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I Wish I Knew Why She Hates Me So Much

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    Take Your Arms and Wrap Them Around Your Front and Give Yourself a Hug

    I read this and couldn't pass it without writing something to help console you. I also have the same experience although my mother wasn't so blunt. She has for many years cut me off in the middle of sharing awards i have won or any opinions i express in favour of talking about...
    curevisit curevisit 51-55 Mar 31, 2009

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    I Need Some Advice . My Mother Hates Me . Please Read and Help Me .

    I wish that it wasn't important to me . I wish that I could just accept it and move on, like when other people bother me or hurt me or hate me . I wish that she didn't hurt me all the time, and I wish it didn't affect me so much . She used to tell me the reason she couldn...
    MyFriendsWang420 MyFriendsWang420 16-18, F 7 Responses Aug 29, 2007

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    I Live With the Same Feelings

    It really is a horrible story - people find it hard to believe that a mother could do this to her child - her own flesh and blood!  I know that it happens - it happened to me. I really feel for you.  None of this is your fault.  I can only say the reason I...
    littleblacksheep littleblacksheep 41-45 Jul 4, 2009

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    :(

    I know her since my school days. I was alws attracted to her rite from my school days...I really really liked her a lot..i helped her a lot in studies and other activities..it was at the time of my engineering when i proposed, she said no immediately.. she dint give any reason...
    abcdexyz abcdexyz 22-25, M Oct 1, 2011

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    Birth Mom

    i really don't understand why she hates me so much & she always has...she still hurts me tremendously without a second thought, and i am and always have been treated so much differently than my siblings...so much more has always been expected of me, and nothing i do has ever been...
    BlackRose321 BlackRose321 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 19, 2011

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    I Need Some Advice . My Mother Hates Me . Please Read and Help Me .

    I wish that it wasn't important to me . I wish that I could just accept it and move on, like when other people bother me or hurt me or hate me . I wish that she didn't hurt me all the time, and I wish it didn't affect me so much . She used to tell me the reason she couldn...
    MyFriendsWang420 MyFriendsWang420 16-18, F 14 Responses Aug 29, 2007

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    A Year Ago..

    A year ago I had the best friend a person could want.. she was there for Me when I needed someone and, when I moved here, would take Me out most afternoons, would buy little presents for Me and was such fun.  Then, one day after her relationship with her girlfriend ended...
    alabastardragon alabastardragon 36-40, M 8 Responses Aug 9, 2007

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    My Mother In Law Hates Me

    ok so my mother in law pretty much hates me. ask me why? please dont. cause i couldnt tell you. maybe its because im from the south she's from the north. idk. but everything i attempt to do has to be overlooked by her. like im a child or something. does the mothers opinion...
    usmcwifee272 usmcwifee272 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30, 2009

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    I Could Be Fighting Cancer And She Never Lets Up On What A Loser I Am

    I recently went to the doctor and was told I need to get another biopsy. I don't choose to share what kind of potential cancer. My mother knows this and she is always nagging on me and telling me I am a loser when when she was told she needed a biopsy I left her encouraging e...
    darkheartedheroine darkheartedheroine 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2011

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    My Foster Mother hates me... I work at a bank... She demands $550 of rent money from me, yet uses it to pay her boyfriend to drug me... One night, I have her $200 in rent money...
    HUMAN2BME HUMAN2BME 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    She calls me worthless all the time. She calls me a piece of....yeah. I just don't get why she would say that if it wasn't how she truly felt about me. I don't know what I can...
    chuhulil chuhulil 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    She has been criticising me ever since I gained weight. I never heard any nice words from me, it's like she hates me for being fat and doing something about it. Now that I've been...
    Jelliii Jelliii 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    In summer 2012, I moved to a new country with my family. I was looking forward to starting school and meeting new people. I was very social and not shy at all. First day of school...
    Meghan00 Meghan00 13-15, F 4 Responses Sep 2

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    In all honestly I'm having suicidal thoughts right now... My mother left me alone and hates me and my father is no we're near me I've been put thru so much and I put people in to...
    studdie studdie 18-21, T 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    My mom keeps comparing me to my sister and I feel like she hates me cause it's never Atisa you should try what your sister did no it's always Amista your sisters Grades are so good...
    dancerwithheart dancerwithheart 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I think my mum has a stubborn way of thinking, she for most of the time thinks that it is only her way that works, even in the silliest matters, like for example, I like to eat my...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F Sep 9

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    My ex keeps sending me abusive messages to me and saying abusive things to me.....It hurts......I want to die because of it I've told her that....and that's why she keeps doing it...
    SuicidalUnicorn SuicidalUnicorn 13-15, M Sep 10

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    I feel like my step-mother hates me as clearly as I feel pain if I poke my own eyes. Its an almost tangible, clear feeling that was at the center of my childhood experience. Now...
    whitemut whitemut 13-15, M Sep 5

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    Since my birth into this world I've experienced a lot as most people have. Many firsts like days in school, riding bikes without the training wheels. Countless joys as in your...
    InTheShadowsAgain InTheShadowsAgain 41-45, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I guess ever since I could remember I've hated my mom, always day dreaming about a mom that cared and loved me. I am now 15, and I can't even remember the last time my mother said...
    Jaaye1 Jaaye1 70+ 1 Response Aug 31

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    You start to forget who you are, one happy person once you were. Always you walk in school with a fake smile on your face to hide the pain. When you Mature a lot faster then normal...
    Pnbamania Pnbamania 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 5

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    A few years ago my wife was always staying late at work and she took a part time cleaning job with a guy who was single and was know for shagging married women, the thing is it...
    johnsmith455 johnsmith455 41-45, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I wish I knew that you would leave, God. If I had known, I'd still be able to feel it when people touch my arm. And I mean really feel it, you know? Feel the warmth and energy. Now...
    becswiggins becswiggins 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I love my sister, I really do. I've done so many things for her. I wasn't the best big sister.. We were so young, I've spent so many years desperately trying to make up for by...
    krissybyul krissybyul 18-21 2 days ago

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    The tears rolled down my cheeks as I tried to hold them back, but I couldn’t. My mom I just told me that she should pull out all my hair and that I would deserve it. I got angry...
    BADLIFEFORME BADLIFEFORME 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I have a friend who thinks she is carrying the whole world with her. I find her always haggard and very lonely. Later this morning, I saw her. Her eye bags were very big. Let me...
    kiendy123 kiendy123 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Us humans are selfish animals, forcing people into the world into growing up to being productive and submissive or we could care less about them. A conditional existsnce...
    honestyreality honestyreality 22-25, F 4 hrs ago

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    I can't even find the words to write here. My family hates me. I am plain jane boring useless, and literal outcast of the family I live with. My husband has become annoyed with me...
    tristaspuella tristaspuella 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    I lost my Dad when I was four so yea....I have a had a lot of time to think about his death, fathers, him and well, everything. I was four and although I was in the room right...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Tui have Nearly-black heads, underparts, wings and tails that have an iridescent blue and inexperienced sheen, especially on The pinnacle and wings. The upper back and flanks are...
    Hiltonhn53 Hiltonhn53 31-35, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Well,Today on the bus we had assigned seat and I have to sit by my crush(YAYY !!)But, the problem is he doesn't want to sit by me..Everyday I pray that he would talk to me at least...
    Jess159 Jess159 13-15, F Sep 9

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    I am scared I will die, without knowing the love of a woman. I feel like I have so much love to give. But know one to share it with. I would probably either smother a girl if...
    ericramone ericramone 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 21

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    ***HELP NEED ANSWERS*** Hi, i am 15 yrs old and a sophomore, bisexual and very confused about this guy i kinda like. I have no idea where to start so i'll start from the beginning...
    ajgamer ajgamer 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 22

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    I was raised by a single mom who did very well with myself and my siblings; we loved her and she loved us. Taught us values and how to stand on our own two feet. When I was 14 I...
    TeaColleen TeaColleen 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    Why does everyone hate me :'(? Seriously. I try to fit in somewhere and people are still bitchy to me. I just hate this. I don't belong anywhere and everyone hates me. What is it...
    emoscreamo101 emoscreamo101 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    When I was 12, I was helping my friend try to hook up with this girl at church camp but the more I talked to her, the more I started liking her. After camp that year we'd talk 24/7...
    BlondeGhost BlondeGhost 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    I Don't know why honestly I love her to death, when i was little she would always look out for me and i looked up to her and wanted to be like her. (Im 16 right now and shes 21...
    xxSashaxx xxSashaxx 22-25, F Sep 7

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    We are both gone missing.. I’m lost above the ground and you’re lost beneath the dirt. This passing psychotic delusion you have left in me is the most vivid in all of my...
    iwantutoo iwantutoo 22-25, M Sep 11

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    My name is Aariah and I really believe that my mom hates me. Like she is really mean to for no reason... I do above and beyond to try and help her and help take care of my sisters...
    HellaaLoyaal17 HellaaLoyaal17 18-21 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I enjoy helping walk the dogs and giving them love, but I never knew how hard it would be to deal with the other reality of the humane society.It angers me so much to see how...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 1

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    Like many people, I have lost a lot - my marriage (which was really a blessing as I was abused for years before I got the courage to leave), friends and family have passed. And in...
    WendyAnnF WendyAnnF 51-55, F 4 Responses Sep 8

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    I can say a lot of people have come and gone into and out of my life... i hope the same thing cant be said for her.. I didn't mean to meet her.. i didn't think it would happen like...
    Nichalas Nichalas 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    My mom is always throwing bad words at me and calling me everything but my name. I think she favors my older sister better than me. I'm an honor student, I'm respectful, and I...
    lonelygypsy lonelygypsy 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    My anger and cross-dressing problems started off small, I guess that was normal, but they kept on escalating, I used to think that the two had nothing in common, but then I noticed...
    geary97 geary97 16-17, M Aug 24

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    I liked this guy at my school for a long time. One of my closest friends who were close friends with him told him I liked him. My friend after I had asked him said, "Why don't you...
    SoCalAMT SoCalAMT 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    I been with my husband for three years we have 2 children a boy age 1 and a girl age 2 for the past three months he's been saying he won't to break up and won'ts me and the kids to...
    lostlovee21 lostlovee21 18-21, F Aug 27

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    I am copy pasting what I found on the net, it is an eye opener. Why do you attract crazy one people? You pity the awkward At parties, the one guy sitting alone at the bar, or...
    ladywarelock ladywarelock 36-40, F Aug 29

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    Yesterday I was at the mall and I held a door open for an old woman, and she said "thank you kindly sir" and I managed to say "your welcome ma'am" as she walked away. I felt so...
    jules401 jules401 13-15, T 2 Responses Sep 8