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I Wish I Was In a Great Relationship

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    If, I was in a great relationship.

    I wouldn't be experiencing this pain. The pain and fear of losing someone you truly love. The time being spent on them rather than focusing on yourself and your responsibilities. I would be happy and motivated to do well in school. I would eventually find my passion and become...
    ikoreanx3 ikoreanx3 18-21 1 Response 1 day ago

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    caitlin910 caitlin910 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    Tbh, my dream relationship would be with a

    gaming relationship where me and bf can co-op on games. Then sometimes have competitions to see who's the best. Yeah, that would seem fun.
    Brogann Brogann 16-17, F 6 Responses Sep 3

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    Him<3:(

    I've known this guy for a couple years now. He's been a great friend to me all this time.We've dated on and off in the past, and he's the only guy who stuck around that I really care for and keep in touch with. He was my first kiss and knows everything about me. He knows how...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 4, 2012

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    MegaGenius MegaGenius 13-15, F Jul 31

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    Why You Keep Choosing The Worst Possible Partner...

    By the time you've worked with hundreds of couples, you start seeing common patterns. Here's the big one: We take the most difficult relationship of our childhood... and we marry it! Ever wonder why so many children of alcoholics marry alcoholics? Ever wonder why so many abuse...
    musicbook musicbook 56-60, M 2 Responses Aug 11, 2012

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    Shoes V Relationships

    I just bought my self a pair of shoes and as i was putting in the shoe laces ..... I had an idea... Relationship is like a shoe... you buy a pair of shoes that fits you... You don't buy a pair of shoes that don't hurt or feet,pinch your toes, blister your heels.. Same way with a...
    Augusttwix Augusttwix 46-50, F 3 Responses Nov 14, 2013

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    My new boyfriend isn't romantic at all

    and isn't the greatest advice giver or listener. I honestly don't really know why I have lowered my standards for him. It's only been two weeks so maybe he will start changing when he trusts me more ?
    mimilsu mimilsu 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 7

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    well to start off i dont uderstand girls at all

    i mean to be honest wat is the matter with me am i ugly or something do women think i will hurt them or something all i just want is to be loved and to show that im a good man to be with and that i will never hurt you idk it just that im in need of a partner to feel completed in...
    lamorrie lamorrie 18-21 4 Responses Aug 5

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    I'm honestly just looking

    for something meaningful. :/
    Ajoseph219 Ajoseph219 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 25

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    I honestly believe that the first step to being

    in a great relationship, is working on the relationship you have with yourself. When you want someone to complete you, it`s like you are the only single person on the planet. But the second you realize how fabulous and fun single life is; men just come out of the woodwork...
    JustBernieGirl JustBernieGirl 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I want a punk rock boyfriend with ******

    tattoos. we can work at restaurants and sell pot out of our house, and when I come home and there are a bunch of people over, I won't have to worry about what he's doing because we'll trust each other. in the summers we'll go traveling in my van.
    footfungusfairy footfungusfairy 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 6

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    I want a relationship with a guy I can trust

    and not have to hide from. Someone who will love me for me and not treat me like crap. Sometimes i get tired of loving someone because it's always Always!! Me who gets his heart broken. I always thought I would find that dream guy but I guess dreams are in your head for a reason...
    patric5678 patric5678 18-21, M Dec 12, 2013

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    About five months ago,

    I broke up with my boyfriend of about six months. He kept asking me for things I could not provide and I have not regretted it, especially since he kept belittling me and making me feel terrible for things I didn't want to do/couldn't do. He, on the other hand, feels the...
    PorcelainMaiden PorcelainMaiden 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    I hope that when I get all my ducks in a row

    that I will be able to have a healthy meaningful relationship. I'm so use to being on my own. I don't know how to bring someone into my world or make mine fit theirs.
    OneTooManyTears OneTooManyTears 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    Whenever im in a relationship,

    in about 2 months or less i feel already non- exited anymore. I become more quiet and the whole magic of the flirting and laughing is gone , and then i enter into the realm of monotomy. Could it be that im already a douche bag or is something else? I dont know, have you felt...
    mcalderon89 mcalderon89 22-25, M Jul 23

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    It is SO hard to meet guys in this town

    who share my interests. I've resorted to making an online profile and to my dismay, so many of the pics are fat bald guys with kids and their profile pic shows them proudly holding up a a dead animal carcass of some kind. Help!! I'm a displaced Austinite trapped in Hicksville. I...
    AshleyOuch AshleyOuch 26-30, F 3 Responses May 27

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    Love Stumbled.....

    I have struggled with things I did wrong during my marriage. I try to balance not making excuses for some of my behavior with what was going on at the time. The debt my ex brought into our relationship was crushing and she began checking out early while leading me on to the...
    New2sb New2sb 46-50, M 5 Responses Apr 24, 2013

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    Just a wish! Nothing else I can do.

    . It hurts and it's unreal.
    LonelyLittleBird LonelyLittleBird 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    O_o

    I have been very..very...VERRRY unlucky with relationships in the past. But I'm not bitter. I believe there is someone for everyone, and over enough time, probability states those two people will eventually meet..I just hope it's not destined for 17 quadrillion years form now...
    MrHazeinCherubsGrace MrHazeinCherubsGrace 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 1, 2011

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    Who doesn't? Pfffft everyone wants a great

    relationship and if you deny it, you probably push on doors that say "pull".
    guideme2truth guideme2truth 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    While on ask.fm, I stumbled across an

    interesting post. It was by a girl---a girl I didn't really know, and, frankly, didn't really care about---but what she said really got me. The question was "What kind of relationship do you want?" And her response was chillingly cliche. She went through the motions. She wants...
    babyrhinos babyrhinos 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 19

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    I have had past boyfriends

    and girlfriends, but they all end in heartbreak. I wish I could have a rewind some of those relationships. Some of them were the best things I've ever experienced in life. I feel like I screw them all up.
    allsummer allsummer 18-21, F 3 Responses May 20

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    My feelings are a bit hurt.

    My boyfriend of almost 2 years will not move out of state with me. All he has in this state is his mom (who he does not have a good relationship with) and a job he can't even turn into a career (and doesn't want to make it into one). We live on an island, and he has dreams of...
    kbeary kbeary 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    =[

    I all really want is to be in a relationship. I'm only really happy when I'm in one. Unless there is no affection... then I'm not happy either. *sigh* I just want for someone to hold me...
    PoeticRejection PoeticRejection 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 19, 2007

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    Love Does Not Care Whether You’re Beautiful, Thin, Smart Or Even If You’re A Good Person…

    One of my exes sent me a link to his blog, which I have been receiving on regular basis, as he’s been overseas for two years now. I don’t generally read it, or if I do, I only skim through it for the pictures. We have stayed friends, more or less. I had kept a distance until...
    watchfulsoul watchfulsoul 26-30, F 13 Responses Mar 27, 2011

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    I trap myself in bad relationships,

    I try to make the best of it but end up just waiting for my escape ha ha
    chad514 chad514 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 3

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    Good girls aren't hard to find they're just

    hard to run game on . 💯 I pray that God sends me the right one , someone who loves God just as much as I do and shares the same values
    EricTheHooper EricTheHooper 18-21, M May 23

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    I wish I could be staring some one starting

    now than get married and always love each other that's just a dream though
    scott7656 scott7656 13-15, M 2 Responses Jan 20

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    Does anyone else just want to smother their

    boyfriend with a pillow while he is sleeping? I get this urge sometimes. I love him. I want to marry him. But I get random thoughts to stab him in his sleep or to kick him when his back is turned. He's not the most amazing person and neither am I as we both have serious work to...
    veroplane veroplane 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2013

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    There have be several relationships i have bin

    in but with all of them in the end it was all fake like she had another boyfriend or she was just leading me on for fun
    Doe99 Doe99 16-17, M Aug 5

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    I wonder if there someone out there

    for me? If the right guy might come sooner or later? But I'm suck an tired of waiting! Since I came out as gay I have only had one person interested in me. And he wasn't the one. I just hope someday, he will come sooner or later.... Who will it be?
    abdi522 abdi522 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I wish I was in a great relationship

    where we are always happy and fun and just a wonderful couple. Why is that so hard to find. Nowadays guys just want sex and pics and not the relationship that comes with it. It drives me crazy. But Mr right will come along I know it(;
    FindingTheRealMe FindingTheRealMe 16-17, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    Why can't I just walk away.

    .. Why is it so hard to let go. I've never been like this or felt like this... But I'm drowning
    becks2378 becks2378 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    I'm scared to be in a relationship.

    I'm dying to have a boy wrap his arms around me and kiss me. I want to be loved but I don't want to be hurt like last time. I want a loyal boyfriend. Not someone who cheats. It's hard to find gentlemen nowadays.
    berknerband berknerband 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    Not all perfect and rosy

    but a relationship where he's not afraid to show he misses me.. go out his way or be spontaneous...something just to put to bed these insecurities
    Storyteller29 Storyteller29 18-21, F Sep 9

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    It's Not About Being In just Any Relationship... But the right 1

    See there was this girl who I had such a connection with that I just couldn't understand how this was even possible... I mean we really do think alike in every-way! In fact after knowing her for only a month and a half... I asked her this very question... "Out of everybody...
    PuzzleGuy713 PuzzleGuy713 26-30, M 28 Responses Feb 17, 2009

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    I want to be in a relationship

    so bad but I feel like I'm a horrible flirt and act so awkward around guys and I feel scared to get too attached to someone because I feel like they'll make fun of what I look like because in not skinny.
    sweetchick1166 sweetchick1166 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    NatashaRose NatashaRose 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 30

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    I want a cute relationship.

    Where I can play video games with a guy or girl, and cuddle , and kissing. Ughhhh whhhy cannnt I havee it ?!
    Mimi3430 Mimi3430 13-15, F 9 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    Not Likely

    I have had two relationships that where in the  "This is the one" category. And well here I am. What I am looking for is someone who is not a "conditional" lover meaning if you do what I want I'll love you this way and if you do it like this I'll love...
    Un4given Un4given 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 4, 2007

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    Is wanting a good man too much to ask

    for now a days because I feel that it is
    allieelizabeth94 allieelizabeth94 18-21, F 11 Responses Mar 18

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    I find myself to be insecure

    when in a relationship.
    deepthinking12 deepthinking12 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Being a girlfriend is not just about being

    pretty and attractive for your guy. It's not just about letting him chase you, letting him do sweet things every time you're mad at him and not just receiving flowers and gifts during your anniversary. It's not about doing those girly things to get his attention and not just...
    Carissamae Carissamae 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 27

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    yashmink yashmink 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    What Little I've Learned About Relationships

    OK, I'm neither single nor looking for a relationship. But I promised someone on this site I would write something with her in mind. I've been maried for a fair whikle and my undeserved reputation of the past has long been put to rest. But here are some random and casual...
    Mediator Mediator 51-55, M 9 Responses Aug 26, 2009

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    Sometimes it seem no girl in the entire

    Cincinnati area notices me, I really am a nice guy though. I'd write her and sing her songs and prove just how joyous she makes me... if only someone would give me a chance
    Sratomasfer1 Sratomasfer1 16-17, M 3 Responses Mar 24

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    Me

    im a crosdressing pansy and love it mwa xx
    shaeeee shaeeee 46-50 33 Responses Jul 13, 2012

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    I dont want the perfect guy.

    I want a guy who is in it for LOVE. I want a guy to value me and see how I am really am. I want him to come meet my parents and everyone get along well. I want him to know every side of me, and me know every side of him. I want to love and be loved. I just want a guy who i can...
    KenzR KenzR 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    Sometimes I just want someone to talk about

    everything and nothing at the same time
    Awake96 Awake96 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 23

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    My boyfriend treats me like ****,

    we have been together 10 years, have our own house, but he thinks he can do whatever he wants, such as go away with mates overnight without telling me! He just lies and turns his phone off! Advice please
    jaddles jaddles 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 13

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    I wish :c But at some point I don't,

    I'm afraid of that I will get hurt again.
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    If you ask your partner not to do something

    and they do anyway. Does this imply that your word doesn't matter to them or that they just don't care. Or is it more? Because I feel underminded and unappreciated. I feel like everything I say doesn't count. It goes in one ear and out the other. Double standards for sure...
    sunshine319 sunshine319 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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