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I Wish I Wasnt So Insecure

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    My boyfriend told me last night

    that he thinks Cheryl Cold is hotter than me. I wish I wasn't so insecure for this to bother me. I don't really care about celebrity crushes, I know who my bf likes and dislikes but I don't need to know that he thinks they're hotter than me. Especially a celebrity I don't...
    Ceallsach Ceallsach 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    TheColorfulDino TheColorfulDino 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    I'm a very insecure and jealous person. I wish I could change it but I don't know how. It's that bad it really affects me and the people around me I let it rule my whole life :( I...
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    I am so insecure about everything. My body is a small worry but mainly it's while I talk to friends online. I start questioning whether I've said something wrong or why I can't...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 9

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    I don't believe anyone who knows me believes it but.. I'm like the most insecure person. I might always appear good, full of life and smiling. Maybe sometimes a little bossy, yet...
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    I have been insecure for most of my life. It sucks. I thought that it would be gone by now, but it's not. I am insecure about my weight for sure. Insecure about when people...
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    I hate this feeling of being insecure. I think my boyfriend infected me with his insecurities. When I first met my boyfriend, he was the one who's clingy, overly jealous (even...
    akeginu akeginu 31-35, F Aug 22

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    I dont want to sound like a typical dramatic teen but i wish sometimes that i wasnt here. Like me being put on earth was a mistake. When im alone i feel so amazing i love my own...
    Alwaysfalling Alwaysfalling 16-17, F Aug 20

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    Most days im insecure, but it would be rarely a day that I am a little confident but then someone knocks down the confidence and I am back to insecure
    Cherishmiracles Cherishmiracles 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    Why make me feel insecure about myself for gaining 7 pounds? I never thought 129 pounds pounds was fat until now because of the comments I'm getting. Yes I know they are just...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F Sep 8

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    I've felt insecure for as long as I can remember. I grew up as the only kid in a wheelchair in my little town which was tough cos I always felt like an outsider. I always felt...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    The thing is...Im not insecure about my weight or anything...I am kinda insecure about that stuff but my biggest insecurity comes from the things I say.....What if I say something...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    Pizzapaul Pizzapaul 18-21, M Sep 7

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    I get so easily insecure about people and their intentions. I'm the girl who constantly seek compliments and appreciation. However giving me a compliment, even though you mean it...
    Lindadk Lindadk 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    They say shake what your momma gave you. Well she didnt give me much. My mom has the curves but she didn't pass much of her DNA down to me. I envy her hourglass shape.I saw this...
    CheyenneScott CheyenneScott 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 30

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    ...but my father is a coward. He made mistakes as we all do, but instead of trying his best to protect his own from these mistakes, he blamed the very ones that loved him. He has...
    PricelessLegacy PricelessLegacy 31-35, F Sep 7

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    As if I am not already insecure about my appearance my husband just recently told me that the spark is gone and isn't as attracted to me as he used to be when we first met, that...
    Gonzales96 Gonzales96 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I am the most insecure person yet semi confident some days if that makes sense
    Cherishmiracles Cherishmiracles 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    I'm super insecure when it comes to guys.. I have a super close group of friends and they're all girls. So in effect of that I don't really talk to a lot of guys and I'm really shy...
    Sd6752 Sd6752 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    I was unpopular as a child. I was always told to 'be myself' and was isolated and bullied because of it. I've had to put on the 'mask' of someone who shoots back and forth between...
    Almostanonymous Almostanonymous 22-25, M 4 Responses Aug 31

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    I hate my body, the way I look, my personality seems to suck(since I can't make good friends with anyone). Everything's all wrong, and I don't know what to do. I noticed a cycle...
    DarkGoddesss DarkGoddesss 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    I'm so insecure about my boyfriends ex's.. The more i slate them to him to try and make me feel better the more i push him away! He's not a pro at reassurance!
    lollypop61 lollypop61 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    A few times when I went past a group of girls they went "eww" or something similar. That's just for minding my own business, not looking or talking to anyone. Other than that, no...
    Nixed Nixed 31-35, M Sep 8

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    I feel insecure. I feel like whenever I do something, someone will see me and use it against me. I don't want to feel like that. I get scared when in sitting in the car, I feel...
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    I have this boyfriend that I've been smothering for three years now; he's taken it all though. But in doing the smothering, head over heals, psychotic, insecure ****, I lost myself...
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    Help me :( how do I teach myself that he will still love me and want me over other girls. I can't not look at every girl I see and think what if he would rather her. does it...
    laura0101 laura0101 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    I've become a lot less insecure, but I still am. My friend found out I am and he still seems shocked. He said I just seemed like pure confidence. When you first meet me I usually...
    katd1234 katd1234 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I have never really been insecure when it came to what others thought of me. The only opinion that matters to me is my own, and no matter how many compliments I receive, I don't...
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    desirabledreams desirabledreams 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    Well like mentioned in the head line, I wish for it. Really. Maybe I have some brother complex. Despite I want to write about it, it is hard for me - so excuse the poor language. I...
    seshin seshin 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    can't wish for all the money in the world.can't wish to "be happy"something not the usual cookie cutter materialistic answersWhat would your wishes be???
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    I wish my ill-wishers the worst I can manage, and I''m not going to feel bad for it. I hope that they will meet with a paralyzing car accident, bankruptcy, breakups and divorce...
    Tomtarin Tomtarin 18-21 1 Response Aug 24

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    I wish they could understand that just a 6 minute phone call would have made the world of difference to me. That's all it takes, just to hear that voice. Even if it's only for a...
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    winterfall winterfall 36-40 Sep 2

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    My name is Gabriel. I shall start from my first friend. His name was Alex. Unlike the other kids in kinder he didn't judge me based on how I dressed or even on how I refused to let...
    GARLITH GARLITH 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 4

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