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I Wish I Was In a Great Relationship

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    My boyfriend and I had a huge fight.

    Seriously though, the fact that he decided to come and tell me that on friday when we go to a supper that we should go as friends because he doesn't want to explain and talk about our relationship. I told him, if he wants to break up, then do it, what's he waiting for...
    AnthonyTonyWhat AnthonyTonyWhat 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 9, 2014

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    I am eager (in the most passive way) to form a

    sapiosexual relationship with another woman. I would be okay with kissing, hugging and the occassional cuddling. Nothing like putting your desires on your sleeve. hehehe
    razorim razorim 41-45, T 6 days ago

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    I long to find the man of my dreams.

    Tall dark and handsome.. Where oh where could he be?
    sweettears72 sweettears72 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    alicefloe alicefloe 16-17, F 13 Responses Nov 27, 2014

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    I can't seem to figure out what to do about the

    relationship I'm in for almost 9 years. Engaged to him since 2011. He's been distant now for over a year and the intimacy we shared has been almost non existent for 7 months. He's always tired, not feeling well or stressed (He's in his 40's) A year ago I was contacted by a guy...
    lizzy8479 lizzy8479 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    I went out with this girl

    and really hit it off (2-3 years ago). The break up was rough and now I'm starting to have feelings towards her again.
    opticshrew opticshrew 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 13

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    Shoes V Relationships

    I just bought my self a pair of shoes and as i was putting in the shoe laces ..... I had an idea... Relationship is like a shoe... you buy a pair of shoes that fits you... You don't buy a pair of shoes that don't hurt or feet,pinch your toes, blister your heels.. Same way with a...
    Augusttwix Augusttwix 46-50, F 3 Responses Nov 14, 2013

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    chair5 chair5 41-45, M 3 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    I want out of my miserable relationship

    but I seem to be addicted to it for all the usual reasons one continues to involve themselves in something that is destructive for their soul. to escape to fill the void to pretend I'm happy to feel normal or what I think normal should appear to others (those who wouldn't know...
    jaxpdx jaxpdx 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    If you ask your partner not to do something

    and they do anyway. Does this imply that your word doesn't matter to them or that they just don't care. Or is it more? Because I feel underminded and unappreciated. I feel like everything I say doesn't count. It goes in one ear and out the other. Double standards for sure...
    sunshine319 sunshine319 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    I want a relationship with a guy I can trust

    and not have to hide from. Someone who will love me for me and not treat me like crap. Sometimes i get tired of loving someone because it's always Always!! Me who gets his heart broken. I always thought I would find that dream guy but I guess dreams are in your head for a reason...
    patric5678 patric5678 18-21, M Dec 12, 2013

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    Trying to remind myself

    that I AM good enough... Fell for a guy recently only to have his wife text me! (He told me they were separated.) Not only am I good enough for a relationship - I need to remember is fine being alone, too.
    Jeannette6 Jeannette6 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 24, 2014

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    I dont want the perfect guy.

    I want a guy who is in it for LOVE. I want a guy to value me and see how I am really am. I want him to come meet my parents and everyone get along well. I want him to know every side of me, and me know every side of him. I want to love and be loved. I just want a guy who i can...
    KenzR KenzR 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 6, 2014

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    I wish I had one of those relationships

    where u see people and they look so happy together like the kind of happy that wouldn't let anyone get in the way of them I wish I had someone that would tell me everything is gonna be okay even when it's not...someone who will compliment me everyday even if I don't believe it...
    Scarsdontfade Scarsdontfade 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    I all really want is to be in a relationship. I'm only really happy when I'm in one. Unless there is no affection... then I'm not happy either. *sigh* I just want for someone to hold me...
    PoeticRejection PoeticRejection 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 19, 2007

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    or should I say still.

    ..I want the "great" of my "relationshipsailed" to find me again in with someone who won't fail.
    myvoyce myvoyce 36-40, F Jan 18

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    Sometimes it seem no girl in the entire

    Cincinnati area notices me, I really am a nice guy though. I'd write her and sing her songs and prove just how joyous she makes me... if only someone would give me a chance
    Sratomasfer1 Sratomasfer1 16-17, M 3 Responses Mar 24, 2014

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    alexnin13 alexnin13 26-30, M Nov 25, 2014

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    Does anyone else just want to smother their

    boyfriend with a pillow while he is sleeping? I get this urge sometimes. I love him. I want to marry him. But I get random thoughts to stab him in his sleep or to kick him when his back is turned. He's not the most amazing person and neither am I as we both have serious work to...
    veroplane veroplane 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2013

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    I thought he was different.

    He seemed straight up and for real. Now I just feel stupid. I should have known. While I'm trying to get closer I feel him pulling away. I didn't call/text him for a weekend and he got so upset. I tell him I need someone for real, something for real. He says he's not ready for a...
    MNI1982 MNI1982 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    NatashaRose NatashaRose 18-21, F 9 Responses Aug 30, 2014

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    Love Does Not Care Whether You’re Beautiful, Thin, Smart Or Even If You’re A Good Person…

    One of my exes sent me a link to his blog, which I have been receiving on regular basis, as he’s been overseas for two years now. I don’t generally read it, or if I do, I only skim through it for the pictures. We have stayed friends, more or less. I had kept a distance until...
    watchfulsoul watchfulsoul 26-30, F 13 Responses Mar 27, 2011

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    Why You Keep Choosing The Worst Possible Partner...

    By the time you've worked with hundreds of couples, you start seeing common patterns. Here's the big one: We take the most difficult relationship of our childhood... and we marry it! Ever wonder why so many children of alcoholics marry alcoholics? Ever wonder why so many abuse...
    musicbook musicbook 56-60, M 3 Responses Aug 11, 2012

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    What Little I've Learned About Relationships

    OK, I'm neither single nor looking for a relationship. But I promised someone on this site I would write something with her in mind. I've been maried for a fair whikle and my undeserved reputation of the past has long been put to rest. But here are some random and casual...
    Mediator Mediator 51-55, M 9 Responses Aug 26, 2009

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    I want a punk rock boyfriend with ******

    tattoos. we can work at restaurants and sell pot out of our house, and when I come home and there are a bunch of people over, I won't have to worry about what he's doing because we'll trust each other. in the summers we'll go traveling in my van.
    footfungusfairy footfungusfairy 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 6, 2014

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    This is how I feel all my relationships always

    end up :-( TAYLOR SWIFT- Blank Space Cause we're young and WE'RE RECKLESS We'lll take this way TOO FAR It'll leave you BREATHLESS Or with NASTY SCAR Got a LONG LIST OF EX-LOVERS They'll tell you I'm insane And I got a BLANK SPACE BABY! And I'll WRITE YOUR NAME! Why can...
    Ruben32 Ruben32 13-15, M 3 Responses Jan 8

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    While on ask.fm, I stumbled across an

    interesting post. It was by a girl---a girl I didn't really know, and, frankly, didn't really care about---but what she said really got me. The question was "What kind of relationship do you want?" And her response was chillingly cliche. She went through the motions. She wants...
    babyrhinos babyrhinos 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 19, 2014

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    In a decent one, just wish there was more

    intimacy. Being a touchy, feeling, talking type, it's very hard being with someone that is closed off and private... makes me wonder what is really up with him all the time. The fact that he is Mister Wonderful with other women makes me wonder who the act is for, me, or them. He...
    angelonhigh angelonhigh 51-55, F 4 Responses Dec 20, 2014

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    happykiddo21 happykiddo21 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    I honestly believe that the first step to being

    in a great relationship, is working on the relationship you have with yourself. When you want someone to complete you, it`s like you are the only single person on the planet. But the second you realize how fabulous and fun single life is; men just come out of the woodwork...
    JustBernieGirl JustBernieGirl 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 3, 2014

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    i want a relationship thats just like super

    cool friendship with like kissing
    uhkenz uhkenz 13-15, F 5 Responses Jan 13

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    I met a very beautiful girl 6 months ago.

    After hanging out many times we got to trust each other. We started telling each other about everything of ourselves. She told me that she had a pour relationship with another guy. They loved each other sooo much. Their relationship lasted for about 3 and a half years. She loved...
    saadms1 saadms1 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    Me

    im a crosdressing pansy and love it mwa xx
    shaeeee shaeeee 46-50 31 Responses Jul 13, 2012

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    I already chatting with him

    since yesterday 😁 i like and i yhink i love him now. Eric Navarro you make me inlove again
    RavenLim RavenLim 18-21, M Jan 7

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    I often have this habit of falling

    for either too young or too old people around me! I cant seem to find someone who's just right about my radar except my best friend which i know i cant have.
    mcray mcray 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 12

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    How do I get this "great relationship?

    "lol I have kids...so that makes it hard in the first place. I don't seem to be able to divide my time between my kids & a guy. Though my kids are getting older now. But I would LOVE to have a great relationship before I die. I've had some pretty amazing ones in the past...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I wish I could be staring some one starting

    now than get married and always love each other that's just a dream though
    scott7656 scott7656 13-15, M 2 Responses Jan 20, 2014

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    I want a cute relationship.

    Where I can play video games with a guy or girl, and cuddle , and kissing. Ughhhh whhhy cannnt I havee it ?!
    Mimi3430 Mimi3430 13-15, F 9 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    It is SO hard to meet guys in this town

    who share my interests. I've resorted to making an online profile and to my dismay, so many of the pics are fat bald guys with kids and their profile pic shows them proudly holding up a a dead animal carcass of some kind. Help!! I'm a displaced Austinite trapped in Hicksville. I...
    AshleyOuch AshleyOuch 31-35, F 2 Responses May 27, 2014

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    One where I felt love

    and actually knew what it was like to be appreciated. One where I'm comforted and feel safe. But no, that won't happen. You make me feel the worst about myself.
    juriaajurden juriaajurden 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 13, 2014

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    It would be perfect bc we would

    both love each other so much and listen to each others problems and like the same things and even care about each others feelings
    Lollipop948 Lollipop948 13-15, M Jan 8

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    Recently my bf's friend

    and I got into a fight. He let his friend hit me and spit on me. He didn't have my back at all. Is it normal for guys to ditch their girls for their friends in such situation? And is it acceptable? I have never been this hurt before cuz this is my first experience getting hit by...
    dontmatter11 dontmatter11 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 13

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    Wow you meet someone then you talk then they

    stop talking to you. #singlelife
    Mrbeyonce Mrbeyonce 16-17, M Jan 9

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    I honestly don't know what I want out of a

    relationship but that's what the beauty of it is. I'm young , of course I want loyalty , honesty and respect . But most importantly I want spontaneity and fun . I want someone with a passion , who can teach me about their interest , someone I can learn from. A random yet laid...
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F Dec 13, 2013

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    when your guy isn't emotional no nothing what

    do you do??? very hopless i love him but does he love me? i try to give or show him but he pushes me away literally. . :/ we have argued about it.. no cuddles kisses hugs.. would beg him advice please. .
    mia2391 mia2391 22-25, F 8 Responses Jan 5

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    Being a girlfriend is not just about being

    pretty and attractive for your guy. It's not just about letting him chase you, letting him do sweet things every time you're mad at him and not just receiving flowers and gifts during your anniversary. It's not about doing those girly things to get his attention and not just...
    Carissamae Carissamae 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 27, 2014

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    Do you day dream thoughts of me?

    Tell me what do you see? Is it All the things people think are wrong with me Maybe all the things that could be? I wonder if you enjoy the things I do I wonder if I have a future with you So far I like all I see Thinking there is so much wrong with me Thinking you don't like...
    Froggy420 Froggy420 31-35, F Oct 5, 2014

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    So i need some advice.

    ...I've known this girl for about 3 years now she is older than me and she does live quite a distance I'm convinced I'm in love but then again I could be blind the thing is when we first met both of us couldn't spend more then enough time talking to each other and enjoying our...
    bobafhett bobafhett 13-15 1 Response Jan 8

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    I wish I had that but at the moment I guess its

    just not meant to be. When the time is right, maybe it will happen for me or maybe I was meant to be alone. I long for a great happy healthy relationship, but does that even exist? Maybe so but not for me...& sometimes I wonder why. Are my expectations too high, so I ask...
    mamabutterfly mamabutterfly 36-40, F 8 Responses Jan 16

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    So it's not gonna be easy.

    It's going to be really hard; we're gonna have to work at this everyday, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, everyday. You and me... everyday.
    Galantis Galantis 18-21, F Jan 17

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    I met this guy the other night

    and we just hit it off so well. He's so chivalrous, romantic, passionate, etc. He didn't take advantage of me, nor treat me in an improper fashion because of our age gap. It's the little things that I attracted me to him. Besides his dazzling smile, firm chest, and thick honey...
    PixieStixs PixieStixs 18-21, F Jan 8

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