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I Wish More Women Would Love Themselves

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    A lot if not most women aren't happy with their

    weight or boob, butt, hips size. They may not realize it, but the reason they aren't happy is because they compare themselves subconsciously to the "perfect" women the see on tv. You think women in the cave man days gave a flying sh*t what they looked like? Course not because...
    ADeepPerspective ADeepPerspective 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    Changing The Way We Think To Change The Way The Way We Feel

    I do also wish women would love themselves. I see so many beautiful women who don't like themselves for whatever reason it could be the way they look, how many men they have been with, or a complex developed a child for some reason. Here are two real life examples one is my own...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 15, 2011

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    You Want To Know What Would Make My Life Easier?

    if you could take a ******* compliment without suspecting I was lying, trying to get laid or severely delusional and crazy. If I could just be NICE to you without your prism of self loathing telling you I must be a loser if i think you're special. Because you ARe special. If I...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 1 Response May 27, 2012

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    Empowering Young Females

    If you are a young woman I have some wisdom to share with you. You are unique and awesome! There is nobody on the planet whom is exactly like you. You are one of a kind. You have traits and talents and gifts that are yours to share with the world. You are a precious gift from...
    gumshoejane2 gumshoejane2 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 1, 2011

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    It Frustrates Men

    I really wish more women would love themselves. Really!It is one of the most frustrating things I had to deal with when I was dating.  Women with low self-esteem.  It is was huge drain on me and a bigger drain on the possibilities of a relationship.  While I am supportive of...
    KingofSwords KingofSwords 56-60, M 4 Responses Oct 24, 2011

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    Love One Another...Love Yourself.

    I was working a twelve hour shift in an ER a couple of years ago, and it was extremely busy.  The kind of day where you don't have time to eat, use the restroom, or sit for even a second.  Paperwork was piling up on my desk, the nurse interuppted every 5 minutes with a...
    cedricsmom cedricsmom 36-40, F 2 Responses May 26, 2010

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    Women Need to Love Themselves

    Alot of people look down on us exspecially men cause they think we are the weaker sex but lets prove them wrong.
    kime kime 16-17, F Dec 6, 2008

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    How To Gain Weight

    any ideas about how to gain weight? what to eat and what kind of exercise to do at home???
    foufame foufame 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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    But I Understand It Can Be Difficult.

     Like a lot of other people, I'm hardest on myself. I think we all just need to give ourselves a little slack sometimes. No one's perfect, but we expect ourselves to be. When it comes to body image, especially, more women should take on the sentiments of Eve's Rib, an...
    Jenniedvm Jenniedvm 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 6, 2008

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    Spectrum Extremes

    I couldn't agree with the title of this group more.  Kudo's to Ms.Valentine for making it.  You could say it for both men and women, but women do tend to have the problem more often.  I get to a point with my girlfriends where I can't tolerate trash talk about...
    Krypton Krypton 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2008

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    I Think...

    I think people in general should love themselves more.
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M Dec 6, 2008

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    And No Snickering, This Is Serious!

    Girls, "IGNORE ALIEN DISORDER!" You are all beautiful.  You may have things bother you about yourself, but don't use that as an excuse to hate your being.  All this glamour/makeup/fashion - it's all supposed to be FUN.  DON'T TAKE ...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 14, 2009

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    Yes I Wish This Too!

    Because then it would make the lady strong and independent, and then a fantastic mate to enjoy her healthy mind as well as body! I know most men beat women's self esteem down, but I love to build it up and that makes her super sexy then to me!
    wjk1849 wjk1849 46-50, M Apr 20, 2013

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    Oh, Ma Cherie...

    Somehow, the wonderful longing of hapless romantics like myself is totally lost on these girls.   - "OUCH!"  - "Oh, the wondrous poetry of nature: that it's most beautiful creation is covered in thorns.  My attempts to grasp it are repelled...
    Honir Honir 26-30, M 5 Responses Apr 5, 2009

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    Be-you-tiful....

    In this story, I want you to tell me a 'positive'. I know it says 'women' in the title, but I want anyone to respond....men and women alike.... Tell me something you love about yourself. One thing, or many, it doesn't matter....just tell me something you love about yourself...
    Babydoll42 Babydoll42 41-45, F 29 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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    Perhaps It's Because We've Lost The Meaning Of Words?

    Isn't the problem in general, if there is a problem anyhow, that one must have a still closer look at the words that exactly define our emotions and feelings? What makes a friend, a penpal, a soulmate, a sister, a lover, a correspondence, a client, a partner, an acquintance, a...
    ValR ValR 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2010

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    I Really Wish They Would

    There are so many beautiful women in the world and so many don't see that in themselves. It seems to be a steadily growing epidemic and it's heartbreaking. There are men too that don't love themselves. I know because I was one of them. Maybe the world would be a better place if...
    Tummie Tummie 26-30, M 28 Responses Jul 27, 2010

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    You Are More Attractive Than You Think.

    Hello women of the world, I am a bisexual who has had long relationships with a couple women, and short ones as well, and wanted to share a few thoughts with you. Some women blame men for the pressure they feel to wear sexy clothes, wear makeup, lose weight, color their...
    bunchopanties bunchopanties 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 30, 2009

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    VendettA12 VendettA12 33, M 6 Responses Apr 6, 2009

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    Why Not

    We are strong, powerful and confident or atleast we should be.All that is takes is the right attitude or am I just niave.I do not think so. I love me and am going to start expressing it. 
    GailinDeed GailinDeed 31-35, F 8 Responses Jan 15, 2010

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    Myself Included....

    I think women need to be kinder to each other. I can't tell you how many women I've met that have some sort of horrible complex about some fault that doesn't even exist, that all stemmed from something that some other woman said to them or about them.
    explainit2me explainit2me 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 30, 2011

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    From A Guy's Perspective

    I have so many female friends (mostly here on EP) that have such a negative image of themselves.  They see themselves as unloveable or unattractive or not worthy of being desired intimately.  My heart goes out to all of them.  Frankly, some of these women are very desirable...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 5, 2011

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    Love Thyself

    I believe everyone should love themselves for who they are, not what they are - not just women. I know it's difficult, but we all have to find the inner strength to accept ourselves. Easier said than done considering the fact that we live in a society that puts a strong emphasis...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M Jul 20, 2011

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    Don't Forget To Be Yourself

    It breaks my heart when I hear that my girlfriends either wish that they were more beautiful or could lose a few pounds... And they're only in their teenage years. I don't know who or what is putting this idea of "I need to be pretty to be happy" into their heads. Maybe it's a...
    Valintine07 Valintine07 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 8, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I miss the lust The taste of your kiss The feel of your love Our sharing of lust It was all a gift from above All those kind things you used to say Every lip biting grin Such...
    darkreality68 darkreality68 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 26

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    I love wearing chastity devices and I try and stay in for as long as I can - my record is 15 days. The problem is that my wife wants to release me all the time so she can play with...
    Prettyjennifer2004 Prettyjennifer2004 51-55, M 1 Response Jun 27

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    I would love to meet a female or maybe even a male (UK) who dress me up & teach me how to be more feminine. I love lingerie & have a wide range, but need help on the next step to...
    susspender susspender 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    Oh how I would love this so much. I have the perfect guy who could make it romantic. As well as I've told him that I would love to be kissed in the rain...so we shall see....
    jlhhlj123 jlhhlj123 22-25, F Jun 30

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    I would love to visit India 😍😍😍 I saw some picture on Internet which attract me.
    Lovesweetlove Lovesweetlove 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 24

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    I am in York. I would love a massage by a sensual man who truly knows how to massage, I'm willing to pay a tenner lol ; )
    cheekyhen cheekyhen 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 6

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    I would love to write a story about my whole life so far. Young nd scar-ed. Young nd reckless
    ashley486 ashley486 13-15, F Jul 11

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    I'm sure my wife's a exhibitionist on the quite the other night she told me she was going for a shower I had to go in the back yard for something anyway I looked up at the bathroom...
    Solobox Solobox 46-50, M 3 Responses Jul 5

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    If you spend your time worrying about who is judging you; it's truly wasted energy. People are too busy thinking about themselves, and the ones who do judge, are too busy pointing...
    Helper96 Helper96 46-50, F 2 days ago

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    More often than not men never explore the true essence of a woman. They settle for explorations of multiple partners or more extreme behaviors as do their partners. And women too...
    WhiteRosesDelivered WhiteRosesDelivered 61-65, F 1 day ago

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    I was on a train he other day looking out at the fields pass by. I wished that I could be dropped, completely naked, into one of them and have to make it back home. I started...
    Bartimaues Bartimaues 31-35, M a week ago

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    Men who marry younger women live longer An interesting study by German experts revealed that men who marry younger women enhance their chances of longevity, and those who tie the...
    darkreality68 darkreality68 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 25

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    Well where do i begin I had this relationship for a year and everything was going fantastic she was madly in love with me and would tell her mom that I am the man of her dreams but...
    rique20 rique20 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 9

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    Apparently it's official, guys are more sensitive than girls. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2665908/Big-boys-dont-cry-BUT-deep-theyre-emotional-women.html Sorry...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 23

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    I like a women with some meat on her more fun
    danb4120 danb4120 26-30, M Jun 24

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    Jailbait That look she can give With a glisten in her gaze And a smirk that rises questions Making her dimples glisten and raise The silky matt texture of her skin Intercostal...
    darkreality68 darkreality68 41-45, M Jun 26

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    Really a fun thought a bunch of women doing anything they wanted :)
    lkr123 lkr123 26-30, M Jul 7

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    My name is sonya and I hope people would begin writing in here who are looking for pen pals. To break the ice here I go! Name :Sonya flynn Age: 29 Country :Ireland Hobbies...
    Dreamsphere3 Dreamsphere3 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    I love women navel... Is here any women who wnts to talk about her navel
    ashishxyz ashishxyz 18-21, M Jun 28

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    This is an example of what happens if you write something that breaches the EP guidelines . As ridiculous as it sounds to the more mature readers . Or those with a more open mind...
    JohnCrighton JohnCrighton 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    I wish every christian love people and help to make a world without inhuman behavior.
    sam7735 sam7735 18-21, M Jul 15

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    Life is harder when you're in love with someone and can't be together, but it's a lot more interesting and those conversations make it a lot more fulfilling. If I marry my...
    WiredCritter WiredCritter 22-25 Jun 23

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    No wait I mean I like women who handles love...
    badhabitrabbit badhabitrabbit 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 29

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    I remember a quite awhile back at a gym in a state not to far from me. Where at this gym was having and Open Bodybuilding contest. Which meant the women bodybuilders could compete...
    jon2403 jon2403 56-60, M Jul 8

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    Successful Age Gap Relationships First things first (and this may disappoint a few people, but it must be said): a typical Age Gap relationship is just like any other romantic...
    darkreality68 darkreality68 41-45, M Jun 25

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    If you want to live more like Jesus and the Disciples, take a look at www.jesus.org Or google "Jesus army" We try to live our lives following the New Testsment. You will find lots...
    lesdetermined lesdetermined 51-55, M Jun 28