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I Wish Love Was Not So Complicated

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    So Confused. Wish It Was Like Pulling Petals From A Flower. Then At Least I Would Know

    wishes there were words to describe how i feel. if u saw all the tears and the hurt hidden behind my eyes. you would understand...Sometimes it feels like I just don't matter, and it hurts most when that special person makes me feel like that..i may not look hurt on the outside...
    maeevan maeevan 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 27, 2011

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    Why Can't It Be Fair???

    BJ BJ BJ BJ!  She's always gotta be talking to BJ!  Fine, he makes her happy!  Whatever!  Why can't she think of someone besides herself?  Hmm...I wonder who...maybe ME?  Yeah, she says I deserve happiness...so why doesn't she GIVE ME SOME FOR CRYING...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 20 Responses Nov 11, 2008

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    People Leaving

    Watching people leave is hard. But it’s harder remembering that time when they said and promised they wouldn’t.
    cheeco cheeco 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 4, 2012

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    Small Part Of Me Is Secretly Waiting...

    Death is nothing at all. I have only slipped away into the next room. I am I and you are you. Whatever we were to each other, that we are still. Call me by my old familiar name, speak to me in the easy way which you always used. Put no difference into your tone; wear no false...
    cheeco cheeco 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 9, 2012

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    Before & After

    BEFORE - You take my breath away AFTER - I feel like I'm suffocating. BEFORE - Twice a night AFTER - Twice a month. BEFORE - She says she loves the way I take control of a situation AFTER - She called me a controlling, manipulative egomaniac. BEFORE - Saturday Night Fever...
    cheeco cheeco 26-30, F 2 Responses May 12, 2012

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    Over Thinking Options

    Complicated would be an understatement. I'm here, he's there. Other people to be considered. Responsibilities, obligations, promises made. Then add in my own foibles. That takes a little while to tally them up. Not lest being I haven't quite figured out why exactly I'm supposed...
    Toby2day Toby2day 51-55, F 10 Responses Nov 12, 2008

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    Priceless

    Love is a souvenir, ppl need to invest for that if they can't afford it.
    cheeco cheeco 26-30, F Mar 22, 2012

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    Love, Life, and the Pursuit of Misery!

    I fell in love with a man 8 years ago.  We had a wonderful life and thought that we were going to live together forever.  then Last year I was diagnosed with depressive disorder after an accident involving our child.  With out really expecting the worst I...
    teddybear2407 teddybear2407 21-25, F Feb 17, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I wish I wasn't always feeling like someone less than equal. I wish I was out of the relationship I am in now, and in a relationship with a person who could love me for me. When I...
    Momma1985 Momma1985 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I wish I was pretty, I wish I was skinny, I wish guys would think wow she's pretty or at least think I'm average. I hate myself I just want to be pretty. Is that so hard
    lovemelovexox lovemelovexox 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    Ever since the longest time I can remember I always wanted to be a bit more feminine, and I never knew why. Even as a child I felt like something was missing, and I couldn't figure...
    rambutanskate rambutanskate 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    Oh boy, where do I start. I hate myself and my life, and I often cry. My dad is successful and has big dreams about me continuing his business. But not only can I not excel in...
    Shket Shket 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 25

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    I really wish I was a boy!!! I'm mean my mom and aunt say I should dress and act more like a girl!! I don't want too!! It's to much work!!! And they always say I'm going to be...
    FighterWolf FighterWolf 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I really wish I was the kind of girl guys fell for. But I'm just me. And that's ok. I I wish guys liked me, but I like me and that's what matters :)
    tonib123 tonib123 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    Sometimes I wish I was someone else. I'll get an urge to be a completely different person. I really should love me for me, but I really hate me sometimes. My emotions get the...
    UniqueFemale UniqueFemale 22-25, F Jul 5

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    I'm 36....told I'm "pretty". Yet I'm alone...in all facets, well except for a dog, and now 1 cat. I don't have the guts or the means to kill myself...I'm afraid I'd fail, and then...
    justmeandmydog78 justmeandmydog78 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I always wished I was pretty and skinny. I always been the chubby girl. I wish wouldn't compare myself to other girls, but at times. I just feel so gross.
    Idreamtowaketofindthefate Idreamtowaketofindthefate 18-21, F a week ago

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    I wish I was little so I can have a good time and before my parents divorced. I had a lot more fun then but since they did divorced when I was little I had to mature. I just want...
    FighterWolf FighterWolf 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    I wish I was normal like i was before. It feels like i won't ever be normal. What makes you abnormal?
    oxLalaxo oxLalaxo 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I wish I was. So that I could run and hide when I need to. get away from the constant fighting the judging to get away and just have everyone not know me anymore like I was never...
    milichja milichja 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    Telling your crushes directly that you like them. I wish I was little again.
    Uxio Uxio 18-21, M Jun 23

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    My sisters are pretty😒 wish i was too
    hinichele hinichele 13-15, F Jul 4

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    I wish I was beautiful and fit the list of what makes girls pretty. But even if I had everything on the list, someone would find a way to make me ugly. Who relates?
    DepressedButWellDressed DepressedButWellDressed 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    I wish I was one of those girls where everyone wanted to be me, where I could walk into a store and everyone would think "holy crap, she's beautiful" where guys would think about...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I wish I was 6 again.. I didn't have to worry about anything....
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    Guys are so emotionless they don't care they don't give a **** if they broke a girls heart and girls are always so emotional they feel like dying every night waiting for someone to...
    elissahindoyan elissahindoyan 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I really do wish i was more motivated but after several failed attempts to find work..wow My motivation is no more..application after application..denial after denial.
    strawberry38 strawberry38 36-40, F 3 days ago

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    I do... For you I wish I was more than what I am now because I know I can never be what you truly want and I am so scared you'll leave me for someone for actually deserves you...
    KawaiiMushmew KawaiiMushmew 13-15, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    if i was able to see my younger self this is what i would say . If I were to go back to my younger self let's say the age of 12. I would tell him the following things . " younger...
    Aniceguyforyou Aniceguyforyou 18-21, M Jul 6

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    Don't wish you were rich wish you had an opportunity to make you rich by the effort you put in N if you wish that your wish is coming true if you message me I know of an...
    rosiebloom rosiebloom 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I wish I could hide my emotions better sometimes or at least be more in control of them..Especially when it comes to certain people,I wish I could show them "I made it!!" "I don't...
    seeminglypossible seeminglypossible 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    It sucks that ill never get married, have kids or fall in love because im so ugly , i wish people could see past that , i vow to never have kids and curse them with my ugly genes...
    sorrybouttheugly sorrybouttheugly 16-17 2 Responses Jul 6

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    Because I had always felt that way... I love fashion, I love to wear girly colourful clothes, acting pretty and being cute. I was born a boy, but I believe I always had a girl in...
    BabyDoll90 BabyDoll90 22-25 Jul 8

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    I always wished I could be someone else. I always figured someone else had it easier. Someone else has it better. Someone else has more to offer, more to give, more to live... I...
    Shoutittotheworld23 Shoutittotheworld23 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    I've always loved everything about girls/women I wished I'd been born a girl. I remember in school on picture day the girls aways wore such pretty dresses I so wanted to ware one...
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T 3 Responses Jul 6

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    The last few days I been reading blogs about how people say, "I wish I can tell him I miss him/her" "I wish I can talk to him/her" just makes me feel so sad that I never get...
    MyStruggleIsMyself MyStruggleIsMyself 31-35, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Well mostly everything I post upsets people to the 10th degree even though all I'm trying to do is share my honest concerns. It sure isn't easy being me, but I'm not 1 to complain...
    Sebastianblack Sebastianblack 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    You're a proper boy; I didn't do things like you. You stand tall and straight; I cower over and tilt my head. You have no problem with attention; I didn't want to be seen...
    Shoutittotheworld23 Shoutittotheworld23 26-30, M 2 Responses Jun 28

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    My boyfriend and I have been together a few years and he keeps talking about "when we have kids" and about how much he'd love our son or daughter. Unfortunately, he doesn't want to...
    TeamFreeWill TeamFreeWill 18-21, F a week ago

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    I wish this because anxiety is an emotion and I feel like I'm stuck in this emotion and can't leave it, i've had it for 3 years it's got good and bad but right now it's terrible...
    fashionanxiety fashionanxiety 16-17, F Jun 24

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    After having gone through life on earth for 2 decades now, I've realised how cruel the world can be and how messed up some people are. I no longer see anyone as my friend and...
    outtamymindz outtamymindz 18-21, F Jun 25

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    That first real relationship you have that you wish you can have forever 😒🙈😕
    Richesss Richesss 16-17, F Jun 28

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    It is difficult to live day by day when life is a perpetual downfall. I try to stay positive, but life is no good. I have never known true happiness, and fear I never will. I am...
    Wednesdayschild15 Wednesdayschild15 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    I really hate my life. While all of my friends and my parent's friends' sons and daughters are making good income, have an awesome girlfriend/wife, good education, and money. On...
    whyamiliving whyamiliving 22-25 Jun 29

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    I'm a fairly athletic girl and a cheerleader, and to be honest, I get many compliments on my body, but I still don't like it. I wish I had smaller thighs and a more curvy body. I...
    Vanessairie Vanessairie 22-25, F Jul 3

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    If you ask anyone around me they might describe me as a smart ***, pessimist, or motherly. And that nearly sums me up. It's unintentional though. I use my sarcasm as a defense...
    CassieWithAnO CassieWithAnO 13-15, F Jul 12

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    I wish I had the steel to slit my own throat.
    WinterSkyout WinterSkyout 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago