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I Wish More Women Would Love Themselves

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 468 People

    From A Guy's Perspective

    I have so many female friends (mostly here on EP) that have such a negative image of themselves.  They see themselves as unloveable or unattractive or not worthy of being desired intimately.  My heart goes out to all of them.  Frankly, some of these women are very desirable...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 5, 2011

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    It Frustrates Men

    I really wish more women would love themselves. Really!It is one of the most frustrating things I had to deal with when I was dating.  Women with low self-esteem.  It is was huge drain on me and a bigger drain on the possibilities of a relationship.  While I am supportive of...
    KingofSwords KingofSwords 56-60, M 4 Responses Oct 24, 2011

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    Love One Another...Love Yourself.

    I was working a twelve hour shift in an ER a couple of years ago, and it was extremely busy.  The kind of day where you don't have time to eat, use the restroom, or sit for even a second.  Paperwork was piling up on my desk, the nurse interuppted every 5 minutes with a...
    cedricsmom cedricsmom 36-40, F 2 Responses May 26, 2010

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    VendettA12 VendettA12 31-35, M 6 Responses Apr 6, 2009

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    Spectrum Extremes

    I couldn't agree with the title of this group more.  Kudo's to Ms.Valentine for making it.  You could say it for both men and women, but women do tend to have the problem more often.  I get to a point with my girlfriends where I can't tolerate trash talk about...
    Krypton Krypton 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2008

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    Yes I Wish This Too!

    Because then it would make the lady strong and independent, and then a fantastic mate to enjoy her healthy mind as well as body! I know most men beat women's self esteem down, but I love to build it up and that makes her super sexy then to me!
    wjk1849 wjk1849 46-50, M Apr 20, 2013

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    But I Understand It Can Be Difficult.

     Like a lot of other people, I'm hardest on myself. I think we all just need to give ourselves a little slack sometimes. No one's perfect, but we expect ourselves to be. When it comes to body image, especially, more women should take on the sentiments of Eve's Rib, an...
    Jenniedvm Jenniedvm 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 6, 2008

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    And No Snickering, This Is Serious!

    Girls, "IGNORE ALIEN DISORDER!" You are all beautiful.  You may have things bother you about yourself, but don't use that as an excuse to hate your being.  All this glamour/makeup/fashion - it's all supposed to be FUN.  DON'T TAKE ...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 14, 2009

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    A lot if not most women aren't happy with their

    weight or boob, butt, hips size. They may not realize it, but the reason they aren't happy is because they compare themselves subconsciously to the "perfect" women the see on tv. You think women in the cave man days gave a flying sh*t what they looked like? Course not because...
    ADeepPerspective ADeepPerspective 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 12, 2014

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    Oh, Ma Cherie...

    Somehow, the wonderful longing of hapless romantics like myself is totally lost on these girls.   - "OUCH!"  - "Oh, the wondrous poetry of nature: that it's most beautiful creation is covered in thorns.  My attempts to grasp it are repelled...
    Honir Honir 26-30, M 5 Responses Apr 5, 2009

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    Women Need to Love Themselves

    Alot of people look down on us exspecially men cause they think we are the weaker sex but lets prove them wrong.
    kime kime 16-17, F Dec 6, 2008

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    Empowering Young Females

    If you are a young woman I have some wisdom to share with you. You are unique and awesome! There is nobody on the planet whom is exactly like you. You are one of a kind. You have traits and talents and gifts that are yours to share with the world. You are a precious gift from...
    gumshoejane2 gumshoejane2 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 1, 2011

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    Be-you-tiful....

    In this story, I want you to tell me a 'positive'. I know it says 'women' in the title, but I want anyone to respond....men and women alike.... Tell me something you love about yourself. One thing, or many, it doesn't matter....just tell me something you love about yourself...
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 41-45, F 22 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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    Why Not

    We are strong, powerful and confident or atleast we should be.All that is takes is the right attitude or am I just niave.I do not think so. I love me and am going to start expressing it. 
    GailinDeed GailinDeed 31-35, F 8 Responses Jan 15, 2010

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    I Really Wish They Would

    There are so many beautiful women in the world and so many don't see that in themselves. It seems to be a steadily growing epidemic and it's heartbreaking. There are men too that don't love themselves. I know because I was one of them. Maybe the world would be a better place if...
    Tummie Tummie 26-30, M 28 Responses Jul 27, 2010

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    I Think...

    I think people in general should love themselves more.
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M Dec 6, 2008

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    How To Gain Weight

    any ideas about how to gain weight? what to eat and what kind of exercise to do at home???
    foufame foufame 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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    Changing The Way We Think To Change The Way The Way We Feel

    I do also wish women would love themselves. I see so many beautiful women who don't like themselves for whatever reason it could be the way they look, how many men they have been with, or a complex developed a child for some reason. Here are two real life examples one is my own...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 15, 2011

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    Love Thyself

    I believe everyone should love themselves for who they are, not what they are - not just women. I know it's difficult, but we all have to find the inner strength to accept ourselves. Easier said than done considering the fact that we live in a society that puts a strong emphasis...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Jul 20, 2011

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    Don't Forget To Be Yourself

    It breaks my heart when I hear that my girlfriends either wish that they were more beautiful or could lose a few pounds... And they're only in their teenage years. I don't know who or what is putting this idea of "I need to be pretty to be happy" into their heads. Maybe it's a...
    Valintine07 Valintine07 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 8, 2011

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    You Are More Attractive Than You Think.

    Hello women of the world, I am a bisexual who has had long relationships with a couple women, and short ones as well, and wanted to share a few thoughts with you. Some women blame men for the pressure they feel to wear sexy clothes, wear makeup, lose weight, color their...
    bunchopanties bunchopanties 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 30, 2009

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    You Want To Know What Would Make My Life Easier?

    if you could take a ******* compliment without suspecting I was lying, trying to get laid or severely delusional and crazy. If I could just be NICE to you without your prism of self loathing telling you I must be a loser if i think you're special. Because you ARe special. If I...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 1 Response May 27, 2012

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    Myself Included....

    I think women need to be kinder to each other. I can't tell you how many women I've met that have some sort of horrible complex about some fault that doesn't even exist, that all stemmed from something that some other woman said to them or about them.
    explainit2me explainit2me 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 30, 2011

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    I want to taste a girl. Would love to feel my **** rubbing against hers
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    I'm a nice guy, I am way above average intelligence, women tell me that I'm good looking, but when they find out that I'm on disability for major depressive disorder and ptsd they...
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    I love all ladies! No matter what they look like. I care about feelings and thoughts. It is beautiful when a lady can be smart.
    deets1033 deets1033 16-17, M 16 hrs ago

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    Why is it that when I want to have sex I seem to say the wrong thing to my husband or he just doesn't want to. I gave him a BJ just a few days ago and when I give him hints that I...
    URLOVED4EVA URLOVED4EVA 26-30, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    If someone would love me then definitely I'd love her back more than my life but it must be real love not just attraction or lie..,
    saysorry saysorry 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    I've been doing a lot of writing, hoping to write & publish a book & would love to get some outside opinions. (Because with friends/family, you're never sure if they're saying it's...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 days ago

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    This is strange...I feel very attracted to men sexually and romantically and it used to be more guys sexually...but now I feel like women turn me on more than men. I guess I would...
    niahhydra niahhydra 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Yeah... and I wonder what her feet would smell like?
    FeetHunter FeetHunter 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I really would like to hear about some of your best sexual experiences. Guys and girls welcome :)
    Tia1001 Tia1001 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm a weak boy curious about what you would do to me if I was there? How would you humiliate or bully me?
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 days ago

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    I wish someone loved me and wanted me. I wish I could be normal and guys would want me. I wish I had a boyfriend.
    ineedhelp122 ineedhelp122 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I'd like to wake up in the morning and have a huge belly as someone force fed me so much food the night before I'd wake up and my belly would be so huge I wouldn't be able o move I...
    DemonLugia DemonLugia 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    please I would love to go on a date. With someone older , intelligent, and brains really turn me on and then we see what happens . or just a coffee date
    Akinyim Akinyim 41-45, F Jun 21

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    I have a travel blog that accepts guest posts. Does anyone would like to share your travel tips and story on my blog?
    ldrmiracle ldrmiracle 22-25, M Jun 21

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    My version of a FWB would be the right woman with whom I could swap erotic massage.
    MarylandGent MarylandGent 56-60, M Jun 20

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    So I just had a date with a guy, and he's happened to be white. (I'm sorry for all the Asian men out there who feel like all girls are desperate for white man, but things happen...
    vi491042 vi491042 18-21, F Jun 20

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    My friend Kay was set to celebrate her 40th birthday. Her co workers where planning a surprise party for her at the local country club. It was my job to get her to the country...
    bigzack bigzack 41-45, M Jun 18

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    My friend Kay was set to celebrate her 40th birthday. Her co workers where planning a surprise party for her at the local country club. It was my job to get her to the country...
    bigzack bigzack 41-45, M Jun 18

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    I have many fantasies I would like to share with women . From wild to mild I think about various kinds. There has got to be a few ladies that share this with me , isn't there??
    CDNTalker CDNTalker 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 18

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    heyy sexy women on EP I would love it if you could inbox me ur fav position and why ;) Thanks xoxo
    youngstudsingle youngstudsingle 18-21, M Jun 17

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    Where are the Austin women? I really want to find one that wants to nurse me...
    mrsucio7 mrsucio7 31-35, M Jun 17