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I Wish I Wasnt So Insecure

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    My boyfriend told me last night

    that he thinks Cheryl Cold is hotter than me. I wish I wasn't so insecure for this to bother me. I don't really care about celebrity crushes, I know who my bf likes and dislikes but I don't need to know that he thinks they're hotter than me. Especially a celebrity I don't...
    Ceallsach Ceallsach 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    Adaydreambeliever Adaydreambeliever 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 11

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    I hate this feeling of being insecure. I think my boyfriend infected me with his insecurities. When I first met my boyfriend, he was the one who's clingy, overly jealous (even...
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    So don't get me wrong but being single is great. You can focus on yourself, your life, and your well being. But apart of me wishes that I had a boyfriend. I know I have my whole...
    mollce mollce 16-17, F Aug 15

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    I am insecure about a lot of things. First, my arms I don't like showing my arms and I don't like looking at myself in the mirror. I keep looking down every mirror see to avoid...
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I dont want to sound like a typical dramatic teen but i wish sometimes that i wasnt here. Like me being put on earth was a mistake. When im alone i feel so amazing i love my own...
    Alwaysfalling Alwaysfalling 16-17, F a week ago

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    Most days im insecure, but it would be rarely a day that I am a little confident but then someone knocks down the confidence and I am back to insecure
    Cherishmiracles Cherishmiracles 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I usually don't but I do when It comes to wearing bikinis... I don't know why because I know I'm not like fat fat and I have a curvy body, but I hate it, I feel like me legs are to...
    kayboo44 kayboo44 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    Lets go through the list, shall we? First of all, my breasts. Their shape is what bothers me. I wish they were perky and...rounder or something. They don't look like breasts to me...
    StokesQuirky StokesQuirky 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    The thing about acne that really upsets me is that I only have it. It's like everywhere I look, everyone has nice clear skin. And believe me, I always try to stay positive and when...
    fatumata22 fatumata22 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I find myself to be insecure when in a relationship.
    deepthinking12 deepthinking12 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I honestly think I'm pretty disgusting to look at haha. I've been told I'm not, but I don't really believe it. I wish my confidence was higher.
    xPrincessMia xPrincessMia 16-17, F Aug 17

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    I totally am. And I don't know why. My husband is so hot and tells me I'm pretty everyday. But I still am just insecure with myself. Which causes jealousy. Which makes me feel...
    F0REVERY0UNG23 F0REVERY0UNG23 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 28

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    As a female I have always been insecure about the way I look. I am not stick thin but I am not overweight and I know that there are a lot of other girls that would be so grateful...
    owens321bam owens321bam 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    I def belong to this group. I have really become insecure about myself. And to be honest the older I get the worse it is. I have this problem that I don't see what others see in...
    excessbaggage excessbaggage 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    Wanna talk about insecure? If I lose your trust once.... That's enough to make me paranoid. I won't believe you if you say you're being faithful when I find things I shouldn't find...
    Philli8807 Philli8807 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I Don't know Why But Lately I Have Been Feeling Really Insecure About Myself I Hate Feeling This Way Because I Have People Calling Me Beautiful & Pretty & I Don't Feel Beautiful...
    Mariee15 Mariee15 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    Everyone is insecure! The difference is how well u hide ur insecurity...
    danielstephon danielstephon 26-30, M Aug 10

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    I hear people compliment me most of the time saying I should be a model, actress, news reporter or something along the lines of that. I usually just blush and smile, but the voices...
    ThePumpkinQueen ThePumpkinQueen 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    All my life I have been insecure. I was born with spina bifida. I was the only disabled kid in my town growing up and always felt like a bit of an outsider. I've always been a bit...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M Aug 11

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    So insecure, i see a good looking girl or a couple, i get a severe anxiety attack ;(
    ipulkit ipulkit 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 13

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    I don't know if I should be confident about my body or not. I'm really insecure and rarely wear flattering clothes in public. I just don't like my body, I feel fat... And just...
    CallMeChelsea CallMeChelsea 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 13

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    I don't wear makeup or anything,although I am very insecure about my appearance:(I'm always worrying what ppl might say about the way I look..
    JaylaG57 JaylaG57 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I've been insecure for a really long time. The comments started in Middle School from people who I thought were my friends, but they would tell others that I looked like a man, too...
    strangeviolet strangeviolet 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    I'm a Filipino immigrant who just moved here in Canada. I have been residing here for a year now and I would like to express my distaste on what I am going through right now...
    johnibasco johnibasco 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 15

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    All my life i have been insecure about the way i look. I'm in a wheelchair, i have a hump on my back and i honestly just feel like a freak most of the time. I hate that i seem to...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M Aug 17

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    Insecure about a lot of things, i don't really know why haha
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I am insecure and get told that a lot by my man. Wonder why lol
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    Well I was at the pool today and I have REALLY big boobs so it looks really awkward in a swimsuit because no matter what kind of swimsuit I wear, they still look big and like they...
    BrightInspiriation BrightInspiriation 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    I'm defiantly insecure! I'm not fat- I'm average for my age. But I have always felt different, I'm quite tall and my friends are all petit and small, that sounds silly (I know most...
    lulumonta lulumonta 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    I hate it! :( im so insecure. Been praying not to be but can't control my feelings. I dont wanna feel this. I've been really bad to others due to my insecurity/jealousy. No wonder...
    pangitako pangitako 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    As if I am not already insecure about my appearance my husband just recently told me that the spark is gone and isn't as attracted to me as he used to be when we first met, that...
    Gonzales96 Gonzales96 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I am the most insecure person yet semi confident some days if that makes sense
    Cherishmiracles Cherishmiracles 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm super insecure when it comes to guys.. I have a super close group of friends and they're all girls. So in effect of that I don't really talk to a lot of guys and I'm really shy...
    Sd6752 Sd6752 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    To be beautiful... I wish to have light eyes but mine are basic dark brown. I wish I could have gorgeous hair but no i have coily nappy course hair. I wish I could have a lighter...
    zy7a zy7a 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    Someone asked me today to write what I would wish for if I had only one single wish. That is an almost impossible decision. One wish when I have so many thoughts in my head. I...
    desirabledreams desirabledreams 46-50, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    .....I could go a day without thinking of her. I wish there wasn't a void within me still. I wish that I did not wonder if she still thinks about and misses me as much as I do her...
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    Here I am again, decade has past but still having the same feelings for you. And I wish I know how to really let you go? and how to move on from my love to you? I want to know how...
    VoiceLessMe VoiceLessMe 26-30, F Jul 31

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    Every day is a burden. It is really hard to pass each second of this life that I have been needlessly dragged into. I just want it to end, quickly and painlessly. I know how to but...
    Ricky2701 Ricky2701 18-21, M Aug 3

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    I wish but not just what you have in your mind I also wish what make you smile I wish what makes you bite your lips I also wish what makes you wet I wish what makes you happy I...
    sensualromantic sensualromantic 36-40, M Aug 7

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    Some nights i don't sleep and I'm just sitting there thinking, wishing. I wish I hade one moment, one second, one minute, one hour or one day just to see her. She was everything I...
    allencam05 allencam05 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    I wish for peace of mind and heart. I wish for good health. I wish for success in all I'm a part of. I wish my children blessed happy lives and I wish to fall madly in love with a...
    SpanishRose10 SpanishRose10 31-35, F Aug 13

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    I wish all of you the very best I truly do. I wish no one felt pain, felt hurt, felt sad, felt left out, felt depressed, been backstabbed, felt lonely, cried at night, felt like no...
    cristina44 cristina44 22-25, F Jul 31

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    Sometimes... I wish to travel into time... Back, not forward.... To see my mother as she was; So vibrant, happy, full of passion and adventure.. a lover of life.. A mere specter of...
    LittleBastet9 LittleBastet9 22-25, F Aug 9

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    There so many things people wish they could change about themselves. They wish they were skinner,prettier, more handsome, richer, and had more friends. I even wish this myself...
    Idreamtowaketofindthefate Idreamtowaketofindthefate 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    To the time where I screwed up everything. So many things...I wish. I wish I could go back and say to you what I really meant. I wish I had never done some things. I wish I could...
    ImagineA ImagineA 16-17 Aug 19

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