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I Wish I Was A More Spontaneous Person

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    I Do Wish I Was, Because Most ...

    I do wish I was, because most of the time I live my life as a creature of habbit, that can be so boring sometimes
    rosygal rosygal 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2007

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    How about some advanced notice, please?

    minimum:  3 days notice! anything shy of 3 days is inadequate notice.  i didn't used to be this way.  when i was young i was up for anything.  as i've gotten older i've become much more conservative and mild mannered.  i'm not uncomfortable in social...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 12, 2007

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    I`m Not So Spontaneous

    I really wish to be more spontaneous. When I get some present I`m really happy but I don`t know how to express it. Other persons are laughing, screaming, dancing and so. I make only a smile and say "thanx" and that`s it.  Then my friends or family don`t know...
    bublina bublina 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 20, 2008

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    But...

    But I think too much about things and like to plan. When spontaneous things happen, though, they usually make me happy :)
    esclave esclave 16-18, F Nov 7, 2007

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    I'm As Spontaneous As It G...

    I'm as spontaneous as it gets. Running across freeways is a small past time of mine ;)
    agrace agrace 19-21, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2007

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    I'm Giving It A Go

    When it comes to little mini-adventures I am a very spontaneous person. I can easily just make plans at last minute and I like not knowing what the day's going to bring when you just decide to make a left or right on a road and see where it takes you. I'm good at that kind of...
    sezziy sezziy 22-25, F Jun 24, 2010

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    I Am Made To Be Spontaneous

    But I was surpassed by teachers, parents, and made to jump many stupid hoops, and at the end I got nothing in life. I need to be more experimental, more spontaneous. I have the ability and tendency to, but I need to remove the inhabitator that others people forced into me...
    Excellency Excellency 26-30, M Feb 4, 2012

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    Spontaneity Doesn't Just Happen, You Know

    My plans to be more spontaneous fell through at the last moment.
    ElLagarto ElLagarto 56-60, M 2 Responses Jul 9, 2007

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    I Am Spontaneous At Times But ...

    I am spontaneous at times but most of the time I prefer to be prepared and have a plan laid out.  I do have fun though sometimes when I 'm with a group of friends and we have no day planned.  Just kinda play it by ear.  I don't like some things spontaneous though...
    ReformedAutomaton ReformedAutomaton 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 12, 2007

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    I Try the Whole Surprise Thing...

    I try the whole surprise thing. I always snap. Jess seems to know when I'm hiding something. One of these times I'll be able to keep something from her until she's supposed to find out. Yeah right who am I kidding? It's way too easy to read me.
    Anndei Anndei 22-25, F Jun 24, 2007

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    I'm A Planner

    I envy those who embrace spontaneity....who can just go with the flow no matter where it takes them. I'm quite the opposite. I'm a planner. I find comfort and security in routines and structure. I need to plan things, even simple things like going to the grocery store or over...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 3 Responses May 10, 2012

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    I Lost Most of My Spontaneity....

    I lost most of my spontaneity.  I don't much like it neither.  I really don't like a whole lot of things right now.  I know, I know.  Time to change things.
    silvermystics silvermystics 51-55, F Jun 12, 2007

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    I Wish.

    Oh to be able to wake up and know you're about to do something you've never done before. I wish I could just wake up, and not plan anything, and just go out and do something wonderful!
    Euterpe Euterpe 21-25, F Dec 11, 2007

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    Everyday I Do the Same Thin...

    Everyday i do the same thing.  Its like those commercials where everything is gray and people are on a time schedule.  But being unemployed and having no job prospects at the moment, has not only limited my finanancial fund but has also limited my spontanaity. ...
    artchica artchica 26-30, F Jun 12, 2007

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