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I Wish More Women Would Love Themselves

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 477 People

    A lot if not most women aren't happy with their

    weight or boob, butt, hips size. They may not realize it, but the reason they aren't happy is because they compare themselves subconsciously to the "perfect" women the see on tv. You think women in the cave man days gave a flying sh*t what they looked like? Course not because...
    ADeepPerspective ADeepPerspective 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 12, 2014

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    Oh, Ma Cherie...

    Somehow, the wonderful longing of hapless romantics like myself is totally lost on these girls.   - "OUCH!"  - "Oh, the wondrous poetry of nature: that it's most beautiful creation is covered in thorns.  My attempts to grasp it are repelled...
    Honir Honir 26-30, M 5 Responses Apr 5, 2009

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    Empowering Young Females

    If you are a young woman I have some wisdom to share with you. You are unique and awesome! There is nobody on the planet whom is exactly like you. You are one of a kind. You have traits and talents and gifts that are yours to share with the world. You are a precious gift from...
    gumshoejane2 gumshoejane2 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 1, 2011

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    How To Gain Weight

    any ideas about how to gain weight? what to eat and what kind of exercise to do at home???
    foufame foufame 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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    Why Not

    We are strong, powerful and confident or atleast we should be.All that is takes is the right attitude or am I just niave.I do not think so. I love me and am going to start expressing it. 
    GailinDeed GailinDeed 31-35, F 8 Responses Jan 15, 2010

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    You Want To Know What Would Make My Life Easier?

    if you could take a ******* compliment without suspecting I was lying, trying to get laid or severely delusional and crazy. If I could just be NICE to you without your prism of self loathing telling you I must be a loser if i think you're special. Because you ARe special. If I...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 1 Response May 27, 2012

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    Don't Forget To Be Yourself

    It breaks my heart when I hear that my girlfriends either wish that they were more beautiful or could lose a few pounds... And they're only in their teenage years. I don't know who or what is putting this idea of "I need to be pretty to be happy" into their heads. Maybe it's a...
    Valintine07 Valintine07 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 8, 2011

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    Women Need to Love Themselves

    Alot of people look down on us exspecially men cause they think we are the weaker sex but lets prove them wrong.
    kime kime 16-17, F Dec 6, 2008

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    And No Snickering, This Is Serious!

    Girls, "IGNORE ALIEN DISORDER!" You are all beautiful.  You may have things bother you about yourself, but don't use that as an excuse to hate your being.  All this glamour/makeup/fashion - it's all supposed to be FUN.  DON'T TAKE ...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 14, 2009

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    It Frustrates Men

    I really wish more women would love themselves. Really!It is one of the most frustrating things I had to deal with when I was dating.  Women with low self-esteem.  It is was huge drain on me and a bigger drain on the possibilities of a relationship.  While I am supportive of...
    KingofSwords KingofSwords 56-60, M 4 Responses Oct 24, 2011

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    But I Understand It Can Be Difficult.

     Like a lot of other people, I'm hardest on myself. I think we all just need to give ourselves a little slack sometimes. No one's perfect, but we expect ourselves to be. When it comes to body image, especially, more women should take on the sentiments of Eve's Rib, an...
    Jenniedvm Jenniedvm 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 6, 2008

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    You Are More Attractive Than You Think.

    Hello women of the world, I am a bisexual who has had long relationships with a couple women, and short ones as well, and wanted to share a few thoughts with you. Some women blame men for the pressure they feel to wear sexy clothes, wear makeup, lose weight, color their...
    bunchopanties bunchopanties 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 30, 2009

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    From A Guy's Perspective

    I have so many female friends (mostly here on EP) that have such a negative image of themselves.  They see themselves as unloveable or unattractive or not worthy of being desired intimately.  My heart goes out to all of them.  Frankly, some of these women are very desirable...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 5, 2011

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    Changing The Way We Think To Change The Way The Way We Feel

    I do also wish women would love themselves. I see so many beautiful women who don't like themselves for whatever reason it could be the way they look, how many men they have been with, or a complex developed a child for some reason. Here are two real life examples one is my own...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 15, 2011

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    Myself Included....

    I think women need to be kinder to each other. I can't tell you how many women I've met that have some sort of horrible complex about some fault that doesn't even exist, that all stemmed from something that some other woman said to them or about them.
    explainit2me explainit2me 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 30, 2011

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    VendettA12 VendettA12 31-35, M 6 Responses Apr 6, 2009

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    I Think...

    I think people in general should love themselves more.
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M Dec 6, 2008

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    I Really Wish They Would

    There are so many beautiful women in the world and so many don't see that in themselves. It seems to be a steadily growing epidemic and it's heartbreaking. There are men too that don't love themselves. I know because I was one of them. Maybe the world would be a better place if...
    Tummie Tummie 26-30, M 28 Responses Jul 27, 2010

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    Love One Another...Love Yourself.

    I was working a twelve hour shift in an ER a couple of years ago, and it was extremely busy.  The kind of day where you don't have time to eat, use the restroom, or sit for even a second.  Paperwork was piling up on my desk, the nurse interuppted every 5 minutes with a...
    cedricsmom cedricsmom 36-40, F 2 Responses May 26, 2010

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    Be-you-tiful....

    In this story, I want you to tell me a 'positive'. I know it says 'women' in the title, but I want anyone to respond....men and women alike.... Tell me something you love about yourself. One thing, or many, it doesn't matter....just tell me something you love about yourself...
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 46-50, F 22 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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    Yes I Wish This Too!

    Because then it would make the lady strong and independent, and then a fantastic mate to enjoy her healthy mind as well as body! I know most men beat women's self esteem down, but I love to build it up and that makes her super sexy then to me!
    wjk1849 wjk1849 46-50, M Apr 20, 2013

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    Love Thyself

    I believe everyone should love themselves for who they are, not what they are - not just women. I know it's difficult, but we all have to find the inner strength to accept ourselves. Easier said than done considering the fact that we live in a society that puts a strong emphasis...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Jul 20, 2011

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    Spectrum Extremes

    I couldn't agree with the title of this group more.  Kudo's to Ms.Valentine for making it.  You could say it for both men and women, but women do tend to have the problem more often.  I get to a point with my girlfriends where I can't tolerate trash talk about...
    Krypton Krypton 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    i was a difficult kid and my mother says she used to had the toughest time to putting me to sleep. slightest shift of her body would make me got up and all in panic.....i still...
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    i wish more people cared on EP to be able to talk to each other rather than attack. instead of dividing people off into groups - liberals, conservative, religious, atheist - we all...
    kpl2014 kpl2014 26-30, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I think you are super sexy and would love to have you control and dominate me anyway you want
    heorme heorme 51-55, M 18 hrs ago

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    So another one of my fantasies is to be with a woman. I've already mentioned this in another story, but I thought I'd share it here. Lol. I don't label myself as straight, lesbian...
    TeraLocura TeraLocura 22-25, F 3 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Very touching tale... worth reading.. P Narayan Murthy My wife called, 'How long will you be with that newspaper? Will you come here and make your darling daughter eat her food? I...
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 51-55, F 3 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    But I cant, every time I sit down to actually write on a topic, I go blank. Like complete black out, no thoughts, no ideas and no topics. When I am travelling or moving or doing...
    bujji14 bujji14 22-25, F 22 hrs ago

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    Been thinking the last over the last few days how much I want to be tied to a bed and left there overnight. Weird or not? Perhaps. But I have wondered about it for years. I think I...
    ThePhotoMan ThePhotoMan 46-50, M 1 day ago

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    Well at last I think iv found a women that wants to tie me up she sounds like she knows what she's doing iv been a bit cheeky with her and now iv got to pay the price for that so...
    dickyboy13 dickyboy13 46-50, M 1 day ago

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    **** man, if she also likes star wars OR video games OR marvel movies, that would be like winning the lottery.
    Racecarlock Racecarlock 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    I love to find an older lady that lives close to me so we could have some fun.
    ginger38 ginger38 36-40, M 2 days ago

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    Would someone want to do it with me. I love tribbing ****.
    Amyd61 Amyd61 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    run out of reading material ;) send me some dirty stories. I wanna know what you would do to me. The more details the better
    stunningsilence stunningsilence 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I remember as a teen I slow danced with a really cute guy and at that moment, i really thought i was falling in love. He must have felt the same way. We were both shy and the...
    lpch lpch 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    My husband doesn't enjoy dancing much but I think if he tried slow dancing he might just be more open to dance lol
    0210love 0210love 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I would revel in teasing him. I would pretend I didn't know he were there. I would bend over slowly and hope my cheeks spread just enough for him to see where my skin stars to get...
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    This is a fun question and hypothetical... Favorite or comment below if you wouldn't mind making beautiful babies with me ;-)
    Mg7785 Mg7785 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    I would like to try this someday with a woman if I can.
    Alwayswet95 Alwayswet95 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    Big step forward!! I got this message from the HR department at work after telling them that I want to come to work wearing skirts and dresses. "You are fully protected by the...
    janrichards2015 janrichards2015 56-60, T 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    That would be sooo ******* awesome. Imagine having sex with oneO.O You can experience lesbian and straight sex at the same time! XD
    hinatahyuga809 hinatahyuga809 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Tribbing seems so fun & good. Wish I could have that pleasure, absolutely delicious and yummy
    kittylover98 kittylover98 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 19

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