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I Wish I Was In a Great Relationship

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    To be honest I do wish I was in a great

    relationship. I think of what it would be like and it sort of scares me but at the same time I wish I could have it. I've never been in a relationship, I used to think that there was absolutely no point, getting so close to someone but knowing it's doomed to fail and end up...
    JohnnyCasshh JohnnyCasshh 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    Where I could cherish him

    and take carrot him like a baby so he has nothing other than his work to worry about. I want to always be there for him and baby him. Hold him when he's afraid, cook for him and love him unconditionally.
    Nchikkala Nchikkala 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    So, me and my boyfriend have a little history.

    At the beggining of the school year me and him started talking and torwards the middle we stopped because I saw a picture of another girl on his phone. We took a little break and now we started talking again, he says it wasnt cheating but whatever. He asked me out and I said yes...
    champagnebecca champagnebecca 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 16

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    =[

    I all really want is to be in a relationship. I'm only really happy when I'm in one. Unless there is no affection... then I'm not happy either. *sigh* I just want for someone to hold me...
    PoeticRejection PoeticRejection 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 19, 2007

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    Relationship is sometimes annoying.

    Just kissing and cuddling is better?
    JasminaMacky JasminaMacky 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    I want the type of relationship

    where my boyfriend is my best friend. Someone I can confide in and who will respect me for who I am.
    goldengirl24 goldengirl24 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 31

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    Love Stumbled.....

    I have struggled with things I did wrong during my marriage. I try to balance not making excuses for some of my behavior with what was going on at the time. The debt my ex brought into our relationship was crushing and she began checking out early while leading me on to the...
    New2sb New2sb 46-50, M 5 Responses Apr 24, 2013

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    I am supposed to be gone .

    I have waisted so much time with you. Yes you love, me but all you want out of life is reefer, sports & a cell phone . You are only with me as a leach, needy & pathetically ignorant I wish i had an ounce of respect for you. I have learned great restraint holding back my...
    Caponebaby Caponebaby 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    I want a punk rock boyfriend with ******

    tattoos. we can work at restaurants and sell pot out of our house, and when I come home and there are a bunch of people over, I won't have to worry about what he's doing because we'll trust each other. in the summers we'll go traveling in my van.
    footfungusfairy footfungusfairy 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 6

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    I have only had one relationship in my life.

    Up until a few months ago, I have been completely satisfied being single and I still somewhat am. Im generally an introverted person so its kind of hard for me to build relations with people And girls are even harder for me to talk to in person, I just cant do it theres some...
    Infowarrior76 Infowarrior76 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 4

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    I wish I could be staring some one starting

    now than get married and always love each other that's just a dream though
    scott7656 scott7656 13-15, M 2 Responses Jan 20

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    Never Had My First Kiss

    I think I will probably be really bad at it. What is a first kiss like? Like how do you know when its gonna happen and how do you stand, what like do you do? I am so nervous I will be really bad at it
    onthekasie onthekasie 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 31, 2013

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    Is wanting a good man too much to ask

    for now a days because I feel that it is
    allieelizabeth94 allieelizabeth94 18-21, F 11 Responses Mar 18

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    Why You Keep Choosing The Worst Possible Partner...

    By the time you've worked with hundreds of couples, you start seeing common patterns. Here's the big one: We take the most difficult relationship of our childhood... and we marry it! Ever wonder why so many children of alcoholics marry alcoholics? Ever wonder why so many abuse...
    musicbook musicbook 56-60, M 2 Responses Aug 11, 2012

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    I really just want someone to love me.

    Someone to tell me I'm beautiful, and to make me feel special. I don't care if it's in real life, or online. I just want that feeling again.
    anaseatingme anaseatingme 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 27

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    Both ex said that they were drained being

    together with me. Am I really that bad
    Blackdolphin275 Blackdolphin275 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13

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    Am I the only one who feels like they're never

    gonna find someone? I mean I'm still pretty young, but I haven't had a serious enough relationship to even say that I would be "prepared" for a great, long-lasting one. Despite common sense about how to treat people and all that I just feel like I'm so behind and there are no...
    turtlezero turtlezero 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    Break Up Experience Part 3

    So after 6 days of just cryin,sleepin and eating Ive finally decided to get back to my normal life and make this pain a part of my daily life. I realize i cant just go on with this forever a lot is at the stake if i dnt move on. My carrier and my life will be destroyed if I dnt...
    sheri1234 sheri1234 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 15, 2013

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    Not Likely

    I have had two relationships that where in the  "This is the one" category. And well here I am. What I am looking for is someone who is not a "conditional" lover meaning if you do what I want I'll love you this way and if you do it like this I'll love...
    Un4given Un4given 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 4, 2007

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    I honestly don't know what I want out of a

    relationship but that's what the beauty of it is. I'm young , of course I want loyalty , honesty and respect . But most importantly I want spontaneity and fun . I want someone with a passion , who can teach me about their interest , someone I can learn from. A random yet laid...
    IronicAppeal IronicAppeal 18-21, F Dec 13, 2013

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    It's Not About Being In just Any Relationship... But the right 1

    See there was this girl who I had such a connection with that I just couldn't understand how this was even possible... I mean we really do think alike in every-way! In fact after knowing her for only a month and a half... I asked her this very question... "Out of everybody...
    PuzzleGuy713 PuzzleGuy713 26-30, M 28 Responses Feb 17, 2009

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    I am in a relationship,

    but we hardly talk. We have been in one date only. He says he wants to take it slow, but it's killing me. I know he has children and work but that shouldn't stop him from at least talking to me. I want to get to know him and miss him so very much. I want to tell him how I feel...
    shurei shurei 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    I kinda have two crushes right now.

    One on a girl that I have been best friends with forever. My mom adopted her and now she lives with us and we share a room and I think she likes me but I don't want to pressure into anything because she's gone through a lot lately. (and by lately I mean her whole life) and the...
    broadwaybaby1 broadwaybaby1 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Sometimes it seem no girl in the entire

    Cincinnati area notices me, I really am a nice guy though. I'd write her and sing her songs and prove just how joyous she makes me... if only someone would give me a chance
    Sratomasfer1 Sratomasfer1 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 24

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    I Could Use Some Company

    Being alone gets old after awhile and I would love to be in a healthy relationship with a man again. I face the facts that time is passing me by and I am not getting any younger after all. I pray that God puts someone in my path or makes the person in my life more attentive or...
    cinfullynn cinfullynn 46-50, F 7 Responses Jun 3, 2009

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    Want To Be In Good Relationship

    I really hope I can find a guy I have a lot in common with, and has the same flaws I have.  I was always happiest when I associated with guys who had the same flaws I had.  We perceived the society the same way, and were able to laugh together.  I want to find a guy who is...
    journeytowhere journeytowhere 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2011

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    well, im just a 19yr.

    old kid.... i have got in some trouble with the law in my past. my mom died when i was 8yrs. my dads wife would abuse me. i have a daughterand im not in her life aas much as i wish. im in a rrelationship where i love this girl im 114% faithful and she i too i hope ... but shes...
    stuckz14 stuckz14 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 5

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    I want to meet my other half

    and start building our future together.
    fullofhope123 fullofhope123 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    Message me a lullaby

    and in the morning a good morning message maybe? no??? okay.
    bvb200 bvb200 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    Doesn't everybody wish that?

    I mean single life is great sometimes but to have somebodies attention, love, and respect is an amazing feeling. To have somebody care about you and put you before themselves, to have somebody to talk to about anything no matter what it is, to do cute little things for, to do...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F Mar 16

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    I want a cute relationship.

    Where I can play video games with a guy or girl, and cuddle , and kissing. Ughhhh whhhy cannnt I havee it ?!
    Mimi3430 Mimi3430 13-15, F 9 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    Me

    im a crosdressing pansy and love it mwa xx
    shaeeee shaeeee 46-50, T 34 Responses Jul 13, 2012

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    What Little I've Learned About Relationships

    OK, I'm neither single nor looking for a relationship. But I promised someone on this site I would write something with her in mind. I've been maried for a fair whikle and my undeserved reputation of the past has long been put to rest. But here are some random and casual...
    Mediator Mediator 51-55, M 9 Responses Aug 26, 2009

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    Love Does Not Care Whether You’re Beautiful, Thin, Smart Or Even If You’re A Good Person…

    One of my exes sent me a link to his blog, which I have been receiving on regular basis, as he’s been overseas for two years now. I don’t generally read it, or if I do, I only skim through it for the pictures. We have stayed friends, more or less. I had kept a distance until...
    watchfulsoul watchfulsoul 26-30, F 13 Responses Mar 27, 2011

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    I am ready. I have been

    for quite some time. I got out of my addiction. I wanted to relapse but overcame my urges. My train of thought is much better. I can hold a conversation better than before. Except my social life has gotten worse. When I was using, I didn't care what people thought of me...
    ninerzoon ninerzoon 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 11

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    Shoes V Relationships

    I just bought my self a pair of shoes and as i was putting in the shoe laces ..... I had an idea... Relationship is like a shoe... you buy a pair of shoes that fits you... You don't buy a pair of shoes that don't hurt or feet,pinch your toes, blister your heels.. Same way with a...
    Augusttwix Augusttwix 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 14, 2013

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    I dont want the perfect guy.

    I want a guy who is in it for LOVE. I want a guy to value me and see how I am really am. I want him to come meet my parents and everyone get along well. I want him to know every side of me, and me know every side of him. I want to love and be loved. I just want a guy who i can...
    KenzR KenzR 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    Ok I was wit my ex fiancé

    for 6 years he was horrible to me both verbally and physically n I think I allowed it to go on do so long because I watched my mom go through the same thing and still stayed with my dad. I'm now with a new guy who I've been friends wit for years he's the ideal mAn I can see...
    ilovemychuckie ilovemychuckie 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 13

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    So i had a boyfriend of three years

    and we recently split up about 4 months ago... Its been rough and i am very much in love with him still. We have recently been talking again and slowly building up a close friendship in hope i can be with him again.. But theres one Problem! In the time we broke up i had slept...
    sim03 sim03 18-21 4 Responses Feb 26

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    I'm not sure I'm ready

    for a relationship because I don't trust and the type of guys I like are extinct smart, cute, respectful, caring and, funny
    brooke2468 brooke2468 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    While on ask.fm, I stumbled across an

    interesting post. It was by a girl---a girl I didn't really know, and, frankly, didn't really care about---but what she said really got me. The question was "What kind of relationship do you want?" And her response was chillingly cliche. She went through the motions. She wants...
    babyrhinos babyrhinos 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Anyone with good relationship

    or brake up advice please mail me:(
    chloe103 chloe103 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 24

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    God I wish I had someone to cuddle

    when I was sad and kiss and love. But no one wants to be with me who would want to? With my extensive medical history self harm and bipolar :(
    IzzyFizzy IzzyFizzy 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 2

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    Maybe someday, I will find someone

    that will love me so much, more then anything but right now, I will reflect on myself
    freespiritgal2777 freespiritgal2777 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 28

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    Watching Tyler Perry's Temptation.

    The guy she's married to: what I'm afraid of ending up with. The other guy, what I want. Lol...!!!
    mrvitous26 mrvitous26 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 7

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    Him<3:(

    I've known this guy for a couple years now. He's been a great friend to me all this time.We've dated on and off in the past, and he's the only guy who stuck around that I really care for and keep in touch with. He was my first kiss and knows everything about me. He knows how...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 4, 2012

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    With just anyone as it need not be sexual.

    Just a friend would be great with whom I could do things and feel truly confident in.
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Feb 12

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    Is Love Worth The Gamble?

    Some 20 months back,I fell in love for the very first time with a person who I then believed was the most wonderful man in the world. We loved each other,had our little fights over stupid things but always came together within no time. Three months ago,my prince charming found...
    infleshandblood infleshandblood 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    I feel like something is wrong with me

    or something because it seems like I'm "un-want-able." What's wrong with me that no one likes me?
    ALollie ALollie 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Seriously considering ending my long term

    relationship. He is a great dad and person watchbut ive been feeling like we out grew eachother. I ve never ended a relationship in the past... They all fizzeled out. Im not sure what to do. I just wish I could be 100 per cent sure. Help!
    melixx melixx 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I want a relationship with a guy I can trust

    and not have to hide from. Someone who will love me for me and not treat me like crap. Sometimes i get tired of loving someone because it's always Always!! Me who gets his heart broken. I always thought I would find that dream guy but I guess dreams are in your head for a reason...
    patric5678 patric5678 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    Does anyone else just want to smother their

    boyfriend with a pillow while he is sleeping? I get this urge sometimes. I love him. I want to marry him. But I get random thoughts to stab him in his sleep or to kick him when his back is turned. He's not the most amazing person and neither am I as we both have serious work to...
    veroplane veroplane 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2013

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    If you ask your partner not to do something

    and they do anyway. Does this imply that your word doesn't matter to them or that they just don't care. Or is it more? Because I feel underminded and unappreciated. I feel like everything I say doesn't count. It goes in one ear and out the other. Double standards for sure...
    sunshine319 sunshine319 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    It has been about two years

    since I have broken up with my long term boyfriend. I have used that time to focus on me by finishing school, getting a job, and just enjoying life. I have waited a long time and am looking to start a serious relationship. I work full time so I don't normally go out during the...
    thelightbehindyoureyes thelightbehindyoureyes 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    Why can't I just walk away.

    .. Why is it so hard to let go. I've never been like this or felt like this... But I'm drowning
    becks2378 becks2378 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    Being a girlfriend is not just about being

    pretty and attractive for your guy. It's not just about letting him chase you, letting him do sweet things every time you're mad at him and not just receiving flowers and gifts during your anniversary. It's not about doing those girly things to get his attention and not just...
    carissamae carissamae 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 27

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