I Wish I Was More Self Confident

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    I wish I was the girl

    who would go up to another girl and ask her out. But I just wait to see if she likes me and would approach me.
    myswagtho79 myswagtho79
    18-21, F
    Jan 14, 2015

    A year and a half ago i was 300lbs.

    I have since lost 108lbs. The issue with that is my mind is still so wrapped up in being so big. I can't even take my shirt off when I swim. Still have a hard time talking to women due to thinking they don't want to talk to "that fat kid". Just wish I could shake this emotional...
    goofygoober1422 goofygoober1422
    22-25, M
    Jun 19, 2015

    Am I the only one that feels like the ugly girl

    in their friend group. Most of my closest friends are kinda short, skinny, pretty and hace great style and rockin bodies, then there's me i'm tal hace a thick body fat and have huge thighs and legs and guy never lay an eye ok me cause I hace some gorgeous friends anyine feel...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 21, 2014

    I don't always care for what people think

    because it's my life Nd I gotta be happy with myself before I can expect anyone else to be. But I'm that girl that's shy to go up to a guy or don't think I'm good enough. Theirs days I look in the mirror Nd feel completely ugly Nd days I feel beautiful. When you have friends...
    BlueMoonx BlueMoonx
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 19, 2014

    A Paranoid Android

    I was told today that I lack the confidence to speak for myself and i think it may be true. There is a lot of things about me that I wish i could change about myself. My physical appearance, my personality you get the idea. But i think the one thing that i wish i could change...
    ParanoidAndroid18 ParanoidAndroid18
    18-21, M
    Oct 3, 2013
    datcat83 datcat83
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Jun 19, 2014

    i think lack of confidence is the reason of all

    of my suffering, the problems i get it, and being a socially awkward introvert,and with other kids at college, i feel so messy, i wish i was more confident..
    Jessikaulitz Jessikaulitz
    18-21
    1 Response Mar 18
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