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I Wish I Knew Why She Hates Me So Much

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    I Live With the Same Feelings

    It really is a horrible story - people find it hard to believe that a mother could do this to her child - her own flesh and blood!  I know that it happens - it happened to me. I really feel for you.  None of this is your fault.  I can only say the reason I...
    littleblacksheep littleblacksheep 41-45 Jul 4, 2009

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    My Mother In Law Hates Me

    ok so my mother in law pretty much hates me. ask me why? please dont. cause i couldnt tell you. maybe its because im from the south she's from the north. idk. but everything i attempt to do has to be overlooked by her. like im a child or something. does the mothers opinion...
    usmcwifee272 usmcwifee272 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30, 2009

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    :(

    I know her since my school days. I was alws attracted to her rite from my school days...I really really liked her a lot..i helped her a lot in studies and other activities..it was at the time of my engineering when i proposed, she said no immediately.. she dint give any reason...
    abcdexyz abcdexyz 22-25, M Oct 1, 2011

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    I Need Some Advice . My Mother Hates Me . Please Read and Help Me .

    I wish that it wasn't important to me . I wish that I could just accept it and move on, like when other people bother me or hurt me or hate me . I wish that she didn't hurt me all the time, and I wish it didn't affect me so much . She used to tell me the reason she couldn...
    MyFriendsWang420 MyFriendsWang420 16-18, F 7 Responses Aug 29, 2007

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    I Need Some Advice . My Mother Hates Me . Please Read and Help Me .

    I wish that it wasn't important to me . I wish that I could just accept it and move on, like when other people bother me or hurt me or hate me . I wish that she didn't hurt me all the time, and I wish it didn't affect me so much . She used to tell me the reason she couldn...
    MyFriendsWang420 MyFriendsWang420 16-18, F 14 Responses Aug 29, 2007

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    A Year Ago..

    A year ago I had the best friend a person could want.. she was there for Me when I needed someone and, when I moved here, would take Me out most afternoons, would buy little presents for Me and was such fun.  Then, one day after her relationship with her girlfriend ended...
    alabastardragon alabastardragon 36-40, M 8 Responses Aug 9, 2007

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    Take Your Arms and Wrap Them Around Your Front and Give Yourself a Hug

    I read this and couldn't pass it without writing something to help console you. I also have the same experience although my mother wasn't so blunt. She has for many years cut me off in the middle of sharing awards i have won or any opinions i express in favour of talking about...
    curevisit curevisit 51-55 Mar 31, 2009

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    I Could Be Fighting Cancer And She Never Lets Up On What A Loser I Am

    I recently went to the doctor and was told I need to get another biopsy. I don't choose to share what kind of potential cancer. My mother knows this and she is always nagging on me and telling me I am a loser when when she was told she needed a biopsy I left her encouraging e...
    darkheartedheroine darkheartedheroine 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2011

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    Birth Mom

    i really don't understand why she hates me so much & she always has...she still hurts me tremendously without a second thought, and i am and always have been treated so much differently than my siblings...so much more has always been expected of me, and nothing i do has ever been...
    BlackRose321 BlackRose321 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 19, 2011

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    My Foster Mother hates me... I work at a bank... She demands $550 of rent money from me, yet uses it to pay her boyfriend to drug me... One night, I have her $200 in rent money...
    HUMAN2BME HUMAN2BME 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    i wont go as far as saying i hate her but shes just a total b*tch... what else does she want from me. everything i have to shoulder the blame, as long as u dont talk back there...
    midnight001 midnight001 18-21, F Aug 12

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    Why can't I just be a normal person like my friends when they get older they have there whole life planned what college what job every thing! And it's all perfectly planned. When...
    Englishmuffin15 Englishmuffin15 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    My life is so f...ed! Let's see my dad died in June 2010 followed by my husband informing me he had been having an affair with my friend and left me and my 2 sons.he kept coming...
    Pommy8 Pommy8 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    I want to write something dark, beautiful, and intriguing, but cant seem to find the words or rhythm to get it out. I have been stuck in this strange box emotionally and mentally...
    xxmisslynnxx xxmisslynnxx 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 5

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    I mean seriously how did I get depression, anxiety, and anorexia. I also probably have more wrong with me...great. With the anorexia oh my god I broke down 3 times at the mall...
    broadwaybabe99 broadwaybabe99 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 15

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    I'm really ****** up. I don't know why but I know I am.
    sadiegirl347 sadiegirl347 18-21, F Aug 17

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    ^^Basically, I wish I could just feel normal and not empty inside
    tatikapaya tatikapaya 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    It's kinda sad when your on the phone with your mom and get excited because she said she would buy you a Mountain Dew. I was only on the phone with her because I wanted to know...
    suckmyfrick420 suckmyfrick420 18-21, F Aug 10

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    It Truly Is A Mystery..... Oh Well! ^^
    ThatOneGothKidxD ThatOneGothKidxD 13-15, M Aug 17

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    I would love to be normal and stop being a "crazy" person that I have been called and known as. It would make my life easier.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 18

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    My mother is a very cruel cold hearted b!tch. Condescending, belittling...nothing I did was ever good enough. After speaking to my father this evening, I told him it was never...
    DevilDoll13 DevilDoll13 36-40, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I hurt the person I love. The person I'd give my life for. I didn't do anything explicitly wrong, I suppose it's because I never gave enough time, even when I felt I was. I said...
    Beccyayresxxx Beccyayresxxx 18-21 Aug 10

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    She has been criticising me ever since I gained weight. I never heard any nice words from me, it's like she hates me for being fat and doing something about it. Now that I've been...
    Jelliii Jelliii 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I moved 2 times in my life...now I'm going into 8th grade and in 7th grade I was the new girl to school. This one girl was friends with this girl I was becoming really good friends...
    gar106 gar106 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    My mom keeps comparing me to my sister and I feel like she hates me cause it's never Atisa you should try what your sister did no it's always Amista your sisters Grades are so good...
    dancerwithheart dancerwithheart 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    Not so much "leaving".... I just think she's mad at me or doesn't like me anymore... I have no idea why... She won't answer my messages... It just makes me sad... If she is mad or...
    DreadlockJesus DreadlockJesus 31-35, M Aug 3

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    My mom was having surgery for cancer and she said she wished it was me. She passed 7 days after her surgery and I don't understand why she would hate me.
    lkimber lkimber 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    See we ain't got much in commonSo we don't do that much talkingSometimes it feels so awkwardShe watch me take a showerI asked her why she didn't join meShe said because you didn't...
    Prokamin Prokamin 36-40, F Aug 4

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    See, yesterday my instructor had got upset and called me disrespectful. All because I made a sarcastic comment. I was wondering why she was so butt hurt, but then I realized it...
    CharleeLuv CharleeLuv 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    We stayed there for three evenings (1 in Seashore Villa and 2 in Drinking water Villa) and it absolutely was an unforgettable honeymoon to us. I am virtually looking ahead to my...
    Ardellaeh Ardellaeh 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    I hate missing you, 2 years have gone past and I've had relationships and you're still not leaving my head I just need closure and have no idea how I can get it, it's becoming...
    maddieXxx maddieXxx 16-17, F Aug 11

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    I enjoy helping walk the dogs and giving them love, but I never knew how hard it would be to deal with the other reality of the humane society.It angers me so much to see how...
    Ziraleet1 Ziraleet1 31-35, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I here just day dreaming, thinking, imaging How things would of been. Waking up to her, kissing her forehead as she sleeps, holding her in my arms, cuddling with her, lay with her...
    allencam05 allencam05 22-25, M 18 hrs ago

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    Mercury doesn't have sufficient mass, and thus gravity, to carry on to any ambiance for extended. But it surely does Have got a slim unstable exosphere containing hydrogen, helium...
    Hiltonhn53 Hiltonhn53 31-35, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    This is like, a major confession that really just welled up in me and that I needed to get out. I hate being black. I was raised with a very supportive upper middle class black...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 7

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    I guess ever since I could remember I've hated my mom, always day dreaming about a mom that cared and loved me. I am now 15, and I can't even remember the last time my mother said...
    Jaaye1 Jaaye1 70+ 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Whats the point about even being here of i am not happy. I'm always stressed out, i over think to much. I wish i could die you know , i don't see why not.
    Manny570 Manny570 16-17, M 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I knew she hated me when she put her hands around my neck and started choking me when i was in the 7th grade. 5 years later she still hates me. I don't understand why. Maybe...
    perdutounicorn perdutounicorn 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    Why do I fall in love so easy. Am I really just that alone. I know I'm lonely. I can feel it in my heart everyday. And I know that just because someone is nice to you or talks to...
    dreamslayer1313 dreamslayer1313 26-30, M 15 hrs ago

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    It's not an old story but I never thought that he'll use the kids against me. I left because I had enough of his philandering while accusing me of having an affair aside from...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 13

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    No, you'll never realise. I keep the pain under lock and key. You'll never know how much your words have scarred me. I'll put up with the pain so you can be happy. I'll pretend it...
    MiniMiku MiniMiku 16-17, F 10 hrs ago

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    I allowed them to come very close to me. So close that i thought they were always gonna be there. So many times i told myself silently that i am lucky to have them in my life. We...
    Unlearn Unlearn 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 2

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    LIE to my husband. I love and care about him deeply and I know he truly loves me too, but I feel like I can't be honest with him about certain things in my life (especially about...
    cjfkdg518 cjfkdg518 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    I'm stressing with going to college and playing a sport and being inVolved in school and when I get one bad grade all my mom says how I'm lazy and I won't get into a good school...
    vale1208 vale1208 16-17, F Aug 11

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    So, today I started being a sociopath. I did not set out to start being one; I accepted that I was one last night, and it just kicked in immediately. I did not need to think...
    sosheyo sosheyo 41-45, F Aug 19

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    I can't even find the words to write here. My family hates me. I am plain jane boring useless, and literal outcast of the family I live with. My husband has become annoyed with me...
    tristaspuella tristaspuella 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    Hi, im feeling so depressed and disparate. I was planning my wedding this month when my fiancé broke with me last month. He said we were fighting alot, that i didnt respect him...
    dipressedban dipressedban 26-30, F 5 Responses 16 hrs ago

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