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I Wish I Was A More Spontaneous Person

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 316 People

    I Try the Whole Surprise Thing...

    I try the whole surprise thing. I always snap. Jess seems to know when I'm hiding something. One of these times I'll be able to keep something from her until she's supposed to find out. Yeah right who am I kidding? It's way too easy to read me.
    Anndei Anndei 22-25, F Jun 24, 2007

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    I'm As Spontaneous As It G...

    I'm as spontaneous as it gets. Running across freeways is a small past time of mine ;)
    agrace agrace 19-21, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2007

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    I Am Made To Be Spontaneous

    But I was surpassed by teachers, parents, and made to jump many stupid hoops, and at the end I got nothing in life. I need to be more experimental, more spontaneous. I have the ability and tendency to, but I need to remove the inhabitator that others people forced into me...
    Excellency Excellency 26-30, M Feb 4, 2012

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    I'm Giving It A Go

    When it comes to little mini-adventures I am a very spontaneous person. I can easily just make plans at last minute and I like not knowing what the day's going to bring when you just decide to make a left or right on a road and see where it takes you. I'm good at that kind of...
    sezziy sezziy 22-25, F Jun 24, 2010

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    I Lost Most of My Spontaneity....

    I lost most of my spontaneity.  I don't much like it neither.  I really don't like a whole lot of things right now.  I know, I know.  Time to change things.
    silvermystics silvermystics 51-55, F Jun 12, 2007

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    I'm A Planner

    I envy those who embrace spontaneity....who can just go with the flow no matter where it takes them. I'm quite the opposite. I'm a planner. I find comfort and security in routines and structure. I need to plan things, even simple things like going to the grocery store or over...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 3 Responses May 10, 2012

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    I Do Wish I Was, Because Most ...

    I do wish I was, because most of the time I live my life as a creature of habbit, that can be so boring sometimes
    rosygal rosygal 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2007

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    But...

    But I think too much about things and like to plan. When spontaneous things happen, though, they usually make me happy :)
    esclave esclave 16-18, F Nov 7, 2007

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    I Am Spontaneous At Times But ...

    I am spontaneous at times but most of the time I prefer to be prepared and have a plan laid out.  I do have fun though sometimes when I 'm with a group of friends and we have no day planned.  Just kinda play it by ear.  I don't like some things spontaneous though...
    ReformedAutomaton ReformedAutomaton 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 12, 2007

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    I Wish.

    Oh to be able to wake up and know you're about to do something you've never done before. I wish I could just wake up, and not plan anything, and just go out and do something wonderful!
    Euterpe Euterpe 21-25, F Dec 11, 2007

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    I`m Not So Spontaneous

    I really wish to be more spontaneous. When I get some present I`m really happy but I don`t know how to express it. Other persons are laughing, screaming, dancing and so. I make only a smile and say "thanx" and that`s it.  Then my friends or family don`t know...
    bublina bublina 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 20, 2008

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    How about some advanced notice, please?

    minimum:  3 days notice! anything shy of 3 days is inadequate notice.  i didn't used to be this way.  when i was young i was up for anything.  as i've gotten older i've become much more conservative and mild mannered.  i'm not uncomfortable in social...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 12, 2007

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    Spontaneity Doesn't Just Happen, You Know

    My plans to be more spontaneous fell through at the last moment.
    ElLagarto ElLagarto 56-60, M 2 Responses Jul 9, 2007

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    Everyday I Do the Same Thin...

    Everyday i do the same thing.  Its like those commercials where everything is gray and people are on a time schedule.  But being unemployed and having no job prospects at the moment, has not only limited my finanancial fund but has also limited my spontanaity. ...
    artchica artchica 26-30, F Jun 12, 2007

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    MastersRagDoll MastersRagDoll 18-21, F 16 Responses Feb 7

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    xDarkxxAngelx xDarkxxAngelx 13-15, F Feb 10

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    EndlessRiver EndlessRiver 41-45, M Feb 7

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    I feel tired and lonely and stressed and I'm about ready to give up. Life wins.
    metallic28 metallic28 16-17, M 3 Responses Feb 22

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    That would be really helpful right now seeing as how I'm about to burst and im no where near home. I live in the city so I walk most places and I have several busy blocks to go...
    MastersRagDoll MastersRagDoll 18-21, F 18 Responses Feb 24

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    i wish i could articulate things better,I wish I knew when to use a coma or a period? or a question mark..I wish i didnt have to re read what i had just written in order to...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 5

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    I have about 3 friends but I don't see them that often and I can't call them anytime I want if I need to vent. I feel lonely and don't really consider them friends. I don't go out...
    Charliejai29 Charliejai29 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 23

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    I still love him and think about him everyday. It's almost like I'm haunted by him. He showed up unexpectedly ay my work with a couple friends of his, and I had to fight to keep an...
    renae85 renae85 26-30 1 Response Feb 15

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    My daughter did the Hoops for Hearts (American Heart Association) and was the top person in her school to raise $250. One of her class mates is a royal Brat (and that is putting it...
    warlords1973 warlords1973 41-45, M 4 Responses Feb 24

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    I'm 19 now, but the rape happened when I was 14. My mum and da had split up, and I moved out with my mum. I had to move school and I had no friends. I felt so lonely. This was when...
    Jmemma Jmemma 18-21, F Feb 5

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    I've only opened up to one person before. And it completely screwed me over. I'm very cautious when it comes to giving my heart to someone. I called it love but she called it a...
    daybyday1x1 daybyday1x1 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    "It was more than words and far from poetry."
    MyGuardianAngel MyGuardianAngel 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    I was a curious person--until I read the experience right before mine.
    gazingbeyond gazingbeyond 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 8

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    When I was 18 I became pregrant by my boyfriend who at that time was a sweet man. We moved in together, and I found out differently. I was choked, beat, kicked, and even forced to...
    Alli6372 Alli6372 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I was smacked my mother and step father but it's my step fathers spankings I remember the most. He was the first person to ever smack me in my life when I was about 7 yo. I had...
    ashie1980 ashie1980 31-35, T 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Ever since I was a little kid I knew I was different. I never imagined being married or dreamed of my wedding. I never pretended to have beautiful jewelry from a guy. I pretended I...
    cristy1989 cristy1989 22-25 Feb 12

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    I wish I was scared of something more normal like spiders, snakes, blood, ghosts, height and etc..instead of being scared of people, phone calls and rain which doesn't make sense...
    pookkie pookkie 18-21, F 1 Response 41 mins ago

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    I love vampires and I wish be one of them . I had the clothes and everything but I wish I could be real vampire ( * )
    jeffffffffffffffffff jeffffffffffffffffff 13-15, M 2 hrs ago

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    I could to the remember when this was this price and that was this price type of story. It's all about the times people,accept the reality and look for the bargains in life.I don't...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M 2 hrs ago

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    I wish i was someone else right now,with a more exciting life,an enjoyable one..One kinda like the persons tumbr i was checking out..One where i had a cute boyfriend i looked like...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Okay I hear some of you laughing already, so I will hit you with some science and a video just to pause that giggle. The elite in society adopt it, the highest leaders from...
    Soroe Soroe 36-40, M 9 hrs ago

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    I got my herpes result exactly one month before my birthday. I felt like my world had ended. I cried for days not knowing what to do or who to turn to. I contracted herpes from my...
    harryyang1990 harryyang1990 22-25, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    My Secret I hate the phrase "No one is going to love you if you don't love yourself", but saying that, I'm highly hypocritical as I'm afraid of falling in love because I'm not...
    Devlyndark Devlyndark 16-17, T 1 Response Feb 16

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    you only live once, why not be silly, and spontaneous?
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 10

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    happy holi to all ppl ot there this is the festival of colors and i wish may it color all your lives and bring happiness and prosperity.
    Ahaanaa Ahaanaa 13-15, F 8 hrs ago

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    Interesting... and accurate! "Spontaneous Idealist" Enthusiastic, idealistic and creative. Able to do almost anything that interests them. Great people skills. Need to live life...
    igivefreelove igivefreelove 18-21, F Feb 14

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    How to make a very long story, very short? I dated a boy (we shall call him Darlin), a coworker, for 6 months. My high school sweetheart and best friend (who we shall call Bug...
    quirkygirl520 quirkygirl520 22-25, F Feb 21

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    One of my dear ep friends gave a special birthday gift... 10 wishes.... Hmmmm..... Thinks deeply.... Ok..... 1. I wish 🌠 for peace... World peace ✌.. Personal peace...
    expressomarkie expressomarkie 46-50, M 2 Responses Feb 24

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    I have been crying all day with the pain of not being near the person i love in my relationship. It didn't help my father got dumped the day before valentines day and now he is in...
    LoveLessOne97 LoveLessOne97 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 14

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