his addiction upfront, however I didn't know to what extent, I am the...
    secretdestiny secretdestiny 18-21, F Jul 11

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    My father was not there when I was born. He did not show up until I was 4. My mother hadn't heard from him and thought he had left Germany and sneaed back to somewhere in former...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 20

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    These nights are the nights where I don't want to let you go, because I still love you so much. These are the nights where all of my songs are gonna be about you. These are the...
    true16 true16 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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