I Wish I Was A More Spontaneous Person

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    I'm A Planner

    I envy those who embrace spontaneity....who can just go with the flow no matter where it takes them. I'm quite the opposite. I'm a planner. I find comfort and security in routines and structure. I need to plan things, even simple things like going to the grocery store or over...
    LG76 LG76
    36-40, F
    2 Responses May 10, 2012

    I Am Made To Be Spontaneous

    But I was surpassed by teachers, parents, and made to jump many stupid hoops, and at the end I got nothing in life. I need to be more experimental, more spontaneous. I have the ability and tendency to, but I need to remove the inhabitator that others people forced into me...
    Excellency Excellency
    26-30, M
    Feb 4, 2012

    I'm Giving It A Go

    When it comes to little mini-adventures I am a very spontaneous person. I can easily just make plans at last minute and I like not knowing what the day's going to bring when you just decide to make a left or right on a road and see where it takes you. I'm good at that kind of...
    sezziy sezziy
    22-25, F
    Jun 24, 2010

    I Try the Whole Surprise Thing...

    I try the whole surprise thing. I always snap. Jess seems to know when I'm hiding something. One of these times I'll be able to keep something from her until she's supposed to find out. Yeah right who am I kidding? It's way too easy to read me.
    Anndei Anndei
    26-30, F
    Jun 24, 2007

    I Lost Most of My Spontaneity....

    I lost most of my spontaneity.  I don't much like it neither.  I really don't like a whole lot of things right now.  I know, I know.  Time to change things.
    silvermystics silvermystics
    51-55, F
    Jun 12, 2007

    Everyday I Do the Same Thin...

    Everyday i do the same thing.  Its like those commercials where everything is gray and people are on a time schedule.  But being unemployed and having no job prospects at the moment, has not only limited my finanancial fund but has also limited my spontanaity. ...
    artchica artchica
    26-30, F
    Jun 12, 2007

    I'm As Spontaneous As It G...

    I'm as spontaneous as it gets. Running across freeways is a small past time of mine ;)
    agrace agrace
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 13, 2007

    I Am Spontaneous At Times But ...

    I am spontaneous at times but most of the time I prefer to be prepared and have a plan laid out.  I do have fun though sometimes when I 'm with a group of friends and we have no day planned.  Just kinda play it by ear.  I don't like some things spontaneous though...
    ReformedAutomaton ReformedAutomaton
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jun 12, 2007

    How about some advanced notice, please?

    minimum:  3 days notice! anything shy of 3 days is inadequate notice.  i didn't used to be this way.  when i was young i was up for anything.  as i've gotten older i've become much more conservative and mild mannered.  i'm not uncomfortable in social...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jun 12, 2007

    Spontaneity Doesn't Just Happen, You Know

    My plans to be more spontaneous fell through at the last moment.
    ElLagarto ElLagarto
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Jul 9, 2007

    I Wish.

    Oh to be able to wake up and know you're about to do something you've never done before. I wish I could just wake up, and not plan anything, and just go out and do something wonderful!
    Euterpe Euterpe
    22-25, F
    Dec 11, 2007

    But...

    But I think too much about things and like to plan. When spontaneous things happen, though, they usually make me happy :)
    esclave esclave
    16-17, F
    Nov 7, 2007

    I`m Not So Spontaneous

    I really wish to be more spontaneous. When I get some present I`m really happy but I don`t know how to express it. Other persons are laughing, screaming, dancing and so. I make only a smile and say "thanx" and that`s it.  Then my friends or family don`t know...
    bublina bublina
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 20, 2008

    I Do Wish I Was, Because Most ...

    I do wish I was, because most of the time I live my life as a creature of habbit, that can be so boring sometimes
    rosygal rosygal
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Dec 11, 2007
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