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I Wish I Knew Why She Hates Me So Much

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    I dont understand what i did wrong,

    I give her everything and yet she is sickened by me most of the time, annoyed by everything i say, tells me i act "gay" because im not man enough for her or i act feministic at times i just wish i knew why she hates me so much when i love her so much
    sirschmoopi sirschmoopi 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 12, 2015

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    Birth Mom

    i really don't understand why she hates me so much & she always has...she still hurts me tremendously without a second thought, and i am and always have been treated so much differently than my siblings...so much more has always been expected of me, and nothing i do has ever been...
    BlackRose321 BlackRose321 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 19, 2011

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    I Need Some Advice . My Mother Hates Me . Please Read and Help Me .

    I wish that it wasn't important to me . I wish that I could just accept it and move on, like when other people bother me or hurt me or hate me . I wish that she didn't hurt me all the time, and I wish it didn't affect me so much . She used to tell me the reason she couldn...
    MyFriendsWang420 MyFriendsWang420 16-17, F 7 Responses Aug 29, 2007

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    I lost her and I just want her to know

    and I'm sorry. That every night I think of you and I can't stop checking my cell phone hoping you'd message me. I'm scared of losing you as a person. you played a major role in my life. I know it's too late and I shouldve told you the truth I knew you were seeing someone else. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 8, 2015

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    I Need Some Advice . My Mother Hates Me . Please Read and Help Me .

    I wish that it wasn't important to me . I wish that I could just accept it and move on, like when other people bother me or hurt me or hate me . I wish that she didn't hurt me all the time, and I wish it didn't affect me so much . She used to tell me the reason she couldn...
    MyFriendsWang420 MyFriendsWang420 16-17, F 14 Responses Aug 29, 2007

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    she was my bestest friend ever we did

    everything together and we were friends ever since 2nd grade but this year she hates me and I wish I knew why so I could change it
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 12, 2015

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    My Mother In Law Hates Me

    ok so my mother in law pretty much hates me. ask me why? please dont. cause i couldnt tell you. maybe its because im from the south she's from the north. idk. but everything i attempt to do has to be overlooked by her. like im a child or something. does the mothers opinion...
    usmcwifee272 usmcwifee272 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30, 2009

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    My sister always loves to criticize me about

    everything I do and how I do it. It's really irritating and I get so angry that I want to grab her and choke her out! She has no manners with me and she can't even compliment me ! She can't even say she loves me... She's my sister !!! I just wish I knew what to do...
    BryBri15 BryBri15 13-15, T Apr 13, 2015

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    :(

    I know her since my school days. I was alws attracted to her rite from my school days...I really really liked her a lot..i helped her a lot in studies and other activities..it was at the time of my engineering when i proposed, she said no immediately.. she dint give any reason...
    abcdexyz abcdexyz 22-25, M Oct 1, 2011

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    Take Your Arms and Wrap Them Around Your Front and Give Yourself a Hug

    I read this and couldn't pass it without writing something to help console you. I also have the same experience although my mother wasn't so blunt. She has for many years cut me off in the middle of sharing awards i have won or any opinions i express in favour of talking about...
    curevisit curevisit 51-55 Mar 31, 2009

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    A Year Ago..

    A year ago I had the best friend a person could want.. she was there for Me when I needed someone and, when I moved here, would take Me out most afternoons, would buy little presents for Me and was such fun.  Then, one day after her relationship with her girlfriend ended...
    alabastardragon alabastardragon 36-40, M 8 Responses Aug 9, 2007

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    I Could Be Fighting Cancer And She Never Lets Up On What A Loser I Am

    I recently went to the doctor and was told I need to get another biopsy. I don't choose to share what kind of potential cancer. My mother knows this and she is always nagging on me and telling me I am a loser when when she was told she needed a biopsy I left her encouraging e...
    darkheartedheroine darkheartedheroine 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2011

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    I Live With the Same Feelings

    It really is a horrible story - people find it hard to believe that a mother could do this to her child - her own flesh and blood!  I know that it happens - it happened to me. I really feel for you.  None of this is your fault.  I can only say the reason I...
    littleblacksheep littleblacksheep 41-45 Jul 4, 2009

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    I am in my mid thirties. I have two daughters who live with me. I just finished going through my second divorce, and my heart is pretty broken. Just two weeks prior to her walking...
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    This is a true story of what happened to Greg Zaffuto. I have just experienced much the same and do not want this to happen to you, so I am sharing the following. I apologize for...
    Grace2U Grace2U 66-70, F 3 hrs ago

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    I wish I had more close friends that had my work ethics. I have alot of different types of friends but as the years go on I see them sometimes viewing me as superior than them...
    marckengenie1 marckengenie1 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    But it's okay because it's beautiful and why not
    skywalker9 skywalker9 18-21 7 hrs ago

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    I just hate my brain so much. I want to splatter it all over the walls like it deserves but I just don't have the courage and I kind of don't want to die. It is a very confusing...
    Tinchi Tinchi 22-25 12 hrs ago

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    If I had a single, cruel bone in my body, I would post a classified advert somewhere, asking for someone who has nothing to do, no reason to stay alive, nothing left to give and no...
    CantDriveHouseGladISavedTorana CantDriveHouseGladISavedTorana 36-40 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I Finally Made It Too 19 Years Old .. The Age I Told Myself I Can Finally Get The Ball Rolling For My Life ... But I Feel Like A Failure , High School Was Hard ( Really Hard ) So I...
    SunnyMuffinsJr SunnyMuffinsJr 18-21, F 13 hrs ago

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    I would be so happy if I got a valentines card from her. Anonymously, of course. I have never got them and if I did, it would mean it's hers. I myself want to send it her too but...
    Tourion Tourion 22-25, M 14 hrs ago

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    I am my fathers' son of that I have no doubt. I miss him dearly with a gentle sadness and loneliness that follows me through my days and calls to me in my darkest hours and...
    Chagos Chagos 36-40, M 15 hrs ago

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    I need some advice as I stated before my mom and dad got married when my mom was very young she ha me at 21 my dad is 10 years older then my mom and my mom always dressed very Seay...
    Albert122 Albert122 31-35, M 1 day ago

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    I met her on here thought she was interesting , what an understatement ! I fell head over heels in love deeper than I knew possible , she is gorgeous , sexy , caring , loving...
    rockitt66 rockitt66 46-50, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    that is an understatement on my part. i have no relationship with him...sure ive tried over the years. and i guess he has too a point. i am the oldest of 4 kids plus the only...
    moongoddess35 moongoddess35 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My stranger for a Mother has refused to pay my bills once again. I have a $2000 bill to pay. The only reason that I ran it up was because I was working, but my stranger for a...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    I don't think she hates me but she gets humiliated when I have to change her.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 days ago

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    My sister was cute with me until she was 4 years old. Then she turned to be mean. But only with me, other people find her nice and cute, she is also very pretty. But she realised...
    erik2000erik200 erik2000erik200 16-17, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I wish I could just come out and say how I'm insecure and wish he'd mention me more on social media. I wish he'd post pictures of us together, post pictures of things I randomly...
    asteriai asteriai 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I am a recovering male anorexic, and I just finished an outpatient treatment program for eating disorders. On the whole, it wasn’t a helpful program. I may be at a healthy weight...
    Caridinals21 Caridinals21 22-25, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've had social anxiety ever since I was very young. It pretty much began when I started public school in the third grade and kids mistreated me because I was previously home...
    wendybunny wendybunny 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    UPDATED I've tried being a vegetarian for two weeks, until the severity of my stranger for a Mother molesting me became stronger, as my face felt weird and out of place in the...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I am a 19 years old male, but since I was 13, I started to want to be a woman. So when I turned 15 I started creating these Facebook Fake Accounts of girls I knew from High School...
    Pegasio Pegasio 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    I'm 31 my mum has bpd her words and actions suggest she hates me it's been this way since I can remember she says we have a love hate relationship mid 20s I told her I wanted to...
    Confused848 Confused848 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    There's a bar I hang out at. A few years ago, I started going there on Saturdays because there was a certain barmaid who, due to her personal schedule, worked only Saturdays. The...
    PhillyAutismGuy PhillyAutismGuy 26-30, M a week ago

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    I found that anguish and emotional suffering are warning signs that I was living against my own truth. AUTHENTICITY is a hard and painful lesson to take. I understood how much it...
    Solegne Solegne 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    I'm different and she hates that, she wants us to be the perfect family, but I can't be the perfect daughter she wants
    SadLylaxx SadLylaxx 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 28

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    The 90s were so good to me. We played outside all day until the street lights popped on "hopscotch, hide n' go seek etc. Tv was better, never had to worry about seeing nasty or...
    HarmonyVents HarmonyVents 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    Why won't she leave my head? I can't forget her. I'm losing myself again. At one moment I am happy, then it is all taken away from me remembering her. Why does she mean this much...
    MichaelEgitto MichaelEgitto 13-15, M 2 Responses Jan 26

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    i don't think she hates me, but she can say incredibly hurtful things. i've always been sensitive, and she holds this against me. she always holds my thoughts and feelings against...
    daydreamer27 daydreamer27 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 25

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