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I Wish I Wasnt So Insecure

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    My boyfriend told me last night

    that he thinks Cheryl Cold is hotter than me. I wish I wasn't so insecure for this to bother me. I don't really care about celebrity crushes, I know who my bf likes and dislikes but I don't need to know that he thinks they're hotter than me. Especially a celebrity I don't...
    Ceallsach Ceallsach 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    autumdawnn autumdawnn 16-17, F Oct 8

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    Since the age of 13 Ive really struggled with my self esteem. I absolutely detested the way I looked, to the point where my attendance at school reached nearly 40% because I was so...
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    Because of past relationships and an eating disorder, I am very insecure, to the point where I feel like I am ruining my relationship with the love of my life. We have 13 year age...
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    I know most will say am doing this to get attention and to be honest am not.. Sadly I am very insecure . Even as a teenager I always felt ugly . As I get older the more insecure I...
    Verano93 Verano93 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 9

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    Why do women always choose to believe there is something wrong with their looks, no matter how beautiful they are? And always worry that some other woman is more physically...
    ron383 ron383 36-40, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Makeup. Something I use to cover up just how ugly I feel inside. I think that if I can over compensate on the inside maybe my insides will turn to roses and butterflies and...
    Yourbaaaby Yourbaaaby 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    First of all I want to say I don't judge anyone on appearance except for myself, I don't like how I look. I saw something yesterday that made me feel more insecure, I mean, I know...
    lamaninja lamaninja 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 1

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    i often feel dissapointed by my friends. well we are very close, but when i share something to them , they arent relaly there for me. they dont like to talk on the phone or chat...
    blahblah2789 blahblah2789 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I Wish I was a ten, or memorable or a "dream girl". Wanna be one of those girls that guys talk about an mention because they are attractive
    katstho katstho 18-21, F Oct 7

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    There's seriously not one day where I go without thinking of what I would change about myself. My looks, my attitude, even feelings. Sometimes I feel fine and other times I don't...
    Genesisandstuff Genesisandstuff 18-21, F Oct 8

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    I hate the way I look no matter what I do I feel disgusted with myself it's hard looking in the mirror when all you see is a big NOTHING I wish I could wake up and be one of the...
    helpless1994 helpless1994 18-21, F 14 hrs ago

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    I am a really insecure person, but that is the way I was brought up. I need to be stronger and welcoming. I need to open up.
    kiddishguy kiddishguy 26-30, M Sep 23

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    I feel insecure as I wonder what my boyfriend sees in me :-( I know it's down to how I've been treated in the past but I just can't shake the thoughts......
    girlfrommars2 girlfrommars2 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 24

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    I'm probably insecure more times than I'm not. I've been trying for years to figure it out and try to fix it but it's still very much a work in progress
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M Sep 26

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    I'm tired of feeling so insecure
    JusttThatGirl JusttThatGirl 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 29

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    I am incredibly insecure about my short, pixie-style hair. I fear it diminishes my appearance.
    yoshmarie yoshmarie 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 29

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    I'm very insecure because of many things and i guess the main one is relationships . boys just used me for sex and i let them do whatever and thats y i turned bi. like I'm more...
    mckenziegeddings mckenziegeddings 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 1

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    I have very bad skin, a lot of scars and other flaws that make it impossible for me to let people see me without makeup, its got to the point where I have to decline going out with...
    iinsecure iinsecure 13-15, F 3 Responses Oct 3

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    So yeah. People call me pretty once in a while (most of them girls). Nobody has called me ugly or anything like that, well at least to my face. But I just. I don't see it. I mean...
    whogivesaneff whogivesaneff 13-15, F 3 Responses Oct 9

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    I really can't look at my selfies and say that I look good. I really really do not like how I look. I know that everyone is beautiful in their own way but I'm simply just insecure...
    RebeccaMontero RebeccaMontero 22-25, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    All my life i was hurt by different females for no real reason. They broke my soul. I know im better then them. I dont even know who i am today cos all i feel is being wounded. I...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    as i re arranged the furniture in my living room today, i couldn't help but feel nostalgic. i have this wooden rocker. it's not the prettiest or the most fancy of chairs, but it...
    smokieBrie smokieBrie 46-50, F 3 Responses Oct 2

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    First wish 1. I wish I had infinite wishes 2. I wish i had infinite wishes 3. I wish I had infinite wishes
    ShawnL15 ShawnL15 18-21, M Sep 22

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    i wish i could be happy, smile all the time, have that perfect fairy tale of a life, be able to be ME most of all..... i hate having to pretend like i'm someone else in a messed up...
    BumpsInTheRoad BumpsInTheRoad 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 3

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    I just wish I could do that, but humans heart is so stubborn and you cannot make it obey. it has it's own mind and can do it's own action. I just wish I could tell my heart no to...
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    I wish, so much, that I could do something to help... I wish so much I could help ...in even the smallest way... I just want to make all the horridness' go away.... And I wish so...
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    I'm not unhappy, but I'm not happy either. I don't want to kill myself, and I look forward to a potential future, but I just feel like my life won't turn out the way I want it to...
    minnielong minnielong 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 22

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    My three wishes are... 1. Wish for more 3 wishes.
    Manuala Manuala 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 23

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    First wish- bigger boobs, I have way too much competition with the lady who has a third boob. Second wish- bigger males. These humans are so hot, I feel like melting but why are...
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    I wish.... Blackened skies.....a shooting star.... I close my eyes and wish. A new day.....another time..... My wish will not come true A broken heart....tears of pain I am...
    desirabledreams desirabledreams 46-50, F Oct 3

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    I wish that everyday I could wake up with a positive attitude and be motivated. I wish I had a lot of hobbies and was good at anything. I wish i was old enough to get a job and...
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    "She's dramatic and needs to grow up, i am sick of it" mom said. " I don't understand this depression ****, you're always crying and complaining"! Dad yelled. I remember all the...
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    Hmmm. Nice thought on the surface. Kind of useless as it's impossible. I read something once that struck me as more thoughtful. It was about a family that would wish each other...
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    It will be awesome right? I can just go everywhere :) I wish I could meet you now. I wish I could give you a surprise. And give you a big hug and a kiss on your chin.. Your lips...
    EasyOrange EasyOrange 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I wish I was less in tune with everyone's emotional states. Even if someone hurts me-I can hardly hurt them back, even if they are a lousy person, mean to me or others and I know...
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    I wish I was having a baby shower. Everyone keeps asking if I'm having one, it's kind of depressing. I'm not bothering with one this time around because my first two were a bust...
    vault101 vault101 26-30, F Sep 22

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    As much as I really want to go for the unlimited number of wishes, I think I'd actually do the following: 1) be able to play ANY instrument professionally to any song (you'd be a...
    scrtasnman13 scrtasnman13 18-21, M Sep 22

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    I wish my life was different. I wish I was more willing to put myself out there and hopefully receive some type of love from someone. Or that I could stop being jealous of my best...
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