I Wish I Hadn't Had My Tubes Tied

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    Big Mistake

    I had no choice but to have my tubes tied. My ex violent husband, was abusive in the bedroom amongst the other abuse and there was consequences. Contraception was always a minefield for me, and his response to a pregnancy was have it or get rid. He drove me to deliver both...
    tdv19102008 tdv19102008
    46-50, F
    Jul 6, 2011

    Tubal Reversal

    I pray I can afford to get a tubal reversal. I have 4 kids but really only raised two due to some family issues. I am getting married and my fiancé has three young children. I want a child with him But don't want to be a mom and a grandmom as my son is 21 and my daugher is 18...
    evolvutghiL evolvutghiL
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 7, 2012

    Really wanting a baby with my hubby

    but it will never happen cause I tied my tubes after my 4th child!! It hurts me bad cause I know he wants a baby
    Taraq83 Taraq83
    31-35, F
    Nov 3, 2014

    "I Wish I Hadn't Had My Tubes Tied"

    I had a tubal ligation done about 2 years ago. I was engaged to be married and he did not want any more kids. At that time I had a 14 yr old and he had a grown daughter that was 22 yrs old. I figured with my age which was 35 at that time and my sons age starting all over or even...
    cmost cmost
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Jun 13, 2007

    Everyone I Meet Now Wants Children.

    I have 3 children. I got my tubes tide because I knew I could not afford anymore. However I did not look at the longer term, or the possible failure of the relationship. He will have more children just because he is an idiot but me personally I want more. I have met 2 men in my...
    somethingmissing08 somethingmissing08
    1 Response Dec 9, 2008

    Just The Typical 'wish I Never Had That Tubal Ligation' Story

    Once upon a time a man and a woman had two kids and on the second child they decided they would stop there so she got a tubal ligation. The couple's marriage started going all wrong so they decided to get a divorce. The woman met someone else she could be happy with and they...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jan 24, 2012

    It Caused More Problems...

    I am 28 years old and a mother of 5 children. I have 4 boys and the last child a girl. I got my surgery a month after she was born. I know I'm crazy but I wish I never had. I love babies and would love to try for my daughter to have a sister. I can't afford a reversal and I don't...
    kmma81 kmma81
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Sep 15, 2009

    My Husband Wants A Baby But I Can't

    I'm 43 and my tubes are tied.  I think I'm done unfortunately.  Maybe we will adopt a child.
    hippiemama43 hippiemama43
    41-45, F
    1 Response Aug 18, 2010
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