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I Wish I Wasnt So Insecure

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    My boyfriend told me last night

    that he thinks Cheryl Cold is hotter than me. I wish I wasn't so insecure for this to bother me. I don't really care about celebrity crushes, I know who my bf likes and dislikes but I don't need to know that he thinks they're hotter than me. Especially a celebrity I don't...
    Ceallsach Ceallsach 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    TheColorfulDino TheColorfulDino 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    I want to wish my friends for Navratri.Yesterday night I was out till late at night visiting Durga Puja pandals.I also saw Goddess Kali idols being made for Dewali.Had a great time...
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    Not because the girl I liked treated me bad, not because at my previous work, people ostracized me and my team and laid us off because we weren't chatty and fake enuf like them...
    sjyul sjyul 26-30, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I'm a very insecure and jealous person. I wish I could change it but I don't know how. It's that bad it really affects me and the people around me I let it rule my whole life :( I...
    Abbierose93 Abbierose93 18-21, F Sep 2

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    Today I feel so sick and depressed. I went to school with my back hurting because of my back pack. I woke up before that without no inspiration. No joy or liveliness in me. It...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F Sep 5

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    I am so insecure about everything. My body is a small worry but mainly it's while I talk to friends online. I start questioning whether I've said something wrong or why I can't...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 9

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    I don't believe anyone who knows me believes it but.. I'm like the most insecure person. I might always appear good, full of life and smiling. Maybe sometimes a little bossy, yet...
    AlpineBlossom AlpineBlossom 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 13

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    I have been insecure for most of my life. It sucks. I thought that it would be gone by now, but it's not. I am insecure about my weight for sure. Insecure about when people...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 18

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    Why make me feel insecure about myself for gaining 7 pounds? I never thought 129 pounds pounds was fat until now because of the comments I'm getting. Yes I know they are just...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F Sep 8

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    I've felt insecure for as long as I can remember. I grew up as the only kid in a wheelchair in my little town which was tough cos I always felt like an outsider. I always felt...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M Sep 13

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    The thing is...Im not insecure about my weight or anything...I am kinda insecure about that stuff but my biggest insecurity comes from the things I say.....What if I say something...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M Sep 14

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    I wish I was in great shape able to fin ironman
    Pizzapaul Pizzapaul 18-21, M Sep 7

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    I get so easily insecure about people and their intentions. I'm the girl who constantly seek compliments and appreciation. However giving me a compliment, even though you mean it...
    Lindadk Lindadk 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    They say shake what your momma gave you. Well she didnt give me much. My mom has the curves but she didn't pass much of her DNA down to me. I envy her hourglass shape.I saw this...
    CheyenneScott CheyenneScott 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 30

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    ...but my father is a coward. He made mistakes as we all do, but instead of trying his best to protect his own from these mistakes, he blamed the very ones that loved him. He has...
    PricelessLegacy PricelessLegacy 31-35, F Sep 7

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    I was unpopular as a child. I was always told to 'be myself' and was isolated and bullied because of it. I've had to put on the 'mask' of someone who shoots back and forth between...
    Almostanonymous Almostanonymous 22-25, M 4 Responses Aug 31

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    I hate my body, the way I look, my personality seems to suck(since I can't make good friends with anyone). Everything's all wrong, and I don't know what to do. I noticed a cycle...
    DarkGoddesss DarkGoddesss 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    I'm so insecure about my boyfriends ex's.. The more i slate them to him to try and make me feel better the more i push him away! He's not a pro at reassurance!
    lollypop61 lollypop61 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    A few times when I went past a group of girls they went "eww" or something similar. That's just for minding my own business, not looking or talking to anyone. Other than that, no...
    Nixed Nixed 31-35, M Sep 8

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    I feel insecure. I feel like whenever I do something, someone will see me and use it against me. I don't want to feel like that. I get scared when in sitting in the car, I feel...
    jonho10 jonho10 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 10

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    I have this boyfriend that I've been smothering for three years now; he's taken it all though. But in doing the smothering, head over heals, psychotic, insecure ****, I lost myself...
    lunaern lunaern 22-25, M Sep 10

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    Help me :( how do I teach myself that he will still love me and want me over other girls. I can't not look at every girl I see and think what if he would rather her. does it...
    laura0101 laura0101 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    I've become a lot less insecure, but I still am. My friend found out I am and he still seems shocked. He said I just seemed like pure confidence. When you first meet me I usually...
    katd1234 katd1234 13-15, F Sep 13

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    I have never really been insecure when it came to what others thought of me. The only opinion that matters to me is my own, and no matter how many compliments I receive, I don't...
    lookingtovent lookingtovent 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 17

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    I am a really insecure person, but that is the way I was brought up. I need to be stronger and welcoming. I need to open up.
    kiddishguy kiddishguy 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    I feel insecure as I wonder what my boyfriend sees in me :-( I know it's down to how I've been treated in the past but I just can't shake the thoughts......
    girlfrommars2 girlfrommars2 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm probably insecure more times than I'm not. I've been trying for years to figure it out and try to fix it but it's still very much a work in progress
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    I'm tired of feeling so insecure
    JusttThatGirl JusttThatGirl 16-17, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    I am incredibly insecure about my short, pixie-style hair. I fear it diminishes my appearance.
    yoshmarie yoshmarie 16-17, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    First wish 1. I wish I had infinite wishes 2. I wish i had infinite wishes 3. I wish I had infinite wishes
    ReconTheGamer ReconTheGamer 13-15, M a week ago

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    I wish I hadn't dated the same guy through high school and college so that I could have had more experience with people and know better what kind of characteristics I wanted in a...
    eliza0220 eliza0220 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I wish I could stop inviting evil into my life.I wish this pain could be more bitter and less sweet.I feel like I'm caught in a delicious chocolate-like loop of fear and disaster...
    banquet banquet 18-21 Aug 31

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    Despite being told not to, my wishes generally are centered around making someone else's life better. Wishing for their successes because they so much need a win. Convinced myself...
    S74rxed S74rxed 31-35, F Sep 8

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    I'll drown under water when taking a bath. I'll trip while walking and hit my head on the concrete pavement, instant death. I wish when I walk on the street some car will run over...
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    I know everyone looks different and there are many forms of beauty, but sometimes I wish I was more breathtaking and stunning. I mean yeah I have the plump ***, the petite size...
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    My three wishes would be: 1.) That the genie is Robin Williams and he has to sing, "A Friend Like Me." 2.) That I would have the power to repel stupid people just by looking at...
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    I'm not unhappy, but I'm not happy either. I don't want to kill myself, and I look forward to a potential future, but I just feel like my life won't turn out the way I want it to...
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    My three wishes are... 1. Wish for more 3 wishes.
    Manuala Manuala 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    First wish- bigger boobs, I have way too much competition with the lady who has a third boob. Second wish- bigger males. These humans are so hot, I feel like melting but why are...
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    Its just like standing on the edge of the cliff, your favourite thing swinging to and fro in front of your eyes but you can’t hold. .Its a dilemma of life. You want with every...
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    My name is Gabriel. I shall start from my first friend. His name was Alex. Unlike the other kids in kinder he didn't judge me based on how I dressed or even on how I refused to let...
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