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I Wish I Wasnt So Insecure

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    I always feel like one day you'll see me like I

    see me and you'll leave me like everyone else has
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2014

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    Everyone thinks I'm this confident strong woman

    but deep inside, but I'm so insecure because of my relationship. My husband has had a past of cheating and flirting with random girls. I've forgiven him, don't know why. But I did. But now I always think he's doing something sneaky. I don't believe his promises anymore. So I...
    UnfortunateCookie UnfortunateCookie 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    Ive been an insecure person basically all my

    life. It's horrible how insecure I've been. I've been working on it and I think I'm getting better but I still have a long way to go I think
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 24, 2014

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    My boyfriend told me last night

    that he thinks Cheryl Cold is hotter than me. I wish I wasn't so insecure for this to bother me. I don't really care about celebrity crushes, I know who my bf likes and dislikes but I don't need to know that he thinks they're hotter than me. Especially a celebrity I don't...
    Ceallsach Ceallsach 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 11, 2014

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    I'm starting to become so freakin insecure about my boobs. they're so large. I just I don't know... I rarely felt insecure about them, not in this way at least. until I got a bra...
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    It's rare that I'm insecure. However one thing that I am insecure about is when me and a female friend would link arms while walking in public or holding hands. Or put their arm...
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    For as long as I can remember I have always put myself down on my appearance and my earliest memory was when my mom got me a new dress when I was 4 and she told me I was pretty and...
    theultimatesashacourtney theultimatesashacourtney 13-15, F Dec 25, 2014

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    It seems everything I see in the mirror is ugly. Somedays it's all I can think about. I've always had self esteem issues. I've been battling an eating disorder for over half my...
    tormentedinternally tormentedinternally 26-30, M Jan 7

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    Nowadays some times girls cake soo much make up on their face its ridiculous. Sometimes I feel insecure because I don't have what they do but then again I'm all natural I guess you...
    Amethyst09 Amethyst09 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm not a physically attractive person. Every day I get up look in the mirror and wish I had a different face.
    p0tat07 p0tat07 16-17, M 21 hrs ago

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    I wish that i can go back through time so I don't do some fatal mistakes
    jasonwwijaya jasonwwijaya 16-17, M 10 hrs ago

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    I still resent my father and stepfather for never taking an interest in me. I wish they knew how badly they ruined me for men. Being rejected by both so-called father figures...
    yppirt yppirt 31-35, F 10 hrs ago

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    Christmas Day was hard for me as even though I spent it with my girls and family I wasn't with the one I love and I hardly had any contact with her and this has hurt me deeply...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    I'm feeling so insecure after the holidays. I feel like I gained 1000 pounds -.-
    natalie603 natalie603 16-17, F Dec 26, 2014

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    I am insecure about my Penis. Being 15 and going through puberty, I guess that's kinda normal. It's not the size that is the issue, it's about 5.5 inches, but how it looks. I think...
    ThatGuyOverThere116 ThatGuyOverThere116 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 1

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    I'm extremely insecure about my appearance. People who aren't, just think people who are, are looking for attention.... AND WE'RE NOT! You will never freakin understand what it's...
    Euphoricbunnymaster Euphoricbunnymaster 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 4

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    Letsq50 Letsq50 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    Agai Agai 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 8

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    ever since i got in a relationship ive just been more insecure and i know its because ive got self esteem issues but what do i do im so tired of feeling like **** again
    gudeyolk gudeyolk 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    I'm really insecure about myself. Always thinking I'm not good enough. I genuinely don't understand when someone likes me. Im not pretty or funny or fun to be around. I think I'm...
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    I know it's corny for a guy to say that, but guys never really let their emotions out, so this occasion is rare haha. I am insecure mostly about my face, height and personality, i...
    Flamee Flamee 16-17, M 4 Responses Jan 17

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    I'm so insecure I'm not even looking for a boyfriend anymore
    matttheinsomniac matttheinsomniac 16-17, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    I'm so insecure, and so afraid. I finally got physical with my boyfriend today, and when he got home to call me we didn't even talk all that much... to be honest we don't talk much...
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    torr62 torr62 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    rogi4u rogi4u 36-40, M Jan 14

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    We wish you a Merry Christmas We wish you a Merry Christmas We wish you a Merry Christmas And a Happy New Year Good tidings to you And all of your kin Good tidings for Christmas...
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 9 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    EdwardIX EdwardIX 22-25, M Jan 11

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    I wish my bf compliments me. I wish people wouldn't disrespect me just cause he doesn't eat meat and consume alcohol. I wish I had stayed with my ex who was a jerk but at least...
    dontmatter11 dontmatter11 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 13

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