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I Wish More Women Would Love Themselves

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 470 People

    But I Understand It Can Be Difficult.

     Like a lot of other people, I'm hardest on myself. I think we all just need to give ourselves a little slack sometimes. No one's perfect, but we expect ourselves to be. When it comes to body image, especially, more women should take on the sentiments of Eve's Rib, an...
    Jenniedvm Jenniedvm 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 6, 2008

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    A lot if not most women aren't happy with their

    weight or boob, butt, hips size. They may not realize it, but the reason they aren't happy is because they compare themselves subconsciously to the "perfect" women the see on tv. You think women in the cave man days gave a flying sh*t what they looked like? Course not because...
    ADeepPerspective ADeepPerspective 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 12, 2014

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    VendettA12 VendettA12 31-35, M 6 Responses Apr 6, 2009

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    Changing The Way We Think To Change The Way The Way We Feel

    I do also wish women would love themselves. I see so many beautiful women who don't like themselves for whatever reason it could be the way they look, how many men they have been with, or a complex developed a child for some reason. Here are two real life examples one is my own...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 15, 2011

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    How To Gain Weight

    any ideas about how to gain weight? what to eat and what kind of exercise to do at home???
    foufame foufame 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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    Myself Included....

    I think women need to be kinder to each other. I can't tell you how many women I've met that have some sort of horrible complex about some fault that doesn't even exist, that all stemmed from something that some other woman said to them or about them.
    explainit2me explainit2me 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 30, 2011

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    Be-you-tiful....

    In this story, I want you to tell me a 'positive'. I know it says 'women' in the title, but I want anyone to respond....men and women alike.... Tell me something you love about yourself. One thing, or many, it doesn't matter....just tell me something you love about yourself...
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 41-45, F 22 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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    Oh, Ma Cherie...

    Somehow, the wonderful longing of hapless romantics like myself is totally lost on these girls.   - "OUCH!"  - "Oh, the wondrous poetry of nature: that it's most beautiful creation is covered in thorns.  My attempts to grasp it are repelled...
    Honir Honir 26-30, M 5 Responses Apr 5, 2009

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    I Really Wish They Would

    There are so many beautiful women in the world and so many don't see that in themselves. It seems to be a steadily growing epidemic and it's heartbreaking. There are men too that don't love themselves. I know because I was one of them. Maybe the world would be a better place if...
    Tummie Tummie 26-30, M 28 Responses Jul 27, 2010

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    You Are More Attractive Than You Think.

    Hello women of the world, I am a bisexual who has had long relationships with a couple women, and short ones as well, and wanted to share a few thoughts with you. Some women blame men for the pressure they feel to wear sexy clothes, wear makeup, lose weight, color their...
    bunchopanties bunchopanties 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 30, 2009

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    Women Need to Love Themselves

    Alot of people look down on us exspecially men cause they think we are the weaker sex but lets prove them wrong.
    kime kime 16-17, F Dec 6, 2008

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    Empowering Young Females

    If you are a young woman I have some wisdom to share with you. You are unique and awesome! There is nobody on the planet whom is exactly like you. You are one of a kind. You have traits and talents and gifts that are yours to share with the world. You are a precious gift from...
    gumshoejane2 gumshoejane2 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 1, 2011

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    And No Snickering, This Is Serious!

    Girls, "IGNORE ALIEN DISORDER!" You are all beautiful.  You may have things bother you about yourself, but don't use that as an excuse to hate your being.  All this glamour/makeup/fashion - it's all supposed to be FUN.  DON'T TAKE ...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 14, 2009

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    Why Not

    We are strong, powerful and confident or atleast we should be.All that is takes is the right attitude or am I just niave.I do not think so. I love me and am going to start expressing it. 
    GailinDeed GailinDeed 31-35, F 8 Responses Jan 15, 2010

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    Love Thyself

    I believe everyone should love themselves for who they are, not what they are - not just women. I know it's difficult, but we all have to find the inner strength to accept ourselves. Easier said than done considering the fact that we live in a society that puts a strong emphasis...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Jul 20, 2011

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    You Want To Know What Would Make My Life Easier?

    if you could take a ******* compliment without suspecting I was lying, trying to get laid or severely delusional and crazy. If I could just be NICE to you without your prism of self loathing telling you I must be a loser if i think you're special. Because you ARe special. If I...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 1 Response May 27, 2012

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    From A Guy's Perspective

    I have so many female friends (mostly here on EP) that have such a negative image of themselves.  They see themselves as unloveable or unattractive or not worthy of being desired intimately.  My heart goes out to all of them.  Frankly, some of these women are very desirable...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 5, 2011

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    Love One Another...Love Yourself.

    I was working a twelve hour shift in an ER a couple of years ago, and it was extremely busy.  The kind of day where you don't have time to eat, use the restroom, or sit for even a second.  Paperwork was piling up on my desk, the nurse interuppted every 5 minutes with a...
    cedricsmom cedricsmom 36-40, F 2 Responses May 26, 2010

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    Spectrum Extremes

    I couldn't agree with the title of this group more.  Kudo's to Ms.Valentine for making it.  You could say it for both men and women, but women do tend to have the problem more often.  I get to a point with my girlfriends where I can't tolerate trash talk about...
    Krypton Krypton 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2008

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    Yes I Wish This Too!

    Because then it would make the lady strong and independent, and then a fantastic mate to enjoy her healthy mind as well as body! I know most men beat women's self esteem down, but I love to build it up and that makes her super sexy then to me!
    wjk1849 wjk1849 46-50, M Apr 20, 2013

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    Don't Forget To Be Yourself

    It breaks my heart when I hear that my girlfriends either wish that they were more beautiful or could lose a few pounds... And they're only in their teenage years. I don't know who or what is putting this idea of "I need to be pretty to be happy" into their heads. Maybe it's a...
    Valintine07 Valintine07 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 8, 2011

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    It Frustrates Men

    I really wish more women would love themselves. Really!It is one of the most frustrating things I had to deal with when I was dating.  Women with low self-esteem.  It is was huge drain on me and a bigger drain on the possibilities of a relationship.  While I am supportive of...
    KingofSwords KingofSwords 56-60, M 4 Responses Oct 24, 2011

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    I Think...

    I think people in general should love themselves more.
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M Dec 6, 2008

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    I love when I see a woman with a huge belly in public but I wish they would free them from the tight restrains of their clothes and show them off! Imagine a world where ssbbw's...
    lamarsdoughnuts247 lamarsdoughnuts247 26-30, M 1 Response May 5

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    My parents yelling at me to turn my music down because they couldn't hear themselves arguing.
    SlightlyDaft SlightlyDaft 31-35, F 4 Responses May 5

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    I feel my friends don't understand me as a person sometimes, if they saw me on EP mabye they would take more pity on me.
    makemountainstremble makemountainstremble 16-17, M May 18

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    I lived with two bisexual women for tuna half years and it was an amazing experience really felt it brought a lot of maturity to my life. It's much easier to stand in the...
    paintstone paintstone 36-40, M a week ago

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    I've done this with 3 men so far, and I wish I had a regular, daily partner to do this with. (Although maybe it's been hotter because it's been with strangers?) It's been...
    blazerfan blazerfan 36-40, F 10 Responses May 2

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    Lets hear from the women of EP and your thoughts and feelings.
    Pmacphoto Pmacphoto 66-70, M 4 days ago

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    Anybody in UK that would like to tie me up in my lady wear ?
    Stacey2014 Stacey2014 36-40, M May 8

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    This intrigues me. Would be nice to find a strong Christian women who is interested in this as well.
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    i felt in love with many girls/women at experiance project n they all block me my heart was torn apart its like no one loves me beside experiance project -i have many girlfriends n...
    ray45man ray45man 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I've always wanted to be a werewolf. I've never belonged anywhere, and I've always wanted to be apart of a pack. To feel like I do have people that care for me and I for them. I've...
    RedKage RedKage 22-25, M 1 Response May 13

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    I don't remember there being much censorship on here years ago. I've had several posts removed, none of them broke any laws, were threatening etc, they were honest, compassionate...
    RealLifePerson RealLifePerson 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    I love being dominated and degraded~<3 Recently love the idea of having a dominant man leash me and make me lick the *** off his boots.
    CutttieBaby CutttieBaby 22-25, F 2 Responses May 14

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    Playing with dolls, murdering dolls, no more dolls.
    Ellytheoutcast Ellytheoutcast 13-15, F 1 Response May 5

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    I recently shared my fantasies as a kid w my husband of 15yrs, he was upset thinking he didn't even really know me. So I'd like to share more but I guess not w him. i told him...
    Jess9880 Jess9880 31-35, F 11 Responses May 7

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    I do live near the ocean but dont spend much time on the public beaches as their always crowded in summer and freezing in winter . We are however lucky enough to have 2 n-dist...
    nakednudist nakednudist 46-50, M 1 Response May 11