I Wish I Knew Why She Hates Me So Much

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    I Need Some Advice . My Mother Hates Me . Please Read and Help Me .

    I wish that it wasn't important to me . I wish that I could just accept it and move on, like when other people bother me or hurt me or hate me . I wish that she didn't hurt me all the time, and I wish it didn't affect me so much . She used to tell me the reason she couldn...
    MyFriendsWang420 MyFriendsWang420
    16-17, F
    14 Responses Aug 29, 2007

    I lost her and I just want her to know

    and I'm sorry. That every night I think of you and I can't stop checking my cell phone hoping you'd message me. I'm scared of losing you as a person. you played a major role in my life. I know it's too late and I shouldve told you the truth I knew you were seeing someone else. I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 8, 2015

    My sister always loves to criticize me about

    everything I do and how I do it. It's really irritating and I get so angry that I want to grab her and choke her out! She has no manners with me and she can't even compliment me ! She can't even say she loves me... She's my sister !!! I just wish I knew what to do...
    BryBri15 BryBri15
    16-17, T
    Apr 13, 2015

    Birth Mom

    i really don't understand why she hates me so much & she always has...she still hurts me tremendously without a second thought, and i am and always have been treated so much differently than my siblings...so much more has always been expected of me, and nothing i do has ever been...
    BlackRose321 BlackRose321
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 19, 2011

    I dont understand what i did wrong,

    I give her everything and yet she is sickened by me most of the time, annoyed by everything i say, tells me i act "gay" because im not man enough for her or i act feministic at times i just wish i knew why she hates me so much when i love her so much
    sirschmoopi sirschmoopi
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jul 12, 2015

    A Year Ago..

    A year ago I had the best friend a person could want.. she was there for Me when I needed someone and, when I moved here, would take Me out most afternoons, would buy little presents for Me and was such fun.  Then, one day after her relationship with her girlfriend ended...
    alabastardragon alabastardragon
    36-40, M
    8 Responses Aug 9, 2007

    My abusive mother. I feel like its my fault.

    She has tried to kill me multiple times. What did I do for her to abuse me like that?
    Valeph Valeph
    13-15, F
    Feb 13

    My Mother In Law Hates Me

    ok so my mother in law pretty much hates me. ask me why? please dont. cause i couldnt tell you. maybe its because im from the south she's from the north. idk. but everything i attempt to do has to be overlooked by her. like im a child or something. does the mothers opinion...
    usmcwifee272 usmcwifee272
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 30, 2009

    I Live With the Same Feelings

    It really is a horrible story - people find it hard to believe that a mother could do this to her child - her own flesh and blood!  I know that it happens - it happened to me. I really feel for you.  None of this is your fault.  I can only say the reason I...
    littleblacksheep littleblacksheep
    41-45
    Jul 4, 2009

    :(

    I know her since my school days. I was alws attracted to her rite from my school days...I really really liked her a lot..i helped her a lot in studies and other activities..it was at the time of my engineering when i proposed, she said no immediately.. she dint give any reason...
    abcdexyz abcdexyz
    22-25, M
    Oct 1, 2011

    I Need Some Advice . My Mother Hates Me . Please Read and Help Me .

    I wish that it wasn't important to me . I wish that I could just accept it and move on, like when other people bother me or hurt me or hate me . I wish that she didn't hurt me all the time, and I wish it didn't affect me so much . She used to tell me the reason she couldn...
    MyFriendsWang420 MyFriendsWang420
    16-17, F
    7 Responses Aug 29, 2007

    I Could Be Fighting Cancer And She Never Lets Up On What A Loser I Am

    I recently went to the doctor and was told I need to get another biopsy. I don't choose to share what kind of potential cancer. My mother knows this and she is always nagging on me and telling me I am a loser when when she was told she needed a biopsy I left her encouraging e...
    darkheartedheroine darkheartedheroine
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 21, 2011

    she was my bestest friend ever we did

    everything together and we were friends ever since 2nd grade but this year she hates me and I wish I knew why so I could change it
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 12, 2015

    Take Your Arms and Wrap Them Around Your Front and Give Yourself a Hug

    I read this and couldn't pass it without writing something to help console you. I also have the same experience although my mother wasn't so blunt. She has for many years cut me off in the middle of sharing awards i have won or any opinions i express in favour of talking about...
    curevisit curevisit
    51-55
    Mar 31, 2009

    Maybe it isn't even hate.

    But still I don't know the real reason. She has been avoiding me... often nervous, when I'm around. The last time she "talked" to me was in a long message she sent during vacances. She had a crush on me, but also a boyfriend. She knew I didn't like thier relationship, since...
    Vakuum Vakuum
    13-15, T
    Feb 12

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